A perfect storm for an unsuspecting empath to meet a devious, deceitful narcissist. It's mentally draining. Ive never experienced such toxicity. Its heart breaking when you realize they never loved you in the first place. And their goal was to use, manipulate, and destroy you. I lost myself and didnt know which way was up. After all you do for them, they are never grateful because they are "entitled." I trust you Andrew that i will survive this painful experience. But every day with no contact and your videos are helping me heal. TY for all you do for those of us trying to break the trauma bond!

I won because I got out of a toxic relationship

The smartest thing you did was to leave Costa Rica without anyone knowing. Period

I won the moment I recognized that I deserve better. So do you. We all deserve better ❤

I feel so much better when I remind myself that zero number of the several narcissists I survived ever won. They are nowhere near, and its a beautiful day.

You must win… to survive this. Andrew you’re oxygen & sunshine to weary souls, you have a good night 🌎🙏🏻💝🥂

I believe in energy, wavelengths, and all that that stuff. I truly believe that when you break free from the narc, your energy changes, your health improves, and the world responds in kind.

Thank you so much for these videos. My dad's health is declining and my mother begged me to come home. Stupid me goes back home to take care of him. She's charging me $1,000/month in rent. I got laid off a couple months ago. I told her I need to find a job because I need to pay my bills. She told me that's not her problem because I have poor time management skills. I said absolutely and on May 25th I walk out of that house with the clothes on my back. Long story short I'm unemployed and living out of my car. I definitely have my moments. I keep watching all your videos to keep my spirits up. Thank you so much for these videos. Have a beautiful evening!

They became unimportant to me. All of them. I don't think about them anymore.

So true. When me and my ex-wife separated I was gutted, totally devastated, of course I didn't realise I was co-dependent and had been steadily eroded and psychologically abused for years. It was only with time, distance, personal growth, counselling and healing that I realise all of this. I am no longer the person I was, I have zero contact with my ex, now that family court and child matters are settled (sort of). I am indifferent. She has not moved on and is still in that negative circle of behaviour patterns. I am free. I have become free from that nightmare.

All of the information you give in your videos is what I went through from 13 to 33 years old and beyond, no one understands when you try to explain why you are who you are now.Narcissistic Abuse should at the very least be a felony, it destroys your whole life.physically, mentally, etc. etc.etc.

I have lost tens of thousands of dollars divorcing my narcissist wife in Minnesota. It is not a friendly state for men .She is now better off than I am financially. High price to pay for peace. I would like to believe that no matter how much of my money she gets, I think she will still be a miserable person. I believe it is true that money cannot buy you happiness .. I believe she is trying to punish me for exposing her . Thank you Andrew for your insight.

winning is 0 contact.

Good evening from SoCal fam! You are all amazing warriors and I'm proud to be apart of this supportive community! Finding my power and my path again at 40.

I’m getting so much wiser and stronger. Thank you for being my voice!❤

Who Knew!? A lifetime of skirmishes, small battles-- Most of 'em I lost and was beaten, raggedy, but not out. The Big one- the most important one- I Won! Thanks to allies like you, Andrew and countless commenters. Namaste.🙏

Thank God for Andrew and others who share about Narcissistic behavior. I was going insane trying to understand what the hell was going on for 20 dang years. My divorce hearing is in August. Im so very thankful to just KNOW now. I have seen the honestly darkest, most hateful behavior since filing but the saving grace is KNOWING the truth and FREEDOM is mine. He’s gonna rot in hell for his choices and he’s too old to recover. I can pray for his soul but he is given over to hate and THANK YOU JESUS FOR SAVING ME FROM THIS WHACKED OUT EVIL.

It's a strange feeling when you did but didn't intend to harm anybody. The narcissists don't care or they are absolutely happy to see you in tears!

Us survivors always have the will and determination to win. Just dont tell the narcissist. 😊

After i went to therapy... they put in full force to try to destroy me and 2019 was a living hell on all fronts Paranoia and abuse. Now i am losing weight again and getting rid of my obesety and coming back to destroy all narcissists who hates me

Money wise they have won, but since they are alone and hollow they have already lost, they seem that they are living a great life just to keep you around and be a slave to them.

They entrap us in a life of lies. They are not us. We grow closer to love and respect they grow into more lies. It’s beautiful to know we have each other and a Heavenly Father. Thank TMH for Andrew and good people. Thank You Andrew for helping us out the Fog!

Nature, good people, pleasant circumstances is something you should enjoy, where you should be.

I crushed the narcissistic Dracula, a.k.a. Narcula. Thank you 🙏 for your meaningful content.

True. You can’t fix stupid. We should walk away from the narcissist.

Narcissism is a stable personality style..👀 That's something to ponder and ingrain.. Their whole agenda is to take people down and they don't miss a beat.. They won't change because to them? What they do to us is "normal" and an every day way of life... Scary... Have a good day.. Stay safe.. 🙏☮️🐬✨

Thank you, Andrew. Winning means spending your time doing the things that *you* love. It's freedom to be yourself. ☮

I won by looking pitiful and acting like a loser. Staying in a depressed state, not moving from the TV, and finally when he cheated, I happened to see it, and I just left without a word. I didnt return his calls and after a few days texted and said, Dont call me, this shit relationship is over permanently." I felt miserable and angry for 5 days or so, but Im very happy I did this now. I'm looking much better and cant stop smiling everyone. Cheers!

Great video! I had no idea that excepting a Hoover after I went no contact would set me back so far! I didn’t fall for anything he said but now he is in my head again constantly. Another lesson learned.

I am blessed to be atop of the 'pinnacle of indifference'. And it feels suprisingly wonderful to actually love myself enough to stay 💕 Thank you, bless you Andrew 💞 and all Lightworkers ❤ 🙏

I got rid of my ex narc fiance. Took a few months of processing what had happened for 2 years. I found myself in a state of hurting, learning, examining and some drinking. But it was just all part of the process. And quite frankly, the most progress I made was when I discovered this channel. Exponential growth and it expedited the moving on process. Ive discovered myself again and am thriving. Thank you for this channel. Its such good info for the public to absorb. I know I gained a lot from it. God Bless You Dude ❤

Can I get the zip code of the pinnacle of indifference, I’m ready for AIR 🎉

Thanks for pulling me up out of the pit of despair. God continue to bless you.

I watch these videos and they have helped me become the educated empath I loved my narcissist so strong and didn’t think I’d ever want to or be able to block him but extreme heartbreak and devastation one time too many helped give me the courage and these videos really opened my eyes

Thank God for your videos. I lost weight, stressed and no energy. Now, I am becoming stronger, weight is coming back, I feel stronger everyday and I am exercising like I did before I met the Narc. 3 months out of the relationship, healing and feeling like myself again.

So stupid they are to be competing. Love is not competition. When I finally removed my participation in the attempt to enlighten them about this no competing, whoa evil one, calm your embers! That makes them further show their true feeling and intent. Beware and watch out. It is ugly. Thank you Andrew for consistently speaking the truth. It is healing 🙏

Good evening Andrew and tribe ❤

I'm loving these lightbulb moments!! The more education videos I view the more the narcissist appears small, cowardly, deceptive and defeated. I no longer blame myself for this failed "relationship"..I feel relieved and happy to be me again!!! Thank you Andrew and thank you Community! ❤️

When a persons 'success' depends on the wilful, pre-meditated destruction of another individual...this...imho is NOT 'WINNING' anything worth a jot!!!

Thank you, Andrew. 😊🙏 I really needed to hear this today. You are so spot on. I experienced everything you speak of in this video. The narcissist I experienced is a manipulative abusive vile human being who loves the games and loves to abuse. She is a groomer who set me up. I can see it all now... while I was in it I was in the fog. Shock took over too so I was numb. Her bizarre behaviour was all part of the plan. The gaslight was planned. It was so so smooth.... I imagine she/possibly they have done it all before do there are many many many victims.

Thank You you don’t know how many of us you keep level headed. Saint like behavior

I cant thank you enough, these videos you do daily are so encouraging and have helped validate my experience. My biggest win was finally finding the courage to walk away from 23 years of narcissistic abuse. I truly have won as Im free now and he no longer access to me. Thank you Andrew🙏💖💫☮️

I am Free Thank you for your guidance Andrew

Understanding the traits of the narcissist, going no contact, healing & applying the tools needed as necessary, makes those who listen winners👍 Be Well 🌈🎀😘

I don't have to worry about getting those pesky texts on my smartphone anymore. I prayed to God and asked him to help me to remove distractions from my life, and this happened... I woke up and had a morning of having a case of "the dropsies." I dropped everything I touched, and I dropped my phone on the concrete/tile floor of my apartment and it broke... At first, I was upset, but then I realized that I was actually having some peace and quiet... No hoovers... Yeah! I'm debating whether or not to replace it??? Maybe I will just get a cell for calling/texting only and forget about any of the social media sites??? God knows I don't need the additional stress. God knows what He's doing, even when I don't realize it until afterwards. 🙏❤✝🙂

Good evening Andrew good to see you Ty for your wisdom. Yes I am winning I found your channel and I’m now in the community ❤ 🙏🏼💜❤️😊 ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨ 💫💫💫💫💫💫💫💫💫

I won with my kids. ❤ we're thriving and my expired narcs are bottomless pits and keeps failing. Hooray!

I won because i practice radical acceptance. Persevering in Prayers Psalms 1-150👍🙏🇯🇲👑

Famous all time and last saying from the narcissist...I have to think about this. 30 years later I'm still waiting. What a joke

Thank you so much. My oldest son told me this the other day. It’s so hard to really allow it to sink in. I did win. But, I didn’t want to. I wanted him. That’s the problem. I had my eye on the wrong win, so this one rings hollow. The more I heal the more I realize I’m the win. I always was. I was raised by an abusive mother, and I went straight from her to my abusive husband. I knew there were things wrong, but I just couldn’t see the extent. How could I? It’s all I knew. My husband passed 3 1/2 years ago. This is the first time I’ve been free of abuse in my life. I can’t believe how much more healing and cleaning up I’ve done. I have three beautiful sons who I’ve protected fiercely. Now I know, really know, that I deserve that same amount of love and protection. I needed this reminder today. I appreciate your videos so much. You have such kind eyes and a very relaxing cadence. Thank you, thank you.

Thank you for what you’re doing to help us.

I am 10+ months out, and couldnt be happier!!! Keep pushing everyone. Once your out, everything falls right into place. Have no fear. Just open the door, get in your car, and go...and dont look back! ❤🙏🏻

When you don’t give into them it’s a storm

Thank you again NARCDAILY 🙏

Cheers to winning

ALL "THINGS" Work [Together], to Those that 1. Love the Lord, and 2. That are Called according to His Service!

Holllllaaaa Andrew!! I am just coming through to say hello and thank you!! I always want to thank you for saving my life in April of 2022!! As you know your videos and 1 on 1’s helped pull me through!! I love that you are still saving live and souls daily with these videos!! You are an example of action steps and leadership! I hope every person reading this is getting exactly what they need to come out to the other side!! If you are hurting right now it does go away. I took every suggestion Andrew had to help me heal and I took absolute action! For those that are hurting you are worth healing and a love so deep for yourself that the ocean gets jealous! Feel the feels and remember one day at a time! Small steps turned into huge leaps for me and it will for you!! Trust Andrew’s suggestions it’ll save your life! #kimlivefree

Winning is not throwing ourselves away any more

So true! Learned so much 🙏 that “let’s not talk about that” moment very accurate.

You won because you are wired to do Justice n stand with the Truth... N it doesn't require "Majority" it requires "Guts"

If you listen close, they will tell you who they are in the beginning.

Thank you Andrew. I’m at 8 months free from my Narc. I did not have an exit plan when I left because it had become dangerous and violent. It’s been a journey, one day at a time healing. The financial abuse has been devastating it’s going to take years to rebuild what he took from me. But I am safe, and on my healing journey. Your videos help me daily.

In 2017 my father took his life. My half brother recently moved in "for help", a living hell for 6 months. Thank God for your videos. Day 1 of no contact and that parasite out of my house.

I’m tired of winning; there are so many cluster bs out there.

When u speak the truth I cry .what a dumb human I was and still suffering.i still hurt. Please pray for me to heal.😢

I dont feel like I won yet bc it took me so long to disentangle from her post relationship. I broke NC multiple times over the last year and really lowered myself and sacrificed my integrity. Today I'm 47 days NC and its my longest streak yet. After last week, which was absolute torture, the severe withdrawal symptoms and detox from the trauma bond seems to have noticabley reduced. The rumination, though still present, feels lighter and less bothersome. I'm hopeful that I've gotten through the worst of it. I relaize healing is not linear but if things continue to move in this direction, the future feels bright. Thanks, Andrew. And thank you to this community. 🙏

“ you’ve WON”. I need to remember this. Sometimes I beat myself up,, over my mistakes,, falling for the lies. I WON. THANK YOU ❤😅😅

So glad I got my two year order of protection. Now I can heal, it's no contact all the way. Amen🙏💕

Hi and how you won. Andrew right before you mentioned the LIGHTBULB moment I literally had my eyes looking up cause I had it seconds before you mentioned it!! I had it right where you said "you where the person who regulated them" 👊 💯 he did the push pull push pull and feel apart without me made me think it was love. No it was ABUSE I regulated him while he used me pull push pull push

The perfect storm Andrew.I found that quite interesting as now I’m gravitating to the light and learning so much about narcissism - I’m Beginning to see how it was a storm in a teacup because I wasn’t aware. The world with the narcissist is very small! A goldfish bowl. Thank you ❤️

I feel sorry for them. They are trapped in the sunken place everyday. Looking back now, I am glad that it happened to me when I was a teenager. Now, I have the rest of my adult life to heal, improve and flourish and educate myself. I am now free. And regarding the flying monkeys, they'll get their just due eventually but I no longer worry about that. I am now free.

I love this video. I consider this to be one of the premier NARCdaily video classics by Andrew. I say this because if you are coming to the realization or have just realized you are involved with a narc, this video pretty much reveals everything, or what you can expect to happen going forward. I love Andrew’s commitment, honesty, loving kindness and light humor he combines into these life changing videos that help humanity globally from the onslaught of the evils of narcissism. The more time you can remove yourself from the narc, the faster you will heal. When overwhelmed with grief and pain, pray and binge watch the NARCdaily videos and read the comments. Thank you and bless you Andrew, for this video and all the NARCdaily videos. 🙏🏻💜☀️🌿🌷🦋🌳🌲🌊✨💖✨🌎😎

My narcissist husband is in San Juan for a week with his girlfriend. I was discarded a long time ago and I was not allowed to see money coming in or going out because like you said he wanted me to need him! I didn't until I had a nervous breakdown and lost my job. But I'm rebuilding like you said. I just had a book published. I am healthier than I've been in years. He took my light for s long time because I had abandonment issues AND I met him when my mother had about 6 months to live. He said he was dating T. That's why he was so nice. Married T does his hobbies..aka.. ignores and punished you. So classic. Now I feel so badly for the girl he is with in Puerto Rico. I wouldn't trade my life for hers for anything. In fact I pray for her. She is getting love bombed and she is going to get obliterated. I hour he doesn't kill her. He almost killed me. Thank you for always validating me.

I love this I am so glad I started off my day watching this video. You have a beautiful smile. Thank you 🙏🏼

My victory cost too much. Oh well, I won. I survived. I will rise again . I will be better than I was. I have learned much . The Phoenix will arise from the ashes.

This video made me realize another way how I was gaslighted. When it comes to planning out dates and vacations, she would never want to do anything I would want to do. It was always things she wanted to do. Then she would complain that she would always be the one planning everything out.

One of my new favorite content creators

Right on time my friend and favorite KZfaqr you are doing spiritual work helping me out with my narcissism in recovery and everyone elses 🙏

I really enjoy your talks. I was in a narcissistic relationship and didn't realize it now I'm out of it and you have made me see all of the different aspects of how this person was manipulating me and taking advantage of me thank you. I appreciate your comments.

God helped me through it all...through circumstances He scooped up the narc in my life and plunked him across the country 3000 miles away!!! I find myself thinking of him less and less...actually when I think about it I haven't thought about him all day until now typing this out... peace & serenity & not walking on egg shells on all levels & a sane mind among many other things is what I am experiencing now... it's amazing...I think I liked the attention I got from him...he's 24 years younger than me...I was flattered at first...then the real crap started to happen and I became a different person...a door mat who was afraid to open her mouth because it would trigger him into a rage... anyhoo....woohoo!!! freedom....thank You Jesus for protecting me and getting him the heck out of my life...may God bless you for doing these videos

Andrew, this video really meant a lot to me. My narcissistic husband has recently become violent bc I refuse to do the things he is trying to force me to do. One example is not to have anything to do with my children, which will NEVER happen. Last night he attacked me for the 2nd time. I did call the police and today I scheduled an appointment w/a divorce attorney. I’m so afraid of what he will try to do & say about me. Today he told me that he didn’t hit me last night. I was so stunned. Also, we have a 5 year old child that is developmentally delayed. Instead of acting like a 5 year old, she acts like she’s about 2 1/2. She eventually hits her milestones, it just takes a very long time. I have devoted everything to my family. The plan was to homeschool our daughter & for me to be her full time caregiver. I’m so afraid if I file for divorce that my husband will be very abusive to our daughter bc he already talks to her in a nasty tone of voice. I’ve threatened him that he better not ever lay a hand on her. I’ve been her protector & it’s kept me from leaving this hell of a marriage. Now, I feel like I’ve pretty much run out of options and I have to get away from him. I’m so worried the most about my daughter’s safety, if & when she is alone with him and I’m not around. I’m laying in bed feeling my stress level so high that I could have a stroke. The stress, pain, choosing to have an innocent child w/this monster & I’m almost 47. I thought me and my daughter could depend on him financially & I’ve put over 10 years of my life into this relationship. I’m truly so scared, stressed & absolutely devastated.

So thankful for you and your messages! I successfully avoided a narc attack 😊. It was a sneaky one too. Ain't heard from this estranged relative in years. All of a sudden they remembered my bday and got my address from God only knows where. You're right, they're always watching. Keep the door sealed shut!!❣

❤Doubt and identity theft is poison for the soul❤ Free your future self from the pain of past mistakes and recycling abuse and hurt. Life is to short to waist your own.

You win by getting knowledge about narcissistic patterns and the games they play. I wrongly thought everyone feels, thinks about the same as I do. Nope ! Narcs are driven by absorbing your positive energy, exploiting you. The mask I was presented very convincing. No matter If you ended the relationship or the narc. You are strong 💪 and precious. Dear Andrew so much: thank you ❤

I had a demon in my face. I looked at it, saw it, knew something was wrong... and my empathy and kindness were played upon; that I should help a demon survive. But IT wasn't just surviving, it was draining my mind, heart and soul, until there was nothing remaining. I thank God for the little discernment and judgement I have. It was enough for me to end it when the hole in me was so big, I nearly forgot who I was...

I'm a hyoka empath and chosen, a blessing and a curse, born into a family all narcissists, I married a narcissist 25 years only learned about this information lately, we are waking ⏰️ up

wow .. The Silent Treatment. Know that well.

The only way I could stop him from hoovering me was to threaten to send all his texts and messages to his new supply. Exposure their greatest wound. He is finally out of my life forever

Another great video of truth. From Andrew.Bravo❤😊🙏

10 years zero contact with the narcissist in my life and my life has blossomed! It feels so good to remind myself of the strength it took to do this. I’ve overcome surveillance, I’ve seen the new supply come and go. So happy to learn this new language from these videos and to remember that their behavior is textbook. Thank you for this video 🙏🏼

Bless you Andrew🦋🕊️🦋🕊️🦋

I laughed when you talked about ageing narcs and their wrinkles and greys and not being able to charm like they did in their 20s/30s 😂 that’s true, but some will still manage to charm their ways into people’s lives despite the physical looks changing.. people can charm others without being found physically attractive.. sometimes they end up with a new supply half their age because the new supply mightn’t know any better.. I was that dumb new supply years ago.. I’ll never be ever again though.. and yes.. I had also said this in a comment sometime last year about the narcs being the new supply’s concern and not ours.. you’re right.. I felt a pang of guilt when I thought and said that (you said it nicely though, pretty sure I was blunt and rude about it 😂) but the world is a cruel place full of narcs.. i can’t help everyone.. you’re education is what will help.. as you say, boundaries and NOT oversharing is key! .. I appreciate you reinforcing this in most of your videos.. boundaries should be the word of 2024.. I like your surroundings today.. a park but feels like civilisation behind you with cars strolling by.. reminds me of a time when city life was peaceful.. please elaborate soon on exit plans and the 5 step plan you talked about recently.. thank you always 💜🪻

So true, 100-percent! Thanks for the excellent video.

You probably have a good idea of how grateful I am to you for sharing and informing. Thank. You.!! ❤😅

i hope everyone takes this to heart. you have the capability to have the narcissist transform you into the definition of a victorious champion.-lol this dude has 194k subscribers and is on fire and he's just one example. you can discover profound power that unlocks the world....the narc is like a little cockroach at my feet...i'm truly thankful for this experience...and at a point i was down and out in the greatest pain of my life....those who gain revelation to the power within are not subject to life- life is subject to them. do the work -don't stop-stay in a fierce conversation with your own spirit.

Thank you so much Andrew. You have helped more people than you can imagine Maybe your narcissistic person gave us all a gift tho, at your expense. You sound so strong and healing! I am so glad. Take good care x

I was the eldest child of a narcissist. I am also a genius. I knew she was wrong but after hitting me on the top of my head with an iron skillet I straightened her out. I felt generally sorrow for her. And I did feel sorry for her until the day I saw what she was doing to my first child. I immediately went no contact and moved several hundred miles away. My poor husband only said one word when I hit him with the news. He said, "Good."😊

Exactly, we are not taught this.

Thank you Andrew!

I don’t know who to trust anymore, I need help sir ! ❤️ 1:31