Why Are Men Suddenly Attracted To Bigger Women?

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Chris Williamson

Chris Williamson

29 күн бұрын

Chris and Macken Murphy discuss why men are now more attracted to bigger women. What does a recession have to do with men's preferences for women according to Macken Murphy? Do men still prefer thinner women to bigger women according to Macken Murphy?
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@ChrisWillx
@ChrisWillx 28 күн бұрын
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@gortys3929
@gortys3929 28 күн бұрын
Macken Murphy’s take on fat women is way too analytical…
@tedcrilly46
@tedcrilly46 28 күн бұрын
@@gortys3929 take it with a pinch of salt. (and a cheeseburger)
@acmhfmggru
@acmhfmggru 27 күн бұрын
@@gortys3929 he's just desperate to justify his fetish. no I'm not wrong, it is everyone else who is just lying but secretly agree with me! that's gotta be it!
@jonesy7425
@jonesy7425 27 күн бұрын
Counter Question: Is this the same for women in terms of preference towards men? 🤔
@citizenpunx
@citizenpunx 28 күн бұрын
We’re not. They want us to be lol. There is no way I’m spending 2+ hours a day in the gym just to date a Big Mac in a bikini.
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644 28 күн бұрын
A lot of gymbruhs date big girls
@TheGoodMMADog
@TheGoodMMADog 28 күн бұрын
If you’re basing who you date on how long you spend in the gym, you probably aren’t getting women in the first place.
@rafiazmi
@rafiazmi 28 күн бұрын
Big mac in a bikini is wild ngl 😂
@lmr1049
@lmr1049 28 күн бұрын
gymcels out in full force today
@tedcrilly46
@tedcrilly46 28 күн бұрын
We are, according to studies, if youd listen. Our preferences change up and down, depending on production/economy.
@Thisguy152
@Thisguy152 28 күн бұрын
To answer your question, no.
@Cool2023FtwNoice
@Cool2023FtwNoice 28 күн бұрын
AGREE 👍👍
@timsic829
@timsic829 28 күн бұрын
I would certainly reject that statement sir
@aldodiaz5210
@aldodiaz5210 28 күн бұрын
Make this the top comment!
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644 28 күн бұрын
It depends
@wesleyfrankenofficial
@wesleyfrankenofficial 28 күн бұрын
Seriously, the dude is talking out of his ass.
@KairiDivine
@KairiDivine 28 күн бұрын
The majority of men are not.
@Cool2023FtwNoice
@Cool2023FtwNoice 28 күн бұрын
INdeed ⚙️👍👍
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644 28 күн бұрын
Not really true, just look at marrieds couples
@LastMinuteGuess
@LastMinuteGuess 28 күн бұрын
@@rafresendenrafresenden.1644 that's just called getting comfortable. Most happy marriages end up with both people gaining some weight, hence "dad bod". Doesn't mean that is how the men were starting out.
@tedcrilly46
@tedcrilly46 28 күн бұрын
Ive been moving cargo crates in my pickup, and need a counterbalance up front. I love you Bertha.
@fadedglory1045
@fadedglory1045 28 күн бұрын
@@LastMinuteGuess that's right. And many have left because a person lets themselves go and become fat.
@WarDamnATL
@WarDamnATL 28 күн бұрын
He did a poor job defining heavy. Men have always been attracted to women with curves in the right places. Curvy and obese are obviously completely different.
@susanlindarice
@susanlindarice 27 күн бұрын
surely you want a woman with childbearing hips ? there is a difference between strong muscly bulk and unhealthy fat and does anyone want to caress a 'bag of bones'? applies to men too?
@adamcraig1468
@adamcraig1468 27 күн бұрын
​@@susanlindaricehips are based on bone structure. The curves you want are the wide hips not fat. So I want wide hips with healthy body fat
@hanef8852
@hanef8852 28 күн бұрын
I honestly don't know a single man who is "suddenly" attracted to bigger women
@theninjaofmusic
@theninjaofmusic 28 күн бұрын
It wasn't suddenly for me. But i've always been attracted to them. I think part of this may just be that the men who are attracted to bigger woman are far more comfortable talking about it now than even 10 years ago.
@carninuz1
@carninuz1 28 күн бұрын
​@@theninjaofmusicI have to agree here; I've been into bigger women since puberty, but only now in my 30's do I feel comfortable expressing the preference.
@anthonypillarella
@anthonypillarella 27 күн бұрын
​@@theninjaofmusic This lines up with my experience. My "type" is well within the healthy range, but was considered "big" when I was in high school and the standard was ridiculously thin. People legitimately gave me a hard time for it. Now it's somewhat popular. If I was into actually big women, I'd have kept that SILENT.
@christianc8453
@christianc8453 27 күн бұрын
I’m a chubby chaser. Just a preference but I didn’t wake up one day, it’s been there as long I remember.
@davagevorriose8046
@davagevorriose8046 27 күн бұрын
@@carninuz1 That's very interesting, I would think most men would feel less comfortable expressing preferences now because we're so often shamed for "fetishizing" now. I wonder how common it is to feel more comfortable.
@RollOutRory
@RollOutRory 28 күн бұрын
We're not
@tedcrilly46
@tedcrilly46 28 күн бұрын
We are. If you read the title in the context of whats said. Its technically correct. Although its a bit misleading. Thats to generate clicks.
@davagevorriose8046
@davagevorriose8046 27 күн бұрын
@@tedcrilly46 Ask heavy set women how much attention they get compared to their peers.
@tedcrilly46
@tedcrilly46 27 күн бұрын
@@davagevorriose8046 thats not the contention. If youd watch the video you might understand.
@davagevorriose8046
@davagevorriose8046 27 күн бұрын
@@tedcrilly46 Logic it out.
@blackittyluv
@blackittyluv 27 күн бұрын
If you look up women’s bodies in art before the industrialization era none of them are obese or overweight. They’re all thin. This is fake science
@itumelengdichabe8051
@itumelengdichabe8051 28 күн бұрын
Im not
@Black_Void_
@Black_Void_ 28 күн бұрын
There's "bigger" as in nice and curvy and then there's just plain fat, The latter clearly says a person has no impulse control which is bad for a multitude of things nevermind just looking bad.
@EbonyPope
@EbonyPope 28 күн бұрын
Yeah but too many seem to misunderstand his argument. He is clearly talking about curvier girls not really fat ones.
@mothegoat6865
@mothegoat6865 28 күн бұрын
@@EbonyPopeno he’s not
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644 27 күн бұрын
@@mothegoat6865 kid get out the internet
@mothegoat6865
@mothegoat6865 27 күн бұрын
@@rafresendenrafresenden.1644 what? 😂
@DefaultFlame
@DefaultFlame 27 күн бұрын
Exactly. And everyone's standard for where the limit between curvy and fat varies by culture and individual. Almost no one from any culture thinks a sphere is sexy. (No, women, Lizzo is not sexy.) Personally, my range of attraction seems to be wider than the average person (not intended as a pun) but there are limits in both directions. Though, my tolerance for "a little too much" is greater than my toleration for "a little too little." A little too fat puts me off more on an intellectual level, while a little too thin puts me off on a visceral level. WAY too fat also puts me off on a visceral level.
@stanleykachuik2589
@stanleykachuik2589 28 күн бұрын
The bigger they are, the more invisible they become 😅 It's a woman's superpower 💪🏻
@lkpnda287
@lkpnda287 28 күн бұрын
😂🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
@notundermywatch3163
@notundermywatch3163 26 күн бұрын
That was a good one 😂😂😂😂
@fadedglory1045
@fadedglory1045 28 күн бұрын
Nonsense. Absolute nonsense. Just saying.
@Mr.Boring_Man
@Mr.Boring_Man 28 күн бұрын
Exactly! Pure personal projection onto other men.
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644 28 күн бұрын
@@Mr.Boring_Man other men keep dating big girls
@offthetrail5675
@offthetrail5675 28 күн бұрын
When 60%+ (and growing) of woman are fat, the choices are diminishing. Does not mean it's a new preference.
@theoutsider6191
@theoutsider6191 27 күн бұрын
Ah, now we know why 30% of men don't want a relationship.....
@rishnix
@rishnix 26 күн бұрын
@@theoutsider6191 Not going to say it's the only reason, but it is a big one. Pun intended.
@theoutsider6191
@theoutsider6191 26 күн бұрын
@@kh9242 Must be why purchasing is gonig off a cliff 🙂
@RobG811
@RobG811 28 күн бұрын
Just because there is a grocery store down the street doesn't justify being fat, there is probably a gym down the street too.
@elinope4745
@elinope4745 28 күн бұрын
A grocery store down the street gives you the luxury of being able to quick and easily pick up fresh food and vegetables. You don't need the prepackaged for longevity processed garbage that causes obesity. Having a grocery store down the street is a reason you are thin, not fat. If they were fat, it would be that they are fat in spite of the fact that fresh and healthy food is nearly always available.
@adeleg4759
@adeleg4759 28 күн бұрын
Food deserts...
@RobG811
@RobG811 28 күн бұрын
@@elinope4745 I wouldn't say the grocery store down the street is the "reason" your thin. Whether your eating healthy foods or unhealthy foods, it all comes down to calories. You can eat junk food and still be thin if your in a caloric deficit.
@alphonsemarolle5785
@alphonsemarolle5785 27 күн бұрын
@@RobG811 It's a reason you're thin in the sense that you don't need to bulk up fat in order to survive scarcity periods
@DimitriTheBarbarian
@DimitriTheBarbarian 27 күн бұрын
There is a street. Just need a pair of good running shoes. No membership required
@pauldavis7146
@pauldavis7146 28 күн бұрын
If I were taking shots every time this dude says "Right?" I'd be fucking hammered by the 2 minute mark.
@Madonnalitta1
@Madonnalitta1 28 күн бұрын
Right!
@KyleMcDermott-
@KyleMcDermott- 27 күн бұрын
I can't stop hearing it now
@DELTA-ib2iu
@DELTA-ib2iu 28 күн бұрын
General rule of thumb: if a feminist tries to make it a reality it's probably not true, on a fundamental level.
@JoyfulSeal-sh9cw
@JoyfulSeal-sh9cw 28 күн бұрын
I'm truly baffled at how many times a guy cosplaying as a highly logical creature hurls out a knee-jerk emotional response to something factual because it offends them 💀
@davagevorriose8046
@davagevorriose8046 27 күн бұрын
@@JoyfulSeal-sh9cw Wow, imagine if "a guy" said the same thing about "a woman." The hypocrisy is real.
@chanchchanchellor1545
@chanchchanchellor1545 27 күн бұрын
Ermmm general rule of thumb wtf are u talking about none of this matter love who you want to love
@davagevorriose8046
@davagevorriose8046 27 күн бұрын
@@chanchchanchellor1545 It matters. I wouldn't expect a self respecting woman to want to live with a misogynist, and I can't blame a man for not wanting to devote his life to a misandrist. You might fall in love with them, but I can't imagine the arrogant abuse that followed would be tolerable for long.
@PossibleBat
@PossibleBat 24 күн бұрын
When you stop referring to people in generalizing terms such as "feminist", you’ll have something of value to say.
@lordpraisestone8314
@lordpraisestone8314 28 күн бұрын
I feel like many people in the comments mistake "bigger women" with literally obese women. I don't think that's the extent of "bigger" he's talking about at all, rather he is talking about women that don't have those instagram model kinds of bodyfat percentages but those in the higher end of normal weight or maybe the very low end of overweight (measured by bmi). Women with those kinds of bodies can still be very healthy and fit and in my opinion also look very good.
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644 27 күн бұрын
Dude is just incels getting angry at Chris because he doesn't perpetuate their echo chamber.
@davagevorriose8046
@davagevorriose8046 27 күн бұрын
Not so sure I agree. He brought up the Jordan Peterson example, and iirc that model was pretty heavy. Medically, "obese" is a line a LOT of Americans (and westerners in general) cross without realizing it, it's not as heavy as I think most people would think. You still make a good point though, the guest isn't giving "bigger" a precise, objective definition; it leave a lot up to our interpretation. Maybe not the best science.
@Jjroberson114
@Jjroberson114 27 күн бұрын
Actually I think he’s the one trying to conflate the two.
@art2736
@art2736 27 күн бұрын
Thick not fat.
@jordanedwards9681
@jordanedwards9681 19 күн бұрын
@@davagevorriose8046 that model was pretty hot ngl
@TacoSupreme82
@TacoSupreme82 28 күн бұрын
we're still not.
@The-Oneness11
@The-Oneness11 28 күн бұрын
Really think about it. What looks sexier? A super skinny girl with no titties or booty, or a more curvaceous woman who isn't fat but has fat on her. Even me being a woman who is straight understands that the more curvaceous woman is sexier to look at. The skinnier shape is more child-like while the curvy shape is womanly.
@TacoSupreme82
@TacoSupreme82 28 күн бұрын
@@The-Oneness11 once again, your preference, not mine.
@McFedro
@McFedro 28 күн бұрын
​ @TacoSupreme82 Talking about preferences, TacoSupreme82 is talking for TacoSupreme82 only! The sentence above was rewritten at request of TacoSupreme82. The original sentence stated: "Talking about preferences, please talk only for yourself).
@McFedro
@McFedro 28 күн бұрын
​@@The-Oneness11TRUE!!!!!!!
@TacoSupreme82
@TacoSupreme82 28 күн бұрын
@@McFedro as a trans man, my pronouns are we/us.
@TheGreyFox0
@TheGreyFox0 28 күн бұрын
Says who ? The answer is no
@ALTheFreeMan
@ALTheFreeMan 28 күн бұрын
A few drunk guys knocked down some chubbies during a dry spell and now everyone is losing their minds, lol!
@KairiDivine
@KairiDivine 28 күн бұрын
I disagree with the statements implying this is a growing trend among first-world countries with a preference towards bigger women. I think there is a lot of reaching here. Maybe people are just more unhealthy and settle with what they can get, more so than this being what men prefer.
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644 28 күн бұрын
I see it more times than not
@rodm1525
@rodm1525 28 күн бұрын
People were healthier the last century and men preferred heavier women at least pre 70’s
@tenj00
@tenj00 28 күн бұрын
True. Laziness is growing and people are getting fat.
@kollow
@kollow 28 күн бұрын
Men who married a woman with a normal BMI who now have overweight to obese wives is pretty common. I don't know of any man who has divorced his wife for her weight. It happens, but I think he is more likely to stay married since he would be blasted as a complete a**hole if he did divorce her.
@LastMinuteGuess
@LastMinuteGuess 28 күн бұрын
@@kollow Yeah men don't have a preference for fat women. They marry women with a normal BMI and then the women get obese over time. The men do too, hence "dad bod" so it is normal in a marriage for both people to get comfortable.
@Kharnan
@Kharnan 28 күн бұрын
Absolutely not. Fat is gross. :(
@art2736
@art2736 27 күн бұрын
There's a difference between fat and thick. They aren't talking about fat women.
@acmhfmggru
@acmhfmggru 27 күн бұрын
@@art2736 they are absolutely talking about fat women
@art2736
@art2736 27 күн бұрын
@@acmhfmggru yeah dnt know why I said that I think they are saying that thick women are fat. On that I disgree.
@theninjaofmusic
@theninjaofmusic 28 күн бұрын
As a guy who is attracted to bigger women. It's a huge advantage, because i had access to about 30% of the dating market that most men don't.
@LaytonObserves
@LaytonObserves 28 күн бұрын
Funniest thing about this is that it explains the stereotype of black men being attracted to thicc women
@EbonyPope
@EbonyPope 28 күн бұрын
Yup. Also he means thicker not fat. Of course men prefer more curves than less curves on average. You nee a certain percentage to have big boobs.
@acmhfmggru
@acmhfmggru 28 күн бұрын
​@@EbonyPopehe's explicitly talking about fat people, not slightly overweight.
@EbonyPope
@EbonyPope 28 күн бұрын
@@acmhfmggru No just in the case of the Zulu. In general he was talking about the slight changes in preference during bad economical times. People don't just start dating super fat chicks all of the sudden. But there is definitely a less pronounced effect and they go for thicker women. That isn't something controversial for anyone who knows about evolutionary psychology. That is old news.
@acmhfmggru
@acmhfmggru 27 күн бұрын
@@EbonyPope you didn't watch the interview?
@nupc717
@nupc717 27 күн бұрын
@@EbonyPope the curves thing is also new if you study mags from the 90s etc the women were SKINNY
@battlepug3122
@battlepug3122 28 күн бұрын
This Macken guy is cringe af.
@kollow
@kollow 28 күн бұрын
I have no idea who he is. But a dagger arm tat proves total badassery in my totally sarcastic opinion.
@aronapple7760
@aronapple7760 28 күн бұрын
He literally said in this podcast men don’t want women to have money. Wtf
@alexmartin628
@alexmartin628 27 күн бұрын
@@kollow I remember he said women are attracted to tattoos because they're akin to having battle scars lel.
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644 27 күн бұрын
Why He is not wrong in anything he said
@adamcraig1468
@adamcraig1468 27 күн бұрын
​@@aronapple7760men aren't interested in women's money though
@danielfallon3988
@danielfallon3988 28 күн бұрын
For me I've always found curvy women more attractive. My wife and I are polar opposites. I'm tall and slim, train every day, low body fat. She's short, heavier than me, doesn't train. Its personal preference for me, she's been like this as long as I've known her. I love the curves, what does it matter? Each to their own. I find skinny women unattractive. So what?
@lokeshsankarramesh423
@lokeshsankarramesh423 25 күн бұрын
There's a difference between curvy and flat out overweight/obese.
@GWills-ys6rd
@GWills-ys6rd 28 күн бұрын
Umm, I don't think so. Health is important, especially at the age of 40+.
@Rayzur99
@Rayzur99 28 күн бұрын
Lol. Watch the video before commenting
@Pilkie101
@Pilkie101 28 күн бұрын
Not buying any of this lol
@acmhfmggru
@acmhfmggru 28 күн бұрын
​@@Rayzur99i watched the video and he's full of it. just wild speculation and projection from bargain barrel Steve Jobs.
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644 27 күн бұрын
@@acmhfmggru you cant prove him wrong
@davagevorriose8046
@davagevorriose8046 27 күн бұрын
@@rafresendenrafresenden.1644 He doesn't objectively define anything; you can't "prove him wrong" if his conclusion is subjective view of weight.
@the_timinator77
@the_timinator77 28 күн бұрын
A big reason (no pun intended) that guys prefer skinnier girls is because it means they're healthier, so no serious health issues in the near future, they can do things as a couple like hiking or tennis or whatnot, live longer together, and she can get pregnant without issues, too.
@rodm1525
@rodm1525 28 күн бұрын
Skinny has never meant healthy only to ignorant
@Black_Void_
@Black_Void_ 28 күн бұрын
@@rodm1525 He said skinnier, Not skinny... reading comprehension matters. There are no benefits to having mounds of fatty tissue hanging off your body. It introduces health issues and also limits your lifestyle quality and definitely limits the things you can do with a potential partner. I know, I've been there.
@lordpraisestone8314
@lordpraisestone8314 28 күн бұрын
@@Black_Void_ Yeah, and the video title also only says bigger, not big. Nowhere did anyone talk about women with "mounds of fatty tissue" being suddenly more attractive.
@michalamoodie8632
@michalamoodie8632 28 күн бұрын
​@@rodm1525exactly back in the olden days it meant they had diseases.
@alphonsemarolle5785
@alphonsemarolle5785 27 күн бұрын
Because you live in the modern society he's describing. In a society with less and unpredictable food abundance, being fatter is the sign that she can get pregnant without issues and will have no health issues in the near future
@bantyrFish
@bantyrFish 28 күн бұрын
“women engage in tons of caloric acquisition” made me giggle like I never have before
@freeottis
@freeottis 28 күн бұрын
Juggernaut law - the theory that the very most unattractive women receive a surprisingly large amount of attention from men, sometimes more attention than women of average attractiveness. There is a large contingent of incels whose approaches have largely consisted of juggernauting, as they feel they have no chance with women they find attractive.
@MajikalCowpoke
@MajikalCowpoke 28 күн бұрын
The WHALE ON HIS ARM got me 💀💀💀
@QuantumBlissH
@QuantumBlissH 27 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@Pry0g9O
@Pry0g9O 22 күн бұрын
Hints
@mimocriminel8592
@mimocriminel8592 28 күн бұрын
Fuck no
@murphymacken
@murphymacken 28 күн бұрын
Please watch for 30 seconds before commenting 😂 first words I say are that in Western countries (and wealthy nations generally) men prefer lighter women.
@lt9690
@lt9690 28 күн бұрын
Yeah, hopefully your message isnt lost on people just because of the title on this clip...
@alphonsemarolle5785
@alphonsemarolle5785 27 күн бұрын
It seems people don't have the ability to understand that what they've always known might not be what has always been before them
@amaliria
@amaliria 25 күн бұрын
I think the title of the video is very misleading and doesn't fit to what you say.
@TheDallasDwayne
@TheDallasDwayne 21 күн бұрын
Your comment should be pinned, sir. Thank you for an informative interview.
@shanesimons5801
@shanesimons5801 20 күн бұрын
You are wrong on your theory. Healthy glow and beautiful natural colourful skin that makeup mimics is achieved through exercising and healthy diet. Universally that woman who looks like that is beautiful. Excess calories is not beautiful. Toned and lithe generates the beautiful skin that signals she is healthy enough to reproduce. The curves are beautiful only when there is low fat. Men know woman’s feelings are important however and so are willing to have a range of fat which is acceptable. But lower BMI without being unhealthy is better.
@seanmurphy7011
@seanmurphy7011 28 күн бұрын
We are?
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644 28 күн бұрын
Yes
@Madonnalitta1
@Madonnalitta1 28 күн бұрын
No.
@GJones247
@GJones247 28 күн бұрын
As a former BGC (Big Girl Connoisseur), I can confirm it is a survival mechanism. Especially in college.
@Icarianbrother
@Icarianbrother 27 күн бұрын
Southland: Dewey- "Fat chicks are awesome, they're just like mopeds. They're fun to ride until you're caught on one".
@Mr.Boring_Man
@Mr.Boring_Man 28 күн бұрын
Dude is projecting 3rd world desperation onto western countries. 😂😂😂 He never defines "heavier".
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644 28 күн бұрын
3rd world countries have less obese women than a lot of first world countries.
@maxaalde
@maxaalde 28 күн бұрын
I feel that modern day body positivity has made it impossible to discuss body types without any visual reference. I like somewhat curvy girls, but these days that's how obese women would describe themselves
@LorraineBusch
@LorraineBusch 27 күн бұрын
I think the body positivity movement started as a good thing but now it's not doing good. It's legit glamorizing obesity... which is sad. Obesity kills...
@gageorion7646
@gageorion7646 28 күн бұрын
Some men, like myself, most definitely like bigger chubbier women. You do you, no shame to whoever's likes whoever's, but many do. He is right about that
@Chiefmane1
@Chiefmane1 28 күн бұрын
He said men pick bigger women out of scarcity. That is true.
@gageorion7646
@gageorion7646 28 күн бұрын
@@Chiefmane1 not denying you there, you're right. My first girlfriend was a thin model like woman, I just prefer bigger girls, and there are people who always have and will
@minimatemasterworks
@minimatemasterworks 28 күн бұрын
I gotta hand it to Chris he does a good job of getting people with the absolute worst take on things.
@MadMax2069.
@MadMax2069. 28 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@dlmsarge8329
@dlmsarge8329 28 күн бұрын
Has it gotten worse since he started wearing shorts during interviews and violating the guests personal space with the spacing of the chairs??
@maxwillson
@maxwillson 28 күн бұрын
The people in the comment section didn't listen to the guy. He's saying that poor societies like fatter women and wealthier societies like skinner women. This totally makes sense because Western societies hit their peak in the 2000s and now we're spiraling into poverty. His logic makes total sense.
@maxwillson
@maxwillson 28 күн бұрын
@@BPrim-ce5zw Probably because it means more food for yourself as well LOL
@theunikronus7204
@theunikronus7204 28 күн бұрын
When he is talking about higher BMIs having more sexual value, he isn't talking about women from my 600lb life guys. Those women are incredible outliers in every part of the world. What he is talking about, I think, can be seen just recently in our culture, i remember in the mid to late 2000s that a huge thing for women was the thigh gap, being so skinny that your thighs dont touch each other while you are walking or you could see their ribcages. Girls were starving themselves on purpose to try and be what was seen as the most sexually attractive. These days, you dont see that as much, if at all. Models these days are much thicker and more curvatious than they were 15 - 20 years ago, and the economy has only gotten worse since then. I am not saying it's an incredibly tight-knit theory, as it has only been researched for 20 years, and these kinds of theories take ages to lock down, but I can say that I have seen evidence to support it just in my own lifetime.
@BIGARMADA1988
@BIGARMADA1988 28 күн бұрын
I don't think men are. Men will always be more attracted to slimmer women in general the same way women are attracted to tall healthy somewhat muscular men. I think what's going on is because men aren't as shy about saying what they like versus women, the outliers of men that like bigger women became more vocal about it during that time where SI and other magazines were starting to put plus sized models on the cover of their magazines, so it made it seem like most men prefer bigger women to slimmer women which isn't the case.
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644 28 күн бұрын
women are attracted to tall healthy somewhat muscular men??? I just see women liking pretty boys, kpop idols, etc
@BIGARMADA1988
@BIGARMADA1988 28 күн бұрын
​@@rafresendenrafresenden.1644I forgot to put status, so you are sort of right about the k pop boy band types of guys women are into. I also didn't really specify age as well, younger women may be more attracted to the boy band type of guy verses older women who may be attracted to more rugged older looking types of guys. There's always exceptions like this but in general, most women like guys that are at least taller and bigger than them muscular wise, at least to an extent.
@Madonnalitta1
@Madonnalitta1 28 күн бұрын
Agreed. Aragon over Legolas any day.
@badart3204
@badart3204 28 күн бұрын
Completely ignoring the big boobs phenomenon and big butt phenomenon. Bigger typically doesn’t mean tub of lard it means curvier with the distribution mainly going to those spots. Nobody likes apple shape
@Thisisausername556
@Thisisausername556 28 күн бұрын
@@rafresendenrafresenden.1644The girls who like that are on birth control. On e they get off, they’re more likely to be attracted to more masculine features. There are several studies on birth control and its relation to attraction.
@GrubWarp
@GrubWarp 28 күн бұрын
I already know that title is clickbait
@adamwilson44889
@adamwilson44889 28 күн бұрын
This guy is saying the African Zulu tribe has a lot of obese women? I doubt this.
@Rayzur99
@Rayzur99 28 күн бұрын
That's the thing. They don't have many. But the ones that are obese see a lot more attention
@bugz138
@bugz138 28 күн бұрын
@@Rayzur99 prolly cause they are low hanging fruit lol
@KevinJDildonik
@KevinJDildonik 28 күн бұрын
Bro. Imagine living in a primitive society. You don't have refrigeration. If there is a bad season and the crops dry out, people you know may die from starvation. Meanwhile the village elder has a couple daughters with fat thighs. The smart man wants to know their secret.
@EbonyPope
@EbonyPope 28 күн бұрын
No but that wasn't the question. It was about what they think is sexy. And yes that a lot of Black men find thicker women more attractive is old news.
@carninuz1
@carninuz1 28 күн бұрын
That's a misunderstanding at best, and an intentional misrepresentation at worst
@Slim-MMA
@Slim-MMA 28 күн бұрын
Desperation is the answer.
@blueberrymcphuckerson9821
@blueberrymcphuckerson9821 28 күн бұрын
A lot of you guys didn't pay attention to the dude. His answer to the question is that it depends on your environment and what you're going through (even e.g. his miniscule example of before vs. after a meal): it's not a simple "Yes." or "No." JFC.
@teenafrench7236
@teenafrench7236 28 күн бұрын
Thanks for doing this. I'm on a health journey after a traumatic event and my BMI ballooned to over 52. With lots of support I hope to get down to a healthier BMI of 25-30. I needed to hear this even if it's just to encourage me. Really appreciate it🎉😊
@michaelr5606
@michaelr5606 28 күн бұрын
Without defining “Bigger Women” the question is meaningless. Personally I don’t find skinny women attractive. Touching them is even worse. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with skinny girls and plenty of guys love that but it’s not my thing. That’s doesn’t mean I’m attracted to obesity though. My girl is far from obese but she has bigger thighs, butt, and hips than she’d prefer. I absolutely love it. I find that extra cushion very feminine and it just feels good. I’m not a big jacked body builder type dude but people give me compliments on my physique. I don’t know about bf% but nothing is soft and I have a 6 pack. A hard body pressing or bouncing against a hard body isn’t my thing. She loves how solid and masculine I feel and I love how soft and feminine she feels. There’s a lid for every pot I guess.
@jrobertlysaght
@jrobertlysaght 28 күн бұрын
The media is pushing that preference. Men haven't just changed preference. Strong women and beta males is the goal.
@jonathancortez3003
@jonathancortez3003 28 күн бұрын
Define bigger, because as a latino I admire fit women and Curvy woman. I wouldn't consider the curvy woman to be obese but I do know that they obviously have more fat on them as compared to the other more fit women. And amongst latinos and black Americans we can see them same leaning towards Curvy women. But i will admit that fat/obese are off-putting to me.
@konsolennerd
@konsolennerd 28 күн бұрын
That’s a hard no. Women didn’t accept or want me when I was just a little obese. I remedied that through diet and exercise. So why exactly should I accept an obese partner myself? What he is talking about Seems more like wishful thinking.
@m.czandogg9576
@m.czandogg9576 28 күн бұрын
TBF, women hold fat much differently than men. For men it usually goes to their stomach first. With women it could mosty go to thighs, butt or boobs first and that's way more attractive IMO
@konsolennerd
@konsolennerd 28 күн бұрын
@@m.czandogg9576 the crazy thing is, I had previously never cared about shallow things like looks until quite a few of them started rejecting me in vile ways and vicious language I won’t repeat here. Losing weight taught me so many lessons. Now I’m rejecting those same types of women and apparently I’m the bad guy for putting standards on them. Accountability really does seem to be a lot of women’s kryptonite😂
@m.czandogg9576
@m.czandogg9576 28 күн бұрын
@@konsolennerd Genuine kudos to your improving yourself. I'm not sure what you or the women you rejected looked like but looks matter to a certain extent.
@mpatrick8673
@mpatrick8673 27 күн бұрын
@@konsolennerd do you mean the slim women were vicious before your weight loss?
@konsolennerd
@konsolennerd 27 күн бұрын
@@mpatrick8673 yeah and even those with a clearly raised BMI had some pretty rude verbal putdowns
@TIOLIOfficial
@TIOLIOfficial 28 күн бұрын
I love that the comments under this are all just " We're not".
@anointedone1995
@anointedone1995 26 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@Chiefmane1
@Chiefmane1 28 күн бұрын
I listened to the whole video, he said generally men pick bigger women out of scarcity. Men with options tend to go for women in shape. Thats 💯.
@The-Oneness11
@The-Oneness11 28 күн бұрын
A lot of women are aware that men with resources prefer skinnier. That's why we are always dieting and trying to lose weight.
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644 27 күн бұрын
Do they?
@clownhands
@clownhands 28 күн бұрын
Being gay and coming from a family that hates fat people, I was shocked when I made straight friends in my neighborhood and found out they were all low key into big girls
@christinamckinney2370
@christinamckinney2370 24 күн бұрын
I think that it’s CONFIDENCE that’s attractive and the movement of women feeling BEAUTIFUL in their own bodies irrespective of what men think is what’s leading to men approaching bigger women these days. Cultures change. And so do preferences. Images of beauty have always been fluid. Long, thick hair, short, bobbed hair, large breasts, small breasts, etc, etc. Now, finally….women just don’t care anymore. We’re enjoying the body we were given. Period!
@mustang607
@mustang607 28 күн бұрын
Gluttony, and other deadly sins, are making a comeback thanks to wokethink.
@frankexchangeofviews
@frankexchangeofviews 28 күн бұрын
"It's not my style to comment on specific women's bodies" three seconds after giving a judgement on the attractiveness of a woman's body. Smooth.
@reformed1trick739
@reformed1trick739 26 күн бұрын
In the context of an abundance of resources, it makes sense that skinny women are sexy. It signals the ability to remain healthy in that environment of abundance
@justinfrancism3208
@justinfrancism3208 12 күн бұрын
i.e. self-control or discipline
@florinmiu469
@florinmiu469 28 күн бұрын
I have lived in a communist country when food scarcity was a real problem (during communism and a few years aftewards). Almost no guy in my school/highschool was into fat girls. Also, I haven't changed my preferences after 5 days of full-fasting (only water). Just because you can concoct an evolutionary-based explanation doesn't make it correct.
@Owl-of-Minerva
@Owl-of-Minerva 28 күн бұрын
"Fatty boom boom" Is a celebration of big women. It's a reggae song. Jamaica is a resource poor country. The hypothesis is spot on.
@SeniorAdrian
@SeniorAdrian 28 күн бұрын
I am. Death by Snu Snu. EDIT: Oh wait, he said body fat? Meaning fat? What is this guy on about? Lol.
@MrJackwork
@MrJackwork 28 күн бұрын
Speak for yourself.
@phantomcreamer
@phantomcreamer 28 күн бұрын
Not to mention low body fat wrecks a woman's estrogen and ability to concieve.
@0num4
@0num4 28 күн бұрын
We should differentiate when we say "bigger." A woman with a bit of body fat who is otherwise in decent shape, that's sexy. A woman who looks like Gorlock the Destroyer...that's utterly disgusting (though I'm sure there are a few dudes out there who prefer women at that size). So I think the hypothesis generally holds up, but fails hard toward the extremes. A woman with a BMI of 38 is what I would consider morbidly obese--at least at or near average height levels (BMI skews heavily against taller folks). At that level, one's body is having to compensate for its extra weight, and on a long enough time line will begin to suffer chronic health issues.
@CitizenoftheWorld1
@CitizenoftheWorld1 21 күн бұрын
The fact that at least 90% of male celebrities aren't dating or married to plus size women proves Murphy's theory. As a black man I know all too well about the stigma that we like bigger girls, but all the black entertainers I see are never around them.
@Scarletpimpanel73
@Scarletpimpanel73 28 күн бұрын
The problem with evolutionary psychology is that we are trying to explain the present via a past we know even less about.
@JustWantedToGrill
@JustWantedToGrill 28 күн бұрын
Uh, we're not.
@Madonnalitta1
@Madonnalitta1 28 күн бұрын
I don't believe it for a second. This guy thinks boobs were made for guys, you may like them chaps, but they're mammary glands not sexual organs. Smh.
@dahliaherrod4301
@dahliaherrod4301 27 күн бұрын
This is where it's useful to have a woman involved in the conversation. Sometimes men can't see the forest for the trees. When speaking of thick or heavy women, one must consider shape first. If a woman has a relatively smaller waist with wider hips and thighs, she's still desired by men. That's why Zulu men still want their women. They tend to be hourglass and pear shaped, even as they gain weight. This is NOT true for rectangle and apple shaped women-the women built like SpongeBob SquarePants. Those women are not the preference, even amongst men who like heavier women. Just look at a catalogue or online shop and you'll see what shape is heavily favored even in plus-sized clothing.
@NoctecPaladin
@NoctecPaladin 28 күн бұрын
Just looked at the BMI chart and my preference in women's body types confirms that I have caveman brain
@MeadeSkeltonMusic
@MeadeSkeltonMusic 27 күн бұрын
Anytime someone brings up "evolution" I tune out .
@camilove318
@camilove318 28 күн бұрын
Guess i need to gain some weight.... 😂😂😂kidding
@Fishbone8891
@Fishbone8891 28 күн бұрын
I think there is a huge argument for what's attractive verses what's accepted for or settled for
@crimson6172
@crimson6172 26 күн бұрын
All the men I know that has ever said they are attracted to bigger women are just coping. How do I know? Every time after they level up, gets in better shape and/or obtain higher status, their "attraction" to bigger women is suddenly gone. What a mystery huh? 😂
@The-Nightwatch
@The-Nightwatch 28 күн бұрын
Nah...
@ericgee198
@ericgee198 28 күн бұрын
lol - no men with options are "into bigger women"
@restingsmirkface
@restingsmirkface 28 күн бұрын
We are NOT attracted to large women. Some men might settle since so many women are large. (Did not watch, just responding to the title. Not worth my time)
@kimellis8340
@kimellis8340 28 күн бұрын
Bigger as in well developed round large glutes, yes. Bigger as in it looks like someone poured pantyhose full of cottage cheese, hell no. Bigger as in still a mesomorph, yes. Bigger as in either pear or apple endomorph, he’ll no.
@TinyRonSwanson
@TinyRonSwanson 28 күн бұрын
We’re not. Bigger women just approach us guys. The reason we won’t approach women is out of fear of being accused of something or of rejection. It depends on the dude, but most of the time these are contributing factors
@adamc436
@adamc436 28 күн бұрын
‪From Americas, Rome, Saxony, Poland, to the Scandinavias, arabic, and Proto-Slavic countries, as well as Asia, this was NOT the case. I have thousands of historical resources depicting the opposite of what he’s suggesting.‬ In addition, obese women have significantly higher risks during pregnancy. There are plenty of studies on this, and most prospective parents learn about this when they have their first kid. ‪Maybe in some African hunter-gatherer societies it’s corollary, but I’m not convinced it’s a general rule.
@ABColden
@ABColden 28 күн бұрын
i must have missed this update..
@vailmcc
@vailmcc 28 күн бұрын
Nope! Since when is being overweight and out of shape sexy?
@theuruguayanpolyglot8706
@theuruguayanpolyglot8706 28 күн бұрын
interesting!
@Ticalafon
@Ticalafon 28 күн бұрын
The ratio of likes vs dislikes speak for itself
@tobbele1010
@tobbele1010 28 күн бұрын
those men are just desperate most of the time, no attraction there
@JayTalksinjury
@JayTalksinjury 28 күн бұрын
" I really wanna take 1 for the team !"said no man EVER !...
@MrStreetninja007
@MrStreetninja007 28 күн бұрын
As someone who has always been I hate it because now they won't give you the time of day
@aeromanjitha
@aeromanjitha 28 күн бұрын
No
@CorfeCastle.
@CorfeCastle. 28 күн бұрын
He’s talking BS.
@Jordyphysique
@Jordyphysique 28 күн бұрын
Speak for yourself bud. Wild take
@orangecat999
@orangecat999 27 күн бұрын
I've heard this saying a couple of times in European culture, but I like how my Italian friend said it best: tempi buoni, donna crisi. I was going to translate it, but y'all get the gist.
@Ryan-wx1bi
@Ryan-wx1bi 28 күн бұрын
Maybe some guys can see their altered, photoshopped pictures online and think they look good.. but i guarantee you, face to face, they will not be attracted to them
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644
@rafresendenrafresenden.1644 27 күн бұрын
It depends
@sakondisable
@sakondisable 28 күн бұрын
I'm not (not going to say "we" as I will only talk for myself) and I find it interesting that the comment section is full of people trying to gaslight the people who think similarly to me. I have plenty of friends who are into thin women. As there are less and less skinny people (regardless of gender) men might have to settle for less. As there are less and less "smaller" women, more and more men will do so. (The men are, of course, also becoming bigger at the same time.) I've stayed in shape into my 30s and actually started going for slimmer women as my self-confidence grew. Since my evidence is anecdotal, I will not refute what they say about the general trend in the video. But this is for the dudes who are trying to convince me that I'm into bigger women: nope, sorry. I tried more than once, but nope. If you are into them, that's fine. Why do you want to change my mind? As long as there are guys who aren't into your preference, that leaves more potential mates for you.
@i_youtube_
@i_youtube_ 28 күн бұрын
Where do I find that thing used on the walls for isolating sound echo? What is it called?
@chuck1052
@chuck1052 28 күн бұрын
acoustic panels
@astefani7363
@astefani7363 28 күн бұрын
I m 5 min in and I ll tune out.
@Philognosis1
@Philognosis1 28 күн бұрын
What is considered a beautiful body is not solely an objective thing. There may be certain elements that have some kind of evolutionary basis, but mostly it’s social and cultural.
@Adade999
@Adade999 28 күн бұрын
Comment section on 🔥🔥🔥🤣🤣
@amandahelenatkins8636
@amandahelenatkins8636 28 күн бұрын
Maybe so they can double up as food in an emergency scenario?
@funkycowie
@funkycowie 28 күн бұрын
Nope, i prefer a fitter woman as do most.
@vanessanesener4028
@vanessanesener4028 28 күн бұрын
To the Easily Triggered: Mental Strength & Emotional Strength is THE SAME.
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