It hurts the most is when you give your time and energy to an empty soul ☹️☹️☹️

These male Podcasters should really stop trying to tell us women what to do about male shenanigans and spend that same energy on teaching their male counterparts how to treat us better. This whole "high value" BS is TIRED! Relationships are NOT supposed to be like this! Gotdamn, this is exhausting!!

I thank God everyday I got ghosted. Three months later I met my husband. He ask to marry me in 6 months and got married 4 months later and he's the best man I EVER met. God had to close that door to open the door for a real man. Ace Metaphor is absolutely right about EVERYTHING he says!!!

Some men are just broken as well! There are plenty of men with mommy issues and will never value a woman. Even if he puts a mask on for a particular women and do all things temporarily to win her, trust in due time the mask will come off. By that time the woman is in invested.

Preach honey. Ghosting can be gifting you an opportunity to by pass BS. Yes, I’m thankful.

This was one of your best! Don't ease up, rather have their feelings hurt now or suffer like a mfkr later. Women must start using logic over emotion.

I say if he thinks he can get comfortable treating you however he sees fits....then he should be comfortable with rejection.

Inconsistency means they're faking it to get your attention. It's not who they are. They probably just want an ego boost or s*x that's all. I can tell so quick. If they over compliment right away or have that lustful look their eyes I'm done. I leave them on read or excuse myself in real life. I never use their cards when they give them to me. I bet some are still waiting on that call from me and it'll never happen. Hope they don't hold their breath too long 😂.

Exhausting, relationships are exhausting, just stay home, don't bother me and i will not be seen

His patterns will eventually come out and repeat them UNTIL HE takes full accountability and do the inner work. Ladies walk away!!! Let them have him… you work on you and keep going ❤

Be abstinent and it will weed them out so fast! Works for me 💃🏽💃🏽. It’s 2024 when are we gonna realize just cause a man is in a relationship and has sex with you does not mean he likes you or even cares about you.

Exactly 💯 when that man ghosts you ,you keep that sheet over his head this ain't Hollowen 🤔🤔🤔🤔

That Right There!, Ladies come on now, so once you find out, please don't entertain the knuckleheads.

I actually respect the way this info was delivered lol .. seems fatherly - animated, honest, concise, and direct.

Wow, this really hit hard......I lived this and it was extremely hurtful......I couldn't understand until I seeked GOD........My esteem was in the basement and I was so much better than the Man child I called myself liking/loving.......That hurt was so intense that I feel like crying right now........I poured that love into GOD and myself and now I'm in a healthier place.......I've elevated my income and I have no desire to meet anyone because it's just too much to handle ad the healing process is real to go over it all over again.......Ladies please listen Ace is is telling the truth.....If he doesn't like you please believe him.

I'm not building a BEAR for someone else

KARMA IS A KILLER! ONCE THESE DUDES LEAVE AND START OVER NEW....ALL THE WORK YOU INVESTED IN HIM...THE NEW WOMAN WILL DO HIM THE SAME WAY HE DID YOU! TRUST ME! IT'S COMING! BY THE TIME THE NEW WOMAN GETS DONE MESSING OVER HIM...BEING DISRESPECTFUL.... RUNNING OVER HIM....TAKING HIS MONEY AND CHEATING ON HIM .... HE'LL BE ON HIS KNEES CRAWLING BACK! WHEN HE DOES.... DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME LISTENING TO HIS FAKE APOLOGIES AND BS! BYE DUDE!

Tell me, what man awakens the love of a woman with no intentions of ever loving her? He may use her and then go on to find the woman he WANTS, but rest assured he does not live happily ever after.

Because they give too many women attention and they always think they’re able to find better… they lose interest as soon as they see another woman.. that’s what it seems like.

I swear Ace is the honest big brother every woman needs.

You went hard in the paint today. These are FACTS baby!

this is why i don’t bother dating at all anymore. it’s so frustrating i rather be alone than to deal with bullshit. i go out alone and learning to enjoy my own company. mentally preparing to be alone

Preach it! I do not put up with less than I deserve and was starting to feel I was broken. I am not broken, I know my worth!

38:50 PERSONALLY...THE GUY I WAS DATING....AFTER TWO AND A HALF YEARS OF DATING...DECIDED HE RECENTLY WANTED SPACE AND TIME TO HIMSELF....WE TALKED ABOUT IT AND AFTER LISTENING TO HIM.....I KNEW HE WAS TRYING TO USE THIS AS AN EXCUSE TO BACK OUTTA THE RELATIONSHIP. I HAD ALREADY REALIZED HE WAS NOT THE GUY FOR ME AND I WAS ABLE TO DEAL WITH THAT SO I AGREED BUT AT THE SAME TIME....I WALKED AWAY. MY TIME IS TOO VALUABLE TO WASTE WAITING ON A GUY TRYING TO GET IT TOGETHER WHO SHOULD ALREADY KNOW HOW TO HANDLE A RELATIONSHIP. IF YOU WANNA GO DUDE .....GO AHEAD..... WE'RE DONE! BUT DON'T COME BACK! I LEARNED HOW TO DEAL THESE TYPES OF ISSUES EARLY IN LIFE. I'M NOT BOTHERED. I'M MOVING ON WITH MY LIFE! BY THE TIME YOU GET IT TOGETHER AND GROW UP.... I'M LONG GONE! HAVE A GOOD LIFE! 38:50

😅😅😅😅😅😅😂😂 yammmmms. True to what He said. Cut em short asap when u see inconsistent behavior. Do the haRd right vs the easy. Do not build a man. Build ur self.❤

It hurts when they block/ghost you but you have to get it and you together to get back to the space you were before you met them. Let them go to the people that they feel they can play with. Most likely they left because you were holding them accountable and not easily to be manipulated at least that's my case whenever any of my relationships don't work out.

Your pup hears the tone in your voice. He came to make sure you're okay. What a good boy❤.

Thx sir…you’re confirming what I already know. I walked away from my fiance recently. Yes, fiance who put a ring on my finger….who was still trying to string me along. I have no problem walking away from any man.

This hurts and cracks me up all at the same time 😂😂 Edit: 23:19 😂 On a serious note this is the realest shit I've ever heard AND NEEDED TO HEAR!!!! THANK YOU 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Period!! That’s why I friend zone his before things even get deep ….. everything they do is all “LOVE BOMBING” that why I don’t zone in on just restaurant or what I can get …preach brother

Went through this not too long ago but it was weird. I didn’t like HIM at first but when he would call or text I would entertain him. Then I let him stay with me so he could get his business off the ground. Him staying with me made me start to like him. After his business blew up he got weird towards me. Games started getting played but they weren’t really effecting me because I was still confused if I actually like him for him or if I made myself like him because he was around, you know? Then one day I came in the house and he was talking to a bitch on the phone and didn’t flinch. Shit pissed me OFF! So I changed my locks when he left the next morning and blocked him on everything 🤷🏽‍♀️ ain’t talked to him since Sept 11th and I realized I only liked him because he was around 😂 I ain’t even thought about the fool til I listened to this. But your message is clear is right! I saw zero return and ended up feeling not good enough in the end 💯 I KNOW I’m enough tho. I’ll NEVER help a man with anything ever again a day in my life 💯

This hit on every single thing that needs to be said. I don’t care if this truth hurts, it helps so many of us to accept reality and do better

“I don’t wanna talk that much, I’m an introvert “… lmao you ain’t never lied!!😂😂😂

They're inconsistent because they can be! Women don't say what they mean, and mean what they say. Therfore, men dont have to be.

Ace is in the place!!! Don’t make excuses for their unpredictable behavior being good and sometimes bad is one of many red flags! “A man that doesn’t fuck with you like that.” Is a sign of unreliability, lack of communication, unreadiness, emotional baggage and unwilling to commit to a long term relationship.. I had some emotional baggage that I carried for years after my husband’s death.. I was being honest with this dude however he refused to fucking listen and kept pressing me for a relationship..#TonightsConversationCards #TonightsConversationCardsLadiesEdition #RelationshipAdvice #AceOfSpades

On god you one of the men who actually care an call bullshit with no filter straight with no chaser 💯

Say this!!!!!! If his intentions for you are not in line with yours, bounce! 2:26 Stop mistaking ATTENTION for INTENTION.

Preach it Ace! You are a true blessing. Thank you for always keeping it real!✌️💜✨️ Namaste 😊

Ladiea, you wouldnt care about gaining the fruits of what you put into that man if you have/had already doing those things for yourself. If a man learns something significant from you, he will collapse, eventually, without you. Then have to build that himself the same way you've done for yourself. Stop worrying about wasted efforts. Energy doesnt die, it transfers. Simple. Same goes for us, men. Do your part, dont worry about what she got planned. Your plan is better and stand on that, with or without her. We all gotta stop tripping how the game goes. Accept it and move accordingly. You cant always win at UNO , right ? Okay then. Lets Go ! ❤

Thank you for being bluntly honest and keeping it 💯 Definitely needed this 🙌🙏

Agreed. I need my space. I can't stand it when someone floods me with texts while I'm at work or engaged in something. Then calls me one second after I text him m back, like you're just sitting there waiting. And then asks "have you read ALL my texts?"

Thank you for the confirmation!!💯👏🏾👏🏾💯

Thank you for this video. I learnt it the hard way as a woman. I am trying hard to explain this to my fellow sisters but most of them are sleeping completely and do not even understand the basics . They say things like "oh you are too harsh, he is just busy for not calling me for 1 week". Last time, a guy said to a woman that I know "I am not sure I want to be with you" (clear message that he does not like her) and then she invited him to the restaurant and paid for both 350 usd and after even almost forced him to sleep with her.... I have no words

I wast my time with this so call boyfriend he lost something. Then he lost his mind didn't spend no time with me on Valentine's Day 😢so I was there for him it was a waste of my damn time . What you are saying is right

Thank you so much. This was amazing. I needed to hear this. You spat facts and truths. Walk away, ladies.

Truth hurts. I appreciate the delivery. I definitely needed this.

Yup all true! I met one just like this had my mind all discombobulated over a year 😤 sad thing is, I knew better I had real love so I knew what it was, but wanted someone so bad was settling for less. But never again, lesson well learned. Yal better listen. Like he said life is too short living it unhappy with a man ain’t it!

I need to hear things like this like you are delivering it!!! Subscribed!!!🙌🏽

I hear you and I appreciate each and every word that is coming out your mouth. I know you are telling the truth.

I needed to hear this message today!!❤❤

Whewww you ain’t neva lieddd 😮‍💨😭💯💯

Thank you for that answer , i was thinking the same thing When some 1 block U & ghost U it's a blessing and a sign that no matter what I shouldn't Ever let them in your life ever again 👍

I Love Your Honesty... Just Love It. Speak that shit Ace💥💥💥

I always appreciate your candor!

Excellent message.

Thank you Ace. I needed to hear this. This came at a time where I’m at a crossroad. So thank you.

This been the realist shit I’ve heard and needed to hear in a long time 💯 the truth always hurts so keeping spittin facts Ace!

THANK YOU FOR THE TRUTH. THE TRUTH HURTS.

I am sooooooo thankful that i came across this channel. Being divorced of 4 years & dealing with ah situationship shortly after, this so makes sense. Learning and loving on me!

TELL IT ACE...TELL IT ALL...& SHAME THE FOOL...NO TIME FOR PITY...SHAME THE FOOL & KEEP ON KEEPIN ON 👏🏾🔥👏🏾

Thank you. I needed this😂😭

The beginning had me rolling!!! Truth though, all truth 😂 waiting for my husband to just drop out of the air. Dating is exhausting and people are so fake 🤷‍♀️ they disqualify themselves pretty quick so i'ma keep it pushin' and he will come ❤

Very good content ❤thank you

This video is needed. Thank you! 😅😂💯

Wow spot on! Thanks for the honest talk. Makes so much sense.

I have to say I'm sooo happy you've met a great woman and that your happy, love that for you ❤ oh and thank you for all the words of wisdom and for affirming so much of what I already knew (so yeah I'm not crazy 😅) but for also putting me onto new game. Appreciate ya 🙏🏾❤️

Well Dam! You came raw with this one!

Lol!!! Ace preaching tonight 😄

Thank you for your channeling ❤

Wheeewwwww baybeeeee I needed to hear this!!! Thank you ❤

I needed to hear this today!!!!!!

Thank you for the realness in your advice ❤

I love his perspective! We need to hear this raw and uncut

I enjoy your wisdom. Thank you

This was a good episode ❤

THANK YOU for this HARD TRUTH!

You are sooo amazing and my Nr.1 when it comes to relationship advices. Just love your energy and honesty!!! keep it up love watching all your posts ❤

I would love to have an affirmation morning video for us, hear you every day at gym telling me I’m worthy, I’m enough, I’m loved and blessed, in the way you talk laud, because sometimes I really need it. Thanks.

Preach..... men are visual.... if they like what they see they'll do whatever it takes to get it

Patience and waiting is your Best Meditation in dating !!!!!!

I hear that you are frustrated, but I honestly didn’t know the game you putting me onto. Wow. You opened my eyes about how they date similarly in the beginning and it just went off like a lightbulb. Keep bringing this energy to YT. That’s what we ready to see!

Sir You are PREACHING!!! Thank you for speaking to many Women and Men. 👏👏👏

“Them yyyayammms!” 😂😂 Smfh. Sad but true. Thank you for your wisdom bro

Ace talking the truth into me. Yesss lemme have that tough luv so I can heal myself. ❤

Makes a whole lot of sense to me. Wish I had this message 15 years ago. Could have saved me a whole lot of time and energy and everything else...but now I know what to look for when I am ready to start dating again...thank you!💜

I soooooooo needed this ❤❤❤❤❤❤

Aceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee 😫🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯💯💯💯♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️. You spoke to me. You broke it down. You built me up. Thank you Ace. God bless you brother!!!

I said the same thing, Space? 😅WTF is Space? It's OVER right then. Thank you so much Ace for your Wisdom!! Even at 50, your coaching and advice is necessary and helpful! You are a rare jewel. Love you much! Blessings

Hello from Argentina 😊 ... God I need a couple of friends like Ace... it's vital to survive 2024 and beyond. Soooo much clarity, honesty, I'm counting this video as a blessing.

@10:50 you said that!!!! It hit home never considered that point!!!! 🤯🤯🤯

Thank you for what you do. I absolutely love your content and I love your authenticity , LOVE the cursing,never change!! You just dropped in one video 10 billion pieces of very valuable information . Would it be nice if they communicated like grown men and gave us ‘closure’? Yes, him ghosting you is closure. I love how you said see it for the blessing that it is ,because it actually is a blessing.

I agree you have to be mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually strong when dating when a man show you have to believe it and if you still choose to talk you better know how to play your cards right not get into your feeling because it’s only get worse like he said the more you work in self the more you attract good and bad. Stay prayed up sis and say that prayer god if this man is not line up with me let it go. I love a reminder and hearing a man point of view listen ladiesssss

I had to go ghost on him, and we had vowed to always never do that! But he doesn’t deserve any closure, I removed myself he is not the husband material he told Me he wanted to be! Wave the white flag, to the red flags! Make it pink and stay cute, and stress, disrespect or inconsistency ain’t cute!

Amen.. Speak truth💯

You never miss.

Ooh you den ate me up. It was needed though

this was great! thank you!

Thank you for being a BIG BROTHER to us... I never got this kind of insight or game from a mans point of view. Thank u

You were so honest and respectful

Thank you!!! my brother~~~~❤❤❤