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Lol to be fair, I think it’s because women’s bodies are built and shaped different. If I say I’m a size 5 you would think I might be a bigger girl but really I’m a size 3 with wide hips.

@@kenadihunter6621 no ma’am I’m a woman and I can answer the question lol

Because there trying to remember to say size 6

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True

This is beautiful. Yes!

God Bless you and your Family

Many blessings to you and your family

Bro am in the dame boat i already now i had a good women but for the past year looking at kevin he really made me realize how good she is

Must be some truth that's why they marched & burnt their bra

pretty much, i asked every girl i deal with the same question why did your last relationship ends. they say the same exact categorical things. he 1. cheated 2, manipulator 3. abusive 4. controlling 9/10 they had alot to do with the situation that they are leaving out.

@@zero1188 what dey leaving out zero? I'll wait ⏳⌛

zero 3 out 4 of those the women are doing to the man. It’s called psychological projecting

The callers throw around these serious accusations based on how they "feel" but can't give a precise answer to direct questioning. There needs to be an episode called "When leveling up goes wrong".

I've noticed that. I wonder if I do that. We don't want a movie get to the point

I swear that is most women

Be looking like floyd Mayweather on defense

@@LyricalXilence That’s interesting you say that. In real life, I HATE when people don’t answer questions directly

The art of beating around the bush...

As a woman most these woman are not on their shit

Amen

I feel you, that's the best attitude to have. A good husband is a precious gift from God. And a good wife is the same.

Keep being a good woman and that man will protect you and give you a good life,he will focus on improving to give you the best. Good on you.

Ashley Davis yup.. if I was single I’d be called a “pick me”. But my mindset got me “picked”!. I don’t understand the “pick me” thing! Apparently a woman that demonstrates desirable behavior befitting of a wife is doing the most 🤷🏽‍♀️

El Bee deserves it all!!!

What’s your fitness routine

",need"?

Ma'am. I wish you would have talked to my sister. Before she got into her situation... couldn't tell her nothing

TRUTH

Both peoples needs need to be taken care of in order for a relationship to work, not just one

@@whatever7588 Cant have two chiefs in a relationship

That's the point. But she don't get it and never will. And she wont be finding another 6 figure earners considering she is 180 and 5'5

😔

& then do not blow up your own family because you would rather feed on the attentions from being a lazy liar then doing the work....just 80% here too

wow this true

Facts

💯!! On the Nail head!

Yep.This the part they collectively leave out.

SDC not really. They just say what they did. They never say HOW they did it. Saying I divorced my husband sounds a lot better than I left him and bad mouthed him to everyone in our community and I shacked up with other men that I let the kids call daddy while keeping the kids from the father. Just saying “I’m a divorcee” sounds a lot better than what really happened.

Cairo A. And that’s a common story so many black fathers have. It’s absolutely sickening. I can’t believe women sit and watch other women do this and they don’t call it out, they don’t distance themselves from women like that or nothing. And any man that would be with a woman that has done something like that to another man, he deserve to have the same done to him.

Verity ✔🔴

Lolololololololololololol 💀💀💀 savage

I remember this but please timestamp it somebody

Somebody should put that into animation shid would be hilarious

@@redfoxx1417 im still looking for the timestamp lol

😂🤣😂🤣

Yep.. Hem hawing...

Yeah I just noticed 😂

THAT laugh is called ‘nervous laughter’ an expression of embarrassment or confusion. These women have believed all this time their decisions were correct. Being faced with the truth is embarrassing plus their egos have them in deep denial.

@@KingzofIsrael good analysis

Yep

Men fund the state too so now all men are responsible for women's bad judgement.

This is crazy

This is all the clarification i need to keep pumping and mf dumping lord jesus

I remembered a preacher saying this

It's interesting that they decide the man isn't for them and they deserve to be treated better and still need to find themselves..... AFTER having multiple children. It's like they do shit backwards. Regardless of how bad they try and make the man appear ultimately they chose these men who had whatever red flags at the very beginning.

@Stephon Stewart causes severe emotional outbursts and deflections

The logic is for the men to be just that, sound like they want " act like a lady & think like a man" Only go with women who were raised a certain way or "groomed" You have to be tedious.

Single mother here and I see no lies in this statement. Yes, it steps on toes but it is a conversation that needs to be constant.

@@yoso5934 nah. That's nothing but denial and deflection.

@@yoso5934 😂😂😂try harder sis

Truth.

I felt that for them.

So true!!!

💯

Exactly

Later: "I want a high value man. But I don't need him to pay my bills or for my two boys." ORLY? In that case why do you want a high-value man and not just "a" man?

It can happen where your step children love and respect you for life, but having gone through it as a step child. it’s got to be like 1 out of 200 times that happens. And the ages of the children have to be in a certain range. So many factors have to fall in line. I would not recommend it to anyone. I also think the fact that so many men are willing to become step fathers. Allow women to divorce the original father in search of a better man. If no men were willing to be step fathers, women would not be so quick to get rid of the father and try to replace him with a stepfather.

The community is about relationships and relating.

The best way to do it

Right and people say he’s mean or rude which he isn’t most of the time.

@Cedrick Carson facts

@Lews Therin 💯

Tell me about it I’m 28 & to find a woman my age 26-30 without kids is like tryna find the tooth fairy impossible. I have to date 20-22 which is sad imo. It’s slowly spreading across other communities, white women are slowly catching up to black women with being single mothers upwards of 55%.

“I just don’t get it” well that’s the problem with most men. Stop trying to figure it out. We as black men love playing the rescuer. News fellas it does not work. Hope can not heal trauma. Your choices should never be made based on sympathy. If she does not cut it, you cut her.

@RKELLYSCOCO news flash, you are biologically different than men. Did you hear how all the callers say "I FEEL" or "I DON'T FEEL?" That is because you women feel the world, you're emotional and aren't equipped for certain things just as men are supposed to think and use LOGIC to create and shape our world. Most of the women leave their ex-husbands or baby fathers. You heard that on all of these calls. Y'all feel you can do better but you'll only get hard dick and bubble gum. Stay with that dude that's dealing with your crazy ass or ride dicks the rest of your life. I know you'll choose the later.

This is what we've become bro!

🗣💯

Fuckin Right

Men. Grow some balls. Stay employed. And be a masculine lead in your home. Marriage and family is more than an idea. It requires $$$ and a lot of work. Stop being so soft.

I agree I was kinda embarrassed to be a black women and listen to the calls. If I were a man I would run 🏃🏿‍♀️ for the hills.

@@prettylifeprettywife7171 The men don't need to run for the hills. It's simple ... If he wants to start and keep a family, he should be a competent, masculine protector and provider. It is not in a woman's nature to run the whole house. She should never be the Boss. And, it is not in a man's nature to be okay with her running the show. He will eventually come to resent her high level of masculinity and he will tire of her assertive nature.

I concur and I'm a woman. This s*it was angering! 😠 I know I am working on the betterment of myself but damn!

😂😂

As a woman deep sad 😢 that means she didn’t have no goals for herself

They don't teach any of this in the school system in the USA and apparently not in the home or churches.

It’s because the parents is not doing anything !!

I just said this a couple weeks ago

@@lele3822 not the schools job. It’s the parents job.

💯

sounds about right.

Cliff Jung ill sure does

Yes u can GET any man off the streets based off your looks but can u KEEP that man. Once we get what we want u have to have other qualities about yourself that’ll make that man wanna stay

and when they're called for their flaws they don't understand . they giggle and feel validated.

Yea and as far as looks a lot of them are delusional. That’s why Mr. Samuels told the one caller to get off of social media. These thirsty dudes on IG gas up their heads. Got these 4s thinking they’re 9s.

Bro, you're *killing* me with that Rush Hour pfp lmfao!

@@ShadowDancer_ it's easy, you just flip it open, then flip it closed. 😂

@@RollTideDe12 🤣

@@RollTideDe12 Now Mr Rice a Roni. 😂😂😂

Destroyed your life ?? Dramatic much smdh

Well there are still countries where women don't have rights.

Those countries are killing more women than dreams.

Lee Smith don’t tell that that Ppl don’t care jk

@Mario Pinas so is their a great deal "secrecy" concerning homosexuality?????

@Mario Pinas the UK use to be like that.

😂😂😂😂😂😂 that killed me

I'm so sorry for you and your children.

I’m so sorry for your losses and your children’s losses. You will find love again; you will be a good wife again 🙏🏾

G Nova ✊🏾

Yes sir say it again!!!

No lies here

doesn't matter, she might respect you in the beginning, but if you don't jump over her hurdles, through her hoops, or she doesn't like when she's told "NO" when she actually needs to hear "NO". If she doesn't get her way, she loses that respect, because she feels its your job to make her happy. And if you can't keep her happy, you get the Jada Pinkett Smith "Entanglement" scenario. In a relationship, with or without children, Good luck, Fellas.........

@@jugguknoxxunorthodox2365 thats what the vetting process is for. A woman can't hide who she is anymore than 6 months to year. What ever she's hiding will slip out by than . Our job is to see it and move on

Yes!

Proverbs 31 a real woman of God

Please don't try to use the scripture to tear down single mom or to push this mess! We've all layed on our backs before getting married, but some got pregnant and decided to keep their child without ABORTION ( Though shalt not kill)! Some of you who got away with getting pregnant or with murder wanna now call out scripture. Get outta here!

@Kamar G I know! And I'm talking to him!

@Kamar G But some of us weren't as you say "Ho's"! A lot of us were actually in a relationship! Especially a lot of us only with one child! So c'mon let's think about this! Kevin is going to be a single lonely man for the rest of his life! Most high-valued women are single moms and he maybe missing out on the best thing coming, but because of him being judgemental... he's going to always host these low budget KZfaq session as a lonely man while half of these young men follow him. Never take advice from a single man. Just my advice. Take advice from a God Fearing married man.

Babygirl just because you may have a child that doesn’t mean you can’t have standards and have a quality man. I personally know women with kids and have quality men. The secret is to be open minded to all your options. With these women that I personally know helped me find my partner. Good luck.❤

​@kameralkutie5594 there is no hope for her who are you kidding?? Lol women are so funny, just support other women's fuc--ery, they can do no wrong. Single mothers are trash as far as im concerned and only good for casual segs

@@kameralkutie5594 women like to pamper women so that they can be a non threat to you. lol

i am in a marriage where i made the most money, there were years that my husband did not work ,chasing his dream,,the real reason that i stayed married was because he was a very good father, was a good baby daddy, loved his children, loved me, and was not an abuser.,never gave me reason to believe that he ever cheated,,and did not take advantage of me..we are 30 years strong!!! I am retired,,and he is still working as a professional truck driver.I pray that he stops soon...

I don't know if that's a horror story or comedy sketch.

@@ytcensorship8180Fuk it !!!!! We in the twilight zone 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

Unbelievable

You'll be surprised how many are like that out there doing this same type of shit.

This is not shocking. The wife wanted to put the side chick in her position of being cheated on. Usually never works.

I don't know your family. But have u thought, maybe, just maybe some of these females just picked men that was POS. It's amazing to me. There are a lot of men trashing black women on this platform but 95% of these black men are POS. Men out number women so many who think they are perfect or HVM are far from it. They are making and leaving women with babies.

@Q Lock. True women should make better choices. But reading this, it appears that no one think men is culpable. All of these so-called men, need to look in the mirror. Lots of them are POS and teaching the young heads to be POS, directly or indirectly. They are making babies and leaving these kids with women they feel is trash. If they were any better they wouldn't be there to make these babies. Ok, now the kid is here these men don't feel it's necessary to raise their kids? The point I'm making is kids have to parents so there's enough blame to go around. If the mother is a POS, why the father is not doing better.

Same my g

Amadeus360. Lies and garbage it's obvious you don't know me. You are probably one of those raggedy jokers bringing bare minimum and mad cause smart women are NOT accepting it. Uneducated? Look at your own post, dude.

Amadeus360. You said I need to go clean my house. I am going to clean my house when I put your raggedy behind on the street, if u don't pay my rent.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

You say bill payer... but what kind of husband and man were you genuinely? You can’t just be a bill payer and expect a woman to stay. Did you use that status as the bill payer to mistreat her? People with Bill payer mentality feel that since they paying they hold all power!

@@heybubsportzdad1960 Right, there is more to the story. In actuality most divorces are mutual lots of husbands tell the women to go file. So when the stats come out it looks like it is disproportionately women. I do believe that there is a percentage of women who get divorced for nonsensical reasons. But most divorces are from infidelity, abuse, addiction, and lack of maturity.

@@heybubsportzdad1960 Do you know how significant paying all the bills is though?

@@mrs.wright7629 Then not enough information was gathered about the person prior to marriage.

@@thrilla72 That is why I said somethings are missing from the story. Adults who live on their own are already paying all the bills, only difference is the standard of the lifestyle and the addition of children.

she was looking for a way out a long time ago. She tried to leave while she was still young enough to find someone else #fail

That's exactly what happened

@Deep Mind X she wanted a way out for a long time, the reality of dating an old guy set in. She tried to leave while she was "young enough" to find someone else, but little did she know... Too late 😆

I don’t think so , I think that she was just being selfish

I’m pretty sure she said he was abusive! Then there’s that...

Facts cus most them pander to women feeding into their need for a rich men but abandon the need of the common man as if they were never common this makes me think of making a show devoted to the common man cus most shows only view a black man as valuable only if he's rich but common women are viewed valuable all the time they need to accept reality and love the common man every other races of women can love a common man it's sad

@@So_Cato A mature self respecting guy that has options would NOT want a single mother, you can spin it however you like, it's the truth. The only type of guys that choose to be with single mothers are guys with NO OPTIONS.

Especially love the aging of this comment after cheating scandal derrick jaxson did

This comment aged very well!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@@flacohernandez4380 km

😂😂😂😂😂

So you can only be intelligent if you're a man? You can only be financially independent if you're a man?

@@sugarfreegum123 i think he meant that, shes' describing what women want from a man, and offer a man to a man.

@@sugarfreegum123 he said she didn't describe herself as feminine, beautiful, inspirational, caring, loving... you have to put it into context

@@DizzKoMane she did say she was the man she was looking for. She's not nurturing and she sounded aggressive

@@sugarfreegum123 - It's amazing how they read the wrong shit into things.

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😹😹🤣😅😅😭😭😁😁😂😂😂😂😂😂😀😀😀😀😊😊

😂🤭 goodbye

Lmfaooooo

That's because they're up against the biggest beast in the game. Nobody ever talks to them like a real strong man like Mr. Samuels does.

Very true

@@mr.blademonktravels1880 Not a strong man at all. A bitter divorcee ... I know you place high value on his every word, but please try to be your own man.

@@lisalooselips1242 so why are you here to hear a bitter divorcee lol.

@@zoerpm6493 Because it is entertaining and funny. The double standards are also hilarious like the MGTOW community. Where are the MGTOW going ... to other men? Riiiight .... Get off of his nuts sack. LOL!

Are you referring to reproduction as a mistake?

@@sicariiavantgarde1873 No. Being careless enough to reproduce with a wrong man or the inability to use the right contraception's. NEVER bring a child into this world with a man you don't know like the back of the hand. If your dumb enough to make such a mistake, you don't show you are grown by not putting your child first and deciding to date before your child is mature enough to deal with it.

Unfortunately some mistakes you will suffer for life. Children are one of them

Abuse isn’t something to laugh at wtf

@@whatever7588 Prove it. No proof then it's just talk

@@whatever7588 just because they say it doesn't mean it's true. We need proof. Or did they complain to much and there husbands put the foot down and told them to grow up. And they didn't like it

I understand this.... but it seems like the world doesn’t value her when she does have a kid.

@anna Jean I was thinking the same. I just wish men and women were better to each other. For women it’s damn if you do and damn if you don’t. It’s not good to be a single mother, but I’ve seen women in their 50s who held out for the husband who never came and they wish they’d at least had children because now they have neither.

She still don't care.

She 100% doesn’t get it.

Real $hit! Opportunistic like a mufu...

Entitlement

She understands she just doesn't give a f#@k

If it was so strict it would be private.

That should be the name of the show: CONVERSATION IN THE COLOSSEUM (CIC). 💯

@@JoshBrezzy yes! 😄💯

Right, I'm taking notes.

No, he’s manipulative and gaslighting the women. They cannot say anything back or debate him because he will mute or hang up on them the moment they disagree. He’s using his platform to judge women and take out his issues with women on women for free bc they call in.

True, exceptions don’t change the rule. Lol

@@AB-qv9ku vetting men is the key and patience. It sounds like you're in a good position financially and have a good head on your shoulders and you did make the right decision to not go back to those 2 males. I don't know where you are, or what the sophisticated social scene is like to mingle, i would just suggest to continue to put yourself into positive social interactions and do hobbies that reflect your interest to draw the best options to you. You may even want to consider a consultation from Mr.Samuels too, because he can give you a balanced male perspective and his group the mix sounds promising. The people are vetted by him personally and they're all black. Whatever you choose, be sure your efforts match the same or more energy than you put in for your career because your future is worth it. Stay feminine and don't worry, vetting people is a skill that sometimes takes us through much trial and error.

@@AB-qv9ku It sounds like your ability to pick a mate is on point. E.g. not taking those two mem back. Unsolicited advice from me: If you know a HVM or someone who represents the type of husband you want learn from him. Pick his brain. Even better, if he's married pick his WIFES brain. HVM tend to surround themselves with like minded people. If you are all that you say you are it will happen but be intentional about it. Actively stop HVBM (including married HVBM) and ask them where they congregate. Maintain your femininity while taking a calm assertive approach to dating. Never lead with your resumé. Men understand they have to compete with men. No man wants to compete with women. Especially HIS woman. Too many high value women think Brad, Lee, Ahmed or Enrique are the answer when really you just haven't met Keith yet. (I hope you get the B.L.A.K.E. reference) The key to finding BM is... asking BM. BM must do better. BW must actively seek out BM and vice versa. Black dating = black marriage = black family = black wealth building = a POSITIVE black generational cycle. Other cultures already know this. Stay strong sis. I'm rooting for you.

@@AB-qv9ku You said a lot, very detailed and it sounded like you were venting a little, but thats cool too. As with your two ex's, men can be immature and flaky. The one thing about High Value Men, and generally all adult minded men is that they need to be NEEDED and to have an essential role in the lives of his women, its just part of our natural programming. If he can't do anything for you then he cant be with you! Remember what Kevin says, "A man does not look to a woman for her education, money, status. He looks for women as it pertains to her beauty, softness, femininity, nurturing, and motherhood potential". For "some" men they will go where their needed even if its a Pain in the Ass situation. Also, seek out male and female family & friends that "know you well" to give you a blunt assessment about your femininity, dating, choices of men etc..basically how they see you. At times we may look at our own selves and think you are doing everything right. When it comes to Kevin Samuels he is a good start/source of direction but he is not always 100% accurate. Also in "my opinion" Black women seem to lower the bar for other races of men, and they struggle with maintaining the inner Black women under a white men authority. As you matriculate through Law School make sure you make connections with these black men because you will have more in common with them and you all with climb the success ladder together.

@@AB-qv9ku come my way lol! I'm 28 in my last years of medical school. It's hard finding a high value women these days

@Lori Joy Fine Art Channel the National Standard it's not but when it comes to black men we have the highest tolerance is because of our Geographic evolution. On another note you're going to have men that have all types of preference. If we were all the same the same thing would kill us all

@@colbalt95 im glad we're not all the same unfortunately some people don't advocate to accept everyone's differences. They want a mirror of themselves when they date.

That's was God's grace upon your life to.get a man to.marry you at that age,hope u acknowledge.God's grace.hope you stay married.happy.for you!!!

All that running will keep you thirsty. Just saying. Lol 🤣 here you go 🚿.

Kesha M which is why I’m confused as to why the women at the finish line want to drink all the water.🤣

Bro I can’t stop watching

Baby yeeen lien

That is one reason guys like Angryman, Obsidian, Mr Fantastic want to destroy the welfare state and vote d for Donald Trump

Its called leaving your husband and marrying the government.

That last child was probably someone elses. That would exain why she was hesitant to tell what happened

Explain

FACTS SISTER

As single black man with no kids i agree with you sis

“whole lot of black men who are baby daddies” wow thanks for that riveting information. lmao we all know most black men are baby daddies

You are not equal to the worth of any man Jasmine.

@@PainoftheAncestors Meaning.......

@Q Lock big facts

WHAT HAVE MANY BLACK WOMEN GROWN UP WITH ? NO FATHER FIGURE TO GIVE THEM ADVICE,NO MOTHERS WHO WERE EVER WIVES TO MEN, TO LET THEM SEE AND KNOW HOW TO THREAT A MAN WITH RESPECT,,,,,SO FOLKS THERE YOU HAVE IT, AND MANY OF THESE MEN COMMENTING HAD NO FATHERS ALSO,,,SO SHOW A BIT OF COMPASSION FOR THE OBVIOUS DYSFUNCTIONALITY. !!! AND DISCONNECTION,,,,