Why Compatibility in a Relationship is Not About Sameness

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Why Compatibility in a Relationship is Not About Sameness. Most people think "sameness" in a relationship is good because that means you're automatically compatible with your partner. But that is not always the case! Watch this video to find out more.
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@LEVIAHAN 2 жыл бұрын

For me, compatible emotional intelligence is VERY important.

@beautyonabarnbudget 2 жыл бұрын

As it should be

@jesse_campbell 2 жыл бұрын

Same values, same goals, different personalities, different emotional needs (but good at meeting each other's needs) is a recipe for compatibility I encountered a few years ago.

@banziimavuso9974 Жыл бұрын

Sounds like a great match. Your strengths and weaknesses match each other. It becomes hell when values, goals and attachment styles are wayyyy different while one party refuses to meet the other person's needs.

@jelenaristic8398 2 жыл бұрын

Many times in my life I was asking myself: Oh why can't I find a person that is like me - empathetic, people pleaser, "nice person" who does everything for others and would put me before him, someone who will care about my feelings and tell me pretty things, maybe lie a bit so I can feel better about myself. And you know what I got? A man that is brutally honest, often says: I love myself so much, I look so good, who knows he's good looking, prioritising himself, social butterfly, loved by everyone. And I got it. I got that the incompatibility I thought existed is actually exactly what I needed. I'm learning so much from him and he's my greatest teacher, after Teal Swan. He helped me to define my boundaries, express myself better, be honest, exit the victim mode and love myself more. 😄🥰

@laurenlockridge5583 2 жыл бұрын

Love this 🙂

@leahflower9924 2 жыл бұрын

Oh I thought you were complaining about the guy but I see him in your photo I had to read the comment more than once, lol as an introvert and always worried what others thought I was impressed by extroverted I don't care what people think people

@RitaLynn444 2 жыл бұрын

Nice!

@bethnorris1361 2 жыл бұрын

Hopefully, we people pleasers will move toward taking care of ourselves first.. I often think of the steward/ess during preflight instructing us to put the oxygen mask on ourselves before we put the mask on those in our care. Be blessed 🙏

@RitaLynn444 2 жыл бұрын

Amen Beth! 💯

@cameronmcfarrin4587 3 ай бұрын

I'm an outspoken, explicit, opinionated and talkative person. I went out with a woman who was also very talkative and she talked for 3 hours straight on the date! Even though we were similar, I knew we were not compatible. That was the worst date I ever went on.

@cchangandco 2 жыл бұрын

1000%! My girlfriends and I are type-A entrepreneurial visionary types. We all have husbands that are grounded and patient - opposite of us, because it is compatible! I’ve dated people who are too much like me and it was not compatible for day to day life. It may sound unromantic, but when choosing a life partner, there are functional compatibility things that must be considered. Just as you may love some of your friends but would NEVER travel with them, when choosing for long term, you must consider who you want to spend everyday life with. The traits may be different from someone you would have a fling with. 🙂

@whitebirchtarot 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely. What do you do though when you marry someone you’re not attracted to and they’re attracted to you? That’s what happened with me and my husband and now that he has passed away, I feel so guilty. He deserved someone who loved him in that way, but I just didn’t. But I loved him so much that I would have done anything for him. I took care of him when he was suffering from Lewy body dementia even though he became violent and hit me many times. Previously he was a very gentle man and would’ve died before hitting anyone, especially a woman. Romantic love is so confusing to me. I think it always will be and I’m in my 60s.

@BlackPearlMona369 2 жыл бұрын

"it is the transactional element in the relationship that provides the gravitational force in the relationship and it gives a reason why two people needs to be in each other's life" Teal Swan

@dancerlella 2 жыл бұрын

couldn't this so easily contribute to codependency though? "needing" your partner to fulfill some needs, and them "needing" you to fulfill some needs?

@RhonyHart 2 жыл бұрын

@@dancerlella its not a need. You are paying them they are paying you like a job. I pay my partner with dinner because he woke up early to take me to the doctor. Transactional but helps both people.

@itskelvinkkc 2 жыл бұрын

Awesome! Completely agree! Sometimes being the SAME is the worst!

@Mr.CreamCheese69 2 жыл бұрын

imo the most fascinating relationships come from 2 people being entirely different, but are both totally open, and both find each others view points deeply fascinating.

@sharpiesarecool814 2 жыл бұрын

yes!!

@BlackPearlMona369 2 жыл бұрын

If you don't recognize how sameness can lead to incompatibility, then you might end up in a relationship where you have nothing to give to the other person and he have nothing to give to you... Well said Teal Swan❤️💕...

@corporaterobotslave400 2 жыл бұрын

Going through exactly this while trying to find the right musicians to fit my new band. So far I found a bassist who is committed to play my songs, and a drum machine I can order around (lol). I was working with a friend guitarist but his musical influences and mine were galaxies apart; we tried to make it work, but failed miserably. With some musicians you feel the "click" immediately, while others never even come close to "getting it". Peace.

@FrancisTrach 2 жыл бұрын

Often times I've found life will bring us people that usually do NOT have the same preferences as us on the external level , to challenge our capacity to unconditionally love the other even though we both have different preferences. Of course this isn't always the case, but a lot of the times it is , and I find that there are a lot lessons to be learned to increase our capacity to hold the frequency of unconditional love when someone like this comes into our life. Great video Teal ! Thanks for being one of the people that inspires me to post videos every single day . Much Love 🙏

@potapotapotapotapotapota 2 жыл бұрын

Yes I agree the most important compatiblity you can share with someone is to love each other unconditionally and stay committed despite the differences that may come about. I mean, if you followed Teal's advice, you would be left with pretty much no one because no one is perfectly compatible with you. But plenty of people still know how to commit.

@RitaLynn444 2 жыл бұрын

This!!🙏

@carly582 2 жыл бұрын

@@RitaLynn444 yeah I love her videos but was starting to think damn it's going to be impossible to find the perfect person and wondering should I dump my partner (and father of my child) because we aren't 100% compatible?

@metavinci427 2 жыл бұрын

It’s sort of the opposite of sameness. I see my wife and I as puzzle pieces. What is similar is our general treatment of humanity and nature is rooted in respect that manifests as Kindness and generosity (time not money), Those two things are the cornerstone of any relationships growth.

@TealSwanOfficial 2 жыл бұрын

Incase You'd Rather Read About It Instead: tealswan.com/resources/articles/compatibility-does-not-equal-sameness-r495/

@ys-kv3ug 2 жыл бұрын

Love you teal ❤️ you’ve helped me so much

@beautyonabarnbudget 2 жыл бұрын

You also have to remember that you don't stay the same throughout your lifetime. Someone who loves to clean but hates to cook, can start cooking and luv it! This is just an example. Obviously if your partner grew to love ❤ cooking it's probably not going to break up the relationship. But, someone who was content to stay home with the kiddos and then became career driven again-that might cause issues. Or someone who was nice and then became an asshole-yeah that's gonna be a problem lol

@LBI-oe7dj 2 жыл бұрын

This sameness relationships are really good for growth tho. Excelent for teacher - student relationships, for learning. Its like working together shoulder to shoulder rather than face to face(like in a compatible one). Just like 2 magnets. Meeting someone like you, who makes arguments like you make will cause conflict and growth but 2 people like this cant live together. Also compatibilty is really good but it can cause so much validation that it can even lead to stagnation ... i think both kinds of relationships are important

@AmyFerguson 2 жыл бұрын

I feel this. A person that’s similar to you can really see you and know how to push you farther. They can see what you’re capable of. Everyone else might just think you’re good enough. They go down similar thought patterns so it’s interesting to you. But no one is exactly the same so it’s like having two brains.

@adeviyat 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you again Teal for this strong and important issue..totally agree on the symbiotic aspect..I took your advice on simplyfying life in 2022, it really slowed me down....feeling so much better in lowering my demands..and now this too..accepting not being the same as my husband and yet having this stability our differences give on all levels...you are one of the greatest teachers in all of your topics...many thanks from Belgium 🙏🙏❤❤❤

@adeviyat 2 жыл бұрын

@JSMI 2 жыл бұрын

Funny , I read an article today on how opposites don't attract anymore but this video confirms to me that it aint all black or white. Compatibility is not the same nor is opposites , I believe it's the combination of both similarities and differences.

@aretha6055 2 жыл бұрын

Can you post it here? I'm curious

@silver2zilver 2 жыл бұрын

I've heard all sides and I have seen every reality people try to make work but only a few are life-term successful and meaningful. Teal is good at pandering. I mean, we're listening to a woman who has never been in a real relationship for gods sake what reality could she possibly speak except her own lack there of? Hmm .. Think I just realized something...

@chichishi3516 2 жыл бұрын

There should be growth and room for personal development where only "oppositeness" can provide while having the same core values, principles and empathy towards each other which "sameness" can provide. I believe this is what comprise a healthy relationship.

@MarigoldSundays 2 жыл бұрын

There can be unhealthy compatibility, too. If you like to intimidate, you’re compatible with those easily intimidated. If you like to shame, you’re compatible with people who have an overactive conscience, etc…

@petersbayley 2 жыл бұрын

The definition of a Sadist is someone who is very, very kind - to a masochist :-)

@goldysalomon 2 жыл бұрын

i was always confused about this topic, thanks for bringing light to it 🌺

@Helen-jw6yb 2 жыл бұрын

You've beautifully put into words a concept I was trying to explain ti myself about my ex...he offered to cook, make gifts look pretty etc but I am capable of doing those things myself, what i needed was a Handyman type who coyld do the DIY I wasn't good at! Ironically my new partner couldn't cook etc...so I taught him, which did make me feel a little vulnerable in a way...oh & he cant do DIY either....msybe We're doomed!!😂 Thanks Teal as ever & love from England 😊

@theskyizblue2day431 2 жыл бұрын

So you dumped him because reasons but then ended up with the same type of guy?

@Helen-jw6yb 2 жыл бұрын

@@theskyizblue2day431 There were more reasons why I dumped him of course, we weren't good for each other ...but yes, the present guy has worse DIY skills than me lol!! 😂 However we are more compatible in other ways & are learning together & I think despite being opposites in many way, compliment each other well as Teal mentiins here. We are at least having a laugh & fun...an important element of a relationship whilst each growing as individuals by being with each other....for now at least...but who knows re the long term, hopefully it'll work out!😊If I'm being brutally honest, I feel he's learning more from me than the other way round but he's loving & kind ....something that my life lacked in childhood ...so you see where this is going....😊

@beautyonabarnbudget 2 жыл бұрын

@Pinned Teal Swan.. why is there a phone # listed 🤔?

@justinedse3314 2 жыл бұрын

@@Helen-jw6yb Wow! This is an incredibly shallow way of looking at people!

@katrin6388 2 жыл бұрын

i honestly fell for this for a very long time. i thought that i need someone very identical to me to be happy. someone that looks a certain way, has certain beliefs and so on. but these people always turned out to be problematic. so now i´ll learn to not judge based on appearances anymore. so i feel like when people say "opposites attract" they mean, stuff like likes and dislikes, personality and so on, but people attract similar when it comes to the emotions and level of self esteem.

@dann5480 2 жыл бұрын

Teal, your voice and face calms me to the deepest level of my existence.

@VictoriaWonders 2 жыл бұрын

most people are excited about someone, I guess not everyone experiences that same passion, everything is a transaction to they of which they have no understanding of, like for example they dont understand social and spiritual caring aspects they only think in career ladder, possession and monetary wise.

@VictoriaWonders 2 жыл бұрын

then there are upbringing conflicts from our childhoods and we choose partners who reflect a parent because it is that safe, when in reality there is a LOT of shadowwork wich most people cant understand and live thorug

@ys-kv3ug 2 жыл бұрын

I was so happy when you posted this because I noticed we were on KZfaq at the same time!

@gonzalez6701 2 жыл бұрын

I love you Teal! You are an inspirational, strong, wise woman! Wish you the best ❤️❤️❤️

@adriel8843 2 жыл бұрын

This was such a good video, I'm loving the concept of compatibility in relationships. It is making relationships alot more intentional and especially conscious which I absolutely adore. It gives a sense of empowerment and awareness in how we create our lives 💞💞🥰

@LisahTali 2 жыл бұрын

I tell folks, Find a person who has strengths where you have weaknesses, and have weaknesses where you have strengths. This is very akin to puzzle piece

@Dahmer_Jeff 2 жыл бұрын

Priority is physical attraction and chemistry. If those two don't exist then no need to bother with compatibility, unless it's a friend you are seeking and not a romantic engagement. But I'm sure we didn't click here to know about friendship...

@minalpuntambekar1239 2 жыл бұрын

@@Dahmer_Jeff ❤️❤️

@arbividz 2 жыл бұрын

WE LOVE YOU TEAL ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@cm-yu6gu 2 жыл бұрын

Ooh what a great topic I feel like I could listen to 3 more hours about incompatibility and compatibility and sameness

@johnholme783 2 жыл бұрын

Teal swan, plumbing the depths of the human psyche. Yes, differences can enhance a person’s life considerably! I used to have a girlfriend who was much more outgoing than me; this brought me out of my shell and improved my life considerably!

@michaellakyjonkova8495 2 жыл бұрын

Such a powerful content! Thank you for sharing!

@digitalbrand2930 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Teal!

@dsTinyCat780 2 жыл бұрын

Why oh why is she so awesome!!! Thank you, Teal!

@tropicaoptica 2 жыл бұрын

Teal I love these relationship videos you are doing lately… we need to be complimentary couples not competing

@1962Andre 2 жыл бұрын

I really enjoyed watching this video, and for sure opened an eye for me. Even though I am not in relationship, for sure this is something to think off when I encounter a possible partner.

@beccabean2207 2 жыл бұрын

I found that in trying to have a conversation on how we are compatible vs incompatible solidified how we are not compatible. It only lead to anger and his misinterpretation on what I was trying to say. This conversation really needs to happen before you move in together, before you have a child and before you run a business together, cuz now its a hella harder ...

@catherineschwef1632 11 ай бұрын

So damn profound ! I’m wiser forever after listening to this Teal 🙌

@debrahunter3113 2 жыл бұрын

thank you again every thing you say is helping me think some of your words are way over my head but i am learning so much thank you

@scribeiro1985 2 жыл бұрын

Amazing message. Thank you

@margaretcullagh5954 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the clarity, Teal 🙏🏻

@margaretcullagh5954 2 жыл бұрын

@Pinned Teal Swan.. Hi...it seems I’m again ‘looking for clarity!’ ...what do you mean ‘beneficial knowledge’ ... I’m also not sure what the number sequence means.

@anthonylalev4583 2 жыл бұрын

Opposites attract and opposites attack. And the learning begins

@leahflower9924 2 жыл бұрын

The thing is 2 people don't necessarily end up being the same or the opposite what about middle ground what about having stuff in common and some differences

@ExistentialJeny 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, but opposites can also be compatible: consider someone likes to give, someone likes to receive. - opposites yet compatible. It likely works the other way in other areas too. It's different for everyone what these things may be. It's all about awareness. Yes learning for sure! Always learning 😅

@anthonylalev4583 2 жыл бұрын

@@leahflower9924 everyone has a different path and to experience different things for different reasons as in two puzzle pieces may fit but they are not the same. I acknowledge what you say God Bless

@Ohkeh640 2 жыл бұрын

Opposites attack is not good lol

@argeniaparkinson3891 Ай бұрын

Oooh brilliantly said!

@nnglnd 4 ай бұрын

Youve made some good points. Thank you

@ISLANDHARMONYSTJ 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent video. Thank you ❤️🙏❤️

@marya6330 2 жыл бұрын

This was so Amazing ! ❤💞💫

@Studio-pg4sq 2 жыл бұрын

Teal - Thanks for exposing the truth about relationships.

@janinweinkauf5900 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for every video! I love you Teal

@user-rg4nr6yg8l 2 жыл бұрын

◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟʏɴɴ ɢʀᴀʏ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs 𝚃ᵉ𝚇ţ𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ±𝟏𝟐𝟏𝟎𝟓𝟕𝟎𝟐𝟖𝟐𝟏 ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ.....

@taltalit2 2 жыл бұрын

Great one with all. Great topic

@maricelaelizondo2482 2 жыл бұрын

This was totally mind blowing and of course it makes total sense. Thank you very much Lee fourth amount successful and symbiotic relationship

@philly111 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video, much appreciated!

@user-rg4nr6yg8l 2 жыл бұрын

◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟʏɴɴ ɢʀᴀʏ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs 𝚃ᵉ𝚇ţ𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ±𝟏𝟐𝟏𝟎𝟓𝟕𝟎𝟐𝟖𝟐𝟏 ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ..

@savanna.phoenix Жыл бұрын

Your videos are healing, thank you❤️

@kamalsarraj-andaloussi5593 2 жыл бұрын

That Symbiotic element really hit home, I found myself a whole for two life script until the eyebrow risen from another recall me to continue focusing till the very end of the lesson, I do as a matter of fact like stepping deep in the shoes of the affectionate role , the slow down parachute both vertically and horizontally ? Vertical quarter mile speed racer, horizontal ? I got U no matter what even if one chute lands us both on our feet touching ground safety preferably on a Saturday or Sunday.

@mayahmorgenstern6063 2 жыл бұрын

That was simple basic and usefull. It's funny your can brilliant, you can be simple corresponding to my actual sentimental immaturity. Thanks Teal Thanks

@cassiestevens8382 2 жыл бұрын

Awesome & amazing. Thanks.💜🌹

@D-A-N- 9 ай бұрын

no one is going to be fully compatible . we have to compromise to make it work.

@stanteacher943 2 жыл бұрын

Teal, could you please make a video on relationships/how to find one? I've watched your Soulmate video 100 times since it came out years ago and still single lol. Love your frequency shirts, I've got the self-love one 😍

@rolandr9131 2 жыл бұрын

Loved it!

@bernardbujard9944 2 жыл бұрын

Best explanation of compatibility I've ever heard.

@user-rg4nr6yg8l 2 жыл бұрын

@ingridblohm-hyde805 2 жыл бұрын

This was really brilliant - thank you

@user-rg4nr6yg8l 2 жыл бұрын

@lakotasue 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! 🙏🏽

@martinaunterreiter8945 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏽💫

@kpec3 2 жыл бұрын

Finally somebody understands this!

@allysinlombard Ай бұрын

Lydia sounds like a good fit for me…just putting it out there energetically

@lucymadelengregg4482 2 жыл бұрын

She sais what I think all the time. AGAIN 100% agree.

@berniv7375 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the video.🙂

@user-rg4nr6yg8l 2 жыл бұрын

◾ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴍᴇɴᴛɪɴɢ, ᴍᴀᴋᴇ ᴀ ɴᴏᴛᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟʏɴɴ ɢʀᴀʏ ʀᴇɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ ʙᴛᴄ/ᴇᴛʜ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs 𝚃ᵉ𝚇ţ𝄍𝑾𝒉𝔮τ𝑠𝑨𝑝𝑝 ±𝟏𝟐𝟏𝟎𝟓𝟕𝟎𝟐𝟖𝟐𝟏 ʟᴇᴛ ʜɪᴍ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪ ʀᴇғᴇʀʀᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ....

@brunolima8506 2 жыл бұрын

Have found my love for that mind, again in this video, your eyes are sublime, and the tune of your voice delightful, it feels good to sync.

@user-rg4nr6yg8l 2 жыл бұрын

@markb9347 2 жыл бұрын

Well articulated.

@hesperianscholar1481 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you wise teacher. Beannachtaí na Féile Pádraig~ ♧

@darthfiende1 2 жыл бұрын

This was helpful.

@nf7334 2 жыл бұрын

good timing

@HeartSpaceMagic 2 жыл бұрын

Lovely video💞🌟

@belove2091 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏😊❤️

@Ohkeh640 2 жыл бұрын

When you’re too different you may not love the same or understand one another. Not saying you have to be the same. But compromise understanding and learning how to talk and overcome conflicts etc

@carlykit2975 2 жыл бұрын

This is so interesting. 😳

@whitebirchtarot 2 жыл бұрын

Oh my God, this is so funny! My husband passed away recently and he was the love of my life, but for some reason I’m so lonely that I keep thinking of an ex-boyfriend who really wasn’t very nice to me, but to whom I was extremely attracted. I’ve been having the urge to call him even though I know that’s not the right thing for me and I really don’t want to because it hasn’t even been a year yet since my husband passed away and I’m grieving something terrible. I cry every day, but I can’t get this other person out of my mind. When she said to think of that person that you’re so attracted to as the ugliest person you’ve ever seen and then reassess their behavior, that completely changes the way I think of him. He was so self-centered that he never even noticed when he stepped on other people’s feelings. I’m not sure he even knew people had feelings. He was kind to homeless people though. 😊

@daminidalai 2 жыл бұрын

Teal please make another video on parts work with some more for us to know..!!!!!!!!!!

@LuisRomero-bw1jp Жыл бұрын

The binding question I bind you and mote it be ~hecate~ love

@AB-ws4kt 2 жыл бұрын

Hey Teal, would you mind linking the videos you mention in your description? It would make it a lot easier to jump to them rather than searching. (If that’s something you’ve already considered but isn’t something you think is worth the time/energy in your production, I totally get it 😁)

@catherinekittykat 2 жыл бұрын

Perfect!

@zafirorubi8251 2 жыл бұрын

Excelent⭐👏

@joncolunga673 2 жыл бұрын

Basically compatibility means being able to offer something and/or accept something which creates a reaction of joy and satisfaction. Someone else cannot make you happy if you're already able to give what they have to offer to yourself.

@michaelbrookins2720 2 жыл бұрын

Your best friend and oltamet lover that is what we are looking for !!

@GypsyEyes 2 жыл бұрын

teal u genius

@anufdo9554 2 жыл бұрын

I love you 💕 I love you 💕 I love youuuuuuu teallll

@user-rg4nr6yg8l 2 жыл бұрын

@PinkYellowGreen2023 Жыл бұрын

I want to applaud whomever put this video together! If there is conflict, there is no compatibility. Im tired of men that Im incompatible with trying to form intimate connections with me. IT IS A TURN OFF!!!

@mohaameed3609 2 жыл бұрын

Great video and super channel dear beautiful moon good luck dear

@myjohnsonnuranus8053 2 жыл бұрын

yeah I don't think anybody could be the same as Lady Swan

@Tylervrooman 2 жыл бұрын

Oh yeah... difference is important.

@pocketfulofposey 2 жыл бұрын

Well, I’m not attract to someone like me so that’s good. The incompatibilities I come across are I’m a fast mover when I know what I want and he’s a slow mover who takes time to get to know what he wants.

@kamilkarnale3585 2 жыл бұрын

I always thought so !👍👌

@user-rg4nr6yg8l 2 жыл бұрын

@jadaaleeshamindexpert7365 2 жыл бұрын

As a person who came into this world "different" and has knowledge to teach, I would like to know how people like her started out sharing their knowledge. Did she start giving it to people he knew? Like family, friends? Because for me, no one wants to hear it. And it seems like I cant manifest a career in the knowledge if I'm not sharing it. But how do I do that if no one wants it.

@Ohkeh640 2 жыл бұрын

Please talk about how to know if you are compatible

@mariedeloine7734 Жыл бұрын

I think this is what the polarity mean. Too people with too much yang for exemple can never match. For exemple I’m a really sensitive person and my ex was like me really emotional make a lot of drama. And it was really complicated because I needed someone to be stable. To be more rational. For exemple I like to cook I’m a really creative personne si i like really intelligent guy in tech for exemple. I know I can bring him joy and softness. And he can bring me security and stability.

@atama01 2 жыл бұрын

HiTeal ( you’re so pretty - others have said that too when I’ve shared your podcast), do check out the compatibility of people based on their chinese zodiac signs……think there is someting there just because the art is thousands of years old. Cheers Pretty Girl.

@nickbmmj 2 жыл бұрын

thank u

@user-rg4nr6yg8l 2 жыл бұрын

@LeNoir2411 2 жыл бұрын

My best friend of over 10yr is complete opposite of me but we're so attached to each other.. we started out as 'enemies' in middle school , naturally because of how different we are, she's very private and hates friendly people, that's me 😂 while i just don't like her tenseness..but guess what, we slowly warmed up to eachother in highschool, and surprisingly! We just somehow get along, yes we argue a lot, due to her lack of communication and my habit of confrontation.. but along the way, we learn to try to understand eachother and yes, my ego is kinda small, I'm quite shameless and honest, no I'm not putting myself up on pedestal but rather being more self aware than people around me, while she on the other hand, is very loyal and puts so much efforts in something or someone she loves.. so i tend to acknowledge my shortcomings and apologize while she likes showing her efforts by actions so for example she'd cook something for me as an apology.. we're so different and that's what makes our friendship grow, because we can learn something new from eachother thus broaden our perspectives..but the things we have in common is actually we both tend to shove our feelings down ,we both craves for something meaningful but are afraid to lay it all bare, we both tends to wants to be a better person, we both are 'childish but old souls' deeps down so, when things are hard, we'd open up about our feelings spontaneously..

@user-rg4nr6yg8l 2 жыл бұрын

@Helen-jw6yb 2 жыл бұрын

So maybe opposites not only attract but could well be right to stay together!😊