Why Divorce Is So Expensive In The U.S.

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6 ай бұрын

No one gets married expecting to get divorced. But when you get married, are you considering how much a potential divorce might cost you? In 2021 there were nearly 700,000 divorces in the U.S. A simple uncontested divorce can cost thousands of dollars but a contested divorce, could put you out hundreds of thousands of dollars. Watch this video to learn how you can protect yourself.
Chapters:
1:18 Fees
4:01 Aftermath
6:39 Cost of moving on
8:18 Reducing costs
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Why Divorce Is So Expensive In The U.S.

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@Gogoterps 6 ай бұрын

Going through divorce made me realize one thing, I should’ve been a divorce lawyer. No career field has better job security

@genito1 6 ай бұрын

Divorces are expensive in the US because it is not about separating, it's about winning. As long as the other person suffers people would rather impoverish themselves rather than comming to a reasonable agreement.

@jeffmiller9798 6 ай бұрын

Big Facts

@RonnieOP 6 ай бұрын

"It's about winning" pretty much sums up Americans' view on life

@yongchen4158 6 ай бұрын

All about money

@crecasens 6 ай бұрын

@@RonnieOP- exactly it is about the culture!

@Acteaon 5 ай бұрын

Yup!

@hxxyo1 6 ай бұрын

Two steps to avoid personal bankruptcy and ruin your life: 1. Don`t get married. 2. Follow step one.

@davidglad 6 ай бұрын

Don't forget the joke(???) that while behind every successful man there might be a woman, behind every man who's a failure is two women!

@chrisconsorte7893 6 ай бұрын

I was married for six years and my ex wife cheated me, ran up a lot of debt, and tried to stick me with all the debt when she left me for another guy. Fortunately I was able get out of it by filing bankruptcy. I’m not happy I had to file bankruptcy, but it was worth it. Most important, we never had children.

@mazedar_tv 6 ай бұрын

Get married but don’t register

@chillout1109 6 ай бұрын

Or just cohabit. Just don't get married.

@duerf5826 6 ай бұрын

Being married has a lot of financial benefits. Just have both individuals work out the finances early and sign a contract like my parents did where assets are kept separated. My mom owned like half a dozen properties solely on her name until she passed away in 2020 due to heart complications (parents were married for 37 years). Devastating divorces are almost always a result of lack of early planning. Discuss hard things during good times instead of bad times.

@b22chris 6 ай бұрын

The biggest financial decision you will ever make is who you marry.

@bigb63fsu 6 ай бұрын

I got divorced back in 2017; I wouldn’t wish divorce on anyone. That was the most stressful time of my life.

@chrisconsorte7893 6 ай бұрын

I had to go through a divorce too in 2011. It was the most stressful and powerless feeling I ever had to endure. I understand exactly how you feel. I’m so glad I never had children with my ex-wife.

@mazedar_tv 6 ай бұрын

How much it cost😢?

@KAWTELENUH 6 ай бұрын

I'll never forget what My uncle told me "if your on the fence about getting married, don't do it"

@bigb63fsu 6 ай бұрын

@@mazedar_tv I spoke to only 1 lawyer before deciding to represent myself. He quoted me $10,000

@Gogoterps 6 ай бұрын

THIS

@martypoll 6 ай бұрын

I had an uncontested divorce in CA in 2017. No kids. I was retired, she was close to retirement. It cost less than $1,000 which were mostly just document fees. I had legal insurance that covered my lawyer fees. The whole thing, from start to filing, took 5 weeks. I sold everything and moved to Thailand.

@floydphillipsco 6 ай бұрын

You became a Passport Bro! I'm sure you are loving it out there...

@aim-for-greatn3z947 6 ай бұрын

@@floydphillipsco He's not the only one, I'm also a passport bro 😊 I'm in D.R right now while my girlfriend is in school. The last thing I would do is get married in the states ESPECIALLY to an american woman.

@heinousanus9352 6 ай бұрын

Where women can still be imprisoned & Muhrican betas can impersonate alphas.

@DebraJohnson 6 ай бұрын

That’s how most uncontested divorces go. It only costs rich people a lot because they are fighting over assets.

@ameyas7726 6 ай бұрын

Ladyboys are the best!

@busam1578 6 ай бұрын

Marriage is the most important financial decision of your life. Treat it as such

@Donkeyearsa 5 ай бұрын

Yeah, don't do it! Save your self from the trouble it will bring you.

@mack-uv6gn 6 ай бұрын

Hard pass on marriage! Human emotions are dangerous and unpredictable. One day you say I love you and the next day you want half.🤦🏻‍♂️

@glidkomer 6 ай бұрын

Pretty much!

@jer1776 6 ай бұрын

Prenuptial agreements should be mandatory for all new marriages. No more years long courtroom battles between greedy divorce lawyers and clogged up court systems. I'd never marry without one.

@aim-for-greatn3z947 6 ай бұрын

of course at least your smart but you know NO WOMAN will accept that LMFAO!!!

@yongchen4158 6 ай бұрын

Couldn’t agree more prenup security

@Norm475 6 ай бұрын

Better yet, don't get married. After my divorce in 1987, I swore I would NEVER get married again, and I never did. I do have a lady in my life, she is a widow and we have been together for 32 years. She knew from day one I would never remarry.

@sujesh4684 6 ай бұрын

@@Norm475True. I hear more and more people saying "marriage is getting obsolete"

@paulcoleman5512 6 ай бұрын

@@sujesh4684It's not necessarily obsolete. Most young men are avoiding it like the plague because they've seen how the courts treat men. Honestly if the courts were fair to both men and women marriage would still be popular.

@ams-nm6dl 6 ай бұрын

Not getting married is the best solution in this financial hell.

@suspicionofdeceit 6 ай бұрын

Amen

@LaudvekkysGrooveLab 6 ай бұрын

Facts!

@jamaalbarnes5392 6 ай бұрын

The only reason I am married is because my fiancee is overseas and US immigration wants you to marry them to bring them here on a green card. So nerve racking

@ndklskgisiiiyyy5449 6 ай бұрын

absolutely!!

@okok-uc8hi 6 ай бұрын

*marrying wisely

@caddie1a 6 ай бұрын

It’s hard for couples to fight less when lawyers/judges encourage people to fight more so they can get paid.

@Aurora-FX 6 ай бұрын

This comment is so stupid. It’s like saying cops encourage mass shooters to commit these crimes so they can use their weapons, or firefighters encourage people to burn down places so they can have a job. Lawyers and judges don’t encourage people to divorce. It’s the fact this society is not loyal anymore to each other and social media has made it easier for people to ruin their marriages.

@PlaneMechEsq 6 ай бұрын

You would think that high attorney cost would discourage people from fighting. Yet, people voluntarily feed their attorneys more money to fight instead of compromising on a daily basis. There are enough divorces and money flowing around, I doubt lawyers and judges need to encourage more chaos.

@konigstiger3252 6 ай бұрын

@@PlaneMechEsqif they wanted to comprise they won't be getting a divorce 😂

@mokaLARE 6 ай бұрын

@@PlaneMechEsq😂😂😂😂😂

@julieDJTFP 6 ай бұрын

Even better, send people to 'marriage counselors'. Just a recipe for people pointing fingers over who is right and wrong in my experience.

@DUNGEONDRAGON1000 6 ай бұрын

This is why GEN Z and Millennials don't want to get married early compared to prior generations.

@mrxiong2567 6 ай бұрын

They don’t want to get marry at all.

@MM-ty6cu 6 ай бұрын

And they will probably be the generation with the highest STD rates.

@9snaga 6 ай бұрын

I think financial security may play a bigger role in that. Because the laws and costs have been high for a while now. Bigger factor is probably the illusion of choice overload combined with grass is greener syndrome.

@lolalalia4119 6 ай бұрын

@@chiquita683not wanting to get legally married (ie give control of your relationship to the government) is not equivalent to sexual promiscuity.

@blablabarb 6 ай бұрын

It's not the reason! And divorce is not certain. If people work at their marriage and men learn accountability and to stop having affairs at significant rates. Then marriages will work.

@AKT0B0S 6 ай бұрын

Divorce ruins lives and finances. It’s truly a horrible thing in our society.

@IamAWESOME3980 6 ай бұрын

which is why it is expensive so people would reconsider and reconsider seriously before making such decision. it is like the weapons of last resort, like chopping off your legs vs losing it to infection. you would want to try everything else before you chop it off.

@RealGrandFail 6 ай бұрын

Divorce is still better and cheaper than falsely accusing men 😂 and if you benefit from it like most women, the man pays for everything. So it's cheap on your end and you can't refuse a divorce as a man.

@lolalalia4119 6 ай бұрын

@@RealGrandFail did you miss the part of the video where they said on average, divorced men see a 25% rise in finances compared to women that experience a 25% dip? Where on earth did you get the idea that women don't pay for their divorce? And you are absolutely WRONG thinking men are unable to refuse a divorce. In fact, one of the biggest reasons behind how difficult it is for a woman to initiate a divorce is cuz the man does NOT have to agree to it! Thousands of women are forced to stay in abusive relationships specifically because the husband refuses to agree to a divorce. You gotta stop getting legal advice from Andrew Tate

@jerrys9226 6 ай бұрын

@@lolalalia4119 you don’t need a reason or permission to get divorced in a no fault state.

@IamAWESOME3980 6 ай бұрын

@@RealGrandFail only true if man actually has more than the woman in terms of income and assets. it aint always true nowadays, some men are serious bum and losers, they spend more time in prison than with the kids out of wedlock and to support their unwed mothers. then again, those mothers are also fcking stupid for even getting together with such men

@GPanda110 6 ай бұрын

I divorced at 62. My retirement is in the pooper. Pension cut in half, paid off house is gone. I've been frugal all my life, and for what? Marriage is great when it's working, it's when it's not working where all the real problems come.

@PHlophe 6 ай бұрын

Oh Chile..I am so sorry, that is way worse. I empathize, but like truly . But did the money go to the greedy ass lawyers .

@jjaybourne4734 6 ай бұрын

Damn I'm Really sorry to hear man. Hope things improve for you a bit soon.

@Djreactions831 6 ай бұрын

It crazy how they didn’t talk about how it effects men how men losses financially in American most of the time in this video.

@real_exodus 5 ай бұрын

@@Djreactions831 With this platform's Banned Word List being over ten thousand, this comment section is no longer the place to warn men. The youtube comment section red-pilled me in 2009 and I'm forever grateful. The only way to warn men now is via alt-tech.

@Djreactions831 5 ай бұрын

@@real_exodus you have the sauce?

@TC-cd5sm 6 ай бұрын

These days they shouldn't even grant marriage licenses unless there is a section with regards to a prenuptial agreement and/or divorce. But we all know the divorce industry will fight tooth and nail against that.

@allanawanyo4966 5 ай бұрын

Can’t believe this isn’t a thing

@anotherks7297 6 ай бұрын

Census: People aren't getting married as often CNBC: Let's ramp up those numbers

@mari0c0leman 6 ай бұрын

Of course, Ms. Douglas, says it’s not cheaper to keep her. She thrives off of failed marriages.

@jeffmiller9798 6 ай бұрын

I caught that too.....

@vickswishem_3s 6 ай бұрын

My ex revealed her real character 2 years into the marriage. I was able to slide out of the marriage with only have pay child support for my son that I see weekly 3 days a week. I was young with no assets she could steal from me. A year after I divorced her my income increase 20 percent and this year has increased 63 percent from money I was making while married. I was able to reinvent myself and build a stable career that has a bright outlook. Got a new younger girlfriend looks better than my ex and more fit that I advised I’m never going to marry due to the biased family court system and the headache called divorce court.

@PHlophe 6 ай бұрын

Mine henpecked her new bf against me. And made it difficult to see the chile. because i was supposedly toxic to her. which she is allowed to have her opinion. she tried to erase me from my boy's life. we battled it out . my income ain't as it was before the whole debacle but i have plans.

@The-Oneness11 Ай бұрын

What about when your new girlfriend actually does want to get married? Will you be okay with letting her go?

@ashwinbalu 6 ай бұрын

Red pill vitamins makes more sense than marriage 😂

@aznmarine 6 ай бұрын

Ah marriage, the leading cause of divorce…

@Donkeyearsa 5 ай бұрын

LOL!!!!

@baphnie 6 ай бұрын

The perks of marriage make a really small list with all this in mind.

@SuperSaverPlays 6 ай бұрын

there is no perks in a modern marriage, not for a man anyways

@PYTU 6 ай бұрын

Never has been. Keep the government out your business has much as you can.

@1wun1 6 ай бұрын

Marriage is tradition, and traditions are dead...

@PYTU 6 ай бұрын

Marriage it establishes rights and obligations between couple, as well as between them and their children (if any), and between them and their in-laws.

@PYTU 6 ай бұрын

We all are technically married because it's consensual and contractual relationship recognized by law.

@vinniephillips452 6 ай бұрын

The nightmare stories I hear from friends probably helped me with my decision not to marry.

@DavidM2002 6 ай бұрын

In my experience, as an accountant often seeing and dealing with the aftermath of divorce, I see a common element in the high cost of divorce. LAWYERS. Far too many lawyers by their nature and training view every situation as a legal fist fight. And lawyers are just not well enough versed enough in financial matters; especially tax. I have seen far too many cases where the parties and their accountants could have sorted out 80-90% of the issues in a few hours.

@gregstoddard8097 6 ай бұрын

Exactly. When my ex and I got divorced it cost use $700. We used a divorce preparer who took care of writing up and filling all the paperwork. We just had to be adults and agree how to divide our assets up and how the kids were going to be taken care of.

@TomNook. 6 ай бұрын

@@gregstoddard8097 "Just had to be adults" being the problem. The person you marry is never the person you divorce.

@PresidentUSVI 6 ай бұрын

Lawyers don’t care, once they are getting paid these outrageous and exorbitant fees, they are fine and dandy.

@PresidentUSVI 6 ай бұрын

@@gregstoddard8097it’s easier said than done. The only way that worked is that both of you are sensible and mature individuals that know that it’s not worth fighting a divorce and it better working together for the betterment of the kids.

@DavidM2002 6 ай бұрын

@@PresidentUSVI I think you missed the point. If you first see an accountant, then the lawyers are only needed to reduce the agreement to writing.

@chuckhiggins4940 6 ай бұрын

Divorce is the riskiest financial decision most people will make in their entire lives. The breadwinning spouse enters a legally binding promise to split half of almost everything they own on top of legal fees. There is no other financial decision that even comes close to creating such potential for financial catastrophe, and the risk exponentially increases if you divorce closer to retirement age.

@brent4073 6 ай бұрын

Worst part is so no one is told it is a contract when they sign it

@strangerdanger8462 6 ай бұрын

Correction, Marriage is the riskiest financial decision a man will make in his lifetime. There, I fixed it for ya. You're welcome😊

@4.0gpa44 6 ай бұрын

Marriage is meant to be a lifetime covenant. Divorce is wrong.

@brent4073 6 ай бұрын

@@4.0gpa44 Yup, most muslim countries dont have divorce as a thing. Divorce wasn't a thing in Afghanistan until the US came in and destroyed their family units too with it.

@heinousanus9352 6 ай бұрын

@@brent4073 Such high qualities of life in those countries, imprisoning women.

@crooked52h 6 ай бұрын

Tyrese had a prenup and it still cost him over 1 million in lawyer fees and she still wants 20,000 a month . Dr Dre had one also and pays 300,000 a month

@oliviao2238 6 ай бұрын

In these cases, they bought houses and cars on a whim, which was left out of the prenups, which happens a lot. Anything not covered is considered 50/50 in the eyes of the law.

@lolalalia4119 6 ай бұрын

Ooooo you big mad about millionaires doing millionaire things! 😂 are you part of The Tyrese or Dre financial team? Why you so upset?

@9snaga 6 ай бұрын

To be fair I don't think a prenup is intended to have the other party receive nothing. Plus we have to view the costs relative to his wealth unfortunately and also contrast it against what would have been without the prenup. If he is paying out 10% of his wealth or income to her as opposed to 50%+. While the figures seem exorbitant to us it probably is an overall win for him.

@oliviao2238 6 ай бұрын

@@9snaga Good point

@crooked52h 6 ай бұрын

@@lolalalia4119 nice deflection it’s to show the ineffectiveness as both wives still succeeded in being awarded resources even though the prenup exists

@wowdbb761 6 ай бұрын

No wonder people dont want to get married

@julieDJTFP 6 ай бұрын

I'm happily married. However my husband was married previously, so wanted to see what this said. He took his time popping the question and I'm glad he did. I think people have the wrong idea about marriage. They think it's going to always be exciting and you're always going to be madly in love with your partner. Wrong... There are days when I want to smack my husband upside his head. There's days when it's hard and there are days when I don't know if I can do this. There's also days I'm head over heels on love. Any which way there's always a guy there willing to work on us. You have to give yourself and be willing to have that person give themselves to you. It's not 50-50. It's 100-100. Marriages don't just work. But at the end of the day, I couldn't live without my husband. I would be devastated. Marriage isn't for everyone but you have to take it seriously if you go for it.

@PHlophe 6 ай бұрын

Maam Jules , but does he feels like whopping your ass though lol! i mean just a little .

@chiquita683 6 ай бұрын

I hope sexism in Divorce is ended and we see all genders treated equally

@concheemsnon664 6 ай бұрын

Agree

@boostedmaniac 6 ай бұрын

Unfortunately it’s politics. One side sees victims among women and the men as the oppressors so we have many cases of where the women come out of the divorce with the home, cars, kids and half his money, plus child support.

@user-sj5ju4jb7t 6 ай бұрын

I’m a man, but if I were a woman and all I had to do was say I want a divorce and I get half of everything that man ever earned, that’s a pretty tempting incentive. Based on that fact, it won’t change.

@boostedmaniac 6 ай бұрын

@@user-sj5ju4jb7t agree 💯

@biscaynesupercars 6 ай бұрын

And I hope I win the powerball and that I can lose 20 pounds without changing my diet yet here we are

@snacking5908 6 ай бұрын

My divorce was supposed to be simple. My ex hired an attorney. I told her, “take what you want. You don’t need to hire an attorney. If you want the house, take it. Just sign the papers.” Her attorney was just getting free money from her. I never hired an attorney. I gladly paid the alimony and child support. I never paid a cent in attorney’s fees and I got to keep my house. The one who doesn’t want the divorce is the one who will drag it out longer than it needs to

@TomNook. 6 ай бұрын

if you didn't marry you would've kept a lot more.

@leea3531 6 ай бұрын

I told her the same thing “ you don’t have to hire a lawyer . Just sign the paper “ . What did she do the opposite and still fighting till now .

@franko8572 6 ай бұрын

Rookie move. If you were willing to give her everything, you should’ve cashed out your retirement and donated it to charity.

@leea3531 6 ай бұрын

@@franko8572 let me guess you’re still married ?

@franko8572 6 ай бұрын

@@leea3531 No. Never been married. My point is you can legally donate your saving, retirements etc. while you’re still married, and the other partner can’t say anything about it. It’s not a crime.

@ardentdfender4116 6 ай бұрын

I learned a very long time ago to not get married just watching all the guys I knew in the military who was married, most all getting divorced in the span of my enlistment. Wisdom is watching and learning from other people experiences. True to form I never did get married and I’m beyond it. That’s a racket. Not getting married saves you everything gone over in this video.

@Michael_Livingstone 6 ай бұрын

Was it common for guys to come back from deployment (over ten months) and suddenly there’s a kid in the picture?

@ardentdfender4116 6 ай бұрын

@@Michael_Livingstone You wouldn't believe how common it was and i used to be absolutely floored by it and just blown away. I was like 19-20 at the time and it was crazy. But i would watch all those guys and the stuff they go thru and been thru and took it all as a lesson in life and still do.

@Michael_Livingstone 6 ай бұрын

@@ardentdfender4116 I hope the guys who were deployed won’t be responsible for the kid that’s not theirs or that cheater. I have no words to express on here on how disgusted I am to know that there are folks who’d cheat on their spouse who’s deployed.

@ardentdfender4116 6 ай бұрын

@@Michael_Livingstone I was single, so none of that was on me. I was just witness to what was happening to the other guys around me. Same as well where over a dozen women on a Tender ship at our same base who came back from deployment all pregnant. They weren't when they left on deployment, but they surely were when some of the dozen women returned to their families. For me, i was just spectator to it all. I learned many lessons in life from just watching all that happen around me and at the base i was at. Lessons in life i call it and it has surely shaped how i see a lot of things in society.

@Michael_Livingstone 6 ай бұрын

@@ardentdfender4116 Fair enough. And Thank You for your service :)

@DIGITAL27 6 ай бұрын

Vegas it cost $100 bucks to get married and over $100k to get divorced 😂

@Sky-yi9nc 6 ай бұрын

So what I gather from this video is to become a divorce attorney.

@PHlophe 6 ай бұрын

the bitcoin honcho detective is where the money is at. Plus you ain't going to hear the chatter from salty ass potential divorcees. You get the check , periodt , Punto !

@weirdshibainu 6 ай бұрын

On average, I've made 80k a year. Not great, but not bad. My 9 year marriage and divorce cost me well over 1 million dollars in fees, settlements, equity loss, etc. It pretty much destroyed the cushion I envisioned for retirement, especially in the loss of home equity. People have zero idea how impactful divorce is to one's life until they experience it.

@l.v.6384 5 ай бұрын

It makes nonsense if you only make 80k yet divorce cost you 1mil

@weirdshibainu 5 ай бұрын

@@l.v.6384 You just don't get it. No matter what you make, unless its millions a year, divorce costs a disproportionate amount of money.

@Chad_Max 5 ай бұрын

@@l.v.6384 He's talking about assets and wealth loss. Divorce disproportionately impacts the higher income earner which is almost always the husband/man...

@darylallen2485 3 ай бұрын

@@weirdshibainuyeah, plus emotional toll.

@gian19791 6 ай бұрын

And mostly women initiate divorce that's the crazy part 😢😮

@AnointedOne4God 6 ай бұрын

Of course they do, cash and prizes baby

@user-sj5ju4jb7t 6 ай бұрын

If you could go to the bank and get free money wouldn’t you do it too?

@kanlee9667 6 ай бұрын

80%

@genxx2724 6 ай бұрын

Perhaps the men passive-aggressively create an untenable situation instead of initiating divorce, forcing the women to initiate it. Ever think of that?

@LadyMontane 6 күн бұрын

Love the manosphere's popular assumption that women initiate divorces purely out of boredom, monkey branching and monetary gain. Because men are innocent angels and never make women's life more difficult in marriage :)

@Raritytuber 6 ай бұрын

To all the young guys out there: This is why you don't get married... ever!

@beaniemac 6 ай бұрын

As someone who's been thru divorce and luckily came out still intact for the most part, I see very few benefits for getting remarried. Especially at An age where me and my potential spouse wouldn't even have the option to have more children.

@theRetainer 6 ай бұрын

You can get a prenup and it wouldn't matter. You could get married without a problem.

@thewb3 6 ай бұрын

As a man you can have kids just about any age if you desire.. So you can always find someone else.

@davidglad 6 ай бұрын

Not speaking from experience (yet anyway), but you don't need to get married to have kids. While your "troop" count likely diminishes with age, I imagine you still can have children but just not accident-prone like teenagers/twenties. Younger woman of course if you've got the resources and she sees you as the prize.

@The1stClassVillain 6 ай бұрын

@@davidgladIf he’s religious then yes he does need to be married. Everybody’s not out here sinning to get they want

@The1stClassVillain 6 ай бұрын

Why would you want more children in an economy like this?

@mikeshafer 6 ай бұрын

There should be a DivorceAI program that does all of this for you.

@PHlophe 6 ай бұрын

You do know they can program bias into them . the same way you can legit write a code that targets specific skin color into AI. and this ain't no conspiracy

@borisndong6747 6 ай бұрын

You don’t wanna get divorced ? don’t get married !

@HelloWorld-hb7yt 6 ай бұрын

or find a better spouse.

@xpert_kid_one730 6 ай бұрын

@HelloWorld-hb7yt you think that would stop a divorce?

@andresmattos7541 6 ай бұрын

GENIUS.

@VLAD-ko4pl 6 ай бұрын

Devorce is womens second income

@globalcitizen8321 6 ай бұрын

More like reaching the Jack Pot....

@leea3531 6 ай бұрын

10000%

@MrHammer2088 6 ай бұрын

Married for the benifits of divorce 🤷🏾‍♀️

@Mr2pint 6 ай бұрын

The problem is even if you don't get married and live with somebody it becomes the same as being married in the eyes of the law 👰😱

@jerrys9226 6 ай бұрын

Only in states that recognize common law marriages.

@johansjournal 6 ай бұрын

really? in all states?

@Mcfunface 6 ай бұрын

@@johansjournalNope. Only like 14 states have common law marriage. If you live in a state like Utah, you're not married just because you lived together 5 years (mainly meant to keep polygamy from being legalized)

@catatonicbug7522 6 ай бұрын

Even the states with CL marriage, it only works if you openly refer to the other person as your spouse.

@ndklskgisiiiyyy5449 6 ай бұрын

suppose your lover is a foreigner so only a legal marriage could allow her/him to have a permanent residency right. this is only one of many other differences that with and without a marriage.

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@kasebuttram9542 6 ай бұрын

You lost me when you started saying women end up worse than men and make less than men lol

@user-xp5yk6kc9i 6 ай бұрын

I was about to say that !! main stream media + feminism is sky high !! Guys do no get married.. date .. do everything but not marry !! Its soo dumb with womens these days !! Only fools and idiots and poor people get married !!

@DropBox-jx6yr 6 ай бұрын

Same

@justinmiller7398 6 ай бұрын

You mean because they usually have full custody of the kids. Great omission of that part.

@kasebuttram9542 6 ай бұрын

@@justinmiller7398 Women usually get custody of children because the courts are notoriously biased towards women. Im watching 3 cases of biased courts happening in my personal life going on right now and have heard of countless cases before. Family court judges have the most discretion and are very rarely held to the ethics code. This is a very well known thing, especially in law

@justinmiller7398 6 ай бұрын

So fix it, rather than show blatant women hatred on youtube. Because your not helping society with those comments. @@kasebuttram9542

@killj0y58 6 ай бұрын

It’s not the lawyers it’s the clients who are going insane spending thousands over the family couch

@Reezy884 6 ай бұрын

I just don’t understand why we have to pay to get a divorce

@jimv77 6 ай бұрын

You do realize lawyers make EVERYTHING more expensive and difficult in life here in America......from running a small business to medical to large corporate.....etc....better lawyer-up is the American mentality.....

@spencersl 6 ай бұрын

Hope for the best and plan for the worst. Discuss what happens if you were to split up before getting married, not because you hope to or plan to separate but because life happens.

@haleymist09 6 ай бұрын

All relationships end up in either a breakup or death. Plan ahead

@dexterspeights3484 6 ай бұрын

Divorce punishes men with financial ruin and rewards women with financial resources without bring anything to table!

@LadyMontane 6 күн бұрын

I'm the primary breadwinner and my husband is a lazy abusive obese bum who does gig jobs when he feels like it. I'll be the one at a loss and have a more complicated financial situation, yet I'm still going to divorce him, because you cannot put a price tag on mental peace, cutting your housework and food expenses by two-thirds, and not crying anymore.

@kariuki6644 6 ай бұрын

Instead of paying 5k to his financial analyst he should pay 5k towards his debt principal and watch it go down over time

@9snaga 6 ай бұрын

I think it might be a one time payment but I do see your line of reasoning if it is a recurring expense.

@JoseSanchez0795 6 ай бұрын

The cop was happily married until she started her own business.😂 Message!!!!

@jimv77 6 ай бұрын

Keep her at home in the basement?

@tipsandtricks6071 6 ай бұрын

A successful man will usually say good, now I can provide for my wife and kids. A successful lady will usually say good, now I don't need my husband if I want to leave him.

@JoseSanchez0795 6 ай бұрын

@@jimv77 yup!

@JoseSanchez0795 6 ай бұрын

@@tipsandtricks6071 yes!

@LadyMontane 6 күн бұрын

Hmm, could it be that he was abusive and she was trying to gain independence from him so that she's not out on the street upon divorce? 🤔

@dekev7503 6 ай бұрын

It's simple, NO PRENUP, NO MARRIAGE. Separate property marriage and it should only be a religious ceremony. I'm an Engineer and I make almost 7 times more than my girlfriend who's a preschool teacher. She lives with me and naturally, I pay all the bills, including our vacation and recreational expenses. For months now she's been breathing down my neck to pop the question and last week, I gave her my conditions.

@maroon9273 6 ай бұрын

Plus postup as well

@jerrys9226 6 ай бұрын

Don’t get married! It’s bat sh!t crazy!

@charlibravo371 6 ай бұрын

Sometimes women are vultures. Protect yourself at all costs.

@TheRock-zf3jp 6 ай бұрын

@@charlibravo371most are if not all . Can u blame them though ?

@kkp4297 6 ай бұрын

you told her no marriage? Is she cool with it? Your arrangement sounds like it is comfortable enough for her already.

@maroon9273 6 ай бұрын

I don't know why someone will have a marriage license without a pre/postup agreement. We need to change the family court laws or do away with it entirely.

@nousernamesarevalid 6 ай бұрын

If you don’t have any debt or assets or similar amounts when marrying, there’s no need for a pre-nup

@TomNook. 6 ай бұрын

No marriage, no divorce required. Simples

@user-sj5ju4jb7t 6 ай бұрын

@@nousernamesarevalidpre-nups should be the default. In general people shouldn’t be getting married anymore. It’s just a practice to transfer wealth from one party to another and is primitive. You don’t need a piece of paper if you love someone.

@unknowncomment85 6 ай бұрын

yeah prenup is gonna protect you.. lol.. poor gullible sheep