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@RichardJenkinsFxCreations6 жыл бұрын
I tried and failed in finding a good woman. I just focus on making money now. There is no need to stress about people with no heart.
@FirstLast-uw5tp6 жыл бұрын
Richard Jenkins Go MGTOW brother
@abdulleonard71416 жыл бұрын
Richard Jenkins hold your head up brah brah I love you enough to say that you gave a brother in me to share ideas , thoughts, comments and suggestions with any time...black kings can rebuild our kingdoms if we come together
@ineedgodnowandprayers.39376 жыл бұрын
Richard Jenkins 😘
@jerrelllewis91806 жыл бұрын
Go overseas... Anywhere. Watch what will happen. Salute.
@chadfreshkidd57286 жыл бұрын
Richard Jenkins Amen brotha
@avagd62936 жыл бұрын
Ladies, you are right on. I'm 72, and my experience is that young women, many equate the bad guys with love and strength. But, alas, most women want that good man after they(women), get older, usually it's too late. You don't miss your water until the well runs dry.
@abdulleonard71416 жыл бұрын
ava gd right.ladies listen if your willing to throw away a family, career,a life,a chance to raise children and make them into role models for the world to be a better place..just to be a party girl,get high, sleep with a bunch of cute guys,and do whatever you want.. don't look miserable in your early 40's and so on when nobody wants you now!!!who wants to pick up a piece of gum off the ground and eat it??????????
@devinwatkins27586 жыл бұрын
ava gd that is a good line ''you don't miss the water until the well run out's'. That seems like a simple line bit in reality it means slot because almost everything that nice people do is taking for granted. I said people not female or male people in general. But that's a good quote.
@Realvibes_9636 жыл бұрын
ava gd you are right on with that comment. 👍🏾👍🏾
@moneybuilden6 жыл бұрын
ava gd lmmfao ur exactly right...u don't miss the water till ur well runs dry...had that happen to me ...amx knew what she was about tried to come back to these waters after her well was dry
@itz_akuma6 жыл бұрын
Lmao. It sucks cause as a nice guy.... I might not get the most girls. But ima have the last laugh. Smh. Nobody taught a lot of these girls that's its quality > quantity. You sleep with dogs you whole life, your not gonna be able to find a good man last second. Doesn't work like that.
@james12erby436 жыл бұрын
A woman told me after I told her women don't have " Common Sense" that,, Women have a fairytale perception of love and craves " Drama" from relationships with Men. Therefore,, I conclude "Women love the pain of Love, not the status of what Love really is...they are utterly confused with delusion about Love!!!!
@saif9amar4176 жыл бұрын
James Erby... Right... Women love the pain in being in love... Women love men who make them suffer in pain
@BreezeeGreenz5 жыл бұрын
"Women love the pain of love." That's often true. That's why they don't mind 'falling' in love and being in a helpless state with someone they don't even know and someone who has no real obligation to them.
@kuunami3 жыл бұрын
This is also known as "struggle love." African American women in particular seems to gravitate towards this type of relationship more than any other group of women. If a guy would actually be a good boyfriend, she ain't interested.
@sloweddyfam31433 жыл бұрын
This is unfortunately true in the majority of cases, since you were clearly able to recognize this happening and word it well, how do you think it would be “solved” ? Curious for your opinion
@williamdurrah76777 жыл бұрын
And then the ones who want a good man wouldn't know how to keep him. They will bring him all kinds of unnecessary drama and fuck up his whole world.
@therealflamelit7 жыл бұрын
Ive been there
@williamdurrah76777 жыл бұрын
Hold This L. Debarge a brother I wanna ask you but it kinda funny, but is you the real L debarge?? I'm just asking.
@skinfanjay7 жыл бұрын
Yes yes yes
@williamdurrah76777 жыл бұрын
Hold This L. Debarge no seriously! Are you that cool and smooth singing brother?????
@therealflamelit7 жыл бұрын
NO .. but I rep the same neck of the Woods as El(Detroit) and he is my fav singer lol
@devohnmitchell6 жыл бұрын
Women don't appreciate good men just like Eve Did Not Appreciate God. God put her in a nice garden where she had no pain, could live forever and gave her an abundance of food and a Husband. Instead she choose to submit to the devil and lost everything. This same story replays today in relatinships. Women generally drift to men who make empty promises
@abdulleonard71416 жыл бұрын
devohnmitchell guess history repeats itself if there is a special lady out there somewhere I wanna share an amazing love with you
@twinbwoiient6 жыл бұрын
devohnmitchell fact💯💯💯💯
@Rationalist1016 жыл бұрын
Factsss
@joecarter27276 жыл бұрын
Deep bro 👍
@Rationalist1016 жыл бұрын
@@mrsamerxful That's false. Don't try to flip the script
@Da5thSith11 жыл бұрын
Women often at times does selfish things or self sabotage themselves... My college sweetheart left me at the alter & never called me over 3 years until last week telling me how sorry she was & how she shoulda gotten married... How you think I feel? Well it took me some counseling to get over that & a lot of prayers. So coming from a good man who just don't wanna be bothered with another heart break I'll keep my love to God instead...
@GeorgeOforiAtta6 жыл бұрын
When kindness is seen as weakness trickery is at hand. They say nice guys finish last and bad guys finish first. Yet the first shall be last and the last shall be first. The circle chase can only end when good guys stand firm and maintain positive in the last days.
@abdulleonard71416 жыл бұрын
George Ofori-Atta AMEN
@wilsonwaigwa5206 жыл бұрын
George Ofori-Atta amen! I will stand firm by God's grace
@smooth1234ish5 жыл бұрын
Great comment. Follow Christ first and all things will be added to you. With patience and faith and approach everything including, gaining a wife. Beware of the covert narcissist. Most dangerous of all. Keep in the faith.
@johnsondailysports13414 жыл бұрын
Yessir
@robertabasistonelecturesfr67672 жыл бұрын
Every woman who did you wrong gave you a lesson on how they want to be treated. Do not get upset just learn the lesson and thank those women for teaching you and preparing you for the next one. We didn't have all these Alpha coaches back in the day so men, Alpha up we got no excuses today.
@blackien56 жыл бұрын
Anybody who treats a good person bad is immature and also usually selfish. Think about it. Most of the women that treat good men badly aren't right in the head. They're more often than not spoiled brats and narcissistic and aren't disciplined mentally.
@okgoogleplay35006 ай бұрын
Amen, a-freakin-men.
@TwistedSecrets7779 жыл бұрын
After 10 years of trying to find a nice woman I gave up.....just as women say good men don't exist I don't feel good women exist either.....I've had guy friends tell me a woman asks for what she gets when she gets hit by a dude and I have never hit a woman in my but yet it seems like men have to hit a woman to even get a chance to be with her......I would rather die single if that's the price for love.
@j-reidgotti-filmstv59346 жыл бұрын
Exactly bro very true
@Dimz306 жыл бұрын
Stephen LaMar I agree
@shedparker6 жыл бұрын
I'm 38, I went to jail for DV in my early 20s...once they hear about it they 🏃 bc they think I'm still like that...trust me its not easy.
@wmhcos38856 жыл бұрын
Real Man. Just throw in some pimp talk.The bigger the lie is the more they love it.
@cainomgtownewzealand14586 жыл бұрын
Me too
@MoveInSilence238 жыл бұрын
Passports still cost less than Jordans...
@edwardrobinson45446 жыл бұрын
preach
@celasegamay53716 жыл бұрын
I got mines a year ago went Jamaica and Malaysia I want nothing to do with American women
@billytimes68586 жыл бұрын
Wakeen Smith hey Bro im going in August i heard women really respect men out their is that true?
@miguelrobb57196 жыл бұрын
Christian Barrett Pim well let's just throw the whole race and culture out the window. Let's just say that lots of guys ruin their lives over pussy. I stopped chasing pussy in when I was 22. Yeah I admit. That was pretty young. I started a business when I was 25. Currently I'm 26 and i doubt I could have gotten Shit done if i was too focused on chasing pussy.
@matthewwatson65286 жыл бұрын
Facts chung li for life fuck it
@tmaaan447 жыл бұрын
why do people get nice and weak soooo twisted I never understood that smh !!!
@m.j.grayson6495 жыл бұрын
Message to all men....there's no incentive to mess with these low level ratched women....focus on improving your health, your education, and bettering yourself as a man....these women don't have anything to offer you anyway.....go your own way.
@marqosmarqos12016 жыл бұрын
So its father's fault? Women will never take responsibility and ownership of their bad behavior. Its always someone elses fault.
@marqosmarqos12016 жыл бұрын
Wow!!!! That's deep as hell.
@abdulleonard71416 жыл бұрын
MarQos MarQos truuu
@ericperry276 жыл бұрын
MarQos MarQos exactly That part was annoying af. "Father ain't do something right". Downright childish
@mmmmary30796 жыл бұрын
+sarah ibrahim exactly sis , don't let these men bother you with their evilness , because at the end of the day most gender who commit suicide are men is because men know that they deserve it , just wait when judgment day come, they will regret it
@ericperry276 жыл бұрын
@@mrsamerxful ummm??? How does that "stat" correlate to the video???
@goldjustgold62106 жыл бұрын
Why women treat good men bad? 5 reasons: 1)Daddy issues 2)insecurities 3)He allows it. He allows her to get away with a lot because HE'S insecure. 4) She believes he's beneath her and she can do better. The more self entitled ,spoiled and beautiful the woman is... The more she'll test you(in this generation). 5) (The most important one) YOU WEREN'T HER FIRST CHOICE... The same thing goes for men as well... Just saying.
@brandonb63845 жыл бұрын
3 was my issue a few years ago😆😆 instead of cutting a female off when she ain't acting right I'd put up with it because of her looks
@lennycrooklyn89368 жыл бұрын
stay single and mingle that's the best way not to get hurt
@shawnfrazier6648 жыл бұрын
You know that's right there is more to do in life besides worrying about a relationship
@Mynamejack96 жыл бұрын
They got a huge blowout sale on passports! Help yourselves!!!!!
@antaviareaser85636 жыл бұрын
Damn Right
@chadfreshkidd57286 жыл бұрын
lenny Crooklyn yes sir
@ContextReallyMatters7 жыл бұрын
I see the disadvantages of being a good man in this opposite sex game. The advantage I do have is my willingness to walk away or in some cases, let go. A lot of them didn't recognize what they had until it was gone. My ex now wants to get back after she left for a more flamboyant type. Now she expects me to accept her back after she has gained 40 pounds and has the dude name tattooed on her. Am I wrong for taking joy in her downfall?
@therealflamelit7 жыл бұрын
not at all...she didnt respect you, so you have no obligation to respect her
@foreignidea7127 жыл бұрын
Jason Stewart No my bro. You are not.
@johnreed43887 жыл бұрын
rejoice in her misery. do not take her back but do keep in contact with her so that you can continue to rub salt in her wounds every time she gets pumped and dumped.
@abdulleonard71416 жыл бұрын
Jason Stewart absolutely not leave her where she left you to be,in the trash
@abc47816 жыл бұрын
Jason Stewart absolutely not brother I say revel in her misfortune.
@38cymols6 жыл бұрын
Single and loving it, Im Lonely at times but hey god finds the way.
@abdulleonard71416 жыл бұрын
D_wm_n stay strong
@JamesBond-uz2dm10 жыл бұрын
A woman cannot love a man until she fears that man. To gain a woman's respect, a man must instill fear. Women equate fear with love.
@VagabondCrazyDiamond10 жыл бұрын
Are you quoting someone there? I'm pretty sure I've heard that before.
@JamesBond-uz2dm10 жыл бұрын
I stole that from Mick Jagger. A man ,like myself, who knows a lot about the female psyche.
@VagabondCrazyDiamond10 жыл бұрын
James Bond Ah, ic. I think i heard that from someone else who quoted Mic then, lol. I never actually heard any of Mick's lines...aside from in songs, i mean, lol. Hehehe, seriously, I can see Hannibal Lecter saying that in my head.
@JamesBond-uz2dm10 жыл бұрын
VagabondCrazyDiamond If I remember right, Jagger said that on the news show "60 Minutes". I believe that his view has credit.
@HOTma187 жыл бұрын
It has to do with a lack of good parenting growing up. Females as such seem to regret their bad decisions in their 30's and 40's when they are alone..You hear, and see it all the time from their comments and statements.
@devonjenkins96327 жыл бұрын
I'm not chasing anybody.
@StromLxrd66 жыл бұрын
facts bruh chase your goals and $$
@thediabolicalempath72466 жыл бұрын
Christian Barrett Men still chase women.
@thediabolicalempath72466 жыл бұрын
Christian Barrett Nailed it!!!
@LittleBlue00111 жыл бұрын
So true. My cousin's been treated badly so many times and became bitter for awhile. I tried to encourage him to keep being a good man and not let his ex girlfriends change him. Hopefully the girl he's with now doesn't hurt him.
@lamaurprice77566 жыл бұрын
You can't give love if you don't truly love yourself. Most women don't honestly love themselves and most men don't respect themselves to know their value. If a man has to treat you bad in order to feel excited than you've not mature. We all need to strive for growth and realize life is too short to keep repeating the mistakes of our youth.
@blacklionintl8 жыл бұрын
a good woman hard to find
@blacklionintl8 жыл бұрын
you dont know me pal. Move up
@davidmangum56398 жыл бұрын
that's the damn truth!
@abdulleonard71416 жыл бұрын
blacklionintl truuu
@jaimesmith22666 жыл бұрын
There are none period
@HANG_IN_THERE_BABY20246 жыл бұрын
Proverbs 31 woman
@soulsearch12346 жыл бұрын
GOOD MEN ARE NOT TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF, A SOFT OR NAIVE GUY GETS TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF, I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN A GOOD MAN AND I WISH A BROAD WOULD TRY TO USE ME FOR ANYTHING, I SHUT THEY A## DOWN QUICK!
@shawnstancil69426 жыл бұрын
I agree 100%
@richardjoslin22606 жыл бұрын
Same here
@deputydogg99936 жыл бұрын
soulsearch1234 we all get used
@johnsondailysports13414 жыл бұрын
Yup I finally learn the balance
@redaquarian86657 жыл бұрын
We draw to ourselves how we really see ourselves within. If a woman (generally speaking) has never or rarely experienced a positive or wholesome relationship with her Dad it creates a void within her which negatively effects her true vision of how she sees her(self). It is from this "vision" that she emanates a vibe or energy that draws to her men with the same spirit, demeanor, attitude, (sometimes even physical features) of their Dad. She secretly has a longing for that relationship with her Dad she will subconsciously seek to fulfill this longing in males who (in some way) remind her of her Dad. If Dad was a handsome, charismatic womanizer with a great sense of humor, but was hyper selfish, moody, with an inconsistent work ethic his daughter will be drawn to guys who are like this. Again, this is generally speaking. Take this and reverse it and say the daughter has a positive and wholesome relationship with her Dad. She (then), will grow up with her esteem intact for their is no void and hence she will be more patient and self disciplined in her quest for a man. She will subconsciously seek out a man who has the inner and external qualities of her Dad. If her Dad was average looking, thoughtful, a hard worker, consistent, intelligent, but a bit of a homebody and didn't have a great sense of humor she will be drawn to that kind of man. This is why some ladies (who have been negatively imprinted by their Dad) do find a good man, but due to their (negative) Fatherly IMPRINT they become bored with the stability and see his thoughtfulness and willingness to do anything for her as being "weak", but they want to keep him because they know that he's a good man so in many cases they end up sneaking around with the guys that remind them (in some way) of the let's say "Bad Dad" ie Mr. Excitement! Of course males play a part in this too with regard to our relationships with our Mothers. However, I am merely addressing the topic of this particular video. Peace.
@StromLxrd66 жыл бұрын
C Toomer pretty deep where did you learn that info from?
@redaquarian86656 жыл бұрын
DJ APOCALYPTIC - Honestly, the things that I have both seen and suffered through in my early childhood - my 20's. Came across this book years later in my late 30's called Understanding Sexuality by Roy Masters. It helped me better put into words all that I had inside of me.
@TH3TABOOALCHEMISTSCORPIORIZING6 жыл бұрын
C Toomer WOW!!! Very articulate and percise. Very deep indeed... Subscribing to your channel.
@johnsondailysports13414 жыл бұрын
True
@DragonWarrior95t2 жыл бұрын
E XACTLY. You are 95% correct!
@Eddino939 жыл бұрын
I went from nice guy to bitter guy im bitter towards females got rejected tsand cheated on and flaked on thats why im bitter towards females
@brandonmarks4668 жыл бұрын
+Ak Wizard & who the fuck are you to deserve respect. your a nobody get ogg ya high horse duoch lol
@brandonmarks4668 жыл бұрын
then become gay
@jab71686 жыл бұрын
Are you looking for a boyfriend? You sound cute......
@BernardBethea63395 жыл бұрын
No simpathy for you lay in tge bed you made
@kevinherrman936 жыл бұрын
Glad some women are open to men being treated wrong.
@dauntecarter59226 жыл бұрын
These ladies are too hesitant in their speech. They appear unsure. They need to find a topic they're knowledgeable about.
@abdulleonard71416 жыл бұрын
Daunte Carter good abservation I felt the same way.. please let's as men continue to open up our social circle like the ladies did so we can support each other like they do instead of trying to fuck our buddies wife..set the bitch up and show him she ain't shit..bro's before hos
@abbasownblackman27626 жыл бұрын
Abdul Leonard bros before hos always
@saif9amar4176 жыл бұрын
Daunte Carter.. They have no clue
@muhammedalli196 жыл бұрын
You can't listen to women about dating advise. Good or bad if You can make a women feel emotions good or bad she is yours. Period
@fleetwoodmac77077 жыл бұрын
What go's around, comes around..... enough said
@abdulleonard71416 жыл бұрын
Fleetwood Mac amen
@josephhage93774 жыл бұрын
Fleetwood Mac They don’t want a nice guy Until they get hit enough times by the bad boy they were chasing after
@kenmicheals398010 жыл бұрын
Let me tell you something... If a Woman really likes you then she will meet you half way. She will not look at the "he's too nice angle." If you hear a Woman drop this line, please run!! I'm serious, Most of these Women have low self esteem and in other ways are saying they would rather be treated like crap! "Good guys are no challenge?" But Most Women are only looking for their own selfish desires and to eb the centre of the relationship!
@KG-og2jj6 жыл бұрын
Its not even he's nice. He has class and morals and not like these ignorant muthafuckas the world have made them become
@moejohnson84596 жыл бұрын
very much so dude!!! I agree 100%. Fellas be smarter the ass aint worth the trouble that follows.
@jasongr32193 жыл бұрын
Theory 1: They're shit-testing the good man to see how much stress he can take (the tests never end). Theory 2: They see him being nice as a weakness, which makes them feel vulnerable. So they bully him to make him mean, which they see as a strength (then tell him he has anger issues). Theory 3: They see his positivity as a strength, because he remains cool under pressure. So she wants to drag him down to her level of weakness, because misery loves company. Theory 4: She is biologically programmed to destroy good men and empower bad men, because she thrives better when society is upside-down, she won't have to struggle to comform to the "morals and values" perpetuated by dominant good men. She won't have to get out of bed, get off the phone, stop eating, go to the gym, work on her character, sharpen her mind, or do anything of real value. When bad guys are dominant, she can live in leisure and the subdominant good guys can be under her boot, so she doesn't feel like a mentally-weak loser. Sane women do not do this. But sanity has all but died out in the modern world. T'is what it is.
@okgoogleplay35006 ай бұрын
Amen, a-freakin-men.
@failingmonkey11 жыл бұрын
My own opinion is that someone seeking a good partner should focus on improving themselves first. I mean mentally. Make themselves happy in this world and happy with who THEY are first so that they can recognize this in others. Candy comments that it's likely the father to blame, but Famous smartly argues that the only person responsible for a person's behavior is themself. Someone unhappy with themselves will only attempt to extinguish another's happiness and won't make a good partner.
@MrISELF911 жыл бұрын
This is what ive come to learn from my personal exerience.Most of the good men end up trying to save or help woman that have been treated bad by other men so when they get a goo one who will ride with them to the end they dont know what to do with him they are not up to makeing littel changes to make it work but it's ok something better will come to a good man in due time.
@abdulleonard71416 жыл бұрын
MrISELF9 thanks
@jamaborn8 жыл бұрын
It's all about how you was raised, if mommy is vile and rat ched, most likely you will be too, if you cuss your dad you won't respect no man
@keithlamont82086 жыл бұрын
Chris Walker that was a student all but that really didn't explain anything. The results then say that most weren't raised right
@kjhustleguy36737 жыл бұрын
I see black women dogging good men I think I'm through dating black women
@abdulleonard71416 жыл бұрын
KJ hustle guy stay strong brah she out there
@devinwilliams4004 жыл бұрын
I've been taken advantage of these females in the past. First they pretend they love me and the next day, they always asking me for money. So I'm still hurting by it a little bit but right now it's time to focus on me and wait for the right one to come along. Thank you ladies for this inspiring video.
@kesienaokoro2111 Жыл бұрын
That’s mad😭😭🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾! Still got played.
@sworc28437 жыл бұрын
this behavior is riddled through out black community
@seankhalif8507 жыл бұрын
sworc all communities its universal not just the "black" community
@innerguardianXIII6 жыл бұрын
Incorrect. This behaviour is riddled throughout Society.
@christiankalala8406 жыл бұрын
sworc it's riddled through any community.
@tiplight0076 жыл бұрын
Yes it's in every community but it's more prevalent in the African American community.
@nutznchocolates567 жыл бұрын
they get it from they momma
@Mynamejack96 жыл бұрын
Antavia Reaser 100%facts bro!
@lulub8407 жыл бұрын
To all the good guys out there not all women are the same. Some have Fathers and/or brothers and we are attracted to the good qualities in you! But sometimes you go for the bad girls and you chose her over some wholesome girl you could've found.
@omegaprophet30197 жыл бұрын
Thanks to feminism taking fathers out of their child's life, most women in the US are like this. You have a father who raised you properly, so you admire good qualities of good men. A woman like you will get snatched up quickly by a good lucky guy or see the same fate as good men, used and abused by bad boys who pretend to be good men when you first met them. Users create a lot of bitterness among their victims that's hard to overcome. A woman has the power to be so much crueler than a man does for a variety of reasons, the ball is in a woman's court in most instances.
@jbrealestate71557 жыл бұрын
LuLu Star no offense but to me that is the biggest misconception I've ever heard.. What does a bad girl even mean?? Because there are plenty of educated and or hard working sisters that STILL overlook good men and go for the bad boy... The tattoos, masculinity,, and edge all spell excitement for her in the bedroom so with all due respect those "wholesome" girls do the exact same thing.. Trust me I would know from experience.. Lost one to one of those guys.. Just saying.. You hear all the time "we're not all the same" yet the same shit ends up happening over and over and over again
@lisabradford81807 жыл бұрын
exactly right, lulu star! many men go for the wrong women and don't give a woman whose not a thot or a rat a fair chance.
@lisabradford81807 жыл бұрын
@jacob: it works both ways. MANY good decent women are passed over just like many men are. it's a two way street that i've been on in the past. the people that are right for each other just don't seem to cross paths very much.
@chasedadolla24797 жыл бұрын
LuLu Star your right I all ways pick the wrong one I know better
@bigtxrastlingfan926510 жыл бұрын
Ok why do women or people in general look at being a good guy is a weak man?
@mortvald7 жыл бұрын
Because oftenly it is the case, In my whole life i only met one person who is nice but can flip on someone ass on a second but the dude basically grew in a war zone his whole life. Most men don't have that set up.
@nellymorris64487 жыл бұрын
spot light agreed!!!
@lisabradford81807 жыл бұрын
i never looked at a good guy being weak. i wish i'd known more of them, if anything.
@abdulleonard71416 жыл бұрын
lisa bradford I wish I knew you
@abdulleonard71416 жыл бұрын
lisa bradford for real
@T_H1237 жыл бұрын
I agree, a real woman will never cheat in any circumstances. for money or not, and that's so true a lot of gold digger will never learn. they after materialistic things instead of looking for the wise man with heart & honesty.
@TruthSeeker2412 жыл бұрын
The only way we can end this chain is by fighting back by: learning more of our culture, gaining better social skills, workign in our communities, standing strong and confident, fight against against the slander of our people, stand up for our black interests, and confront anybody harming BM or BW in an offensive way.
@jeremiahbrown99977 жыл бұрын
I have noticed that black women I can only speak for black women because I'm going to speak regarding the black women in my family black women don't want a good man they don't they say they do but they don't that's just them talking that's just words when they say they want a good man they're just babbling out the mouth for an example I have a cousin who married this good black man forget that awesome black man he wasn't awesome black man this man work 12 hours a day come home clean put the kids to bed she told him the jump he would say how high she told him she wanted him to buy her a home he went and bought her a beautiful home brand new they had four cars in the driveway he paid every bill when it came to the mortgage water electric cable the car payment the car insurance payments the only Bill she had to pay was the phone bill and she would cheat on this man something fierce and when he would catch her cheating she would turn around and show her natural you know what on him one time he caught her cheating with another man and her and the man jumped him can you believe that she jumped her husband with her boyfriend then she ended up divorcing him and leaving him for this guy who drove around in this beaten down Honda with only one front seat which was the driver seat the passenger seat was not there and now that they are together he beats her pistol with her cheats on her left and right took her car that her exhusband bought her sold it and now he is not around he is overseas cuz he's in the army and she's having panic attack because he's not here he's having anxiety attacks because he's not here she's passing out she doesn't know what to do he's not here
@Tsheed17 жыл бұрын
Jeremiah Brown brother that's an interesting story that's a good example of karma she got what she wanted now she's getting what she deserves
@sworc28437 жыл бұрын
Jeremiah Brown she is the average black women
@goldenstateswarriorsbandwa48427 жыл бұрын
Jeremiah Brown the average black woman.
@jblue88hoodgamer547 жыл бұрын
Jeremiah Brown I agree it is fucked up.
@tristanb817 жыл бұрын
Jeremiah Brown well that's karma for her! Some ppl don't realize what they have before it's to late.
@DragonFire-my9bc7 жыл бұрын
love is not a weakness
@michaelbatts56556 жыл бұрын
It is a shame because the same good men that these women mistreat and disrespect go on to live good, prosperous lives and eventually find their lifemate who treat them like the kings they are. Later on, the girl that did them dirty sees them on the throne and NOW wants to do right by them. Sorry. You had that good thing and you blew it, sista.
@YellowPaint10011 жыл бұрын
If either of us gotta use our hands to get the point across, then WE shouldn't be together
@bobbybetterman70217 жыл бұрын
Thank you, my beautiful sisters, on your views of a growing epidemic. I am the brother that has been "burned" many times by what I thought is a good black woman. She had the spiritual, no kids, and similar interest but she and many sisters like her didn't have a good man in their life. Then that transferred to her next relationship. I always use the term "What I see outside my window" and what that means is that I have only the choices that are available to me at that time and the women that are available is what I see. I have gotten discouraged but not taken away or dating other races. I put God first and allow patience to guide me. I think and this is my opinion that some woman doesn't know what a good man is. Some women are very material and place stipulations in the relationship or they need "couch time" for other issues in their life and don't know how to address these issues. I do know that there are more black women than black men but some black women just don't see the good in black men. We as black folks just don't like each other constantly physically and most of all mentally hurting each other. Well, I could go on and on with that topic. Well, that's my two cents worth.
@williamjordan55316 жыл бұрын
they do it cuz men let them by not paying attention
@abdulleonard71416 жыл бұрын
William Jordan truuu
@appliancedude635 жыл бұрын
The sad thing is this type of behavior leads to generation after generation after generation after generation after generation of fatherless children who ruin the black community. I don't understand how women could do the same thing that didn't work for thier mother, grandmother, great grandmother and so on. I really feel nothing for a struggling single mother. She bought it on herself.
@bjbrown543216 жыл бұрын
Hello beautiful ladies.. I just recently went thru a situation that was wild out lol. I am wearing scrubs after work in a bar and a sista ask me with a smile am I a nurse.. I responded with no I am a nursing asst. Instantly her smile dropped and she moved it right along lol. I appreciate the love ladies because their are some good men out here but most women want the thug but just because I aint a thug don't mean I am a punk lol idk. Ladies thank you and you are queens. Peace
@iceyb2010 жыл бұрын
Some say women get bored easy I mean it's so many reasons but it happens more than people think it does
@victormaldonado97809 жыл бұрын
Well, you shouldn't have men to be the sole responsibility for your boredom.....you should be held accountable of your own emotions and not to depend on others. Happiness doesn't just happens.......You got to make it happen...So, don't say nice men are boring....Take a look at yourself and be independent of your own emotions.
@CurtisReese-tl7ip6 жыл бұрын
Of course there are no responses from black women but if you were to say something negative about them, there would be major backlash.
@abdulleonard71416 жыл бұрын
Curtis Reese 2969 lol..true they are going to have to talk to me eventually though I'm where the buck stops ladies...were you wondering when your sinister operations would shut down for good...I'm on social media now and it's over for you....
@rodpruitt89266 жыл бұрын
My mother taught me to be gentle with women. I have been married for 29 years, but before marriage I was treated poorly by a few women who said I was TOO NICE. My brother experienced this too. One girl told me I was too weak and she needed a man who can "put her in her place"?!? I told her I need a woman who will GET IN HER PLACE". I think it's the fact that many women have not seen their dad treat their mom right, and havn't seen their mother respond to their dad properly (because dad is not there). So they have no idea how to treat a good dude. They like the bad boys because they see that on television. All the black girls at my son's school say he's "green" or "lame." BUT THE WHITE GIRLS LOVE HIM.
@James-tz4bj3 жыл бұрын
Exactly I’m tired of being lied to cheated on and stolen from.
@garyhall62946 жыл бұрын
These are the ones with four or five kids by knuckleheads looking for a straight up dude to pay their bills.
@ghostrider26986 жыл бұрын
Gary Hall yea and women keep saying to me why dont u date a single mom I be like I'm 22 no kids I'm in navy. Why the fuck would date a woman with kids when all I'm gonna go through is drama. I tried it once and almost got shot
@leocardoroger627020 күн бұрын
@@ghostrider2698trust me baby mommas are headache 😂been there ain't going that way not more just date her and keep moving
@TRay-de2lg8 жыл бұрын
To Nice Guys: Dont worry about it and be glad you didnt put "yourself" in a (w)horrible situation. You dont want/need that kind of sex. They R NASTY. Stay true to who U are and the right one will come. Damn I wish I was a virgin.
@nicholaszarra77377 жыл бұрын
T. Ray Why?
@A.E.C.N7 жыл бұрын
T. Ray why?
@karlkindle52756 жыл бұрын
ive been in 3 long relationships, work 6 days a week 80 hour weeks, the women ive had disnt have to work just chill, wouldnt even do my laundry or clean when i was at work.. sundays on my day off i did my own laundry and did all the cleaning while she sat and played video games and smoked weed.. and somehow i became the asshole because i worked too much and was never there and she was bored.. unreal.. im single again now and never been happier, im done with relationships till i retire.. the same thing happens everytime.. they get spoiled, get complacent, and get ungrateful.. never wasting my time again.
@robertsilva80973 жыл бұрын
I'm single and I'm Definitely loving it A lot of men Do Not trust women Men Do Not like cheaters Men Do Not like gold Diggers There are some men that rather be single Then to be hurt again If you want a good man Don't let him go Fight for the relationship Prove to him that you going to be there for him No matter what For example If it becomes paralyzed Will you be there for him or will you run Out on him When he needs you the most
@kesienaokoro2111 Жыл бұрын
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@jeremiahgiles35937 жыл бұрын
women take advantage of good men because they do not RESPECT them. Also, a man who is overly nice gives the impression that he is a beta male in society and women are strongly attracted to more masculine alpha traits.
@nemesisprime29936 жыл бұрын
I am good.... and i was cheated on a lot so....the next time i fall in love with a woman and she cheat.....I am walking out.
@robertsilva80973 жыл бұрын
A lot of women are getting mad Because men are going on strike Men are not dating women Men are not even married women Because men are tired of being hurt by cheaters and gold diggers They're just one lady that is my next door neighbor The guy wanted to leave The relationship And she refused to let him go She proved to him that she loved him Now they're happily married They've been married for five years So if you truly love a man a good man Fight for him Show him that you truly love him There a lot of good men out there that have been hurt before in the past by women So if you truly find a good man Definition Joe him that you love him I mean this in respectful way
@markkarpf44476 жыл бұрын
I am cautious now, because I got burnt twice in my life, it is now hard for me to trust. God bless!
@MrBugulNoz6 жыл бұрын
Damn boo, gotta stop chomping that gum
@OthoWilliamsJr7 жыл бұрын
Encouraging video ladies!.... I am one of those Black Men that Black Women pass on based on what I don't have etc...We know the story!...lol.... I'll continue to be 'Me!' Like I always have a Black Woman ready for a Good Black Man will see me. For me, unlike other Black Folks I Do Not See Non Black Women as an Option. Not go lie I am attracted to other Women of another Ethnicity, I will not chase them. I Learned not to chase No Woman to Find & Seek Love. My True Aim is Love for Marriage, Family Life, being a Husband, having a Wife, child/ren, Family. All that applies! Yes Women have told me I am to Nice, they would use me, etc....All those negative lights put towards a Good Nice Black Man, I don't get it. I stopped worrying and trying to Understand long time ago...lol...Maybe one day if not, then I will be ok. Not Every person get Married and falls in Love. In the instance of being Good to a Woman, he/that person get left out. Thanks again for the video! :-)
@kingbuck4276 жыл бұрын
Man/Woman we've all mistreated someone before in life... The key is to live and learn. At some point in life... No one is tricking you anymore, You're willfully knowing walking into the trap.
@TheMrfreedomrequired12 жыл бұрын
A good man will come to you when the drama stops...soap operas are dead!
@ronaldmcdonald197712 жыл бұрын
There are many black women who define success as a bank account, or by physical appearance. Men wouldnt try to obtain money if women didnt long for it. Several Black women in America sees success as money. Theres a reason why Lil Wayne wants to show how many cars he has, and not the degree hes obtained. The ethnic Black women who longs for a hard working Black man is becoming obsolete. WHy do you think men dont work? Because they are attactive or flashy and the sisters love it.
@FLOWSPRODUCTIONINC6 жыл бұрын
Facts. Then the good man is the one being accused of things he's not even doin. Acussed of cheating. Then you have some women that talks disrespectful to men even in public calling him all kinds of names then has the nerves to ask him for things. Smh. Then when he dont give it to them they say he's mistreated them or aint treating them right. Smh. Close friend of mine is going through something similar I told him he should leave and let her miss the good in you. Question anyone....would you buy a woman anything or give her money etc. If her mouth is reckless and accusing you of things you're not doin?
@jaimesmith22665 жыл бұрын
Flowdak Music Hell no i wouldnt buy the bitch shit i would drop her ass like a bad habit
@Omari112510 жыл бұрын
Because good men don't beat their asses...
@Da5thSith11 жыл бұрын
What's sad is when I hear a group women talking about where the good men are at & little that they know I just walk right past them blending in with any other guys who are no good & trifling...I'm thankful to move on & stay by myself. I don't date nor would I invite a woman over to my place because I wouldn't want some chick screaming rape on me & here I lose my quiet sanctuary plus my career out the window thanks to this ignorant woman I tried to be nice to.
@jameljones49857 жыл бұрын
this sister that I met has to go in the shelter in a few weeks cause the white men she was wit had his fun and don't care about her situation smh
@zakcox167 жыл бұрын
1:36 that's the women fault her children didn't have a father
@Adjei8811 жыл бұрын
I had a confrontation such as what you described, basically it was me having a conversation with these girls it was fun and friendly, and then these other women spent the rest of the time trying to tear me down, saying that I was a nice guy and I shouldn't pretend to be a bad boy. Just because i wasn't talking to you does not mean you had to be jealous
@andreHK86 жыл бұрын
Kindness is a not a weakness people!!!!
@ronaldmcdonald197712 жыл бұрын
Lil Wayne is a good example. It deosnt have to be all women wanting him, the few women who want him is bad enough. Black women still support and love R. Kelly. I know White women are the biggest golddiggers, but their actions dont affect me as much as Black woman. Yes there are Black women who love straighlaced Black men, but we are still going to complain about the ones that dont. Only because these are the women who continue to complain about their circumstances.
@paradox_6956 жыл бұрын
this is soooo true
@maxywill149210 жыл бұрын
keep it real sistas, show us that there is hope
@jaimesmith22665 жыл бұрын
CODE Colt so true
@broderickbrown28643 жыл бұрын
I have gotten to a point where I just don't trust no woman at all no more
@SADMANMUSIC3511 жыл бұрын
I watch these videos and i got this add. Nothing is going to change. Good men get treated like grade A shid in this world we live in now. There was a time when a good man meant something. But not anymore.
@shawnfrazier6646 жыл бұрын
MGTOW ALLLLLLLLLL THE WAY
@BIGSAMify7 жыл бұрын
Self destructive mentality. Sexual abuse and etc.
@Shahmar7 жыл бұрын
Ye sir.
@slickrick33316 жыл бұрын
I heard a young lady say that she doesn't want a good man she wants a thug
@estlhm8056 жыл бұрын
You get in life what you allow to happen. If you allow yourself to be treated a certain way without correcting the problem, this is a choice and only you know. Nothing happens without someone allowing that which they know is wrong in their life. Change is a decision
@rightmyvision9 жыл бұрын
Because you have accepted being treated bad black women have bought into such a low self esteem and the bank mind because I'm black men have told them that by not being present you don't know how to feel comfortable with a good man because you have accepted the live that black men have sold us for so many generations that benefit them and sexually exploiting you and taking advantage of your body black women need to understand was sexism is this is a part of the problem black men have taught you to struggle to believe in pain to believe in hurt from your mother to your grandmother because they're telling you I have to treat you this way because I'm going through this not going through that man thats tender and loving and kind you don't know how to ask because you're so busy being abused black women take some time to get some healing take some time to take some time off to repair.
@Codeblack_the_19 жыл бұрын
If your as big as a whale and posing in a dress like you look good or something that maybe one problem, ya think. Getting rid of the gum smacking and the masculinity might help also.
@nikkigiovanni75939 жыл бұрын
really!!! so negative!!!
@rightmyvision9 жыл бұрын
You know what this is a perfect example of why black women are so bitter and angry and want to cut your balls off you want to talk about being fat and obese have you looked at yourself in the mirror black man there's a lot of brothers walking out here with Man titties skeet marks in your drawers bisexual and given aids to their wives so how about you talk to your fudge packing brother how about you talk to those ones who don't take a bath and don't brush their teeth who don't keep a job who don't raise their children who don't pay child support their women with that attitude
@Codeblack_the_19 жыл бұрын
HeLa I could barely understand your comments, your writing skills are terrible.
@nikkigiovanni75939 жыл бұрын
prosperwell1 yet you commented in a reply to her idiot
@Codeblack_the_19 жыл бұрын
***** By that logic that makes you an idiot to jackass.
@shorts2611 жыл бұрын
it's all about establishing boundaries.. keeping a woman in check basically means letting them know where to draw the line with you and know what you will and will not accept. Women test men all of the time, every woman does i at some point
@bludluva12 жыл бұрын
tell ya what, i get relieved to see two women out there owning up to this. for awhile it seemed like all chicks wanna manipulate good guys and just dont care. good to see theres still a few real women out there.
@theconscientiousperfecter Жыл бұрын
This is every woman I have ever tried to date. I am an empath...which means I actually care about how people feel. I put everyone else first especially women in my life. I am on the above average looking side so I know that isn't the issue. But I am now 50 years old (people think I am 35-40 max) and the last actual girlfriend I had I was 23. That is 27 years of a few dates and then nothing...a few dates and then being told what a great father and husband I will be to someone...just not them. And I get told often how shocked people are that I am single and never had kids because how loving and caring I am and what a good father and husband I would be. I guess I should have been punching women in the head and treating them like crap. Maybe then I would not be the last male in my family line...a 50 year old with family albums and a family bible that go back to the 1700's...but nobody to pass it on to...my crime...I am a nice guy. But I would have made a great husband or father...according to everyone I know and everyone who passed on me for being kind.
@howardsutton20337 жыл бұрын
black women going to hate you two women y'all got gutts for telling the truth
@gqomnation29246 жыл бұрын
its not some actually most
@abdulleonard71416 жыл бұрын
GQOM NATION a good majority of the us to be exact
@deadcell112 жыл бұрын
I have met women who were ugly and they act like complete bitches. I am one of those men who get rejected 99.9% of the time by women. I have a good paying job, a new car, a home, no criminal backgound, I maintain a excellent hygiene, and I take pride in how I dress but yet almost all the women ignore me and always go for the bad dudes who beat and mistreat them. At first I grew bitter and thought if I went for a woman who was not to good looking i can find better, nothing change.
@justinlumpkin19296 жыл бұрын
The problem is too many women equate being nice with being weak, which is the furthest thing from the truth. A weak man is a pushover. A nice man treats his women like a queen or princess, but instill in her that if she's queen then he's king no question about it, but modern feminism has given plenty women this sense of entitlement in which some feel they can be king and queen in a relationship and I'm sorry that's not how it works.
@septiawoman76877 жыл бұрын
A good woman is one that sets a realistic "bar" and adheres to it. A dumb woman is one that does not know how and what to do to set a bar. Enough said.
@ronaldmcdonald197712 жыл бұрын
Im not saying its none. Im talking about the host of black women in negative situations. They have these crappy men because thats what they like. Im not saying all black women are one way or another. Brothers are tired of Black women getting and desiring crappy men and then complaining when it goes bad and shaming our name. Im not speaking on this issue because I think black women are bad etc. Im speaking up because these sisters bad mouth us in the media. And others need to know the real
@67spaceace11 жыл бұрын
Those negative commenters are So off on this. You are both adorable and very insightful ladies. Its nice that some ladies can understand the plight of us good hearted fellows. I once cooked a four course meal for my past girlfriend that took me all morning until late afternoon , went to a French pastry shop for desert, wine ,candles etc. she showed up an hour and a half late, after the food was cold, she said food is food, just grab something at the supermarket. Cooking was my gift.
@OldNorsebrewery6 жыл бұрын
The main reason for women treat good men bad is because they test him constantly to see if they can stretch him some more without him complaining to much. They want to feel safe, secure and respected and if he fails her tests she has no respect for him and only stays for the money. Her other enjoyment in life is with other men. Because she believes that she deserves everything
@neilcoby65946 жыл бұрын
You girls look 😍😘💓
@jaywolfman21186 жыл бұрын
It's just not black women......trust me
@johnsondailysports13414 жыл бұрын
Jay Wolfman211 yes it is. Most who’re women know how to act
@arcgrn6 жыл бұрын
Attraction is a mirror image. Meaning, when a woman likes a loser this is how she sees herself. Money, education and how she was raised doesn’t matter.
@newera52386 жыл бұрын
I can relate with this video, and these comments. These comments 😔, man I feel y'all. But be strong, God will bless you regardless 😃