Basically. "Hang on loosely but dont let go cuz if you cling to tightly you're gonna lose control"

I really enjoy these "man to man talks".

Been together 10 years, Married 4. Wife dropped Divorce bomb on me 2 months ago. Blindsided me. Let me tell you friends, this is a hell that no words can describe, and would not wish on my worst enemy. Take it from me, listen to Cody, he is RIGHT.

Well said! I feel the exact same way. My wife and I have been together for 15 years and married for 8. She is a hairdresser, and has a lot of male clients. A lot of people I know wouldn't be able to handle that. I've seen it with other people. Once that jealousy comes out, that's when it all starts to fall apart. Young men, listen to Cody.

I cant say i agree with this. In been with my woman from high school, 28 years now. The only one for me, never doubt and 99% happy with her. The key? Be youself and let her be herself. Your both not perfect by a long shot, but lurne life tougether. Dont hide feelings becouse you ‘should’ be a man... be you. Say al you feel, hate and love, and let her do the same. If she’s the one... that is what she will love about you the most.

Divorce is a nightmare! The damage is catastrophic to everyone involved.

In other words make her work for it a little bit.

I am missing the old videos about what to keep in your truck tool chest etc

Are you single handedly bringing back the Gotee?

Convict conditioning update?

Tell us how you and Mrs. Wranglerstar got together.

Okay, let's man up.

Was married for 26 years..got a divorce!. Now it feels good to not be in love.

Wisdom from .38 Special: "Hold on loosely, but don't let go. If you cling too tightly, you're gonna lose control."

I always find its good to keep your lady in a cupboard one day a week. They say absence makes the heart grow fonder, they’re always happy to be let out, and at the end of the day it doesn’t really matter if the cooking and cleaning doesn’t get done for a day does it 👍

That's a solid piece of romance advice mate. Young man watching WS' video take the knowledge offered a woman will not value a over attentive door mat

Cody you are the wizard. The words you speak on this extremely true. I've been with my woman for 18 years and married to her for 13 years and all these things that you just said completely apply.

Too much is a tautology. How do we know when well enough becomes too much?

Love the aloof comment. It’s so true in long term relationships. You must keep relationships dynamic not stagnant. Keep her on her toes and I don’t mean by high heels.

Your manly manners analysis is spot on. Took me a while to learn, but I took this tactic with my wife when we were dating, and obviously it worked.

As an 18 yr old guy My problem is not girls not liking me. Its finding one who isnt on Instagram and Snapchat all the time and is willing to raise a good strong Christian family

When your like 14 and just confused

Hold On Loosely but don't let go if you cling too tightly you might lose control

Spot on, but no one could have told that to my 21 year old self.

We went halfsies on our first date. 6+ years and going strong.

Just learn how to balance. You don't need to be standoffish and have her confused. You shouldn't play games. There is no problem with being like "oh sorry I have something planned with my friends but we can do something in a few days"

Ok, I have a confession to make and this is coming from a guy that did fall in love with a woman. The one thing that every man should never do....Never smother your feelings unto her. I had learned that the hard way, and I am very fortunate that she did forgive me.

Hi Cody, When I was growing up my dad made sure that I had manners I.E. open a door for a lady, walk on the outside etc, when I started going out with my girlfriend (we have been together 20 years now) I was totally floored by her as she objected to me opening doors for her and told me that I was taking her individuality away. I no longer try to open doors for her but it has taken a concerted effort to stop myself even now. It is unnerving to find that something you did as a nice gesture being thrown back at you as something totally different.

Good advice...hard to do in practice when you are in love with someone or especially when you feel them pulling away. It is like a self-fulfilling thing...you feel someone pulling away...you try even harder or give even more attention...they pull away harder. It is so hard to pull away yourself. Unfortunately been there and you are 100% right.

Cody has got it dialed in. A surefire way of setting yourself up for a personal hell is to be at the pleasure of the lady and not to breath. Keep a relationship on a balance, it's tough at times but when it's right you'll be walking a mile with a smile. The adage of a happy wife is a happy life also plays into it as well. Just know when the scale is tipping sometime space in needed sometimes it's togetherness.

While we all look for our other halves, we are still individuals and therefore slightly different. we all need Me time. some more than others. Mrs. W going away is Me time. A a long term relationship can be compared to a wood fire. At first it burns hot and fast than the flames go down and the embers glow. That's the fire which produces sustainable heat for a long time. After forty years of marriage the advice I would give is as follows. Have patience, be willing to compromise and/or give him/her the point. Don't fret over the small stuff. In the long run you'll find most things are small stuff.

I just put on my flannel and start cutting down trees in the park

Let's man up by changing more than 7 diapers....lol

In a society where most families are fragmented and morally mixed it is a good thing to bring up relationship issues. I have met so many men in my lifetime that did not have a role model to show them the proper way to relate to women. And even when they did it was difficult to navigate the field with so many different sets of values out there. Take your time.

You have that gut feeling if something is up or wrong. Love is blind.... Watch your feelings. Be carefull, it's not eazy.

Cody. That's a lot of words just to describe some self control. :) My advice for potential young couples is time apart and time together, most importantly working together on projects. You help her on some of her projects and she help you. If neither of you can handle taking direction on the others project than maybe perhaps should re think things. Nothing worse than a relationship not based on solid ground, aka reality.

Men don’t have these talks enough, and it really shows in society

Good talk, I need to think about what you said, but I like your candor. I've been married for more than twenty years and I understand the need for personal space for both people. What concerns me is the idea of trying to make another person want you. Unless of course you're talking about testing intentions, then I get it. Are you saying, don't fully invest in a relationship that is only one sided? I agree with that concept 100%.

Was that paint drying at the end of the video?

I personally find these VERY helpful, in fact I am experiencing problems regarding the subject brother Cody touched on today and I feel blessed by this video. thank you brother, you are more precious than you know, you area a great example and Jesus has blessed you greatly for all the great work you put towards Him. you are blessed in this life and in The Eternal Kingdom Forevermore.

"The most important decision you will ever make" is NOT about who to marry . The most IMPORTANT decision a man will EVER make is : to give ones self to J-sus, accept J-sus as ones own L-rd and S-vior . That IS the most important decision a man will ever make !

yes I worked and WAS friends with people who were jealous and its exhausting and brought me down.. so along with toxic people I had to take the garbage out and throw them out.. Mr W... it's called needy, being needy, that too is exhausting and really takes away from developing a stable, loving relationship..

We have a friend who worked a lot of years in Saudi Arabia. Those "hiding" things, etc. absolutely still happen there. I'm not sure "aloof" would be a good idea... Maybe we should describe it as "not desperately needy to the point that she wonders either what's wrong with you or what you want from her." My husband was a friend. He wasn't nuts, he wasn't needy, he also wasn't aloof. I got to go with him and his friends, which meant I got to see that he was an open book (not just saying he was an open book like some do).

If people would set there pride aside, be willing to get help, ask for forgiveness, mean it... that goes a long way.

I wanna send wranglerstar something that I came across recently. Not sure where to send it. Is there a PO box for fan mail? Help me out guys

Meh, women always lavished attention on me. Mobbing me everywhere I went, screaming and fainting when I smiled at them, always hanging onto my legs and kissing my feet...It was rough, man...

Don't be the "what do you want" "what ever you decide" " you tell me" guy. As hard as it may be, make the decision and let your disapproval known. And best advice I've ever got is, change things up. Don't be same old, day in and day out. That has kept things fresh for both of us.

Just got a copy of "Don'ts for husbands". Thought that I had been watching long enough not to have my own. God bless!

We haven’t seen mrs. pants in a long time

Hit the nail on the head on that one

Very good advice!

What would you say about having mutual friends with your partner?

great advice!

Love manly manners!! Really gets me thinking how to be a better husband. Love the old fashioned perspectives

your vid has just put in perspective what im going though with a girl from work and now i know things are going to be ok thank you

Good advice 😊👍

i would not say aloof but more patience not rushed and hoovered over ... as a woman we tend (especially the shy ones) to think too much of something is a lie so too much attention makes us anxious

Did anyone see that cat at 1:00 in the bottom left

Plz do more camping videos there my fav

As Khalil Gibran said about marriage in The Prophet: Love one another, but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup. Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone, Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music. Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping. For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts. And stand together yet not too near together: For the pillars of the temple stand apart, And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow.

Both sides need to be able to pursue what makes them happy, If you can't have a trusting relationship dont ever get married , and sure as hell don't start a family. I used to believe that no one should live together out of wedlock . But now i believe everybody should spend 5 years together before getting married and starting a family.

We all have been there. As a man I can tell, we don't learn it the first time.

I want more videos like this keep it up!!

Off topic. But would you do a review on an otter box phone case? And we haven't seen a Christmas top 10

You give some good advice

Which is warmer, that Mountain Hardware vest or the Folson Wool vest?

staying single is the best

I love that book 👌 your a good man for honest advice Cody..... say it how it is and I like it 👊

I don’t have a axe Before

My uncle told me this. His words wouldve made a sailor cringe But he basically meant the same thing as you..

Perfect advise Cody.

It's all about chemistry, trust. Take it from one that has been with the same woman going on 45 years.

As always once again well said thanks.

hence the phrase, treat them mean, keep them keen

Don't be that guy who noone ever sees anymore because he met a new girl. We all know one! Best advice I was given is to keep doing whatever it is that you like doing and you'll meet someone who is similarly minded to you. Keep going to church and going to dirt bike events and you'll eventually meet someone on the same page with like minded values. Boozing it up at the bars and pubs generally is not a good place to meet your future spouse.

Nailed it!

I know that this is a bit extreme...But what happens if someone else did use "women's psychology loophole" (found that out while being lonely and miserable years ago, on questionable sites, also I never know that 3 questions is that makes them somewhat in control) on the girl that you love? And ends up abusing that trust with that girl to sell her body on the internet?

I agree buddt good advice

Ha ha, the ironic title - I like it.

I love how all of these yeah comments are from dudes. I agree with being reserved and not moving too fast. Straight up yes. But..being aloof, playing a game of indifference..eh not a good move. Games with a woman who not only knows her value and worth will get you dropped like a hot potato. If a man is interested he needs to pursue and state his intentions. Don't play games period. Leaving a woman constantly questioning what your motivation or intention is will not lead to pleasant things or a future. Be yourself, be confident and content with being able to be alone yes, dont smother yes.. but also be man enough and confident enough to clearly state and display your intentions with the woman you are interested in. Games are for children not grown adults.

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Good stuff, period.

Well said.

I’ve learned to accept that I don’t need a woman

WISE WORDS

I don't like game playing but I get what you're saying. I think the thing is to remember who you are and continue to be yourself as you are getting to know this person.

...I stopped at 2:00. I would be much more interested, and engaged, in hearing "I" and "me" stories. I speak for myself and experience has shown me that others have more interest in me telling My story than hearing me tell theirs. It's a world wide epidemic and I digress. Love your input and Grandpa stories. peace.

thanks

I think we've all made that mistake before...

Wow it's so cool I thought this site was about wood and stuff but I guess I get it I see the I see the parallel here and speaking of I was just wondering do you think that they call it the G-Spot because when you hit it women say G wiz or even G zusr

Im 17 years old...Im the guy in school who does,t care about Nice shoes and Jeans...Im one of the very few teens that wear proper clothes in any weather...One Sh**head even made fun of me ...Idk why did i wrote this comment im just bored...

what the hell is this? ..this ship is sinking

Im ugly. thats why.

Nothing quite like a good manly manners. Coming from experience your advice is sound. 👍

Cody's right.

How can I help support your channel?

Advice from this guy?

I suspect Aspergers is my problem.

Cody I Need your help please contact me I don’t know your email or how it works to get ahold of you I’m looking at some wood working tools tomorrow morning and I thought they were just that but the seller sent me a picture and they’re all antiques I don’t know what the values are I guess the guy collected them and now wants them outta the way i get first shot at them please let me know what to do to contact you

It's true women rather be with a guy that is kinda jerky and doesn't spend lots of time with them and isn't afraid to be a man. They might say otherwise but deep down they want the opposite of what their mind tells them.