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Why I left London and why you should probably do the same

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Ely Wananda

Ely Wananda

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Why I left London and why you should probably do the same.
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@Carlos-gv2he
@Carlos-gv2he 2 ай бұрын
I’m that guy you described. Raised by a single mother in Peckham. To be fair, my mum did an exceptional, astounding job with me and my two younger brothers, and I fully understand her reasons for raising us on her own as it was to protect us from our dad and turning out like him etc. I come from a family where nobody before me has got involved in a criminal lifestyle or been to prison. My mother is so far removed from all of that and didn’t raise her children in a way that would allow them to even have an opportunity to get involved in that stuff. She did her absolute best and utmost. Instilled very good morals and values in me and my brothers. Extremely supportive, showed up to every parents evening, school/college open day, took us to museums and galleries on the weekends and fairs and theatre plays etc, even took us away to the seaside when possible (we grew up with very little money so everything I just mentioned was either free or on the cheap) but my point is my mum was and is an excellent, fantastic role model who is just a great example. If I’d followed her lead as I should have done, I’d have never ended up in the situation I did. The thing is, I had a lot of trouble with my identity and outside acceptance. I felt like I had to be a certain type of person as a young black boy in Peckham, especially one who had been robbed for my phone and bike etc multiple times and bullied as a child. I felt I had to prove myself and not appear vulnerable in any way. There’s so much more behind it but that’s a big part of it. If I had stayed living underneath my mum’s roof, again, I doubt I would have got involved in what I did, but I got kicked out of my mum’s due to me having extremely bad anger issues and me not having a choice but to leave. My mum was also constantly finding things in my room that weren’t supposed to be there and she was worried about trouble I’d bring to the house and how I’d influence my younger brothers, so after years of “last chances”, there was one angry outburst too many and I was shown the door. Ended up living in a hostel, still in south London, where I was surrounded by nothing but people heavily involved in crime. I wasn’t seeing my mum daily anymore, so was getting more and more influenced by those around me and didn’t have her to balance me out and keep me grounded, reminding me who I really am and how I was raised. I’d only see her every week or 2 at this point, while I was living with criminals 24/7, so the balance was fully off. Ended up getting groomed by an older individual and sent to sell drugs on a county line where I was arrested and sentenced to some time in prison, completely and totally shattering my mum’s heart into pieces. As much as I love my area and south London and London as a whole, I definitely have a love/hate relationship with it. There’s no knowing what may have happened had I grown up in a different area or attended a different school, but I’m 99% sure the outcome would probably not have been as bad. I felt like being from Peckham I was some “bad boy” and I’m really not. I was victimised for being a good boy and felt I had to prove myself to others who actually don’t deserve a second thought and whom I couldn’t care less about now, but at the time, in my young, vulnerable mind, I guess I was swallowed up by the wolves, as it were
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Your experience is an example of how the environment we're raised in has a massive impact on how our lives will turn out. I wish you the best with everything man 🙏🏿
@iBOXRIVER
@iBOXRIVER Ай бұрын
Sorry to hear this brother. I resonate with your whole situation. I Had a similar upbringing raised very well by my single mother in a ghetto predominantly Carribean london area. I had two older brothers one was jailed for burglary, the other has depression and weed addiction. I managed to move out into the suburbs of south west london and have been here for over 15 years now. I belive most black families in inner city london have suffered some type of trauma relating to their environment. They also dont learn the right coping tools to deal with situations that they have to face. Alot of effort is put into “ fitting in” to our materialistic black communities, so much so that relationships take 2nd place. Most black people in london are insecure and are trying to cope with it. Alot of people are saying “ London is bad vibes” and to be honest i agree with them. The city is toxic for black people in my opinion. There is also pressure from the wider society weighing down on us. And alot of black people struggle to cope with it all.
@mariepearl-harbour2335
@mariepearl-harbour2335 Ай бұрын
I respect your honesty. Can I ask which of the notorious Peckham gang members groomed you? How did they go about it? Have you managed to get out the ghetto? Hopefully the Heavenly Father through the True Messiah will give you healing.
@orionxtc1119
@orionxtc1119 Ай бұрын
every family needs a mother AND father...
@psalms519
@psalms519 2 ай бұрын
Im from London, Tottenham and i now live in Leeds. Moving up north is one of the best moeves ive made in my life
@sbaby-kg8hn
@sbaby-kg8hn 2 ай бұрын
I have considered Leeds myself
@oiputthatback7361
@oiputthatback7361 2 ай бұрын
You have moved to God’s own county. Yorkshire is beautiful.
@keys6
@keys6 2 ай бұрын
No thank you.. I was born up there. Never could I live there again.
@dezhull3311
@dezhull3311 2 ай бұрын
Area to avoid in leeds are hairhills especially if you have kids .
@psalms519
@psalms519 2 ай бұрын
@@dezhull3311 absolutely Seacroft, armley and Wortley too
@SS-nh3jt
@SS-nh3jt 2 ай бұрын
We need a group of traditionally minded couples to intentionally settle in a cheap part of the community and slowly take it over. Establish a black middle class area, and build from the bottom up. This is how you foster a community that has the right values to be sustainable. Two parent households of well to do folk that own their home and participate in local politics. As we are at the bottom, it'd be wise to choose an area where house prices are less than £250k and build from there. Start our own schools etc etc.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Amen! Anecdotally I know of some folks who have done things on these lines. The key is to plant these ideas in people from when they're young. As has been said elsewhere, individualism is tricking us into trying to do everything on our own or in our own "nuclear" families. Community starts with families working together. There are enough Black families who could be doing this. These conversations are all part of getting these ideas out there.
@gardeniainbloom812
@gardeniainbloom812 2 ай бұрын
Agreed. London needs more families like Ely’s not fewer. Come back Ely🙏🏽
@Nazarene_Judaism
@Nazarene_Judaism 2 ай бұрын
You want middlesborough but guess what, it will NEVER happen.
@SS-nh3jt
@SS-nh3jt 2 ай бұрын
@@elywananda It will have to be a select group of professionals, hard-workers and like minded individuals. Unfortunately, there is a malaise within our community so until it has been established with the correct values and the foundation is strong, it'll have to be selective. We need to gather in one of the cheapest cities in the UK and start there.
@SS-nh3jt
@SS-nh3jt 2 ай бұрын
@@gardeniainbloom812 London has already been conquered and dominated, we are too poor as a group to establish a foothold somewhere. It is also simply too big. We need to pick a city that is relatively smaller and far cheaper for us to buy the real estate there.
@salvaahthesageofficial2457
@salvaahthesageofficial2457 2 ай бұрын
It’s refreshing to hear another black person saying what I’ve been thinking since I arrived in London in 2019 (from Lisbon,Portugal) . I am 22 years old and already made my mind that London is NOT a family friendly city. Wise words my african brother👏🏾
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Thanks bro. Funnily enough, me and wife have considered moving to Portugal. The weather in the UK can be hard work and we're thinking of places we might like to try living in. Portugal seems like a good option though we'd need to work for UK-based companies probably. Would you recommend it?
@Zazezoo
@Zazezoo 2 ай бұрын
@@elywanandawhat about Kenya ? 🫣You can establish a business there… I believe Africa has a lot more to offer.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
@@Zazezoo Yeah I've thought about Kenya, my birthplace. I discussed moving away from the UK here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bKxnnNeZqOC0d3k.htmlsi=IcUK6Kr4bRA4hf6d
@marleyhill34
@marleyhill34 2 ай бұрын
@@elywananda I definitely want to move back to Barbados for my retirement because the UK weather is making me quite ill. Even though I was born in a London Suburb. 😅
@04nbod
@04nbod 29 күн бұрын
Why do you think all the white people moved out?
@LornaNicholson-uv6js
@LornaNicholson-uv6js 2 ай бұрын
I bought a large flat in the East End of Glasgow 15 years ago. My family thought I was insane. They’d always lived on the other side of the city until it became gentrified. I’m almost mortgage free now while rents and property prices have begun to really increase in the last few years. I worked for a while in London but kept my flat and came back in 2017. If my flat (traditional flats in Glasgow are large spacious victorian buildings) were in London it would cost around 400k. I paid 70k for it. After Covid the rent and house prices here went mad so I couldn’t upgrade to a two bedroom but in this society I am so incredibly lucky. No matter what happens I will have my home and no one can throw me out or demand an inspection. When I first started going to London in the late 90s everyone on the bus was Scottish - either going to see their family who were working there or just going back to work. Most people who went to uni with me in the 90s went straight to London. Whereas now people stay which would have been unthinkable in 90s. I recently got the bus from London to Glasgow and almost everyone had a London accent and surely this is because London is simply unliveable for even middle-class people. It’s insane to me that people would move to Glasgow as an opportunity but here we are.
@andrewl8199
@andrewl8199 2 ай бұрын
My mind boggles why people focus on London to buy property. Our transport services are great so getting to London from outside will take approx 20min.
@No1superjuicey
@No1superjuicey 2 ай бұрын
What area is this please
@eliseoellis3863
@eliseoellis3863 2 ай бұрын
Yes but brother, you’ve forgotten a variable. I live in the outskirt of London, at approximately the distance you mentioned. 24/ into Kings Cross on the great Northern services, back to the variable you are missing is the £34 a day return ticket. That is one thing we still need to figure a trade-off. I think mainly because if you happen to have the obligation to work in London while you move outside, then you better pray you have a job that -600 a month out of your salary will still make sense. In which case, one can even argue if you are a black family and make just over 6 figures you might as well see which of the affordable good areas of London you can move to. Example, Muswell Hill, Finshley, Hamstead Heath, Swiss Cottage and so on. Another thing to think about as well is racing your kids were there are not much people who look like them, although, I think we will certainly prefer them alive without much self awareness of identity than dead or being a member of a gang or in prison . Its really hard. I have not moved back to London, but at times I do miss it. Also the experience living outside of London, a couple of time a car drove past and driver and his mates would make Monkey noises, thinks that wont happen in London that easily because the white people in London were raised with all kinds of people.Even they some might be racist, but they wont bring it up for the sake of fun that easily. Oh, and be prepare - its been 7 years I have not exchanged words with my most immediate neighbour yet.
@keys6
@keys6 2 ай бұрын
And cost a fortune in train fares for those who depend on public transport.
@CaldonianDude
@CaldonianDude 2 ай бұрын
I live about 50 minutes train ride from London and an anytime return was £165 last time I bought one. I'd dispute transport services are "great". They are patchy and expensive. An exception is the Elizabeth Line which I've used to quickly get to LHR T5 and it is currently a pretty good service.
@joey-pn3xe
@joey-pn3xe 2 ай бұрын
100% agree. We moved to the suburbs of Manchester 5 years ago. Visit London still and feel sorry for inner city people now.
@marthasheilds2446
@marthasheilds2446 Ай бұрын
@@joey-pn3xe Manchester has it's own problems there and loads of racism in Manchester and further north .
@joey-pn3xe
@joey-pn3xe Ай бұрын
@@marthasheilds2446 I agree. I’m currently paying for private school which has a very good mix of kids so my daughter is not the only non white child in our local school. However with all its issues, our lives have improved massively compared to surviving in London, we can actually live now. It’s difficult to explain or understand when it’s your norm in London that it’s not a great life.
@drillingig2368
@drillingig2368 28 күн бұрын
@@marthasheilds2446Racism is a myth, bro. Be so good at what you do that they (the majority) make room for you.
@iheardyoulikeme
@iheardyoulikeme 2 ай бұрын
I live in a predominantly middle class Asian area in London. The first thing my new neighbors asked when I moved in was whether we were renting. I don’t blame them. We do not have a foothold in London that is middle class, black and thriving. Until then, we are simply the odd couple of black faces in an already established area.
@SS-nh3jt
@SS-nh3jt 2 ай бұрын
We have to establish in an area that is cheaper than London.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Yeah, spot on. The stats are stark and I'm pleased to provide a venue for us to discuss these matters.
@thebossman4875
@thebossman4875 2 ай бұрын
@@elywananda I'm in
@seanjohnbig2664
@seanjohnbig2664 2 ай бұрын
We do, Central and west tbamesmead
@onenation8707
@onenation8707 2 ай бұрын
Where's that, Southall ?
@christopherhanson9578
@christopherhanson9578 2 ай бұрын
Ironically most black people do not really go to the bars and resturaunts in London. They are in London because they are afraid to be isolated if they go outside London. Also alot of of black people are quite new to the country and gravitate towards their ethnic communities for support.
@reduitman
@reduitman 2 ай бұрын
Good point. Most are slaves to London but afraid to look elsewhere.
@lonalxaia
@lonalxaia 2 ай бұрын
Not really I'm talking from experience.
@spamspam7265
@spamspam7265 2 ай бұрын
@@reduitmanyou are now the new slave begger paying taxes ULEZ begging for freedom and country back where have you gone?
@RevealedFilms
@RevealedFilms 2 ай бұрын
Basically crabs in a barrel. I sold up and left London in 2020 and took my family to Dubai.
@80skid83
@80skid83 2 ай бұрын
I'm black and some of the black ppl I know don't want to leave London as they will be an outcast outside London. I as a black man left London, whilst I was an outcast in my new area it didn't bother me much and didn't have any real issues with people.
@lonalxaia
@lonalxaia 2 ай бұрын
Not to brag I think my parents were 30 years a head of their time even bought a house outside of London . Family and friends always had a "you live in the countryside joke" now look. Today they have sold up and enjoying their rum and sun in the Caribbean.
@leos8977
@leos8977 2 ай бұрын
Rum isn't something to enjoy especially not so young people.
@lonalxaia
@lonalxaia 2 ай бұрын
@@leos8977 only in moderation.
@IntrovertMaxxing
@IntrovertMaxxing 2 ай бұрын
That's kind of the problem. Blk people in the UK can't establish themselves or a community if we just sell and leave.
@sharonm2598
@sharonm2598 2 ай бұрын
Where did they have the foresight to buy a house 30 years ago?
@lonalxaia
@lonalxaia 2 ай бұрын
@@sharonm2598 unknown town in Buckinghamshire.
@kurriedone741
@kurriedone741 2 ай бұрын
Hi Ely, 1st time watching you. I agree with everything you say. By the way you forgot to include Croydon. We lived in Croydon and left in 2021 precisely for all of the reasons you have mentioned. You also forgot to mention that in all of the areas you mentioned where we as black people live they are not building detached affordable housing and neither are we being lent through mortgage the opportunity to buy. What most Londoners are not aware of is house building organisations are super busy outside of London curating whole areas building with minimal crime whatever house or apartment your pocket can afford with excellent road access and the country for quiet walks when you have free time. I could go on but I have to respect your channel and the excellent message you are trying to share.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Superb comments, especially about the housebuilding that's happening out here. I moved a couple years before the lockdown era, and it's been really interesting seeing the numbers of new houses going up and the increasing numbers of Londoners moving in. So the penny is dropping somewhat.
@BennyMcGibbon
@BennyMcGibbon 2 ай бұрын
It's all fear. The father dodges responsibility out of fear of commitment. The son becomes wayward out of fear as he doesn't have a steady hand guiding him. He joins the man dem out of fear. He gives it the big big big out of fear. A father is needed so that the kids don't feel the fear every day from the mother.
@sinceresong9907
@sinceresong9907 2 ай бұрын
Deep...Big up
@japhethodudu6445
@japhethodudu6445 2 ай бұрын
This comment needs to be explored and dissected as a topic or series, there is a lot to unpack in what you have written, thank you
@ancientfuture9690
@ancientfuture9690 2 ай бұрын
It's true (and tragic) actually. They do avoid the difficult and necessary task of becoming a man/father the ONLY way a young man can...by adopting responsibility. And one of the main reasons they do this is because (sorry to be crude) they "prioritise p***y over parenting". They do not want to remain faithful and devoted to the mother of their children. Until that is fixed (and not by some external source that'll come in and do it, but by EACH ONE of them making that mature choice), there will always be fatherless children that end up in gangs. It's not rocket science.
@sinceresong9907
@sinceresong9907 2 ай бұрын
@@ancientfuture9690 Sadly the truth in so many cases.
@BennyMcGibbon
@BennyMcGibbon 2 ай бұрын
@@ancientfuture9690 Sadly there are more priorities to these young men then just sleeping around. Now this is difficult but it's the truth and so many of these guys know it. They get women pregnant so they can have a bed for the night, food even drive their baby mother's cars and use their phones and internet. You see it time and again. They are just recreating the exact same scenario they grew up in. Having a female mother them, feed them, pay for them. They haven't seen the example set by a father who works so they avoid working and just create what they know by getting a girl pregnant whilst that girl relies on the state.
@sinceresong9907
@sinceresong9907 2 ай бұрын
I left North London a decade ago. I haven't looked back. The best decision I made for a multitude of reasons.
@TzoHill
@TzoHill 2 ай бұрын
Do you mind sharing some reasons?
@sinceresong9907
@sinceresong9907 2 ай бұрын
1) Slower pace of life 2) Cheaper cost of living/travel, opportunity to rent or buy decent larger property. 3)Stronger sense of community (lots of community events/activities that suit all ages) 4)Open cleaner spaces/Countryside 5)Lower crime rates/I feel safe and relaxed(less stress) 6) I live next to the sea/Fresh sea air/Happier summers if staying in the UK 7)Good schools for children/not so over crowded 8) I know my neighbours 9) It's peaceful 10) I never get through a day without speaking to many people (friendliness), more manners and general respect in regards to looking after each other and our environment. 11)Children generally have actual childhoods. Don't grow up too fast.
@80skid83
@80skid83 2 ай бұрын
Same, I left 8 years ago and love it
@80skid83
@80skid83 2 ай бұрын
​@@sinceresong9907great reasons
@westcoast747
@westcoast747 2 ай бұрын
Where I live a three bed house is at least £500,000. In London you’d struggle to buy a house. The Housing market is a total mess, move out of London and spread your wings.
@chrismccartney8668
@chrismccartney8668 2 ай бұрын
Excellent Video im white born South Woodford lived in Leytonstone first house bought in East Ham but now back in South Woodford near to Jewel in the Crown for East London Wanstead Park Epping Forest we are so lucky with other open spaces nearby Hainault forest etc.. My first house was East Ham GLC Mortage as no lenders would touch East Ham, now houses sell like hot cakes.. Then moved to where i was born and loved South Woodford got a 1 bed flat at twice the price of 3 bed terrace so not cheap but im still here 30 years later it has always felt like home good transport central line bus to Iford M11 A406. The local park 300 yards away is where pedalled my pedal car as a child..
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
That part of London is actually great. The first place we lived was Clapton, and when we moved to Leyton I was actually amazed at how quiet and green it seemed in comparison. It's such a shame that areas like those are unaffordable to buy in for those who grew up there. Great to hear that you've been able to stay in your childhood area. I envy you.
@nikkion2140
@nikkion2140 2 ай бұрын
I am not black. I am Chinese blood. I would love to embrace the idea to team up with those of similar mindset to buy up North to rebuild the community.
@sbaby-kg8hn
@sbaby-kg8hn 2 ай бұрын
Lots of lovely Chinese British families in the north of England I have experienced this myself
@OdachiRain
@OdachiRain 2 ай бұрын
i grew up in croydon and so many of my peers are either waiting for their parents to die to inherit their house, they live in flatshares or they move up north. it was bad for my generation but the next generation are completely screwed. at least we had a chance to buy something away from london but i cant do what i did back then if i tried in 2024. there are SO MANY young kids growing up seeing london's wealth but it doesnt matter how hard you work you cant buy a place where you grew up anymore
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Spot on. It's actually a disgrace how London has been turned into a casino for the privileged few. Only one or two friends from my youth who has bought a home, did so in London.
@samyoe
@samyoe Ай бұрын
Yes, and they'll likely sell the property when they inherit it which results in the black community owning less and less assets over time. Wealth disparity is on the rise.
@allykhan8594
@allykhan8594 2 ай бұрын
Don't leave London, leave the country. Waste of time in the u.k.
@reduitman
@reduitman 2 ай бұрын
Some people live very good lives in the U.K. It all depends on your personal circumstances
@user-vh3ot9xn1d
@user-vh3ot9xn1d 2 ай бұрын
@@reduitman very rarely black ppl
@hannah60000
@hannah60000 2 ай бұрын
@@ZuliailuZ183 Yes, like anywhere else in the world. Some.
@ManchesterBlue1894
@ManchesterBlue1894 2 ай бұрын
I agree with this, I bought a 2 bed flat recently in manchester for a great price, I am only 24. the pro of living up north is that you can gain assets very quickly. I would have no chance if I was in the south of the country. I will probably buy more properties in the near future.
@SS-nh3jt
@SS-nh3jt 2 ай бұрын
This is the correct way to do things. London is too difficult to compete with, simply because it is the playground of the established rich and the global elite.
@ManchesterBlue1894
@ManchesterBlue1894 2 ай бұрын
@@SS-nh3jt Yes you are right, London is the rich man's playground and it will probably get worse. You are competing with big corporations, banks and wealthy foreigners which makes it impossible for the working classes to attain assets like property. I was thinking of moving down there for a job but the cost of living put me off big time
@emmsue1053
@emmsue1053 2 ай бұрын
I am a Manchester lass, born and bred.. Its totally dependent on areas like any other city. A semi in a nicer area will be an absolute minimum of 250 thou.. Housing stock is low..
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
@ManchesterBlue1894 Thanks fam. And is that Benjani in your profile photo. That's so niche if it is lol!
@rewghob
@rewghob 2 ай бұрын
Are you from Manchester? Prices up here are sky rocketing and it's mainly because people from the Midlands and South are coming and pushing the prices up. There are people born and raised here who are struggling to afford properties now. Also, not a fan of people treating property like a business and wanting to accumulate a portfolio to make money out of when there are individuals and families who can't find a decent, affordable place to live.
@gardeniainbloom812
@gardeniainbloom812 2 ай бұрын
But but but where would I buy my ackee and saltfish?🤣. I have mixed feelings about black exodus to the Hebrides. Fresh air and open skies are obviously wonderful and should be standard but a sense of community is also very important. I live in Brent and shockingly our presence has declined and taken over by new immigrants. My grandson is the ONLY black child in his class and there is only one other black child in his year group. I am fortunate to live in a house with a garden surrounded by trees (they’re no longer building these types of properties in London) and there is still community and bird song so lockdown for me was a breeze. The other thing to consider is access to services. If you’re fit and young then yeah go but if you’re in need of social care resources are better in London. I worry for my grandchildren in this area and hope they move away before they start secondary school but I wouldn’t want them isolated in an area surrounded by closet racists and no black presence.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Brilliant points. I have recorded a video on some downsides to leaving London but I'll have to do another one to discuss some of your points especially around the access to services. Also, I'm shocked at your grandson's experience with Brent. It's one of the boroughs that I just assume has large Black populations. But then again it makes sense in the gentrification era.
@gardeniainbloom812
@gardeniainbloom812 2 ай бұрын
@@elywanandaI was shocked too. We’re definitely a minority now.
@SS-nh3jt
@SS-nh3jt 2 ай бұрын
The key to this would be to establish these type of shops in the new locations we go to. A cheap city that we establish ourselves in and buy the property, and within time establish businesses such as local shops etc.
@reduitman
@reduitman 2 ай бұрын
Derby, Nottingham, Birmingham. Plenty Caribbean food outlets
@sunshinejones8643
@sunshinejones8643 2 ай бұрын
Brent has most definitely changed. Not many African Caribbean there these days.
@jazzyj4126
@jazzyj4126 2 ай бұрын
Habari my brother. I am like you, mainly raised here in uk but was born in kenya and moved to uk when 3. I also live in leyton near lea bridge. I appreciate your advice and your representation has helped me. I love my area near lea bridge but the mortgage costs are so evil. I do need to consider my future here because of this. Your wisdom shall be useful to others.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Hujambo brother! Wow, your life is a mirror image of mine lol! I'm very happy to share what I'm learning. Stay tuned for more every week🙏🏿
@Alan_GA
@Alan_GA Ай бұрын
Habari yako, I was also born in Kenya. My family moved to the UK, precisely Manchester. And our experiences mirror each other.
@Timcurryman
@Timcurryman 2 ай бұрын
This is why the countryside is being overly built on.
@CaldonianDude
@CaldonianDude 2 ай бұрын
Is it? I cycled up to the top of Milk Hill in Wiltshire the other day and there's barely a house visible all the way to the horizon in all directions. Quoting the Campaign to Protect Rural England: "Almost nine-tenths of England's total land area remains open and green, with relatively little countryside lost to development over the previous 20 years. One reason for this is that social attitudes have changed profoundly." - of course, things might change in the future....
@Timcurryman
@Timcurryman 2 ай бұрын
I live in Chippenham and houses are going up all over the place. It's a commuter town. Birds marsh is the latest development but there are plenty of plans for redevelopment. All over Wiltshire will be quickly built on. Wait and see.
@CaldonianDude
@CaldonianDude 2 ай бұрын
@@Timcurryman Oh dear, that is depressing!
@kieronblake7877
@kieronblake7877 2 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, the London overspill into the home counties comes with its issues, that then become interwoven into the existing issues of said home counties area.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Indeed. Not to mention things like the whole county lines thing.
@kieronblake7877
@kieronblake7877 2 ай бұрын
@@elywananda exactly
@riohburke3467
@riohburke3467 2 ай бұрын
Power to you sir. You have a new subscriber. I understand what you're saying. Especially in those areas that you mentioned. However, I believe our people should aspire to live wherever they want. Whether it's Little Aston in the Midlands or Hampstead near the Heath. I agree areas where there is high crime should be avoided but the cost of a neighborhood shouldn't be a deterrent. Yes, we are disadvantaged in many things but we can succeed regardless. Our priority should be teaching our young people money habits and setting up our children by investing into assets such as ISA's for them. When I first moved to London from Birmingham as a student I was drawn to North London, Highgate because of how beautiful the houses were, the brilliant schools and the vibrant community. I now live not too far from Highgate in one of London's leafy suburbs, and my house has a garden. I wasn't born into wealth, Far from. I grew up in Handsworth in Birmingham, however, I learned good money habits in my 20s when I started working in the city. That helped me a lot. The only thing I wish is I learned these habits much younger.
@ludy41
@ludy41 2 ай бұрын
Hello fellow Handsworthian.
@stevo728822
@stevo728822 2 ай бұрын
I live in a town of 10k people on the south coast. We have a theatre, 4 large supermarkets in town, Tesco superstore is 15 minute drive away, cheapest petrol in the country, train station, a small high street with many charity shops where I get cheap clothing, 6 barbers, 10 pubs all different, chinese, indian, turkish, pizza takeaways, 10 minute walk down an abandoned railway line into the countryside where I can feed deer, 15 minutes to the beach, 2 minute walk to common land to run dogs, police station, fire station and medical clinic at the bottom of the road, 3 pharmacies. I can buy a decent cafe meal out for under £10. 1 1/2 hours by train to Waterloo or Gatwick. As I write this, all I can hear is the odd bird singing. But other places like the Welsh borders and towns north of Newcastle are also nice parts of the country.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Wow, that's an impressive pitch for that town! I like it because you pinpoint the specific things which bring value to living there.
@abundancemindset777
@abundancemindset777 2 ай бұрын
I've just finished watching this excellent video - you have a new subscriber btw! I'm a Londoner that is in the process of buying a place and I'm seriously considering leaving London (again!)for more bang for my buck. I say again because I've lived in Amsterdam, Berlin, Brighton and Preston over the years for varying reasons. If one can navigate the balance between culture and battling racism, I think leaving London, if not the UK, is a great option and one which many more black should embrace - if the opportunity comes up. Would love to continue this conversation with you or see a follow up video on tis topic.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Excellent input man. I think we're still at a point where moving out of big cities could be such a boost to the quality of life, including our economic wellbeing. It is not an easy thing though and tomorrow I'll upload a video discussing some challenges. But these are the price to pay to get the benefits of being "pioneers." Hopefully see you on the next vid ✊🏿
@norahn4078
@norahn4078 2 ай бұрын
I grew up in Bromley borough and there were a lot of young black families there and black kids where out performing other ethnic groups in my school. I never felt like we were isolated or the odd ones out and most of the parents where African immigrants. I would say there can be a skewed bias of perception when we are used to just one area. I now live in Bedfordshire because I wanted to buy property and I have a much healthier work life balance as it takes much less time to get to work and I’m much closer to Wembley Stadium (30 mins) and also 40 mins to Heathrow Airport. I was also able to get a dog and we regularly go out to the Chiltern Hills for hikes. The grass might not always be greener but it can be healthier.
@thebossman4875
@thebossman4875 2 ай бұрын
Another factor that may not have been considered is that many black British see living in the UK as temporary and have intentions to relocate to their home countries or countries of their parents and grandparents. Meaning that a large chunk of our community dont see buying a house and living permanently in the uk as an aspirational ambition. Actually most of the people of this mindset are professionals or what we would categorise as middle class
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Indeed. I'm going to dig around for some data on that. I imagine lots of our people do end up returning and that's all good as long as they are also able to leave something, some legacy for their children here (or over there).
@djunleash
@djunleash 2 ай бұрын
@@elywananda I think that only applies to the Windrush generation not their children who have roots in the uk.
@tagbeseyi
@tagbeseyi 2 ай бұрын
Also parking and driving a car in London is such a headache. Congestion charge, Ulez, expensive parking bays and limited places to park in the capital is enough pain.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Man, I can't believe I forgot to mention that. the amount of money I coughed-up in parking fines, etc while in London. Still happens now. We got a fine last year for mounting the kerb. Damn it, everyone does this outside London lol.
@tagbeseyi
@tagbeseyi 2 ай бұрын
@@elywananda also the number of car brands such as range rovers that can't get insurance in London makes the capital an unattractive place to own a car. Car theft and catalytic converter thefts are through the roof. I know someone personally who had their range rover stolen twice and she then made the decision to leave London 🥲
@drillingig2368
@drillingig2368 28 күн бұрын
I can pay the price, but not getting insured is drawing the line. I am willing to pay anything to insure my vehicles, man.
@danielben-chimol7726
@danielben-chimol7726 2 ай бұрын
Bro, you speak truth on so many levels, I grew up on a council estate in London, I left the city 2020, just as covid hit and lock down began, OMG I have not looked back (moved to MK) so many positvies, open green space, no drama parking my car or fear of getting a parking ticket, next to zero road humps (potholes a whole other issue) no traffic jams or major road works, also the recent rise of those young youth boys stealing phones from victims as they walk down the street. I'm so glad to not be invovled, unfortunately london has become a city of those that have...which further divides those living below the support line.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Great to hear that man. And I loved the "postholes a whole other issues" btw! A lot of folks moved out of London during the lockdown era when they realised the importance of the natural environment. I can't see myself ever returning to fully urban life.
@marleyhill34
@marleyhill34 2 ай бұрын
I live in Zone 3 in southwest London. 30-minute walk from a train station. Not many black people live here but it's my happy place of the suburbs. We still have a community spirit here which is rare in London and chances are we already know who the youths are and their mum and dad and their Nan and Grandpa. Lol! So they are unlikely to try robbing most of the people round here. There's a lot of green space and I cycle around the borough.( driving in London is for the birds). The main pub landlady is brilliant because she will give people out-of-work shifts pulling pints or cleaning up or doing building repairs. I like that old-school vibe. I'm only half British and they just accepted me and that's how I know it's just community spirit. We support people who live in this area regardless of below the poverty line or even in the top 10% of earners. The people who live in the million-pound houses still come out and volunteer in the churches, community centres and the local prison and mingle in community events in the summer.
@catmou9225
@catmou9225 2 ай бұрын
Thank you, Ely, for this great analysis.
@jammydoughnuts
@jammydoughnuts 2 ай бұрын
Very good points! I know it is difficult for people to comprehend the idea of leaving their hometown where they were born and raised but I REALLY wish more black people would leave London. As soon as I was 18, I couldn’t wait to leave London and go to a university in the Midlands. I dropped out at the time, but I decided to stay and work for a few years as I was in no rush to come back to London. I had been in London my whole life and found it so limiting. It’s not even like I live on an estate or inner city. I live in West London, zone 4 but was tired of the crowdedness, the tube, how long it took to see friends who lived on the other side of the city, amongst other things. I loved it in the Midlands and felt myself having a more fulfilling life than I would’ve done in London. Everything was in the town centre and was a lot easier to travel to, so I went out a lot more and wasn’t afraid to go out by myself. Sure, there’s “less” to do outside of London, but unless you’re a socialite who gets bored very easily, is it really worth staying in London just to have access to more concerts, bars, restaurants & events? I would just take a train to London if I wanted to go to a specific event. If anything, it was more exciting since I made the effort for it. I really don’t feel like there’s a lot to miss out on, especially if you’re still relatively close to another UK city. When I lived in Nottingham and was friends with people who lived in quiet villages that were only 30-40mins to Notts via train! In London, it takes most people who live in the outer zones an hour to get anywhere anyway, so getting on a train is nothing really!
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
I had a similar experience when I went to uni in Birmingham. I would move to those places in a heartbeat if I had any connections there. I've been to Nottingham and Derby briefly and they both seemed cool. And yeah, I've worked with people who used to commute from as far as Leicester to London. It's doable, especially in this era of more remote working.
@rogerdoger3347
@rogerdoger3347 2 ай бұрын
Black people are not wanted in other parts of the UK hence why ura segregated and divided.
@CCP_Operative
@CCP_Operative 2 ай бұрын
I've lived in the north of the country and London. When it comes to raising kids I think London is a dead loss, I see kids throwing up gang signs in their school uniform, lots of crime, there are no woods or fields to muck about in. Nothing like the childhood I had, swimming in open water, exploring woods, camping.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Yep. I felt like London changed quite dramatically from the early 00s. That's when the gang stuff really took off (obviously there were gangs before, but it felt like you had to go looking for them. Now gangsterism is like a mainstream thing).
@mohsdef
@mohsdef 2 ай бұрын
What I have found is that people are friendlier out of London.
@PCG
@PCG 2 ай бұрын
Great talking point. I also grew up in London, I moved years ago for the same reason, and own a home that would not of been possible to obtain, if I was still living in the capital.
@1985MrFRESH
@1985MrFRESH 2 ай бұрын
May i suggest that the family unit stay together. Can't be kicking our youngsters out of the house at 18. Just buy a big house togther and have a muligenerational home. Like the Indian and Jewish communities.
@kurriedone741
@kurriedone741 2 ай бұрын
Love this point! A total different concept and conversation. Where I live now there are many people who have intergenerational houses and plots of land with the potential to house multiple generations rather than one house per whatever you define as a nuclear family. It is clear that these families with intergenerational homes have lower costs of living as well as emotional and financial support. The only challenge is everyone will need to get on with each other in order to reap the long term benefits.
@LM-op7wu
@LM-op7wu 2 ай бұрын
I think we need to stop generalising black people as a whole, in my culture we don't kick of children out at 18. The girls normally live at home till they're married, the men can stay too, but they tend to want their freedom more. Our parents move back in with us they're older.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Amen!
@yoniquethompson2268
@yoniquethompson2268 2 ай бұрын
I don't believe in kicking out my children either. We had parents, siblings Aunties, cousins and grandmother all under one roof here and Jamaica. And it keeps us together
@shernhow6021
@shernhow6021 Ай бұрын
My experience… wasn’t taught anything about money management. it took me until my late 30s to learn about money and started saving, luckily now I’m a homeowner ☺️
@BLOXKETCHUM
@BLOXKETCHUM 2 ай бұрын
Why is it our black men not wanting responsibilities kids they brought on this world.
@anonymoususer8031
@anonymoususer8031 2 ай бұрын
That's black women's fault! they are the ones who give birth to a child. Don't deflect from your responsibility.
@davewordsworth1251
@davewordsworth1251 2 ай бұрын
@@anonymoususer8031 they put there jizz in them with no protection....low morals
@jonesroberts3640
@jonesroberts3640 2 ай бұрын
Black men are useless and not role models only care for thier oppressors.
@jnyerere
@jnyerere 2 ай бұрын
Hey bro. I can understand your perspective. London is after all a mega city. I think mega cities like London, New York, Paris, Los Angeles, etc tend to be areas where black ppl will often either find real upward mobility (upper middle class+) or will end up in an endless cycle of poverty. Because these cities by their nature are often set up to be the epitome of "the haves and the have nots." Either you're rich or you're poor. Rarely in-between, at least in current times. With all that said, I think for me personally, I still prefer to live in a city. Not mega cities of 10 million+ people but a midsized city that will provide great opportunities for upward mobility and a decent balance of cost of living. I think the reason black people (anyone really) have historically been drawn to cities is for opportunities. And even if I had children, the reason I would choose to raise them in cities/suburbs over rural areas is because I don't want them to be isolated. I've seen what rural isolation has done to my youngest siblings and I simply wouldn't want that for my own hypothetical children. Also I don't know how the U.K is set up, but here in the U.S. rural areas tend to actually be poorer than the "hood" of the inner city many times, even with the homeownership rates being higher in rural areas. These are very desolate places with few resources. They have been left behind. This is why even now, there's more migration from rural areas to cities than the other way around. But of course at the end of the day it is really on a case by case basis and what the needs of the family are. I don't think rural areas are necessarily bad. But generally I'm more inclined to believe that life is just easier in the city/suburbs than it is in rural areas, even accounting for cost of living, traffic, noise, etc. Also my views on homeownership have greatly changed. Because what I do for a living is to assess the damages of homes caused by natural disasters. I travel all over the U.S. and I see time and time again how 1 storm or 3 inches of flood water can financially destroy a family who is "middle class" on paper. I see how insurance companies find ways to not pay out for damages and instead put that burden on the federal government. It's mindboggling. And to be honest, I'm not in a rush to own a home anytime soon. Dare I say that it is cheaper to rent (even in the long run) than it is to own.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Hey brother, long time no hear! Thanks for your input and excellent, considered pov. Home ownership is definitely not a panacea in and of itself. I do think it's probably the best and most straightforward route to wealth creation for most people, but there are other routes too. Hang tight for future videos as I'll definitely be digging deeper into some of these topics.
@stumac869
@stumac869 2 ай бұрын
Remember folks if you leave London for another city don't bring your baggage with you. Learn to live like the locals, else you'll just be recreating the same problems you tried to get away from.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
That's an important point.
@Andy-si1pl
@Andy-si1pl Ай бұрын
what sort of baggage are you referring to?
@diasporaconnecttanzania3521
@diasporaconnecttanzania3521 Ай бұрын
I am from America and I got tired of living in a concrete jungle. I moved to Tanzania Africa in 2020 and I love this place
@elywananda
@elywananda Ай бұрын
Good for you! ✊🏿
@mspredy1
@mspredy1 Ай бұрын
That's amazing! How have you found it living and working in Tanzania?
@diasporaconnecttanzania3521
@diasporaconnecttanzania3521 Ай бұрын
@@mspredy1 I love it. I created a business.
@ronshaft
@ronshaft 14 күн бұрын
Thank you for producing this level of content; I have always championed to our people the exact thought processes. I have always wondered why more of our people do not understand the clear advantages of moving out of London, especially if the economics of living in London do not allow them to purchase a home, as well as, provide a more advantageous living environment for our children. Please, please, keep up the content.
@elywananda
@elywananda 14 күн бұрын
Much appreciated bro!
@kellykreqeli8924
@kellykreqeli8924 2 ай бұрын
My parents brought their council flat in southeast London in the 1980s both of them worked and had 3 kids They sold their home in 2000 and moved out of London Now that flat is worth a lot more I still live in the southeast in Kent the house prices are not much better here either the house prices go from £300 thousand to a million and you need a a £40,000 deposit A lot of people don’t have that kind on money even if you both work And the crime is now moving out of London now even in kent I’m afraid this is down to the government doing nothing about law and order It’s easier to get a job in London and to travel to work at least in London you can get the underground a bus or a train You are stuck with transport outside of London unless you drive and and there are not many jobs they are miles away Kids are not much better up here they smash everything up as well as the stabbings are not that up here where kids are concerned this is a problem crossed England not just London I’ve been up here 25 years and still find it hard to adapt as they hate anyone from London especially when they hear you are from There
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Wow, thanks for sharing your experience. It's definitely not a bed of roses outside London for all the reasons you mentioned and more. I think you need to choose very carefully where to move because some places otherwise you can be stuck with a lot of the same problems as in a big city, but sometimes you don't even get many of the positives of moving away. I'm going to discuss this in a future video hopefully.
@Dipo_Miller
@Dipo_Miller 2 ай бұрын
I think when moving out its important to move go to a place that is not isolated and in most cases, you can get a decent neighbourhood you can only dream of in London. Close to town, close to train stations etc.... I think sometimes most people go to the extreme part amd experience a different set of problems
@AS-yg5dt
@AS-yg5dt 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and wisdom. God bless 🙏🏽
@Ste2023
@Ste2023 2 ай бұрын
London not for family people.
@YoungRiaz
@YoungRiaz 2 ай бұрын
I am British Pakistani descent with a multi cultural background but i totally understand what you mean doe
@rogerdoger3347
@rogerdoger3347 2 ай бұрын
Pakistanis are racist and most don't mix lol.
@ademolaadebayo1005
@ademolaadebayo1005 20 күн бұрын
We moved out of London when we got married almost 30 years ago. We have never regretted our decision. It is the reason why we own our home, the mortgage of which we have paid off. Thanks for sharing this
@Mindersonagain
@Mindersonagain 2 ай бұрын
I just don't find that anywhere outside London that I've lived has the same 'something' that London has . For all it's faults i still think it's a great city. I totally understand however that as a black man your experiences will have been different and if you feel it's best for you I wish you all the luck in the world.👍
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏿
@TheNicoliyah
@TheNicoliyah 2 ай бұрын
I feel the same, that being said the British weather is getting to me 😃 I think if I ever decide to leave London it will be to leave the country for somewhere warmer
@IlluminumTarot
@IlluminumTarot 2 ай бұрын
Stayed in London for nearly 5 years. I've relocated to the North (Yorkshire) and haven't looked back. There's so much more to offer this way up, especially Manchester, Leeds, and Liverpool.
@jomo7002
@jomo7002 Ай бұрын
Same here. We moved to the Midlands 6 years ago and bought a 3 bed home, ensuit master, and a huge garden for less that £200k.
@kinkykoils6176
@kinkykoils6176 2 ай бұрын
Great video. Like many others have said community is important when moving. I'm looking to move to Cardiff in a years time and would like to meet like minded black people. For me it's important being close to a train station as it's easier to communte to near by towns that have things my community is lacking
@henrykrystos921
@henrykrystos921 2 ай бұрын
well said, brother. I moved to gravesend during lockdown. verrrry different to London!! 😊
@jojoniile
@jojoniile 2 ай бұрын
unfortunately, we are at the bottom of the food chain. our race do not have the togetherness which other races have. In the western world, we are exposed to a society, a community, segmented groups or individual who like to compete with an ego or arrogance self importance (they are amongst us), that has created a huge drift from what really matters and it hurts. As a young African man, everything I do refers back to my roots all simply because our race seriously comes from uniqueness, purity and love of our gene, spiritualism, morality and natural attributes. the housing market is a different ball game simply because of the expose we get from spending money on unnecessary items most of the time rather than investments and building a hierarchy for inheritance to be passed down the bloodline. another expose is the entertainment industry, the actors, music artists and many others who turn the blind eye to not set an example and demonstrate whats actually possible when you have the finance injected into the right places. Stormzy is an ambassador atm but many big black household names need to be held accountable, this an issue within itself because black folks fail each other within trusting one another with money. Lastly, false narratives and how we are portrayed to be, the past is a past for a reason and in order to move forward as a community in London, we need to look out more for one another and support each other when those around us fuel/encourage dishonesty, violence, hatred and cursing.
@theorderofeli
@theorderofeli 2 ай бұрын
Its really isn't nothing to do with togetherness, it about how much black people let the "boogeyman" or racism & the nonsense bother them. Families need to think individually & collaborate organically. Lumping all black people together as a false "community" is the problem There is nothing wrong with being of a class. Just because someone looks like you, that is not an indicator of anything but struggle. It's 2024 the struggle narrative is old, there has never been a better time for access to information and opportunity. As a London born black man who grew up in South London when there was TRUE racism (ever been chased by skinheads, had friends killed by BNP,? I doubt it), not this microaggression nonsense, i just see all the time wasted by things you cannot change and cannot alter. Thats not where personal power is. I never fell for the nonsense people do today as I was raised as an individual from Caribbean parentage, taught to see the world as it is not be misty-eyed. As a result I became successful - I used my brain instead of relying on emotion. Wasted & misdirected emotion is detrimental to your existence as a HUMAN. Don't put the label "black" before being a man/woman, you open yourself up to indoctrination to a label you didn't create. YOU create, never let any person or system create YOU. Its in the things you can CHANGE, starting with your personal outlook. Everything else is time wasting
@IntrovertMaxxing
@IntrovertMaxxing 2 ай бұрын
​@@theorderofeliwell said
@theorderofeli
@theorderofeli 2 ай бұрын
​@@IntrovertMaxxingcomments like mine get lost among the BS BP talk
@IntrovertMaxxing
@IntrovertMaxxing 2 ай бұрын
@@theorderofeli yep, and it looks like its been deleted... BP just enjoy being victims
@LM-op7wu
@LM-op7wu 2 ай бұрын
Your comment is great, but this doesn't apply to all Black people. It would also be unwise to comment on other races when you don't have first hand knowledge/experience within that race. Unity etc may not be the reason why another group is thriving. So many factors are involved. All racial groups experience discord. In India right now, there is discord, mainly due to religion and the caste system. You mentioned Stormzy being an ambassador. For what exactly? Looking to people in entertainment, football or whatever to set an example is your first mistake. I'm African, and in my culture we are strong as a community, hard workers and absolutely believe in providing for ourselves. Education is number one, which is why you'll find us doing every single degree, masters and PhD. We are taught that we have to be doctors, lawyers or engineers. We are our own influencers. My father is a doctor and I grew up in a fairly large upper middle class community of Nigerian doctors, healthcare professionals etc. It's typical to find many of us who went to university and left with zero debt because our parents paid for us. I think looking to 'celebrity' culture is actually a huge issue for some Black people, because it's not based in reality. Waiting for someone else to come and raise your children or define your culture is fruitless. I find it hard to believe there re NO good examples of hard workers in your life/community/culture. Knowing that you should be setting your children up for an easier life, setting a good example, passing down generational wealth isn't even a race thing. It has nothing to do with sticking together either. You either know what to do, and do it...or you don't. Yes, having a strong community to do it with helps, but many have done it without one.
@atilla4352
@atilla4352 2 ай бұрын
Good topic brother! 🙏 Hungarian and subscribed! 🔥 Keep going
@London_miss234
@London_miss234 2 ай бұрын
London has its draw. Beautiful really. I was born there. But grew up in Ashford, Kent. It is cheaper elsewhere.
@leos8977
@leos8977 2 ай бұрын
London is beautiful?
@London_miss234
@London_miss234 2 ай бұрын
@@leos8977Yes. London is beautiful. Ranked a green city. And, number one in Europe.
@leos8977
@leos8977 2 ай бұрын
I live in London but didn't know she was beautiful. Being a Green city has nothing to do with beauty or natural beauty for that matter. By definition it is a city that is resilient inclusive, manages it's natural resources well and promotes low carbon growth to remain competitive and enhance live ability for all residences. Lol. I have reservations about this however. Yeh I am from the tropics and have done lots of global travel so wouldn't consider the UK beautiful (planting a few well manicured trees don't compare to natural clean beautiful river lakes beaches etc) ..but hey - it's in the eyes of the Beholder.
@London_miss234
@London_miss234 2 ай бұрын
@@leos8977I always found the UK lovely. The countryside. The city. I live in the states and miss England, at times. Yes, it’s in the eyes of the beholder. My family is from the Caribbean, and that area is beautiful, too.
@leos8977
@leos8977 2 ай бұрын
@@London_miss234 Americans just love to fantasize about Britain. Lol
@redpandagency
@redpandagency 2 ай бұрын
I’m with brother. I used live in Thornton Heath I moved to Chester 3 years ago I have not regretting
@s5960
@s5960 2 ай бұрын
what's wrong with good old heath?
@redpandagency
@redpandagency 2 ай бұрын
@@s5960 crime and drugs. Croydon isn’t good including Thornton Heath
@user-qz1hy5mh4c
@user-qz1hy5mh4c Ай бұрын
The biggest problem with African immigrants who have been in UK for a long time is that you dont embrace your identity and culture. African culture is so rich when it comes to family values, respect, hard work, confidence, perserverence etc . When you raise your children to embrace this western black british culture of children running around like headless chickens they are likely to end up confused and in prison. Teach your children excellence not victimhood mentality. In the UK if you apply yourself and workhard the doors will open . Get involved in children school work, understand what they are currently doing in school! Wake up, and be proud of who you are!
@IntrovertMaxxing
@IntrovertMaxxing Ай бұрын
The reality is, you need to conform to some extent to the society you're in. This is a failing of many African migrants, to this day feel uncomfortable operating around wyt people. African people born here are a sort of hybrid. It's unreasonable and unrealistic to expect them to behave or think like home grown Africans. Their culture is going to be largely "British"...whatever that means
@Me.be.dee123
@Me.be.dee123 2 ай бұрын
Great video Ely! Keep 'em coming!
@mrriggy
@mrriggy 2 ай бұрын
I grew up in north London, including Tottenham and Wood Green. I'm desperate for more green spaces and a better quality of life. I can't afford a house here in London. So it's really interesting to hear your commentary and I like your insight a great deal, thank you.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
My pleasure. I lived in that area for a few years too and loved it. Felt so at home there generally, though it's of course kinda edgy!
@mikem8211
@mikem8211 2 ай бұрын
Me too I live in Borehamwood now. You don't need to go that far bro
@samanthacanning114
@samanthacanning114 2 ай бұрын
I have mixed feelings about living outside of London, as a brown person would struggle to find my Caribbean food 😩 I love the countryside ( which I grew up in as a child) but moved to London as a teenager. And I visit the countryside often, but living in london, I like seeing my people around me.
@Helen_590
@Helen_590 2 ай бұрын
You'd be surprised I grew up on the south east coast and now there is a thriving community where there are shops and restaurants selling black food. Don't let assumptions stop you.
@reduitman
@reduitman 2 ай бұрын
Not in Derby and Nottingham. Plenty Caribbean food outlets and close to tons of countryside. Love it.
@Raetalkss
@Raetalkss 2 ай бұрын
@@Helen_590 Thank you for sharing this. What about the r@cism? I experienced a bit of this growing up and am a tad scarred. I have always wanted to live in Kent, we would visit as children and it is such a beautiful place.
@Helen_590
@Helen_590 2 ай бұрын
@@Raetalkss TBH, there is racism everywhere. But in Hastings, its not blatant or even behind your back. Most people are friendly and some just want to get on with their day and ignore/ walk past you like everyone else trying to go from a to b. It's actually rare to see racism. You're more likely to see "idiots" do stupid things driving, for instance. But thankfully there isn't much racism. Ziggy Marley and UB40 regularly play on Hastings Pier, and Femi kuti played a sold out show in a town called Bexhill a few years back, so its a nice mix of British life and African culture .
@theorderofeli
@theorderofeli 2 ай бұрын
There's plenty in most places. Life is better, I've lived away for years. I've lived away and never had so much of a problem in Shropshire, Stafforshire and Northamptonshire. I'm 6'4 dark and look as serious as hell. Its all about mindset and self awareness. Just like ANYWHERE you go in the world and ANYTHING you do in life
@camaflauge
@camaflauge Ай бұрын
I moved out of Walthamstow to the suburbs of Cheshire 30 years ago......... best move I made. London has nothing.
@user-pj7bs5qs7k
@user-pj7bs5qs7k 2 ай бұрын
Nearly all black people here are dual nationals and the majority no doubt have properties in their land of heritage which many flit back and forth to. The native White British people without houses have no properties abroad hence the fact that the vast majority of street homeless are White men as are the vast majority of those who die on the streets. If the situation were reversed there would be endless outrage and the government would be building houses to get the people off the streets, as it is they are now giving new properties to those who have illegally crossed the Channel in small boats. As regards social housing people should have to contribute for a certain number of years in taxes before they are eligible to join the waiting list and then should go to the back if the que. Arguably no one who chooses to remain a dual national should be eligible.
@christopherhanson9578
@christopherhanson9578 2 ай бұрын
Thats not really true and only really relates to the recent migrations. Many caribbeans came here in the 50's and there decendents in many cases have never even been to the caribbean. Black people may not be on the streets in mass but statistcally speaking they are the poorest demographic in the UK. Most of those white people on the streets have deeper problems that keep them on the streets they need rehabilitation.
@PeterL6743
@PeterL6743 2 ай бұрын
In regards to nearly ALL black people living in the UK being dual nationals. That's absolutely nonsense. Please reference your source for this assumption.
@user-pj7bs5qs7k
@user-pj7bs5qs7k 2 ай бұрын
@@PeterL6743 Search for yourself... Most have come in the last 20-25 years from Nigeria and other parts of Africa and certainly haven't ripped up their other passport. We give anybody full citizenship including voting rights whereas nearly everywhere outside the West only give a tiny minority often less than 1% and it is conditional on ripping h up any other passport. As for those from the Caribbean including those born here many regularly flit back and forth and have houses there so that would suggest dual nationality. Plus Pakistan, India, Israel etc etc etc importing brides, importing the mother's of people supposedly at University... It goes on and on
@PeterL6743
@PeterL6743 2 ай бұрын
@@user-pj7bs5qs7k Oh lord, very disgruntled I see, and FYI - I have done my research. The thing is with me and those of like mind, if we don't like something we change it. We pull ourselves up by our bootstraps. We don't complain. The UK government is in a complete mess and there is no coming back from what is set to come Tory or Labour or this newly formed Reformed party won't do much to change the trajectory. You're either a do-er or a complainer.
@christopherhanson9578
@christopherhanson9578 2 ай бұрын
@@user-pj7bs5qs7k In regards to caribbeans you are completely wrong. You cannot place every ethnic minority migrate into one box. Carribbean people fought in the war for this country. They paid their taxes to the queen for over a hundred years and where a vital resource to England after the war when they where needed in the workforce.
@imatyourwifehouse
@imatyourwifehouse 2 ай бұрын
i grew up in leyton, we sold the house and its currently worth 850 thousand smh
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
It's mad ain't it? Westfield and the expansion of transport links via Stratford has had an explosive effect on demand and this prices in that whole region.
@imatyourwifehouse
@imatyourwifehouse 2 ай бұрын
​@@elywananda That is very true; I believe the Olympics and Westfields enhanced that neighborhood significantly. Now, gentrification is on the way, with so many coffee shops. When you stated Leyton High Road, I couldn't stop laughing because I understand your suffering.
@British_Cocoa
@British_Cocoa 2 ай бұрын
My man has moved the family out of London can’t wait to pack my bags a smell the fresh air
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
There's nothing like it. You really notice the air quality difference. Sometimes I come back for a long day/evening in London and I walk back home from the station. It's actually a great feeling to come off the train and breathe in the clean air.
@cunawarit
@cunawarit 2 ай бұрын
We moved out of London 13 years ago when we realised that raising a family in London is really not easy. London is a nice city to visit, and it's even a great place for people with no kids. But it's not a livable place long term.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
I think there are lots of great places that would be good raising a family, but you'll be paying a hefty amount to live there, especially to buy. We considered returning to London a couple years ago but it reminded us that anywhere nice is way out of our price range.
@thebossman4875
@thebossman4875 2 ай бұрын
Great video and I'm really pleased that our people are having these discussions. How can we take these ideas forward?
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Good question! My approach is to have these convos with everyone in my networks, especially younger ones.
@thebossman4875
@thebossman4875 2 ай бұрын
Would it be possible to organise or promote a WhatsApp or Telegram group on your channel where we can discuss and plan?
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
@@thebossman4875 Great idea man. I'm looking into that as we speak. I had a previous one but not many folks joined it. But it's a good idea to have one specifically focused on these sorts of topics/planning/ best practice sharing, etc. So watch this space!
@thebossman4875
@thebossman4875 2 ай бұрын
@elywananda Thanks bro, I look forward to that. My plan is the same, build relationships with like minded people and bring them on board
@user-gg1nf2vq1r
@user-gg1nf2vq1r 2 ай бұрын
Lived in London until June last year. Commuting in London would take 2-3 hours every day, a lot of stres and money. A nice city but too packed. Moved to Chesterfield and I'm happy about this.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Wow Chesterfield, that's a big move. I imagine it's lovely round there.
@user-gg1nf2vq1r
@user-gg1nf2vq1r 2 ай бұрын
@@elywananda Yes it it. Peak District very close, nice for walks or bike riding, a lot of green area around, love the countryside.
@lauriedixon9661
@lauriedixon9661 2 ай бұрын
I bought a flat 30 years ago in Walthamstow on a single persons wage, earning an average salary. I sold it 12 years later for four times the original price. If I wanted to buy it back today, I couldn't afford it! It is now 11 times the original price, and I wouldn't even want to live there.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
It's crazy ain't it.
@Mindersonagain
@Mindersonagain 2 ай бұрын
Have you ever heatd of the phrase 'white flight'? All i know is my mum and dad did that from central london in the late fifties and i wish they hadn't.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Yes I have. Why do you regret it?
@the_re_up
@the_re_up 2 ай бұрын
Bro you spoke my mind. I grew up in walthamstow. We probably same age mate and everything you saying is exactly my thoughts. I moved to high wycombe in 2018 once married, now live in aylesbury and haven’t looked back. Im scanning less, im smiling with people more and i feel way more content with my children growing up here. I left my area just at the right time because since then crime has hotted up, markhouse road/st james steet/marlowe rd/mali strip are just madness now. Shootings are very common now
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Good for you man, that's beautiful to hear. I think people underestimate the damage that constantly feeling intense can have on us. That intersection between Leyton, Walthamstow and Hackney is a hotbed of violence unfortunately. That's what I was catching a bit of when I last lived in Leyton (it was near Lea Bridge Road so right in the middle of all three areas. It's really sad but also weird because Leyton's also getting the gentrification treatment. I've been to Aylesbury a few times, it seems like a cool place and the surrounding area is of course lush.
@marthasheilds2446
@marthasheilds2446 2 ай бұрын
Crime is worse all over the UK you will find once you leave London the issues are everywhere with racism, segregation, drugs and poverty issues.
@mspredy1
@mspredy1 Ай бұрын
I purchased a house in another city because buying in London in 2022 was impossible for me as a solo first-time buyer.
@marleyhill34
@marleyhill34 2 ай бұрын
I grew up in Barbados in their suburbs...I never ever considered buying a house/flat in London that didn't have a garden and parking. That rules out 95% of "black areas" In fact I never lived in "black" areas despite being black. I lived in North Harrow and Mitcham at first. Plenty of green spaces. Due to my marriage breakdown, I rent in a flat on the edge of Putney Heath, Richmond Park, Barnes Common and Wimbledon Common. I have 2 bicycles and nothing pleases me more than cycling around SW south of the river...No matter what snobby North Londoners say. Lol! I'm currently child-free and I see no reason for me to buy a house in London in my 40s. I'd rather get an investment property in Barbados which I live in and run as holiday, short term and long-term lets from. I've always liked suburban life far enough away to escape the city but close enough if you want some city excitement. I had to live 6 months in West Hamstead/Kilburn and I absolutely hated it....I'd go for a run to Primrose Hill but there was nowhere else with green space. I could never live in a concrete jungle As Bob Marley said. I also know that I would be bored out of my mind in the countryside so I prefer the suburbs.
@rkyrss11913
@rkyrss11913 15 күн бұрын
I agree overall but with all this far-right nonsense, I’m glad to be living in London around my own people and other communities that we outnumber the racist rioters. I like to step out and see loads of people like me and that my children aren’t the only black children in their class or year. I also like that I don’t have to drive miles to buy my African/Caribbean food and black hair products. I own my house may I add.
@elywananda
@elywananda 14 күн бұрын
Yeah I can see how these recent events would give people pause. By the way, I touched on those other points in a follow-up video to this one: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mbZnZ5CUvJOUcqc.html
@smartpromise3430
@smartpromise3430 2 ай бұрын
For someone who is anticipating to work in London but wants to live outside London what areas would you suggest in terms of commute time and safety?
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
There are loads of potential places and it depends on what connections you have, what kind of lifestyle you want to live, etc. I touch a bit on this in this video: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mbZnZ5CUvJOUcqc.html but I'll definitely discuss this question in more detail in future.
@eido4889
@eido4889 2 ай бұрын
Look at bucks. I was in aylesbury, look at anywhere an hour away really
@yoniquethompson2268
@yoniquethompson2268 2 ай бұрын
I too have been waiting to leave London a very long time. I'm in Hackney thanks for the video my Brother. Any suggestions anyone. The only issue is my husband to commute to work for 6am
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
@@yoniquethompson2268 Thank you! Wow, if your husband needs to start work at 6 in London, that means you can't move too far. Use Rightmove and specify your budget and how far away from London you're willing to go. That'll give you the first idea of what areas are affordable. Then look into those areas a bit more to see what they're like. Herts, Beds, Bucks, Essex etc all have more affordable areas that aren't too far from London.
@sleepfulpeace4783
@sleepfulpeace4783 2 ай бұрын
I've been saying this for a while. Black people need to think laterally to succeed. There is life outside London and outside the cities.
@GhyuRtyu
@GhyuRtyu 2 ай бұрын
My father bought house in Stratford Newham East London in 1989 for 40K now the same house cost 780K
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Stratford is an especially good example. Back in those days, it was a backwater. It's been completely transformed over the past 10-15 years which has also impacted Leyton, Hackney and other neighbouring areas. Every time I go there I'm still shocked at how different it is nowadays.
@monk3yboy69
@monk3yboy69 2 ай бұрын
All those areas you mention used to be affordable working class to lower middle class areas. People could afford to raise a family. Dear old Mrs Thatcher messed that all up when she allowed houses to be carved up into flats. But let’s not drag her into it. 😀
@zaffarmohammed2984
@zaffarmohammed2984 2 ай бұрын
For a blackman to succeed to overcome the barriers to success is itself a miracle You need family income to succeed which black people don't have
@reduitman
@reduitman 2 ай бұрын
A good education is a great place to start
@tinachristine4573
@tinachristine4573 2 ай бұрын
​@@reduitman 💯
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Honestly, I don't think family income is the most important thing. Family cohesion is by far the most important thing.
@davewordsworth1251
@davewordsworth1251 2 ай бұрын
Every scholarship/funding/lowering grades/soft policing all given to people of black origin and you still complain....even what you have written is a victim mentality
@ryanb01
@ryanb01 2 ай бұрын
No you don’t, stop with the excuses
@KV45355
@KV45355 2 ай бұрын
I need to be around other Black families. If I was a self hating Black man who didn’t care about my Black culture and legacy. i would find a white woman have mixed Europeanised non Black kids and live in the country.😂
@IntrovertMaxxing
@IntrovertMaxxing 2 ай бұрын
Aren't you already self hating by living in a hwite man's system? Asking hwite men for job opportunities..?
@ngc4486diane
@ngc4486diane 2 ай бұрын
watch out there plenty of ppl that you don't know their families history race or culture or legacy take mine as a few generations back the American side full native American and full on true African slave, arh those pioneers really were, god bless America yes there were black and white pioneers so don't go there either
@IKeepReal
@IKeepReal Ай бұрын
Must leave in Atlanta U.S then where the nice communities of black "families" are. I dont see no legacy in roadman culture
@exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198
@exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198 2 ай бұрын
Sounds like a Jamaican..haha.....words like " rude boy" Jamaican phrase😂😂😂😂.....But i agree with you....I dont live in London, but my family tells me about it.....I am heading back to Jamaica via Africa and this will influence my chikdren and my little grandson......We have vast resources in Africa, we really need to start and build there and that will bring change as a back up to Westernized societies.......I live on the outskirts of suburbs in the USA, my quality of life is very good.....
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Love to hear that. Relocating to Africa/the Caribbean/or even elsewhere should definitely be on the table. I'll cover this in a future video.
@evelyna_paula1747
@evelyna_paula1747 2 ай бұрын
Now you are speaking proper English, coming through eloquently. Yu are respected at work, and your videos receive likes. Please do a video to analyse the ignorant attitude of African people shaming their fellow people who try to improve their English. Also mention that the White man simplified English when they first came to Africa by teaching us to pronounce every word as it is spelt. This has affected us a lot, and elders have carried it over through generations. We need you to break the spell. And mind you: most Africans don't even speak their mother tongue.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the suggestion. That's interesting about the colonialists teaching a particular way of speaking English!
@BLOXKETCHUM
@BLOXKETCHUM 2 ай бұрын
We moved to Coventry from London. A lot better.
@smartpromise3430
@smartpromise3430 2 ай бұрын
How long does it take you to get to London from Coventry assuming one works in London?
@BLOXKETCHUM
@BLOXKETCHUM 2 ай бұрын
@@smartpromise3430 around 2 hrs 30 mins by car!
@adventuresofa9jaguy322
@adventuresofa9jaguy322 2 ай бұрын
@@smartpromise3430 50 mins if you live early. other train is 1 hr 42 mins. 2 hrs 50 mins by bus. coventry is a lot quieter and nicer. SOURCE: someone who commutes every two weeks between both
@smartpromise3430
@smartpromise3430 2 ай бұрын
@@adventuresofa9jaguy322 thanks my 9ja brother. What other cool areas apart from Coventry can you recommend based on commute distance to London and good place to raise a family?
@jonesroberts3640
@jonesroberts3640 2 ай бұрын
Coventry is a dump same as Birmingham the west midlands is dead .
@misshurricanetoyaisback
@misshurricanetoyaisback 2 ай бұрын
Leyton leytonstone way expensive
@adangbe
@adangbe 25 күн бұрын
I wonder if many of the problems I hear Black Britons having is due to living in large, dense (global) cities, and not primarily due to cultural, social problems inherent among peoples of African descent.
@dutchbobson3183
@dutchbobson3183 28 күн бұрын
Interesting videos thanks
@afiogem
@afiogem 2 ай бұрын
Moved from affluent part of London, to Bedfordshire for a bigger home as our family grew and because of the usual concerns crime, bought a 3 bd semi for less than £200k (10yrs ago), loved the open spaces cheaper housing, people there are super friendly non pretentious, just didn't like the area and local transportation links were dire 2 buses p/h. Moved abroad for some years returned back to the Uk rented in Tandridge, nice area, however dealt with racist micro aggressions, viewed umpteen houses in Kent decided to buy in London and I'm very happy, Prefer London to outside London for sure...
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience. It's been very interesting seeing people's differing experiences. There are lots of elements that you need to weigh up when moving anywhere. "Out of London" is definitely not a monolith!
@hannah60000
@hannah60000 2 ай бұрын
@5:39, I lived in London my whole life and still do. I wish we wouldn’t generalise London. I live in the Lewisham - Greenwich area. Until redevelopment, within a short skip and stone, you large green spaces. Even now, I have Greenwich park, Blackheath, Hilly Fields, a large Green space and a river (used to be bigger), all near me. I am sorry for those who live in those type of London places you described, but it does not represent my part of zone 2 and 3. Ps. Of course crime and so on exists, but I struggle to relate to these rough and tough London stories outside the so called estates areas.
@hannah60000
@hannah60000 2 ай бұрын
I should mention we have a garden too, although as a child much preferred to be outside of the house in those open spaces!
@Me.be.dee123
@Me.be.dee123 2 ай бұрын
Sounds lovely! Lucky you! Unfortunately, I don't think this is the case for most black people living in London.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
South East London is lovely. I wish I had moved there in the late 00s. I stayed with my cousin for a few months in Brockley, and loved it.
@bigslim5847
@bigslim5847 2 ай бұрын
😂 lewisham a hood sorry to say I know all the places you have mentioned like the back of my hand Lewisham looks like LEGO land
@SoFrolushes
@SoFrolushes 2 ай бұрын
What about those who dont live london dont have london wages? House prices will be lower but so are wages. What are the solutions for them?
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
That's a bit question! IN a sense, it doesn't matter where you are - similar principles apply. Getting that deposit is probably the biggest hurdle. I think the key to to work together with other people, either a partner, or perhaps friends. I know that's much easier said than done.
@christineayres7199
@christineayres7199 2 ай бұрын
True the people with all the cash actually live outside London , London is it's own State now in 2024 , Lincolnshire is a better place to live cheap housing , good jobs and easy going people no gang violence like London , it seems when people live in Cities they become uncivilised 😢
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Yeah that's something I've really noticed since moving out. A lot of the wealthy might work in London but they head back to their leafy large homes set in peaceful shires.
@christineayres7199
@christineayres7199 2 ай бұрын
@@elywananda 💯 Percent 👍 places like Oxford for example home to people like David Cameron , Jeremy Clarkson Harry Metcalfe and those people I mentioned are worth a lot of cash but still won't live in London , I rarely even drive to London except to visit my uncle , The speed cameras everywhere and ULEZ totally ridiculous how bad it is now.
@markjackman1712
@markjackman1712 2 ай бұрын
Interesting video. Speaking as someone who has always lived in Hampshire, its always exciting to go into London, everything is right there - all the conveniences, public transport, sights and experiences and amazing places to visit - but after a day or two im glad to leave for the fact that in comparrison its noisy/ busy /fast paced and condensed, which when youre young perhaps isnt an issue but im 48 and I just know I would struggle in those surroundings. On the flip side someone who has always lived in London may struggle with the lack of infrastructure / amenities / entertainment outside of London in comparrison.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
That's how I feel when I go in to work in London. It is undoubtedly an excitement and 'happening' place to be. But only in short bursts. I love when I go for a long day/night then get a late train back. If I walk home from the station, I really feel the difference. From the chaos, noise and smell to clean air and quietness (and clear skies with stars glistening)!
@Godlike-87
@Godlike-87 2 ай бұрын
I think Black people will have to reorganise and act strategically in order to stem the tide. Platforms like yours may aid in that endeavour.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
That's exactly what we need to do. Starting on an individual basis and then connecting with others. I'll do my bit to help by sharing content to get folks thinking differently.
@Godlike-87
@Godlike-87 2 ай бұрын
@@elywananda and I'll share your content and carry it forward. Live long and prosper.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
@@Godlike-87 I appreciate that family, thank you 🙏🏿
@ceebee51
@ceebee51 Ай бұрын
The problem is the change in demographics some of the boroughs you mentioned were very 'nice' areas. Im 62 and see how boroughs have changed especially those areas now more predominantly black. There was 'white flight' as they called it. People and businesses moved out and black food shops, hair salons, nail bars moved in along with the gang culture. I moved out with my sons years ago and it was the best thing i ever did. Some of these boroughs are now very sought after to live and socialise in by non black people but as soon as they're ready to raise a family and settle down they move out to the leafy suburbs.
@fa9183
@fa9183 2 ай бұрын
Ive considered moving out of london yrs ago....i just want a cute studio. Can't afford it in London. Alot of black people are just in london for the vibes. Ask them what else they get outside of London, they can't tell you.
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Haha, indeed. The vibes!
@marthasheilds2446
@marthasheilds2446 2 ай бұрын
Black people know once you leave the M25 expect racism and hostility in other uk cities and towns.
@it_roam5919
@it_roam5919 15 күн бұрын
What cities would you suggest for a black person looking to move from London?
@elywananda
@elywananda 14 күн бұрын
It will depend on your specific circumstances and the kinds of things you're looking for. I've been meaning to do a follow up video discussing that very question.
@andrewamidala
@andrewamidala 2 ай бұрын
I left London for Kent 2 years ago after 21 years and I do not miss one thing about it. The pace of life, the cleanliness, the countryside. People forget that a minute amount of people really make it in London and most of the business is sown up. The rest of us a just fodder living in what are becoming hugely expensive, filthy, crime ridden no go areas. I drove through Walthamstow for the first time in 10 years a while ago. OMG what used to be a vibrant diverse busy area is now just nothing!
@sourmilk5165
@sourmilk5165 Ай бұрын
I am born and raised in Yorkshire. I work in my hometown i meet many locals and over the past 6-7 years the amount of accents not from here has gone up exponentially. Its still a free country for now, but as a local i would rather the southerners stayed down there and stopped inflating local house prices and causing my cost of living to go up indirectly. Just another part of the massive changes this country is going through and i do not resent anyone trying to get a better standard of living. But where do the Northerners move to get a better life... The Highlands? Outer Hebrides maybe?
@chadwick7579
@chadwick7579 2 ай бұрын
We as black people need to change our mindset. Instead of having the mindset of moving out of London because you can’t afford it. How about we work on ourselves and develop our mind which will develop our wealth which will lead to more than enough buying a house in London. By thinking you need to move out of London for cheaper houses your not facing the problem your running away from it . Moving out of London due to environmental reasons like violence and crime is a total different story because not everywhere in London is like this. We black people we need to dream big risk more and be relentless , fearless!!.. ps if I had a choice I’ll leave the country completely 😂
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Moving to a more affordable area is a perfectly reasonable thing to do!
@chadwick7579
@chadwick7579 2 ай бұрын
@@elywananda think you missed the point but okay ! Respect your opinion
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
@@chadwick7579 Bet
@marthasheilds2446
@marthasheilds2446 2 ай бұрын
Outside of London is very racist and segregated in other Uk cities and towns, where locals hate blacks.
@paulmidsussex3409
@paulmidsussex3409 Ай бұрын
We need to build more houses, we need to build starter homes and we need to build bungalows for older couples to move into and free up family homes.
@IntrovertMaxxing
@IntrovertMaxxing Ай бұрын
We we we... what are YOU doing?
@paulmidsussex3409
@paulmidsussex3409 Ай бұрын
@@IntrovertMaxxing Renting out my spare room to someone who could not afford to buy a house, what are you doing?
@simpsond7862
@simpsond7862 2 ай бұрын
You could not have said a better thing. The time is now before everyone discoverer the possibilities.
@ealing26
@ealing26 14 күн бұрын
Avoid Midlands,and in particular Coventry. As Asian man I faced lots of racism in Coventry . Returned to London in 2017, after spending 7 yeas in Coventry.
@IntrovertMaxxing
@IntrovertMaxxing 2 ай бұрын
I think BP can do well in London, but its going to require an inquisitive and often talented mind. You need to know people. Other areas in England may be cheaper but thats not necessarily a good thing, especially if raising kids in areas where they are an extreme minority. No where is perfect of course and all have pros and cons. Im curious to know if people are actually considering moving to their parents country, in a realistic way?
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Good comments man. That point about moving overseas is one I'll discuss in future videos for sure.
@IntrovertMaxxing
@IntrovertMaxxing 2 ай бұрын
@@elywananda respect
@co_7523
@co_7523 2 ай бұрын
I'm from London and I moved out to Surrey. I have no regrets!
@elywananda
@elywananda 2 ай бұрын
Good for you!
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