I'm a teacher. In my professional life I gave everything. To the outside world I was strong. At home I was being physically and mentally abused by my husband. You were tired girl. I got out. We got out. You're not a coward and you're not weak. I don't even know you and I've never watched you before but I want you to know that sis. You got this.

It's always the most selfless people that end up with the most selfish people.

You will never regret leaving a bad relationship. You will always regret staying.

She was about to cry the whole time. Stay strong sister sending virtual hugs.

“Courage doesn’t mean you’re not afraid. Courage means you’re not going to let fear stop you”. Couldn’t have said it better, and we’re so happy you’re back! 💕

I was in a relationship with a narcissist and it almost destroyed me.

I wish schools would start implementing real world issues into their curriculum so that young kids would know how to deal with it if they encounter this in their futures

I love how this comment section is full of people sharing their own experiences and struggles and comforting each other. Cheers to all of you 💕✨

I was in a mentally and physically abusive relationship for nearly three years. The adjustment and uncertainty about yourself coming out of it is crippling. You’re so courageous for telling your story and lending a voice to those of us who never really had one. I wish you all the happiness and love your heart can hold. You are valid and deserving of it all

“I’m making this video because I want my life back, I want my career back, I want my world back” darling you deserve that. You deserve to get back everything you lost and more. I can see the hurt in your eyes and it’s awful, but look at you starting to reclaim your life!!. You are much stronger than you think you are, you will get all of it back and more, I promise you this. And in the process you will help many people along the way 💕

i cried every single day while i was with my ex, i was just 17 and it got to the point i no longer loved myself, he pointed out flaws in me that i never even knew existed, my lips were too dark, i had texture on my face, and i started hating myself. It's been 3 years since i broke up with him and still every single day i can't help but notice these little flaws and feel worthless but I'm trying everyday to change the way i feel about myself.

I love how her face brightened up when she started talking about her friends and family, and her current relationship. The video started with her being on the verge of breaking down and to be honest, while I was watching, I couldn't help but let a few tears of my own shed, it was hard not to. The transition to her more cheery explanation is absolutely beautiful. I don't know her personally but she seems like such a sweet and kind hearted person, she didn't deserve to be treated that way, nobody does. I'm glad things are looking good for her now and that despite everything she stays optimistic. I sincerely wish her the best.

Stay strong! I divorced my husband this year and it was the best decision I ever made. Me and the kids are so much happier now! ❤

"I'm making this video because I want my life back". Beautiful, that hit deep. I massively wish you all the best and as someone who has been in this situation, I am here for you wholly while you get yourself back however long that takes. We all are xx

I was mentally abused for 4 years and when I finally found the strength in me to leave, he did everything he could towards the end of our relationship to keep me, that included trying to get me pregnant. It was an awful end but I did everything I could to fight the manipulation And force. I’m happily married and in a healthy relationship with my spouse and most importantly with myself. You’ll be ok. THERE IS a light at the end of every decision you make in this life. Love yourself always ♥️

I spent 10 years in an abusive relationship. It started as a ‘perfect’ relationship, he seemed strong, caring capable but changed so gradually that I didn’t even see the small changes. It’s destroys you, I didn’t even recognise myself by the end, I was terrified to leave as I truly believed that I couldn’t cope alone, I couldn’t provide for my children. For the first 6 months after I left, I was a complete wreck. It’s been 3 years now and I’m still affected but can usually get past the issues inside me. You WILL get stronger, you WILL be yourself again, you WILL survive.

This is so difficult to watch. I attempted to get out of a relationship about three years ago which turned bad instantly. I was abused when I was trying to get out, during the actual breakup and even years afterwards. I felt tiny, I felt evil, I felt hopeless and I felt scared because he wouldn't let me go, yet he'd blame me being in his life for his troubles and hardships. He called people at my job, people who had offered me jobs, the state and even my mother, telling lies about me to take all away from me. You are wonderful. You are phenomenal. You are brave. Welcome back, this time, as you, fully.

When I heard "I was in a relationship-" I thought 'say no more'. I completely understand. Comming forward and speaking up is a big step. Getting the help and support you need is tremendously hard and I am SO proud of you for stepping up and speaking out about your situation and shedding light on things. I truly hope things get better for you love.

You say “ I want my life back I want my career back” , and I get this strong feeling that YOU will get your life back and your career too, but this time YOU are back stronger, brighter, and happier♥️ Dear brave lady we miss you so so much, and we are so glad that you’re back again🦋

"every cloud has a silver lining." The sky after the rain is always beautiful.

This must have been so hard for you. You are brave from escaping, talking about it, and helping others. Thank you for sharing. I love you

Welcome back Em. You’re so strong and brave for making this video, you won’t be bruised forever. Time will help heal things. BIG LOVE. You’ve got this. 💛

people will never understand what emotional abuse, domestic violence unless they have gone through it. sometimes youtube, fans etc dont understand about what they youtuber private life needs today. this is all a learning journey for all of us. thank you for speaking your truth, keep taking the time for yourself and remember your not alone xx

Idk if you will ever read this but I hope you are happy and surrounded by people who treat you like the angel you are. You are a beautiful soul inside and out. Don't forget to do the things that make you happy. Whether that is painting, walking in nature, horseback riding, getting a vacation. Etc. Whatever it is, just keep doing the things that make you happy and surround yourself with people who lift you up. Thank you for sharing! My kids and I love ya!

❤️ I can’t put into words how it feels to watch this, other than thank you ❤️ Thank you for sharing this.

It took me 7 years, to leave my abuser. I’ve had therapy 3 times. Rachel Williams is amazing to follow for her advice and she’s got a twitter page. You are strong x

I was in a mentally abusive relationship for more than 2 years, my close friend who knew what was going on kept asking me to leave but I felt like I couldn’t as I was trapped in the relationship and I was so afraid to change (was in the same workplace with my ex as well) i finally had the courage to leave one day when he was away for a work trip... that was one of the best decisions I’ve made in my entire life, I didn’t know the world was so beautiful, and I’m so much happier now! You’re a strong woman, and you’ll find someone who loves you as much as you love yourself ♥️ love from Malaysia 🤗🥰

i'm sorry to hear you've been through something like this. we are so many in the same situation, it's actually shocking to me to see that people cannot offer the bare minimum in a relationship. i've also been in such a situation, for more than a year, almost 2 with my ex bf. he would constantly gaslight me and blame me for everything, and whenever we had an argument, he would just ignore me for DAYS. even if we did not have an argument, he would ignore me, sometimes 1 or 2 weeks at a time. i was going insane. then he would come back and act sweet and like nothing happened. FOR 2 YEARS. and much more. the most he ignored me for was 2 months and he left to another country without telling me, but still wanted to keep in touch ONLY when he felt like it. if i was sad or needed to talk to him about something, i'd just be overdramatic. when we were in the same city, i could not spend more than 1 day at his place, because he wanted space. i started becoming more and more miserable, and cry myself to sleep, right next to him sometimes and he wouldn't do anything. he was completely the opposite of the man i had known in the beginning, when he was so sweet and caring. i started to become more paranoid about what he was doing due to what he was doing to me and literally having panic attacks because of it almost every day. all my friends were telling me what he's doing is not normal but i did not want to listen. i finally had the courage to break up with him after he left the country and ignored me for 2 months. he came back a few weeks ago, (after 1 year of no contact) saying he still loves me, but he slept with only one person that he had no feelings for, like this is supposed to make me feel better (considering i did not even go on 1 date). i was stupid enough to fall for it once more and we flirted and everything was so natural and normal, like we were together again so it sort of made me happy because he was my first guy, my first love, my first sexual partner. then... one day. he started becoming distant again after everyday messaging and calls. he ignored me again for no reason for more than 4 weeks. he would constantly post pictures and videos of his "girl friends" dancing half naked. he has only 1 guy friend. i always had a feeling that my gut was right. he flirts with his supposed girl friends on their pictures. i unfollowed him everywhere. yesterday, he came back again and messaged me again, laughing at me that i unfollowed him and asking me why. it was so hard but i did not reply to him. he still hasn't unfollowed me and constantly checks what i post and replies to my posts. it seems like just a story to people, like letting go is easy, but it's not. i've had depression and anxiety for years, but he made it worse to the point i had to get professional help because i was one stop from committing suicide. i tried many times, but it didn't work and i was mad it didn't. i literally did not see any way out, i wanted to die so badly, like never before, it's hard to explain. my mother took me to the doctor and they gave me meds starting with a low dose, which did not work at all and they had to constantly increase it. i used to go to the gym everyday, i was fit. i had anorexia before. during this time and due to what happened with my ex, i started to binge eat in order to feel something because i felt so numb all the time. so naturally, i put on weight. ever since problems started in our relationship and he became abusive, i lost my period. i would get it every 3-4 months, sometimes more. in addition to this, my hormone levels got so messed up, that i also had to get treatment for this. from the terrible mental health state i was in, my body started to stop working and get damaged as well. i am under a lot of treatment and supervision now. i am still not okay, but i am better than before, even if i just managed to take 2 steps, i'm not in the same place. but sometimes it feels like it's never going to get better. i have nowhere to tell my story in full so i decided to do it here, hopefully someone will read it all. my friends and family got tired of me ALWAYS talking about the same thing over and over again, and i understand them. so i don't do it anymore, but it's so hard to keep it in. i am literally writing this tearing up because the wounds are so fresh. this is what the man i loved the most did to me, i gave him a place to stay, to eat, i passed him university (we met at university), i never expected anything in return but i got all this. i pray not even my worst enemy feels like how i felt and still feel. death is more peaceful than all this. it really is. i pray you are strong and not think of anything negative because of it, i hope you're not like my weak self because you deserve so much better. i really hope you will easily put this behind you and find better. i apologise for this is so long long, and i thank those who take the time to read it. sending lots of love and hugs to everyone, especially people who have been in extremely abusive relationships and are not well to this day

I want to cry when I hear her voice trembling while she is trying to hold her tears... I am so sorry that you have been through this awful situation! I hope you will be better eventually, time will heal you! Don't blame yourself, you did nothing wrong! You deserve so much better! Hugs xo

You were the reason why I learned to love my pimple scars in the first place, that it's okay to have imperfections. You are a great inspiration to women and men, young or old. Please stay strong because you are a beautiful and brave human being and we need more pure souls like you. 😭😭😭

I feel you and when i was going through emotional abuse, i kept pushing myself so hard to stay and thought something is wrong with me. I remember I couldn’t even put my words together and I only very recently it happened due to extreme mental pressure and depression!! I started working on myself and focused on self awareness and self improvement and i am so glad i did and now i started helping people with self growth because I remember how it feels to not have anyone to talk to and explain what you are going through. The pain is real and only who has gone through it can understand 🙌🏻 Much love x

I keep coming back to this because I’ve never seen the abuse I went through being described so well. It was too hard to find the right words. I’m so sorry you experienced that. Good luck on your healing and thank you so much for sharing. ✨

I was also in a relationship that was mentally, emotionally, and eventually turned physically abusive. It takes everything you have to just make it through the day. It takes so much strength to leave. You are strong and we support you!

I was in a controlling, emotionally abusive relationship and for the majority of it you don’t even realise they are gaslighting you. You just end up with no friends, no family and no opinions.. unless it’s agreeing with them. They are always in a mood about something and you’re always treading on egg shells. They tell you that they are the only one that loves you and no one else does. They control all the money so you have nothing. No money, no friends, no family, no confidence, no social skills, no hobbies, no thoughts, no opinions. I ended up mute for a couple of days completely unable to talk because I believe I had a breakdown. I still have the internal scars and ugly thoughts from 14 years ago. Probably a mild case of PTSD 🤷🏻‍♀️ I won’t be bullied ever again. Nothing is worth that absolute torture.

I'm a year out of getting away from my abuser. So so so happy that you're here and living life again 💟

Omg girl, I went through the exact thing. And still struggle sometimes. There are so many ppl who are here for you. I’ll be praying for you and everyone in the comments 💖

Oh God, her voice was completely shattered and broken. I wish I could hug you 😭❤️

Sweet precious Em - the fact that you were willing enough to be transparent about your struggles and bear your demons in the light *proves* the amount of strength you truly have. There is absolutely zero shame in the struggles you’ve had and you are not alone. I pray you are getting the support you need to heal and rebuild trust in others and yourself. You are strong. You are brave. You are beautiful inside and out. You are cherished. Your online fam is here to support you - we’re here. 💖

It's so easy to let yourself be overwhelmed when deep in the darkness. I am glad you have found your way out. Love and strength 💖

Your courage is astounding, Em. Thank you for voicing what you’ve been through. You’re truly a beautiful person inside and out. I was in a relationship with a covert narcissist last year and although I’m out of it now, live in a different country and have an amazing job and friends, it still haunts me to my core on a daily basis. I see you and I hear you. Thank you for raising awareness and being a voice for so many of us. Love ❤️

You will get your world back - you've already made those steps. Do YOU at your own pace xx

Your next relationship is with yourself, be able to be alone not lonely but able to be with yourself.

I wish this was around when I was in this situation. 10 years later Im still working at rebuilding my life.

So happy you’re back. Take all the time you need on and off camera to heal. And this video says it all, you ARE extremely brave and courageous. An abusive relationship does not determine your worth.

Oh god this was hard to watch. You never know what goes on behind closed doors. Very brave woman ❤️

Everyone is amazing and unique in their own way and shouldn’t be judged for that 😔

Ohh lovely!! 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 You are so Brave for seaking out & getting out!! You've just popped up on my feed so I've now subscribed & I support you 100% I look forward to your content! You've got this!! It is not your fault!!! Do not feel ashamed!! 💞🌹💞

Thank you for sharing this difficult period in your life - the struggle if its an overreaction or anxiety is a real struggle & needs more conversations 💜

Ugh he took away something that you love and that means something a lot to you: your career!

I was in a 5 year relationship with someone who was mentally and emotionally abusive, I didn't realize it until he walked away from me and I had to really examine those 5 years of my life. I have a PhD and a good job and good friends and it still happened to me. It can honestly happen to anyone. Everything he did, there was an excuse. I apologized for so much crap that was NOT my fault. You are absolutely not alone and in talking about this it helps validate the experiences of other women who have been through something similar. It's been a little over a year since my relationship ended and I'm still processing a lot of it, be kind and gentle with yourself. So proud of you for making this video Em.

I'm so sorry to hear you have gone through such an awful ordeal but you have such courage and strength to move forward and onward with life whilst healing and inspiring and encouraging others who are in similar situations to do the same. I didn't know your channel before today but after watching a few videos, I'm so happy that I found you! I just wish it had been through a happier video but perhaps I will need to reflect on what you said and the advice you gave one day and there was a reason I found you this way. In any case, you're amazing and your voice needs to be heard! I'm hearing it nice and clear all the way down here in Australia! 🤗💚💛

Thank you so much for posting this. I went through something similair and it is so comforting to hear other people have been through it too. You will get yourself back ❤

I hope you’re ok and we are all here for you. Take the time you need post when you want. Do what’s best for you 💛💜

i’m so glad you informed us, you didn’t have to yet you were respectful of us. thank you💓

I went through this too. I am here for you, even though I am all the way out in Alaska. And for all the sisters out there. 🦋❤️

I stumbled on your channel, and I want you to know that you are loved and you are supported. Know that you deserve better. Thankyou so much for sharing this and opening up to us with your truth. I have also been a part of an abusive relationship in the past where my boyfriend at the time would constantly put me down, belittle, start arguments out of nowhere and make me feel like I was nothing. Like I couldn't do anything right. Like I would never succeed at anything. The emotional and mental abuse actually got to me and had me feeling like a complete failure for a looonnngggg time. After going to therapy for about 5 years, I was able to move past all of the terrible things that were said and done to me. I realized I was with a narcissist. And that's just what they DO. I'm so proud of myself for putting in the work to HEAL. And I am so proud of you for leaving that toxic relationship. Sending you light and positive vibes.😌🤗

I just want to reach through the screen and give you a big hug. I am so sorry that you have been dealing with this and I commend you for coming on here to share with us. People need to realize that it can happen to anyone and is so prevalent. You are beautiful from the inside out and I hope you keep sharing with us here, but take care of yourself first and foremost!

I’m an Outreach Worker for a Domestic Abuse Organisation. It’s so important to talk about abuse (when the survivor is ready of course). Everything you have said is completely normal to feel when in an abusive relationship. If you haven’t, please read “Living with the Dominator” by Pat Craven. Knowledge is power and if you understand the tactics perpetrators use in order to control someone then you will realise that none of what’s happened is your fault and by doing so you will hopefully start to feel more confident in every aspect of your life . Im so happy that you feel empowered to make this video and using your massive fan base in order to spread the word of DA. Please remember that you are not a “Victim” of Domestic Abuse, you are a SURVIVOR!!!!

Thank you so much for making this video. You are SO strong❤️. You couldn’t have posted this video at a better time. I have been experiencing similar emotions in my own relationship and after finally trusting myself and deciding to end things, he is trying to convince me that I shouldn’t have trusted my own opinion and that I’ve made a mistake. But after watching this video you have reassured me that I indeed should trust myself and that I don’t want to return back to an environment like that again. I can’t thank you enough for this video and am so excited to see you’re doing better. Take your time through the healing process and know that we are sending you love and support regardless if you are posting or not. xx

This was in my suggested videos and I’m so glad it was. I hit subscribe before I even knew what your channel was about. I love all of this real and rawness. So many people can relate and I believe you can help others by sharing your story. Thank you 💕

It makes me sad to see how many people say they are or they were in a abusive relationship 😢

I've been in a relationship where I was emotionally abused, It's been a week since I broke up with him and it was the best decision that I've made, currently healing and I'm doing better already. I promised my self that I'm gonna be the best version of myself, I'm happy you're back love ❤❤❤ sending virtual hugs.

You and every other girl/person that has been in a toxic relationship and has gotten out of it are one of the most strongest people there are!!! You all have soo much courage and now that there are others who have been through this and gotten through so you can too!!!

I’ve never come across your channel before but THANKYOU for this video. I went through extreme emotional abuse and it’s so so brave of you to bring awareness to it. I hope you’re healing and I wish you all the best ❤️

Get a cat, a dog, or any pets, rabbits or a beavers. Animals don’t judge.

Em, it breaks my heart that you had to go through this 😢 I can only imagine how hard it must be to come and admit this to the Internet. I’ve been in three very toxic and emotionally abusive relationships starting from when I was very young, and have finally found happiness (like you have!) with someone who treats me like everyone deserves to be treated 💕 can’t wait to see your comeback!

I went through this a few years ago. It's so difficult when you realize the situation you're in, but feel like you dont have the tools anymore to get out. I'm glad you have someone in your life who can help fuel that ember of yourself you want to reignite. Wishing you all the strength and love 💓

I can't say how much I relate to this video and your message. I've been a viewer of My Pale Skin for a while and this hit deep and it hits hard. I was in a similar state a year and a half ago, and I am still picking my peices back up and putting everything together. Thank you for posting this and for finding your strength for yourself again. I know that struggle.

I was in a relationship with a narcissist and it near killed me mentally. It takes so much courage & strength to get out of any type of bad relationship. Feel for you! Thank you for speaking out. I hope it will help at least 1 person 💜 wishing you every happiness in the world

I've been through all of this. My father is a narcissist. I have managed to escape this toxic environment, next week I'm gonna move out. For everyone out there experiencing the same, there's hope, you will heal, you will find true happiness.

Darling you've been brave, courageous and honest about yourself. Well done you beautiful soul. You're loved and you're welcome here. Take it gently, we're here for you. Xx

This 🌎 has many broken-heart people who always try to heart. On the other hand, 🌎 has good people who wish the best, too. Blessings! 🕊

When I was 17 (I’m 32 now) I got my first ‘real’ boyfriend. We were together for nearly a year and I cried every single day of that ‘relationship’. I will never forget the one time I mentioned one of my friends looked really pretty on a night out and for 3 weeks after I was bombarded with calls night after night with him crying telling me that I was a lesbian and not only was I lying to him but myself about my sexuality. He also said I was too close to my family and that it was ‘weird’ that I enjoyed spending time with my brother. He was so incredibly toxic and I am so glad I got out. I have never felt more exhausted in a relationship before than with him, completely drained of everything. I am so glad I got out. I’m with a wonderful man now and I’m so glad you are happy too! I wish you all the best 😍

It’s ok we still love you Your beautiful the way you are Your skin isn’t paper don’t cut it Your heart isn’t a door don’t lock it Your body isn’t a book don’t judge it Your life isn’t a movie don’t end it You don’t need makeup to be pretty your pretty the way you are

I’m sorry that you went through this lovely 💖So nice to hear that you’re doing better. Well done for coming out of that bad situation xxx

I can't imagine the pain you've been through, I'm so glad you took the step to come back to what you love.

I was is an emotionally abusive relationship. He was my first love and in the end I had no self esteem, I withdrew myself from my family, work and friends for 6 months before we broke up. We broke up 3 years ago and I still ask myself “why did I stay with him for 3 years?” “Why didn’t I see the signs earlier?”. I’m really glad you’ve found yourself and come out the other side and found yourself a man who loves and takes good care of you. X

When you talked about not trusting yourself to remember or interpret things correctly, that's exactly kept me trapped in my situation. Childhood baggage had me convinced that I was more than likely to be wrong most of the time so I was so vulnerable to the gaslighting. Sending you all so much love, whoever is reading this, if any of your video resonates with you. I'm so sorry if it does, and thank you so much Em for sharing your story.

Welcome back thank you for sharing this vulnerable time, I can definitely relate. You are strong and you are amazing. It’s time to claim your life back and continue your journey and purpose and this life. Much love xo 💖

I literally just shared your My Pale Skin video on my Facebook page, and found this video right after I did so. I am also exiting a relationship that caused me more pain than I thought I could ever endure. I am so happy you are healing yourself and finding joy in life again. I am trying to do the same myself. It is a long path, but I have faith that life will be magical again. Thank you for sharing. You are beautiful inside and out

people are just so evil and scary sometimes.

when you said you apologised for everything it triggered such awful memories for me but it made me happy that i am no longer like that. I never apologise for anything that makes me happy now unless it’s necessary... you are amazing and so strong for posting this 💛 it gets easier everyday 💛

You can just hear the pain in her voice. You're strong, babe. We love and support you, always.

Thank you very much for this video!🤗🤗 In all this quarantine and seems like never ending isolation, sometimes it's really hard to get through some mess and depression that appears in the heart! Support from family, friends and people all over the world is such a blessing!💓 Wish you the best in 2021! 🎉🎄

I'm so sorry that you had to go through this. I'm sending you all the best. We love you so much ❤️

It's been a year since I left my abuser, and I almost quit everything because of him.. (I am a cosplayer and he kept encouraging me to quit by telling me my craft is useless and shit.) He made me feel bad and forced me to apologise for everything. He abused me financially, mentally, emotionally, s*xually and physically. He literally tried to conditioned me to be his slave. I broke free and it was the best thing I ever didm It's taking me a while to recover, but I'm with a healthier person and environment now. You are one of my favorite gurus on KZfaq and you are extremely brave for this. We love you, queen.

You are so strong! it's never easy to face these trials of life let alone share them with the world, but i'm glad you did. you brought awareness to a subject that isn't always talked about and you shared your experience so that other might educate and learn for themselves. So much love and respect !!

I’m so sorry you went through all of that. I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for five years, and time really helps to clear the fog and confusion. I think it took about a year for me to start seeing things from an objective perspective. I’ll be thinking of you, and I’m sending you some hugs! :) You will get yourself back! Just give yourself some time.

When you said that you felt like you might be overreacting, it made me shiver. I completely understand this and am having to deal with this a lot at the moment. It's been years but recently I've started to remember the things he used to do to me and I realised how abusive he was. Your feelings are valid, you're not overreacting, it's not your anxiety, it's not your fault.

It's good that you spoke up because narcissism is a plague and raising awareness of it is key.

I am so sorry 💔 it takes courage to even talk about abuse. I’ve experienced this and it’s very hard to put it to words :( We are here for you ❤️ sending a virtual hug.

I feel we are in such similar points in our healing. It's incredibly brave for you to speak up and you should be so proud. This video is such a testament to your strength and will serve as a good reminder for days when you feel low. My heart breaks for you that you endured this. Remember, all caterpillars grow into beautiful butterflies and take flight...this is you spreading your wings xxx Sending all my love and prayers darling girl xx

You didn't have to explain, but thank you ❤ It must have taken a massive amount of courage to upload this video, know that we are here for you. You have inspired me since I watched the first video of you and still continue to inspire me to this day. You got through it so now you can do anything :)

I also was in one for 6years and I didnt even realize how toxic we became. And the Breakup was such a mess.

I can truly relate to the act of walking away from life. It’s scary to come back, but the quicker you do, the better! Thank you so much for sharing 💜

I'm so glad you did this video, I had no idea what you were going through. Thank you so much for sharing. My thoughts and positive energy is with you and well done for coming back! Don't be afraid ❤❤❤🥳

This video really stood out to me. 3 years ago I ended a 2 year relationship, those 2 years were the worst of my live. He tried to drive me away from my family, my friends, he would bully me and belittle me, and because I have Aspergers, he thought he could take advantage of me. It was exhausting day in, day out trying to stay in his good books, trying not to upset him. The emotional manipulation I went through was appalling. After those 2 years I was finally strong enough to leave and it was the best thing I have EVER done to this day. I have my life back now and I’m stronger than ever. You will get through this! You’re amazing, and should be so proud of yourself for walking away from this. Don’t ever give up xx

I've been in an abusive relationship, my brother is also one of my abusers, he's beaten me up a lot. The police have been here for me no matter what, they ring me monthly to ensure I'm safe and ok, it's horrible to go through abuse, I've had it all my life and I just wish I could hug you💜

Dear Em, I've been through this as well and recognise how you're feeling. Please know it will get better and better over time. You'll be stronger than ever before which you have already shown by making this video. Take care and know that we all love you for who you are!

Thank you for sharing. I love how vulnerable and how honest you are. I’ve been following you for a long time now. Thank you for always being yourself 😊