I agree and people don't realize about it until something major damaging happens

Exactly, they think that everything is fine until the social status is what they don't get is how diff it gets for everyone inside the family

No wonder India is one of the saddest nations. We are so concerned about how we are perceived in the society that we can go to any extend to seem perfect.

im sick of families presenting themselves as unproblematic and happy to others, when theres so much internal conflict. what even is the point?

True

India already criminalized all types of sexual abuse on wives, it just that they haven't mentioned it as "rape" specifically and technically. currently, sexual abuse is under domestic violence law If they do bring it under rape law then there is no provision for maintenance of such victims under rape law.

As per section 376, Marital Rape is punishable offence and has punishment of 2 year imprisonment if the rape accused is found to be her husband else it is 7 years to 10 years. it is discussed by the high court advocate in the following KZfaq video. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/n6yTa8SUtse0j6s.html

@koro sensei Sensei means teacher or doctor in Japanese. Koro Sensei Sama, I am just stating the fact that there is explicit punishment for marital rape . The swadel video above has not at all given a mention about Indian Penal code Section 376 Which contains this information. This for Myth busting that there is punishment for Marital rape

@@saikumarmorla6672 wow didn't know about this

@@saikumarmorla6672 I idiot thats why their population is decreasing so fast because no man wants to marry where he gets nothing in return.

only one female I found in the whole comment section who talks about gender-neutral law, which is a need in today's world.

@@kunal1875 gender law is necessary but mostly rape marital rape happens to woman only in lndia around the world sometimes this marriage only should be banned due to this bloody marriage men are torturing we women like hell sex domestic violence👊😡👊 changing our identity our house our parents all torture only for woman n bloody men are just born to torture we women

Finally someone with logic

Agreed

​@@kunal1875cause they are selfish

If Husbands/Wives don't know ways to satisfy their partner, counseling is the solution, in other countries also they don't hang sex-addicted husbands/wives. If counseling doesn't work instant divorce should be given.

seriously there is no difference between a husband and a stranger? so what u r proposing is to apply all laws of strangers to husbands what next? marital molestation? marital eve-teasing? marital gazing? marital voyeurism? after all, voyeurism is voyeurism whether married or not..................................................

@@sudarshanachakra3.022 yes, that’s completely relevant to what she/he said.

@@sudarshanachakra3.022 master of logic

@@ultimate6243 valid reason...lol So only you have the authority decide what is valid and what is not. Not the woman.

@@Timepass-cx1do don't engage it. It lives under a bridge

@@ultimate6243 Yeah exactly... y did u even marry him if u don't wanna have s€X .... I'm not saying that u r obliged to have s€X with him but atleast Give him a reason y u can't have with him?...and if u can't give .... U can divorce that's the solution

This is the least amount of thinking a person should do. Like this should be a requirement.

It is also perfectly legal, well across the world, to molest a woman as long as it's in marriage. Tomorrow you will say if a husband sees her wife Naked, a wife can book husband for voyeurism or if a husband hugs wife from behind without knowing her, a wife can book husband with "molestation". Sex is something that is expected in marriage. Even the courts can declare the marriage as void if no intercourse has occurred. Rape usually comes with violence, and adequate provisions are there against use of violence. Even in foreign countries, even reporting of marital rape is extremely rare, forget about conviction. Marital rape will only add another section to the already draconian combination of 498a/406 used against husband and Family. A certain right has been given over each other's body or sexual behavior and that's why adultery is a legal ground for divorce. Most of our thinking on these lines is coming from western countries. And molestation sections as yet, even in Western countries, not applied to husband. Tomorrow if a woman is blackmailed say for passing government papers, it's rightly rape. But if husband says, that he will take wife on vacation if she does this/that thing are you going to criminalize. Or a husband spikes the wife's drink with alcohol so that some inhibition around sex goes away, would you criminalize that too? Come on man, v don't want Government to come into people's bedrooms

That's what I thought!

@@galeon3699 I know right.. this man is so sick.. like a lot of majority population in India.. it's definitely the safest country as long as these so called "men" are still alive..🙄🤦.. You be safe sis

@@galeon3699 exactly, it just pissed me off.

@PARTH Asha Huh which country are you from In India its the other way around.... Burden of proof is never on women. And how can a guy defend against such an Aligation. What proof can he provide like should he record every intercourse he has with his wife or should he make his wife sign a paper saying " Sex we are about to have is Consensual....

Questions will be asked, she will most likely get caught.

@@Ajay-ql4ey sir, have you ever tried to report a rape case? the police officers literally refuse to report and try to make it your fault.

@@mightyraju6058 of course the cops will ask questions but nope she will not be caught .....There are 100s of cases in our court's.I personally know much older men who lost everything just because of these fake allegations ,cops know she is lying,but they can't prove it to the court......Most of the times police try to side with the women because they will get credit for catching him so fast....

@@mightyraju6058 I am not saying all cases filled are false or we shouldn't support the victims of a heinous crime like rape.What I am saying is we should acknowledge the fact that innocent mens life can also be ruined because of fake allegations. Just look at the lucknow traffic lights girl who slapped a taxi driver there is proof solid video evidence but she is walking free why? Just imagine what would happen if it was a guy who slapped the girl in public? He would have been behind bars.

YES!!!

yes, but simping society is not ready

*Gender of victim and perpetrator has always assumed in India thanks to Bollywood movies and saas-bahu serials.*

@@kunal1875 literally bollywood is one of the biggest reasons why men think they se superior

@@kunal1875 +1

yeah, the rape law should become neutral and crimes against men should be taken just as seriously as crimes against women

husband is also not a slave of wife to do whatever she wants, provide whatever and whenever she wants.

WE NEED TO SCREAM THIS INTO PEOPLES EARS!

LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK 😤💅

Exactly, ppl still have such mindset that women's character is just limited to her family members🤦🏻‍♀️ *such ppl need to see women as a human and not an object owned by someone.*

@@bhavyjyotisharma3642 absolutely right. Oppression starts with these very words... Tum humari izzat ho... BS!

Swaddle needs to pin this comment... Amazing comment...

It was struck down in 2018

Unfortunately, Adultery is now legal in India for both parties

A man whose wife is adulterous cant even take divorce because of these biased laws.

@@tejas1159 you know this is not the law anymore?

Just don marry

​@@Berryman6784 so it's you either marry and get r@ped by your husband or be single forever? What is that logic?

True. Very disgusting law made by Indian elected representatives.

@@Berryman6784 but your kind always complains about not getting girls, not the other way around.

@@a42lalrinkimi48 And they justify it as "Mardaangi" 🤦🏻‍♂️. I spit on such people 😠

India already criminalized all types of sexual abuse on wives, it just that they haven't mentioned it as "rape" specifically and technically.

बंद करो ये फेमिनिस्ट propaganda चुटिया मत बनाओ लोगों को पहले ही कानून है sexual abuse के लिए जो की domestic violence मे आता है । क्या तुम्हारा बाप ऐसी लड़किओ का खाना पीना देखेगा जिसका पति रैप केस मे जैल चला जाएगा । ये नया कानून बनाकर बस क्रिमिनल औरतों को और फैक केस डालनेको बढ़ावा मिलेगा ।

@@tejas1159 It's not any propaganda, it's just facts. By the way, how many fake rape cases are being filed anyway? Dismissal in cases due to lack of evidence does not equate to fake case. And that is no reason to not have a law. And why assume that by survivors I mean women only? It includes people of all genders and sexual orientation.

​@I can get 96% I did read the article after you suggested it but it isn't a survey done by BBC, they just quoted a single survey the credibility of which I'm not sure. I do agree though that a person is innocent until proven guilty but that being said law enforcement shouldn't view rape cases as false until proven otherwise either. Both are injustice. And there is an issue of sensitivity and providing support to a survivor that shouldn't be compromised in any case. Not just the issue of marital rape though, I do wish laws against rape are gender sensitive too.

@koro sensei yes rapist wives should go to jail make laws gender-neutral.

India already criminalized all types of sexual abuse on wives, it just that they haven't mentioned it as "rape" specifically and technically. currently, sexual abuse is under domestic violence law If they do bring it under rape law then there is no provision for maintenance of such victims under rape law....

@Warrior Boy God bless you my son

IPC section 376 states that if a husband commits rape on his wife he is punished with rigorous imprisonment upto 2 years with fine ( marital rape law) and also a ground to grant divorce. Please look into section for awareness

@@saikumarmorla6672 don't spread fake news. Indian law clearly says that the sexual intercose between a man and his wife is not a rape.

@Warrior Boy you really think women are asexual or something? They have needs too it's just matter of some circumstances like it's not should be forced when they are uncomfortable stressed etc. Imagine if a man don't like period sx but wife really wants it. So he don't have a right to say no?

In marriage I can do anything no one can stop me because I m a man. I will show there my manly power.....😡.

​@@gauravsrivastava9149someone pls give this man to police

But how can someone prove it in court of law

@@gauravsrivastava9149 chal be gwaar 😂

Me too

Same! Recommending it to as many as I can

Me too

true..

Yes!

IKR... Hypocrisy at its height

Brace yr self.. Abhi culture k tekkdar ayenge apko sabak sikane k liye

@@yoginagowda7410 sabak sikhne ka time to samaj k thekedaaron ka hai. There is a saying that do not scare a person so much that he stops fearing at all.

@Brutal Baba lol, no one is blaming culture or religion...

@Brutal Baba the op told, in our culture “we" ( we = humans ) say... Op never blamed Devi devta but was saying that how we say that a girl is goddess but at the same time such things are happening...

Simple. The idea that every one of us needs to have a partner to care for us in a long-term perspective. (Especially when we are old since we lose out on friends and family later in life as we grow old) The idea to get married early is common ages ago when getting a partner was common between the ages of 13-25 if not younger since the focus was less on education bug more on family stability, ownership and assets.

The importance of marriage has been drilled in our(generations at large) heads for so long that now it's almost a part of our genetic mindset. Ofcourse we are also taught to never questions traditions, decisions of elders,any norm etc. So if no one will see the problem in regressive customs how will they figure out it's a PROBLEM. I mean you need to ask questions first to follow Nd answers after that

@@mrrattrap1488 but how do marriages take place? Are the partners themselves able to analyse if the person they're going to get married to are right for them? No , mostly a person is just chosen for them and they're asked to settle with them.

@@Timepass-cx1do Then choose to change it. Taking a stand is hard but is necessary as an adult. Constantly blaming society is not going to get you anywhere. If you discuss with your family then if you want to settle, these are the conditions, how many of them would say no to all? Negotiate. I don't know your family but not all families are like that. Parents don't want their kids to decide because they feel they are indecisive, never had a conversation. If you come from an extremely conservative family, you would need to take extreme steps to get what you want. If your family can be reasonable to some conditions then good.

@@Timepass-cx1do Conditions like time for courtship (3 months at least) Selection of a guy, you need to see how his family is. Ask him questions, don't interview him. Converse. You are trying to find a partner, not an applicant for a job. It's your life, there are things in your control and things out of your control. You would need to play with that

@@ultimate6243 so if you do marry without wanting to do it, he has to right to force you? Lol this isn't just the girl's fault, this is clearly a lack of communication, and if the man does force his force he's a rapist, period

@@ultimate6243 you realize that men can say no too? Men aren't the only ones with 'need's so is it justified if the wife forces, no right?

@@ultimate6243 dude girls are not even asked before setting them with a vulture who knows nothing but sex.

@@ultimate6243 😂

And bring children oh no BOY to the family

jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti karega tab uss husband ko death penalty dena sahi hoga ya nehin ?

How to prove marital rape?

Im a lawyer in delhi high court. There is no developed in country in this world who had criminalized maritial rape before criminalizing rape of male. In Australia, usa ,uk and all other countries had criminalized male rape before criminalizing martial rape. That why marital rape is also neutral in all countries which protect both men and women The Indian legislation completely negates the fact that men can be victims too. In fact IPC section 354A, 354B, 354C, 354D, deal with sexual harassment, disrobing, stalking and voyeurism, and clearly state a man being the perpetrator, and the woman being the victim. Even sections 376 and 509 speak about rape of a woman, and outraging the modesty of a woman. The question of modesty, if at all, only exists in women

India already criminalized all types of sexual abuse on wives, it just that they haven't mentioned it as "rape" specifically and technically. currently, sexual abuse is under domestic violence law If they do bring it under rape law then there is no provision for maintenance of such victims under rape law.,,,,,,,,

*Gender of victim and perpetrator has always assumed in India thanks to Bollywood movies and saas-bahu serials.*

@@kunal1875 the generalisation may also be because of statistics as men are more than 99% of the perpetrators and are less than 2% of the victims

Maritial rape should protect both husband and wife. Husband can can also victim of rape . Rape is not about force it is about absense of consent. Every courty marital rape law is gender neutral And misuse of biased law> neutral law. 498a and dv act are great example of misuse . So law should protect everyone. A victim is a victim irrespective of gender. THERE IS NO COUNTRY IN THIS WORLD WHO HAD CRIMINALIZED MArital RAPE BEFORE criminalizing RAPE of males In usa 80 percent victim of force to penetrate are men and perpetrator are women. "Even my friend was intoxicated and was raped by a prostitute women but male rape is legal in india.police refuses to file Fir" as there is no law. Even court can do nothing in absense of defined law. As indian legal sections negates the fact that men are also victim The Indian legislation completely negates the fact that men can be victims too. In fact IPC section 354A, 354B, 354C, 354D, deal with sexual harassment, disrobing, stalking and voyeurism, and clearly state a man being the perpetrator, and the woman being the victim. Even sections 376 and 509 speak about rape of a woman, and outraging the modesty of a woman. The question of modesty, if at all, only exists in women

@@pretty948 according to UN 50% of victims of domestic violence are men still just because people like u you we have these biased laws. GTFO.

And what about when u have casual sex with person u don't even know??. Just saying. I think arrange marriages are the real problem

@@prathameshpatil1061 casual sex with a person is called a hookup and its fully consensual.

India already criminalized all types of sexual abuse on wives, it just that they haven't mentioned it as "rape" specifically and technically. currently, sexual abuse is under domestic violence law If they do bring it under rape law then there is no provision for maintenance of such victims under rape law.

As per section 376, Marital Rape is punishable offence and has punishment of 2 year imprisonment if the rape accused is found to be her husband else it is 7 years to 10 years. it is discussed by the high court advocate in the following KZfaq video. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/n6yTa8SUtse0j6s.html

@koro sensei exactly

exactly...😪 our intentions behind making laws are always good but in reality on the ground justice for real victims always remains a dream which will come true with more practical laws and an efficient judiciary system.

marital rape law on paper can place India on the list of countries where it is criminalized "on paper" and false notions of security but not justice to real victims.

I liked that how she conveniently ignored the high chances of misuse of this law. as it is not easy as she said like removing that exception from rape law cause burden of proof in rape case lies on accused that is the husband in case of marital rape, wife doesn't have to prove anything in this case.

Same here. It's my main fear. Noble intentions but in reality law will be misused to no end

Everything in existence has a use and a misuse? So should everything just cease to exist? Does the fear of misuse mean the actual victims don't deserve a law that protects them?

Because the ones in power are part of the problem, let alone know their friends or family members have experienced it. Their fear that their own family would be judged and his it would impact them is the reasoning behind their approach towards this sensitive topic.

@@mrrattrap1488 exactly all ppl care about is their and their family's social status.

@@ultimate6243 Don't marry if u can't respect ur partners opinions and feelings.

@@ultimate6243 asexuality is NOT a sexual PROBLEM It's a seperate sexuality.. What century are you living in?? You must be one of those people who consider gay marriages a sin?? Am I right?

@@ultimate6243 no one needs to give a 'valid reason', this is sex not a job interview. Sometimes you just don't feel like doing it.

India already criminalized all types of sexual abuse on wives, it just that they haven't mentioned it as "rape" specifically and technically. currently, sexual abuse is under domestic violence law If they do bring it under rape law then there is no provision for maintenance of such victims under rape law...............

It's to appeal to emotions. You naturally care more about your wife, daughter or sister than a random girl

@@Nimish204 exactly

Exactly, the victim is a HUMAN BEING who deserves respect regardless of the relationship she has with others. Period.

Yes, firstly, she's a person

Im14andthisisdeep

You are right

@Mudit Singh when did they talk about male criminals ? Could you link the video where they specifically named male criminals ?

@Mudit Singh I agree they never talk about the fake rape alligations and shit like that. Feminism is just another word for hypocrisy 😂

@@devsinha8683 Theres only 4 or 5% of such allegations, if we don't address the actual ones it can be very dangerous, they are just creating a safe space for women, men ain't shit, you can't oppress the oppressor

@Divyanshu Pandey I'm sorry but i don't understand. by saying that you don't believe in this channel's content (in this video) are you implying that marital rapes are okay and should not be criminalised? PS: this channel IS growing just not at the same rate as others, because people actually need to have brain cells for watching and understanding swaddle's videos.

@@Ananya-hq4xp Marital rape is not ok. It is very wrong. But bringing marital rape laws is no way a solution to it. It can be easily misused. And even if we bring anti marital rape laws, can you say for sure that women who really suffer would file a case? If they would why can't they do it now by filing domestic violence charges and take divorce instead.

@@srinivassairamsampathirao5767 but there should be at least neutral law where atleast women can consider their body as her own body even after her marriage too. Not as his husband's property.

@@srinivassairamsampathirao5767 i completely agree that it may be very tricky to prove a marital rape and it CAN be misused, but then again a lot of false forgery, murder and theft cases are filed. The sentence for domestic violence is a max of 3 years (as far as i am aware) and then sentence for rape (if proved) is not less than 7 years. this is the difference. also, the marital rape law will mainly just normalise the authority of women over their own bodies, and it will reinforce this idea in our society that marriage does not give the husband the right to his wife's body (talking about heterosexual couples rn) . why should a rape be called domestic violence? it kind of undermines the abominable crime (they are both different things)

@@srinivassairamsampathirao5767 what are you talking about ? The punishment for domestic abuse is little. For rape husband should face more punishment

One is forced, one is not. Nothing forced is natural

EXACTLY

@MUKUL KANYAL Facts

@MUKUL KANYAL why are you so militant about male rape? Can't you say it in a healthy manner?

*Gender of victim and perpetrator has always assumed in India thanks to Bollywood movies and saas-bahu serials.*

@MUKUL KANYAL "RECORDED" Aside from that men being raped is a issue and should be aknowledged and dealt with .

Ok this is one heck of a question tho,, Maybe video record while asking for consent and sign papers

The burden of proof should lie with the accuser. Its not ideal and many rape victims will not get justice but if the lone statement of the accuser/victim is admissible as some kind of paramount evidence, there will blatant misuse of the law.

Makes sense but not going to be addressed ... Swaddle just talks about the issues but never talks about resolving it....🤣😂 blame BJP 🤣🤣😂

Why apologize. Why be scared of hypocrite feminsts

@@normalguy11.11 yaa this is a nice idea, like recording a video saying that the person consents to this..

jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti karega tab uss husband ko death penalty dena sahi hoga ya nehin ??

Already women has enough law and rights more than men nowadays. Still you need rights,why to kill all men??? Actually in present situation men need special law but not women. There are many women and men who supporting to bring gender neutral law. Dont make stupid useless video's pls. Women dont need any special rights or law.

@@breaker3908 for the love of God, don't procreate

@Aayush Jha No, i am not from UP. Don't generalise any state people. Whatever you think about me it's my personal opinion.

@@Nimish204 What do you want to say ?

@Aayush Jha Why, what did i tell wrong ? My mother is proud of me. What's the problem with you on my opinion ?

@@breaker3908 lol why are you spamming everyone's replies ?

India already criminalized all types of sexual abuse on wives, it just that they haven't mentioned it as "rape" specifically and technically. currently, sexual abuse is under domestic violence law If they do bring it under rape law then there is no provision for maintenance of such victims under rape law.

As per section 376, Marital Rape is punishable offence and has punishment of 2 year imprisonment if the rape accused is found to be her husband else it is 7 years to 10 years. it is discussed by the high court advocate in the following KZfaq video. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/n6yTa8SUtse0j6s.html

*Gender of victim and perpetrator has always assumed in India thanks to Bollywood movies and saas-bahu serials.* ...

Maritial rape should protect both husband and wife. Husband can can also victim of rape . Rape is not about force it is about absense of consent. Every courty marital rape law is gender neutral And misuse of biased law> neutral law. 498a and dv act are great example of misuse . So law should protect everyone. A victim is a victim irrespective of gender. THERE IS NO COUNTRY IN THIS WORLD WHO HAD CRIMINALIZED MArital RAPE BEFORE criminalizing RAPE of males In usa 80 percent victim of force to penetrate are men and perpetrator are women. "Even my friend was intoxicated and was raped by a prostitute women but male rape is legal in india.police refuses to file Fir" as there is no law. Even court can do nothing in absense of defined law. As indian legal sections negates the fact that men are also victim The Indian legislation completely negates the fact that men can be victims too. In fact IPC section 354A, 354B, 354C, 354D, deal with sexual harassment, disrobing, stalking and voyeurism, and clearly state a man being the perpetrator, and the woman being the victim. Even sections 376 and 509 speak about rape of a woman, and outraging the modesty of a woman. The question of modesty, if at all, only exists in women

@@kunal1875 +1

As Madhavikutty said, a girl’s first night as a married woman starts with Rape. So true for so many women

let's say a strict law is made for this case how do u explain consent in court then a woman at any given time can say she didn't gave her consent which puts him in grave danger as consent is very private u can never really have evidence for that , also if u had sex before doesn't mean u can't have with the same girl again on regulation of consent, this gives full autonomy to women even in marriage they can claim even when had consensual sex they r raped and men will face consequences because there is no way to prove I am not saying rape within marriage doesn't happen ,it can also happen to man , both parties should think about their mental and physical conditions of their counterparts and happen only when there is mutual consent. Thank u for informing us about this through video As awareness will only tackle this not laws

India already criminalized all types of sexual abuse on wives, it just that they haven't mentioned it as "rape" specifically and technically. currently, sexual abuse is under domestic violence law If they do bring it under rape law then there is no provision for maintenance of such victim under rape law.

As per section 376, Marital Rape is punishable offence and has punishment of 2 year imprisonment if the rape accused is found to be her husband else it is 7 years to 10 years. it is discussed by the high court advocate in the following KZfaq video. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/n6yTa8SUtse0j6s.html

I mean I'm gay so I can't get married lol

Well you're not understanding what she's trying to say. It's not about sex addiction or satisfaction. Point here is that sex should be with the consent of both the partners, let it be male or female, consent is necessary. And you just can't force your partner to have sex just because you are married. Forcing someone to have sex is what we call rape. I am using the word partner instead of husband/wife because it's not about one gender only.

@@hogwarts_alumni6472 here she is talking more about law nd punishment

seriously there is no difference between a husband and a stranger? so what u r proposing is to apply all laws of strangers to husbands what next? marital molestation? marital eve-teasing? marital gazing? marital voyeurism? after all, voyeurism is voyeurism whether married or not.

​@@kunal1875right that's the point "is there no difference in husband and Stanger "

I am so sorry

divorce him better

@@shizs8956 yes will proceed to divorce also... but first I want him to be punished.

@@BeautyHacksByAppy just see that don't destroy his life in terms of career and job

@@shizs8956 Yes.. I don’t want to ruin his career or life.. I just want to make him realize that he is wrong. Nd by punishment, I didn't mean that I want to see him in jail. His punishment will be his realization of his mistakes.

@อาร์ทิมิส อะโฟรไดท์ ไดโอนีซอส ซุส เฮร่า อพอลโล โพไซดอน then let's give them job opportunity

That's forced marriage

@@StardustsCockaigne1111 most of the time it's not forced 'cause the girl was never actually made to feel like she had a right to stand against her 'owners'

@@zeba.subliminals yes I got what u mean I hope it changes

@Divyanshu Pandey if woman chose their own husband so what? it doesn't mean she gave away her body to be used by him whenever he needs sex

@@sudarshanachakra3.022 in this video they talked about Christian Laws which got transformed into indian laws. And In India they had Bothe Hindu , Muslim , Sikhs and many more religions. And can you please stop hating Religions and Showing Hinduism as the Main Tops of Relegion. Oh shit now you're gonna troll me?

@@sudarshanachakra3.022 where did religion come from? i mean i don't understand this talent of inducing religion in EVERY SINGLE DISCUSSION. this video is about basic human rights of women, that they should have control over their bodies and sexuality, how can you convert this into a religious issue? it just zeroes down the whole argument.

Same thing applies to women also ,don't try to cheat anyone who's is already someone's husband ,someone's brother ,😆😆

@@Ananya-hq4xp what about halala and triple talak ,and many more things in Islam. Why no one talks on it ,maybe she would be beheaded by talking on it

@@anengineer152 dude where did this come from? this video was on marital rape? HOW did this involve islam or any religion for that matter. all the things you said are valid topics, but they are just not valid here. THIS is a video spreading awareness about marital rape. you can't just say why did you speak about marital rape and not triple talak. how does that even make sense? if i make a video on environmental protection and global warming, you'll say why didn't you make a video on economic disparity? like all of these topics are important and each should be addressed to but not at the cost of other. you are just sidelining this video's main topic. what good is this gonna do? yeah, you can always SUGGEST some other topics

Men have higher Testosterone harmone in body that's why we have higher sex drive . Women have low level of testosterone and they also have estrogen harmone which makes them emotional , they need emotional intimacy before the act but for us it's a physical activity only. I can understand girls problem also , we need to make more and more men aware about this , I agree men should be gentle towards our partners . But don't say anything valgaour like breaking the balls . We too are your brother , husband and father .🙏Feminism is about empowering women , not hating Men .

Assuming sex in arranged marriages is a rape is equivalent to assuming a love marriage will end up in a divorce 5 yrs later. Simple

@@chaitanyagupta6668 when there is the possiblity of rape, how can a human parent put their child in the realm of such possibility? What right do parents have to control the sex lives of their kids? It's boorish and primitive, nobody has any right to force you to submit your body into anything

@@she_wizzdom4410 there is a possibility of rape, murder in everything. Even in friendships we make, jobs we take, going to a hospital or travelling.

@@chaitanyagupta6668 yes but nobody forces you to make friends with anyone and then get murdered by them? In this case people are being stripped of the right to choose their life partner, who the hell gives such a right to parents?

@@she_wizzdom4410 if love marriages were so successful, western countries wont be having 50% divorce cases

We are. In the eyes of the association we are employed with. The organisation sees us as property and this stigma follows at home when the one with money (usually equated with power) transfers the one with no power to that of being owned. Grow up from your one-dimensional thinking.

Exactly! Men only bring up the ‘men are raped too’ argument when someone is talking about women being raped. This shows that these men don’t actually care about men being raped, they just want to disprove women’s trauma

@@mai-ya-hee *EXACTLY* 👏🏻

this is what i felt, you have put it in words. thank you

@Divyanshu Pandey An average man is physically stronger and if a man starts using physical strength ,a woman would most likely not be able to defend or win . So , a man hitting a woman is seen as a very terrible way of asserting physical dominance .

exactly lol

@@ultimate6243 Actually it's not a myth. Everything begins with the Consent only in any sought of relationship in our lives. This must be your understanding about the particular concern. But CONSENT isn't a myth. It's a core of any kind of bond you share.

Couldn't be more proud. Honestly, it's not even surprising for me to know that men with such pathetic mentality still live with us. Yes , consent is very important and a "No", be it to a boyfriend or a husband is a No. Women don't take shit anymore.

@@ultimate6243 consent is any person's right. not just women and I didn't find any thing on a marriage certificate that said 'now you'll have to have sex with your husband whenever he says and that your body is no longer your own'. please understand this analogy: if i love to eat an icecream, but i just don't wanna eat it right now, it is my fucking wish. you don't get to have a say in that. if a person can't respect that other one's wishes, they don't deserve to be in a relationship.

@@Ananya-hq4xp I absolutely agree

@@ultimate6243 are you that delusional ? Do we women even have right on our own body or not ? You seriously can't force anyone for sex , if he/she is not willing to do so . You all will understand when woman will herself force the husband for sex . Before doing sex we don't sign contract but as a human you should respect the choice of opposite gender and should respect other's bodies . You can't force yourself on others .

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In a marriage, there are few responsibilities of both men and women.

GO ON GIRL , BE YOURSELF ( . . )

@@factshouse3690 true both the genders should actually have equal responsibility in marriage . Really , it seems like wives are unpaid slaves in marriage 😭

Nah, It's even going beyond constitution which say equality above law, but it also says of laws made for woman or children then okay, they just hate man.

True. And the concept of marrying the rapist to the survivor( to save the so called izzat in the society) is messed up, also marrying a rapist thinking ki "sudhar jayega " Is messed up too. Shaadi krwaa do taaki jo aaj tak isne doosri ladkiyo ke saath kiya hai, vo apni wife ke saath kr le haina?! Aur because of the so called society's saying about how women should 'adjust' is just disgusting. And even after the rapist being married, there's no assurance like he wouldn't to it with other females . And just because he'll be 'married' he can do anything with the wife without consent and she'll keep mum, why? Because of the society's thinking. Even if she'll raise her voice, the so called society will be taunting her like " Haaye haye kesi ladki hai, apne pati ki baat bhi nahi maanti, usse khush bhi nahi rakh skti" "Jyada hi modern ho gayi hai, dekho kese apne hi pati pe iljaam laga rahi hai ". These events and the sOcIeTy disgust me to no end.

@@abhishekadnarayankar3037 oh please uncles koi kam nahi hote hai ,hamesha jasoosi karte rehte hai sare ladkiyon ki. Unke saath reh reh kar unki biwiyan bhi pagal ban jati hai

@@teena_naruka7185 Jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti karega tab uss husband ko death penalty dena sahi hoga ya nehin ?

sara raees, Jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti karega tab uss husband ko death penalty dena sahi hoga ya nehin ?

Actually, the husband has a legitimate right to have sex with his wife, and abuse of this right can be called sexual abuse but not Rape. Sexual abuse is already covered under the anti-domestic violence act (government can make changes if needed). ...................

A better option is to find a partner for yourself who you trust and love and shares it back with you. Hating on an institution or gender won't end your problems.

@@mrrattrap1488 its her choice whether she want to marry or not She is matured to take decision for herself

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@@mrrattrap1488 Exactly ... 👍👍

@Ciel Phantomhive Same can be said for women. That's why you have a courting period before. The idea of getting to know someone is to know most of the variable, their family, friends, likes, dislikes, sexual needs/fetishes, financial knowledge, etc. Most people leave a good number f factors out and get married and then blame the other for personal misjudgments. That's not fair. Be an adult and know what you are getting you'd into. It still a lottery, yes but your chances improve over-time. Trying to get the best possible outcome should be the motive, not bull on right and wrong.

@@ultimate6243 cry about it

@@mcchilde2903 the best possible reply to these trolls is not replying to them at all. Why waste energy on people who just here to hate? I hope one day their eyes are opened and they can see the injustice happening everywhere in this cruel world.

@@ultimate6243 go to a channel which talks about injustice against men. This channel focuses on women concerns. See only the content which pleases u why waste time here?

India already criminalized all types of sexual abuse on wives, it just that they haven't mentioned it as "rape" specifically and technically. currently, sexual abuse is under domestic violence law If they do bring it under rape law then there is no provision for maintenance of such victims under rape law.

@@ultimate6243 remember if you disagree with a indian woman you are either a troll or a misogynist

People don't talk about sex as it's still such a taboo and they'd find a muharat for the first night.RIDICULOUS

@@triptinath5675 jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti sex karta hai, uss husband ko death punishment dena sahi hoga ya galat ?

jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti sex karta hai, uss husband ko death punishment milna sahi hoga ya galat ?

But how would a men will prove his Consent. Could any women tell this thing . I meant women can put false rape allegations against men then in that scenario what will men do. Because things are changed now and fake rape allegations are increasing

Adultery does more harm and it is not a crime either. There are many more factors that come in to play when criminalizing something than just saying ''oh it is bad lets make it illegal'' Do you know how difficult it is to prove marital rape? He can tie you up and force sex with you and leave no bruises or marks easily and there is absolutely no evidence to prove it except the tears of a woman. You have to look at it as a whole

India already criminalized all types of sexual abuse on wives, it just that they haven't mentioned it as "rape" specifically and technically. currently, sexual abuse is under domestic violence law If they do bring it under rape law then there is no provision for maintenance of such victims under rape law.

As per section 376, Marital Rape is punishable offence and has punishment of 2 year imprisonment if the rape accused is found to be her husband else it is 7 years to 10 years. it is discussed by the high court advocate in the following KZfaq video. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/n6yTa8SUtse0j6s.html

*Gender of victim and perpetrator has always assumed in India thanks to Bollywood movies and saas-bahu serials.* ....

Maritial rape should protect both husband and wife. Husband can can also victim of rape . Rape is not about force it is about absense of consent. Every courty marital rape law is gender neutral And misuse of biased law> neutral law. 498a and dv act are great example of misuse . So law should protect everyone. A victim is a victim irrespective of gender. THERE IS NO COUNTRY IN THIS WORLD WHO HAD CRIMINALIZED MArital RAPE BEFORE criminalizing RAPE of males In usa 80 percent victim of force to penetrate are men and perpetrator are women. "Even my friend was intoxicated and was raped by a prostitute women but male rape is legal in india.police refuses to file Fir" as there is no law. Even court can do nothing in absense of defined law. As indian legal sections negates the fact that men are also victim The Indian legislation completely negates the fact that men can be victims too. In fact IPC section 354A, 354B, 354C, 354D, deal with sexual harassment, disrobing, stalking and voyeurism, and clearly state a man being the perpetrator, and the woman being the victim. Even sections 376 and 509 speak about rape of a woman, and outraging the modesty of a woman. The question of modesty, if at all, only exists in women

Criminalising marital rape will lead to anarchy in India

That's sad

It's about manners and ethics ingrained in human , education is different thing.

OmFg No nO , sHe iS plAyInG vicTiM cArd , sHe Is fAlsEly AcCusInG men .

Tere ko bda gyan aagaye hai consent ke Bari Mai

@FinnTheHuman i think you didn't understand the sarcasm of my cmnt .

Makes no sense hun. When you get married to someone, its your responsibility to be nice to her and not harass her and treat her like your property. If the woman has no other source of income and you're abusing her and she wants to leave then its your responsibility to take care of it, sounds like justice to me.

@@givingsangwoolapdanceinhel2915 looks like you don't know the law kid. Even if she is earning he has to pay, how is that justice

@@givingsangwoolapdanceinhel2915 stfu women should not tell men what to do u cant force men to pay . no penis no opinion.

jo husband apne wife ki saath zabardasti sex karta hai, uss husband ko Law ke according Death Punishment milna sahi hoga ya galat ?

@@siddharthbodybuilder4790 death punishment sahi ya fir zindagi bhar jail

India already criminalized all types of sexual abuse on wives, it just that they haven't mentioned it as "rape" specifically and technically. currently, sexual abuse is under domestic violence law If they do bring it under rape law then there is no provision for maintenance of such victims under rape law.

@@ashok-ur3tq finally a comment telling what it is. everyone else is in fairyland thinking marital rape is legal and video title is just stupid instead of telling girls that they have options against marital rape.

*Gender of victim and perpetrator has always assumed in India thanks to Bollywood movies and saas-bahu serials.*

@@kunal1875 Maritial rape should protect both husband and wife. Husband can can also victim of rape . Rape is not about force it is about absense of consent. Every courty marital rape law is gender neutral And misuse of biased law> neutral law. 498a and dv act are great example of misuse . So law should protect everyone. A victim is a victim irrespective of gender. THERE IS NO COUNTRY IN THIS WORLD WHO HAD CRIMINALIZED MArital RAPE BEFORE criminalizing RAPE of males In usa 80 percent victim of force to penetrate are men and perpetrator are women. "Even my friend was intoxicated and was raped by a prostitute women but male rape is legal in india.police refuses to file Fir" as there is no law. Even court can do nothing in absense of defined law. As indian legal sections negates the fact that men are also victim The Indian legislation completely negates the fact that men can be victims too. In fact IPC section 354A, 354B, 354C, 354D, deal with sexual harassment, disrobing, stalking and voyeurism, and clearly state a man being the perpetrator, and the woman being the victim. Even sections 376 and 509 speak about rape of a woman, and outraging the modesty of a woman. The question of modesty, if at all, only exists in women

yes fcking is not raping

Bilkul sahi kaha aapne . we speak up about how many women could use it in their favor to get money from her husband just like dowry act . The main problem is even if marital rape would be criminalized , the women who are facing this won't understand because mostly cases happen in villages or in those houses where women isn't educated. A self dependent and educated women won't let this happen to her . But we can't disagree to the fact that many women can misuse this act because nobody can prove in the court section if she had s** with consent or not.

I agree. Instead of just making new laws, how about implementing the ones you currently have?

@@ultimate6243 Get a life man. Please understand the concept of sex and consent.

@@AryaAms Nope marital rpe is different A wife can easily very very easily misuse laws and pack her bags and destroy husbands life completely This will destroy the Indian society completely Remember the male to female ratio in India is huge and rising Unmarried men can potentially throw the society off balance Needless to say What happens to women in a lawless society we all know

@@ultimate6243 because some people actually think that marriage is much more complicated than tharki dudebros wanting to get laid

Maritial rape should protect both husband and wife. Husband can can also victim of rape . Rape is not about force it is about absense of consent. Every courty marital rape law is gender neutral And misuse of biased law> neutral law. 498a and dv act are great example of misuse . So law should protect everyone. A victim is a victim irrespective of gender. THERE IS NO COUNTRY IN THIS WORLD WHO HAD CRIMINALIZED MArital RAPE BEFORE criminalizing RAPE of males In usa 80 percent victim of force to penetrate are men and perpetrator are women. "Even my friend was intoxicated and was raped by a prostitute women but male rape is legal in india.police refuses to file Fir" as there is no law. Even court can do nothing in absense of defined law. As indian legal sections negates the fact that men are also victim The Indian legislation completely negates the fact that men can be victims too. In fact IPC section 354A, 354B, 354C, 354D, deal with sexual harassment, disrobing, stalking and voyeurism, and clearly state a man being the perpetrator, and the woman being the victim. Even sections 376 and 509 speak about rape of a woman, and outraging the modesty of a woman. The question of modesty, if at all, only exists in women

husband is also not a slave of wife to do whatever she wants, provide whatever and whenever she wants, our laws should change.

yes both partners should be able to have sex outside the marriage, have a child outside the marriage , threesome 4some, unlimited some, no boundaries full tapatap, 10 wives 6 husbands 50 children happy family I mean happy herd

That's a very small number, just because a few women out of millions lie that doens't mean we'll compromise with the right of the many many women who got abused/raped

@@lilmuffin9253you are living in fools paradise, there are many or equal cases of females involved in such henious crimes, so stop playing women cards ok, there are many ladies who sleep with big directors and actors for a role and after that claim me too movements ok, what a joke,.

Already women has enough law and rights more than men nowadays. Still you need rights,why to kill all men??? Actually in present situation men need special law but not women. There are many women and men who supporting to bring gender neutral law. Dont make stupid useless video's pls. Women dont need any special rights or law.

how you gonna prove it by? , if woman misuse like other dowry and domestic violence being misused , for divorce or revenge or money extortion . Fake cases are as prevalent as real cases.

many things are not illegal in India as the rape of men, domestic violence on men, mental, physical cruelty by wife on her husband, and ur talking about marital rape how convenient.

@LUCIFER GO AND ASK YOUR MOM

Agar ek husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti sex karta hai, toh uss husband ko capital punishment dena sahi hoga ya galat ?

@@kunal1875 There's nothing convenient about it. Those issues are also equally important par jab ye bate hoti tabhi tum logo ko wo sab yaad aata. Agr itna hi hai to kro kch uske liye bhi par in videos pe aa k comment q krte ho

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@อาร์ทิมิส อะโฟรไดท์ ไดโอนีซอส ซุส เฮร่า อพอลโล โพไซดอน yeah they should so marry a wife with job and live without GF if u can

@อาร์ทิมิส อะโฟรไดท์ ไดโอนีซอส ซุส เฮร่า อพอลโล โพไซดอน Lol. Broke men crying about being ATM 😂😂😂

Hui hui

@อาร์ทิมิส อะโฟรไดท์ ไดโอนีซอส ซุส เฮร่า อพอลโล โพไซดอน they do, most of the women who are educated are also financially independent.

PLS- WHERE TF YOU EVEN LIVIN AT MAN- IN THIS SOCIETY MANY GIRLS LISTEN TO THEIR MALE PARTERNS AND SUPPORT THEM AS WELL

@@Jazzzk2 yes we r with such girl and we need who listen to boys also. But not for blackmaoliler girls wo blackmail husband to have sex for money. Everything must be clear in pre marriage aggrement to save our sons from these types of girls. And girls who listen to boys also not having problem to sign aggrement and clear everything before marriage.

@@mailtoyogeshshakya I do agree , Everything should be told and sort out before the marriage so that there can be no problem after the marriage. If any (girl or boy) have any objection on something before marriage , then they both have the right to cancel the "rishta" .

@@Jazzzk2 ye sab foreign propeganda h, wo chahte h hm aapas m ladte rahe, wo pre marriage aggrement ko promote nhi krte jo unki countries m h , but marrital rape ko karte h

If a man loves his wife he wants sex with her and if a woman loves her husband she never refuses for sex with him. This is the only defination of true love that makes them dedicated for each other and caring for each other. Thus it leads a couple to happy and stable family life . After marriage SEX is right of partner not just the mater of the consent or mood . The desire is because of sex hormones.If a man wants sex with his wife must honour his need and in same way if a woman wants sex her husband also must honour her desire. It is 2021 doesn't mean that a partner should be a pet dog waiting for the।moment his master arrange for his mating need. Love is sex and sex is love. Rest evrything about love is jugglary of words and sentences . The day when love for partner vanishes from a man's heart ,. Forget insist ,,, forget force,,, forget sex,,,he won't even come close to her.. Before marrige if a condition is put to man,no sex except when to conceive, I am sure not a single MAN will agree to marry with such woman.. Sex is the only charging activity of battary of love. Even mobile phones needs changing frequently..

@@Nikita-kl4fq jo husband Mard apne wife nari ki saath zabardasti sex karta hai, Law ke according uss Husband ko capital punishment milna sahi hoga ya galat ?

@@charithreddy6517 That's the thing, it's not even our culture but every time you question something the answer's always 'It's against the culture'.

I see ur sarcasm there 🤣🤣

Culture hi to galat h😠😧...

Leave that culture which doesn't teach you to treat a human as a human... Culture are the chains in humanity's legs which prevent people like you to act as good human.

I have read somewhere ..It is good to swim in the waters of tradition and culture but to sink in them is suicide.

As per section 376, Marital Rape is punishable offence and has punishment of 2 year imprisonment if the rape accused is found to be her husband else it is 7 years to 10 years. it is discussed by the high court advocate in the following KZfaq video. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/n6yTa8SUtse0j6s.html

IPC section 376 states that if a husband commits rape on his wife he is punished with rigorous imprisonment upto 2 years with fine ( marital rape law) and also a ground to grant divorce. Please look into section for awareness

@@saikumarmorla6672 bro am a law student... Section 376 doesn't punish any husband for committing rape... In fact it's the conjugal right in the marriage... And in a situation where the consummation of marriage doesn't take place within 3 months of marriage.. The spouse can give divorce... And india is Among one of the 36countries where marital rape has not been Discrimnalised... So please update your knowledge... Also the punishment for rape given in section 376 is not less than 7yrs...it can be extended also

Miss Forgive me for my ignorance but please clarify What the statement of Section 376 clause (i) given as "Punishment for rape.- (1) Whoever, except in the cases provided for by sub-section (2), commits rape shall be punished with imprisonment of either description for a term which shall not be less than seven years but which may be for life or for a term which may extend to ten years and shall also be liable to fine unless the women raped is his own wife and is not under twelve years of age, in which cases, he shall be punished with imprisonment of either description for a term which may extend to two years or with fine or with both: Provided that the court may, for adequate and special reasons to be mentioned in the judgment, impose a sentence of imprisonment for a term of less than seven years." and is given in indiankanoon.org/doc/1279834/ I will be very thankfull for you reply.

@@saikumarmorla6672 bro see the 10th line of para which you have shared its saying UNLESS the women raped is HIS OWN WIFE and is not under twelve years of age, so its an exception... and this age of 12yrs now has been changed to 18yrs...A supreme court division bench of justice Madan B Lockur and Deepak Gupta on 11 october 2017 held that consenting age for having an intercourse with the wife is 18. so having an intercourse with the wife below an age of 18 is now a rape....if wife is above 18 than its a conjugal right ...... you can check it on indian kanoon....(independent thoughts vs UIO.. and haven't you carefully watched this video...if it the marital rape is criminalised than why you these guys put a video....please do watch video carefully, read section 376 of IPC carefully and read th SC judgement of Independent thoughts vs UIO, if you have time. thanks!!

@MUKUL KANYAL So rich men should never get married? And if they do, their wives are automatically gold diggers or something? There is a stark difference in both situations, but that needs the application of common sense which, ironically, ain't that common.

Sini, jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti sex karta hai, uss husband ko kanoon ke hisab se death punishment milna sahi hoga ya galat ?

dowry is already made illegal, Ironically gifts from the groom's family to the bride are not dowry but when vice versa it becomes "dowry" . earlier dowry was voluntary but later when people started to demand forcefully and even started to torture in the name of dowry it became illegal. But still, gifts from both sides are common in marriages.

Law of course. I have an idea....hear me out. How about we build such forensics technology that can identify what date & time injuries took place, if they're real or not, etc.... That way, women who falsely accuse men of rape will get caught. What do you think? 😊

There will be injuries on the body if it's it isn't consensual

@@therealgrimreaper68 that's in brutal way. Need not always have injuries. I read an interview of a psychiatrist. One of her patients husband didn't cause injuries but forced her for sex even if she was sick. She got divorced anyway

@@silvereyes000 I agree, it doesn't happen all the time but if there are injuries, then it can be used as evidence. If there are injuries, that means it wasn't consensual

first balanced and sensible comment in perspective of law.

@@silvereyes000 jo husband apne biwi ki saath zabardasti sex karta hai, uss husband ko capital punishment dena sahi hoga ya galat ?

@MUKUL KANYAL you are not the only male existing are you?

@MUKUL KANYAL if you have to bring the issue of men being raped bring that as an independent issue and not when women's problems are discussed and what hocus site is telling you more males get raped that's bullshit!

@MUKUL KANYAL *most baby

@MUKUL KANYAL sexually abusing or physically abusing?

@MUKUL KANYAL no when a women assaults someone that needs to be criminalized and strictly punished but bring that as an Independent issue not when violence against women are being talked about

Stop saying that forced sex about everyone it is worst

India isnot a good place for women

there is no option my sister is being tortured daily by her husband

@@dipakkrprasad5178 Then u will be nothing but uneducated my sister

Khyati Sharma, jo husband mard apne wife ki saath zabardasti sex karta hai, uss husband ko Law ke according death punishment dena sahi hoga ya galat ?

@@siddharthbodybuilder4790 i think its a safe assumption to make you ridicule marital rape. Tell me if im wrong but if you did belive it is rape you would have used the word rape. And idk about death penalty cause I'm rarely in favor of capital punishment whichever crime it may be.I do believe it is a crime to rape anyone, even your spouse (making someone have sex with you forcefully is rape, so by definition this too is rape) I think its more important to raise sensible people who understand and respect consent. As far as punishment is concerned I don't consider myself qualified enough to hold an opinion on that, law makers do.

@@khyatisharma8944 Ek husband 5 6 saal se koi baar uske wife ki bina consent ki uski saath forceful sex kar raha hai. Toh botao waise husband ko death punishment dena actually mein sahi hoga ya galat ?

IPC section 376 states that if a husband commits rape on his wife he is punished with rigorous imprisonment upto 2 years with fine ( marital rape law) and also a ground to grant divorce. Please look into section for awareness

@@saikumarmorla6672 half the information is dangerous sir

I have 3 mistresses so I can brag about that

What about women who are actually suffering??

@@SN3HA Women already have many one sided laws like 498 A, Domestic Violence, Hindu Marriage Act where they can get arrest of all the in-laws including children. Women don't need more biased laws.

Oh their are actually there are more then one, Remmber supreme court has to come out as ask woman not to misuse laws made for them.