I understand what you mean , but a women past men she had sex with is much worse

I would be happy if my ex didnt sleep with the guy but he took her on trips and dinners that would be fine with me.@@6688ya

Great example man. I’ll never forget this

You take a lot of superficial scenarios in context to being „treated better“. He could have been very busy with work to afford those frequent vacations or be more emotionally distant but thinking he’s making up for it with spending money on her etc…nothing of what you listed is being „treated better“ from a woman’s perspective.

Why is that the equivalent? That's nonsense.

How about you just be the guy who doesn’t invest much rather then the guy who does? That way you don’t have to worry about other guys who invest. Just a thought

@@jaymatem21c2 yes you are right, and that is how most men start to become low investment, after realizing other men are doing so. The issue is that most guys are raised and taught to be the sweet, caring guy that buys flowers or "blue-pilled" as they say. Later on in life men realize girls actually prefer low investment jerks. That is why there is a huge "red pill" community on KZfaq, because millions of men began to wake up and realize we've been going about it all wrong.

@@jaymatem21c2 also women are 100% aware of this dynamic but refuse to admit it and continue to perpetuate the myth that they like nice guys. If women just admitted they like low effort jerks, things would be easier for everyone, as more guys could save their time 😆

Yeah, and that's what would bug me the most. Not necessarily that she had had previous relationships, but that she was screwing guys for fun.

Bingo!

There are primal, evolutionary reasons for both

@@toddjohnson271 Evolution is not proven and you have DNA tests for the primal reasons, although we are not primates, if we are religious. Only insecure dudes say this about the women's past and body count.

Yes. Succinctly put and correct.

@@Tormalima They are just insecure men, evolution is not proven as well as the primal part, which is also part of evolution. They both are not proven, there are dna test for their insecurity.

Good ones do.

Correct. and people don't need a PhD to understand this.

@@user-td2lg1fl6h women with gender studies degrees wouldnt be able to wrap their head around this

The disgusting part is that women keep praising themselves for sleeping with multiple men. It's disrespectful, it's gross, etc. Modern women should change their "unattractive behavior".

Aptly said

It’s definitely jealousy and insecurity 🤭

"Surprise!" Yes, women hide this kind of crap, and hope men "cope" with this. All this video can be summed up with "men don't like surprises". Advice younger men to always investigate a women's past as much as they can.

You're the nice guy she choose to take care of her because you're nice and she can control you because you're passive as well. She slept with all them for free but you have to take care of her for the same privilege. Like an escort that lives with you.

Adultery should be criminalized. Just like the Romans did.

Smh

It was actually a great pill to swallow. No romanticizing of places, things, and especially people will keep you free from delusions. And not expecting anything from anybody will make it easy to get over it, and if you cannot get over or accept somebody's past, well, you should have an easy time going away and moving on.

@@MCADHD-rf5klthat’s not totally true. There are women like me that only sleep with men that are special. Not everyone buys into the hookup culture. He’s generalizing.

​@@valeria939I'm a guy and I agree.

NOT knowing this is the hallmark of simps.

I was really disappointed in his take, the data shows promiscuity leads to higher rates of divorce, cheating and paternity fraud. The idea that a girl I like is or has slept with someone else I feel disgusted.

@@chadcadsonvii5258 Absolutely 👍

Look up when he talks about women with high body counts. It'll kinda make up for this one

Bunch of incells commenting above. Get help fo4 your delusional beliefs

It's an unquenchable sense of disgust. Every man feels it intuitively - the sense that it just feels wrong, that it isn't meant to be this way. To some degree I am certain PsycHacks is right that it's part of the romantic nature of men, the very nature that unfortunately to a large degree is based on fantasy, yet that doesn't change the wretched, brutal physical / emotional response we experience when we think about the fact that our girl has been plowed senseless before. Take it from me. Got a girlfriend at an early age in the middle of my teenage years - she was, just like me, kissless and a virgin. She radiated innocence, yet was the definition of a powerful woman in the sense that feminists wish they could be - utterly capable, if at times clumsy, extremely brave (she went to unbelievable lengths for me), truly compassionate, and kind at heart. She had one flaw, and that was to bottle up emotions, but apart from that, you can picture a nigh perfect girl - that's her. Long story short - I threw it away because I was stupid, naive and just too immature. And by the time I realized my folly, after she had the self respect to break up with me, a guy that simply wasn't good for her at the time, she met another guy whom she had fallen for. I thought to myself I could probably bounce back from that if they just didn't have sex - I could probably overlook a little kissing. Of course I knew even then that there was not a chance they wouldn't go all the way, which they inevitably did. So now I sit here and think to myself, no matter how much I miss her, no matter how much I want a second chance, I know for a fact that even if everything becomes perfect from now one - she will always be the girl who was dicked down by some other guy. *My* sweetheart, whom I mutually shared my first kiss and virginity with, will forever be tained, and I will forever be a cuck - at least that's how it feels. I just can't look at her the same way. The sweet moments we cherish - they are just memories that will never become true again no matter how proactive and lucky I may be in trying to get her now, years later. Sorry for the long post. Thanks for reading if you stuck through to the end. As for new girl I'd meet... hard to tell how I could tolerate a small few of men that came before, I haven't had anything as serious as before. But even now I find myself thinking that if she isn't a virgin, it's hard to see a future in which I could give everything for her / want to marry her.

It is better to do a medical check up, see if she is healthy , without any STD or other underline deceases and can conceive healthy babies , you should be good. Because once you have babies your priorities change.

and just like you, other guys are commiting to the girls you bangged easily......what goes around cames around😀, just live in pressent

Yes this was glossed over a bit. If your woman worships the ground you walk on and brings you other women to have threesomes with every week, you're not going to be jealous of her past. The jealousy comes when you suspect that others (sometimes many others) before you have gotten a better deal. Desire= respect to a woman. If she doesn't desire you as much or more than she desired (and therefore respected) dozens of strangers before you, you're being played.

​@@nosphyNobody's committing anymore. Most men don't participate in hook uo culture. It's the majority of women with a small fraction of men. Note how men want to upkeep civilization, family, and morals, and women advocate for the destruction of it, and of babies.

What are you paying? For dinner, drinks, a vacation? You leave no room for women to be human because you have a fantasy in your head. 40% of married women today outearn their husbands, so who's ''paying'' for whom?

You mean women take what they can get, exactly like men?😅

@@pwh5805 Look up divorce statistics. Women are twice as likely to initiate a divorce. Not saying that men cannot be selfish or anything but it is a fact that it is way harder to please and satisfy a woman than the opposite.

@@pwh5805 When they hitted the wall? then yes, in their early 20s they have tons of good options.

The sad truth. I'm not angry with women anymore for being who and what they are. That's just how they were programmed. But I'm also going to use my knowledge of female nature to protect myself, and not get too involved. Other men disagree with me on this, and that's fine. People can choose what's best for them.

@@vaggs003 they’re 3 times more likely. and we’ll over 4 times if they’re college educated

why though

@@JJ-vp3bddumb question

@@JJ-vp3bd 255 million years of evolutionairy paternity uncertainty. If women sleep around with a lot of men we get the ick as she is a bad bet for paternity. It's biology. And men value purity, fertility, femininty. Why would men want a women later when shes thrown all that away.

STDs.

Disgusted by what? A woman having sex?

Holy Shit. This hit home re: woman I've been in love with for last 18 months.

Very true sadly a lot of guys are in relationships like this.

@@Cre8Fire34 same, 10 months ..

Yes, but people often also change and grow up. Things aren’t necessarily static.

@@chillie000 I used to be naive and think the same. After failed marriage and relationships with “former” promiscuous women I learned that people rarely change if at all. So I completely disagree

Nice analogy

@WildChild are you a woman?

@WildChild 🤣😅

By you saying “pay a lot of money” do u mean the persuasion/ quality time/love and grifts you would give to a women? Because those are things u do when u truly LOVE someone, not to just some random hookup. Your statement just sounds like ur only in it for sexual purposes.

​@@zaraherrera8193Sod off with the "hook ups are just hookups" rubbish, mate. If you're willing to give intimacy for free to a random "hot a-hole" you barely met then don't expect "Mr Right" to court you like if you were victorian Lady. Reminder: love has nothing to do with relationships.

That's also why you never marry or cohabitate. Maintain the ability to walk in 30 seconds or less if she pulls any bullshit or you find you just can't deal.

@@SKBottomI mean that’s not the ideal way. But if you are atheist then go for it. Christians for example that get married as virgins have an almost 100% chance of marriage success. It’s in a moral lacking society where this is the best shield for yourself

Go buy a house and watch your life change. You are still young leave dating until the next 5 years, come back and thank me here later. Good luck I wish I was 25 years old again.

@@MOCHI-ek6rcI’m 23 and I would like to hear more on what you have to say on this?

... this is exactly how you avoid caring about her past... dont get attached.

If she messed with 1 or 2 quality men. That’s more dangerous that her messing with 30 average men. Them 2 men can alway take her back at almost any time than the amount of other men she’s been with who were nothing more that just a one off. So, really and truly, men shouldn’t really concern themselves with “body count” if anything it should be more of quality count. And that shouldn’t even matter because if you are or become a quality man yourself then why would she want to go compete for another if she truly recognises that she already has one. Just trying to get men to think like my good sir in the video.

​@Jay Matem21c her taking dicks from 30 average men is better than 2 quality guys? I disagree. With those 2 guys she was most likely trying to secure a relationship. With the 30 dudes she was just fuckin. Ew.

Don't be delusional, after a good meal there is always a place for something sweet in your stomach😁

@@jaymatem21c2 brother are you high you are comparing a normal women to a prostitute. yah maybe she had good guys and shes with you then it means she sees potential or u r good guy like her past men she had

This goes for men too

She missed the streets lol

@@joseph6243 You need shoes to the hit the pavement running.

You made the right choice

Damn It's bad enough she brings it up, but she adds salt to the wound with the nostalgia.

2 months after marrying my 1st wife she told me her boyfriend before me had a bigger penis. 8 years later she was back on the D carousel getting pumped & dumped.

This exactly why my ex is my ex!

I've experienced something similar, I try to politely set a boundary and the woman takes it as an invitation to double down. they think its cute or something. its not. its hurtful.

Those women are immature

She was testing your strength. Act indifferent

I would want to know if it was a possible long term / marriage situation.

Everything you said is Spot on and more Women should learn this and modify there modern mating style if they have any and i mean ANY intention of having a long term man in their life. This experience just happened to me with a girl that i was emotionally invested in, being a romantic i saw her as a pearl in a vast dark ocean, she truly was special and like No one else i had ever met, or so i thought. We had the "conversation" one night and i have to say it was one of the most miserable experiences i ever had trying to sleep that night, i could not get it out of my head the amount of partners she had and how quick sex was with some of them and we already know whatever number they say its not the truth but in fact more, part of me wishes i never had it because it literally threw months of happiness and effort trying to court her out the window, but also another part of me is happy it did because it opened my eyes to so many things, even catching red flags from her (eventually found out she was still talking to her ex boyfriend all that time while talking to me!) This experience definitely changed my perspective on dating and women in general, Men trying to be romantics and always trying to find that perfect partner end up putting Women on a pedestal and in our minds we think they are gods gift to mankind when the reality is far from the truth, a womans history is far from being clean or pristine as many men think it is, matter of fact it might be more fucked up and twisted than most mens encounters today, Unless your an Ultra Chad with endless supply of women you are not getting close to the average girls sexual history, amount of partners and flings, its impossible and social media has only made it worse. Bitter pill to swallow but its the truth, and the sooner you accept it about Your girl or any girl you have "plans" with the better off you will be....

@WildChild no. As a former man whore, it actually turns them on more, knowing you’ve been around. 🤯

I didn't even watch the video and went straight to the comments and found this banger. This is all I needed to know 👍

Absolutely nailed it, thank you sir. ESPECIALLY the part about it damaging how you view her level of discernment. It makes her seem like a fool, like she would be happy with anybody. That feeling of disgust in your gut is saying that "having a partner is what's important to her", not that her partner being you is important.

Totally correct. Don’t even need to watch the video, it can’t be better than this comment.

That’s it Salim R.

Yes because that attachment is an indicator of investment, it's a woman he could be ok to have children with.

This is very true.....

@@limoncr5205 It's deeper than that.

So it's OK to sleep with the town bikes and use them, but your feelings get hurt when you actually care for a woman.

"They wisen up" nah, they just need resources and a good simp provider

Most women are gullable suckers for the alpha male.

You're an incel if you complain about it and do nothing. Here is some hints: 1/ Stop idealize women and see them for who they really are. 2/ 2-3 body counts is normal number. 3/ Build yourself up to become an alpha. Work, walk, talk, flirt and play the women game like an alpha.

She's probably been tossed around by dozens of guys before you came along. Your just another horse on the carousel. Lol

@@Monkechnologytrue, they probably still seek alphas on the side

She chose to be a playing partner for a guy who didn't have to do anything but expects you to crawl over glass for her.

2018-2023: the sexual market, which is across the street from the stock market, has listed this 5 yr stretch as an all-time low for the 'value' of vagina. the report said this about the supply/demand curve: the demand has been steady since the beginning of time, but WOMEN HAVE DEVALUED VAGINA to the point where the supply is so abundant and easily attainable that it's damn near WORTHLESS; so very little investment is needed to get it. the 1st footnote at the bottom of the report reads: "relax... enjoy... bc it's not your vagina, it's just your turn to have it." the 2nd footnote reads: "the line to get your passport to find a traditional woman starts over there ---->"

the latest science on female desire has proven that you can't beat biological programming... after 3-5 yrs, romance plummets.... ... Psychologist & Primatologist Dr. Kim Wallen (EmeryU Atlanta), has shown in his Rhesus monkey compounds, that female monkeys run the show wrt every aspect of monkey life, they are the Generals in War, the head of politics, they initiate ALL Sex, they do all the Objectifying (shock!) & don’t hesitate to abandon their children to chase after various objects of desire .. they're basically *RAW*. Male monkeys on the other hand, tend to live to the side of family life & are SWAPPED OUT after ~3 yrs…why ? the female monkeys get too bored to have sex w them (~3.5yrs in the wild) ... sound familiar ? If it does, no need to ever beat yourself up. Just don’t forget, gym/haircut. [ See Daniel Bergner's 2013 TedX talk/Book "What do women really want" where he writes about 8 yrs worth of interviews w female & male researchers & scientists on the topic of female desire, a great read.. & likely a disturbing read for most civilized men ]

@@maxdawg - I've lived with half dozen women and dated a few dozen more. All the western women (American, British, etc.) had high (over 10) body counts. Eastern European women were an exception and my longest relationship at over 20 years.

Bro, sometimes you can physically tell by their downstairs area.

​​@@sigerian1085 They'll hit you with the "oUr AnAtOmY dOeSNt WoRk LiKe tHaT yOu iiiiiiNcEL"

@@sigerian1085 looooool. How do u tell?

It's not insecure to be disgusted by the choices she's made.

"I could be with a woman who had a promiscuous past but I wouldn’t be 100% faithful to her" - well, this attitude is not very constructive. Just because she was promiscuous in the past doesn't mean that she will be unfaithful to you. If she is really in love with you she will be faithful, but if you then start to play around then it ain't gonna work.

Nailed it!

👌👌

Casual Sex is rampant in thailand, philiphines and everywhere, dude! What has it got to do only with western women?

@@flare6521yeah in the big cities. Not really in the provinces

​@@flare6521There are pretty extreme "feminist" and "modern" parts in every country. Even in mine. But the vast majority of women and men in asian countries aren't used to hookup culture like the west.

No it’s more so they want to have things as easily as those guys in her past. Better to say maybe they’re jealous of those past men.

Wrong. That's envy. Envy is when you are upset that someone else has something you would like. Jealousy is being upset at the possibility of losing something you have to someone else.

@@blairdurward4324 some women get married as virgins and are treated like trash

@@Future88746 nobody here is saying that isn’t the case, I’m just saying if I met a girl who was always giving it up for her ex, being adventurous in bed and experimenting with him only to not want to do that with me, I’d be really disappointed, offended, and probably wonder if she’s worth keeping.

What is disgusting about a woman having sex

Studies have been done that show women's brains lose the ability to properly pair-bond once they sleep with too many guys. This is another key reason men value a woman's past so much, and they should value it - women with high body counts are not worthy of committing to.

It is better to do a medical check up, see if she is healthy , without any STD or other underline deceases and can conceive healthy babies , you should be good. Because once you have babies your priorities change.

Dark triad traits. Apathy(lack of empathy). Narcissistic tendencies. Solipsist world views centered on themselves and every argument or observation operates from their view exclusively. Yeah Ive met some very interesting characters. Lets say Im glad I only stayed the night.

Bitches can't be wives.

The thing is that men being able to do the same are rather a minority.

You are just covering your sins.

@@user-mv2pr6fl8x And you are clearly a russian bot...

Why would you keep pictures of your old boyfriends?

@@NineOneNine-e5g Why can't you just accept reality, and stop pedestalizing women. You want a women to go through her entire history and delete all the photo's, that may give away her sexual past to satifsy your insecurities? It's childish bro.

​@@user-mv2pr6fl8x Stop playing good samaritan, religion is not a good metric to judge a women's psychology, it's outdated. Get with the times.

women allow themselves to be IMPRINTED in two ways... sexually and emotionally. if it was 2 different guys, you have a decent chance that she can resist the constant comparisons and wondering, "can i do better." if it was ONE GUY that imprinted her in BOTH ways, you have to tell her to go find him and not waste YOUR time.

Okay I agree. But EXACTLY how many women have you slept with?? What's your body count buddy ??

Humans don't "pair bond". However promiscuous women are statistically much more likely to cheat or leave you for someone else.

don't pay for another man's fun.

Women too

@@carlac9026 Not true women usually dont care as long as he has some ability to provide something from a relationship standpoint and if he decides to pick her for a monogamous relationship bt depending on the status of the dude monogamy is often look passed by women. Its been that way throughout human history.

@@carlac9026 😂 no

​@@carlac9026 That's not true.

Exactly

she's willing to LIE about her past, and she's designed and fully capable of DISCOUNTING those sexual experiences, ie., "they didn't count." this is a fact: women have the natural ability to 'remove' those sexual experiences from her past; so when she says, "i've been with less than 10 men," she TRULY believes it bc the other 30 guys don't count for whatever reason in her head. her emotions tell her that's the truth... and guess what, it REALLY is (her) truth. she will look you right in the eyes and say it with FULL conviction too. iow, natural liars & manipulators and it's all a survival tactic to not be left discarded and alone.

TBH if a man had a promiscuous past, I'd leave too. I would think monogamy is difficult for him, and he is incapable of forming an emotional bond with a woman. Now, if he said during his early 20's he was promiscuous but grew out of that phase, I could look past it.

@@vanessa.jasmine ok

No such thing as an ugly past lol, atleast not when it comes to sex

@@LARA-sg4bt if you say so 😂

The pill and abortion were factors, but the overwhelming force of all the TV/movies/books/magazines/etc/etc brainwashing women into harmful belief systems was a much bigger factor. All of those factors were intentionally and carefully conducted/managed as an ongoing act of warfare against our societies. The internationalist group (which controls virtually all Western governments/media/publishing/Big Tech/Big Science/Big Finance/education/etc/etc) conducting the warfare knows exactly what they're doing.

Yeah

This should be pinned.

Exactly this. Men are now expected to just simply accept this as fact and be ok with it. Feminism is both a hilarious concept, and cancerous to society. If men demanded purity from Women for actual commitments like marriage, things would change overnight.

This is too true. well said

Ok I agree with you. But what's your body count???

@@gregorylyon1004 my body count is double digits. The same studies that show that while body count damages the human female’s ability to form an emotional connection and pair bond with a man, it has NO effect upon the emotional connection/pair bonding ability of men. Human evolutionary biology shows that, contrary to what happens with women, who are actively acting counter to their evolved, instinctive mating strategy, opportunistic mating where human males have as much sex as possible with as many different women as possible IS the evolved, instinctive mating strategy of human males. Our neurobiological pair bonding system is both structurally and chemically different than the female system in significant ways. Men do not form pair bonds with women quickly. We literally evolved to “hit it and quit it”. The more women a man had sex with, in the earlier history of our species, the higher the probability that a number of those episodes would result in conceptions. The more conceptions that occurred, the higher the probability that at least some of them would successfully carry to term. The more pregnancies that carried to term, the higher the probability that at least some of the babies would survive to reach reproductive maturity, and that meant the higher the chance at least some of those reproductively mature offspring would themselves go on to impregnate females-or be impregnated by males-thus continuing the male DNA in the human gene pool. Promiscuous sexual behavior was and, technically, still is in the reproductive best interests of human males. The male pair bonding mechanism therefore evolved to be very slow to form such a bond, requiring a combination of significant interest by the male in a specific female, a corresponding significant interest by the female in the male, and her ability to keep him interested and attractive enough for him to stay with her long enough for her to lavish him with abundant physical and emotional intimacy, in sufficient quantities and over a sufficiently extended period of time for the slow-acting male neurobiological pair bonding mechanism to activate and cause the male to pair bond with the female, whose own pair bonding mechanism had long before bonded her to him, which occurs in women with only very few intimate sexual episodes, often as few as one. Human females evolved to pair bond very quickly, far faster than the males. It is the repetitive formation and rupture and dissolution of mating pair bonds that damages the neurobiological pair bonding systems. Because women pair bond almost immediately through sexual intimacy combined with emotional intimacy, that degradation of their pair bonding system occurs within a very short time frame. It is questionable whether that damage, and the inability to form viable, durable pair bonds, is reversible. Women who experience bond formation and rupture with as few as five intimate partners, render themselves essentially a mere random coin toss as far as their ability to experience strong bonding and a viable and lasting relationship, versus a weak bond and a significant probability of breaking off the relationship-incurring yet more damage to their ability to pair bond again-and the divorce risk they pose to men in the modern family law and divorce court system. Women with a body count over five and up to ten represent an approximately 30 % chance of successfully pair bonding, and an approximately 70% probability of divorce. With a body count in excess of ten, the female ability to form a successful and durable pair bond declines to the single digit range, while they pose a greater than 90% relationship dissolution and divorce risk. The same is not true for human males. While there is no reason to believe that the same number of mating pair bond formation and rupture and dissolution cycles that destroys pair bonding ability in females would not have the same effect upon males, it must be kept in mind that human males evolved to pair bond very slowly, over very extended periods of time and only under very specific circumstances, and so human males only very rarely form mating pair bonds. This facilitates the opportunistic (promiscuous) mating strategy of human males, allowing men to pursue that strategy without incurring damage. Men and women are equal only in the moral sense. Physically/sexually, they are wildly different.

The Institute for Family Studies is not at all a credible research entity. It has been entangled in controversies related to flawed data constructed in ways to be biased against LGBTQ families. The entity has pushed right wing conservative values included. Do not use them as a source.

@johntrench lol, high body count for guys is also incredibly dangerous as they might carry STD/STI, and they are not able to connect emotionally. Their divorce rate is incredibly high because they can't get fulfilled with one person, and the desire to sleep around always pushes. They are incredibly unfaithful just look in the mirror, deep down you know I'm right. 😁

@Princess15732 according to both governments, statistics and research to scientist, the infidelity rate of men averages under 65% while out of women averages slightly more than 50%, so it is almost exactly the same. Human males evolved to be promiscuous, it’s part of the amazing strategy. Humanity does not cause any research typing supported Tammy to human male hair bonding.. Because we eat balls are bumping mechanism for taking advantage of every possible opportunity, although it cannot be the definitive improvement, it is highly likely that this interesting deviation of the mail made strategy for that as a female, involved in response to pressure from female hyper select activity. Promise you has no biological effect on male emotional care bonding, again because we do not emotionally care bond until we attend the long time. Long period of time. Even then, men can be completely in love with the woman that they are with, and still take advantage of other opportunities, because we are literally instinctively so. Women are not. Reason? Because men had pregnant numerous women, it is there for our reproductive best interest to pursue that. women, throughout the majority of human history, required a very steady and reliable resource source, and protection, particularly during pregnancy and the early years of raising children when the children and women were at their most vulnerable. Women develop the instinct of hypergamy to select the highest value male, they could realistically achieve that has been perverted by lack of social restraint, and by the building of the world, by men, not by women, so that it will provide much of security that women have to depend upon having their own man, I thought a woman’s instinct of interest to care with a single male. This also did not stop women from seeking outside sexual encounter, because they could not always find what they were considering instinctively the best genetic material in the make was, and the best traits and resources that would make an excellent father and make long term. the paternity fraud that is committed death today by women, which is at minimum 32% of all my birth every year to couples where the man who to be the father does not know that he has actually not the father, and is being treated by the mother, is out of that. Both cases can be resisted. And and generally do an excellent job of staying committed to their partners. The divorce rate is not caused by men. Do not support a major contribution by men to the divorce rate. Quite the contrary. Despite the close to equal and fidelity rate between husbands and wives, it has been firmly established that husbands, combining instinctive drive and the change in society that has resulted in women thinking that they can tell their husbands know, and deny them sex while attempting to hold them to about Fidelity, the vast majority of men who do cheat statistically do so, because they are not receiving sex at home. The percentage of men who act on their instinct with without a reason due to female relationship misbehavior, such as imposing sex, marriage or weapon Ing sex in order to manipulate and coerce May behavior, is extremely tiny. And the percentage of men who initiate divorce proceedings is also extremely tiny. Between 70 and 80% of all of our proceedings are initiated by women, overwhelmingly. The reasons are trivial. The women “get bored “, or are “unhappy”. Neither one of which is the responsibility of the man. We are not clowns here to entertain women. And women are impossible for men to make happy because cannot be made happy by other people. Happiness is discovered within oneself. By devotion of family, devotion to husband or wife, by cultivating friendships, cultivating hobbies, and outside interests. The population of women who have college degrees, in that, cohort of women initiating divorce, account for 90% of all divorces initiated by women who have such. It averages out to women initiating more than 80% of divorces, men not. Men initiating less than 20%. That combined with data from marriage and family therapist, sociologist, anthropologist, Shows that men are a far greater force for stability in order in a relationship, and women are a force for chaos. It is the removal of social restraints upon female hypergamy, and the perversion of female hypergamy by new social trends, promoting female, promiscuity, which has never in any of human history, been to the advantage of women, that has resulted in the problems we have today. Again, biology provides the answer. Promiscuity is not, and literally biologically cannot be as damaging to men, as it is to women. The only circumstance under which it can be, is if you take the very tiny percentage of men who remain with women long enough to form an emotional bond and neurological pair bond, And then the relationship ruptures. There are men who “date to meet”, and such men, if they have a handful of pair bonding formations, and ruptures, will then experience the same suppression of their bonding ability, although even here it is a lesser degree because it is moderated by the natural male instinctive drive for, multiple sexual contacts. There is no scenario in which fax and data are taken into account fully, in which your comment is correct regarding pair bonding. In regards to your comment regarding STDs, however, you are correct. Promiscuity for either men or women causes an extraordinarily high in increase in the risk of contracting STDs. As a doctor, I can also tell you that the STDs are becoming more resistant to treatment, so it behooves both men and women to return to a very much more traditional view of relationships and relationship rules, in order to combat this particular, very concerning trend. It is part of the greater, overall development of resistance patterns, and microorganisms that attack human beings. This includes infecting bacteria for things like necrotizing, fasciitis, tuberculosis, etc. See you at least got one point right. Congratulations on that.

Having standards is for the control of current situations, setting a standard is for the actions that might happen in the here and now, not times that are long gone It's the feeling of inadequacy and the fear of being compared

Absolutely based. I had never even considered how I have 0 issue with an ex-husband or ex-boyfriend of 10 years. I only have disgust with women who give away intimacy so quickly without investment. Even if I'm the one they want to give it away to, if it's too quick and I've barely invested in her yet it just ruins everything. It's like a guy proposing to a girl after dating for 4 days.

🎯 this is all Facts 💯

@@Milktube These days folks get intimate after few dates.. fake and ridiculous but in reality.

Society has been focusing so much on virginity because men NEVER ACTUALLY VALUED WOMEN just for the sake of it It has aleays been about sex When you cannot seperate the value of women from the topic of Sex entirety, then you've already admitted that the only thing you see and want is sex You literally admitted that besides sex, women are worthless to men

Add the fact that male and female promiscuity patterns have basically switched. Now, young women have dramatically more sexual experience than young men, which seems to be an evolutionary unnatural situation that leads to massive resentment.

Hey, why do you say and believe it’s coming to an end sooner than later? I love to hear your elaboration because I believe you hit the nail on the head.

@apureguapo pre-industrial societies live (with very few exceptions) in darwinian selection conditions. They did what they did, organized and behaved they way they did in order to survive. Traditional gender roles are included in this logic. We can see this as a set of rules nature favours and commands to societies if they want to survive. If, by the development of highly developed technology, we can momentarily break these natural laws, the only thing we are doing is getting in debt with nature. A debt sooner or later we will end up paying. Nowadays, men but specially women dont want to behave in the way that favours reproduction and passing the genes to next generation. This will mean that either the segment of population that are hyper traditional and hyper breeders will be the only ones who pass their genes to the next generation (changing the society's values dramatically) ooooor members of more traditional and natural socities will expand and substitute the society whose members didnt want to reproduce (or their collective behaviour was not aligned with what nature requires for reproduction) because ultimately, nature hates emptiness. Where you creat void, another will ocupy.

wow that's so true and I didn't even realize that would be the case just from an evolutionary perspective. its clear to see that those with poor values, morals and behavior aren't reproducing as much which ultimately weeds them out of history with time and leading to less people like that. I know I just repeated what you explained briefly but it's because I feel like I should've known this. Great insight man!@@WilliamRP263

You're being really disingenuous here. I've no idea about what exact era you're referring to, but if you go back far enough then men just took women. Sometimes a man would hog a woman (if the man was powerful) and sometimes the woman would just get passed around from man to man. Her feelings on the matter were not a concern at all.

But apparently women are the emotional ones 😂

@@mrsgolden6526 come on now, you can do better than that :) how about: "who hurt you?" or "only insecure men care for a woman's past!" I am talking about gut-instinct which is connected to the rational mind.

@@l.b.2392 the only gut istinct evoked by that is the fear of paternity fraud, but that's irrational since paternity can be tested in this day and age, stds as well But men are very emotional creatures so it's not a surprise that despite these opportunities they still give more credit to their feelings

@@l.b.2392 the only gut instinct involved here would be the fear of paternity fraud or stds, both things that can be tested in this day and age but the human male will always give more credit to his "instinct" aka feelings above anything else

I agree, although i find it disturbing with both genders

Exactly! Most of them either were sexually and emotionally abused as kids which led to developing personality disorders or becoming hypersexual.

Stay away from most BP women, they're the ones guys love to chase because they're DTF.

Im sure your saving yourself for marriage too.

@@nostalgicbliss5547 Everyone looks back at their youth with nostalgia.

@@EC-yl7xk im sure that you cant be sure about how anyone is based off of 1 yt comment

the latest science on female desire has proven that you can't beat biological programming... after 3-5 yrs, romance plummets.... ... Psychologist & Primatologist Dr. Kim Wallen (EmeryU Atlanta), has shown in his Rhesus monkey compounds, that female monkeys run the show wrt every aspect of monkey life, they are the Generals in War, the head of politics, they initiate ALL Sex, they do all the Objectifying (shock!) & don’t hesitate to abandon their children to chase after various objects of desire .. they're basically *RAW*. Male monkeys on the other hand, tend to live to the side of family life & are SWAPPED OUT after ~3 yrs…why ? the female monkeys get too bored to have sex w them (~3.5yrs in the wild) ... sound familiar ? If it does, no need to ever beat yourself up. Just don’t forget, gym/haircut. [ See Daniel Bergner's 2013 TedX talk/Book "What do women really want" where he writes about 8 yrs worth of interviews w female & male researchers & scientists on the topic of female desire, a great read.. & likely a disturbing read for most civilized men ]

the latest science on female desire has proven that you can't beat biological programming... after 3-5 yrs, romance plummets.... ... Psychologist & Primatologist Dr. Kim Wallen (EmeryU Atlanta), has shown in his Rhesus monkey compounds, that female monkeys run the show wrt every aspect of monkey life, they are the Generals in War, the head of politics, they initiate ALL Sex, they do all the Objectifying (shock!) & don’t hesitate to abandon their children to chase after various objects of desire .. they're basically *RAW*. Male monkeys on the other hand, tend to live to the side of family life & are SWAPPED OUT after ~3 yrs…why ? the female monkeys get too bored to have sex w them (~3.5yrs in the wild) ... sound familiar ? If it does, no need to ever beat yourself up. Just don’t forget, gym/haircut. [ See Daniel Bergner's 2013 TedX talk/Book "What do women really want" where he writes about 8 yrs worth of interviews w female & male researchers & scientists on the topic of female desire, a great read.. & likely a disturbing read for most civilized men ]

It’s more to do with ensuring the children are his biologically his

Right. Men has watered down the standard so much that they now say she needs a "low" body count. It's ZERO or NOT ZERO. There's no magic number in the middle.

@@brentrosencrans3968 Be silent, you man hater

Agreed

It's true.

Correct. Don't date women with high body counts.

It is better to do a medical check up, see if she is healthy , without any STD or other underline deceases and can conceive healthy babies , you should be good. Because once you have babies your priorities change.

This can vary widely depending on the woman's personality traits and preferences, but to optimize sexual and relationship loyalty from her, she should have a low body count (say 1-5) but not a virgin. The reason for skepticism against virgin women is that a fair amount of girls upon losing their virginity will get "addicted" to this new life pleasure and will go through a sex crazed phase of trying to sleep with a bunch of guys before calming down. I've seen that happen before myself, notably around that grade 12 or 1st year uni time. IMO knowing what a woman does after losing her virginity is just as important as having a reasonable body count

I have a question: Are 9 sexual partners a lot? I am 26

A "straight" man disgusted by a woman having sex The irony 😂

It is better to do a medical check up, see if she is healthy , without any STD or other underline deceases and can conceive healthy babies , you should be good. Because once you have babies your priorities change.

Perfect step taken

The weird thing about sexual experience is that it doesn't make you better at choosing. It makes you less likely to commit. People get accustomed to wandering.

Same. After six years she told me I am her plan B. My gut and disgust told it to me the whole time.

@@dorn885 Damn, talk about getting comfortable. I hope you left that relationship behind and are doing better now.

Number 3…. Holy shit bro. Spot on. Her past was eating me like as if she had cheated. I can’t still fully comprehend why my core and intuition make such an association.

You hit it right on the head. Confirming a woman has had a varied past is confirming who she is. Even if she claims to be different now, she is capable of whatever she's done before precisely because she did it before.

No 4: Lack of pair bonding capacity

I turned 41 not too long ago so take this for what you will. I learned that love is not something that you give away as in your heart will be crushed because you as a man are sacrificing it in a way for someone else to keep and take care of. What you do is share your ' love', like a light, you don't hand it out but rather take care of it yourself and shine it upon those you like and wish to see it. At some point if things go well for you you will also become strong enough to realize that you are strong enough to weather heartbreak.

Its not irrational. Ive had a string of casual encounters after initially losing my virginity to my first GF. We feel that shame for a reason. It becomes less intimate and you have to work on establishing the ability to emotionally bond again. Loss of pairbonding doesnt just happen to women, it happens to men too. (Though it is easier for men to re establish that emotional bonding) In the end, it is always better with someone you have a genuine emotional connection with.

NOT irrational at all. SPOT ON

"And I wonder if that’s because the illusion has been broken for me." Yup. Many YT RP content creators comment on how rough it is on dudes, when they become red pill aware..

@@M0viLover It is rough, but I don’t want to conclude that my situation is necessarily worse because of it, or that I’m permanently scarred. I think it’s just time for a new way of doing things-we can’t expect the old ways to work anymore, and when we do expect that, we get hurt. I’m trying to embrace moving forward and being open to new kinds of relationships and experiences. It’s kind of experimental, though.

That's why I CAN'T get over my ex, she's not special, which means ANY woman can and will act like her. If she was special, it could be just a exception case, but since she's just an 'everygirl' now I expect every woman to fuck me over like she did, because she was nothing special.

Ditto!!

Never look back or go back.

@@allangilfoil1648 true!!!!!!

But she doesn’t want you, your not the one choosing. Have fun playing with this bandaid.

Dude, there's something to this. It's like we sometimes confuse the "butterflies in our stomach" when it reality it could be our instinct kicking in and warning that she's not a good potential match. It makes more sense to be with the one who brings you peace than with the one who makes you feel "excited"

@@joaquin67 I wouldn't go there. What you're suggesting here is that we're supposed to not listen to an intense intuitive feeling within our guts. If there's butterflies - they're there for a reason. Doesn't have to mean anything for the relationship, all I am saying is that there's a reason you feel those butterflies and it's not your body trying to fool you

That's means that you slept with all those past women. High body count. It matters

@@Isaax not so sure about that. Ur body can fool u you very very bad. Trust me :(

100% TRUE!!!

Same fo us pure women, we don't want a used car with history.

What if this pure woman gets with you and then turns impure and goes wild. That does happen just so you know. A “pure” women doesn’t alway make safety

​@@ubahabdi1600 no u dont stop lying lol.

I feel you but women don't find it a good analogy because they don't like to be compared to a car saying it objectify them. Better analogy would be a sex worker

More like disgust

Insecurity and lack of maturity. Women are human beings, just like you guys.

Exactly.......No one is calling him out on that

This video is not at all about finding out your woman lied about her past. It's about why men get jealous about their past at all. Calm down.

@@Gnomesmusher any man with dignity has a right to get disgusted with his woman's past sexual history, especially if he was saving himself for marriage

@@aeganratheesh Where did I say he shouldn't be disgusted? But you and OP seem to think this video is defending women's past. You're both raging over some imagined offense.

@@Gnomesmusher by using the term "jealous" , he is defending women's careless behaviour

I'm glad you called them $luts becasuse that's exactly what most wo-MEN are today

This!!!

But men can sleep with as many women as they want and it doesn't affect their future wives, right?

To be honest it is the feeling of jealousy and the reason is basic, you feel jealous as you the good guy got to try so hard after she got wrecked when someone inferior to you (most of the time objectively inferior but always in the mind) had her when she was fresh.

It's not all your fault. And it's ok to not have respect for someone's poor behavior.

It's not your fault, you need to trust the other person if they are deceptive it's on them. My ex-wife told me that I made her cheat, totally delusional piece of work. They bring judgement upon themselves, has nothing to do with you. Avoid these types and take a long time before committing.

That’s probably the worst when it comes from her slutty friends, friends know everything. It’s okay playa !!!

You don't want 357 strains of HPV?

I think it’s insecurity 😇

​@@shanialee7361 if you want to be promiscuous, good for you, but you can't force men to take you seriously with insults, and if you can you won't take him seriously anyway

@@TheOneTrueNoName How would a man know?

@@caucasianafrican1435 Most men have HPV. Where do you think women get it from? But there is no testing for men.

It is better to do a medical check up, see if she is healthy , without any STD or other underline deceases and can conceive healthy babies , you should be good. Because once you have babies your priorities change.

Its an amalgam of different things. For me it is mainly the disrespect. She didnt value her body or have any respect for herself. It was all about pleasure, unmitigated overindulgent instant gratification for her.

Whatever is happening is when men mess up a good relationship.

@@Maybe-cg2tn You still dont get it. That detail tinges and stains the relationship. In that case, it wasnt that good of a relationship afterall.

@@Maybe-cg2tn ayeee we found the 304

You're right, you're right. You're smart. To sum up, sex's been devalued and it's not special anymore so neither people are. People just use people like objects. It's the consumerist culture, everything is about to consume even people themselves. It's a dehumanized society.

Talk your shit bro

For me if a man does not see me as "special", I won't be with him.

@@Maybe-cg2tn Not special if a woman shares herself with a slew of men. Its disrespectful to yourself.

@@Maybe-cg2tn I'll put it this way. Special implies rare, valuable, unique. Women have easy access to sex. Men have to work and build themselves up to gain access (except Chad, women all fawn over Chad). Men have to work much more for it. Women dont. So women arent working anywhere near as much as men just to gain access at the bare minimum. Women have an abundance of opportunities, men dont. If every dude is getting a piece of the action, it isnt rare or valuable or special. The more dudes, the less rare, valuable or special it feels for the man you might want to have a relationship with. It is utterly disrespectful to herself and her body aswell as to that potential partner

@@Maybe-cg2tn There's a difference between "special" and "angel." Plenty of people are special, men and women alike. None of them are angels. Men need to stop treating women like they're princesses. They're just people.

@@Maybe-cg2tn Also, that promiscuous past doesnt make him feel special at all. Quite the opposite. But you dont care how he feels. Thats why you and all the women (and manginas) here are arguing against it. You feel entitled to crap on his feelings but demand he take your feelings seriously. Its disrespectful. Plain and simple. And also prove women were never interested in equality, they were just interested in clamoring for more privileges for themselves. Opportunists and solipsists make for poor partners.

men do the same to us.

It's called the Alpha Widow effect

@@EC-yl7xk and your point is...

​@@EC-yl7xkNo. Men NEVER ever do that. Men love incomprehensibly different to women.

​@@dominikvonlavante6113they do. Men who have been with double/triple digits expect performance and satisfying sex life as one of the bare minimum for a long term relationship

Yeah.....get out & run!! while you can.

How did u managed that?

It's hard to run but you need to run. And it is very hard, very fucking hard, it is so hard that it is impossible. Because you can't pick up girls, because you think you won't get a girl like her

She did the right thing when presented with the dilemma- but she needs to understand your disgust. And that it is natural for you to feel it.

Did you think that you got the virgin Mary???? Lol

Furthermore, as a man I know I can guide, direct, and influence the future I share with my woman in a positive manner. Yet most women want men to help them process and reconcile the negative aspects of her past, which I had zero influence over and was not a participant.

Its not extreme. Its natural. Women care for provision, men care for exclusivity. Men can tolerate a few partners. It is quite different when it is a long, long line of varying partners.

@@munkqiking7207 it’s an extreme view when a woman thinks that’s how it should be- in other words, men should think like women.

The past is a strong indicator of the couple's future.

Past behaviour is the best indicator of future behaviour.

I hope you find a solution.

Some guys in the past have used your special woman as a warm body with holes. That feeling friggin hurts. For some stupid reason.

@WildChild It’s WAY different. A skeleton key that opens many doors is priceless. A lock that open with any key is useless. Most men would sxex most women. Most women would only sxex very few men. Im the end, women choose if they want to open their legs for a man. The best predictor for future behavior is based on past. Women focus on what man come bring to the future, men focus on the merit, integrity, non-whoreness of their past.

@@rambojohnj.6117 So if the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior, you're telling us that YOU can't be trusted because of YOUR past.

@@lorrilewis2178 I know my past. Infinitely loyal. Respectful. Trustworthy. Non-deceiving. Honest. With a woman you may love, she was never “yours”. It was simply your “turn.”

So many marriages and relationships would split if that happens

@@pistisbalu2021 ...it is for the greater good!

Nor try to marry a celibate woman who is celibate only to you, and has never asked a guy to wait till marriage.

It is better to do a medical check up, see if she is healthy , without any STD or other underline deceases and can conceive healthy babies , you should be good. Because once you have babies your priorities change.

Correct. This guy is gaslighting men who feel actual disgust from a woman's behavior. This click-bait disingenuous take provides nothing, but making men doubt themselves over their gut instinct. This therapist is a simp that will not advocate men, but put a woman's issue on the burden of mens shoulders.

​@@user-td2lg1fl6h this is the only way to be 'successful' presently.

"I would feel dirty like I was wearing someone else’s underwear." Just bring a Massengill douche with you!

Agree 100% it’s very uncomfortable and gross, don’t want to spend a lifetime committed to girl like that. And also yes it’s not a nice feeling and very unnatural something a women can never understand.

Once you understand that when a women sleeps with a man she’s essentially wanting to have his kids you understand how it’s not casual and is very unsettling for the poor guys that commit to her afterwards. This was never a thing for 99% of human history only in modern times can women rack up 20+ guys without getting a disease, pregnant or something else that would hinder a high body count.

Yeah right. What's your body count??? Maybe your not any better than a woman ??

Society didn't fail, we're still figuring it out. At worst, you can say we were lied to, but now that we're aware, the only person we can blame from this point on is ourselves

No one is promising chaste wives anymore. All we get is Chad's used goods for the full retail price

You werent promised anything and nobody owes you anything

It is better to do a medical check up, see if she is healthy , without any STD or other underline deceases and can conceive healthy babies , you should be good. Because once you have babies your priorities change. Just think of starting a family, stop working about anything else.

The best cure is to avoid them and vet them well.

It can't be fixed. I always compare it with death.

Yeah man, sex has no meaning nowadays, it's just a tool to "have fun". I find it pretty childish. So sex is so devalued and people use people to consume them just as other objects. Also, it's so sad that there are different girls with some standards but since their friends give themselves away, they feel they're different and it's wrong, so they just follow the trend. Society corrupts the few ones who are good. Besides, If you have strong emotions towards someone, it'll be absolutely disgusting knowing for example what has happened with the mouth you're kissing. Finally, yeah that's the way of dating...they date many guys in different ways at the same time and after some time they just pick one of them as their partners. So if you're dating someone, she's probably sleeping with others at the same time; and don't even mention to her you love her, that's so creepy!!!! You just have to wait and see if she decides to make you officially her partner.

Very interesting comment especially that last paragraph

Her past does matter. But so does yours don't forget

@@bro918 agreed

What makes you think they don't understand? Why else would they conceal their past from potential long-term partners?

Men disgusted by a woman having sex Sounds not so straight