If you’re a depressed woman who is working at a McDonald’s, there’s always a guarantee there’ll be a man who wants to be with you but if you’re a man in the same position, no woman wants you. As a man, you just got to learn how to suffer alone and take in all the punches. It sucks but it is what it is. Most average men live hard lives of quite desperation.

Imagine having a 6 years longer life expectancy due to less work related stress, making up only 7% of workplace fatalities, 4% deaths due to war, 24% of suicides and homicides, 20% of the homeless, having people assume you are the victim when you initiated DV in the majority of cases, having laws that cannot identify you as a perpetrator of r ape, having a 40% higher adoption rate... and thinking men are privileged

Men need to work 5x more than their grandfathers did for women 20x worse than their grandmother. Don’t get your sh*t together for women, do it for yourself. These women don’t deserve it. Get this idea of love and marriage out of your head and move forward to live for yourself.

Well, I learned really quickly in my 20s not to rely on my online dating profiles to get me any success as I am not necessarily a great looking guy. However, I've always had success meeting and dating women in person since speaking to women and displaying my personality was much easier and effective when having actually human interactions. So to the men out there who's confidence is perhaps damaged due to the unfairness of the online dating market I have to say one thing: "Get out of your damn house and start talking to people in the real world."

Speaking from men's perspective (27 here) Most women from age of 12 to 28 chose to have fun and party with bums, some even up to 40 do it - they ignore more mature guys who are trying to become/build something, then 30's come and all of a sudden their shield gets down to the guy she ignored in her 20's, and if that guy has a good job/decent look (because most guys look better with age let's be honest here) all of a sudden they are interested - not in him of course, but in what he can provide for them - safety/resources My advice to all the guys my age and younger, even older - understand your position in life and market value, your value will increase naturally with age and if you do all the right things it will increase more on top of that, women's value decreases as she ages, because men prefer younger women with "no/limited experience" Also - know that a women you are talking to mostly likely have x10 more experience in dating than you will ever have, so you are playing a game where you are a newbie against a pro player - understand her background/experience and just don't play, because you will loose simple as that At the end of the day if you are a guy living in the "WEST" remember - as soon as you fly to any of the other 99% of countries - women will be chasing you like there is no tomorrow, the amount of options you will have because of your resources/stature is endless in other countries, women in the west are picky as hell and offer nothing besides baggage and drama To give you a simple example about myself - I get 10/10 looking women in most countries on tinder when traveling - some of them look like models, and in the west I get matched usually with 0-5's ocassionally 6-7's and rarely with 8's-9's - for the match rates, I get 8-15 a day, in the west 0-2 a day Remember - at the end of the day you win, just don't play a rigged game, use your left hand/build/make money/save money then go elsewhere, no point to buy expensive western houses/cars/women - simple as that

I'm a woman and I completely agree with everything. I feel for men today. Even though I'm in a relationship I still feel for the lonely single men that have to work 10x harder than a woman to get a partner.

When a man's decisions aren't ruled by his penis, he generally comes out a winner.

With markets tumbling, inflation soaring, the Fed imposing large interest-rate hike, while treasury yields are rising rapidly-which means more red ink for portfolios this quarter. How can I profit from the current volatile market, I'm still at a crossroads deciding if to liquidate my $125k bond/stock portfolio

All my married friends have alot of problems from losing the house to not being able to pick up the phone when shes there....its crazy

Love to hear that I have to be 4 times the man my father was at his age to get a woman not even 1/3rd as valueable as my mother.

“Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times.” - G. Michael Hopf

I got rejected by so many women in my 20s and some of those were definitely because of an entitled attitude some women had, them saying they wanted to travel the world, more money, career, and not needing a man. I finished college, found jobs, and finally found my sweetheart, not one of those bossy bitches I tried to date earlier. It was worth the wait. She saw my potential. Don’t sel yourself short.

THIS MAN DIDN'T SOLD HIS SOUL JUST FOR FOLLOWERS LIKE MOST BIG TIME " CONTENT CREATORS ". RESPECT.

Awesome content thank you David!

Choose yourself first!!

Full of straight forward data that we needed

I remember using a dating site ten years ago and I told people about this example. If i messaged 75 women I would be LUCKY if 4 responded back, and of those 4 that responded back, I would be lucky if 1 responded back a second time. Haven't used those sites/apps since, but looks like things haven't changed much

It was really a Motivational Video! thanks !

Become superman for an average women 😂

Always value your content, Patrick.

5% is wild lol

Thanks!I am A women and i always come here for daily inspiration videos.I learned so much from your videos

Great video Patrick 👊

Great video. Thanks David.

Money doesn't solve as much in the dating world as men seem to always say. I am 6 ft 3, a multi-millionaire, above average good looking but Im in a wheelchair from an accident . It's a MASSIVE thing to overcome because they immediately assume you don't work or live off the state or have a life . Men: Be Tall (#1 trait ). Be good Looking. And make at least 100k .....and you are automatically in the top 10% Women: Show up. Dont be fat. Be feminine .....it's that easy.

Best factual video you have made on Men & Women dating 🙌🏼

Great info, very detailed. thanks

Hey, this guy is really bringing the right stuff to the TABLE!!!

Sweet, responsibility for ones choices - I have only myself to hold accountable for my choices - I never want to sell myself short again! I love my life and my Family, life is good. I enjoy hearing your point of view.

Glad this information is out for men to hear.

Bro, This is EXACTLY what I went through when I read "the game" and followed the community heavily. All short-term relationships, and very little outcome in the long-term. Also, this is heavily put into my degree in I/O Psychology. I love this video! Great work!

Thank you for your content

I love when PBD shares his based takes

It’s really simple regardless of one’s choices in life literally be responsible, mentally physically and spiritually for one’s choices and you’ll start to realize freedom. In America we still are free enough to achieve what one wants to achieve. It’s hard, but it’s worth it if you care enough.

This is fantastic information!

Thanks Pat 🙏🏼

As a Data Scientist and active on Tinder I would say that good photos can easily boost your attractiveness 20-40%.

Thanks for sharing and empowering the men community 🙏

Thank you Pat!

Great vid. One of your best. I have made choices I have regretted to but I choose to focus on the ones I am most proud of. Thats how I preserve my confidence. All the best to all of you. It is your life. Don't let anybody else run it for you.

How did we go from men's lives are harder to listening to you talk about your struggle...like other people don't

No Wife. No Kids. Happy Life😎

Ill be sharing this video

Excelente Video

Also worth pointing our is that dating apps aren't very good to find much of anything for most guys because the vast and overwhelming majority of people on dating apps are other men. Only worth pursuing if you're the tippy-top percentage of men. Better to just work on yourself, become the the person that kind of person you want would be looking for, then go to the places where such people would be.

U each need to live your own lives and never make the other person your life! U can live your own lives together sort of like how train tracks are parallel. As soon as those parallel lines moves away from parallel it's doomed. No one wants to be responsible for constantly affirming the other person's life and expectations

I feel motivated, LEZ GO!!! 🔥

Thank you for making video on this topic. It's very useful to me. I have heard of the book "The Game" multiple times, but i didn't think it would be anything of significance. But since you are saying Mr.Patrick I know it will be worth it. Again sir, thanks a lot for all the valuable content.

I think most folks need to have a very hard and honest conversation with WHY they want a relationship. Very few people are looking for genuine love and most are opportunists and users. It is not a suprise that we have such a mess of marriages and dating these days - the value system is completely backwards. Many people of quality are chosing to be alone and not date at all and I am on board with that.

I'm choosing the chips, cheesecake and video games 😂

U r great and love your comments. Smart and long term!!

Thank you.

Norah Vincent was a perfect example of why men live harder lives. RIP to her.

Looks are way more important than women say they are

My guy. I love you. Keep doing what you're doing 💯

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I don’t know who doesn’t understand this by now. Women decide the next generation. They want taller guys with money and money is a summation of (intelligence; social and applied, ambition, drive, values and other components that contribute). It’s gotten way harder. It’s ironic how dating apps with the ease of swipes makes it even more difficult. And then trying to talk to girls irl there’s always that thought in the back of my mind like “oh she’s probably thinking the same as the norm”

"Women only swipe right 5% of the time." This is why I had to look at my coworker crazy when he said to make a Tinder account. It's a waste.

Subscribed.

Extremely interesting

How come the sources are in your description? Come guys, you can't just say "here's the data," flash a part of a screen for 2 seconds and then not include in the description. Rookie mistake for non rookie.

I got a lot matches in dating sites but only matches no dates 😅

You are so down to earth.

Appreciate ! 🕯️

Perhaps it would be more beneficial to strive for financial success for personal fulfillment, rather than using it as a means to impress women. It's important to prioritize your own aspirations and those of your loved ones, rather than seeking validation from someone who is only attracted to your wealth and material possessions. Instead of settling for someone who only shows interest in your success after the fact, it's better to find a partner who is willing to support you throughout your journey to success. A loyal companion who is there for you through thick and thin is far more valuable than someone who simply hopped on the bandwagon once you achieved financial stability. If you have achieved success on your own and without a partner, it's important to be discerning when it comes to choosing a romantic partner. Rather than settling for just anyone, it's important to find someone who is worthy of your time and attention. And if you were fortunate enough to have a loyal partner by your side before achieving success, it's important to cherish that relationship and never take it for granted.

Women and men need to come into a new alliance to figure out this future together, prosper and multiply rather than focus on who's winning and losing. We're all losing if we don't got each other.

I've never seen pat this funny before

Comparing relationships and business isn't fair. Relationships involve emotions, while businesses are typically seen as emotionless. It can feel insulting and undignified on a personal level to have to put in so much effort just to attract an average partner. Any person with dignity and self-respect would prefer not to date anyone rather than lowering themselves to meet the new low standards of dating from the bottom 20% you are speaking about .

Online dating is for two things. Hook ups and for losers who can't speak without getting shy and embarrassed. The reason women swipe left 95% of the time is because dating app attract low value men.

Pat, you are so cool !

ITS ALWAYS been that way. person for person... even during wartime.

I feel sorry for any average guy trying to date in the year 2023.

Well as a proud immigrant turn proud American the right way, I can honestly say I give up. I will fight and defend my nation if needed despite political differences I may have, but I live my country. As a 6 foot 2 black man with a small manhood, masters degree, not fitting the stereotype women expect, and a proud small business owner it's a wrap for me. Dont understand women and I dont get how that world works from experiences I had. Mostly negative. I am 33 now and having that immigrant mindset of working hard and contributing back to the nation that gave me freedom, dating has never been a focus. Being old and below average in size and looks I see how women prioritize certain things over others. I can sell myself all day on my qualities but when it comes down to brass tax I dont fit the mold. I live volunteering, helping my community, fitness and so on, but what women want I dont posses. I'm at a point where I am looking to adopt a child in the future to have an offspring, so I'll see where the future goes. Did all the hard work to establish myself as a graphic designer and a man of faith or a man overall, but some things in life even though you desire it may not be on the cards. Life goes on and if you can date do it. It seems fun and maybe in a mother life I could give it a go. Anyway great video and message!

Yep that’s true!!

on point Pat! i asked myself that question "who do i want to become" and boom

Go Mgtow. Buy nice things for yourself. I just bought my dream car bmw m340i. No kids living the dream.

Personalities all of of sudden become great when you got the resources so that puts you at 40%

Thank you for doing God’s work, Pat 🤝

This was interesting when I found out. Can't believe I was so lucky back when I used those apps. Nothing beats meeting people in person though, stats prove this I believe.

I'm so happy I made productive decisions about my finances that changed my life forever,hoping to retire next year... Investment should always be on any creative man's heart for success in life.

Hard times creates Strong men

Wow those statistics are very realistic.

Interesting chart

And Men need to live a harder life, cause if ita the other way around, society fucked it up real bad.

The question seemed to ask about “lives” in general. (Do women or men live harder lives) This video seems to be focusing on dating & what women are looking for in the dating world. Quite different scenarios.

I love this guy

Im surprised i have been on few dates from tinder lol... but i quit those apps, as it only ruins your self image.

Men and Women both live hard lives in different ways, from culture to society and religion, but what matters is they both need each other for peace and fulfillment.

I love the Tinder analytics!!! 📝

Pat jumping in the RP content. Its facts, though.

I like the PF Changs background music

I go for spiritual connection as well. That’s the most important connection for me❤

Meet women in person. Stop using apps, don't be lazy.

Love You, man Really have lots of thanks and respect for such content! and I'm always getting a sense of courage and clear thoughts after watching such videos of yours. Much respect🙏🤝

As a 24yo, i agree 100% with this Pat.

Thank you Patrick. It all comes to US. Always. People are chasing things they can't get while they have chances of getting what they want if they worked hard and patient. We live in the NOW era. I want all NOW or never without putting the heart and hardship in it. Sometimes looks don"t matter, what matter is personality and what's in the head. People want someone good looking or beautiful but don't take time to question if they'll be happy with that person right after. Not everything that shine is gold. Someone who will make you happy is someone that believes in you, laugh with, work hard with you and give you peace. Not a model look alike. i prefer intelligence than looks more. Yes i'm not saying people should ignore looks of course but it's not what matters more.

5’4 , skinny , broke , Mexican , not attractive, shy, dorky, watched p*rn everyday, played video games everyday. If this guy could self improve to the point of making over 100k, having multiple dates per week, providing value to the community, being able to speak to the public, being a leader, etc. All of you guys can do this. It just takes a lot of work. Stay up 💪

Great video! totally explains how men have it harder not by saying the issues they encounter through manhood and growing but by listing a bunch of bs stats to help you quote on quote get a girl oh and now even compare what women go through in life

Proper value

I have been following Pat for the last 6 months and I try my best to implement most things he says. I had this girl I was dating for last 1.5 years she was extremely successful in her field like the top 1%, she was good with household chores and loved me but deep down I knew that If I continue the relationship I would never succeed in my business as she had expectations from me to spend time( which is not wrong) as she had fixed working hours and I have no fixed time. Also I realised I want to make more money than my partner as I dont want my wife to boss around me just because she makes more (women do this at some point). So I choose to give up on the idea of marrying this one had to call quits but now I am happy that I can work for as long as I can without feeling guilty or afraid of afraid of argument and as Pat says becoming a High value man will later have more benefits so I am trying to become one. I am 27 and my advice to any guy would be please first get yourself to a point in life when you are making great money then only decide to chase women.