"Train yourself to let go of everything you fear to lose." ~ Yoda
@lazybeastz1824 жыл бұрын
which movie he said that?
@damianooi82614 жыл бұрын
@@lazybeastz182 star wars 3
@taggebagge4 жыл бұрын
@@damianooi8261 Great quote from an underestimated movie. Interestingly, after having received that piece of advice, Anakin does the very opposite and simps to such a degree that he ends up slaughtering children.
@j.m.productionsmocsundmehr98684 жыл бұрын
Soo true
@gewoontimm2 жыл бұрын
Hmmn strong jedi become you will..
@johnsuter4655 жыл бұрын
Always remember, someone's effort is a reflection of their interest in you.
@Cortesevasive5 жыл бұрын
Or not , people react differently .
@cherryblossom94825 жыл бұрын
Well said John but C. has a good point also. Some ppl react differently. Some ppl are naturally passive or shy. It doesn't mean they don't care.
@pinoy1227934 жыл бұрын
Agreed that’s why I always move on. Honestly when I reject a woman, I do not really think about them. How do you think a woman feels when she rejects or breaks up with a guy? She won’t think about him as much. They’ll regret it when they have feelings for you. If not, then move on. Never wait around a woman that does not reciprocate interest. You will increase your value anyway by moving on.
@JT-gm4fk2 жыл бұрын
Not always, some people are socially awkward or insecure...meaning they're intimidated by you . They may still be very interested in you but are afraid to approach you
@tosin_davidson Жыл бұрын
Who cares
@kellydillon88666 жыл бұрын
If someone has to lose you in order for you to be more attractive...then walk away for good.
@mollybros5 жыл бұрын
🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
@williamjames2125 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with that statement.
@manfish61835 жыл бұрын
I'd say depending on the relationship and why it was ended it's a little more complex. I think the video was referring to the loss of attraction and then regaining it back. They could have lost attraction for very understandable reasons. When they see you're not as desperate for them as they thought you would be they think you gained that confidence back you used to have and fixed the things that they told you so many times about in the past but never seemed to fix until the break up.
@yabzzilla5 жыл бұрын
No for real I feel like it’s lowkey manipulative to do that no?
@NYCFIGHTTV5 жыл бұрын
@@yabzzilla so what would be a better idea? Chasing them?
@matthewstocks44355 жыл бұрын
The problem isn’t getting them back with this rule, it’s that once you’ve got them back, you’ve got to maintain that independence and confidence to keep their attraction. So many guys do the no contact, gain more confidence, become more attractive and then as soon as their ex comes back to them they revert to their patterns of neediness and dependence and the cycle continues. Realize deeply that your happiness can not be dependent on another human being. Find inner happiness then find someone you want to share that happiness with but never go into a relationship in order to make you happy.
@martijn97295 жыл бұрын
Dude this. I always care and do way too much for my girl and i have been the one being dumped every time because of kind of the same reasons. She said, please dont text me, stop our snapchat streak (which was 455 but idc but at the same time it was pretty sad to see it go since it was the first time i actually put some effort into maintaining one) and the first 3 days i kept sending her some small messages. She told me to stop contacting her because it was better for her, but now she has been putting these songs about jealousy in her spotify playlist and stuff and she told one of my friends that she still loves me? I kind of want to talk to her but i know that i am strong enough to not contact her. But i really want to know how she feels about me right now. It's been 2 weeks of no contact and she has not said a word to me in real life nor via social media or whatsapp
@kmahes81696 жыл бұрын
During no contact period you will realise your ex is worth or not
@amateruss5 жыл бұрын
In most cases, they aren't. Better move on and experience another human who can possibly give you what you need.
@Hopekayeny5 жыл бұрын
So true
@na-i64 жыл бұрын
Damn right
@tylerjean83134 жыл бұрын
In my case she is and this sucks
@AlexGNR4 жыл бұрын
True
@JJ-bf6dx5 жыл бұрын
No contact shouldn’t be about getting them back. It’s about healing and moving on
@THEMAN-ru8ek Жыл бұрын
Perfect Comment that I've seen.
@dJ.kNiGhT236 жыл бұрын
It doesn't work on someone who is stubborn and someone who has a big time ego
@jeffsimmons98316 жыл бұрын
dj-knight facts
@evelynodhiambo28186 жыл бұрын
True
@raziyababayeva6 жыл бұрын
If they are stubborn , we can make them to chase us by ingnoring
@AntonioWolfpack6 жыл бұрын
Firstknight59 it works but only for their selfish needs. You may have wanted her. She didn't want you. YOU focus attention else where She starts working for your "attention" she lost a fan lol doesn't mean she wants to fuck but she misses the attention
@rafachrzaszcz69976 жыл бұрын
The people who have big ego, are afraid of being rejected. "Why did she/he rejected me, Im wonderful?!" so it makes better impact on them. But in no contact there is one big rule: YOU'VE GOT YOUR LAST WORD. So it means, you told it and you finished it. What's next, you're gonna see!
@iDateAdviceiDateAdvice6 жыл бұрын
if she is not interested in you, just walk away!
@Graemedico6 жыл бұрын
iDateAdvice ...ask once if she brushes you off... Walk away and look elsewhere 😎
@triplex29126 жыл бұрын
To a Dating Agency? : )
@anthonygato4076 жыл бұрын
wish someone told cosby this.
@iDateAdviceiDateAdvice6 жыл бұрын
Triplex 29 why not?
@patsantos88666 жыл бұрын
What happened she find someone
@agee77776 жыл бұрын
It really hurts to walk away, you forget how bad until you are in that situation. you just want to be where they are, you feel lonely, depressed, and you can not get them out of your head. Well remember you have probably been here before and every day gets easier, its better to hold out and walk away, if they contact you its a bonus if they dont, just remember all the things you disliked about them and how you are better off. Stay strong, you can do better.
@londontravellers225 жыл бұрын
Well he should get a taste of his own medicine no matter how hard it is for you he was the one that hurt you so you hurt him back. The best revenge ever No Contact
@thedopest58445 жыл бұрын
Adam G thank u
@michaelombok60705 жыл бұрын
Funny
@jendralaliem5 жыл бұрын
@@londontravellers22 indonesia?
@jeezuschrist3303 Жыл бұрын
God bless you man
@videofan10106 жыл бұрын
The no contact rule only works with people who care about you. Also "caring" is a broad concept. For example if that person was using you for money/sex/ego boost the no contact rule will work on them too... Till they replace you...
@garywhiteman88375 жыл бұрын
Excellent comment that's why no dislike.
@Angell_Lee5 жыл бұрын
@@garywhiteman8837 You can't get dislikes with the comment.
@taraphillips15285 жыл бұрын
videofan1010 💯
@johndoejjdujd3 жыл бұрын
Damn 316 to 0 ratio Flawless Victory.
@foreveryoung52773 жыл бұрын
Only you can see the number of likes but it will not shown on the dislikes
@icarus432hz96 жыл бұрын
No contact definitely, most certianly works. If you are currently doing it stick to it.
@marcyallison59966 жыл бұрын
Hmm it has been 8 months and I haven't heard anything from my ex.
@zziz61376 жыл бұрын
Marcy Allison even if it takes years, 8 months is really nothing.
@marcyallison59966 жыл бұрын
No one should wait years for someone to come back!!
@zziz61376 жыл бұрын
Marcy Allison your not understanding the concept just cut them off no contact, regardless if they decide to contact you or not.
@marcyallison59966 жыл бұрын
This video says that no contact works on everyone???
@wheatberry5 жыл бұрын
No - it doesn't work on someone that quickly replaces you !
@davlmt5 жыл бұрын
They would have replaced you even faster, and at least you keep your dignith5
@janalimanisha58725 жыл бұрын
I had 8 years relationship with my husband Is this method will work for me?
@DesertVetRider5 жыл бұрын
@@janalimanisha5872 A buddy of mine didn't contact his ex wife for 5 years and guess who showed up at his door 2 weeks ago? They are back together, even though I personally would have told her to go pound sand. It works.
@KingBabaJames5 жыл бұрын
@@DesertVetRider mine came back 10 years later. Of course I didn't take her back. Grass never greener on the other side.
@alexanderstevens1454 жыл бұрын
@@KingBabaJames 10 years wtf glad you never took that thing back
@AnitaKyo6 жыл бұрын
I dont want to be in a relationship that needs this kind of torture to survive. If you got to the point of needing to do this it's because you don't have enough attention and in that case you are better off.
@mollybros5 жыл бұрын
Ana Tomé my exact thoughts! A friend told me that in order to have someone I liked I needed to let her go. I said this same thing to him: Why would I want to be with someone who needs to miss me in order to reassure what they feel for me?” There are million other people in the world. It’s been very hard to realize this but we can go through this!
@TheHuntress19875 жыл бұрын
Yes. It is tiresome to always have to find ways to get more attention.
@Cortesevasive5 жыл бұрын
@@TheHuntress1987 Good things come to those who wait
@filippavlakovic44785 жыл бұрын
Sure.. But when someone gives "too much" attention, they come out needy and insecure.. So, you mind telling me what seems to be the perfect balance?
@Astral_infinite4 жыл бұрын
Its sickening
@davidalen92796 жыл бұрын
the best way to get someone's attention that has not treated you in the way you want...withdraw yours (attention)...
@adrianshaw46395 жыл бұрын
No women are insecure about themselves and when men approaches them it boost their egos and give them Confidence when they reject a man
@Cortesevasive5 жыл бұрын
@@adrianshaw4639 14y old girls u mean *
@monokumannius45224 жыл бұрын
@@adrianshaw4639 well, unattractive men chasing a woman is similar to unattractive overweight women chasing a man in which the man wont feel attracted at all even though they are more than thousands of them. That is similar to what's happening in woman's mind except attrativeness in men is not only from appearance but also from attitude which is more important
@adrianshaw46394 жыл бұрын
@@monokumannius4522 Their are far more men who married a beautiful woman once and she eventually let herself go and gain weight and those men are still married to them. Because men love unconditionally and women don't unless she has children then her children get her love unconditionally. Women want a man for resources and survival. If a man cannot provide she will look for someone who can.
@monokumannius45224 жыл бұрын
@@adrianshaw4639 I am talking about attraction before marriage.. who does care if u are chased by others if u are already married in your case. But ofc, women like to still have those attractions from the men even after marriage so better us be stronger mentally and not be needy even though we are married to a woman.
@marcyallison59966 жыл бұрын
Just because someone feels loss, it doesn't mean that they will contact you again.
@zziz61376 жыл бұрын
Marcy Allison It doesn't matter if they decide to contact you or not, don't contact them, there your ex for a reason, move on.
@marcyallison59966 жыл бұрын
I have cut her off many months ago but the coach says that no contact works on EVERYONE. I haven't heard from my ex. Do you understand this??? No contact did NOT work.
@TacticalxRecon6 жыл бұрын
He added at the end, if it does not work then they didnt like you in the first place. You shouldn't want your Ex back in the first place. Forget about her and move on.
@marcyallison59966 жыл бұрын
Oh yes she did like me and very much so however I have a new lover now.
@Ken-iu2zp6 жыл бұрын
That's true too because when me and my ex spoke she told me she thought about me so much, but her pride kept her from contacting me.
@taylorthenatural55095 жыл бұрын
Only do this after rejection or a breakup, then keep in mind you should probably make it permanent.
@TacticalxRecon6 жыл бұрын
"There is only one of you in this world, and thats why you are unique" I absolutely love your positivity in these videos! Truly there is no who gives advice like you.Thanks for everything Chris!
@Ragnar-Viking5 жыл бұрын
No contact rules...they will chase you in 2 months
@PaulJersey6 жыл бұрын
If you get involved with a malignant narcissist like I did, not contact protects you.
@markmichaellepianka55986 жыл бұрын
... unless the individual presents with signs of narcissistic personality disorder. These individuals can neither give nor receive love.
@dustymcpherson9866 жыл бұрын
quality comment. Also there is not enough light shed on this personality disorder.
@nygeriunprence6 жыл бұрын
Exactly, empty soulless people.
@lostsaxon74786 жыл бұрын
Making someone beg to you for your time frequently out of the blue is narcissistic behavior anyways. That or they view the relationship differently. Which is fine if you don't want a serious relationship, if you do. Seeeee ya!
@verveblack5 жыл бұрын
I've always had trouble identifying this: how do you know if they are narcs or just depressed or something?
@neen94385 жыл бұрын
@Chris S 😂😂😂😂
@RonDAvilar6 жыл бұрын
Was being ignored, did no contact for 3 months then ex started liking my pics etc online and replied after I initiated contact... It does work, they see you different and start to remember how much you meant to them.
@amateruss5 жыл бұрын
Nah. Her rebound did not end well so she is trying to get validation from you. Stay no contact. She will not change.
@officialmr.madness6655 Жыл бұрын
did you get back together?
@RonDAvilar Жыл бұрын
@@officialmr.madness6655 Nah I'm the one who just ended up realizing they aint shit & just ended communication, stop replying etc... I truly dodged a bullet.
@anewloveofficial91376 жыл бұрын
The moment I took a step back from my ex that's also the time he keeps himself closer to me. I was really confused because when I want him, he wants someone else but when I love someone else he became interested in me again. Life is really peculiar.
@JesusWinzs6 жыл бұрын
At first I begged and pleaded, she took me back then said she wanted to be friends so I'm going no contact, not because I want her back. Because you need to move on people, if they broke up or pushed you away that's not somebody you want to be in a relationship with. Have some self respect, pick up the pieces move on and start bettering yourself. Not living and waiting for the days for them to come back!
@cmoore13696 жыл бұрын
n00bie Those words are very wise. It hurts like hell, but it may be true.
@juanmora93326 жыл бұрын
n00bie she left me 9 months ago but found out she visiting my mom a list a couple of times but she ever talks to me to go back ima be hell no you hurt me in the past sometimes still sad but never go back especially after a long time of break up
@JesusWinzs6 жыл бұрын
I've been one month NC, and I have her blocked LMAO. Choose me, or loose me words to live by ;)
@sreedevi82996 жыл бұрын
Though it difficult, it is true we hve to move on.
@pleasebereasonable26446 жыл бұрын
what happened between you two?
@26bisket6 жыл бұрын
true for the most part, but if you develop a true unattached mindset, you won't care if somebody contacts you or not. Also, if you have a life, you won't even notice who isn't contacting you for the most part
@aa-jm7js6 жыл бұрын
26bis. "...if you develop a true unattached mindset..." So, the person that's getting ignored is supposed to "develop" an outlook/attitude of "indifference" toward people? Is that what you're saying the successful end result to this method would be?
@jewell23525 жыл бұрын
Shut up.it doesn't mean if someone doesn't have a life u missing the point
@XxDeathcorpzxX6 жыл бұрын
I am applying this. The result? 6 years of relationship 👍 This is so true! There are times that I feel my girlfriend doesnt like to talk to me, so I go no contact 1-2 days until she calls me. She misses me by that time. In return you MUST also reward her to maintain balance. Thank you for this. Keep up the great videos and tips 👍
@Cynnas6 жыл бұрын
XxDeathcorpzxX 1-2 days is considered "no contact?? Lol... To me its a week or more? Do people really expect constant contact like daily? Ugh... sounds exhausting. No thanks
@XxDeathcorpzxX6 жыл бұрын
Laura S. Being too needy is creepy. I can feel it. It's "push and pull". Its law of attraction. BUT I always reward my girl once she started remembering me. If she calls me after 2 days, good. If she calls me 1 month, fine too. That is why we are 6 years and counting. We both know the rule.
@amateruss6 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a toxic relationship to me.
@chrisbruce11746 жыл бұрын
@@amateruss yeah it does. She probably a narcissist or bpd.
@amateruss6 жыл бұрын
And would cheat on him the moment she gets a chance.
@lendlalfred78703 жыл бұрын
No contact is a powerful tool, especially for longer duration.. It gives you time to evaluate your relationship. You may come to a conclusion that the person is not worth keeping. Whether they contact you or not, you are already over them.
@golfinguy4236 жыл бұрын
Man i wish i found this channel t minus five days ago. I moved too fast in the relationship, and I panicked when she pulled away. We were dating for about a month and we are on a two week break. Regardless of if it works out or not, I plan on taking these principles into my future relationships. Thank you for this channel, it truly is a blessing!
@ericfang78444 жыл бұрын
I hate how you have to be cold. When I care so much for the person.
@valenaz866 жыл бұрын
No. It doesn't always work. When I started NC with the man I was two years with, he never reached out. It's been like three years that I haven't news from him. Some people just don't care and move on
@DevelopAttraction5 жыл бұрын
The Valeee It doesn’t work for women the same way it works for men.
@davifurtado65345 жыл бұрын
@@DevelopAttraction look man, I'm not sure if this is what you can call "no contact", but I told her that I didn't want her to contact me anymore, and she didn't. It's been 6 months and she is out there happy with her boyfriend. If she had contacted me I'd tell her that that decision isn't going to change, but I'm just saying this so people know it doesn't always work
@roninenlightened63505 жыл бұрын
It works if the person has a little bit of interest in you to begin with. It doesn't work on an indifferent person.
@mathematicalninja27565 жыл бұрын
Davi Furtado she never cared about you to begin with then?
@Sharkenite5 жыл бұрын
@@davifurtado6534 I'm late but the reason why is because you told her to not contact you any more. She's going to respect your decision and if she's not going to disrespect herself by trying to contact you if you told her not to contact you. You basically just killed the "no contact" method. They are not supposed to know that you are doing some strategy on them because if they do, you render it being useless. Should've been mature about the breakup, because now she's glad she dumped you seeing how you responded by not contracting you again. And that's if you want her back. If you don't want her back, then you can tell her to not contact you again.
@Peter_From_Lowell6 жыл бұрын
These have been the best videos. It’s made me reflect on my past decisions in relationships and have improved my decision making. I’ve used no contact in my current relationship and it’s paid dividends right away. Thank You!!
@jasminebrar52266 жыл бұрын
they came back to u? did this really work on ur relationship? they tried to b back??
@amateruss6 жыл бұрын
Dude, trust me, it is not worth it. You will just be back again at square one. Just leave her be and get yourself a new chick. Or better yet, improve yourself and get yourself a better chick.
@medicann_coping6 жыл бұрын
i deleted my facebook. i dont even had friends. no girl for 8 years. some ppl know i exist. im just all by myself now
@medicann_coping6 жыл бұрын
no one is missing me
@kimrice69786 жыл бұрын
dzugi mgtow420 No one is missing me either! I shut down my FB April 18! I don’t think anyone noticed!😒
@medicann_coping6 жыл бұрын
yeah me too
@MsEzRz6 жыл бұрын
Hey! Let's be friends! I going through the same thing right now. And actually you are not alone :)
@medicann_coping6 жыл бұрын
what country u from my friend
@eyephone075 жыл бұрын
If you go no contact and they don't freak out, they were never that into you.
@carltonwykle6455 жыл бұрын
No contact worked for me 100%. Took a few months but she reached out to me after I walked away
@dorojessy69326 жыл бұрын
So true! We're much more affected by loss than if we have/possess it. We're taking it for granted if we have it, but starting to (over) think/ponder if we don't have it.
@rosbeyond69706 жыл бұрын
people need to understand 2 that when people leave out of your life it's because they are meant to and that's the truth don't go searching for them don't go looking for them there is someone better and more satisfying and more deserving of your time that will come into your life people need to think about that instead of being hung up on one individual bringing them happiness peace or joy that's it and it's not because they want to leave sometime this because the universe said it's time for them to go
@zziz61376 жыл бұрын
Rosbeyond Very good point.
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@Cortesevasive5 жыл бұрын
That's retarded , there is no such thing as destiny or Universe . Go read a horoscope sis
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@chrisso_o8973 жыл бұрын
It worked for me three times with the same girl, she’s trying to get back but this time im done with her and im not letting her back in my life. Remember that if someone has done it once he will do it again and again so dont waste your time on someone who comes back when they miss you , trust me it’s not worth it guys.
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Whoa! No contact actually works well ! I applied no contact rule ,,, and guess what ! She contacted me after 2 weeks 😉
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@meldmagic6 жыл бұрын
If you are a guy, just be a bad ass. Nice guys never finish.
@Cortesevasive5 жыл бұрын
Being nice is ok , just grow up , girls who like badasses have serious daddy issues
@mohicanmowl4 жыл бұрын
@@Cortesevasive lol you don't know shit. Nice people suck
@DrMic21124 жыл бұрын
@@mohicanmowl Beta male! 🤣
@mohicanmowl4 жыл бұрын
You are brainwashed, you think you can divide people in alpha and beta? For sure alphas don't go around screaming "beta male" to other dudes.
@DrMic21124 жыл бұрын
@@mohicanmowl I was agreeing with your statement. I was referring to the other guy as beta.
@karanfield42296 жыл бұрын
This is something I wish I'd learnt yes ago. I'm 53 now. You're very articulate and enthralling to listen too. I think you were born to teach. Very cool. Thanku so much.
@GetchaaPull5 жыл бұрын
My husband used to tell me about his single days. He would start talking to a girl in a pub and then walk away and she’d ALWAYS come find him. Genius lol
@jendeh10006 жыл бұрын
I've gotten pretty good at drop it, let it go. Walk away. It took plenty of years to develop these skills.
@jrivera86785 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this. Been thinking about using no contact. My ex hasn't been responding as quick and drives me insane. Spending time not texting or calling feels good. If she says nothing I know where we stand.
@jennymckinley8036 жыл бұрын
The only concern I have about this theory, is the idea that you actually want that person. When I pull away, reduce contact, it usually means I've lost interest or I'm not sure if I like the guy, or I'm trying to reject the guy. To say, reducing contact can create a stage for attraction, really doesn't help when you are actually wslking away. No wonder, so many guys or girls get the wrong impression. Missing someine, on the other hand, needs to be expressed. Hiding feelings or attraction can rub off as indifference. Not an quality, I want in my love interest. However, I do see the push' pull, hot-cold reactions as sn escalator for emotional pain. .if that psin creates attraction, then it's just a knee jerk reaction, it's about power not necessarily about love.
@Lorob8546 жыл бұрын
Jenny McKinley i agree with this... if he comes back because of a power struggle doesn’t mean its love
@jennymckinley8036 жыл бұрын
lovina robinson I now have developed another issue..shyness. If I really am falling for someone I can't or won't say anything. Terrified of rejection or looking cheap. So awkward. I hate feeling so shy..but I can't help it. It's like I'm hiding.
@Lorob8546 жыл бұрын
Jenny McKinley being shy isn’t “bad” just own it. Some men dont like extroverts and like shy girls. As long as u own who u are it’s appealing. Even if just saying your kinda shy Bc u like him. There is someone for everyone. U can also tell him that your slow to trust Bc of your eXperiences. People like people who are real ... not trying to always be something they aren’t .. he may even take that as a challenge to open u up.
@stephanienongtdu27526 жыл бұрын
Jenny McKinley I totally agree with you. My ex's best friend told me that my ex is confused about his feelings n he takes great pride in his decisions so his best friend told me to contact him n break his pride n he will surely come back to me. I want to contact him but if his pride is bigger then me then I dnt want anything to do with him even though I miss him real bad. I dnt want to beg for someone to choose me. If he loves me he will contact me on his own n we'll go from there.
@jennymckinley8036 жыл бұрын
stephanie nongtdu if he is really a guy..who is worth it. He will find a reason to contact you. Keep the communication open in case, both of you have been lead to believe to doubt each other. Trust your instinct.
@yahyaabderrahim84525 жыл бұрын
Who broke your heart will never fix it. But they will make you just more weak so as to stick to them. When things get over just move on or let go.
@emircampara45856 жыл бұрын
Did this! It's psychology, she said something that could possobly offend me but she wasn't sure! I politely pulled away, by saying that I'm bussy, catch u later! After an hour she messaged me again...but it's usable only if she feels something for you! Use it not to harm anyone, but to make them feel more attracted to you! Peace !
@amateruss6 жыл бұрын
Not worth getting back to her. She dumped you? Move on, find another girl.
@kimmichaud40646 жыл бұрын
But if they left u then they don't care if they lose u they didn't want u
@LifeFlamesReunion6 жыл бұрын
Well then mine is not human. 2 months have passed without even a text. He really doesnt want to lose power. He sees it as power struggle. He prefers to suffer then to fly "down"
@LifeFlamesReunion6 жыл бұрын
msgracec02 of course
@RamMohammadJosephKaur6 жыл бұрын
But how can you be so sure that he is suffering? What if he genuinely did not care in the first place, then he wasnt worth it.
@dJ.kNiGhT236 жыл бұрын
Life Flames Reunion The no contact will make it worse just move on seek better waiting for someone who doesn't see the value in you is like waiting for a ship on an airport
@blacknight51076 жыл бұрын
Sweet heart we all Come back, Especial when life hit us Down . Every dog know its home . The question Always is , what is coming back to me do I still really need it?
@blesner6 жыл бұрын
I would text you in a second 😂
@blackfishgaming71456 жыл бұрын
I did no contact and it worked (sort of). I was too hurt to reach back out to her when she made the effort. The girl flat out told me she didn't love me when she ended it. She then started to show up at a bar I go to and stalked me on facebook. I blocked her and she got the message. She unfriended me after that on all social media and I haven't heard from her since. I still really feel sad about all of it. I really didn't know how to handle her contacting me after being told she didn't love me. This was 5 months ago we broke up. Still hurts
@tiatorus6 жыл бұрын
Blackfish Gaming so you blocked her even though you wanted her ? What ended up happening ?
@amateruss6 жыл бұрын
Nice decision. She's not worth having back again. You're a great man and you will some day get a great woman who will love you.
@diamond131306 жыл бұрын
She could’ve had a change of heart. If you really cared about her, what would it of hurt to find out?
@mrs.camillewarrenempress31155 жыл бұрын
your a great man you dont need at all ... revenge are coming no doubt
@meemosrepairguide50646 жыл бұрын
NO CONTACT WORKS!!!!!!!! I’d love to tell my story. I cut contact with my fiancé after she wanted a break & told me to leave her alone & she messaged me 5 days later saying sorry & that she loves me & doesn’t want to lose me. She told that she thought I moved on :) No contact works like a charm. Now just have to keep her.
@jerrycheah75163 жыл бұрын
Silence is the most Deafening thing you can do
@SanDmaNTheFreakTrucker5 жыл бұрын
No contact is partly about getting the ex back and partly about getting on without them. It’s healing. Don’t hold your breath waiting for them to come back. In my experience they usually come back right as you’re moving in n for real, and when they do, you are the one with power then.
@MegaPaborito4 жыл бұрын
No contact rule works only if you are patient and diligent enough to follow it. It really works and he explained it well with the $50 analogy.
@richardjeffery5176 жыл бұрын
the no contact buys me my space to live a life full of activities, pull the positive out of the negative
@billjones31686 жыл бұрын
People break up every day and in most cases they never talk to each other again. In my case my ex moved in with a guy 17 years younger than her a week before we broke up. Don't think she going to miss me.
@zziz61376 жыл бұрын
Bill Jones true. Plus it really questions if that person really cared about you in the first place, they can be with you for years then suddenly you break up and they just move on to the next person like it's nothing. My trust for people have really gone to a all time low.
@fannyjimenez40386 жыл бұрын
Bill Jones to me she cant handle it on her own. I wouldn't be sad i was you cause how she got him is how she's going to lose him.
@billjones31686 жыл бұрын
Fanny jimenez he has been her little brother for the past 16 years. So she will hang with him even though he already hit her and cheats on her regularly. And he will hang with her because he don't want to work. But yeah you right i recently found she has a history of always having a boyfriend without any Gap.
@fidiwstafidi6 жыл бұрын
because she doesnt love you from the first place
@amateruss6 жыл бұрын
Looks like you dodged a bullet. Rejoice! After you have completed the Grieving period of course.
@frankmaselli64364 жыл бұрын
Only one of us in this world Back your self lads
@dragbadekun22104 жыл бұрын
Hello no contact isnt the ways ,I can recomend you to a man who helped me restore back my ex without stress and delay just few days ago
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Text him directly onwhtsapp
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@dazhibernian6 жыл бұрын
Go full contact and mow her down.
6 жыл бұрын
dazhibernian 😂😂😂
@thelegendkillersshittyduff13356 жыл бұрын
dazhibernian haha
@kanatapaw6 жыл бұрын
dazhibernian no
@ihatecucumbers45226 жыл бұрын
Lmfao good luck with that😂
@sobster1236 жыл бұрын
LMFAO
@YoungBossEric76 жыл бұрын
Its been 8 months and nothing... dated her for 5 years.
@VoiceOfThe4 жыл бұрын
Eric Zavala It might be years later she contacts you.
@youmadhuh85996 жыл бұрын
thank you white man
@WoahhTeamJacob5 жыл бұрын
youmad huh LMAOOOOOOO
@KeeKiddProd15 жыл бұрын
Hahahahhahah you made me laugh so hard. Thank you 😂😂😂
@mrphauker5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@hanifhashim12565 жыл бұрын
After a month, i totaly dont care about my ex. I have pride. Lets move on and be a better person.
@prodyutdeb82606 жыл бұрын
8 years of being together, and I have made huge mistakes in last 3 years became so centered in my own self I forgot she is too a human. And now when she says she can't love me anymore it breaks me to pieces. But it's true I am going to apply this if it works I would dedicate my whole life to make her smile because that's the only thing I ever wanted, to live with her, to make her dreams come true with mine, to see the world with her. If it works I would be glad she gave a chance and I would do everything to make it right. If it doesn't then I would be happy she might find someone and finds her happiness. That's what matters most at the end ultimately.
@salvadordizon72395 жыл бұрын
After the 33rd day of 0 contact. My ex gf reaches out...and came back to me
@rdsieben6 жыл бұрын
I decided to move on and found even someone even better than my Ex. We are now engaged and my Ex's response is rather mediocre like great, I see, ect. Very weak.
@Different-Level6 жыл бұрын
i hope to meet someone new, im on 8 weeks of no contact, i just want to meet someone else,
@rdsieben6 жыл бұрын
Do multiple dating until you find someone that "clicks" with you. when you multiple date, it will help you get over your Ex and if you get rejection from other dates or get flaked or stood up, you won't feel rejected because you have others. I did not have good success with Match.com. My best success is from Elite Singles. I found my match there within six weeks on that dating site. I wish you the best on your search.
@adu19916 жыл бұрын
It sounds like your ex doesn't care.....
@aa-jm7js6 жыл бұрын
adu19. They either don't care or they are just "less than pleased" by their ex's "mode of action" toward them.
@MegaSebr6 жыл бұрын
lol. Still bothered by your ex huh?
@anamariaflecha25224 жыл бұрын
No contacto is really powerful. 3 weeks since my ex broke up with me and he reached out 2 times with silly “excuses” and 3 days ago he texted me saying “Hey, I have something for you, when will you be around?” I made a joke saying if he could post it and he sai “Lol, I can do it...” I said I was kidding , he asked to go to my house Thursday or Friday but if I wouldn’t be there he could left the gift to me, but I guess he said that to test me and what I would say, so would be a way to know if I wanted see him. anyway, yesterday we had a meeting. We would meet 6:30pm, but he texted me 6pm saying he was already there. We met at a underground station, he was smiling, gave me a arm hug, gave me a compliment and we went to a pub for few beers. We talked about ours lives and clearly I was “winning” this break up. He was so opened and arm, totally different from the guy at the day that broke up with me. He looked happy to see me. The gift was an ukelele that I could paint the way I want (I paint and I play guitar, so that’s why he bought the gift). He said he had got the gift long time ago and it was supposed to be my Christmas gift, but I know it wasn’t true. I saw at Amazon where I’m 100% sure he got the gift there and it’s 3/4 days to delivery. So it was a excuse to see me I guess. It was pretty good, we spoke a lot, even about his “issue” that he’s stuck and can’t open his heart to love again after a break up he had 3 years and half ago who traumatized him, a lot of eyes contact, sometimes he was behaving like when we were together, I was playful, made jokes about him (good jokes), he was wearing the shoes I gave him, but in the talk about ours “mental struggle” I said that maybe I was stronger than him and he said that was a mean thing to say cause he couldn’t do it by himself and needed help to open his heart, but he didn’t get upset, I guess hahaha.. I ended the meeting after 3 beers (about 2h with him) cause I had to meet some friends for a sushi dinner. He was “jealous” cause he loves sushi and said that we was going to eat sushi as well (I felt like he was expecting me to invite him to go with me), we went to take the underground and on the escalators he turned to look at me and I was really staring him all the time of the meeting and he was smiling and saying “what are you thinking? You’re like analyzing hahha”. Anyway he gave me a hug and said it was good too see me and merry Christmas and we went to different directions to take our train. It was really good but after the meeting I texted him saying sorry about what I said of being stronger than him, I said I didn’t blame him for his past relationship, that I understand how painful was and that affected him, said I loved the gift, that was good to see him and to have fun with his family (today he is going home, 4h driving and will stay 1 week there). He didn’t reply and I guess I shouldn’t have texted that. I just would like to know if I keep the no contact. He is was liking some posts on my Facebook and commenting, but I don’t do the same. Don’t know if from know I still keep going like that. We dated for 4 amazing months, romantic trip to Switzerland and he had booked our flights to Iceland 11 days before break up with me. It’s so confuse to me all of this situation. He broke up cause he didn’t “fall in love” with me. Now seems he misses me a lot.
@paulhiles44776 жыл бұрын
Even if you get your ex back .. he or she will never change .. and honestly I'm not trying to change her .. u can't take the ghetto out of someone .. trust me..lol..
@mrs.camillewarrenempress31156 жыл бұрын
Amen This why I left my girlfriend she was being whore and ghetto too
@MM-oh3uq6 жыл бұрын
It is very hard i know but this is the only way guys! I did this and it worked every single time :)
@kimrice69786 жыл бұрын
FilthyMark Not for me! He has a new special someone! Oh well! But I’m happy for you that this worked!! 😊
@vampireslayer45236 жыл бұрын
not working on me also😞 everytime she keep insulting me. yesterday It was so annoying so I just say I want a break up.and she replied then don't bother me like street dogs anymore 😞 and she didn't contract till now
@grandtrey52056 жыл бұрын
Vampire Slayer gotta man up bro I kno it's hard try not to make her a priority focus more on your money/purpose
@grandtrey52056 жыл бұрын
Vampire Slayer hit the gym
@vampireslayer45236 жыл бұрын
😞 tnq bro😞
@underrated77256 жыл бұрын
No contact is stupid. I rather let the person i care about know how i feel. If she thinks im bugging her or whatever oh well she probaly didnt like me that much anyway
@AntonioWolfpack6 жыл бұрын
Underrated 77 I agree. But this is a true video. A good quote to go by is from the movie dazed and confused. " gota play it cool ya know. If she knows how much you like her she'll drop you like that! Sounds stupid I know. But it works"
6 жыл бұрын
NO woman is worth all that. Have some self-respect for Christ's sake.
@MrChachiyo6 жыл бұрын
Beta talk.
@airindiana5 жыл бұрын
Underrated 77 I did all that Pre being dumped when we were on “a break”. Strung me along for months. No chasing her now is gonna work so I’m making like a hole in space
@michaelthomas44515 жыл бұрын
I totally agree. Be upfront instead of being a coward with full of excuses. I'm in the same boat with a woman that went ghost on me.
@nyccisco58904 жыл бұрын
You meet millions of people during your life time, so this no contact is like any other action, don’t over complicate it. Use it and if the person is not willing to bend to your will and vice versa walk away.
@simonescarantino55682 жыл бұрын
God damn this is a powerful message, we’re not perfect but we are unique. Thanks, watching your video help me deal with a girl I spent the night with who started to distance herself from me now.
@tonysansom81066 жыл бұрын
I went no contact moved out and that led her to bond even closer with her new lover time to move on
@reekodayoungan11046 жыл бұрын
rebound, don't give it up just yet she might come back but who knows when she does you might not even feel the same about her
@mrs.camillewarrenempress31156 жыл бұрын
It's just a rebound
@amateruss5 жыл бұрын
Eeh. Just focus on yourself bro. I can see that you are lifting so you are doing fine. She is not special and she never was. You were just hurt because you love the familiarty of her and now she is gone. Once you get another girl you will realize she is just another piece of pussy.
@Blktxdom20046 жыл бұрын
I am facing a divorce, and adopted this rule. I will plan to give up my parental rights, since she slept with other men and pays NO attention to me. (She has used my son against me during the marriage, and the day she slept with a man in the house with my son there was the final straw.)
@osvaldochirino12226 жыл бұрын
skip the woman dont do that i did and i regret the kids thing my situation little diff but dont abandon kids trust ne ill hurt down the road
@christophern.59216 жыл бұрын
Earl Lewis She cheated, so you abandon your child in response? Yea, that'll sure teach her a lesson smh
@amateruss6 жыл бұрын
Use this not because you want her back but because you want to get over her.
@SamS-fd5qt5 жыл бұрын
Earl Lewis I don’t hear anything in your argument about why you would ditch your son because the mother cheated. What a loser you are. No wonder she cheated.
@bryancaharrow5864 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it's prudent to walk away if things don't work,isn't it?
@hernstv5 жыл бұрын
Valuable teaching that need to be watch over and over again.
@AlAnsikk6 жыл бұрын
this is wrong. the only way no contact works is if the person is interested in you. believe me, when someone I'm not interested in doesn't contact me, I'm not sitting around wondering why. I'm forgetting all about her.
@Cortesevasive5 жыл бұрын
And if somebody is interested in you , you don't have to use anything .
@PrettyinPink97896 жыл бұрын
Idk if this is true. I've stopped talking to certain people and well, they don't hit me up or talk to me so obviously they don't miss me. Some people I haven't from months or years!
@triplex29125 жыл бұрын
You give the best advice on Personal Relationships Chris. Thanks mate.
@QuIeT_KhA0s5 жыл бұрын
The only reason they come back is to get their ego stroked one last time. They don't give a shit about you. If they did you wouldn't be alone. Grab the rest of your dignity and go live a fucking happy life without them. Love yourself for once.
@hibaalhussain28416 жыл бұрын
Please don't use this and break someone's heart and let them go into painful sleepless nights, ur loved ones do not deserve that, communication is the best way to let someone stay with u and love u. Believe me the table may turn and u will be the one missing them after they r gone
@daveeashton2416 жыл бұрын
chris, what happens if both of you are doing no contact?
@NbgdStyler636 жыл бұрын
whos stronger
@dwaynejohnson7766 жыл бұрын
The one who cares the least controls the relationship
@HuskyMoving6 жыл бұрын
Pretty hard for both to do it, as usually one person did the distancing first, so by default, the person who got "dumped" has to do NC and hope the dumper eventually pursues
@daveeashton2416 жыл бұрын
The thing is, all these videos tell you that if the relationship isn’t working, then “say your piece and move on” e.g., dump, walk away and develop attraction. So we are being told to dump and walk away, but also the dumpee is being told not to chase after being dumped. Essentially both parties are being told to ignore the other.
@MissHannah20366 жыл бұрын
Be a man, send her a text at the end of the week asking how her week's been and see if and what sort of response you get. Text's don't hurt.
@varunrode12234 жыл бұрын
Very nicely explained, yes we are sceard of loosing what we have
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@GfoxSim3 жыл бұрын
This really works coz I cried for days after we broke up and they didn’t seem to care but the moment I started to mind my business, stopped contacting them, they texted me.
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@stellaercolani38106 жыл бұрын
It's in God's hands, but thanks anyway.
@Ariun975 жыл бұрын
Stella Ercolani that is true
@michaelthomas44515 жыл бұрын
True🙏
@gnorlchgunter90204 жыл бұрын
goD can lick a sack.
@carlodeguzman52386 жыл бұрын
What if she also knew about No contact?
@melina13376 жыл бұрын
I gotta say this video makes soo much sense to me more than any others I have heard....
@MEADiaz6 жыл бұрын
“ I don’t need you” “I don’t want you” I will listen to that
@mulhaarasad6876 жыл бұрын
I can't stay away from him....and when I miss him I call him like crazy .....i have lost my self respect
@munirazaira54655 жыл бұрын
Im sorry dear...im really sorry, it hurts a lot. Me, affs...i used to be like that...but stubborn too...now, i.asked him to think again...reconsider it...he said he will...gonna do NC rule just to avoid my on suffer every time i call him... * . *
@chonalyn2985 жыл бұрын
Same here guys i called n begged him give me ither chance bec its our first break up but he said dnt force... But before i do the nc rule i send a very long mesge..... But he said if u hve faith if we really meant to be then we are i just want to be free n i want to see hows my life when im with u n when im with out u.... 🤔
@munirazaira54655 жыл бұрын
@@chonalyn298 hey there...we r here again...hehehehehe... He is being a little selfish u know...but, its fine...let him have it... * . *
@chonalyn2985 жыл бұрын
@@munirazaira5465 hehehe yes i tell him i din cheat u... U cnt even give me chance but a girl cheated u get pregnant from other guy but u give chance take cre her kids then at the end left u again.... I wana make him fel what i fel also but sorry he got stone heart now😊
@chonalyn2985 жыл бұрын
@@munirazaira5465 when u do the nc rule did u delete his number?
@Bread_n_Butter.5 жыл бұрын
Wow, the men are making videos telling WOMEN how to “maintain no contact” Well how about that? The women (in other videos) are making videos telling MEN how to maintain “no contact” Here’s a suggestion, maybe someone focus on teaching human beings how to respect and value each other, what really matters in life and how to pursue peace and self fulfillment and happiness and we might have people with more peace, happiness and pure ambitions regarding other people we won’t have to find out the reason no one “won” is because we were both too determined to “maintain power” to win what really mattered to begin with.
@Cortesevasive5 жыл бұрын
good point , that's why people have all these divorces nowadays
@Cortesevasive5 жыл бұрын
@@jcotrone That's nice thinking , but too much straightforward logic . What 'hack' are you referring to ? to focus on yourself as the first priority instead of her ? . That's pretty much cowards rationalization to give up on social activity . Value is ultra subjective , and you could be the smartest richest most interesting person but for her you are nothing because your value is not interfering with her . Especially nowadays when there is no shortage of food , and women are earning as much as men are . No sane women gonna pursue you .Especially is your value that greater than anyone's else? -no ,are you elon musk or sth -no . You are on that remark exchangeable . What is real value in life is social bond , emotions associated etc . True 'hack' in my perception is to take initiative and mostly lead and make life easy for her .People like to stay with people who make them feel better about themselves. Obviously such a person is understanding her personal space and give her time she needs and don't pressure her . Its empathy ,mostly so called nice guys are so focused on their own selves and emotions they don't think about her . The other absolute the cool guy gonna get shit results too , because that whole 'hack' mainframe is negative as hell , no mentally sane women without daddy issues gonna enjoy being with such person .
@Cortesevasive5 жыл бұрын
@@jcotrone What 'hacks' ?
@Cortesevasive5 жыл бұрын
@@jcotrone non-attachment is not specific . You know tons of people in work or studies which are not attached to you.Does that make you chase them or be interested in them ? .Its rather the opposite .Women don't chase men , women are shy and non initiative anyways , what do you expect? - to be in your safe bubble and play invincible ? .It may sound retarded but girls are attracted to your insecurities and flaws ,because she sees it as a possibly fixable thing and thats make her feel useful .The point is to appear solid ten , confident or atleast initiating , and then give up some flaws . Well you focus on symptoms rather than on actual problems . if you give love easily it really means that you are sad and lonely and are desperate .Acting indiferrent will not solve your problem though. Yeah follow your emotions see if they make sense
@GeWiZzy5 жыл бұрын
DIssarap you mentioned “hot / cold is not love, it’s dependence long term “ I can’t wrap my head around that, what did you mean by that??
@bonfacemacharia87125 жыл бұрын
No contact is for healing and improving urself the side effect is that it reattracts the ex
@i_know_youre_right_but4 жыл бұрын
Either way with no contact, you win, trust me. They reached out? Good for you. I hope everything works for you. They didn’t reach out? Good. Stop putting effort in for people who don’t give a fuck about you. Take this as a huge life lesson - no one cares, life’s unfair and you’re in this alone. Does it matter? No! Life’s what you make of it, now get up, stop feeling sorry for yourself, and be happy, make money, IMPROVE, IMPROVE, IMPROVE. Someone out there will love you for who you are, in a few months from now you simply won’t care about them.
@tharozisicky9556 жыл бұрын
hmmmm No contact rule🤔🤔 if one week pass i easly forget them lol
@sreedevi82996 жыл бұрын
No contact didn't work for me. Its depends on every individual.
@zziz61376 жыл бұрын
sree devi you really can't say it didn't work, going no contact means no contact period, even if it takes years.
@sreedevi82996 жыл бұрын
If we go no contact for years for a person whom we love so much and if we loose our life with out uttering word to them is that life worthy life.
@zziz61376 жыл бұрын
sree devi it is, just cut them off. I don't know your situation but if they broke up with you move on cut them off regardless if they decide to contact or not
@sreedevi82996 жыл бұрын
I came to know he is a cheater nd frod he simply cheats women.even i saved one women frm his nasty activities .thank u for ur suggestion. Thank u very much.
@zziz61376 жыл бұрын
sree devi your welcome, sorry to hear this. My ex girlfriend cheated on me so I can relate.
@miguelv.87374 жыл бұрын
I did a no contact for a whole year and my ex ended up messaging me, never been so surprised before
@sandym32396 жыл бұрын
I've had so much loss in this life I have no patience for this what-so-ever. You can't say everyone. I transcended this years ago.
@Sortkanin3 жыл бұрын
@@oscarwilliamson1264 Simp!
@bettysnow35216 жыл бұрын
No contact as punishment or bait? Gross.
@Jmenex936 жыл бұрын
No contact with a child involved is insane 😫
@marosales19876 жыл бұрын
Andres Jimenez: That's my issue too. Luckily my parents came back and I won't have to here when we exchange the kids.
@InSaN3ViSioN6 жыл бұрын
A mistake you didn't wrap it up.
@MrChachiyo6 жыл бұрын
Birth control does wonders.
@200abc66 жыл бұрын
Andres Jimenez. I have a Baby with him but It's better for me no contact because he cannot help me.
@SoulDelSol5 жыл бұрын
Best explanation ive ever heard of this
@MoistTwinkie6 жыл бұрын
My ex blocked me from everywhere. Our relationship was good. But she started to not feel the same. I tried begged too much to the point where she saw me as obsessive and needy and she thought it was scary how i never tried to stop talking to her. I wished her well and to be happy. She did love me and was happy with me but she changed she is not with someone but idk how she doesnt miss me. She doesnt wanna be friends or try anything with me anymore. She said we are not good for each other.
@niji6986 жыл бұрын
I do no contact but he is happy with his frends 😥😥😥😥😢
@adu19916 жыл бұрын
Sometimes in order to embrace the new people in your life, you have to let go of old memories(whether that's places, things, or even people).
@mrs.camillewarrenempress31156 жыл бұрын
He's not the for you..
@jankroka45936 жыл бұрын
Youre the woman, you should chase! stop being feminist bitch and call him if you want him.
@Spad333334 жыл бұрын
That's his loss , not yours and move on .
@modekai20096 жыл бұрын
I have been too nice since she had financial limitations to the point where she would expect me to do everything in dates and wouldn't even try to repay even once after long so i looked too needy... How do i let her know that i shouldn't be like that anymore after NC?
@subsub1166 жыл бұрын
Why do you feel the need to pay her bills?
@modekai20096 жыл бұрын
nah man i wasn't that needy... i mean like i had to take her to dates go after her and pay for everything... she wouldn't even want to do the smallest thing in the relationship and whenever i brought it up she would reluctantly agree and do something small then proceed with trying to take back what she did...
@subsub1166 жыл бұрын
I dont know your story but bro just let it go. Its not worth it. Have something similar. How do you see a future with someone like that? And what if at some point you wont be able to afford some stuff?
@modekai20096 жыл бұрын
dude i don't want a future with her i just feel that i was weak and i want to have her back so i'd make her into fuck body and divert the payments on her... cause i have a leverage that she needs actually.. so we'll see what happens and in your case i suggest you turn her into fuck buddy too.
@subsub1166 жыл бұрын
Well if thats the case then just show her that you are not this way if she contacts you again. I think many would suggest the same. Be strong
@mattkraft83873 жыл бұрын
My situation is very unique! We are/were engaged but I gave her covid and she gave it to her best friend whom died. She has resentment but knows it’s not ok to have those thoughts. She pulled away a couple months ago before covid and I did what most guys do and got insecure and tried to fix instead of mirroring her actions. I smothered her and attraction went down. After covid I was terrified that would destroy us abs I tried to fix again but still made it worse. I didn’t let her grieve properly because of insecurity and I crossed too many of her boundaries (not understanding them at the time) she had enough after I went to her house to try to force a conversation at 330 am. That was in she said she had enough and was done. That break up turned into just taking a break. I’m going to go NC but she is keeping up on our snap streak. We also work together in a wear house so it’s a challenge to avoid her but I can. Question is will NC work?
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@connorluckett74193 жыл бұрын
She loves me she misses me but she couldn't be happy in herself first so she ended things but wanted to remain freinds 8 decided to go no contact until she sorts her crap out and I'm going to give it 2 months if she isn't sorted then I'm going to move on if she is then ill consider