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They are called therapists so that you can openly tell your friends that you go to a therapist once a week... and its not lying....or telling the truth.

Let me catch my son learning Japanese to become a therapist

Everyone has to remember, "prostitution" is illegal in Japan. Relationships in Japan can be really hard, due to overwork and an especially rigid social structure. This is a country where you can rent girlfriends / boyfriends / adult children / parents to fill/fulfill that relational void. This is the country of "compensated dating." On a side note, the high sex drive of older women is a side-effect of an aging female body. This is completely normal, but can be difficult, since at the same time, the men get ED. Japanese also have a very different perspective on sex than many other cultures - the biggest excuse I've seen is "It's not personal, it's just business," or "if my heart isn't 'stolen' I'm not cheating." By making it a transaction, it's not "cheating." I'm not against mutually beneficial relations regardless of whether money changes hands. I'm against people who break vows of exclusivity and commitment. If you can't keep the promise, don't make it.

Simulating boyfriend experience with text messages, taking out to places, beeing intimate, remembering conversations and provide feedback, it's a lot of work. It kind of makes sense for the guy to charge money.

Half the fun of Yuta's videos are, "How is he going to work in a plug for his language teaching into this topic?"

Rest of the world: Prostitution, playboy, stripper and clubbing Japan: Sexual services

Honestly. I find Yuta's approach to this to be very refreshing. He didn't stumble over any of his words or make any overt jokes, even when talking about his own preferences. It's nice to be grown up and have grown up conversations, without the childishness mixed in. And also .. absolutely fantastic marketing tactic for his Nihongo school lol

Being Asian myself, there has been a stigma for any relationship with men and women hanging out. Groups of men and women usually do everything separate so there is never any confusion or thought of anything suspicious going on between anyone. This kind of culture doesn't work well in modern day culture. This is why the decline in population is dramatically increasing.

Yuta exhudes the sort of giga-chad energy that screams "I offer sexual services. I am a professional".

5:46 "you can try many people with disappointing results" perfectly sums up me love life.

Wow, what a great and informative video! I never would have learned about this if it hadn't been for Yuta.

3:52 I appreciate how matter-of-fact and respectfully you explained this without villainizing their choice. I relate here.

I subscribed to this channel because I wanted to learn Japanese and I ended up learning a lot more about Japanese culture than I bargained for.

Yuta makes clickbait titles but actually follows through on the topic instead of saying 2 sentences on it stretched out.

Very informative thank-you for taking the time to put this together.

I think it's great how academically you approach the topic.

A "therapist" lol. After this video suddenly everyone will have some sort of "mental health problem" or "damn I hit my arm on the door....I need a therapist."

OK. You got me Yuuta. Offering me a chance to become the best therapist of japan... that's marketing on another level.

The Monogatari reference was elite. Great video and very informative !

I never thought this would be a thing. Very informative video.

A little bit of correction to something Yuta says: it isn't "penetration" in general that is illegal in Japan, but "coitus", as in vaginal penetration. Anal and oral sex are absolutely fine, and are actually the most common forms of sex in "normal" prostitution that caters to men, be it female or male prostitutes. Its vaginal sex that is generally avoided unless the business takes advantage of the other loop hole in Japanese law, which doesn't cover sex between "specified persons", i.e. acquaintances. So some businesses have you get to know your prostitute partner first so that you are both now "acquaintances" and thus its no longer prostitution. This is how sugar mommy and sugar daddy relationships (such as compensated dating and mamakitsu/papakitsu) work. I imagine most sexual services for women do in fact allow women to go down on or engage in anal sex with their paid for companions.

I knew I was in the wrong country 😂. I need to be a therapist

Great stuff. Your honesty is unique.

It used to be that real therapists treated Hysteria by having sex with the female patients in the West. That tradition ended, then the society changed. It included penetration. In the Victorian era, hysterical paroxysm was the medical terminology for a female orgasm. It was believed to cure female hysteria, a once common medical diagnosis for irritability and a loss of appetite for food or sex. Women genital massages, leading to an orgasm, as treatment. During the late 1800s through the early 1900s, physicians administered pelvic massages involving clitoral stimulation by early electronic vibrators as treatments.

Don't worry. Women in the U.S. do this, too. They just don't do it in the U.S.. They do it by traveling to other countries such as Jamaica.

A very honest video mate thanks

Yuta! Therapist is an insane name for a male sex worker (not insane, but you probably get what I mean - it's surprising for an English speaker). Makes me think about cultural disconnects and miscommunications due to the way we misuse or change words between cultures. I think topics like this have been done, but still, I'd be interested if you had a video on these kind of miscommunications due to borrowing words between cultures and the shift in meaning (especially in more extreme cases like this - eg, if an English speaker goes to Japan and mentions therapists, that's going to be a huge source of miscommunication!). Makes me think of a similar, but not as striking miscommunication: I met a Japanese student once who was talking about some music genre (IIRC, he was talking about electronica/electropop/EDM type music), and he used an acronym I had never heard before. It's possible that it was due to him being more into the genre than me, but it seemed he expected it would be commonly used in the US.

The amount of research that went into this is amazing. Great video.

I was going to joke that I would like to become a therapist, but the truth is, it is incompatible with my personality. If I were not physically attracted to someone I would not want to, or likely be able to perform. And if I DID like someone, I wouldn't want to be strictly professional about it. And I'm also fat and not very attractive lol.

Nice channel, I hope to visit Japan sometime in my life, You’re awesome man!

This is very interesting. Thank you for your insight.

Guys, this is the moment to offer "gaijin therapy services"...

Interesting. It's a side of society that intrigues me and the rules in Japan also make that world seem in a way healthier.

07:31 "we don't know everything, we only know what we know" nice quote!

Great video, Yuta sama!!!

Good topic, thanks! Very informative

I see Yuta is getting on 'that kind of video' spree again

I am subscribing to Yuta because it is the first step to becoming a successful therapist for females in Japan.

Good information 👌 thanks for sharing)))

When you worked so hard to become a therapist in Japan just to discovered that they meant something else by therapist

Very different content, love it!!

Prostitution, including individuals paying for sex, exists in various cultures and societies around the world, including Japan. While it is challenging to generalize the motivations of individuals involved in such transactions, there can be several factors that contribute to why some Japanese women may choose to pay for sex. It's important to note that these reasons can vary greatly among individuals, and not all Japanese women engage in such activities. Here are a few potential factors: 1. Sexual Exploration and Fulfillment: Some Japanese women may seek paid sexual encounters as a means of exploring their sexuality, fulfilling specific fantasies or desires, or experiencing a sense of intimacy and connection. Paying for sex can provide an avenue for them to engage in consensual adult activities in a controlled and mutually agreed-upon setting. 2. Time Constraints and Convenience: Modern lifestyles and career demands may leave little time for traditional dating or committed relationships. In such cases, some Japanese women may opt for paid sexual encounters as a convenient way to fulfill their sexual needs without investing the time and energy required for a long-term relationship. 3. Emotional and Companionship Needs: Some Japanese women may pay for sex not solely for the physical aspect but also for the emotional connection and companionship that can accompany it. They may seek the intimacy, attention, and validation that can be found in the context of a paid encounter. 4. Discreet or Non-committal Experiences: Paying for sex can provide a level of anonymity and discretion that some Japanese women may find appealing. It allows them to maintain privacy and avoid the potential complications or expectations that can arise from traditional relationships. 5. Curiosity or Novelty: For some individuals, paying for sex might be driven by curiosity or a desire for new experiences. They may be interested in exploring different aspects of their sexuality or engaging with individuals who provide unique services or experiences that are not readily available through conventional means. It is essential to acknowledge that the motivations behind paying for sex are complex and can differ greatly among individuals. It is also important to note that the sex industry, including prostitution, is subject to various legal and ethical considerations and regulation in different countries. In Japan, the laws surrounding prostitution are complex and vary by region, reflecting cultural, historical, and social factors.

Thank you for such a great video..

My favorite part of this video was the Hanekawa quote with the Monogatari-poi editing!

Its funny to find this video because despite not living in Japan, I have received Japanese women followers on twitter offering such "services". I have received such offers on twitter multiple times(dunno why me in particular) and one of their requirements were ages between 20 to 49 so I believe its quite common.

I wish we had these kinds of service in the US. Although I wouldn't personally use them because I'm happy in that department, it just seems so much more professional than secretively meeting some lady off backpage at a low end hotel, not knowing if you're going to get mugged. What Americans don't realize is that regulating sex would dramatically increase safety of both the client and the person providing the service, because let's face it, paying for sex isn't going anywhere anytime soon. Win/win.

VERY GOOD VIDEO !! THANK YOU

Yuta: "I know a lot about sex. I read books". Me: ._.

Very interesting topic that you brought up because it's really frown upon when woman talk about their sex life in asia from my experiences and I'm glad that you covered it. Since this is a topic about sexuality, may I perhaps suggest you one video idea that you might want to do. I don't really know what japanese people think of the argument between "vanilla vs ntr" in hentai or doujinshi but from what I see in the western side, these two side never get along at all or at least listen to what the other side wanna say. The vanilla tag side calling the ntr side disgusting for enjoying horrible things and the ntr side calling the vanilla side boring for enjoying wholesome stuffs... etc. But I'm curious what's the japanese side is like, do they have this kind of argument at all? How ntr tag became so popular and vanilla tag became so rare and hard to find than before? How artists and animators feel when they have to draw/animate vanilla and ntr... etc. Thanks for reading

Need more of these content

Thanks for explaining! :3

Again Japan Shows us, that there is always a different approach to things. Thank you Yuta for the nice Video 👍

"These are the types of women I tend to know personally" Very smooth lmao 😂

Wow your English is so good, seldom could find a non native speaker who I can hear every word clearly with 2x speed like you

How long has this been happening, and why am I just now hearing about it? I’m joking of course…sort of! In my 20s, I had a female friend (with benefits) who jokingly said we should go to Japan and she would make money pimping me out to Japanese business women. I liked the idea, but I was in college and had a career waiting for me after graduation. So, I’m sure this has been happening for well over 20 years. East Asian women are goddesses!!!

I just can´t get over the fact that they are called a "therapist". I just want to see a Japanese person with broken English trying to explain that to a foreigner who has no idea what this "therapist" is.

1:40 "so if you wanna engage in those services i will teach you-" XD

This was an interesting video, thank you.

Im officially switching careers. My parents wanted me to become a doctor, but i'll show them i can also be a doctor, policeman, fireman, plumber, teacher and an astonaut at the same time

This sort of thing is ok as long as there is honesty. If you're level with your partner or potential partner, then it's all good. I don't care how professional this is, I can see things quickly go south when honesty is absent.

After months of not feeding me Yuta's content, this is the first video KZfaq has recommended. Am I that lonely?

Yuta with another gigachad informative video

Thank you so much for sharing with us. I’ve always thought American that we should already have this established in the US. I am moving to Thailand permanently and I home if he have it in Thailand, great idea thank you for sharing this again. Sending you love and light.

i was not ready for this level of discretion

Interesting.Question: I've heard that male AV actors are absurdly outnumbered by female ones. One of them has said that there are more tigers in Japan, than male AV actors. What's going on there?

This greatly explains the plethora of tags available for 6 digit codes

Very educational.

Lol I was just trying to clear my notifications and clicked,and got 🤣

lots of things can go easily in the wrong direction . when you pay for personal gain if your expectation are met ,but if they do and you fall for a deeper conscience it would seem like in reality your being play a trick on because your paying for a companionship that might not be inclined if you run out money or short of dime . It's never a good thing if your not genuinely true to your self these things never end well in life if you Play your self a player in life you too can get Play out player .

New checklist to do when you visit Japan 🎉

i like this guy..........pretty calm and helpful !!

I'm so going to Japan NOW!!!

Hi, Yuta. What does FC mean? For example: 日, FC: 6010.0

Looks like interesting topic for me, so that how it goes.....thank you for the information, Yuta san 🙏🙂 subcribed!

It can be exciting to learn about new things in Japanese culture, like in this video, because it's so unique and I'd like a video about the market for men

I see a lot of people saying that this type of service is immoral, but I see just as many people forget about morality when they receive extra money by mistake in changing a purchase, when telling lies, etc.

Great job

work is about to go insane soon, before that I need to go to Japan for 3-4 weeks and have some therapist sessions! My man Yuta, any super kawaii female therapist around okayama, gunma, saitama ??

Looking at the video title, thinking to myself: and I've been giving it away for free all this time.

Brb going to Japan

If I’m still young, I’ll definitely learn Japanese with you and get ready to be a therapist 😅

You mentioned as possible reasons to get these services that maybe the guys are not handsome enough or not good at sex. But for me personally the thing that stops me from seeing random men is just fear. What if they become violent, what if they force me to do something I don't want, or take pictures? I haven't used these services or plan to, but I think one important reason for women is probably that they look for security. edit: oh yeah, the lack of communication. It's so bad. I've been trying to hook up with a Japanese guy recently, we even went on a date that was really fun and a bit of sexual tension was built up... But still have absolutely no idea if he likes me or not. He expresses 0 emotions. Japan's low birth rate make so much sense now.

any training course so I can professionalize myself on that line of work?

I think this might be my calling. How hard is it to get a work visa in Japan and does this count as legal employment for non-Japanese?

I need to go to Japan and be a therapist

I'm definitely interested in learning more about Japanese culture as I don't have any Japanese people in my life.

5:21 was hilarious “first of all, they have standards” 😂

Boiiiii you already know I’m bout to fix all of Japan’s mental health problems 💀

It’s all an eye opener thanks

Exiting and mind stimulating content. .!!

I thought those stories only exist in doujins, but it is happening now for real. 💀

They're not paying for sex, they're paying for companionship. Sometimes sex is involved but not always.

Yuta, jesus, this man out here being real.

what a twist of content

I was gonna comment 'I'm gonna become a therapist in Japan', but then I saw the last minute of the video and said 'nah nevermind'

i was surprised to see this kind of video from sensei i starting learning Japanese from this guy... and the next day i get to see was like - can't get it lmao just kidding 😂...love his way of teaching things or services 😂😝

Your videos are still great, but where is the backflip ? 😁

Just what you said in the end of the video about male therapists getting no clients debunks everything you said beforehand.

If I had a Japanese wife, paying for services like this is just a big no-no. As a man it is up to me to satisfy her physical needs, not to mention that I really don't like the idea that another man is touching my woman.