Why some people GET SO UPSET with my content: responding to haters

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While the overwhelming response to my channel has been extremely positive, a small proportion of the feedback I receive is exceptionally negative. And this feedback invariably concerns my views on intrasexual dynamics. This doesn't necessarily bother me, but it is an interesting phenomenon. In this episode, I attempt to explain why this content can be such a bitter pill for some people to swallow.
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@psychacks 4 ай бұрын

While the overwhelming response to my channel has been extremely positive, a small proportion of the feedback I receive is exceptionally negative. And this feedback invariably concerns my views on intrasexual dynamics. This doesn't necessarily bother me, but it is an interesting phenomenon. In this episode, I attempt to explain why this content can be such a bitter pill for some people to swallow. Book a paid consultation: oriontarabanpsyd.com/consultations Join my newsletter: oriontarabanpsyd.com Social Media Facebook: facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090053889622 LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/orion-taraban-070b45168/ Instagram: instagram.com/psyc.hacks Twitter: twitter.com/oriontaraban Website: oriontarabanpsyd.com Orion's Theme: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jdiIdd2Cl66odYU.html Thinking of going to grad school? Check out STELLAR, my top-rated GRE self-study program based on the world's only empirically-validated test prep system. Use the code "PSYCH" for 10% off all membership plans: stellargre.com. Become a Stellar affiliate and earn a 10% commission for every membership purchased by a new student you conduct into the program: stellargre.tapfiliate.com. GRE Bites: www.youtube.com/@grebites4993 Become a Psychonaut and join PsycHack's member community: kzfaq.info/love/SduXBjCHkLoo_y9ss2xzXwjoin Sound mixing/editing by: valntinomusic.com Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world. #psychology #dating #relationship

@lawsen3719 4 ай бұрын

I really like your videos, especially the guidance stuff that is for personal growth. I occasionally watch the relationship related videos as well but I won't like when I say that it has made me reconsider trying to get a girlfriend, it just seems like whatever I do it won't work out so I might as well just live without it.

@inconnu4961 4 ай бұрын

Sometimes I need to bring a dictionary with me when i view your content! Thank you for the valuable education!

@salty1849 4 ай бұрын

Wait I’m gonna answer this before I even watch the video… because you’re so insightful and truthful, and people don’t like the truth. Of course this paints you in a positive light which is the only reason you’ll say it. Just being truthful 😉

@MoneyIsSilver 4 ай бұрын

Let's be honest, by "some people", I'm gonna guess that 98% of the haters are women.

@ma2000 4 ай бұрын

Timing of this video - March 8, international women's day 🙂 this can't be a coincidence!

@etuitivemillionaire 4 ай бұрын

No one is more hated than he who speaks the truth. Plato

@pmaitrasm 4 ай бұрын

👌

@bazookacat8421 4 ай бұрын

Bet they hated him for saying that!

@ElodreamXO 4 ай бұрын

Actually I Think people who Speak the Truth are Mostly Loved by Many But Hated by a Loud Few.

@toddubois3315 4 ай бұрын

He's liked by 99% so does that mean he's telling the truth?

@Letsplay222 4 ай бұрын

@@ElodreamXO It depends on the truth. Tell the truth about one of society's sacred cows and watch everyone go apeshit.

@velimirpijuk5980 4 ай бұрын

Because the truth hurts..

@dahliafiend 4 ай бұрын

The truth will set you free but it will make you very angry first.

@andrewharris5281 4 ай бұрын

Salt is a preservative and can help heal a wound. And just like alcohol; when you treat a wound with salt or alcohol it hurts. And Christians are called to be the salt of the earth. Salt is essential for life, and at certain points in history, it was a currency

@joleaneshmoleane8358 4 ай бұрын

For real. Idk why I’m so shocked. I guess I was naive. But I’m shocked at how much people hate the truth and love the lies nowadays. Idk how else to describe it. It’s like most people today are allergic to truths, to people who notice patterns and think for themselves. I’ve never seen anything like it.

@dahliafiend 4 ай бұрын

@@joleaneshmoleane8358 people have slowly, unwittingly become liars. Climate change is a prime example. We’ve spent a year debating pronouns and sexual identity while our very existence as a species is in jeopardy. That’s a scientific fact unlike transgender which isn’t science it’s a social issue and not at risk for ending humanity. Becoming lost in trivialities is what people in denial do and it can be deadly. We are doing it as a culture now so lying about smaller things seems natural to us.

@dahliafiend 4 ай бұрын

For instance on a smaller level I longer take women seriously “when they say “I love you or I’ll always love you” I’m 47. I’ve heard that like form six different women. Not one of them is someone who would answer the phone right now if I even have their number. Most of the relationships one excepted ended mildly too. So I just don’t take the words seriously anymore. I hear “I love you--until someone with more money or looks or lifestyle options comes along and then “my feelings changed” etc. Which to me is essentially a lie.

@medanon7221 4 ай бұрын

this is the most polite way to put your haters on blast I've ever seen

@marriagecausesdivorce7540 4 ай бұрын

exactly what i was thinking. it was such a savage take down of old women but so mild mannered at the same time.

@RafitoOoO 4 ай бұрын

That's what I'm talking about! That's why he's the MVP! That's why he's the GOAT! THE GOAT!

@David_1789 4 ай бұрын

That’s the best way to make your points, don’t give your opposition any low-hanging fruit to latch onto and force them to engage with you.

@Paul-vf4wv 4 ай бұрын

This head doctor is a pure genius. Thanks, Dr. O!

@dustysmoke4996 4 ай бұрын

People like that hate pity, so yeah.

@IAmTheEggMan111 4 ай бұрын

Misogyny = stuff i don’t agree with

@leyenda6149 4 ай бұрын

Ditto for all "-ist" suffixes

@josealexi5141 4 ай бұрын

@@leyenda6149 EXACTLY!! When the LA Times called Larry Elder (a black man) the "blackface of white supremacy" I knew the left had jumped the shark

@murphsviews 4 ай бұрын

Or “stuff I don’t want to hear or want others to hear”.

@mikey92362 4 ай бұрын

There's a valid reason we say Miss-Ogeny instead of Mister-Ogeny

@DaveE99 4 ай бұрын

@@leyenda6149 I mean racisms is def a thing I’ve witnessed it

@JohnEP223 4 ай бұрын

You want the truth? You can't handle the truth!

@geemail369 4 ай бұрын

_Col. Nathan R. Jessup_

@dott8775 4 ай бұрын

What does this saying mean?

@Michaelrojas24 4 ай бұрын

Give me that sweet pain

@josealexi5141 4 ай бұрын

@@geemail369 You're *DAMN RIGHT* I ordered the Code-Red!!

@mr.p.4512 4 ай бұрын

"You want me on that wall...you NEED me on that wall...!"

@allenmciver1888 4 ай бұрын

The subconscious mind decides, the conscious mind justifies.

@geemail369 4 ай бұрын

Good one! 🤯📝

@JJHurst 4 ай бұрын

Boom 💥

@idiotbox3221 4 ай бұрын

This precisely

@margaretc5679 4 ай бұрын

This.

@pro5702 4 ай бұрын

@dont6441 4 ай бұрын

The flak is always heaviest over the target.

@vinnievu1 4 ай бұрын

What does that mean, again?

@user-iv3wp8ir8k 4 ай бұрын

Nice.

@charley420 4 ай бұрын

@@vinnievu1 Military reference. Flak was used defensively from the ground against low bombers. The closer they are to their target, the more intense the flak. "Flak over the target" is now used to say "Push back is heaviest when you are most directly refuting an emotional position"

@torachan23 4 ай бұрын

@charley420 thanks for the explanation

@motorbreath22 4 ай бұрын

Hahaha

@Richard-vq3mx 4 ай бұрын

"People attempt to eradicate their own projected darkness by cleansing the world of anything that reminds them of the disavowed portions of themselves" - perfect explanation for cancel culture, and brilliant quote.

@therapymattersco 4 ай бұрын

it's the concept of the Shadow. It is an explanation for a lot of things, not just cancel culture

@drinkxyz 4 ай бұрын

I see it a lot with religious people upset with / threatened by the theory of evolution.

@stevenscott2136 4 ай бұрын

@@drinkxyz Not quite the same, I think. Religious people aren't afraid of being secretly Darwinists -- they're afraid that either they'll be proven wrong and lose a major part of their identity, or that an angry God will lose his patience and they'll be caught in the blast radius. Remember, this is the same entity who allegedly sends Cat 5 hurricanes to pummel the part of the United States LEAST likely to have gays, because he's angry about the gays in NYC or San Francisco. Religious folks don't want to be standing in the same nation with Darwinists when God decides to drop an asteroid on us.

@SKtheFighter-xv1hp 4 ай бұрын

Feminist these days

@pescatoralpursuit1726 4 ай бұрын

@drinkxyz not quite the same. Think "religious people who hate sin, or the sin they claim to see in others."

@DrBilly90210 4 ай бұрын

3:50 When I got divorced at 50 and re-entered the dating scene, I had the typical gamut of experiences. After a while, the emotional roller coaster became tiresome. Eventually, I came to one simple question that made it easy to decide whether to enter in to, or continue with, a relationship: "Is this relationship making each of our lives easier and making each of us better people?" Any answer other than an enthusiastic "Yes!" was grounds for immediate termination of the relationship.

@devilsadvocacy 4 ай бұрын

Use the same criterion for deciding who to have in your life, or not. Everyone has to pass the same test

@frogmanant 3 ай бұрын

@DrBilly -

@user-lj9hv3zz9u 2 ай бұрын

The other is hell. Even this ego mess.

@PatriseHenkel 2 ай бұрын

Well said- a clear question of essential values.

@istvanrabrady9160 4 ай бұрын

At 50, I started darting a 45 y/o woman, who told me on the third date that she is looking for a man, so confident that he doesn't get jealous if she wants to be with other men, but also so loyal and in love, that he would never even think of cheating on her. I consider myself a gentleman, so I did pay for that last dinner before I blocked her number.

@Kritikanbringer 2 ай бұрын

Stop SIMPing!

@JoseDiaz-rd9fh 28 күн бұрын

Way too kind. You should have left the moment she said that. Just goes to show you the entitlement that modern women have developed. It's one thing to feel that way😂😂😂 completely different to expect that to fly. They want the benefits of a committed relationship without paying the price unbelievable😂

@freedomfight1933 4 ай бұрын

It's interesting to note, dealing with older women in the hospitality business is an absolute nightmare compared to any other group. You absolutely can not make them happy. And they come in angry. This is super consistent.

@mann8098 4 ай бұрын

Reasons for the anger: 1) realization of much lower value leading to life being harder because no one gives you freebies or special treatment anymore 2) meno effing pause! Hormones out of wack!

@freedomfight1933 4 ай бұрын

@mann8098 I once got the same type of feedback from a guest who's profile showed a young attractive female and I couldn't believe it, my head was exploding!.. but then she told me her mom came by that day to stay with her. And all made sense in the world again haha

@Paul-vf4wv 4 ай бұрын

I worked drive through in a wealth town for a year. I'd say it's 50/50 with older women. Some became my good friends. Some pissy. The super explosive group were always men. Mostly bros that came up from Philly.

@dwightbrown 4 ай бұрын

Women in general are more miserable than men. It's something again not often discussed but pull both men and women aside and talk it will come out.

@wardogmobius 4 ай бұрын

I have been doing for 10 years and experienced more than 15k tourists. The worst are lonely old angry women. You cant reason with them, you can't communicate with them, They will not stop until you validate their stupidity, feelings and ego. Even that sometimes ain't the limit, they will want to humiliate you for doing nothing wrong and publicly for self mental masturbation.

@Khan-rz8qi 4 ай бұрын

It’s simple Doc, the more knowledgeable men become, the harder it is for them to be controlled and verbally manipulated into carrying out their societal “duties”. It’s not surprising that so many men in the past recent years are expressing frustration and disappointment the more they learn. I’m interested to see how this new age awareness will manifest amongst men as time progresses.

@Doberman_6773 4 ай бұрын

BINGO!!! The old games don't work so well when the 'Mark' knows what's up - Sorry folks, the toothpaste is out of the tube, Pandora's box can't be closed, etc, etc...

@mann8098 4 ай бұрын

It's a wrap!

@brianmeen2158 4 ай бұрын

The more I learned female nature the more turned off I am . I also realize that I don’t think living a life completely free of a mate is going to work either. I’m as introverted as you can get so if I can’t see it working long term then the average guy had no chance

@brianmeen2158 4 ай бұрын

@@Doberman_6773but for every red pill guy that knows the truth there are 10 simps that don’t. That is the problem

@eladbari 4 ай бұрын

@@brianmeen2158it's an inner fight between our biology to our awareness of how the system was rigged through the years against us. It's natural to crave a partner, but what's the cost of it failing? It's like..choose your poison..live with or without one...

@timothyw7663 4 ай бұрын

LOL. I think it's 'gloves off' time for Dr. Orion Taraban, and you did it like a pro. Nice job Orion!

@edwoodstock 4 ай бұрын

Simply means youre doing something right!

@gravimasters8772 4 ай бұрын

People rather hear a beautiful lie than the cold hard truth

@perpetualprocrastinator 4 ай бұрын

Disney

@allanbradshaw3498 4 ай бұрын

American capitalism view off life

@MeidoInHebun 4 ай бұрын

Replace "People" with "women"

@nightmareTomek 4 ай бұрын

Yep. A lot of other people got mighty tired of having the truth fall on them after being told beautiful lies all their life.

@aquepaique 23 күн бұрын

specially women and children

@mgu1N1n1 4 ай бұрын

Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female ex-partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!

@ibubezi7685 4 ай бұрын

Fight fire with... napalm.

@yamafanboy 4 ай бұрын

harsh but underrated

@LittleMew133 4 ай бұрын

But do crazy women honor restraining orders? They are too crazy.

@TheOutlierToday 4 ай бұрын

This dude has been spamming this comment for months. No one believes u. What you're saying doesn't even relate to this topic

@yamafanboy 4 ай бұрын

@@TheOutlierToday a stitch in time saves nine

@amandaroncevich9380 4 ай бұрын

58 yr old woman here who thinks your commentary is outstanding 🌟

@lucasblanc1295 15 күн бұрын

If I have a wife someday, I wish she would be as pretty as you at your age!

@chrismoore9997 4 ай бұрын

Absolutely accurate. Women in general want to advertise themselves as some kind of prize when the truth is that they are a liability.

@mann8098 4 ай бұрын

The modern woman provides no value except to the economy because of all the shopping they do.

@JoseDiaz-rd9fh 4 ай бұрын

Absolutely men always approach a relationship with an acceptable loss mind frame. Whereas women calculate how they will gain monetarily or in overall lifestyle. They will almost never admit it outright using colorful bullshit words to portray themselves in a positive light

@alanblair2717 4 ай бұрын

No, marriage opens the door to a future via children. Women are no more of a liability than death.

@cecilang9721 4 ай бұрын

Lots of women are now willing to have kids without marriage.

@mann8098 4 ай бұрын

@@cecilang9721 willing? They are more than willing. That's great. They can raise them, support them, teach them values, respond to crises, take them to all their sporting events, the doctor, protect them, buy them everything (BECAUSE IT'S SO EASY). Good luck 👍

@IM-bq7ep 4 ай бұрын

Your explanation of female thinking has been so helpful. I sometimes will watch your videos and then come across a woman that is doing something you went over in a vid and I just knowingly chuckle to myself.

@1Whipperin 4 ай бұрын

Feminism is sensitive to the truth hurting.

@mbg9650 4 ай бұрын

... and every argument shadowing women brand.

@kengaroo5170 4 ай бұрын

Pussy cat, wild cougar, mummified mom.

@darrynreid4500 3 ай бұрын

Feminism was always about hatred born out of an extension of childish egotism, entitlement and selfishness into an adult world that expects them, as adults, to instead be accountable and reasonable. They have nothing other than bullying, abuse and victim-playing because their position just cannot stand up to rational scrutiny.

@CyberChrist 4 ай бұрын

"So, we can predict that the most aggressive opposition to the economic modeling of relationships will come from older women. Precisely because older women stand to lose the most if this idea were more widely known."

@David_1789 4 ай бұрын

They really want to shoot fish in a barrel once men have run the gauntlet that is becoming educated and wealthy despite a relative lack of sexual attention amidst the most sexually charged culture in American history.

@marktapley7571 4 ай бұрын

Thats another reason why the court system makes it too expensive for the man to separate.

@LittleMew133 4 ай бұрын

Apparent, genders only exist in US? @@marktapley7571

@nikeisagreekgoddess4135 4 ай бұрын

So, are older women wrong for being concerned about that? Are they supposed to just join the working class at some low skill job to barely make it every payday? Should all their fulfillment be derived from the fact that they reproduced and experienced motherhood? I mean this as a highly critical man against gynocentrism. Still I can't see how it is ethical or even functional to just say "it's not my problem anymore. Get a job, get out of my house and good luck". What will that do to your relationship with your kids, your grandchildren, your extended family??? What is the right way of proceeding here? Clearly us in this channel see through the lies of perpetual monogamy. We understand our nature is not compatible with that idea. "Men are meant to keep paying for an ever devaluing asset". So, even if older women get angry at this way of thinking, it makes no difference because a responsible man will provide that retirement plan for a woman that gave him children. The implicit message in Taraban's content is "if you want to get involved with women, this is how it works and it's hard and you will lose more than you will gain". How is that a useful mentality if you will end up doing the same shit the white knights do? At least those morons will do it happily lol. You will do it with realistic expectations, but with no incentive. That's not a functional formula.

@CyberChrist 4 ай бұрын

@@nikeisagreekgoddess4135 Apparently, my previous answer went away, so I'll sum it up: they should've been concerned about that when they could do something about it, not when others would have to rescue them from the corner they painted themselves in ;)

@bearclaw5115 4 ай бұрын

"People attempt to purge their own darkness by cleansing the world of anything that reminds them of the disavowed portions of themselves" That's powerful!

@nerozero_ 4 ай бұрын

Finally, someone says it!! If a woman only brings looks and beauty to the table, after a while, the beauty fades and she no longer brings anything. For the same price.

@mann8098 4 ай бұрын

Old ones have absolutely nothing to give.

@Johnny-Cage 4 ай бұрын

I’d argue more because the health fades along with it too

@brianmeen2158 4 ай бұрын

Ok but what does the average man bring a woman? If he can provide for them that’s a good thing but what else? Protection? Protection from what?

@nerozero_ 4 ай бұрын

@@brianmeen2158 You mean what he brings to the "average" woman? She knows that. Protection from bad people. But that probably won't change in a few years, like her appearance.

@tgm2474 4 ай бұрын

Where are all the men going that the only women they encounter have nothing but their bodies to offer? This has to be the weakest point in the manosphere, yet everyone parrots this nonsense.

@andrewcliffe4753 4 ай бұрын

As a very old man who has seen a lot, I like what you say but never underestimate the value of wonderful grandchildren. This shifts the balance of the deal. I put raising my children above career and have absolutely no regrets. Family is wonderfull

@marriagecausesdivorce7540 4 ай бұрын

RIP older women. Got to be one of the most savage take downs on youtube. Older women are "expensive" and "depreciating". Remind me to never mess with or criticize Orion.

@bodhisattva2348 2 ай бұрын

Ok, now tell the younger women they'll end up loke the older women so they should just avoid the dating pool all together

@Lolololol-io9bk Ай бұрын

@@bodhisattva2348 Or... Invest in valuable "trades" that can secure their future WHILE they have more value?

@dudejoe8390 4 ай бұрын

"So we can predict that the most aggressive opposition to the economic model of relationships will come from older woman, precisely because older woman stand to lose the most if this idea were more widely known. If you observe who responds most obstreperously to my ideas online, you will find that this is exactly what happens." - Dr. Orion Taraban This is Integral Theory for relationships. You nailed this episode so well! I just witnessed a quick rundown of all the relationship talks in the past 6 years. In fact, this can be extended to anybody who wants to bury their own darkness while extracting as much as they can from others.

@tgm2474 4 ай бұрын

There will be opposition from older women if he's right, but there will be equal opposition if he's wrong. Therefore, the existence of opposition to Taraban cannot be used to draw any conclusions.

@Tushar_Talwar_09 4 ай бұрын

@@tgm2474 That is precisely something an older woman would say. Feel free to tell me you're actually a 30 yr old married man but we all know the truth.

@VisDaddy11 4 ай бұрын

@@tgm2474You are trying to divert. As if saying things are great “as is” will gather opposition from those benefiting from status quo.

@patrickmcfly3264 4 ай бұрын

@@tgm2474 You fail to make a case, as correctly point Ad Hominem or even thinly veiled insults assuming he's wrong is in play here. Again comparing logical opposition when he is wrong vs. Ad Hominin opposition is like comparing Pearls to Pigs. But your slip up is more revealing, it Will be the older women doing it, so that draws an obvious conclusions 😂

@richien8472 4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂. When I got to the end of the video, I burst out laughing because Dr. Orion confirmed my suspicion at the beginning of the video on the specific demographic who call out his work and are scared of relationships truths coming out.

@DanielinAction 4 ай бұрын

the goat. here since 2 years ago.

@user-up9jf1jq2w 4 ай бұрын

Why do you call him this way?

@stephanie7572 4 ай бұрын

As an older woman (late 70s), I agree with the doctor's outlook. With dating now, I always build in more cooperation, more willingness to share the expense and inconvenience (logistics of travel, for example) of dating. I wouldn't have dreamed of doing this in my younger, more high value years. I expected the man to make all plans and pay for everything, and he should bring me flowers and gifts too! Now it's "You're staying over tonight, honey? What would you like for breakfast?" LOL

@mann8098 4 ай бұрын

Bingo! Thank you for your honesty!

@Lex_Lugar 4 ай бұрын

Wow congrats on still having the energy to date in your late 70's. Also, I have had girls in their early 20's who have cooked me breakfast early on in the dating stage. None of them were from the USA.

@kurtvanluven9351 4 ай бұрын

Seems to me you are maintaining your value with cooperation. Bravo.

@jdsartre9520 4 ай бұрын

How is dating in your late 70s as an older woman (your words)? What kind of men are you dating? and what are the dates like?

@stephanie7572 4 ай бұрын

@@jdsartre9520 I have a long-term boyfriend who is 30 years younger. He's wonderful but we don't go out, both busy with our own lives. See him once or twice a week. Been talking to men closer in age on a dating site, several showing interest but nothing solid so far. Also just met someone on there 28 years younger, says he doesn't care about my age, and seems way hot...but there is a distance situation as he lives 2 hours away. Yeah, I'm having a good time!

@lmanher 4 ай бұрын

THEY hate you, because you help your brothers.

@David_1789 4 ай бұрын

It’s been in women’s self-interest to prevent men from truly bonding, organizing, and developing in-group bias the same way women have done. Women want a man’s desire to be accepted by and loved by women to override his otherwise reasonable nature.

@flipmaya 4 ай бұрын

I was ready to sleep with the guy who introduced me to this dude. Even marry him. Until he introduced me to this dude. Now that’s not happening, ever. Edit: Lots of people thanking me for doing him a favor. Please, doing him a favor would be helping him end his 4 years of unemployment and counting. All I did is cut out one of “your brothers” out of my life after he got into watching this channel and becomes someone who nobody wants to employ. And the people most triggered are the usual suspects. A 36 year old dating a 20 year old and a guy who is a wannabe passport bro. Yep, no surprises there.

@buriedomasta3375 4 ай бұрын

he dodged a bullet @@flipmaya

@flipmaya 4 ай бұрын

@@buriedomasta3375 ooohhhh a generic response that is neither substantive nor has basis in fact. JSYK, the most sexist person I know who knows the gist of what happened says he’s drama should be cut out of my life.

@buriedomasta3375 4 ай бұрын

I couldn't understand a thing but whatever helps you sleep at night lmao@@flipmaya

@legiontepes3474 4 ай бұрын

Because as you said in a previous episode, people are delusional.

@DEEPAKKUMAR-ch6cb 4 ай бұрын

No, he was talking about the past is prologue video. Where a women can leave her man if he is not up to the standards and she can do better, no matter what he did in the past. So, by this logic a man should leave his old wife also, because she is of no use now and he can get a young women.

@grinningchicken 4 ай бұрын

The people most offended are the ones who want to keep living in the comforting lie that just around the corner is a tall dark well off companion who cant see their flaws ready to sweep them off the feet

@sirjacko79 4 ай бұрын

Your content is super balanced Orion. There's no bitterness or anger to it, only qualified logic and the subsequent benefits that come from understanding (for both sexes) This understanding provides the basis for constructive guidance for change. This is rare on KZfaq. You are destined for good things, sir.

@user-up9jf1jq2w 4 ай бұрын

He seems bitter and angry to me

@dukekessler6292 4 ай бұрын

@@user-up9jf1jq2wYou're just the ad hominem that he spoke about....it's poetic really. He explains behavior without judgement.

@Princessbubblegum567 4 ай бұрын

⁠literally how? He's not out here screaming on the internet like the mentally unstable alpha bros. He's always composed, collected, and objective in his content.

@Leoo117 4 ай бұрын

@@Princessbubblegum567It's not about his tone or his level of calm. It's his message. He is smart enough to know that being calm is how you come off like you know what you are talking about. The things he says though give no hope and is fully based in business and transactions. He basically thinks that emotions do not relate to relationships. He likely wasn't always of this opinion. This is likely due to him being emotionally hurt at some point. So instead of learning how he can take responsibility by making better choices and vet better, he decides to superficially protect his heart by deciding that relationships must all be superficial and that there are no genuine women on the planet that will actually like a man and will only like what he provides. That is having a bitter attitude toward women. He doesn't take feelings into consideration and that is something super important in order to have a good relationship. That is being cold and calculated. He even tries to convince women to basically forgo self-respect and to give it up before committing. That's basically begging a woman for sex, but in a more manipulative way because he is "calm" about it. If he were truly calm, he would address actual points like this instead of just saying that he makes people uncomfortable. It's a projection. He becomes uncomfortable when someone ruins his worldview by telling him that love is different than he thinks and good relationships are not superficial. This is not an ad-hominem attack by the way, because I am only addressing his viewpoints and perspectives. I'm not saying anything personally hurtful, but a person might FEEL like this is an ad hominem attack because it's explaining a truth that goes against long held and comfortable beliefs, which is why it might feel hurtful to some.

@anacorreia8058 3 ай бұрын

@@user-up9jf1jq2w You are poetry. You are irony. You are hilarious. All you did was an ad hominem, exactly what he predicted. We are all laughing at you

@josephkarogo-amethystinsur7247 4 ай бұрын

How you speak these uncomfortable truths while being so courteous and polite is a masterstroke in itself.

@pmaitrasm 4 ай бұрын

Congratulations Dr. Orion Tarraban. Those that are upset are thereby revealing a lot about themselves. Truth hurts and you are doing a stellar work of upholding the truth.

@andrewharris5281 4 ай бұрын

Keep Making your content! I love it.

@polemeros 4 ай бұрын

I know from 30 years experience in the field how utterly psychology is dominated by estrogen. I am amazed that this man got a degree and got licensed.

@LittleMew133 4 ай бұрын

Step 1. Apply Step 2. Take the course with mentor Step 3. Write good thesis and defend it Step 4. Get degree Step 5. Set up business with said degree Step 6. Set up KZfaq channel Let me know if you need clarifications due to low estrogen level.

@AssyTheNator 4 ай бұрын

Look at the fate of Jordan Peterson. This guy is smart to not go down the trans route as one it is pointless as their self sterilization benefits the human race and two it will get you canceled. Only them and the group Kanye talks about get you canceled.

@yuddinwarri6824 4 ай бұрын

Absolutely love this Doctor, teaching and giving advice to protect yourself, see through games and manipulation while encouraging you to put yourself first in a fair and just way while dealing with a partner. Therapist I had encouraged giving more and more power away and become more and more beta to appease the other party.

@davidmann1871 4 ай бұрын

The flak is heaviest when you are over the target.

@BWater-yq3jx Ай бұрын

Perfect. 👍

@DPMusicStudio 4 ай бұрын

Oh snap, son! Shots fired. He does a great job of giving one reason why he has haters... but there are probably MANY things he could have pointed to. Great video. Also... bonus points for dropping the word "obstreperously" into the video so casually.

@FivePointsVids 4 ай бұрын

Legit you have changed the course of my life. Thank You.

@MF_DOOMer 4 ай бұрын

Nice to see you here. How bout those Giants

@raghavhabib 4 ай бұрын

you are doing something right and that's triggering some people. Orion please continue posting...we are here to support you!

@JAdams-jx5ek 4 ай бұрын

Spot on. Clear and insightful.

@marcobonizzi6479 4 ай бұрын

Truth hurts, and these people base their own life around feelings. "If it hurts my feelings, then it must be bad"

@EntrepreneursInCars 4 ай бұрын

The truth sounds like hate, to those that hate the truth.

@psychacks 4 ай бұрын

That's a good line.

@dudejoe8390 4 ай бұрын

Dr. Orion Taraban continue guiding us through the Intergalactic Mind Fields.

@tomasdale5306 4 ай бұрын

through the dangerous interrelationship Mines Fields !!!!!

@Bigdej 4 ай бұрын

Bro just be collectively pleasantly & psychologically serving people up in the most understandable way 🤣

@lrt14174 4 ай бұрын

That means you are doing something right 🙂 Keep up the good work.

@Spice1_ 4 ай бұрын

Keep on producing do not listen to the haters. Science is priority

@J23_ 4 ай бұрын

two words: Truth hurts

@Dularc 4 ай бұрын

I have found your content immensely helpful and enlightening. Thank you for sharing your work.

@painter8237 4 ай бұрын

Doc you offer so much value to men in the world, keep it coming. I’ve found it difficult in the past to share “red pill” content with other men because of it often being too wordy, too harsh, or just too long to get to the gist of things. Your content has been a blessing because it’s short and to the point and not complex. Yes the truth is painful at times but you get right to it and offer the best perspective and applications. And as you say, the hater’s are usually the ones who feel threatened the most by the truth going mainstream. I believe in the coming years more and more men will become wise to these concepts and hopefully a huge shift of power in the society and the sexual marketplace specifically.

@drmatthewhorkey 4 ай бұрын

I personally LOVE your content. The way you articulate ideas smoothly demonstrates a high level of both academic and pragmatic understaning of the material. I cracked up when you said "most people are NOT very self aware..." LOL

@herbertfreeman8614 4 ай бұрын

You are definitely well sorted out and... Courageous to send this epusode on... The day of happy women ;-)

@connormeek3548 4 ай бұрын

I cant handle this doc. My dissapointment in women is immeasurable, and my life is ruined.

@artawhirler 4 ай бұрын

Those two things don't HAVE to go together. Find something to do with yourself that doesn't involve women, and you'll be just fine.

@FromInfinityTV 4 ай бұрын

You'll get over it. That's one of the 5 stages of grief as you navigate the Red Pill Rage. Eventually you'll land on indifference, and then you'll learn to laugh at the clown show. Keep your chin up man and focus on becoming excellent in all areas of your life.

@SkillfulHuntsman 4 ай бұрын

@@FromInfinityTV Exactly! He should watch the video of Orion’s response to the red pill. It will help him greatly.

@RedERscrubs 4 ай бұрын

Stand strong. You aren’t the only one who has experienced the feelings you now feel. We all have-look at it as one of the stages we all go through which lead to the awakening. I remember feeling so…CHEATED…& mad at not only the women, but also everyone who had EVER told me all of the bullshit I once believed about them…it was truly embarrassing…but the realization came that at the end of the day, the only person that I could TRULY blame-was myself. We’ve all been there…and can empathize with your current state of mind. However…it DOES get better…with more information, the pain eventually subsides…but until that time comes, concentrate on YOU. Whether you decide to take a break from women or not, identify the changes YOU need to make to become YOUR best self. When the pain subsides and you’re armed with the knowledge about women, their behaviors and your worth, BELIEVE ME that you’ll be able to enjoy their company once again. Best of luck to you.

@sammyb1651 4 ай бұрын

As others have said, you're not alone in this. Albeit the knowledge is earth shattering-it doesn't actually affect the one key thing that needs to be in place for a decent relationship. The woman HAS to be able to value and appreciate male company for it's own sake. All off the red pill knowledge/blue pill ignorance is secondary to this. Meaning you could be a completely self maximised red piller or a totally oblivious "high value" blue piller....you will still end up in a miserable relationship if the woman can't recognise a goodness in your personhood outside of serving her own needs. Irrespective of what other "value" you bring to her life. I believe most women can't do this, sadly. That's my experience anyway. And it's one of profound sadness. However it does allow you to value the few who can in a whole new way and this in turn can help to offset red pill despair somewhat. Don't get me wrong, ALL of the learned red pill knowledge must still be applied to them, but I think in realising the rarity of them possessing that one quality you can begin to build something meaningful that is reconcilable with your own sense of self respect and self worth. Remember, red pillers will self maximise to the moon and blue pillers will do the same, (just less consciously).They'll BOTH still end up miserable if the woman is simply unable to appreciate male company for it's own sake. You would have found this out one day in a state of blue pill ignorance or in a state of red pill awareness. It wouldn't have mattered.

@jeroen2644 4 ай бұрын

“Before you continue”; never ever stop spreading your words of wisdom. They are very insightfull and help people understand social dynamics between the genders.

@gregdroid1969 4 ай бұрын

People don't like looking into the mirror and facing the truth. So they get angry at the messenger. Keep up the great content.

@jn3750 4 ай бұрын

Taraban, I love your content. Just ignore the haters. Academic economist.

@fredcraven1699 4 ай бұрын

Because they're super stressed out and it's the nail that broke the camel's back bone

@jnb3451 4 ай бұрын

The straw* lol

@ibubezi7685 4 ай бұрын

@@jnb3451 The nail that broke the last coffin on the camel's back 😂

@samiamgreeneggsandham7587 4 ай бұрын

Joseph R. Biden has entered the chat.

@theevolutionofthebear3093 4 ай бұрын

@@jnb3451 the straw that stroked the cammel's sac

@marcobonizzi6479 4 ай бұрын

Recent rising in Red Pill content has made older women and simps more bitter than usual. That's because truth hurts and these people would rather end themselves than admitting they're wrong.

@eileenmcgovern9193 4 ай бұрын

What is a simp?

@dudleyviban2764 4 ай бұрын

@@eileenmcgovern9193 a simp is basically a sycophant, someone who excessively seeks favour from others (particularly women), often going to the extent of sacrificing self-respect or enduring humiliation in the process.

@shinymew2887 4 ай бұрын

It’s true, and not even scary anymore. It’s just annoying asf at this point.

@graham167 4 ай бұрын

@@eileenmcgovern9193the crude but accurate definition: SIMP = Sucker Idolizing Mediocre 🐈

@IreneCampos-tk2vd 4 ай бұрын

I think it's moreso the millenial women who prefer men to be moldable and foldable

@HBeretta 4 ай бұрын

Your content is extraordinary and look forward to the weekly drops.

@buddahb9719 4 ай бұрын

Dude, we thank you for your efforts and concise wisdom.

@chillaxer8273 4 ай бұрын

People will hate you either way, might aswell be honest abd true to yourself

@arthurmolina7893 4 ай бұрын

Orion, this episode definitely had to be one of the most impactful of all, because of how important this awareness + understanding is, to the greater focus of your work. I finally have a video that I can use to introduce those in my life to the wisdom of your channel as I’ve shared many episodes to be met with indifference + distaste. Through this channel I’ve actually not only been able to heal my own personal wounds with masculinity + leading my own relationship (after moving-in but unmarried) to now being aware that I’ve always felt that something “missing” in the relationship, and I know had the clarity to end the relationship amicably + respectfully. As a continued supporter, you are truly doing amazing work for men, which in-turn benefits women overall. Much love, -Art

@teddybeer6206 4 ай бұрын

If the tables were turned and those videos were in their favor, those haters wouldn't give a shred of a f*ck about offending you and would tell you to "cope". Keep fighting the good fight, sir!

@cedricnicholson7446 3 ай бұрын

I do executive and life coaching and I like your channel because you break things down in simplified terms for your listeners. You don’t dismiss the other side of the conversation, you actually do a really great job of addressing it. The reason why haters will come at you is because their arguments don’t hold any weight and if it’s other content creators hating then it’s because you’re more credible than them. All the talking points are similar but being able to communicate it effectively makes the difference in your audience and the ability to get beyond KZfaq onto mainstream media. They will never understand it’s not just what you say it but how you say it that will hold people’s attention. Keep up the good work bro👊🏾

@sgbawg0 4 ай бұрын

Your content is pure gold. Keep it coming.

@ash-shakirwhitaker7008 4 ай бұрын

"If you spot it, you got it." -The Law Of Projection -

@tmmartinesq.6216 4 ай бұрын

I don't always agree with Dr. Taraben, however I enjoy listening to his views. Dr. Taraban makes me think. He makes me consider. Fascinating!

@hellmanksingh7967 4 ай бұрын

True. Its hurts at times but that’s how it is. Thank you 🙏

@larryl.7017 4 ай бұрын

Once again right on point, Orion. "Liability" doesn't quite capture the financial and often emotional impact that an older woman can have on a man. That said, being a single high value man at 58 is amazing! Your work and the work of others like you (many of them women who actually get it) is being noticed. PLEASE keep bringing your message to others!

@FakeNatty 4 ай бұрын

My older female therapist had a very pronounced emotional objection to the ideas presented on this channel

@artawhirler 4 ай бұрын

Hopefully you fired her. 😅

@zacklewis342 4 ай бұрын

Court appointed or a euphemism for your mom?

@brianmeen2158 4 ай бұрын

You had your female therapist watch this channel?

@alteroxx 4 ай бұрын

im so lucky to be young and considered very attractive according to our modern beauty standards... specially since i'm trans it would be a tough life if people didn't like the way I looked... men treat pretty women like angels.

@MeidoInHebun 4 ай бұрын

You can't provide children. And as you get older your male biological features will become more and more apparent. You're in for a rough time if you want anything more than to be an object for fun for men.

@benwilliams4821 4 ай бұрын

Dude doesn’t miss. Ever.

@jeran881 4 ай бұрын

I don't wish to be treated like a product and I don't wish to treat humas as things one can toss away when they are no longer useful.

@thinman8621 4 ай бұрын

Older guy here whose wife died. Have dated a little. Women who are still attractive past 50 tend to be those who were once hot. Tough pill to swallow as they realize how much their value has declined. A 40 year old 6 who has kept herself trim is more attractive than most former 8's and 9's that are past 55. Plus, the 6x was not weaned on how she should be spoiled as were the 8's and 9's. In short, a trim 5 or 6 is way more attractive than a former 8 or 9 (who often have let themselves become fat).

@katkat6789 2 ай бұрын

And what do you look like and how do you rate yourself?

@lb2696 2 ай бұрын

@@katkat6789guarantee he’s like a 4. They always are.

@NiWhomPing 25 күн бұрын

Your comment has merit, but appears to triggers those who have trouble accepting the concept presented in the video.

@armorbearer9702 4 ай бұрын

Basically, some people do not want to confront the dark parts of their personality.

@azirious666 4 ай бұрын

Witch trials and space goats in a nutshell

@marquisdesade6191 4 ай бұрын

It's nice when someone like you presents a smarter way of looking at things that one chooses to accept, not so nice when that acceptance would shatter their ideas to the downside.

@blurglide 4 ай бұрын

I call people out on this. When they ignore the points I'm making and try to attack me, I just say point out that fact and tell them that I accept their capitulation.

@wimsylogic65 4 ай бұрын

I find that so fascinating that So many people have little to no self-awareness. How?

@artawhirler 4 ай бұрын

They have no time for self-reflection because they are constantly staring at their stupid phones. That's why.

@datvik7187 4 ай бұрын

Because there are a lot of dumb people out there. A LOT.

@Tushar_Talwar_09 4 ай бұрын

@@artawhirler Lmao you must be a boomer. "It's because of that damn phone".

@giacomoleopardi5776 4 ай бұрын

100% True... Old Woman comes also with a Attitude with no Worth

@alejandrorocha3666 4 ай бұрын

well, that means you are telling the truth. Keep moving on!!

@kev2582 2 ай бұрын

Brutally truthful and humbling

@loryjones7220 4 ай бұрын

As a 60 something woman and feminist, I don't take offense to your videos--yet. You speak truth in a lot of ways and I appreciate your wisdom.

@latinaalma1947 4 ай бұрын

Yes very true. Another senior female...

@KobraSnake0813 4 ай бұрын

Alittle astounded by this.

@loryjones7220 4 ай бұрын

@@KobraSnake0813 We do exist.

@mann8098 4 ай бұрын

@@loryjones7220but why do keep being a female Supremacist? (Feminist). The truth hasn't fully sunk in. But you are at least realizing some things. Which is better than most of your kind (feminist). No offense.

@kurtvanluven9351 4 ай бұрын

@@loryjones7220 The ability to take on new information and incorporate it is rare and a positive thing. Thank you.

@the_eerie_faerie_tales 4 ай бұрын

I'm a lady of "older years" and love your content. We aren't all crabby cakes, I promise. 😉

@yamafanboy 4 ай бұрын

from the moment i read this comment I knew she was hot

@MeidoInHebun 4 ай бұрын

@@yamafanboy Haha

@jaketracy8225 4 ай бұрын

That was the most eloquent "got em" I have ever beared witness too

@user-px5bs6qi5s 4 ай бұрын

Dr Orion, you always nail your thing...thanks again for the good stuff

@dudleyviban2764 4 ай бұрын

Keeping people in the dark is a profitable business for some. Revealing truths is a threat to them and their agendas.

@advhawk6455 4 ай бұрын

*THIS* is why I'm subbed. Solid gold.

@lsporter88 4 ай бұрын

You are of course right about this. Great video.

@jacobreis3861 4 ай бұрын

Well said. Your work is extremely helpful and based on reality.

@pnketia 4 ай бұрын

The truth hurts and many people cannot handle it especially modern day western women who are not use to personal accountability!

@heydude696969 4 ай бұрын

Mic drop for Dr. Orion.

@Krotus235 4 ай бұрын

I think your content is very informative and useful. Thank you for sharing the knowledge!

@user-gt6vt3gg6s 4 ай бұрын

Omg I love your content! Sometimes not what I want to hear but definitely what I need to know!💕

@geemail369 4 ай бұрын

This is just _great!_ 😂 I sense a WAVE of rage-induced spelling mistakes is about to hit the comment section! 🤓

@Lily4444 4 ай бұрын

😂😂

@janeentumbao8690 4 ай бұрын

As a moderately attractive woman who is almost 50, I love ya! And not that creepy stalker kind. 😂 Just a side note... That chair that's half on the bare floor, either put all legs on the carpet or all on the bare floor. That's an accident waiting to happen! 😂😂😂😂