Why Would He Invite Her To His BED Within Minutes Of Meeting Her?

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Why Would He Invite Her To His BED Within Minutes Of Meeting Her?

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@brookealicia92 7 ай бұрын

As a woman if you carry yourself with pride and respect, most males will call you boring and prude. Let the rejection be your protection ladies.

@apimpnamedslickback2741 7 ай бұрын

Why you care about most men? All you need is one. Find a man who don't view someone with respect to be boring. Too much pride is a sin.

@brookealicia92 7 ай бұрын

@@apimpnamedslickback2741 I’m not concerned about any male. I’m addressing women so you can move right along.

@hellothere8347 7 ай бұрын

@@brookealicia92girl it’s like when your making a general statement they think you talking about your situation 😂

@apimpnamedslickback2741 7 ай бұрын

@@brookealicia92 Well now I have to assume you didn't do Comprehension in school; because your first comment clearly contradicts the first line on your second comment. Now you just look like another bitter hurt sad depressed women. Don't worry though; Listening to Angry Biracial Reacts is definitely gonna make you feel better. I hope you get the help you deserve. I LOVE YOU.

@ayanadavis9449 7 ай бұрын

Absolutely. As someone who dressed immodestly for years who now dresses with dignity and self respect, I receive a LOT less attention from men. However, I learned that all attention is not good attention. It’s much better to have quality over quantity.🙌🏽🙏🏾

@salsalee4322 7 ай бұрын

"Sexual attention is not real attention." This is gold for all women ❤

@belleame4671 7 ай бұрын

It's degrading and demanding...but women showcase themselves like this... It's distasteful

@FIREcrochethairstyles 7 ай бұрын

I had to pause and really let that sink in.

@shecreates365 7 ай бұрын

Amen

@salonegal4024 7 ай бұрын

Yes a lot of us women confuse lust and love

@shecreates365 7 ай бұрын

@@salonegal4024 yep

@stefblanco3887 7 ай бұрын

Why is she acting surprised at his answers?

@kalimbaayinde25 7 ай бұрын

Exactly 😂😂😂

@camilleb5724 7 ай бұрын

Right 😂

@shauntikayvette 7 ай бұрын

Because people aren’t logical and delusional. She wants to dress like an actual street walker and be treated like a serious lady.

@chinaking918 7 ай бұрын

@@shauntikayvettelisten I’m usually not the type to police how women dress but wtf do she got on? Like is that what’s fashionable now? 🤢🫣

@shanellem6310 7 ай бұрын

I don't know. S*x is what she's advertising, right?

@amberotl5276 7 ай бұрын

I ain't never seen a queen that was underdressed. The less clothes you have on, the cheaper you look. I make it a point to be clothed, feminine, and fashionable. I want men to like me without looking at my body. I don't want to be lusted after. I want genuine love, and to be cared for like a flower.

@camilleb5724 7 ай бұрын

Exactly! Cheap and tacky

@salsalee4322 7 ай бұрын

This 🥺💕

@amberg4131 6 ай бұрын

Love how she’s like “Am I selling sex to you?” As the top half of her ass is hanging out her jeans. b:tch pull them up

@trinaallen4248 5 ай бұрын

Yes, for sure!

@Thatout_sider 7 ай бұрын

She said she respects herself. 🤦🏾‍♀️ I'm embarrassed for her.

@MRLX54 7 ай бұрын

Wants to be taken seriously but looks like she about to buss it open.

@shauntikayvette 7 ай бұрын

Saying with her mouth she respect herself while asking strangers are they taking her shopping 😮

@rosejames5172 7 ай бұрын

It's time to call these women Pookiesha and separate from them..Majority of bw aren't walking around in a bathing suit with their pants unzipped. I have never seen anyone dress like that. And the pookie who wants to take her home immediately is no better. Pookie and pookiesha are perfect for each other.

@ChannelFiend 7 ай бұрын

If that's respect, I would hate to see what disrespect looks like. Or maybe not.I bet her disrespect for self means that she's covered up (dressing modestly), not showing any of her assets and personality.

@ShaynieB 7 ай бұрын

Facts. Because there is no way she respects herself dressed like that. I wish this dude would have thoroughly answered her question and told her why he only sees her that way. Dudes are scared to tell the truth.

@UniquelyVickie 7 ай бұрын

She looks like she's getting ready to use the bathroom 🚻

@ReneeLoves 7 ай бұрын

😂 right!!

@user-wq8uc1gj5v 6 ай бұрын

😂

@katleho-annkk8378 6 ай бұрын

😂😂

@lordodinfatheroftheazier699 6 ай бұрын

Why are you attacking the black sisterhood

@ranip7644 5 ай бұрын

I cannot 😅😂

@consciousgoddess_ 7 ай бұрын

Modesty over thotesty

@nicolcacola 7 ай бұрын

Thotesty 😭😂

@brookealicia92 7 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@misscuronda1665 7 ай бұрын

🎯

@brooklynwatsontv 6 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@SoftLifeCredit 6 ай бұрын

With a 34% Marraige rate perpetuated by Black Men. They are not coming to save you in the comments.

@shauntikayvette 7 ай бұрын

People aren’t logical and delusional. She wants to dress like an actual street walker and be treated like a serious lady.

@terimcintyre6288 7 ай бұрын

I saw her outfit and immediately was like, no ma'am. Lol

@thesheeark2818 7 ай бұрын

Our ancestors did not do advanced social behavior while being scantily clad for you to have the social skills of a dog at the sight of a pretty lady.

@pecansdg 7 ай бұрын

And this is why dating is hard for people with common sense and standards because the culture has become saturated with foolishness. Now people with morals are hard to find because they are one in a million.

@charlottekalz7293 7 ай бұрын

!!!!

@mizzmee1976 7 ай бұрын

‼️

@pratkier 7 ай бұрын

Yeah that's true

@jasminehouston-burns1691 7 ай бұрын

This is clearly a ratchet black dating show. I've seen the Jubilee's but it never even dawned on me there could be "a black" one, but this is it.

@Veracityseeker7 7 ай бұрын

This is exactly why I'm a cat lady😂

@kittah1111 7 ай бұрын

Lust...., he WANTS her but doesn't want her

@blessingsnyder9793 7 ай бұрын

💯💯💯

@mikikiki 7 ай бұрын

I mean. Half her butt is outta her pants 😂

@apimpnamedslickback2741 7 ай бұрын

Why would he want her though? And if it was reversed why would she want him?

@blessingsnyder9793 7 ай бұрын

To have quick sex, but not a real relationship

@Opinions-galore24 6 ай бұрын

Precisely - her fault though.

@qesther1241 7 ай бұрын

The women and girls who act and dress conservatively and average are often pushed aside. And if you don’t want to have sex until you marry or at least in a serious monogamous relationship they count you out, which is the best way to vet them.

@quintonmaldonado8368 7 ай бұрын

Pushed aside by bozos that make women permanent baby mamas. Consider it a blessing.

@lilsstrunks 7 ай бұрын

no, they are married. This is definitely not the case, but women don't look into anything that's not in front of them so yeah

@SagittariusQueen1980 7 ай бұрын

The way she was dressing, especially with half of her butt was exposed, she wasn't going to be taken seriously. She's just fun to those guys, she's not going to be introduced to his friends and his family. We have to be better than this.

@bronz7053 7 ай бұрын

she's thinking she's going to get a five star dinner date ??😮 dressed as a tramp.

@lisatryme3518 7 ай бұрын

By the same token any woman watching him should be on their P’s and Q’s. The fact that he wanted to immediately take her to his home (or home) without knowing anything about her, is a major red flag. A woman should be extremely careful dating or even marrying a man like him.

@Quinn_M97 7 ай бұрын

@@lisatryme3518 hook up culture is a lot more common than people that and I’m starting to see that

@rosejames5172 7 ай бұрын

Who is 'we' it's time to call these women Pookiesha and separate from them..Majority of blc women aren't walking around in a bathing suit with their pants unzipped. I have never seen anyone dress like that. And the pookie who wants to take her home immediately is no better. Pookie and pookiesha is a match made in hell.

@CupcakeBeauty24 7 ай бұрын

@@lisatryme3518 Exactly, no std testing or nothing 😢

@rejavenated 7 ай бұрын

It’s like wearing a police uniform and then feeling disrespected when people ask you to stop a crime.

@dahliaherrod4301 7 ай бұрын

Alright Dave Chappelle 😂

@cocoblessings 7 ай бұрын

That's funny!😂

@sixteen.candles.4644 7 ай бұрын

Dead asf😂

@laneesha1000 6 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@zolabison2744 6 ай бұрын

Yep. He took a page 😂😂😂😂@@dahliaherrod4301

@catlady3024 7 ай бұрын

It’s easier to catch a man’s eye than a man’s heart, especially those in their 20s

@Veracityseeker7 7 ай бұрын

It's the older men too. This is nothing new. I have men in there '70s breaking her next looking at me, despite the fact that I dressed modestly. P*** ruined everything.

@joyceg7859 7 ай бұрын

!!!!!!

@cocoblessings 7 ай бұрын

Very true! Men are esthetic creatures.

@shennarice5749 4 ай бұрын

Yep

@genovasquez8361 2 ай бұрын

I'm 47 and for me it's visual first

@Africasfinest21 7 ай бұрын

Dress how you want to be addressed. Full stop!

@PrettyBones-ho4rq 2 ай бұрын

True, but don’t be surprised or get upset when you get disrespected and treated like a Thot🤷🏽‍♀️

@PrettyBones-ho4rq 2 ай бұрын

True, but don’t be surprised or get upset when you get disrespected and treated like a Thot🤷🏽‍♀️

@lashellpierre 7 ай бұрын

I cannot believe this woman is walking around with that on! I am horrified.

@phathuasante 7 ай бұрын

This must be a joke

@CreolePearls_ 7 ай бұрын

Very disturbing fr

@LedePat 6 ай бұрын

Exactly the outfit is SCARY, I'm actually afraid if her outfit

@MethodiousMind 6 ай бұрын

I’m still trying to figure out what she’s wearing. It looks like jeans that don’t fit over a lingerie teddy.

@catharsismemory 7 ай бұрын

And why are the cheeks out..girl what are you doing lol

@ranip7644 5 ай бұрын

Somebody needs to come get their daughter for real 😅

@unaestheticarri6487 2 ай бұрын

I’m so confused by that lmao, like it looks like she was in the middle of going the bathroom and they called her out on the floor and she didn’t fix herself and ran out💀 like girl just pull the pants up lol

@CortneeD18 7 ай бұрын

What did she expected? Girl, the top you got on is why he wasn’t going to take you seriously. Being comfortable in the skin you’re in doesn’t mean you have to reveal all parts of your body.

@janelleguild3866 7 ай бұрын

I am married now, but I did have guys ask me sexual questions through text when I was single and I did not dress inappropriately. However, I will say she really didn’t help herself with the way she dressed in this video.

@LedePat 6 ай бұрын

Same here, most of these dudes need to be schooled too, O dress pretty modest and get unwarranted disrespectful cat calls or comments. Sometimes a weird male is just a weird male

@adithalee8660 2 ай бұрын

@@LedePat You can dress like a nun and have the dress all to the floor and they will do cat calls and talk about taking you to a hotel immediately. So it's not always the so called dress. Men just have issues.

@stitchinggoods774 7 ай бұрын

No girl in her right mind would think 😂this is appropriate for a serious relationship 😂

@CourtneeMoon 7 ай бұрын

Is she serious?? She can’t be serious.

@1SwiftAngela 6 ай бұрын

Can’t be 🥹

@Bells_Ville 5 ай бұрын

I was thinking the same thing. It’s like we’re being trolled😂

@shennarice5749 4 ай бұрын

@@Bells_Ville😂😂😂

@Khumzwi 7 ай бұрын

It’s so difficult to date nowadays. I’ve talked to guys whom I’m interested in asking me to come to their house as a first date. No shame. No embarrassment. No decency. I’ve met men who asked me if I live alone right after I’ve introduced myself. They want to find out if they can come to my house and do sinful acts w/out anyone knowing because they probably have their own family where they live. We live in an era where sexual liberation means I can sleep w/ 5 women/men a day and still find a wife/husband outta those people once I feel I’ve slept around with enough people.🤯🤯🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️ How, Sway? How???!! It’s like debauchery is an attribute.

@cocoblessings 7 ай бұрын

Unfortunately, a lot of older people tell younger people to date & sleep with many people to figure out who they are and what they want in the long term mate. Our society has digressed so much. So tragic & alarming.

@matsumi6554 7 ай бұрын

This happens to me all the time and NOTHING about me looks like this. Particularly from black men. Some of them don’t even ask my name. I could be in my wearing business, business casual, a dress, or sweatpants and a t-shirt: they’ll come at you sideways because that’s what the culture is telling them do.

@Khumzwi 7 ай бұрын

@@cocoblessings this is so disheartening.

@Khumzwi 7 ай бұрын

@@matsumi6554 I think they see us as 'ladies in the streets, but freaks in the bedroom'.That was a trend for a while. Many women are making it harder for some of us to pick out decent men. Men know that if we say 'no' they don't have to do anything after that. They'll just go to another woman to try their luck there. I'm one of 2 friends in our group who's still very single. No prospects, no child, no goldfish. It gets lonely at times. Men like the fact that they no longer have to court. A simple 'Hi, wanna go to my place?', will suffice.

@shaypope4732 7 ай бұрын

@@cocoblessingsIDK of any older women saying anything like this it's mainly men who try to say bs like that cause they want access to women without doing anything to earn it

@IK_4 7 ай бұрын

I am so glad I'm 45 years old. I can't imagine being young in today's world 😢

@sixteen.candles.4644 7 ай бұрын

Im saying.

@w.c.c.b.9798 6 ай бұрын

Oh, they’re plenty of 40+ women running around her practically naked for attention AND twerking! ☹️

@MsLotusBlooms 2 ай бұрын

I am too.

@octaviawilliams3159 Ай бұрын

You have some 50 year olds that act like this. I work with a 50 year old woman that dresses like she's 21. lol

@IK_4 Ай бұрын

@@octaviawilliams3159 Regardless of how she dresses, she has a lot more life experience than a 21 year old.

@joyceg7859 7 ай бұрын

Nobody want they precious little baby girl to present themselves like this. This is so sad. Maybe she was never anybody’s precious baby girl because if she was she would never throw herself to the wolves like this.

@rejectionisprotection4448 7 ай бұрын

Preach.💯💯💯💯💯

@Selenaelena-ge6dk 2 ай бұрын

Exactly. You gotta be in a pretty bad place to be basically screaming "SOMEONE ANYONE PLEASE TALK TO ME! CURSE AT ME! IDK ANYTHING IS BETTER THEN NOTHINGNESS!" with half your damn clothes on that poor lady. And dudes in the comments are all "that's for fun" like using a lonely desperate person as a blowup doll because they're so low on the inside isn't degenerate gross behavior.

@Itzyhani 7 ай бұрын

So you’re dressed in lingerie for the bedroom and get mad when someone wants to take you to the bedroom? The confusion. If I was him I would have said “Next! The company MISSION doesn’t match the PRODUCT you’re selling or showing. “

@Tel934 7 ай бұрын

Whyyyyyy is this considered “dating” tho? HOW???

@Quinn_M97 7 ай бұрын

Idk I hate this “dating” KZfaq videos. Especially the ones that are like “20 girls and 1 guy”. These videos are so degrading to women but unfortunately they are doing this to themselves.

@shy_donut8307 7 ай бұрын

This is the truth a lot of women don’t want to admit today. Unfortunately, the way you present yourself and dress will affect how men view you. There are ways to be sexy while dressing modestly! Although I do feel that sometimes what you wear doesn’t matter and a guy will undress you with his eyes anyway :/

@rockmyles7410 7 ай бұрын

She was treated how she was dressed. If you dress like a mailman then people perceive you as a mailman. If you dress like a mechanic people perceive you as a mechanic and if you dress like a street walking heaux then you have your answer.

@j_s552 7 ай бұрын

Listen, even dressings modestly, men who are battling with lust will remain lustful. That’s a you problem if you lustful. I dress respectful, but the amount of men who only focus on sex Is the problem

@llrr4265 Ай бұрын

She thinks she's dressed respectfully as well.

@Itsjustcazzata 7 ай бұрын

But then people that present themselves this will say “they’re just comfortable with their body.” They literally have no clue that it’s nothing but insecurity… trust me I was one of them once. I never dressed THIS provocative but I did to some extent and was surprised that no one respected me.

@jasminehouston-burns1691 7 ай бұрын

I did to some extent as well. I think it's just lying to yourself by claiming the exact opposite of the truth with sex.

@marshamarshamarshmallow 7 ай бұрын

Yeah, as a younger woman, I too was one of them. It didn’t feel good deep down. And now, I can’t fathom walking around like this. Sometimes wisdom comes with age. Sometimes it does not.

@hellothere8347 7 ай бұрын

I think we all have but we live and we learn but ain never go out like that tho. Whole booty out is crazyyy

@ayanadavis9449 7 ай бұрын

Same 🤦🏽‍♀️ the truth of the matter is you are judged based off of outer appearance before anything. No matter how good your intentions may be.

@VettaBoop 7 ай бұрын

@@hellothere8347 The WHOLE booty though. That's a shame 🤦🏾‍♀️

@AngieBBaby 7 ай бұрын

She definitely has to work on herself before she's dating. I appreciate you making the video and let's get to the ROOT TO WHY SHE'S 😢 DRESSING FOR NEGATIVE ATTENTION. ALL YOUNG LADIES AREN'T HOES. JUST LOST

@ELamy802 7 ай бұрын

This ❤

@Keana43 7 ай бұрын

I just feel sorry for these young girls. Because the culture makes them think this is what works. They are the same ones saying they want love and gonna keep choosing the same dudes but in different bodies.

@mssheena24 7 ай бұрын

💯💯💯

@starbabylight7879 7 ай бұрын

Men glorified the stripper culture thru songs and Men wifing them up. So while some women are living emulating the lifestyle, those same celebrity women who got wifed up, are still being cheated on and being disrespected publicly thru social media....now Men want to drag women for the same thing they glorified, threw money at, paying for their bodies to get done bcuz of lust. Go figure....it's weird af out here.

@MsLotusBlooms 2 ай бұрын

The world has told them they are junk goods. They believe it.

@blueorchid2467 7 ай бұрын

"I have mad respect for my self".....says the person with half her beehind out...cmon sis...

@kendradamm1428 7 ай бұрын

You’re doing the Lords work here. A lot of women don’t understand this about men and their attention, because their fathers were absent or inattentive. This is a very important lesson for all women. 🙏🏻💯

@Ladybug-no9sc 7 ай бұрын

There is No lack of understanding, there is a lack of self esteem. A Father being in the home is good but an active Father is better, Father's need to pay more attention to their child's insecurities and how they manifest. Women who dress overtly sexual usually feel like they don't have anything else going for themselves.

@sunkissedarkandainty01 7 ай бұрын

How you dress is how you will be addressed 🤷🏽‍♀️

@2s3s4s5s9s 7 ай бұрын

Its so appalling to see those of our women who have no decorum. My parents wouldnt allow it as a child and I would not disgrace them by exposing myself in adulthood. What she has on is horrible.

@rosejames5172 7 ай бұрын

The pookieshas have always dress like that and they will continue to do so. There are millions of blc women who would never dress like that.

@stefblanco3887 7 ай бұрын

Her price is far above rubies… Proverbs 31:10

@meekbeing 7 ай бұрын

Hey...Beloved, I say this with respect and thoughtfulness... I must say that the verse you posted contextually doesn't apply to the woman presented/represented in this video.

@deborahjevans7829 2 ай бұрын

Mr. Shumake had asked in the video what the verse was. I think that's why she shared it, not in reference to the young woman.

@nailahdawkins 7 ай бұрын

Based on how she's dressed _alone_ within the first 5 seconds I even saw that clip, she should have KNOWN he's not gonna view you higher than a lady of the night... He's not taking you to meet his parents girl 🤦🏾‍♀️. Get some self-respect, self-esteem, and raise your self-worth! Also, she nor he should even be focused on sex/lust. That should be the furthest from their minds if they had any sense 💯.

@FeliciaStands 6 ай бұрын

Exactly she could’ve had on a fitted dress over lingerie and saggy jeans

@BlushingRoseDiaries 7 ай бұрын

Why does she have to wear clothing that is so revealing? I can’t totally fault the man because her clothing says a lot. Dress more respectable if you want to garner respect sis 🤦🏽‍♀️

@thezu9250 7 ай бұрын

It doesn’t matter how you dress. If you dress conservative they still talk to you like that.

@neen8369 7 ай бұрын

People should stop enabling treating people poorly just bc of the way you perceive them to dress….. that’s like saying she’s dressed like that so she deserves SA or 🍇……. He doesn’t have to see her as his future wife but everyone should get respect no matter how they choose to dress. Y’all enable men like this. Be fr. Men disrespect modest women every day. Women in hijabs and all skin covered get beat up and SA’d every day…….

@locobielsa8646 2 ай бұрын

@@thezu9250so u trynna say that she should keep dressing like a pr0st1tut3 just because some men will speak like that to women who dress conservatively?

@sexymama1966 7 ай бұрын

Not a safe situation to be in. One or both things can happen to her and none of them are good.

@danahgray3210 7 ай бұрын

Zac

@catharsismemory 7 ай бұрын

Girl is that a swimsuit, what's going on here?

@joyceg7859 7 ай бұрын

Right ! Either way it’s out of place. I hope she grows from this

@robingarrett7252 7 ай бұрын

🙏🏾 for the lost generation. No judgement at all!! Do better ladies.

@timeshamoore4191 7 ай бұрын

Im sure a lot of the responses are aimed at her because of her reaction(s) but I'd also like to add that men shouldn't have sex with woman they dont see themselves with. Imagine he has sex with her and impregnates her. I don't know this woman's character to say if she will or won't be a good parent but he obviously doesn't think so but quick to put her in the position to make her a mother.

@goldensage5766 7 ай бұрын

That outfit is just goofy

@terri4081 7 ай бұрын

From the looks of her clothing, she doesn’t have much respect for herself

@her8923 7 ай бұрын

Melanated ladies modesty a beg! Your worth so much more

@rosejames5172 7 ай бұрын

The pookieshas are always going to dress like this and there is not much you can do. There are million of melanated ladies who do not dress like this.

@pratkier 7 ай бұрын

You really are like my Internet big brother, having talks and giving me advice etc. Im glad you're doing this channel, a lot of people need the advice you're giving and you're reading it straight out of the bible. I also, admire how you dont make yourself the end all be all for this type of advice and you encourage people to start their own journey with God

@bronz7053 7 ай бұрын

God bless your journey

@pratkier 7 ай бұрын

@@bronz7053 and yours as well ❤️

@FIREcrochethairstyles 7 ай бұрын

Same

@cuiet16 7 ай бұрын

What in the actual…. Is she wearingggg?!?!?! Giirrlll whyyyy???? 😳

@Leydo773 7 ай бұрын

She’s has got to be trolling 🤦🏾‍♀️

@fluffysox6072 6 ай бұрын

Your daughters are so lucky to have you!! They’re set up to experience the best of what life has to offer with you and your wife’s guidance. Blessings to all of you!

@jasmnethorpe8887 7 ай бұрын

The problem w this conversation is that disrespectful men WILL DISRESPECT YOU no matter what you wear or how you present yourself You can have on a sack cloth and someone somewhere wants to know what's under there

@caressaclark1042 7 ай бұрын

You're absolutely right. And there is also truth to what is said in the video. I am treated drastically different depending on how i am dressed, whether or not I wear makeup, and ESPECIALLY how my hair is styled. It's the difference between a man offering a woman McDonald's, versus the best steakhouse in town.❤

@LGJiG 7 ай бұрын

Generally disrespectful men won’t pay modest women no mind. There are lots of women in public dressed to be seen like this. They will look right past you to entertain that if that’s all he’s interested in. Modesty is really protection for women.

@alicia_nicole 7 ай бұрын

@caressaclark1042 can you elaborate on the hairstyle types? I'm assuming straight long hair will get the best treatment?

@Rosemary46840 7 ай бұрын

Hes not disrespectful tho for trying to get sex when she's literally asking for it

@shauntikayvette 7 ай бұрын

The problem is this logic. If you are dressed identical to a street walker, it is not surprising when you attract John’s and undesirable attention.

@Pip4748 7 ай бұрын

Well, if you're not selling, don't advertise. He told the truth, and now she is upset. In a few years after she's ran thru, then she'll ask... where are all the good men? Running away from you! 😂

@611mellissa 7 ай бұрын

I'm so thankful that my dad raised me and that I had so many uncles. They made sure we understood the message we sent determined the reactions we received. Don't get me wrong. Some of these guys act like dogs in heat regardless. You can have on a church missionary outfit and they still want you like that 😂. But mostly they assume based on what you show them.

@stefblanco3887 7 ай бұрын

Maybe she was thinking The Cheesecake Factory 🤣🤣

@angelaabron3080 7 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@nicolcacola 7 ай бұрын

She giving MickeyDs energy tho 😂

@FruiteeK 7 ай бұрын

Ughhh mam what do you mean, you have your entire beehind out!!!! 😂😂 duh cmon man

@rainetravels1410 7 ай бұрын

People will still "try" you😊even when of good moral character and dress

@dahliaherrod4301 7 ай бұрын

I can tell she normally doesn't dress like that and she's uncomfortable because she's got both arms in front of her. She's not comfortable displaying her body like this but will do it to get the attention she thinks she wants.

@alwaysaccurate8725 7 ай бұрын

Teen mom here will be showing her this video, 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾😍

@joyceg7859 7 ай бұрын

!!!!!!!!

@jasminepoteat4799 7 ай бұрын

She proceeded to ask why he wanted to take her to the house after he already told her. She also lacks listening skills.

@lesley5380 7 ай бұрын

And clothes 😂

@gogoldiego 7 ай бұрын

Some people are mingling in society with serious disorders and mental illnesses.

@sixteen.candles.4644 7 ай бұрын

This the comment right here.

@Melissa-fm9bx 7 ай бұрын

I’m 2nd hand embarrassment.. as a black woman. 🤦🏾‍♀️

@rosejames5172 7 ай бұрын

the Pookieshas will continue to dress like this . there are millions of bw who don't dress like that.

@MsLotusBlooms 2 ай бұрын

@@rosejames5172 Black women just continue to take Ls.

@rosejames5172 2 ай бұрын

@@MsLotusBlooms So will you.

@rejectionisprotection4448 7 ай бұрын

At 6:45 "He'll remember her body, but not her face" I don't know if he'll remember that either.

@PeaceNU2 7 ай бұрын

She looks cheap plus that shake and go wig... The shopping spree shouldn't be to expensive.

@MRLX54 7 ай бұрын

Not the shake and go wig 😂😂

@blueorchid2467 7 ай бұрын

LMFAO

@PeaceNU2 7 ай бұрын

@@MRLX54 🤭 Did I lie?

@Veracityseeker7 7 ай бұрын

😅😅😅😅💀

@Veracityseeker7 7 ай бұрын

@PeaceNU2 You ain't eva lied😅

@dorothymatthews6690 7 ай бұрын

Shumake you have not never lied. Keep going with God and his standards! You are doing a great work in building up righteous snd the kingdom of God! Keep yourself holy ladies until marriage. Been there and done that and it let me to a dead end.

@yaqar3689 7 ай бұрын

10 seconds in and all I can say is, “Sad…”.

@cindythompson8826 6 ай бұрын

I don’t understand how she left her house like that! 😮😡😡

@rememberableoccassions9079 6 ай бұрын

I’m glad he’s honest with her….I hope she takes this as a lesson learned.

@jtt1928 7 ай бұрын

“They can trap ‘em’ but they can’t keep em”…Murs 🎤🎶

@michelleborden5710 7 ай бұрын

I remember when the women in my family, used to get together and and talk to us as young ladies. I remember my grandmother would say "if it ain't for sale, take your sign down!" . I teach my daughter that very same thing today. RIH grandma 🙏❤️

@pthesmith 7 ай бұрын

Sir, you are preaching to these young people. And you’re doing it in a way they will receive and understand it.

@rosedavis333 7 ай бұрын

I'm so proud of you. I started watching your channel when you was in the filming. I remember about the baby momma drama of which my son needed, the video about letting a good woman go because you're scared. Now you are married and in the Lord. Hallelujah

@WarmongerYT 7 ай бұрын

🚩 My fellow women are out here disrespecting themselves whilst expecting &demanding others respect them❗ Why would other people respect you when u don't respect yourself⁉️

@vizeas 7 ай бұрын

Exactly that outfit screams desperation and self esteem issues. She is dressed like a stripper arriving at work

@natashamcclellan2707 7 ай бұрын

She is so lost. Spiritually lost. I hope she sees this video. Why is she acting so surprised. Really?Jesus my Lord please show her YOUR WILL NOT hers. ✝️❤️😢😢😢

@joybrooks564 7 ай бұрын

She's joking right??

@taylorstep8135 7 ай бұрын

Look how she's dressed plus she's on this line up.

@ShanteeHaynes 7 ай бұрын

This is more content farming, yet another kind of "influencers" that we can stop giving views and attention to. they're aware what kind of answers and interaction she'll get, they're just wanting to create viral content

@aoc092 7 ай бұрын

Interesting 🧐

@trisha1989 7 ай бұрын

Yesssssss! Absolutely! I love the term “content farming” 🤍

@laila.banks0 7 ай бұрын

Nah. He gotta already think like that. He wouldn't be there if he thinks like that. Even if you dress appropriate and have morals they still try to be nice to get in your pants. And when they know that you not about that, that's when they leave.

@_ladytai 2 ай бұрын

We NEED more conversations like this . thank you !

@Rosemary46840 7 ай бұрын

Why is the guy supposed to be the bad guy in this situation? - do you see what she is wearing ?? Thats not a sexy outfit that's a sexual outfit, ofc that's the first thing hes gonna say

@jasminehouston-burns1691 7 ай бұрын

Nobody made him one

@brookealicia92 7 ай бұрын

He could also exert self control but that’s too much like right

@swvolleyball9137 7 ай бұрын

Well, for starters he could exercise self control and self respect as well. Men don’t get a pass on behaving morally just because he’s a man.

@rejectionisprotection4448 7 ай бұрын

@@swvolleyball9137Well they do actually.

@rosejames5172 7 ай бұрын

If a guy sleeps with a girl he just met on the first date, he is definitely the bad guy.

@Myvillageheaven 7 ай бұрын

He can smell her low self esteem am so embarrassed for her😢

@maddart4445 7 ай бұрын

Her pants aren’t even buckled.

@erickalucas5660 7 ай бұрын

100% right Shumake💪🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

@phenitagomes1292 7 ай бұрын

It's a lesson a lot of women without fathers that are not present emotionally in her life have to learn. Some women dress like this because they think it's a sexy fashion way of expressing herself but once you realize that it comes with consequences and it durates your lif3 in situations you don't want for yourself. Once you learn this and accept that it's not a fairy tale or a fantasy it's real life, you change. Its the industry that has everyone fooled. I remember coming America and in the 90s people started talking hookup culture. Thats when things went wrong.

@nataliet.3023 7 ай бұрын

Im HIGHLY confused on why her pants just stop right there. Like she purposely put them on too small. Like she pulled the pants up and decided to sag 🥴😂 what is happening here with this outfit??

@TheWindingRoad1991 7 ай бұрын

Great message, my friend! It actually gave me secondhand embarassment to watch her humilaite herself like that.

@NajaRants 6 ай бұрын

I would never dress like that, not even to go to the club

@hellothere8347 7 ай бұрын

I’m so confused rn the way she showing up and what’s coming out her mouth don’t match

@genovasquez8361 2 ай бұрын

When a woman says that BS. I state how I see her. And what expect of her. If she is not down for that she is not my type

@courtneyj.4043 7 ай бұрын

Stop worrying about what mean like. You can dress very modestly, classy, sophisticated or any way opposite of this, and most guys will still have the option of "going to bed" with no other intentoions. Dressing like her in the video will get you to bed before the date or it becomes the date. Dressing modestly will get you to bed after the date or 2.

@kyrabarr2846 7 ай бұрын

This is so sad to see. This young woman truly feels that she's being innovative by doing this, but does not understand the longevity of the internet and how this can affect her in the future. This is why it's so important for parents to affirm and love their children at home and give them proper morals/values.

@HonestLeighSpeaking 7 ай бұрын

Great video as usual 🫡While I agree that how you present yourself will dictate and determine how people treat you… I do not think that that mindset is godly (while it is realistic and human) because God calls us all to treat people with dignity while holding them to biblical standards. Nevertheless, The problem is also it makes the viewer of you the person to determine whether or not you are worthy of respect… And sometimes no matter how respectable you look, you won’t get it based on their own biases… Because of that many young people have given up and decided to do whatever they feel and treat people, however they want.

@Veracityseeker7 7 ай бұрын

Jezebel spirit. You can't purposefully invoke lust in men, and they get mad when you're treated like an object.

@nehemiahbrook5505 7 ай бұрын

A smart man is going to be looking for a women who has dignity and respect for herself and is godly

@celesteglow1356 7 ай бұрын

There’s a way to be sexy, but subtle and not overdo it! The way she came in dressed is something I wouldn’t even wear… And to be disappointed by his answer is a little bit delusional because walking in a place like that you’re not gonna be respected. I just had to cancel a first date with somebody because he had sex on their mind 24/7 even through a regular conversation so… Ladies I’ve been there thinking sex was all I needed to fix a void but it’s a whole lot easier when you finally have standards for yourself! Thank you Therapy for helping with my healing 🎉🎉