Modern Women Are Money Hungry And I Love That For Them

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Modern Women Are Money Hungry And I Love That For Them

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The Shumake Way

Күн бұрын

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@TiffanyRayneOfficial 9 ай бұрын

This reminds me of something my mom use to say. She would say, don't do it yourself. We'd ask what did she mean by that? Her answer was always, let God send you your mate, your friends because once you start trying to choose what you want, that's when you get into all this trouble. So let God choose the people in your life.

@jasminealexia 9 ай бұрын

That is so true! 💯

@naturallytajy973 9 ай бұрын

I respect this comment, shout out to your mom for being a real one and warning you early 💯

@AJD7233 9 ай бұрын

Wauw. Love that! She is right! And in this world, everything is so damn backwards. So yeah indeed stay close to JAH words❤️

@misslady5029 9 ай бұрын

Your mother was a wise and Godly woman. 😊

@kandytomlinson9707 9 ай бұрын

HALLELUYAH HALLELUYAH!!!

@MrsBrittanyGold 9 ай бұрын

Thank you, I’m happy you said what you said. Nothing is for free in the long- run. I’ve never been impressed by money because I’ve always had my own. I’m married to a provider and a God fearing man. You don’t have to focus on money to get treated well. Be a good woman, follow God and you can get a good man who will take care of you in marriage.

@lro001 9 ай бұрын

Respect to you & your husband for doing it right.

@downbad2874 9 ай бұрын

😂😂

@user-ws8nm3uo8p 7 ай бұрын

Me too ❤

@broco6608 9 ай бұрын

As a woman, I date for information (data) because I date for marriage. So, for the first several dates with a guy, I'm ok with coffee dates, walks in the park, anything so we can talk. And, if I gather that he's treating me like I'm a "city" girl by being extra stingy, offended, and hurt because he's let city girls use him in the past, I'm out. After a few dates, he should be able to tell the difference between me and that type of woman.

@nonenone8655 9 ай бұрын

I’m 18 and I’m a scholar student. I absolutely love quantum physics and I’ve worked hard for everything but none of that appeals to my parents. They always teach me:- 1) my spouse cheating on me is my fault because I bored him and that’s how “boys will be boys” 2) I was told that I gotta take care of the household too along with my job without sharing my responsibilities. 3) I’m being told everyday that if he abuses me it’s because he is just not in a good mood and that I should be a good wife and tolerate it. 4) they said they’ll be proud only if they never hear complaints about me from my in-laws. Having older strong role models like you give me hope and reason to live. I don’t know if you’re reading this but if you are, I just want to thank you wholeheartedly. You are the parent that my parents failed to be.

@laviniashiponeni1 9 ай бұрын

22 year old female medical student here. All I can say is same.

@alisanina Ай бұрын

WOWWW!

@liahlove8297 9 ай бұрын

I think way too many women have developed this entitled attitude of thinking they deserve this princess lifestyle and treatment from men with money. And don't worry, i too was caught up in that mindset and i find that the best thing is to just give yourself that lifestyle instead. It don't feel right just sleeping with men for things, but everyone is different. I rather be valued, because nine times out of ten, those men who handle a lot of money, rarely value women in my experience. Its all about fun and sex for them and when they're bored, they move on to the next best thing. Personally, i rather not go through that. I like this little peace of mine.

@Cheerleader644860 9 ай бұрын

And the other side to 9 times out of 10 one time out of 10 when they do value women not saying they xant care less when you met them after the fortune but most of the few 1/10 times when it's like that they love you for you she was there before he had anything.

@queenrenagoddessoflovegood7757 9 ай бұрын

Yeh just give yourself the lifestyle you deserve

@charmaineespeut4627 9 ай бұрын

You shouldn't demonize people with money because not all poor people are good people. I have noticed women are becoming more entitled, and I think its because they have been used by men in the past, so now they want to use men. There are women who love a broke man for his heart and end up heartbroken/abandoned in poverty with 2 children. A man should definitely prove he can provide and is a man of God. Your offspring livelihood depends on it.

@liahlove8297 9 ай бұрын

@charmaineespeut4627 that's my experience, obviously I haven't dated all men with money. Not everyone gets good experiences and you shouldn't always want to hear the positive sides of things all the time. Im not about to lie to please a soul.

@DulceCubana100 9 ай бұрын

I dont think women are more entitled, most women anyway. Men have become lazy and use the women that help them build only to give it to the Mcdonalds girl or the Home Depot girl. They dont value women that help them build so most of us dont want to anymore. You either come with the goods or dont come at all. Countless stories like that and ive experienced it myself.

@kuldoxy5637 9 ай бұрын

The intro was it for me, u said it all right there. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿It's all about sex and money these days, this is why I'm a 29yr old virgin and a working class woman cos virgin or not, celibacy filters out a lot of trash from ur life. Like Ps Ibiyeomie said, u sow like the world, u reap like the world. May God continue to help us filter them out till we find the right one he has kept for us.🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

@PoSHEmediaglobal 9 ай бұрын

Better stay a virgin sis. God bless you and keep you

@GHO5tMod3 9 ай бұрын

I mean with these types of relationships it’s more transactional than anything The guy gets rewarded with the woman of his physical and youthful dreams and the woman gets the princess life she desires. With no real substance in the relationship… people who get into these situations know what they’re signing up for 💯

@TheShumakeWay 9 ай бұрын

That’s what I’m sad about. Relationships are supposed to be full of God and love, but today they’re not based on anything. Money and Sex are not what’s builds a solid foundation.

@GHO5tMod3 9 ай бұрын

@@TheShumakeWayexactly!!

@Seen_not_heard 9 ай бұрын

My only problem is when teenage girls get into this lifestyle. Thinking they know what they’re signing up for trying to emulate the City Girls when Caresha herself said her daughter can’t be a city girl.

@MorKing86 9 ай бұрын

Im a 38 year old single woman. I envy married people, yet refuse to date. It's not worth my peace.

@Emptytopfloor 9 ай бұрын

Nope, no envy over here. 😂

@adriannamartinez8513 9 ай бұрын

Same lol. Sometimes I want to find someone but other times I love my peace being single 😅

@themofomayor 9 ай бұрын

Dating is not biblical. So you wouldn't find a righteous man doing that anyway.

@prettyloubey8411 9 ай бұрын

@@themofomayorcorrect!!

@sunnyhunn9315 9 ай бұрын

@@adriannamartinez8513 Sooo true lol. But the right person will absolutely contribute to your peace, God says that His blessings “enrich” us and adds no sorrow.

@ChildofGod98765 9 ай бұрын

Father hear my prayers. My husband is with you I still miss him even after all these years. At times I feel so alone especially as a single mom. Since suffering a heart attack two years ago and my on going battle with lupus I’m overwhelmed. Both of my sons are autistic. I’m now homeschooling them so my hours to work are limited. BUT I TRUST YOU LORD! I keep faith even as I constantly struggle to provide for my kids and I constantly struggle to buy groceries. Thankfully I have you Lord! I know I’m not alone. Faith over fear! Praise God and his son Yeshua!

@ellewild19 9 ай бұрын

Come on now we're not going to act like married men haven't been cheating on their wives for centuries. Men have shown they don't love women and women have decided they want to get paid for their pain.

@caressaclark1042 9 ай бұрын

Beautifully stated💕🥀

@1984reed 9 ай бұрын

💯💯

@laurynorder3965 9 ай бұрын

Whelllll 😌

@FableyCooper 5 ай бұрын

Find God

@skimaskgaming7247 5 ай бұрын

But you can’t BUY happiness either so what is your point ? 🌚

@mommabear887 9 ай бұрын

Even as a traditional wife I tell my daughter to make money and focus on work, and save until she has kids and stays home. I tell her, nobody is safe from heart break. Keep a savings and have work skills in case you ever need them. I hope her family life is perfect but I don't want her in a disadvantage if her marriage ever falls apart.

@janisemills1 9 ай бұрын

Yes I had to learn the hard way! You can find a provider and still have your own money! I depended on a man a little too much and was kicked out. I had to struggle and start all over when I could of just been working and saving money on the side.

@janisemills1 9 ай бұрын

I really thought he would never leave me because he did purpose but I was wrong. Never again will I make that mistake.

@mommabear887 9 ай бұрын

@@janisemills1 I worked the first three years of my marriage and had a work history before marriage. I feel secure and loved, but I know if I needed to I could work. If God forbid, my husband got sick or had an accident. My grandparents divorced after 30 years, 5 kids, and a couple dozen grandkids, nobody safe 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@lifeisbeautiful9455 9 ай бұрын

My father didn’t provide for the 6 of us. He didn’t work but use us for government assistance. He would take the government money and give it to other women and feed other people. We ate one meal a day. We didn’t have clothes. Nothing. My mother went to her grandmothers once a week to get a few dollars to stretch for one meal a day. He kept the money in a speaker. The section paid the rent. He kept the SSI, food stamps every two weeks. We lost our mother, now he has millions and kept us out of everything. He had money everything and never worked a day in his life. He never provided. After she passed I had to get a job at 15 and provide fir myself and three males. He took money from me. Fighting me just like my mother. I fought back. He’s used every woman in his life. He used to be a pimp.

@eyeshaveit591 9 ай бұрын

So sorry you had such a disappointing experience 😢with your father

@lifeisbeautiful9455 9 ай бұрын

@@eyeshaveit591 Thank you 😊 🤗 I’m ok… I just try to help other people. These days are long gone… I understand it affects me, like all of our childhoods and we have to unlearn things… I’ve been on a constant unlearning of things that happened to me and I’m doing the work as others didn’t but I started in 95. This is why I’m single and waiting and not sharing myself because these men be trippin… God has a real one somewhere 👀😂

@GHO5tMod3 22 күн бұрын

That’s awful

@hellothere8347 9 ай бұрын

These dudes are just as desperate as the females honestly they so naive. I went out with this guy about a year ago he was very kind and sweet but he was just willing to do anything & I wasn’t even doing nothing to even earn it

@sierrabarrett6348 Ай бұрын

Same thing happened to me..shit is so unattractive I was so disgusted in his desperate behavior I HAD to leave. Some people are just so unaware of themselves.

@superodalisque 9 ай бұрын

If he's looking for a woman like you're describing he's not a good man anyway so they deserve each other. If he's dealing with a woman like that on a financial basis he's treating them like a prostitute. It may be dumb but it's also evil minded.

@Always_Meeka 6 ай бұрын

I’m learning that the loudest behavior these days is wrong behavior! As a woman who works full time, runs a business, involved in church ministry, supporting my college aged daughter, and involved in civic engagement, I DON’T HAVE TIME FOR FOOLISHNESS. The women we keep seeing and hearing with this foolishness don’t have anything going on. Their focus isn’t working on themselves mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically (not BBLs) to try to attract a man by who they genuinely are. Unfortunately, it’s all about sex and money like Shumake states. Unfortunately, this isn’t going to end well for a lot of women. Let us pray 🙏🏾

@Destiny13Taylor 9 ай бұрын

I’m so glad you have this platform. Me and my friends talk about this often. It’s sad to see and this is most definitely modern day prostitution.

@ColaBaby888 9 ай бұрын

Godly dating is a word!🎉❤

@Jenjenn1111 9 ай бұрын

These superficial relationships usually boil down to basics. Men want sex and women want money. I don’t see nothing wrong with women getting a bag if the man only wants sex. It’s better than giving him sex and getting nothing. I don’t promote casual sex. But if you are wanting sex without commitment then you need to pay to play…only the woman loses when she provides a man sex for nothing in return. Even though….usually what a man is giving you is not even worth it…but if you’re going to play the game…something is better than nothing! I promote healthy, loving and committed (marriage) relationships…but unfortunately, most people are not on that…especially men!

@dashanee0390 9 ай бұрын

This is exactly how I see. I tell men all the time I provide services if that’s what he wants…married men even be hittin me up. When they see I’m about that game/life they move accordingly.

@Bubbles-qh7ez 9 ай бұрын

@@dashanee0390move accordingly as in pay you ?

@luwilliams1059 9 ай бұрын

And this is exactly why this is happening now! Women are tired of men playing these games. Therefore, some have resulted to the pay me attitude.

@cedricmiller4370 9 ай бұрын

Wow ladies thanks for opening up on the reason y'all are moving way y'all are sounds like lot of players have done women wrong and it's made females result to the nobody is getting over on me demeanor no commitment has turned to transactional interactions between men and women

@caressaclark1042 9 ай бұрын

I used to be wild and out there in the world. I don't regret my so-called "body count", because I usually had fun. What I regret is doing it mostly for free. I should've required more dates, food, bills paid, etc. One thing i have learned in my 40 years, is that men DO NOT respect ANYTHING they got for free.❤

@jenwhite565 9 ай бұрын

It’s so wild that we have to get into context with providing, protecting and submission. People are so confused and spreading exhausting misconceptions that it has come to this 😢

@glxtterbxmb 9 ай бұрын

I wish all of these men and women could see how backwards and perverted this “dating style” is nowadays. When I decided that sex within the first few days was no longer an option and that alcohol is no longer allowed during the first few days with a man, it really made my judgment that much better and I think it is because of that rule that I found my now boyfriend. I wouldn’t trade all those months of sex, and all those drinks for the world. I finally found a man who respects me and who loves my family.

@SamtheRightway 9 ай бұрын

Jesus over everything and every situation. I tried my way it never works.

@aprilwashington3150 9 ай бұрын

School'em Shu 💪 Facts! Behavior bashing, not woman bashing 💯

@Mark-fr5of 9 ай бұрын

Do both

@charlib8650 9 ай бұрын

No bash UNGODLY behavior.. in men and women. INDIVIDUALS behave how they choose.. nobody is in a box because of what sex they are.

@hellothere8347 9 ай бұрын

It’s called prostitution not pretty privilege.

@mmxw2294 9 ай бұрын

What is it called when they’re being lied to manipulated mentally and emotionally abuse and given their bodies to people that don’t care nothing about them all based on lies

@hellothere8347 9 ай бұрын

@@mmxw2294 naive & gullible

@joshuacooperseo 9 ай бұрын

@@mmxw2294I call it lack of discernment because if you are submitted to God, he wouldn’t send you off and allow you to be deceived.

@themofomayor 9 ай бұрын

@@mmxw2294 it's called being out of order. Did you get this man on your own or did you court according to the word/book? Are you fulfilling Proverbs? Was he fulfilling Ephesians? If yes, I don't see how any of that happened. If no, then... Well. Anyway, discernment isn't even needed, just read THE BOOK, it's clearly written and easily followable.

@charmaineespeut4627 9 ай бұрын

No pretty privilege definitely exists. People act nicer and give you free things without you even asking.

@TNGURL08 9 ай бұрын

As a good woman, (I believe I am), I'm intrinsically a giving & caring person. I feel like prey, and have been taken advantage of financially. Unfortunately, I've had to learn the hard way. I need to be wise and not give access to my $$$, or credit cards 💳 to the wrong man or even the wrong female "so-called friends". It's hard to navigate this, Shumake when its part of your character and nature. Thank you for some 101 education on these matters.

@kaylabean3693 6 ай бұрын

You can be a good person and still say no especially when it comes to your own financial security.

@TNGURL08 6 ай бұрын

@@kaylabean3693 😘, you're right. I'm a softy and have to toughen up.

@lifeventures6651 5 ай бұрын

Let NO ONE have access to your money unless they are your husband who has shown good character AND he is providing. No 50/50. I just had a family member ask me for money and my favorite answer is NO. Grown folks (who are not spouses to each other) need to be adults and work for their own money!

@bonafide_forever 9 ай бұрын

Problem is, these generally are very young ppl 30 and under with this mindset. They are very sought after for their youthful physique and naivety. It’s the ppl over 30 that look and sound like sheer fools for thinking so immaturely. At that age I was out there too. This is not me excusing the foolishness but I am saying that these immature men & women on this panel, don’t speak for those of us who have lived and learned. If they survive their young adult years they will come to the realization that they had done and said some ignorant things in their past. I sure have been there but I don’t regret my past. I know that learning from my mistakes has made me wiser❤❤❤

@pro-muffins2721 19 күн бұрын

I’m 36 in Dallas. I gave my ex that scripture at the end of our relationship. Amen 🙏 Bro 😎

@evasccl7846 9 ай бұрын

God's way is the best way, like you said Shumake. People are not sober minded, there is no self-control and that is dangerous for themselves and those around them. I think about the example we want to be to the young, to our children... The art of getting to know each other is almost gone! We need to be of good character, check our core values, principles and standards before God... then we would have to look for common core values, principles and standards in the other person, check their character.... because, life is full of valleys and mountains... we should be committed to go through them together and build together according to God's good plans for us. As you said in the end, let us do it God's way, for that we have to pray, seek, read the Bible and listen to what God says. I am very grateful to God that you always bring scripture to the subject, it is the best advice and shows you genuinely care about us, about people to have blessed lives. Thank you and God bless you, your family and all the work you do for the Lord 🤗

@Lianda360 9 ай бұрын

I took a page from the passport bros, and imported my husband from Africa! 😅

@hotcocoacinamonbrown 9 ай бұрын

First, let's perhaps redefine the term 'provider' to not be about financial responsibility. But also as important as a man who pours into his wife, his children, his family, and his community to be a leader/role model they all need to break generational curses and traumas. Second, the world of dating has become all about money and sex, because as this generation and the next transition into adulthood; we've seen how (sorry to say) men in our mothers and grandmother's generation have used money to keep women tethered to them. How the lack of money (aka the man) in the household is the reason why single mothers are castigated and dogged out. Yet no mention of sexual discipline is discussed on the male side. We hear almost constantly the double standard when it comes to sex and relationships that men hold the cards whether they want to marry you; but oddly enough, the only women men are marrying are the the "304s". (see the commentary on PJ Washington) We're supposed to be jealous or envious of the 304s and younger women because of ageism. It's a lot and dating just becomes one of those things that yep is transactional because men have been taught to lead with their bank accounts and not with their character (which is somehow oddly wrapped up in their sexual identity {weird]) but women are thought of as by their gender and what they can do for a man.

@tumweonlycommentary2797 9 ай бұрын

I totally agree. People should also know the origins of marriage.. Women were never seen as equals to men and marriage was seen as a good as it gets deal" why because a woman will be protected and he children will be looked after.. Not sure when women started having rights in marriage... So now in our time modern women or men choose not to date because marriage either traditionally with the bridal price or not... Has its risks to aka estates etc.. Plus with religion making it even odd too.. I'm also not sure the origins of how religion became attached to the Marriage which makes it more scarry.. So in African sense of marriage with lobola or bride price.. It becomes scary when the bride decides to divorce and now her family has to return the cows aka the loan that paid for her license to Wed lol.. So if the brides family cannot pay she stays, despite him being abusive or deciding to marry someone else in his current marriage.. Most Africans don't speak about that, which makes me question the idea of lobola.. Other reasons of people, partly my age mates is the society's and Religion pressure to "Fulfil God's law etc".. and children are a blessing from God.. Have you heard horror stories of adults having toxic Parents or Parents killing their children. Yes I do agree that when it comes to males privelege the males discretion or lack of sexual discernment is concerning and the constant pressure of women having to be pedastalized and man just have to have bare minimum of being a "Provider"... Cmon.. I feel that marriage should be taken seriously since your assets, or lack of, then Religion etc it's too much.. Plus the demands of living in this current economy is crazy.. I do hate how women are entrapped or say people are entrapped in a cycle of debts0 etc if they choose to marry.. Coz if yo marry wrong you are in shxt, if you marry right.. You are not in shxt.. People should tread carefully when it comes to marriage coz not everyone is compatible to be in a long term relationship or long term marriage. Divorce and people trapped in loveless marriage exists..

@Promiseland2024 9 ай бұрын

The most wonderful ❤️ thing to happen to someone is to Be renewed in the spirit of your mind. This renewal gives us new eye balls, new perception and that hidden knowledge. We all truly need this prior to going out seeking a partner in life. When you have that transformation your taste dramatically changes that everything you are saying...its already known! & what we use to find attractive...no longer is 🕊 Sending these videos to my young adult son ❤

@karmageddon9856 9 ай бұрын

God Bless the child that's got their own.

@cakesinthecity 8 ай бұрын

My mom always said that ❤

@aprilwashington3150 9 ай бұрын

@8:53 Wanting money at the Hey How You Doing Phase. 😂😂😂

@themofomayor 9 ай бұрын

How about just don't date. Show me the scripture that says be a good boyfriend. Show me the scripture that says do good in your situationship? It's okay to be worldly, y'all just gotta stop bringing the Lord into y'all mess.

@Cheerleader644860 9 ай бұрын

What do you mean bringing the lord into your mess. I dont get it. There's a scripture for everything. (Scratching head to this)

@themofomayor 9 ай бұрын

@@Cheerleader644860 there is no scripture for dating. It's unrighteous, out of order, and worldly. For some reason this dude keeps coming on my timeline now and all I hear is him trying to turn worldlyness into righteousness. That's goofy. It's okay to not be okay in the eyes of the Lord. Just do better and don't blame your goofiness on the Lord.

@wednesdeeR 9 ай бұрын

Hmmm I don’t know about that “it’s okay to be worldly. “

@themofomayor 9 ай бұрын

@@wednesdeeR but it is okay. It's just not righteous, heavenly, or will get you into heaven. But it's okay because of free will. Your choice. Just know that even tho that choice is okay.. it's not good.

@ShandaP018 9 ай бұрын

Correct it's marriage or not. I have a bf and we have issues and I can't even pray about them because he's not my husband. I'm willing to walk away if we don't get married soon.

@wandak1889 9 ай бұрын

That’s Pimp and Prostitution Tactics

@shauntikayvette 9 ай бұрын

Shamake you didn’t hit on the fact that there is a dude behind this woman receiving the benefit of that money she’s getting. This sounds like the other side of pimp culture…there is a dude with no wisdom or godly integrity accepting another man’s money through this woman! I stand by my position that men as the head are leading many women astray!

@tumweonlycommentary2797 9 ай бұрын

I agree look at Mary J Blige paying her husband Alimony, Halle Berry paying her Ex... It's crazy..

@KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds 9 ай бұрын

The only thing new about this phenomenon, is the existence of podcasts.

@ajackson646 6 ай бұрын

What the heck is this 😑. Just from HS to now I see how things have changed. I’m only 35 and feeling like an old woman looking at “kids today”. Boy, back in my day lol. I just want love and flowers maybe. Some loyalty. Take me back to HS I hate this environment truly

@robinnewton1061 9 ай бұрын

You preaching today.😖🙏🏾👏🏿…..pulpit preaching.

@danilaroche1156 9 ай бұрын

If you want a good relationship, you only date/court a person who prioritizes Christ. I know plenty of rich men who were interested. I turned them down. They weren't believers .

@wakingbeauty101 9 ай бұрын

As a soon to be homeless woman ....I'd b good w dinner at applebees😂

@joycewatt8289 9 ай бұрын

I say it and I’ll stand on it UNTIL the day I die…. The 2 biggest issues in today’s world are Sex and Money 💰 The devil trips up a WHOLE LOT of men and women in these 2 areas. 🤔

@mondaymuli 27 күн бұрын

“But you need to be aware that in the final days the culture of society will become extremely fierce. People will be self-centered lovers of themselves and obsessed with money. They will boast of great things as they strut around in their arrogant pride and mock all that is right. They will ignore their own families. They will be ungrateful and ungodly.” ‭‭2 Timothy‬ ‭3‬:‭1‬-‭2‬ ‭TPT‬‬

@breal1266 9 ай бұрын

I agree with you on this

@wakingbeauty101 9 ай бұрын

Exactly ...no providing for sides

@guadeloupe61 9 ай бұрын

Hi Mr Shumake, I totally agree with you. Thank you very much for telling the truth. Sabine.

@r.jenkins5982 9 ай бұрын

Amen! It's so much foolery and enemy lead thoughts on both sides. If BOTH means and women truly knew who they are and whose they are they would operate differently. Find someone who honors God, and knows God's purpose for a man and woman...but that's the difficult part!

@muicreativeproductions416 9 ай бұрын

Provider does not only equate to financially only but covering of the word per scripture. The priest headship not money.

@breewright1415 9 ай бұрын

I agree 💯💯💯💯💯

@uduakukem7246 9 ай бұрын

What you are saying makes no sense. How is a woman going to know if a man is a provider if he is not providing? Yet, a woman should be responsible enough to not marry a deadbeat. A man who does not provide will not provide after marriage. Don't tell us to see the red flag and still get into marriage, then expect him to provide in marriage. It does not work like that.

@xemilyys 9 ай бұрын

If a man believes in the Bible he will know he needs to be a provider.

@evelyn1817 9 ай бұрын

Knowing Of and Seeing the happenings in reverse, for 'Good Women", means the Despised, soon sought after Word.., INDEPENDENT!!....

@xoxo-vp7ww 9 ай бұрын

Eek… no. Respectfully, you’re wrong. There are some men that will give you money and you will never have to do anything at all. I’m not saying they don’t want to, but you don’t have to do anything. Most times these men are well off so it’s just a flex. It’s kind of like a man going to club and splurging on bottles or whatever. It’s a status thing for a lot of men because they know that most men don’t have it to just give away. You’re discussing this topic from a disadvantaged viewpoint. Men spend money reckless all the time so it’s nothing for a man (WITH MONEY) to give you some. There are women out there that are available for transactions obviously, but that’s typically a woman that’s dealing with a man that doesn’t really have it to give.

@DulceCubana100 9 ай бұрын

The sad part is as a woman you cant even vet if someone has a provider mentality cause of these women. The craziest part is i make more money than the average guy so for them to think youre a goldigger or money hungry is crazy to me. I miss old school men that knew they had to provide for their women....these days if you dont vet you get stuck with Mr 50/50 cause you have a career too. Realistically i would rather be a housewife even though i have a career. Are we supposed to live in poverty until Mr Right shows up?

@starrjohnson1327 6 ай бұрын

Take this to God in prayer. I've met plenty of provider men. God showed me that none of them were for me. I know women who healed by praying and trusting God. Many of them got married.

@DulceCubana100 6 ай бұрын

@@starrjohnson1327 thanks for the advise but youre not telling me anything ive not been praying about for 20 yrs 😭

@Emptytopfloor 9 ай бұрын

Shumake, you said you have two daughters. Did you change your ways after your first daughter was born? Just curious.

@TheShumakeWay 9 ай бұрын

I turned away from my old life at 23. However the changes were gradual up until I turned 28 when my 1st son was born. I became a lot more intentional about certain things like making money and being a strong father at that point. Then my 1st daughter was born a couple years later and I began to take life way more seriously. I think that’s when I became a lot more introspective and serious about my relationship with God. I also became alot softer and aware of the things women go through too. I remember realizing how demeaning rap music is to women around that time. I had to turn the radio off one day because my daughter was in the car with me and I didn’t want her to hear that mess. I hope that answered your question.

@Emptytopfloor 9 ай бұрын

@@TheShumakeWay yes it does! Thank you for the reply. I asked this question because of something my dad told me once. He said, men don’t become men before they become fathers to their daughters. It’s only after they have a daughter (I’m his first child, a daughter) that they see the world in its true form. I wonder if men with only sons ever get this clarity. Ty

@kellyfaulk2139 9 ай бұрын

I guess you haven't really followed SHUMAKE

@u.802 8 ай бұрын

love the channel 💗

@user-yr6xc7gg8q 9 ай бұрын

I'm not money hungry and never was brought up like that and still don't have anyone

@stephanieoutlaw1170 9 ай бұрын

Okay they out here being transactional, gonna wind up being the same ones that’s transmittable☢️

@nitathomas3736 22 күн бұрын

He can have all his money to himself, money is not everything

@princesskinuthia8788 9 ай бұрын

🙌🏾👏🏾

@AuthorJanaeMarie 9 ай бұрын

Is this what men want nowadays?

@GHO5tMod3 9 ай бұрын

This is what men have been doing since the fall of adam and eve. I’ve noticed most want young barely legal youthful hoochie women for superficial reasons and for fun Most do not want goodie good people because that’s considered boring and not sexually entertaining Most do not want a truly good person until they get old, looks fade, sick, or that lifestyle isn’t panning out for them in the long run. There’s good men and women out there but as a human race most humans in general are selfish lustful and superficial

@TheLeslieMichelle 9 ай бұрын

Yes, it is. There's no commitment.

@Justyouraverageguy172 9 ай бұрын

No it’s not. I am looking for a true Christian woman that does not just reject or ghost me as soon as I tell her that I have little money and not a big successful career or achievements like she has looking down upon me with. Too much superficial BS these days and not enough of looking at a man’s heart and character to see if he would be a good provider instead of his level of income.

@Bubbles-qh7ez 9 ай бұрын

@@Justyouraverageguy172but as a Christian man how do you plan on leading and providing for your family? Telling a women that you have little to no money without showing you want to improve is like a woman who is overweight with health issues and no desire to get better for her husband or future family ?

@Justyouraverageguy172 9 ай бұрын

⁠⁠@@Bubbles-qh7ezif money was everything then why does the Bible not say that there is a certain money and wealth threshold that has to be met for marriage to occur and the husband to be a provider? Why was the first marriage between Adam and Eve not based on the physical and material because they had everything in perfection but instead based on the heart and spiritual? Why aren’t narcissistic and abusive men praised and celebrated as the marriage model “doing it the right way” despite their evil, abuse, and lack of care for their partners and family outside of money. Your reasoning is of the world believing the husband should just be the ATM of the family. I am honest and upfront and telling of my life’s suffering to women showing and describing why I have little to build trust with a relationship showing my desire to do and be more. It’s not that I don’t want to do more, but that I don’t have much financially and materially as women expect or like . The provider has a vision he leads his family towards holiness and God and pours into the other emotional, spiritual, intellectual, and other needs of the family in addition to the physical.

@uhhoh 9 ай бұрын

That man in a durag did not just say he can get sex off of his face card because I-💀

@illegallygorguz 9 ай бұрын

Lmfao some sassy business

@ronnietoni819 Ай бұрын

They ain’t even doing that, they ain’t paying for ish. They just tryna get the sex for free, so if he offering hey at least be happy for that even though it’s still wrong. Some men will waste time have you fall in love with them and pretend just to get the sex but will pay the other women just crazy

@SweetTreatsBy_Marie 9 ай бұрын

🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

@kehinde711 9 ай бұрын

Ain’t no man breaking a female off any money and not expecting anything. That’s how women end up dead because the man was emotionally and financially invested but the woman was playing games.

@simplywhittneyk 9 ай бұрын

I’m about talking about some of the root causes for women being like this on my channel from a Christian perspective. Would love your feedback and support since so many women come over here for knowledge. Either way.. that’s for keep putting this stuff out!

@adrianwillis66 9 ай бұрын

I might catch some flack for saying this but SOME is the word that should be inserted. Some modern women let’s not forget men that want to be taken care of because he thinks he is cute or because HE is good in bed . Money is not the most important to Many women but when a relationship has run its course and come to an end because of cheating that is how woman begin to change the priorities in a relationship.

@MsVaughnKitty 8 ай бұрын

I know we’re serious but… “Absolutely not, I will not pay for no woman this, and I will not pay for that, and I will not do this for a woman, and she gone get a ice cream date, ain’t no way I’m taking her to Ruth Chris, she better be happy with Applebees… all that.” This sent me 😂😂😂😂😂😂 They get on these podcasts and ramble onnnn and on just like that. We’re all seemingly dating out of fear.

@IMreelucanstanit 9 ай бұрын

❤

@nicolec8884 9 ай бұрын

You remind me of my uncle bo.

@chayalahthanaya9920 9 ай бұрын

Brother, I enjoy your videos but just one question… do you ever use the King James Bible?

@TheShumakeWay 9 ай бұрын

Sometimes

@user-wg3kj7uy7f 9 ай бұрын

Take note though that the Bible uses 'his' to mean man or woman, it also can mean just a man. Just pointing out, not saying it means a woman.

@tawandagriffin1707 9 ай бұрын

You right straight up prostitution

@kellyfaulk2139 9 ай бұрын

Mankind...not "his"

@lynnharris9454 6 ай бұрын

Eh, like it or not ain't no love out here so of course everything is transactional. I feel bad for ppl who still believe in that fairytale ass ish.😂

@ayana8400 6 ай бұрын

This is Jezebel spirit you are basting! The modern day woman makes it hard for good God fearing women like me. It's all Lustful, Jezebel spirits. Not God like at all. It's all weird and evil

@Veracityseeker7 6 ай бұрын

True story, and men love them.

@xoxo-vp7ww 9 ай бұрын

I think it’s the caliber of these women and the culture that makes this a topic of discussion. How else will a man standout? I’m not saying money should be the only qualifier, but it definitely should be on the list. That’s really the only way to know that a man is even likes you or likes something about you.

@danilaroche1156 9 ай бұрын

Why even dignify this ratchet behavior? I wouldn't give these women air time .

@325ariel 9 ай бұрын

If you have outside kids with a side chick doesn’t mean you are obligated to provide or take care of her. Period

@bdott1538 9 ай бұрын

A judge may see it differently if he’s wealthy…through child support.

@marlenahawkins7098 9 ай бұрын

Good afternoon most women are not asking for nail money when they first meet most are asking for proper date and being in gentleman. In term of long term dating aside from doing it the proper men will string women along expect to sleep with her and for her to play wifey but doesn’t want to help with anything also never attending o marrying her just using her this so prevalent in our community and the young girls ie city girls watch this dynamic growing up so they want to turn the tables . It all dysfunctional but it on everybody not just women.