Why You Stop Performing as Well When People are Watching 👀

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The Confident Dancer

The Confident Dancer

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Have you ever wondered why you stop performing as well when people start watching you dance? There are reasons for this that may surprise you, so in this video, I wanted to not only share the psychological reasons why you might be holding back or cracking under pressure but also WHAT you can start to do to perform your best in front of an audience. Enjoy!
- Kirsten
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TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 - Intro
0:48 - 1. You're distracted by seeing yourself through someone else's point of view instead of your own
3:19 - 2. You're in your head instead of in your body
4:43 - 3. You're making assumptions about what the people watching you are thinking
7:45 - 4. You think your mistakes are more visible than they actually are
9:59 - 5. The "have to" mentality
11:20 - 6. You're attached to a specific outcome
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@brendastevens9077
@brendastevens9077 7 ай бұрын
You help a lot. Love your kind spirit.💝
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I love your channel! What you share is good for all of life🌹
@lulabella9249
@lulabella9249 3 ай бұрын
I absolutely love your channel ❤️ and your balanced and compassionate advice! I've been dancing flamenco for 5 years. I take it because I love the dance and being 55 yrs., of age I wanted to keep both my mind and body sharp. That said, I've always battled with my "people pleasing / perfectionist" personality complex. It doesn't help when I am in a dance class where mistakes are not tolerated especially if we are being videotaped for social media purposes and former dance students are preferred to other non-dance background students as myself. I work my perverbial butt off because unlike the rest of the students, it takes me a while before I can process them. I try to not let it get to me but I sometimes want to not participate in the year end spring performance because of all this unnecessary pressure 😔 I just might contact you for some guidance 🙏
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Thank you so much for all of the incredible advice!! It helps SO much!!💕
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