I strongly recommend and insist for u to look into carnivore diet, changed my life

I lost over 25kg since i started watching TBYS last year. Words cannot explain how thankful I am to you and your content, sean

Yes I LOVE his emphasis on mental health.

How amazing! Congratulations!

Congrats bro, never give upm

I’m sorry but that’s just not how it works. Some people try and try, and yet they fail. Is it still their fault? Or is it because they have conditions in their life they cannot help?

@@207humanity He said and "And give up"

Yeah they could be KZfaqrs instead, who’s also single, begging for money, while giving advise on how not to be single and sad…

@@207humanity yes, it is their fault simply having a condition maybe hard but that does not stop you from doing anything you set your mind too

​​​@@kschlattDo you know how many people die climbing Mount Everest? There's always going to be failures. Regardless of how hard they try, not everyone can win.

actually it doesn't. There are still tones of as you said fat,ugly and lazy people and much worse that are living great lives and don't give a flying fxck. Also its not the reality that's harsh its that we as people only want the best and want people/things that will benefit us. Reality is neutral and nothing more.

@@K87jk if it doesn't matter to YOU then that is the only important thing. You can't even say it matters at all if it doesn't matter to you.

​@@K87jk I'm ugly and lazy. It's definitely stopped me from succeeding. You might want to try a little more honesty. Convincing yourself that you're happy where you are isn't the same as being successful.

@@stevenschnepp576 You didn't understand my comment at all... I never said I was happy, nor that I am ugly nor good looking. I just stated the facts of reality and believe me people call me nihilistic and pesimistic all the time because I keep it too real. And one last thing bruh, look you can be as you say ugly and lazy but if you where born into massive wealth you think those 2 things would limit you ? Money and status trumps everything in todays society, chase that.

Being ugly or fat only matters in relation to other people. Being lazy is actually quite common and most(maybe all) labor saving devices have been created by people trying to avoid hard work.

Doesn’t matter if the agency doesn’t change shit.

if you are a 3 then date a 3 or 5. dont aim for 7, man@niggymonkey

@niggymonkey Most people really don't give a crap about you or your looks beyond some surface level reaction (unless you are quite literally goblin). But I guess you illustrated OPs point quite well.

@@UsmevavyPanacek With women the surface level reaction is all that matters.

Facts. People act like they’ve never seen Spider-Man before. Everyone knows uncle Ben. Ben die suck. Spider-Man get revenge, feel sad and uses his power to help people. With great power comes great responsibility, but its also the other way around. With great responsibilities comes great power, and with that power comes the ability to change.

Lol not even the worst thing buzzfeed written

Especially with ai availble.

Most of those articles were probably written by their friends.

she must be really bad to not get job at buzz while being a black female🙄

I still follow a bunch of leftist facebook pages from when I was a leftie (God, George Takei, Buzzfeed, etc) and legit half their posts are just reddit rip off's or comment-bait ("what's your favourite movie?").

My sister studied architecture until she got a degree and worked as one for a few years... now in her 30s she switched profession in childcare as a preschool teacher and simultaneously furthering her studies as Master and perhaps PhD in childcare or special needs childcare. Back then she struggled hard and did what our parents asked of her, now she do as she need and like.

A PhD in those fields sounds very excessive

@@brendan4917i’d have to agree she is most definitely wasting money

@@brendan4917 a PhD in Childcare, ya, wtf

Lol

You can still be inherently ugly

@@joshuawadsworth6417 the vast majority of people aren't though.

​@joshuawadsworth6417 even the people who ARE objectively ugly could still look better if they took better care of themselves. You might not be able to change your facial structure (short of surgery), but you can choose to be a stinky, unkempt, badly dressed, unpleasant person, or you can be clean, well groomed, nicely dressed, and friendly. And those are quick fixes. If you start taking care of your weight, embracing interesting hobbies, working on your career, then your life will improve exponentially. Side note - I'm obviously not talking about people with severe deformities or injuries. Im saying most people, the vast majority, have potential to improve with easy life choices.

Life is harsh. So good advice must also be.

90% of women in America are fuckin unbearable, so I don't blame him for forgetting they're human.

You sound simpish.

@@ROForeverManIncel alert

@@targetisstrong9180 No. Simp.

@@ROForeverMan Yup. Sorry to tell ya, loser

This is actually really insightful thanks

Do you mean by experience more? Interesting concept I haven't heard this one yet.

"If you're going through hell, keep going."

Finding out what you're doing isn't going to work and it's time to try it from a different angle/perspective is very liberating.

Thomas Edison supposedly said that each failure showed him a new way it can't be done.

This is a really important observation that many people, unfortunately, are unaware of

​@@jimbomacgee3499​ another thing is the guy who made this video is constantly implying that there are people who went to college for a "worthless" degree, and so then those people should feel pity or be depressed if they can't find a job that pays anything. But not once does he EVER suggest that it is OKAY to have gone to college and not be able to get a decent job, but be OKAY with that fact and NOT be depressed or upset about it. It took me a LONG time to get to this point, but I am finally content with the fact that I have never got a decent job with my degree and might not ever get one, and that there are a lot of things that I might not ever end up doing in my lifetime. As an example, I have never got to take a plane trip and although I would like to take a plane trip at least once in my life, I could die happy at this point even if I never do. But me being content with that fact is something that would probably upset a lot of people, including the guy who made this video because he'd probably think I was just settling for never being able to do things. But there is a HUGE difference between being CONTENT with something and wanting to do it but just not doing it because you don't want to try. The guy who made this video is honestly the BIGGEST narcissist and he actually sounds bitter that he probably didn't go to college and may be having a "what if" feeling that never goes away. Whatever the case though, it is always painfully obvious to me that he is making these videos as a way to convince himself that you can just learn things from "youtube videos", and that therefore him not going to college was okay. But it is all just a ruse though, and I can see right through it. Number one, this dude ALWAYS rails on people who went to college for something that he claims you could learn on your own on youtube, then he blames THAT for why a person cant seem to get anywhere in life. But anyone who has ever actually been to college can surely attest that just the experience of it can do things for you that you would not get if you did not go to college and just "learned things on KZfaq." It definitely makes you more disciplined and levelheaded to actually go to college, which is probably why I have been okay with the fact that I never got a decent job or one that related to my major. I only ended up working at a thrift store in 2010 and was only being paid minimum wage and only part time hours. But I was completely collected about it and kept everything in perspective the entire time that I worked there, even when others would seem frustrated about ME being ok with working there! Which had absolutely NOTHING to do with them! I was also looking for a better paying job while working there, though I never managed to get one. I don't even know if it was because I got grants and scholarships on top of my student loans due to being low income but relatively gifted so I only owed around $15k in loans (which I am STILL paying off even now), or because I actually do enjoy writing and am good at it, but I don't even regret going to college or getting my bachelors degree in communications in 2008, even in spite of my inability to get a decent job. But this dude's problem is just that he thinks everyone should feel depressed or feel like sh*t about going to college if they can't get a decent job or get a lot of money. He just needs to STOP projecting and go see a therapist or a psychiatrist to sort out his feelings instead of bullsh*tting on KZfaq about it.

@@wrestlerx8494 there is a difference between being content and being in a state of wordly success. Someone content only needs to let himself feel content to do so. What those in rock bottom need is to pick up their lives. There is no point of being happy if it means you end up a slave to another body of individuals. You keep on talking “it’s fine I wasted all that time and money” but you just are ignoring the fact that you spent up to tens of thousands of dollars on something you can’t even use. If anyone loses a hundred thousand dollars, distress is healthy. If you just say “oh it doesn’t matter my life goals and aspirations are impossible due to massive miscalculations, as long as I’m happy” then you are just being a nuisance to society and a liability to all around you. If you don’t feel your losses, you are doomed to repeat the loss. You trying to justify going to college is more worthless than justifying cutting an arm off. It is fine to face your losses, but facing a loss doesn’t mean being condescending and claiming superiority against those who didn’t have the same loss.

there are worthless degrees in college, and theres no reason to feel sorry for them when google exists and its easy to just look up how much your degree pays and where the jobs are. Holy fuck make a tl;dr because just skimming through your comment hurts my brain with all the anecdotal experience and waffling going on. @@wrestlerx8494

​​@@wrestlerx8494yes this is the exact problem that our society in the west is facing. You and your mindset. It's ok, sacrifice thousands on something in the end that isnt even worth 5 grand. It's ok I'm a debt slave. It's ok we use and buy shit we don't really need. It's ok we have huge amount of waste. It's ok to have unnecessary things in my life that are completely pointless. It's ok I wasted my entire youth destroying my health. It's ok I'm flimsy in relationships. At least I "experienced" life. Yeah. No. The ONLY reason your ok with it is because you believe you are always going to have someone or something in your life there to pick up from your slack and your lack of success. You wouldn't feel that way if you had to actually take care of your self and your own problems and experience with the fullest brunt of the consequences. But we have government and charities and churches and programs and a much more giving culture than alot of others in the world. We have much more in abundance than alot of other places which helps instill a lack of incentive to actually help make yourself better. What you say of being content is actually quite terrible. Yes you should be happy with yourself and with life, but no you really shouldn't ever be content. Contentment translates to end. As in end of striving for betterment, for gaining knowledge, for aspiring to be something more. It's not a good thing🙁

Damn I’m so excited for you. Alcohol is one incredible beast to beat. Most people won’t defeat it but you did. What kind of method(s) did you use? And congratulations.

Congrats man , I had a bad relapse but jumped right back in making friends in the rooms and trying to stay positive it ain’t easy but proud of you

@@Leahmoonbeamflower Letting go of the ego.

Likewise been all consumed by alcohol and drugs for over a decade .... nearly 2 weeks now without a drop! Nore a ciggy haha

“What do you mean you’re calling the police on me?” xD

See, I could understand if he thought being honest and trying to show that you’ve changed, but he provided no changes. Honesty is good, but you need to show what you are like now, not just who you were.

As a 38 year old man who grew up always playing video games - up until I removed them ‘cold turkey’ from my life two years ago… I noticed a dramatic difference in my life, maturity, attitude, drive, sociability, etc over a span of 6 months. I did not realize how much it impacted various aspects of my life, hobbies, motivation, friends and relationships. A good 2 years later, and I recently started playing again. But I will only occasionally play something once every so often - and limit the time, along with when I choose to do it. It’s become a learned healthy habit. From my looks, style, parenting, sex drive, mental health, income, etc - it’s all dramatically improved. And keeps getting better. This eventually trickled down to pornography as well. Removing that - man, it changes everything for the better. Especially when you’re in a relationship. Trust me.

Good to hear that. Ultimately, it all boils down to physics & intertia. Just like every other physical entity, the Human animal sometimes requires a little push in the right direction to keep on moving along.

🎉🎉way to go buddy!!

Fantastic! Don't look back.

why do you write like an ai you could have typed the same thing in 15 seconds@@NightOfTheLiving8bit

Kinda impossible to make a major change just because you want to.

Never forget your roots...thats how you fall into chaos

@@Perroden It literally is not impossible. Take someone like David Goggins. It does take time and effort, but unless you make the decision you won't make a change.

@@mentoska7427 it is in my life. Trust me iv tried. I didn't self sabotage and everything I tried blew up in my face and left me worse then we're I was more often than not. Can't always force change no mater how hard you try

​@@Perroden not really. Diet and exercise are totally in control by an individual. Learning can be done individually through the internet/KZfaq. Practicing social skills can start simply as well. Go out alone and maybe try to learn to make friends and create small talk with random people without the added pressure of feeling like you just want to find your girlfriend. Small steps lead to big changes, and anyone is most definitely capable of beginning these journeys on their own and without help. Don't black pill yourself by overcomplicating things and making the end goals the only goals. It takes time and effort.

Pretty sure the phrase originally says "a child" or something because it ain't just men.

@@kilssj2250 The quote is exact and correct. It is the men. Men with noting to lose are very dangerous. Women are different ... or haven't you noticed?

I’ve noticed this for years. When male animals don’t thrive in the wild, they die alone. But when human males don’t thrive, they make it everyone else’s problem.

No it's: "The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth." It's an African Proverb, and it says Child not a man, anyone can be a threat includingwomen, they just tend to be more empathetic, and respond Differently to Psychological Trauma.

@@jonjonjihen3940Good men are dangerous so they know how to control it, that child doesn't and so it burns.

There was never any negativity geek

@@chrisdawson1776exactly right. He’s always used constructive criticism against others.

Funny, i had the exact opposite reaction to this video. To me it looks like TBYS has become less constructive and more judgemental&confrontational for no reason.

I totally agree

well youre wrong, not really crazy@@utarefson9

I struggled a lot in my 20s with work and relationships. I got work sorted out, and now in my 30s I'm sorting out romantic, friendships, and family relationships.

Lewis and Clark were mapping America at 25. You should be struggling in your teens and start to have it figured out by your 20s.

@@rathelmmc3194okay that’s a rare example you’re using. This idea of having it figured out in your 20s is part of the reason why men take their own lives so much because of societal pressure when it comes to them reaching success. Men typically don’t reach their financial peak until they are around 35 or older.

@@rathelmmc3194 You comment comes across as dismissive and condescending, perhaps meeting a need you have to feel superior. It's not something a healthy mature adult who had it figured out would say.

It's okay to struggle, period. You are human.

Just work on your improvements that you know are real improvements and take confidence in that.

Keep going girl!! I fell victim to the same thing!

Good luck! Keep taking those wins

Well done! Get some help from a stylist if you still have trouble with fashion. Its a one off cost, but they can help educate you on what looks good with your body shape and colours that suit your skin tone. If you dont want the cost you can easily look up a lot of videos on YT that help you with that sort of thing. I learnt years ago what looks best on my frame and it makes all the difference.

​@@TomasSowellIsGreat Nice username. Thomas Sowell is one of my heroes.

So your mentality to get a job is to show everyone how good of a slave tenant you are to an occupational position? That’s a great strategy to garner respect. No, in reality, people of certain age groups could literally walk into a place, give a firm handshake, look someone in the eyes, and they got a job. You had to jump through all these hurdles like a well trained show dog to gain a sliver of success the original example I said here did.

Been watching his videos since 2018. Great commentary channel I've ever stumbled into

His voice actually grew on me like a psychedelic fugus. Magical 😂. He gives very solid advice and insight. I’m listening.

You're joking right? His videos are literally cherry picking the worst cases that agree with his narrative of the world. This has to be one of the most depressing comments I've read. He's not analyzing their mental and physical well-being but projecting himself and his views, HARD.

im gonna take a guess you relate to all the people he's talking about and that's pretty much about it​@@Darkloid21

u r trying too hard to seem smart when ur just not @@Darkloid21

Do what's hard, and your life will be easier. Do what's easy, and your life will be harder. (that's a tough pill to swallow).

There's a very obvious joke you could make here

Honestly I don’t think blaming external forces would be such a bad thing at this point in time. Everyone’s saying how the current administration has screwed up everything, cost of living going up, etc.

Perhaps but making excuses is easy.

If you think it's ok just because "everyone" is doing it... I don't even know what to say. Deal with your own shit, people. Joining forces with other losers just makes you one of them.

This is actually really good advice for young people today. They all get so caught up thinking every little setback is a boulder they have to free themselves from. Or every little negative encounter is some type of systematic oppression holding them down.

So many people get main character syndrome. They hyper focus on the little things.

If you are down in life get these 3 things in order, your diet, your sleep, and your physical and mental stimulation, you can add in faith but that isn't everyone's cup of tea. If all of those are in check you will be better for it and everything good will follow.

Right. The fact that this guy has never been in a relationship isn’t actually that big of a deal, but he’s convinced himself that it is. To be fair though, one could argue that part of that is down to societal conditioning or pressures

@@tonymarchese92it kind of is though. Western countries especially the U.S like to shame virgins for some reason especially male virgins. I think it’s a connotation of our ancestors. The alphas would get the girls and the betas wouldn’t. Times have changed though we have resources of abundance so we need to find other ways to bring brothers down I guess. Humans are just naturally competitive creatures.

@Xilaneda Maybe the failed journalist would find a (huge) niche market of writing for the (vast?) population that reads at a 5th grade level. 🤔😆

pupils are the size of the moon. what’s that about

​@@amg9163She could become a children's book author. Turn a negative into a positive. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Thank you for this clarification! Even with no experience, a person with a good major should be given the opportunity to work, especially if he or she demonstrates writing skills. I know that companies want experience, but higher education should have prepared a potential employee with experience.

i kinha blame the professors who passed her for each class in that case. without proper feedback, some people don't realize they lack talent

Bro I'm in the exact same boat. I was suicidally depressed and almost shot myself in 2023. 27 years old and never had a gf but own a house. I finally decided to reach out to one ( one of the very few ) of my friends who essentially forced me into the gym with a structured plan. This is the same friend who encouraged me to get a handgun license, so in a way he felt responsible. Went from 278 to 143 in a year. Changed my hair, focus on my skin care and appearance. I used to look, and act like a total creep. Now I catch women glancing at me all the time and it gives me such an ego boost. I'm so happy I reached out. I was objectively much uglier than the guy in the video at the time. Most people are attractive if they just get in shape and have proper hygiene and some style.

What if you don't care about fashion or hair? Like I make sure to dress appropriate to the situation and I try to keep my hair brushed and not messy. But do I care about wearing the latest fashion or that my hair doesn't look like all those other women with silky, smooth locks? No. And I feel like people that have such a problem with my hair or what I wear I don't really want to know.

👍

@@kpoppy9635 They're saying choose a flattering hairstyle and clothes that look good on you. It really IS important to put effort into these things if you want to be taken seriously. It's just human nature to want to trust and be around people that look put together

@@pinkcatgxrl the problem is Idk if there is a hairstyle that looks good on me cause I'm unattractive...like my face is, it's not because of my hair and I shower regularly. And my hair is strangely both wavy and curly at the ends. I tried curling it, I looked like a poodle, I tried straightening it, it didn't straighten all the way and I was sitting there for like an hour, and the one hairstylist gave me a cut that made me look like Velma from Scooby-Doo. So I don't really know what to do so I just make sure to brush it and try to make it not messy. And my clothing on the weekends is a sweatshirt and jeans or a sweater and jeans cause its comfortable and I don't see the point in dressing up just to go shopping. Otherwise I wear a uniform at work. I'll wear nice clothes like a nice shirt and slacks when going to a fancy restaurant or occasion but I will not wear dresses or skirts. They make feel uncomfortable and exposed.

@@kpoppy9635fashion isn’t just trends, fashion is how you make yourself appear. Fashion is the sense of style you have when you dress in a way that impresses yourself and other simultaneously

Sometimes it's hard to be understood when you don't even understand yourself

Thank you! I'm around your age and not getting a degree was = wasting your life. I think we're the last generation that knows a world with and without internet or cellphones, it was actually cool to be an irresponsible slacker and "f-ckboy", being a nerd or any type of different would get beatings as bullying was an epidemic and PTSD/therapy had a profound stigma. We saw global disasters like 9/11 which united US vs. How divided we are today and the chaos it's producing. Aliens/UFOs, went from science fiction to a scientific fact. We were taught that being queer is a disease to a heroic, virtuous, pursuit. We used to censor "bad words" in the media, now we censor ideas. Students weren't ambushing universities with bullets and actism..trends were changing exponentially faster.. 2005 would not recognize 2016 and after a mf neo black plague pandemic jn 2019, we're struggling trying to collect the pieces of ourselves to see what still fits..in an age where everyone is lonely even around people and friendship is on the decline.. if I had a nickel for every time I heard boomers calling millennials lazy, I could fix the economy they destroyed. It's almost 2024 and we have AI gfs and vaporizers. Our country is handing out $$$ to any country that asks while our citizens had their shit burned in a riot, live on the streets and ofc theyre pissed. Nothing surprises me anymore and idk how many more times I can die a little more inside. I simply try to embrace the absurdity.

Exactly! I've taken charge to fix it, but a lot of us were told to go to college and work hard and you'll succeed. I've done that. I'm nowhere close to owning a home. The advice I would give to younger generations is don't go to college until you figure out what you want to do because you might not even need a degree to do it. And job hop. A lot. Never stop looking. There is no longer a benefit to staying with the same company for years.

Agreed 1000% as a fellow millennial. It's crazy to know two versions of the world from our youth to what it is now. We're having to fix what the boomers destroyed, while simultaneously being ridiculed by them at every turn. Then the Gen Z's are of age now and don't really care about much in general. What a time to witness.

​@XanderShiller As a millenial: Millennials ARE lazy and then use the state of the world around to deflect from their laziness.

Im a millenial and jobs that require craftsmanship, or anything where you use your hands was discouraged when i was little. I wanted to do various stuff with my hands but no i had to focus on unnecessary math problems that i will never use in my life and i wouldnt make any money with those jobs ...nowadays people who can do those jobs are in high demand and are paying good wages.... And btw in my country it is impossible to get a job without a college degree. My dad has no college degree (a boomer) and worked his way up from the bottom back in the day. He now has a job where no one without a degree will be hired for.

Thankyou sir. That was a very good message to people who still don't feel like they stack up In Life. That changed for me personally when I had my son. To be needed that much by another person makes you realise that you actually do matter and you matter a lot even if it's only just for one person, that's all it seems to take for most of us. I need him, and he needs me and all the money in the world and the various jobs I have had and the hedonistic experiences couldn't even come close to that feeling of being needed.

You speak truth. Sure... I'm not some multimillonaire with everything I ever wished for but... I'm in decent health, I make enough(key word) money to pay my bills, get food, and save up. I have my own place, I have a good friend, and a loyal partner. Sure there are still many aspects I wish were better but ultimately I am doing better than I ever have. So you know what, random internet guy? You're right. I am doing better than I think. Thank you for the insight.

@@mmmbbop9351 Having a purpose, is what every human needs.

I love mushrooms 😂❤😂 so many revelations running amok. Life is great 😊

Or I'm in my thirties, the poorest in my social circle (what remains of it), and not likely to improve at any point due to being married to a goddamned lodestone of a human being.

those jobs are getting replaced by machines.

​@@al-imranadore1182 Customer service cannot be replaced by a machine

​@@al-imranadore1182based replier 😂 but still

Yeah but that was in 2004 😂 now a days you won't meet a married woman who can tell the truth

Some of these replies to this comment are def victim mindset. There are still plenty of cashier/grocery store jobs and plenty of honest married women.

yeah exactly, she probably believe people are just lying to her when they tell her this tho.... I hope she can realize it

She also has a nice voice and clear way of speaking. I guess her main problem is her negative self image.

her jawline was really weak ngl

3 pm and still not had a shower is just disgusting, why not do it? It is not just her negative self image it is laziness.

Yeah. Alot of these leftist punks in the west, they’re like children who wouldn’t listen to their parents on how good they had it compared to elsewhere. So they listen to breadtubers who tell them that it ain’t their fault or some shit, but rather the fault of some insane capitalist bullshit.

He lost his parents at a young age. Can’t really blame them

Can be so easy to spot people raised by single mom's or just neglectful parents. Either get taught nothing about being a likeable person or taught wrong. How we've got an influx of oversensitive men and aggressive women.

Agreed thats why we all have to "reach out" to ppl like these. Steel sharpens steel. Who else will teach if not themselves.

he wasn't thought anything but it is hard to learn when you are completely alone.

Agreed. My parents just put me in front of an NES all throughout my schooling while they worked their 12+ hr/day factory jobs. I can relate to and followed jarrons adult misery until I had enough. Starting P90X back then changed my life completely ❤

I personally agree

All those conditions you named are unchangeable.

In which country was that?

@@gteixeiraProbably the USA.

@@samuelcheung4799 That's why. Try to get a felony in China and you will never be employable again, except cleaning toilets.

I admire your work ethic

@@gteixeira America

Awe, I'm a single 32 year old Christian girl. Luckily I didn't go to college and get debt, but sometimes I feel like I'm stuck in a rut even though I'm living the dream.

​@@rebelrider3361​​@seanentzel9616 I am 37 and have a bachelors degree in communications which I got in 2008 but I have never been able to get a decent job or one that paid anything. But I don't consider myself a victim at ALL, and THAT is what pisses me off about this video. The guy who made this video basically implying that there are people who went to college for a "worthless" degree, and so then those people should feel pity or be depressed if they can't find a job that pays anything. But not once does he EVER suggest that it is OKAY to have gone to college and not be able to get a decent job, but be OKAY with that and NOT be depressed or upset about it. It took me a LONG time to get to this point, but I am finally content with the fact that I have never got a decent job with my degree and might not ever get one, and that there are a lot of things that I might not ever end up doing in my lifetime. As an example, I have never got to take a plane trip and although I would like to take a plane trip at least once in my life, I could die happy at this point even if I never do. But me being content with that fact is something that would probably upset a lot of people, including the guy who made this video because he'd probably think I was just settling for never being able to do things. But there is a HUGE difference between being CONTENT with something and wanting to do it but just not doing it because you don't want to try. Speaking of which, the guy who made this video is the BIGGEST narcissist and he honestly just sounds bitter that he probably didn't go to college and is having a "what if" feeling that never goes away. Whatever the case though, it is always painfully obvious to me that he is making these videos as a way to convince himself that you can just learn things from "youtube videos", and that therefore him not going to college was okay. But it is all just a ruse though, and I can see right through it. Number one, this dude ALWAYS rails on people who went to college for something that he claims you could learn on your own on youtube, then he blames THAT for why a person cant seem to get anywhere in life. But anyone who has ever actually been to college can surely attest that just the experience of it can do things for you that you would not get if you did not go to college and just "learned things on KZfaq." It definitely makes you more disciplined and levelheaded to actually go to college, which is probably why I have been okay with the fact that I never got a decent job or one that related to my major. I only ended up working at a thrift store in 2010 and was only being paid minimum wage and only part time hours. But I was completely collected about it and kept everything in perspective the entire time that I worked there, even when others would seem frustrated about ME being ok with working there! Which had absolutely NOTHING to do with them! I was also looking for a better paying job while working there, though I never managed to get one. I don't even know if it was because I got grants and scholarships on top of my student loans due to being low income but relatively gifted so I only owed around $15k in loans (which I am STILL paying off even now), or because I actually do enjoy writing and am good at it, but I don't even regret going to college or getting my bachelors degree even in spite of my inability to get a decent job. But this dude's problem is just that he thinks everyone should feel depressed or feel like sh*t about going to college if they can't get a decent job or get a lot of money. So he needs to STOP projecting and go see a therapist or a psychiatrist to sort out his feelings instead of bullsh*tting on KZfaq about it.

Christ isn't a woman

@@brianallen140 I think she meant she has a female friend who is also a Christian.

​@@brianallen140you're reading comprehension needs a lil work man

Fr this channel made me get off my ass final get a license save up for a car. And doing at home workouts

He’s a great life coach. 😂 I adore this channel. He’s straight to the truth. More humans need this personality trait.

@@Leahmoonbeamflower It's true

@@brightog1738 Good for you bro! In hopefully getting my license soon

They remind me of Shrimp from Smiling Friends.

100% shelter and im speaking from first hand experience and its a difficult mindset to get out of

mouthbreathers

​@@iridescentsea3730That's actually worse than being someone who doesn't go outside. As someone who doesn't go outside much I still trained myself to only breathe from my nose unless I'm smoking.

I have never been a loser and watching these people makes me feel so sad… but at the same time very proud I’ve never allowed myself to be like this.

That is the right mentality for sure. My life has gotten much better once I decided to never say no to an opportunity

You're way in advance of me if that's the case. I can barely predict what the world is gonna be like even 10 minutes from now.

Balance being open to opportunities with having a general sense of life direction

Have a life plan, but be flexible and course correct if the circumstances clearly aren't in your original plan's favor anymore.

That why they hate him they dislike truth, pragmatism and only like empathy when it benefits them

Ok

The truth is bitter Not everyone likes to hear it

​@@abd-animation-22 what are you even talking about bru

@@L.T.141 Welcome to KZfaq comments section Please your expectation low for the reminder of the flight

New meta victim porn,

The purpose of the bleak picture is politics and the promise to fix all that for a vote.

@@Golfing422 Sound point. Not to mention sales.

@@rigelb9025 It’s always the ones who created the problems who promise to fix them. That’s why they’re most motivated when it comes to screwing things up.

@@Golfing422 So what can we do, as petty individuals?

damn. as a 19 year old this hits

Yeah I've been working out lifting weights for my entire body for about a year and my biceps and triceps aren't getting any bigger. They seem to be locked in at this size.

I think it's wonderful actually having muscle but still.

@@Topher_1986 if you’re actually serious; nutrition, lifting and quality sleep are the keys. If you don’t have all three it won’t matter. Protein supplementation doesn’t hurt either.

@@prongATO I probably need more protein replacement because damn I'm doing all the other things

@@Topher_1986 You need to switch up how you actually train your biceps or muscle groups in general.

I have a 4 year degree in IT same problem. I am studying Algorithm now and focusing on Game dev less web the. I was before. I am also open to learning more about embedded stuff now. My education was great for the web. I got rejected so yea. I am planning in starting my own thing over this nonsense.

Yeah you get it. When people say 'not enough experience' they don't mean on their projects, or time spent acquiring skills, they mean as time spent as an underling somewhere else. That's literally it. Time spent under some other branch, company, or in some other position. I don't understand why TBYS can't get that. Its universal across ALL fields.

What if you just don't want people to be assholes? I don't care to be applauded or attention, I just want people to respect me and not be mean lol

​@@kpoppy9635 A Lot Of People Take The Being Told The Truth As Being Attacked, With No Disrespect Intended

@@chiefnoodz no I was legit made fun of by people and they totally meant disrespect. Also I feel like if people don't ask for it, don't give it because you don't know what is going on in their life. Plus they won't listen anyway unless they actually want your help. But if they open up to you, and ask for your advice, then that's on them.

Depending on the field, unpaid work or a portfolio isn't even counted. I was told it can be a "who you know" type of thing, so build contacts.

@@V4Now Yes, that's a very big part of it.

The infamous ''It's not what you know, but who you know'' trope often applies. And furthermore, if you're in H¤llYw¤¤D, ''it's not what you do, but who you do''.

I've seen so many posts complaining about needing 3 years experience for a good paying job. Yes. That's not new. They're paying because they don't have to spend the next year training you on the basics, holding your hand. They can put you right to work with minimal training. Your first couple of years are going to be crap with crap pay in any field. It's intentional to weed out those that can't hack it. To get the high paying jobs you have to be willing to move and work for small companies first. That girl who wanted to be a journalist is a good example. Beyond the advice he gave, notice where she applied. Not a single one was a small local paper or a publication put out by a non profit. It was the big online publications. My husband worked for an oil refinery in a small southern oil boomtown. So many engineers would get hired, get their 3 years, and move to a big company that paid better. So if all those guys figured it out, why is it so hard for everyone else to? My father-in-law started as an accountant for a small dairy and worked his way up to be a VP for one of Canada's richest men. My husband started working for the contractor of a small refinery making $25,000 to now working for one of the big oil companies and it'll be almost $200,000 this year. Because we were willing to move to go to where opportunities were. He's worked with so many people that work at one for 5 years until they're vested for the pension and then jump to a new one to do it again who were born all over the country. They've got their eye on the prize of collecting from 3 or 4 pensions so they can afford to retire early. These places are usually out in the middle of nowhere, 1-2 hours to a major city. Small towns in many cases of from 15,000 to 50,000. Look on Indeed and don't search for just very near you. Search different states and be willing to pack up and move for a couple years until you reach the requirements for where you WANT to work. It means you're going to have to tough it out with a crappy company with low pay, but the reward is the job you really wanted. Keep your head down, do the work, don't complain, and keep your end goal in sight.

@@V4NowSelling your soul to pretend interactions are genuine doesn’t sound like living life. How authentic are your relationships to people in having met people to meet them in the order of achieving an aim?

I guess he embodies the idea of improvement.

Happiness is fleeting. Seek fulfillment.

Seek meaning in family and friends. The most fulfilling thing is being in service to others IMO.

So hobbies? Travel? Gym? I mean what else is left? You eliminated most things that keep people going by the things you listed.

​@@rebjr6615As long as they don't use you or see you as a doormat.

@@LB-uo7xy dont let your past experiences spoil the potential….

I feel like after you've been subbed to the channel for a while, a sixth sense develops that lets you know when one is coming soon. I had the same thought as you the other day, as well as the two prior videos

Its that, but so much more. Our culture is stagnant, population in decline, leaders unchanging and light forever fading. We need to crumble, rebuild and find comfort in the darkness.

No that’s not it. Capitalism invented marketing and socially engineered people into believing that they can buy happiness. I mean look at these women: they have their Bosslife, yet they’re miserable. They all drank that Kopland. all these people complaining while being overweight in their house while whole families getting erased in Gaza. No sympathy. Money & career does not lead to happiness. It’s a small aspect of life. Your circle of family/friends and what you contribute to others is what brings true value in your own life.

​@@theredknight9314 great point

what a ridiculous comment. i wish people would get out of here with that sihtty forced meme. blaming men for the problems that were pretty much created by wimen and modern feminism. if you want to be accurate, it should be this, bad wimen create hard times, hard times create good wimen, and good wimen create good times. there. i fixed it for you. why are you blaming men when men, weak or not, have absolutely nothing to do with it. its ridiculous. you think if all men started collectively beating their chests like an alpha gorilla that's going to help anything?. get real dude. the entire system is rigged from top to bottom. most average people have zero power to change anything.

In this video it's something else.

Because its the Internet. People, no matter what they say online is something different in how they act in the Real World. The real World and the Internet are 2 different things. Lets take that Girl in the Video for example. Besides her oily Hair, a Dude who complains and says she sould put on make up would never in a million Years reject her in Real Life. In real life, several factors play a role in why someone is lonely or not. Some things are in your control, some things are not. To say you can change everything is a lie. To say you cant change anything is also a lie. The same for doing the "right" things. You can do exactly the correct things and still end up in a bad spot. Not to mention that attracting People is one thing, but if its the wrong kind of People, there will be other bigger Problems down the line. If someone was born into poorer circumstances, where the majority of people around you are alcoholics or at least borderline alcoholics, who pull everyone around them down and refuse any help, its not really the best place to be. In my case, thats all i had around me, even every single Activity around me and in other Villages and even the City turned around drinking and being self absorbed and shallow. If you want to see your Future, look at the People around you. It took me a new Place elsewhere to get a proper Social Life going. And i have to add that this is not out of nowhere achievable by everyone. Moving to a different Village/Town/Area sounds verry simple and fairly easy on the Internet or on Paper, but in Real Life its a different Story. This delusion that every Human can start all over and dont get effected is insane. I don't fundamentally disagree with what is said in the video, but the shallow "solutions" alot of People in the comments claim would solve issues like that, only adding to the Culture of Shallow People with Materialistic tendencies. That the Personality should stand in the Focus is almost forgotten by the Right and the Left to a different degree. Instead of asking what you can offer to others, it's always boiled down to what can other People offer me. There is a reason why Pride and self focus is considered a sin. Most People forgott that they are Humans and how to act like one. For example take a look at Cars. You are almost nothing if you dont have one., A Human being is now required to own 1 Ton of Steel to take part in Life. A Problem that is worse from Area to Area. In the US it is bigger then in other places of the World for example.

There is almost infinite paths in life and everyone is different. If you failed at everything so far then something else is going on with you. Keep searching for the path that will work for you, there are many out there, you can't tell me you've tried everything, it's not even possible to try it all.

Yep. Plenty of people in that situation, I see it in vlogs and comments. Self-help and life improvement coaches and gurus only ever show the successes - survivorship bias - because that's how they make cash. Optimism minus reality equals delusion.

​@@tgheretfordDishonesty + victimhood complex = bad outcomes. I've seen a LOT of the people you describe be either dishonest or deluded about the effort they put in. Most will email a resume to one company and claim they've been "job hunting seriously."

@@foxnfoxkids What are you even talking about? What about any of this has to do with war and children dying? Could you be more mendacious?

I went to a bar once, alone to work on my social anxiety. I sat down and ordered a drink. I managed to stay there for 4 hours and not a single soul talked to me. I wasn't using my phone, btw... Still a win I guess???

​@@itsez1129that's when you be the one to talk to anyone, guy or girl

​@@itsez1129Somerimes a bar isn't the best place because they have people looking to be alone. If you have interests start trying to engage in those setups. Sailing, book club, hiking clubs, cooking classes. It may be easier for you when it is tied to a topic you can engage in, and to start conversations. If it is a group setting like that, then it may give you some space from having to engage. If you don't have any hobbies like that, it is a good time to discover some. I am an introvert who learned how to be an extrovert. It takes practice, and a little self forgiveness, but it can be done. I wish you a full life! Best of luck.

""You are right. It is so annoying. We live in the US and if you want to change something, you can."" Wich is a lie. You can change things to a certain degree would be more accurate.

Weak people letting Society dictate their feelings.

Sadly attractiveness is only changeable if you have enough money for major surgery or if you have easily changeable bad traits like being overweight and having bad hair.

At some point thinking becomes a problem

again, it depends on the mom. however i agree because ive alwasy struggled with friends. im only 17, so i havent learnt everything yet. but i will say that ive understood that the best thing to do is to take care of yourself, your goals, your hobbies, your surroundings and you will meet people with common interests. im going to uni next year and im excited to join societies. likewise, i joined guides and brownies when i was 7 and it kind of saved me. i met my 3 best friends. of course, over the years we grew apart (geographically) but still friendly. overall, everything i said there was because of my mom. i came home everyday upset after being at school and being bullied. she conforted and stood up for me. she taught me to be more independent and focus on the important things. perhaps here, for these people, its their apperance, their job, relationships, future etc.

@@mikiandfriends1820 humans today are addicted to overthinking.

I try that. I get ignored.

Your lucky to have a good mom. Treasure her. My moms answer to everything is the simplistic 50s answers/get over it. My dads answers to everything is church. Do what works for you. Hope things get better…all the best and hope the next year is better than this one!

I think you nailed it with 'join *tailored* social groups'. Some people, such as myself, can (and should) only interact with a very small, select group of people, ideally.

Bingo

Problem is, what people consider 10/10s is impossible because it's subjective. Maybe treat women like people instead of fictional mathematics, British cigarette

I noticed that too. Kind of strange coming from a man. Guys usually have some kind of idea what kind of woman is in their range. They don't try to get a 10 when they're a 5. Women on the other hand seem to think they should be able to get someone way above them. They want a 10 even if they are a 2, and they probably aren't satisfied with the the 10.

incel trying to sound like not an incel @@frogglen6350

​@@Speed-dw6qp well, there is always an exception to the status quo.

She's atractive in the sense of "pretty girl next door", she's ok at best, but her strengthcome from that she's a sociopath that has monetized the friend zone, nobody who has a backbone and is ok looking would like/put up with her antics, but that is what she has master, manipulation of the weak minded

That's funny I too was thinking pokemane was the ultimate conversion boss. She should be a nobody but because she takes care of herself it's a free ride

@@dogelife7901 exactly 💯

​@dogelife7901 well she takes care of herself and she's beautiful. Like even if she didnt manage her appearance as well as she does, she'd still be pretty.

you know, as someone who spent their childhood surviving, I never had much time to think of a goal I had in life. now, as an adult who isn't interested in having kids, I am working and enjoy spending time playing games and doing hobbies. this is all I want to do, aside from some health goals, better financial, etc. but even though I'm somewhat at my goal, I find it hard to enjoy because I'm told I need to want more. I feel if I got where you are I would still struggle to enjoy it because it's not supposed to be enough, you're supposed to want more, so you feel guilty enjoying it. and never really feel happy. an interesting issue.

@@oreng5791don’t let society trick you into telling you how to live your life

@oreng5791 I completely agree with you on being told I'm supposed to want more. That is the problem I have yet to solve. I look at videos all day of people that make significantly more than me and yet I know myself. I have 40000 in the bank and I don't do anything with it, it just continuesto build. I could add zeros to that number and it wouldn't change anything for me. I feel like I'm supposed to want something but at the same time I feel no motivation or desire to strive more than I already have. When I was 14 I thought life was meaningless. I was told by the adults in my life that would change as I got older. I'm 28 now and the realization is that I'm supposed to find fulfillment in leaving a legacy. However all the common ways of doing that don't interest me. I don't want kids, I don't want to run a business, I'm not inventing anything nor am I setting records that will stand the test of time. I just continue to exist for the sake of existing.

​@@martiniinaglasspro5502same for me, I feel perfectly content on being an employee for the rest of my life. Many people will see this as a bad thing for not wanting to achieve better and bigger things, but I just don't have that big ambitions. I don't want to raise kids, I don't have motivation to run my own business, and leaving a legacy is just something I'm not interested in. I'm here on this planet to live a simple honest life

I had similar goals in my childhood, because I grew up in a poor family. All I wanted was to have an easy job that will allow me not to worry about money. Now I have a decent job with good work conditions and salary. But it just doesn't feel enough anymore at 25 years of age.

"If they were a friend/a dude would you still be interested in their personality?" Narrowing your filters to being more specific helps a lot that way you're not just like "ooh female specimen detected!" Personally, I would like a brown goth girl who plays guitar pretty competently and understands my vision for music/life. Pretty specific no? Now the second part is figuring out where such a person would reside. My dumbass way of doing that is to ditch the usual bars/cafes/library routes and just putting myself out there by going to conventions, open mics, and meetups and the like and just having fun being myself. Ironically enough being yourself and not presenting a nice "facade" actually helps you filter out people you wouldn't get along with anyways. And realize this at all times. Most women are not worth it. If you're having bad interactions or are in bad place then get out of there and find your best place.

I tell my step son that you have to do stuff that sucks every day in this life. Nobody has ever liked work, but the sooner a person accepts that they have to work and gets over it, the better the future is. Most people won’t be in a fun, dream job if they’re making a living doing it.

@@Golfing422 Yep, even if you do eventually get into your "dream job" it's likely you only got there after enduring multiple, sometimes dozens of jobs you tolerated or at worst, completely hated. It took me 8 years of military service, and 8 years after that to finally land a "dream job" in my chosen field. It's the first time I actually really enjoy work everyday. Did I have days I enjoyed previously? Sure, but most days were grinds, and some days are downright abysmal, and it'll be the same way in the "dream job too".

@@thisismyyoutubecommentacco6302 I’ve heard a lot of, “I can’t see myself doing this the rest of my life,” most often from individuals who have absolutely nothing. I think I’d be more depressed living in moms basement with nothing, than having to do some job that at least makes a living. Being broke is the worst thing I ever experienced in life, far worse than any job. You can’t do nothing when you’re broke and sitting on someone else’s couch all day living off hand outs being a beggar isn’t living. I worked 7 days a week for a lot of years to get established. I didn’t have to, but that feeling of being broke helped with that mindset. I can’t imagine just sitting there with nothing, going nowhere, no plans, no life, just living in misery being broke.

Agreed. I have my dream job of being a full time mom/homemaker right now, but it took me almost 10 years, two degrees and 3 boring repetetive jobs to get there. Your 20s are never going to be easy, they are the years to sow the seeds that you will harvest from later in life.

Yeah, that whole "he sees women as objects" part really rubbed me the wrong way too. I mean it's a bit of a leap, and companionship and physical intimacy are rarely exclusive to each other. I mean Football/soccer is a team sport and your relationship is as important as your overall skill... but what's the point of being in it if you can't touch the damn ball or score from time to time!😅 (bad analogy)

Unattached men who are not succeeding in the dating market aren't seen as people because men are judged on their ability to succeed in the dating market. Not being given compassion, being talked down to and seen as a threat in society is not going to end well. The concept of pretty privilege and the pink tax is well known. The problem is, the self-help and life improvement commentators and gurus can't make money from critical factors you can't fix (genetics, neuroatypicality, speech impediments).

@@tgheretfordJust date an autistic girlie if you’re autistic. Speech impediments CAN be fixed, by the way. I had a horrible lisp and stutter most of my childhood, by the time I was in 8th grade I’d had enough (free, through school) speech therapy that I didn’t struggle with those anymore. Genetics are malleable, unless you’re talking about Downs Syndrome or something.

Most of the “ugly duckling” guys at my school who couldn’t get a date, literally showed up to school with matted greasy hair, stank like BO, wore shoes that were literally falling apart and stunk horribly, and they would wear the same clothes over and over (like 2-4 days in a row without changing). My husband was a goofy skinny nerd in HS and I was doing modeling… I still dated him because he was clean, funny, and knew how to carry a conversation. He became more attractive to me with time, now he’s hot, not just to me but objectively, he is great looking. In part because I told him which style (haircut, clothing, facial hair) looked best on him and he took me seriously. Men who do not put in ANY EFFORT to clean themselves, dress in flattering ways, get a healthy toned body, or learn to speak to women, are not desirable, and to be honest it is insulting for them to come up trying to use pickup lines on women, when they stink and don’t daily shower, brush their hair or even brush their teeth.

​@@MyBoysAndJoys"This goes for both genders "As a former geek who was skinny nd played videogames all day and stank. Who now is decent shape smells good and dresses well. I can say it makes a difference, from being off putting to most females to regularly attracting 7+ (basically most at this point) I agree just doing the basics will increase your attraction. Afterwards it is about being a good person (not selfish) and actually caring about the ones you are interested in that keeps people in general in your life.