Sometimes I wake up and remember I’m married and all I want to do is leave- ID CABASA

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10 ай бұрын

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@jessedee8635 10 ай бұрын

His humility is contageous. You can literally feel it from the screen

@Gistcornerblog 10 ай бұрын

People say they stay because of their children but I stayed because of my wife..... WORD

@ofiliadefia 10 ай бұрын

ID Cabasa is the timberland of Nigerian music.

@shinasulaiman508 6 ай бұрын

This gentleman is my pastor and i remember about 11years ago joining GIC surulere then, i came to church for the first time and boom on the podium playing the keyboard humble before man and God, ID cabasa, i was amazed seeing someone i adored in my generation musically working for God, i wanted to know more, he actually influenced my still being a member of the church without him knowing 😅, when you see grace, its like a prism and its illuminates, thank God we are under the same grace @ the goodland, we are blessed to be a blessing❤

@aminusikiru2799 10 ай бұрын

This guy has got so much that refused to be hidden. He's so thoughtful and natural in his speech. Lesson- "Avoid see finish tendencies of your spouse and build him/her to the kind of person you want them to become" it's a continuous mutual support.. thank ID Cabasa.. respect ❤

@AbiAkintunde 7 ай бұрын

The. Gift that keeps giving. Such a great mind.

@brainyboanerges8540 7 ай бұрын

You're a beautiful soul. I need to meet you

@lekebaiyewu3536 10 ай бұрын

So, I watched the full interview on Channels today and my wife and I agreed that it was one of the best interviews we have watched in recent time. Cabasa was deeper than we had always thought.

@fiyinfoluwaero-phillips 10 ай бұрын

You should listen to his session at THE NEW'S Next Conference 2022. He's very insightful, spiritual and profound. Everytime I listen to him speak, it's a blessing.

@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 10 ай бұрын

So sweet that you and your spouse relate intellectually

@ImmaculateBlake 10 ай бұрын

This is such a vulnerable session. Very spirit filled. You don't get his kind everyday, he is a rare spiritual being.

@ocinachukwu2323 10 ай бұрын

Truly 😍🙌🏻

@oriode2783 10 ай бұрын

Hmmm, "You were Don Jazzy before Don Jazzy" you got that right Chude.

@tmp_tv 5 ай бұрын

I think what Chude was referencing with that statement is the fact that Don Jazzy didn't use to talk when he first joined the industry. He only use to talk through the mouth of D'banj.

@Don-ned 10 ай бұрын

I have never heard this guy speak before but the fact that his name keeps popping up in the Nigeria music circle is a testament of his greatness.

@sunkanmiolaniran3629 10 ай бұрын

He is a legendary music producer...Don Jazzy before Don Jazzy

@arekhandiaevidence5664 10 ай бұрын

A man that has lived and learned.

@vincentukazu3453 10 ай бұрын

if cabasa could have a podcast where he shares wisdom eeeenh , I swear I go sleep there. He effortlessly just says very wise things

@officephone9988 7 ай бұрын

Wisdom ko wisdom ni, do you guys really really know him? Dey play

@darnellpercy1165 7 ай бұрын

@officephone9988 who is he??

@jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518 7 ай бұрын

@officephone9988 Please let us not be like our parents' generation who destroyed Nigeria and caused all the Japaing of many great people that should have built up our homelands. We can learn from ANYBODY to be honest, even from YOU. So let us use KIND words.

@officephone9988 7 ай бұрын

@@jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518 just don't believe everything you see on the media

@9icegirl555 7 ай бұрын

@@officephone9988Your response only succeeded in telling us who YOU are! One can smell 'phoney' on screen a mile away but, that's one word that u can't call ID Cabasa! Know this and know peace!

@kemiadelekekfa 10 ай бұрын

I love this guy. Especially where he felt bad by asking the police man do you know who am I. Many Nigerians are so fond of saying this.

@FasanyaSeun_ 3 ай бұрын

The Nigerian system sometimes demand you do that,that usually is a saving grace.

@ganiatotitoloju2133 Ай бұрын

I used to think ID Cabasa was a street person. OMG! So eloquent,humble, natural, calm, intelligent...... I learned so much from this 11minutes interview. Thanks for bringing him Chude❤

@oyindafalode8103 10 ай бұрын

I fell in love with his legacy and work because of his loyalty and sincere friendship with soundsultan.

@jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518 7 ай бұрын

💯😇♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

@onosenabanum6186 10 ай бұрын

One of the best interviews I have watched from Chude. This guy is real, humble and very intentional.

@wenitokoni8460 10 ай бұрын

I met this man personally... He's a real gem and very spiritual... He's more than what people know him as

@oluwaseyiidowumomodebe1491 7 ай бұрын

"Create a vision of who you want to see in your husband/wife".....This is deep. 👌

@tochukwu.o1 10 ай бұрын

He is so self-aware, and it's so wholesome to watch. The journey to being our truest self never stops because we keep learning and unlearning. If you look deeply, we were kinda domesticated aka Home training😅, you can't just switch. Just be patient with yourself. ID, you're doing well, thank you, Chude. You're doing a good job.

@Witty3272 10 ай бұрын

When he spoke on the 'pride' thing, it touched me becuz my boss a few days ago told me i was proud and have ego. This really crushed me because I've moved from experiencing bullying and being told I would not amount to anything to a woman who is vocal, committed and hardworking and honest. I know I'm flawed but for me to feel this way again sent me back to those traumas. I'm still trying to find where the pride is coming from and I can't seem to find it.😢

@Ibochic1 10 ай бұрын

Hey… don’t feel bad. The fact that you feel crushed, speaks to the fact that you seek to be the best YOU. Don’t let what your boss said crush you. You clearly aren’t proud. Flawed, we all are… allow yourself go through the journey of self actualization and mastery. Lots of love! ❤❤

@sose9601 10 ай бұрын

Hi Sis! Sometimes people just define us based on their limited use of vocabulary and the judgemental behaviour synonymous with the average Nigerian on a good day. But all the same,in a bid to be opinionated and self confident,we sometimes blur the thin line and come across as egotistical. So this means,you MUST ask The Holy Spirit to help you stay truly humble but growing in the corporate world. He may even be threatened by what you carry,who knows? Love and Light.

@Laurational 10 ай бұрын

Hey Queen, don’t feel bad, however we sometimes express our unhealed traumas as excessive confidence. Confidence is great but being overly vocal can sometimes mean we’re trying to prove that we’re worth it. Your boss might not be entirely correct but she might not be entirely wrong. Just be more mindful of how you show and express yourself and you may find areas you need to be more tactful especially in the way you express yourself. Don’t limit yourself but don’t try to prove anything to anyone either. You’re enough and you’re worth it! No extras required❤ sending love and light your way🥂

@Witty3272 10 ай бұрын

@@Ibochic1 Thank you so much for this.🙏

@Witty3272 10 ай бұрын

@@sose9601 Yes, I am taking this to God. I am continuing working on being a better person each day. Thanks so much for this reassurance, I'm grateful.

@callmeesth 10 ай бұрын

The well informed and soft spoken Pastor Olumide👌. The GIC family should be proud of you.

@debbylavinia7827 10 ай бұрын

We are definitely proud of him. Pastor Olumide ❤

@joshuaeyo246 7 ай бұрын

What is GIC?

@Joeltwo32 4 ай бұрын

@@joshuaeyo246his church I’m guessing 😊

@Ruth_Joshua 10 ай бұрын

First time I am seeing and hearing ID Cabasa, and he has earned my respect. Such an honest and emotionally intelligent man.

@arinzeagu695 5 ай бұрын

"People are actually more of the things they hide, than the things they say or do.." Powerful!!

@beatsbymaxxie 10 ай бұрын

I hope people like ID bring back morals and being a decent person into pop culture and music generally. So much to unpack from this clip. Bless you Chude.

@ayoalabi6650 10 ай бұрын

Perspective is a thing, looking at his artist line up(the ajasas and Olamides) I always assumed I.D Cabasa was a street person, to here him speak so well, have a deep insightful thoughts about life is just amazing. We truely learn everyday.

@ladeope3397 7 ай бұрын

They are all graduates

@olasunkanmiifedayo2893 7 ай бұрын

The impression about cabasa back then was that he's one pathetic smoker... But noooo

@thefadigiis5352 10 ай бұрын

I soo love this interview.. Wisdom speaking.. People say they stay because of children, but I stay because of my wife. Powerful

@nkemo65 10 ай бұрын

I remember listening to ID cabasa been interviewed on Galaxy TV more than a decade ago and i was truly impressed at his brilliance. I'm not surprised. Dude is soo chilled and full of wisdom. This is the first interview of Chude that i would watch till the end. .😂

@chenemialfa1743 10 ай бұрын

Chude this gentleman is so intelligent. This is your best interview and guest. Absolute delight to listen to, he is a brilliant orator. Respect!

@access3605 10 ай бұрын

I agreed......i dont want the session to end....so little with soo many words of wisdom and quotes❤

@okechukwuikeh0037 10 ай бұрын

Cabasa, I knew since 2006, very intelligent man

@saxofix4456 10 ай бұрын

This man is a deep thinker!! Lovely and enjoyable interview.

@adeyemilasisi5897 10 ай бұрын

We should listen to more of ID CABASA. You can relate with him. He is different and sincere. ❤❤❤❤

@OluwamayowaSteepe 10 ай бұрын

This interview has taught me more things than the so-called motivation speakers.

@senoradelvita 7 ай бұрын

"I am a bit of a thinker " says he😂😂😂😂😂 A man that says he is still on the journey to becoming himself amongst other things, is a very deep thinker. If it's any comfort to him though, I have never heard of him and never seen him before today.

@graceolarewaju3579 9 ай бұрын

I like that his personality is rooted in his faith. ID Cabasa is a breath of fresh air away from our typical Nigerian men. It's also so refreshing to know that there are a few good and sincere men.

@kri8tiv 10 ай бұрын

This exactly has been my problem for the most part of my life, as a creative person, I know I can definitely get famous if I start putting myself and everything I do out there but then am scared of being judged by family, friends and people that don’t even know me, it’s crazy, especially in a generation where attention is currency.

@victorobi 10 ай бұрын

I understand but don’t think about judgements do your think because it’s always you against you

@Clems-ow7lu 10 ай бұрын

Get up and be yourself my friend😊

@sose9601 10 ай бұрын

You must strike the balance and live in the TRUTH of who know you must be via The Bible as your standard. Remaining broken and staying humble is a peptalk we must have with ourselves each day. Health checks ✔️

@olufemi42 10 ай бұрын

You bothered about what people think of you.. got a whole lot of growing to do

@kri8tiv 10 ай бұрын

@@olufemi42 yeah you are right.

@alayejon 10 ай бұрын

Soft-spoken with wisdom from his experiences in Life. He was also instrumental in the foundations of the Afrobeats sound celebrated globally at the moment. Great guy and humble too.

@dr.francisoluwaferanmitimo5802 7 ай бұрын

This ID CABASA has always been a real dude and he has not changed. He is well trained and discovered the power of exegesis. His words are so clearly written on him and his composure. I celebrate you ID CABASA

@carolinemakunike1566 10 ай бұрын

What a humble man.

@teklasmom4156 10 ай бұрын

ID CABASA!. You speak many truths. I wish you have a podcast. I learnt and now understand alot about myself through this interview. Gods blessings.❤❤

@Iamadumaradan 10 ай бұрын

ID cabasa gave us powerful words back to back

@charitysimon-peraboh5555 10 ай бұрын

On the wife part especially I completely agree, it's what her sustained ny ❤ sometimes I rewind those moments alot 😂😂

@AyeolaAyodejiAwizzy 10 ай бұрын

Legendary ID Cabasa mile tititi!!! Cool headed and great man with results + intelligence all in one person

@anitamarc 7 ай бұрын

He's so full wisdom and got good morals, bless his heart.

@FA-ki7py 10 ай бұрын

His wife is so cool headed and a good singer.

@hlengiwemasondo2858 10 ай бұрын

It was great to watch this , it is so sweet what he said about his wife in the end ♥. I.D Cabassa You come across as an introvert, it seems like you do get comfortable with silence. That is why it so interesting to listen to u. From your South African fan

@davidjayeola9251 10 ай бұрын

Just started watching, can you guys see the quality of the jacket he's putting on. Thats luxery

@Tarron_Innovative_World 7 ай бұрын

ID Cabasa is so cool and thoughtful, humble and always encourage youngstars. I remember watching one audition and he never criticized or downlook the upcoming musicians. I love your simplicity sir

@Badopisa 10 ай бұрын

This guy is full of wisdom

@odeyemigbemisola9712 10 ай бұрын

Absolutely

@oluwasanmiomoshola9719 10 ай бұрын

ID Cabasa is a real gem❤

@chiyex 10 ай бұрын

I knew him before I even knew he was ID Cabasa. I used to live on fatai kadiri street off fola agoro and he was always coming to number 2, a white building to use the internet at the cybercafe . You could tell he was an introvert that liked keeping a low profile. Same way I remembered your face from Mayflower. You were 2000 and I was 98.

@tunjioloskopi6501 Ай бұрын

You be correct Akoka blood ❤

@jesusbaby-lk9zs 24 күн бұрын

AKOKA FAMILY GATHERING 🎉🎉🎉

@adetomiwaibrahimobayemi5030 10 ай бұрын

Man's so thoughtful and deep. Respect!

@dangeorge9883 10 ай бұрын

This guy is full of wisdom 👏

@gifte1319 10 ай бұрын

The humility and wisdom👌🏾🔥🔥🔥🙌🏾🙏🏿

@weriushadrianus 7 ай бұрын

He needs to write all this thoughts for the world to get as wise. ID Cabasa has embodied a lot of character that supercedes his fame, history needs to herald and respect his craft and wisdom. Excellent interview

@juwonvamous 10 ай бұрын

ID Cabassa is a man filled with divine wisdom and understanding. I’ve heard him speak a couple of times and I still get wowed by his depth of knowledge.

@fajimeyeemmanuela1207 10 ай бұрын

He’s so self-aware of himself and his thoughts, love ittt

@samueloladimeji6286 10 ай бұрын

Dear Chude, one reason why you're one of the best in your field is because of how you make your guests feel comfortable and real enough to make their stories become a source of inspiration to others. So your viewers take home unforgettable priceless moments from your interviews like I just did from this one. You inspire me with all you do. Greater heights ahead!

@hometalkswithAduke 10 ай бұрын

... especially the way he brings out questions from the depth of their experiences, that always makes me sit to watch with everything in me. Thanks to you Chude for doing this for us to keep learning.

@mustrecent632 10 ай бұрын

This has to be the best. Out of 6000 spoken languages in the world today ID Cabasa, chooses to speak nothing but the truth and fact These are things you guys should be putting out for us not those gibberish

@oluwajarchi 10 ай бұрын

I can watch ID cabasa for ten hours non stop, that man is in-depth. He is into mind things, so much to learn. Let him put out more knowledge abeg

@olufunkeidowu9931 10 ай бұрын

Powerful! Finding ones true self is really and only in God.

@ekaetefujah 10 ай бұрын

Thanks for introducing some of us to this guy. You give us faith in humanity, particularly Nigerian humans

@paschalamize4642 10 ай бұрын

Loved every bit of this interview. I was honestly bummed out that the interview wasn’t longer

@yetundedisu3872 10 ай бұрын

Love this man, A balanced believer. God bless ID Cabasa

@adewaleakinjeji6436 10 ай бұрын

Deep!!! One of the most insightful interviews I have watched... he is truly a thinker and a deep one at that.

@chidiebere6131 10 ай бұрын

Honest Man online. His wife and folks should be very proud of him

@lilliankunu3658 7 ай бұрын

ID CABASA's humility is next to none. Thanks for this wonderful interview. I picked out some vital lessons from it.

@ikechukwuluis-bruce2908 10 ай бұрын

I need to watch the full video cos this is the BEST interview EVER

@flowman3 10 ай бұрын

What a powerful session. Great job @ID Cabasa & @chude. It's so cool you found yourself & you found purpose, money will always follow. More grace in all you do brother. It's obvious our parents, siblings, culture/environment play a major role in our belief system while growing up & they also tend to form part of our insecurities.

@Funmyy 10 ай бұрын

What a man ! ID cabasa the well of wisdom

@henryking4540 10 ай бұрын

Respect Big Boss ID Cabassa

@peterjay12 7 ай бұрын

I love this guy! He is over-loaded with wisdom. Choi!!!

@abiodunbamibola 10 ай бұрын

Insightful, brilliant and sound.

@rhemapeeakins5061 10 ай бұрын

Such a wonderful mind. Thanks for sharing, wonderful ID Cabasa.😊🤗✨

@user-po3wn2ql1z 4 ай бұрын

The best interviews I have ever watched.

@Jaziny1 10 ай бұрын

Very articulate and inspiring being, glad I listened at this hour as it took care of something.

@LekeAdelaja 10 ай бұрын

This is one of the most powerful interview I have seen here. I can relate to it well

@akinwalie.oluwasanmi 10 ай бұрын

Evergreen Cabasa..... Your work will out live you

@lawaladeshina1524 10 ай бұрын

I love the line. 'people are actually more of the things they hide than the things they say'. ID cabasa 2023

@paulkhare4854 10 ай бұрын

Much respect Cabasa! Thank you for the profound words of wisdom .

@olanikeolatoke2789 4 ай бұрын

He is so honest and self aware. I love this guy. Just knowing him for the first time. He is a thinker and a wonderful man.

@Hacksreal1 10 ай бұрын

I think this is the best #withchude interview I have ever seen. Too much wisdom from a man, ID Cabasa. This is powerful!! Learnt alot really

@Mr_revv 10 ай бұрын

Chude has had so many greats, but I have really enjoyed this one.

@omotayoadeniji6885 10 ай бұрын

Nice to here you speak Idowu my brother. You are always 10/10..... I remembered growing up days with you and others. Hope to catch up someday.

@olabisifolarin 10 ай бұрын

Wow! This was so deep, authentic and refreshing

@Damilola_Taiwo1 10 ай бұрын

Such a great man!!! Full of wisdom. Thank you cabasa

@yekeensodeeq3295 10 ай бұрын

So there's a place of becoming things for the world without becoming yourself. These words are deep

@azeezfawaz6674 10 ай бұрын

This has to be one of the most gems we've gotten in a chude session

@gordo4624 10 ай бұрын

This is your best and most insightful interview Chude.

@topniss 10 ай бұрын

Wow , one of the best interviews I've seen.

@whalesajibola 4 ай бұрын

Have never loved this guy as much as I do now. You smart!

@adefioyetobiloba8018 10 ай бұрын

I must but comment....WOW, Just 10 mins clip filled with wisdom. A man filled with wisdom

@SimplyTemmyDee 10 ай бұрын

So profound. Very smart guys

@bodeafolabi4546 10 ай бұрын

Never knew ID was this wise. My respect and love

@oninasrullah7757 10 ай бұрын

I'd cabasa ==== wise. I'd suggest u watch his past interviews

@safiibrahim1778 10 ай бұрын

They always come across as highly imaginative. How can an unwise person be producing hit making beats for major hip-hop artists? He already said in the interview that he is a thinker. He takes creativity, imagination and talent to do the things he does

@bodeafolabi4546 10 ай бұрын

@@safiibrahim1778 When i wrote “wise”, i wasn’t referring to natural wisdom but a spiritual wisdom which only those who walk with God possess.

@rhodaonyebuchinnachi5810 10 ай бұрын

I enjoy this a whole lot❤... Chude, you are indeed a genius... ID Cabasa, i can see why you are famous... Unwise people don't last long in fame, only wise people last long in fame. Your words are wise

@patienceabo7160 10 ай бұрын

i love this conversation, he is really intelligent and smart, he has gained focus n didn't care anymore

@purple100s 10 ай бұрын

This guy, philosopher- in touch with himself. I enjoyed this.

@rabiatahmed 5 ай бұрын

I really enjoyed watching this

@onyejaysalem1698 10 ай бұрын

Brother you got my respect for everything you said.I learnt a lot.

@deborahjawfu6150 10 ай бұрын

This is deep and so good. Thank you for being real and vulnerable.

@modupeonabajo2665 10 ай бұрын

anha! this interview carries so much presence, I can't even explain it. i always suspected there was something about this guy, but meyehnn this one has some depth.

@obadaremrs8408 7 ай бұрын

First time to hear him and l am smitten by his Godliness, simplicity añd wisdom. You are an embodiment of wisdom and humility and very truthful. Your laughter is real and contagious.