Woman Conducted a School Shooting because she "Doesn't like Mondays"

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Hailey Elizabeth

Hailey Elizabeth

2 жыл бұрын

HI GUYS!! how are we feeling today?? the weather is FINALLY getting cooler because it inching closer to fall! So today's story was a lot to take in and kind of confusing to conclude. Brenda has frontal lobe damage and was a big factor as to why she did what she did, but on the other hand that doesn't make what she did okay. Because now that family of the victims have to live with grief and trauma for the rest of their lives, but also Brenda has impulsivity problems and really couldn't help it because everyone around her wasn't listening to her when she needed help. Honestly if her dad would've just given her the help she needed I think this ALL could've been avoided but those are just my final thoughts. ANYWAY on a lighter note this is my last video before halloween!! I'm so so excited and have so many cool things planned I can't wait to show you guys! I hope you guys have a wonderful rest of your day and enjoy the fresh air!!
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@dannn_4
@dannn_4 2 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why that teacher would call her father to try to get him to get her help for her depression after Brenda told her the abuse he does to her. I don't know if it's just me, but after hearing about the abuse I wouldn't expect him to care for her. I would have expected the teacher to help her, not call her abusive father.
@Lore.n
@Lore.n 2 жыл бұрын
That’s what I was thinking.
@user-md2qo1jm4w
@user-md2qo1jm4w 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I feel like maybe calling the police or a therapist instead of you know calling her abuser would maybe have actually helped her
@al959
@al959 2 жыл бұрын
@@user-md2qo1jm4w It is actually mandatory that teachers report to authorities any time there's suspected abuse-- if a child is being abused and told the teacher, and the teacher just reached out to the parent, that's illegal & they could lose their job easily. It's been like this for a while so I can see mandatory reporting being not enforced that long ago as much as I can see it there-- there may be a chance that she didn't speak on s/a, or minimised the abuse she was experiencing at home which is also so common with traumatised kids (tho mandatory reporters don't need the kid to say anything to report)
@kaseyspringer6979
@kaseyspringer6979 2 жыл бұрын
Probably because the time period it happened
@bunwithgun1587
@bunwithgun1587 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah that was dumb af
@jonginisholy
@jonginisholy 2 жыл бұрын
I can't even imagine how long those 16 minutes must have actually felt to the victims.
@HiMynamesNece
@HiMynamesNece 2 жыл бұрын
I blame the dad she told him she was struggling and he bought her a gun
@lilsjkkk3022
@lilsjkkk3022 2 жыл бұрын
@@HiMynamesNece me too honestly. but he was also struggling with substance abuse and was probably super drunk when she mentioned it to him.
@lilsjkkk3022
@lilsjkkk3022 2 жыл бұрын
im not saying what he did was okay. all im saying is. he was probably drunk or high.
@HiMynamesNece
@HiMynamesNece 2 жыл бұрын
@@lilsjkkk3022 no it doesn't but he should of shared some of the blame even though she pulled the trigger
@jonginisholy
@jonginisholy 2 жыл бұрын
@@HiMynamesNece i do think that the adults in her life definitely failed her but i can't let that justify her actions but then again she was 16 so this one is just hard to watch cause the shooting was definitely preventable.
@shuri.ken6
@shuri.ken6 2 жыл бұрын
"the father fought back tears" i'm sorry but i do not feel bad for him, she asked him for psychiatric help and he gave her a gun.
@Army4life82
@Army4life82 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly what type of parent would do that? A gun? Your child is calling out for help instead of getting her the psychiatric treatment she needed he puts a dangerous weapon in her hand. WTH? He should have been charged with some type of crime. If he wouldn't have gotten her that gun a lot of innocent people would still be alive. I'm not trying to excuse her actions but the father drop the ball big time!!
@nwaary97
@nwaary97 Жыл бұрын
@@Army4life82 what type of father? Rapist father. Idk why u guys so shocked he rape is daughter and verbally abuse her , do u think he will give f?
@Synthpoptroubadour
@Synthpoptroubadour Жыл бұрын
Tears because he’d miss her sweet lovin
@amediasres
@amediasres Жыл бұрын
@@Synthpoptroubadour Lowkey this comment ain’t it
@chadwick444
@chadwick444 Жыл бұрын
actually though. he abused her (SEXUALLY MIGHT I ADD) and acts like he only did the best he could
@Kelsblends
@Kelsblends 2 жыл бұрын
The dad didn't want to get hed help because he didn't want her telling anyone about the sexual abuse. Hands down. I doubt if was solely because of the mind set that time. It was self preservation.
@queene315
@queene315 2 жыл бұрын
I thought that too. He wasn’t just dismissing her because of the mindset of that time, he was saving his ass from getting arrested.
@magickology
@magickology 2 жыл бұрын
No lies detected
@darkamora5123
@darkamora5123 2 жыл бұрын
If you study the history of this case she brought the emotional abuse to her teachers attention. She didn't claim anything about sexual abuse until a parole hearing in the 90s. Not a word. The board itself decided that she was trying to garner sympathy from them and had made up the sexual abuse. You can decide for yourself, but the official view is that it never happened.
@polarfrost8656
@polarfrost8656 2 жыл бұрын
man oh man… if i EVER meet someone who abuses children in any type of way… 🙃 it’s their turn to get abused
@mollyt1296
@mollyt1296 2 жыл бұрын
I also believe she did not out the abuse for many years because he was her only link to the outside..
@lovemewanderlust3671
@lovemewanderlust3671 2 жыл бұрын
“She asked for a radio for Xmas , so he instead got her a gun” Sound American logic.
@softieva
@softieva 2 жыл бұрын
not even that, it’s just dumb parenting
@Jessica-kw8no
@Jessica-kw8no 2 жыл бұрын
@@softieva nah that’s American parenting brother
@michaela3979
@michaela3979 2 жыл бұрын
@@Jessica-kw8no no it isn’t. I’m American and my parents wouldn’t give me a GUN for Christmas!
@serenitythornbro7174
@serenitythornbro7174 2 жыл бұрын
@@michaela3979 yeahhh im pretty sure most kids in america can say the same. my parents would never give me a gun after telling them ive been trying to kill myself.
@scrapbaby9663
@scrapbaby9663 2 жыл бұрын
@@serenitythornbro7174 right
@Deej210
@Deej210 2 жыл бұрын
As an educator, I would lay my life down to protect my students, no questions asked. They deserve a future.
@kianna270
@kianna270 2 жыл бұрын
thank you for all that you do!! one of my teachers said something similar to us after an active shooter drill in school. it made me feel a little more safe in my school. my school district was also really strict bc there was a shooting in the 90s at one of the schools. i always appreciated that they took an extra step to protect the students. i remember if i was late i had to use an intercom outside the school and show my ID to be let in, it was annoying at the time, but i appreciate it so looking back.
@HaydeeNunez
@HaydeeNunez 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you sooooo soooo soooo much. Really. 🥰
@jahodwatts
@jahodwatts 2 жыл бұрын
🤍🤍🤍
@xkissthes5018
@xkissthes5018 2 жыл бұрын
wow what a great teacher ❤️
@Liquethemodel
@Liquethemodel 2 жыл бұрын
@Kianna What year was that? Like when you were in school . Asking because that’s super cool hope they’re still using it
@greygreenblack
@greygreenblack 2 жыл бұрын
The principle's wife hasn't washed his clothes or changed anything in the house since he was killed 40 years ago. That is absolutely heartbreaking I feel so sorry for her. Just a terrible story.
@Shyress
@Shyress 2 жыл бұрын
I mean how couldnt you? I honestly feel sad for everyone cause this could habe been avoided if she got taken seriously and got her depression treated.
@cottoncandyheart894
@cottoncandyheart894 2 жыл бұрын
This story is so messed up and sad my heart goes out to the principals wife and the survivors and non survivors of this horrible crime.
@jflorojas7869
@jflorojas7869 2 жыл бұрын
I would be devastated if I lost the love of my life :( he is truly my favorite person and the thought of losing home breaks my heart
@jflorojas7869
@jflorojas7869 2 жыл бұрын
Him *
@jackofalltrades5904
@jackofalltrades5904 Жыл бұрын
That's love, women these days would've had a boyfriend before he was buried.
@midnightsdragon
@midnightsdragon 2 жыл бұрын
How DARE her father act emotional during her sentence. Maybe all of this could've been prevented if he had been a fucking decent person to his fucking daughter. His treatment of Brenda doesn't justify what she did at ALL, but it makes me so angry that Brenda's father got off basically scot-free for something that he was, in a way, responsible for.
@austejagakstyte3879
@austejagakstyte3879 2 жыл бұрын
Chilld comes and opens up to the teachers about her abusive household. Teacher: Time to call and snich on her, to the abusive household!
@jordanlindsaytaggart159
@jordanlindsaytaggart159 2 жыл бұрын
sadly that's a lot more common than not tbh
@lindz.e_1569
@lindz.e_1569 2 жыл бұрын
LITERALLY THO Myself and a friend went to our school’s social worker for help for our friend who was struggling with depression. (We had no other options she wouldn’t get help and she was suicidal). We told them that our friend got verbally abused and when it came to things like her health didn’t believe anything was wrong and what did the counselor do??? Call…her…mom…and what did her mom do!!? Yell at my friend!!! Like ik u have to report that stuff but calling the person who is directly causing the problem?! C’MON
@SunshineCo225
@SunshineCo225 2 жыл бұрын
Actually I went to my guidance counselor once saying I wanted to well... Off myself, and she just said I can't do anything unless I tell your mom, and dismissed me. After I told her my mom was verbally abusing me. And a teacher I told straight up called my mom to say I was bringing my mental issues to the classroom too much, which didn't help. I did have one teacher that didn't snitch on me but the fact that I lost 2/3 times is... Shitty. And it's really depressing that it's been 50 years and it hasn't improved any.
@thetasigma9923
@thetasigma9923 2 жыл бұрын
@@SunshineCo225 I am so glad that you didn't do it
@SunshineCo225
@SunshineCo225 2 жыл бұрын
@@thetasigma9923 aw thanks! I am doing a lot better mentally now. It does help that was 5 years ago but I'm just glad I am doing better.
@aspiringbeamoflight7047
@aspiringbeamoflight7047 2 жыл бұрын
Brenda was failed by her parents, her teachers and the system. I understand and sympathize with her situation but that doesnt excuse what she did.
@crimson6952
@crimson6952 2 жыл бұрын
People should think " How would I fare if I had the same circumstances as this person" before judging them
@aspiringbeamoflight7047
@aspiringbeamoflight7047 2 жыл бұрын
@@crimson6952 something that is not done often
@ioncekilledamanwithmyshoe
@ioncekilledamanwithmyshoe 2 жыл бұрын
@@crimson6952 certainly not have shot at kids and staff at a school. This isn’t really a “don’t judge somebody unless you’ve walked a mile in their shoes” type of situation.
@ioncekilledamanwithmyshoe
@ioncekilledamanwithmyshoe 2 жыл бұрын
@@aspiringbeamoflight7047 something that shouldn’t be done in this situation because it was a school shooting.
@apriljk6557
@apriljk6557 2 жыл бұрын
@@ioncekilledamanwithmyshoe if your mind so limited that you can't find empathy for her, how do you expect to prevent shit like this from happening again? We should absolutely try to figure out and understand why this happened.
@raph3156
@raph3156 2 жыл бұрын
Shes a trauma victim through and through. Everyone failed her and the community paid for it. Truly a lose lose situation, heartbreaking AF.
@xjustapersonX
@xjustapersonX 2 жыл бұрын
This. Exactly this.
@dri6287
@dri6287 Жыл бұрын
so innocent kids pay for her trauma?
@xjustapersonX
@xjustapersonX Жыл бұрын
@@dri6287 she said everyone loses. Not that they had to pay
@kphoria1009
@kphoria1009 Жыл бұрын
***the 9 kids were trauma victims
@nortmellypill
@nortmellypill Жыл бұрын
@@kphoria1009they said that it's a lose lose situation, that includes the victims.
@harborbenassa8756
@harborbenassa8756 2 жыл бұрын
As a violent crime survivor, I would want everyone to know my story if I had died. I would be fine with a movie or documentary about my attacker, even if he was played by an attractive actor, because I would still be an integral part of the story. The problem isn't the media itself, but the fancams and fandom culture as a whole celebrating these killers and completely removing us from our stories.
@haleystewart259
@haleystewart259 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so grateful you didn’t say guns were the problem. You’re completely right.
@Unknownperson-ie6bm
@Unknownperson-ie6bm 2 жыл бұрын
@@haleystewart259 Guns being so easy to get is a problem, but people not getting help and speaking is also a problem
@haleystewart259
@haleystewart259 2 жыл бұрын
@@Unknownperson-ie6bm no. The mental health is the problem. The people should have guns. I’ll respect my elders for making sure the constitution is here to protect me and my family. You can literally kill anyone with anything. Gun can’t kill people alone it takes people to kill people using guns.
@Unknownperson-ie6bm
@Unknownperson-ie6bm 2 жыл бұрын
@@haleystewart259 So give out guns to everyone no matter what their background is? That's what the government and people are doing, look at where we are now. A bunch of shootings in schools and public areas
@jackofalltrades5904
@jackofalltrades5904 Жыл бұрын
@@Unknownperson-ie6bm actually they aren't easy to get and if everyone carried we wouldn't have people dying as they wait for someone else to come protect them. You have to protect yourself. Police are minutes away when you only have seconds.. and that's in a good area, in the hoods they will take up to 6 hours from my experience.
@jezebel324
@jezebel324 2 жыл бұрын
I asked my dad for therapy when I was 18 because I was depressed and passively suicidal. He literally laughed and said no, we don't do things like that. I haven't spoken to him in three years. (Didn't shoot anyone, though.)
@boldbrash7599
@boldbrash7599 2 жыл бұрын
i hope you’re doing better now
@Unreachableparadise
@Unreachableparadise 2 жыл бұрын
@@boldbrash7599 Yeah..my dad is like that too, instead of taking me to therapy because im depressed; my grades are falling off exam by exam he instead insists on making me take more courses so i can learn better, bud i dont have the motivation to do shit hiring private tutors wont fucking help.
@crow5326
@crow5326 2 жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear that. some parents really shuck hope you feel beter now.
@boldbrash7599
@boldbrash7599 2 жыл бұрын
@@Unreachableparadise That really is so sad to hear. Parents really think that piling more stuff on them is gonna help like it doesn’t do the opposite. it’s sad how some parents really just don’t care for their kids mental/emotional health.
@musichere3793
@musichere3793 2 жыл бұрын
As he should ✨ king
@notimestwo
@notimestwo 2 жыл бұрын
The fact that it took her until she was 50 years old to realize she’s done anything wrong is the reason why she should not be let out on parole. She was very young when she committed the shooting, she could have been rehabilitated, but it took her 40+ years to understand what she did was very wrong. That in my opinion is why she should stay in prison
@oppaloopa3698
@oppaloopa3698 2 жыл бұрын
Lol she’s not at all sorry nor does she understand it was wrong. She understands she should feel bad. She tried to act how she felt. She tried to lie that it was drugs. She tried to claim her shit dad pushed her too. She played every card in the book before she realized the only thing left was sayin “sorry”.
@cassidyyy9589
@cassidyyy9589 2 жыл бұрын
@@oppaloopa3698 i can’t fully blame her tho, cause of the damage to her frontal lobe. it might’ve also been bc of her father’s abuse (maybe not, idk) but she still shouldn’t be let out
@oppaloopa3698
@oppaloopa3698 2 жыл бұрын
@@cassidyyy9589 She’s way too calculating tho. Like yea she did have FLD but that doesn’t completely destroy your ability to know right from wrong AND control your actions unless it’s very serious. She didn’t have a history of the kind of behavioral issues that would indicate the kind of damage necessary to not make informed decisions. She struggled with it but boohoo. Plenty of folks struggle with plenty of things. Plenty are abused even worse than she claimed to be. They don’t all choose to murder children. She’s a liar and a manipulator. She knew what strings to play to get folks to pity her and it’s really sad to see that it apparently didn’t fail with a good many. At least in the comments.
@cassidyyy9589
@cassidyyy9589 2 жыл бұрын
@@oppaloopa3698 well of course. idk how severe her fld was, but her inability to know right from wrong or at least not do those wrongs makes her incrediably dangerous and i wouldn’t want her roaming freely as if she is innocent. but, i can somewhat nderstand what she’s going through, and thats what i mean. i usually try to understand the criminals to some extent because usually there’s a reason or motive behind their actions. doesn’t justify her actions, just allows me to understand her a little more
@Kayla4217
@Kayla4217 2 жыл бұрын
@forest rin he's saying that it's not an excuse to let her free. She has white woman privilege and she used it, but she's insane, she shouldn't be free.
@jadarayne123
@jadarayne123 2 жыл бұрын
The dad didn’t want her to get help because he knew she would end up telling someone about the abuse so he got her the gun after hearing that hoping she would do it… Sick
@Itsmezozo900
@Itsmezozo900 2 жыл бұрын
If her father would have gotten her a radio rather than a gun this tragedy might have been avoided imo.
@kaimiz
@kaimiz 2 жыл бұрын
Being as severely depressed and suicidal as she was, you kind of get this disregard for your own life and at that point just don't care what happens to you or anyone else. Apathy is a huge part of depression that people ignore.
@crimson6952
@crimson6952 2 жыл бұрын
You just want to end it all at that point
@indoorplant2392
@indoorplant2392 2 жыл бұрын
Apathy for other people to the point of not caring you killed them is not a sign of depression but psychopathic tendency
@cokie8706
@cokie8706 2 жыл бұрын
@@indoorplant2392 And is also a possible sign of depression 👍 way to miss the point !
@uptownnicnic
@uptownnicnic 2 жыл бұрын
Yes the crime 100% sounds like su*cide by cop. “I’m just gonna come out sh00ting” and she was already su*cidal ! I’m not excusing her actions but she went through a lot during her developmental stages she was indeed temporarily insane. Edit: I just got to the part of the video where she admits this.
@angybear1112
@angybear1112 2 жыл бұрын
idk if this was her reasoning though because not caring about yourself or others and what happens to them naturally butttt loading a gun and obviously some premeditated ideation’s of mass murder is very different from not caring. actually it shows she did care she just wanted everyone to care and hurt as much as her.
@hannah2602
@hannah2602 2 жыл бұрын
“she would ditch class to smoke weed, and do cigarettes, and drink alcohol” ah yes i love to do cigarettes
@JamesTScot
@JamesTScot 2 жыл бұрын
I love to do cigarettes I still say that sometimes to. Actually thank goodness i do not like cigarettes anymore
@Vertmatter
@Vertmatter 2 жыл бұрын
@@JamesTScot congrats on getting through that🤎
@krissyburke5050
@krissyburke5050 2 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing😂
@sarahedwards2819
@sarahedwards2819 2 жыл бұрын
HAHA I CAUGHT THAT TOO
@hannah2602
@hannah2602 2 жыл бұрын
@@JamesTScot im so proud of you! congratulations :)
@e.c.1975
@e.c.1975 2 жыл бұрын
I’m concerned about the child he had with the cell mate. I hope he didn’t sexually assault her. Brenda was one of the very few killers who literally begged for help & everyone around her didn’t take her seriously. They were lucky that she even expressed what she felt because there are kids who don’t show or say anything and then snap. Let’s just remember and embrace the hero’s who passed and saved so many children 🥺 God bless them! We have to do better.
@atoxicmelody3289
@atoxicmelody3289 2 жыл бұрын
The really sad part about this story is that when someone becomes suicidal like that and attempts to take their own life, a large percentage of people who have attempted suicide but failed their attempt never try again afterwards once faced with death’s doorstep and experiencing the pains of that attempt, for an attempt at an OD, it can be a very painful experience afterwards. What breaks my heart is hearing that she continued her attempts. That really does show just how bad her life must have been if she attempted multiple times in that way
@kphoria1009
@kphoria1009 Жыл бұрын
in my experience it becomes almost addicting, every time you try it gets easier (that’s just my observation)
@fe1845
@fe1845 2 жыл бұрын
the poor principals wife, i hope she’ll eventually be alright.
@lucylulusuperguru3487
@lucylulusuperguru3487 2 жыл бұрын
She's been dead like 30 years or so. Hopefully she got to see her hubs on the other side.
@christinakoncsol739
@christinakoncsol739 2 жыл бұрын
I’m a psychology/counseling masters student and we learn that a lot of these cases could be avoided if adults stepped up and became positive influences in kids life. Kids look up to adults and learn right from wrong and life lessons from these adults. If these positive influences are removed then these kids experiences pile on such as bad home life, bad school experience, no friends, etc. This then results in depression and other mental illnesses. This then results the development of these actions.
@mcigloo
@mcigloo 2 жыл бұрын
Very nicely said but I'm hoping one doesn't need to be a "psychology/counseling masters student" to know this. Seems like regular common sense ya know?
@MademoiselleCl3
@MademoiselleCl3 2 жыл бұрын
Yes but no, not all kids coming from abusing household turn out mass shooter or serial killer. The phrase "hurt people hurt people" is some strong BS because it diminish the importance of personnal traits that push people towards ways of coping with their abuse.
@aduzzz3322
@aduzzz3322 2 жыл бұрын
@@MademoiselleCl3 yes but how many shooters come from loving accepting households? There are other factors but def a strong correlation.
@MademoiselleCl3
@MademoiselleCl3 2 жыл бұрын
@@aduzzz3322 how many people come from a loving and healthy household ? For real, im sure not a lot and certainly not a majority, still not event a minority of people aren't actively trying to kill others.
@keicitio875
@keicitio875 2 жыл бұрын
@@MademoiselleCl3 I don't think they were implying that every single person does this, but rather that it can develop into things like this.
@paulcarr5471
@paulcarr5471 2 жыл бұрын
Hello Miss Hailey.. I enjoyed your video. If you need any first hand accounts of that day, feel feel to ask. I was there and saw everything. My friend and I walked right up to the scene just after the first barrage of shots. We stood there in a daze or fog for what seemed like 30 or 40 seconds with Mr. Wragg and our school custodian at our feet. There was also a young girl lying on her side with a bullet wound in her upper thigh. Luckily a teacher screamed out to us from behind a row of bushes and told us to run. We ran straight back and around the corner to the teachers lounge. Seconds later the shots rang out again. My 6th teacher Mr. Daryl Barnes was a true hero that day. I learned he passed away a few years ago. Tomorrow is the anniversary date so every year I tend search for videos. Thank you for keeping this event alive. It needs to be remembered.
@madilyn477
@madilyn477 Жыл бұрын
i hope you’re doing well 💓
@lenalounadjega
@lenalounadjega 5 ай бұрын
My condolences! Glad you are still here!
@shannonwells6162
@shannonwells6162 2 жыл бұрын
I remember listening to this song with my Dad and he told me it was about “a girl who brought a gun to school and killed some people because she ‘didn’t like Mondays’” thank you for covering this, I’m glad I have so much more information on this case now. You are so mature and articulate and I’ll definitely be following your channel!
@chrissy3875
@chrissy3875 2 жыл бұрын
the principal trying to protect the kids broke my heart :( what a kind soul
@leeanthermopolis5351
@leeanthermopolis5351 2 жыл бұрын
The fact that she left the house the same and hasnt washed his clothes in 40 years just so she could smell her passed husband 😭😭 love is so powerful
@sanaya8802
@sanaya8802 2 жыл бұрын
nah when I heard that any sort of sympathy I had for Brenda went out the window 😭
@coolkarla123
@coolkarla123 2 жыл бұрын
When my boyfriend died my roommate washed all his clothes and his scent disappeared I’m still upset about that tbh I’m glad she had that
@albaperez4108
@albaperez4108 2 жыл бұрын
@@coolkarla123 so sorry to hear that, hope you're healing 🙏🏻💗
@elenaheldal4882
@elenaheldal4882 2 жыл бұрын
@@coolkarla123 I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish U all the best and healing and grow💐💐♥️♥️
@themoribundapathetic4530
@themoribundapathetic4530 2 жыл бұрын
@@sanaya8802 same
@emilydugdale8763
@emilydugdale8763 2 жыл бұрын
This story always makes me sad. She was failed by literally everyone! Doesn't excuse what she did at all, I just wish she'd had help as a child. Child killers are always somewhat preventable :( On mental health, thank you for mentioning how the media distorts things. Depression is so scary, especially when people don't understand it. I personally think that movies about murderers can be good as they help us to understand and prevent these things. However, if the killer is glorified and the victims are ignored, it can be more harmful.
@sabinadorothea
@sabinadorothea 2 жыл бұрын
Crystal recalling the memory made me tear up. This is so heartbreaking.
@MrHunterWiseman
@MrHunterWiseman 2 жыл бұрын
It just sounds so abusive to me that Brenda's dad would dismiss her, not comfort her, or express any concern for her well being. He knows she's suicidal and then buys her a gun. It just sounds like he really wanted her dead. I imagine this dynamic was happening for years before Brenda shot up the school.
@someemokid3649
@someemokid3649 2 жыл бұрын
he also touched her in bed, and brenda wasn't even the only minor he took advantage of, he ended up marrying brenda's underage old cell mate and had a baby with her :(( that nasty man should have gone to jail also
@DanisDiamonds
@DanisDiamonds 2 жыл бұрын
honestly it seems like she never stood a chance at being healthy/stable…he doomed her from the start. sick and twisted
@zet7670
@zet7670 2 жыл бұрын
@@DanisDiamonds Her mother didn't want her either.
@itsjustsefora6747
@itsjustsefora6747 2 жыл бұрын
Why do you expect him to comfort her? He sexually abused her👀 at that moment he didn't care for her well being and when she got older he still didn't care ( but I know where you are coming from)
@carrieguyllette4125
@carrieguyllette4125 2 жыл бұрын
Once he heard from that teacher, i think he knew he couldn't get her help, because he'd be the one in jail. So, if she had been successful in her suicide at the time, i think he would have been relieved... In a sick way that he had "helped" them both.
@annabelljada4735
@annabelljada4735 2 жыл бұрын
hailey: "and all things spooky scary skeleton" me: *sits down*
@tashbaz1822
@tashbaz1822 2 жыл бұрын
I was about to go to bed ... not anymore. Going to be a strong coffee and energy drinks for me today (it's currently 5am)
@gissellehernandez6073
@gissellehernandez6073 2 жыл бұрын
@@tashbaz1822 damn it's 15:30 over here in New york
@adele6020
@adele6020 2 жыл бұрын
it’s 8:30pm in the uk lol
@choicethetaurus
@choicethetaurus 2 жыл бұрын
kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fqp5bNyl2p_IlKc.html
@earfquake3989
@earfquake3989 2 жыл бұрын
@@choicethetaurus Clicked on a random link and I'm not disappointed
@victoriadiesattheend.8478
@victoriadiesattheend.8478 2 жыл бұрын
My mom was a teacher for twenty two years, English as a second language and elementary school education. She would have quickly taken a bullet for any child; she loved kids and couldn't bear to think of a child being hurt for any reason. Her students were like her kids to her and she considered it her job to protect them. Tons of her students, now grown ups, showed up at my mother's wake when she passed away.
@thaynnarah
@thaynnarah 2 жыл бұрын
I loved what you said about mental illness prejudice bc I have borderline personality disorder and it's always portrayed like the villains, the bad people, and while I know it's complicated to other people I hate the stereotype.
@jennagraham3836
@jennagraham3836 2 жыл бұрын
Periodddd, my boyfriend has schizophrenia and yes, every once in a while he hears voices, but it’s pretty rare. It just morphs his personality sometimes, people should do more research before talking about mental disorders because u really learn a lot. So glad u mentioned it, love u queen. Btw I also wanna say, I’m the same age as u and the fact that ur doing all of this on ur own and making videos on the internet, like…I’m so awed by you. I could never do all the things you do, your videos are so informative, researched, and your makeup is always poppin. Like just know ur a fucking queen and icon and we don’t deserve u girl 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@brainfluidZ
@brainfluidZ 2 жыл бұрын
Bc their are multiple forms of schizophrenia. Schizoaffective disorder is usually the type that hears voices when they’re struggling with mental health. Paranoid schizophrenia is the most common form of schizophrenia & they do not hear voices or hallucinate. That’s a very rare form of schizophrenia my uncle had his entire life.
@antonijapataric4542
@antonijapataric4542 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah but also your boyfriend is treated... Untreathed schizophrenia can lead to this kind of stuff.. Uncured depression leads to psychosis which leads to schizophrenia and it has many many forms. I think maybe she had psychosis which was also untreated and that is what makes it dangerous.
@Sad.pookie
@Sad.pookie 2 жыл бұрын
@@antonijapataric4542 me with psychosis from messing up my Prozac pills :)
@antonijapataric4542
@antonijapataric4542 2 жыл бұрын
@@Sad.pookie 😂😂❤️
@antonijapataric4542
@antonijapataric4542 2 жыл бұрын
@@Sad.pookie ofcourse pills can cause psychosis, also drugs can. This was just one example of how it occurs and it happened to this girl sadly. There are many.
@meelabee4400
@meelabee4400 2 жыл бұрын
"I don't like Mondays." Who is she, Garfield?
@miakelly3997
@miakelly3997 2 жыл бұрын
She kinda looks like Garfield 🤷‍♀️
@kellyferreira614
@kellyferreira614 2 жыл бұрын
except garfield didn't commmit mass murder
@mluna1
@mluna1 2 жыл бұрын
Who likes Mondays?
@meelabee4400
@meelabee4400 2 жыл бұрын
@@mluna1 I don't think they're so bad these days.
@madisonhelton1622
@madisonhelton1622 2 жыл бұрын
gingers smh (i'm a ginger)
@dumbdumb8260
@dumbdumb8260 2 жыл бұрын
It honestly makes sense to me that she would never mention SA during therapy. I mean the one time she opened up to someone about her home life it didn't go well, so after the trauma that came with that it, makes sense that she wouldn't try again. Besides it's something alot of people don't want to talk about or admit happened because thats how they choose to cope with it.
@TheBETZINATOR
@TheBETZINATOR 2 жыл бұрын
ok i never leave comments but i just have to say how IMPRESSED I am with your channel... like girl these are fully researched and fact-checked, hour-long research papers made into videos with visual supports and even little audio cut-ins and everything! AAAAAND you have a very interesting personality and know how to keep people's attention?? and the makeup??? like most channels that would have something this amazing would have a whole team of people but its just you???? and you're so young!!!! I don't know how you do it. Dont be afraid to take a break sometime. you deserve it.
@abb_ey06
@abb_ey06 2 жыл бұрын
i love how she makes grammar errors so confidently, queen 👑
@ashwee9053
@ashwee9053 2 жыл бұрын
It's one of my favorite things about this channel no joke
@alexthehamster4564
@alexthehamster4564 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah it’s kinda comforting to me, I tend to get insecure about the way I talk and when I mess up my words/sentence structure so the fact that she’s not afraid to leave that in there makes me feel so much better lol
@jodiew7472
@jodiew7472 2 жыл бұрын
genuinely can’t tell if this is passive aggressive or not LOL
@mothirl
@mothirl 2 жыл бұрын
Ok, a bee
@abb_ey06
@abb_ey06 2 жыл бұрын
@@jodiew7472 genuinely something i love about her! always brings a smile to my face :)
@elizarowney
@elizarowney 2 жыл бұрын
I remember when you only had 100 subscribers, you’ve grown so much and I’m so happy for you! I love your channel smmm :)
@sphenophyta
@sphenophyta 2 жыл бұрын
@hv fun shut up please
@choicethetaurus
@choicethetaurus 2 жыл бұрын
kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fqp5bNyl2p_IlKc.html
@redwave4738
@redwave4738 2 жыл бұрын
@@choicethetaurus as much as i dont like self promotion this the only time ill accept it cuz this song goes
@sharkboy5562
@sharkboy5562 2 жыл бұрын
@@choicethetaurus Holy hell this is so good dude💕🔥
@spaceboy2475
@spaceboy2475 2 жыл бұрын
@@choicethetaurus wow bestie i don't like clicking links but this is so good!
@termythewormy
@termythewormy 2 жыл бұрын
I actually attended this school, it was a middle school by that point, and it's always so weird to see a place I'm so familiar with in videos like this. They had a memorial for the principle and the custodian at the flagpole in front of the school. Her dad still lived there and used to get mad at parents for parking next to his house to drop off or pick up, he came out to yell at my mom a couple times about it. It was wild.
@yiea5754
@yiea5754 Жыл бұрын
Her dad should've been in jail. Should've had a protest outside his house bc he an accessory to a mass murder, is still free. Let's see how the scum couldn't gotten s mad about that
@g.l.3092
@g.l.3092 2 жыл бұрын
She said when her dad got her the gun...she felt like he wanted her to snap/kill herself. 💔 It reminds me of Ethan Crumbley's parents...Brenda's father should have been charged too!
@lindseyhendrix2405
@lindseyhendrix2405 2 жыл бұрын
About your frontal lobe: your pre-frontal cortex isn’t fully developed until around 25 years old. It plays a major role in decision making, impulsiveness, etc. Imagine your choices as a 16 year old vs. as a 27 year old. Impulsivity will still be there but you think more about the consequences than you would have at a younger age. I wish there was more research done on the brains of serial killers (during life *and* after death) or even for criminal masterminds in general. Aside from being 16, I don’t doubt she also had damage to it or it wasn’t active like most people’s pre frontal cortex is.
@keonaa.5366
@keonaa.5366 2 жыл бұрын
I agree completely especially since she was being abused and was abusing substances there could’ve been so much more wrong and we will never (I am not trying to justify or humanize her or her actions they were terrible)
@wilmagregg3131
@wilmagregg3131 2 жыл бұрын
anxiety can also reduce implusiveness early on in life but does way more damage later on by casuing crippling constant worry about everything going wrong and a total lack of ablity to deal with stress i know cause it happend to me in my scream happy constantly quilt tripping family
@theGoldjey
@theGoldjey 2 жыл бұрын
Yes and also they did a very extensive study on the frontal lobes of killers/serial killers and almost all of them had damage or low activity in their frontal lobes.
@Sam-oe4ir
@Sam-oe4ir 2 жыл бұрын
i wrote a paper on the psychology of serial killers in HS for AP Pysch. it’s kind of wild how many similarities and signs serial killers share and the way they think
@issyclaire8698
@issyclaire8698 2 жыл бұрын
I believe abuse can delay the development of the frontal lobe and taking drugs at a young can cause a lot of damage, so whether she was on them at the time or not it would have had an effect on her. so by 25 her brain might not even have developed yet fully which is why we're only now seeing improvements.
@shrekisloveshrekislife5021
@shrekisloveshrekislife5021 2 жыл бұрын
my ex’s dad had schizophrenia and his wife refused to get him help. he ended up taking us own life in 2013. i think it’s so hurtful to people who have actual mental disorders when they’re portrayed in movies as “the bad guy.” it twists society.
@vibinvloggin
@vibinvloggin Жыл бұрын
Why did the wife refuse to help?
@danyelgrace4251
@danyelgrace4251 Жыл бұрын
girl.. you’re calling boomtown rats insensitive while holding a makeup brush and after making jokes, and they never saw themselves as heroes for cancelling the san diego show
@blackcats_and_coffee7972
@blackcats_and_coffee7972 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my god, the interview with the little girl that was shot was absolutely heart wrenching.
@ariannasantina
@ariannasantina 2 жыл бұрын
her frontal lobe damage explains the impulsivity and also explains later in her court case when she says she didnt remember a lot of that day... people thought it was sketchy that she 'didnt remember' but it actually makes sense for that whole day to feel hazy to her and not remember much if she has frontal lobe damage.
@buggman420
@buggman420 2 жыл бұрын
The clip with crystals mom kissing her on the cheek saying they were blessed since it did damage her bone made me cry
@sashabantu1098
@sashabantu1098 2 жыл бұрын
Same.Those must have been so traumatized
@haileybalmer9722
@haileybalmer9722 2 жыл бұрын
The detached way she talked about it really broke me. There's a way kids talk about things they've processed, and a way kids talk about things they're processing. That poor child was still so bewildered and traumatized. What a nightmare.
@kaitfogg3960
@kaitfogg3960 Жыл бұрын
If anyone’s watching this vid long after it’s been posted, she didn’t get released on parole!
@cinnamonfairyfluff
@cinnamonfairyfluff 2 жыл бұрын
Obviously what she did was inexcusable, and I'm all for murders staying in prison for life, but idk... There's something so tragic about Brenda's story. Living a miserable life, resulting in an act of aggression at the age of 16, landing her in prison for the rest of her life. I can't help but pity her.
@mrez5606
@mrez5606 2 жыл бұрын
"I Don't like Mondays" is the equivalent of " pumped up kicks"
@Liquethemodel
@Liquethemodel 2 жыл бұрын
I low key always thought that song was based off an active shooter case. Still loved the song though
@frizzyhairedgirl
@frizzyhairedgirl 2 жыл бұрын
@@Liquethemodel There's no way it isn't. The lyrics literally say so. It's not based on a single event, though.
@sobosoup
@sobosoup 2 жыл бұрын
@@frizzyhairedgirl yeah it’s not based on a single event/case. It’s based off school shootings in general
@KristenKittyKat
@KristenKittyKat 2 жыл бұрын
Just your average person! i thought it was writing by someone that wanted to shoot up his school
@tracydull1369
@tracydull1369 2 жыл бұрын
Sir Bob Geldoff wrote this for his band the Boomtown Rats SPECIFICALLY from her quote
@Glamma_Karen
@Glamma_Karen 2 жыл бұрын
You aren't a 90's kid, but you have a very 90's look and energy. As an 80's kid, I love it.
@robinbyrd442
@robinbyrd442 2 жыл бұрын
Same ❤
@phoxmold7713
@phoxmold7713 2 жыл бұрын
when she said 2008 i felt soooo old
@skarlitbegoniahz
@skarlitbegoniahz 2 жыл бұрын
@@phoxmold7713 same. She’s five years older than my oldest son. 👵🏼
@michaela3979
@michaela3979 2 жыл бұрын
y’all 40 watching her? wowww
@phoxmold7713
@phoxmold7713 2 жыл бұрын
@@michaela3979 im 28 lmao
@arih7775
@arih7775 Жыл бұрын
So happy to find out she was once again denied parole and she can't have another one until 2025
@minoena
@minoena Жыл бұрын
Ty
@sharkymurr
@sharkymurr 2 жыл бұрын
"my love for you: my heart" we love you hailey so proud of how far you've come!
@connor-zj2jc
@connor-zj2jc 2 жыл бұрын
This world can be really scary when you know what people are capable of.
@sheilacarrillo6219
@sheilacarrillo6219 2 жыл бұрын
When she mentioned how “I hate Monday was Inspired by…” I thought she was about to say Garfield 💀
@angelinagiovinazzi766
@angelinagiovinazzi766 2 жыл бұрын
Same!!!!
@akd30
@akd30 2 жыл бұрын
Omg me too
@kellydee1057
@kellydee1057 2 жыл бұрын
To be fair the Garfield comic strip had just debuted in 1978, so that’s most likely where she got the phrase from.
@dualmao6726
@dualmao6726 2 жыл бұрын
Same LMAO
@angelinagiovinazzi766
@angelinagiovinazzi766 2 жыл бұрын
@@kellydee1057 Thank you for saying that because I was about to look that up LOL OK I wasn’t sure if Garfield saying that came before or after this incident
@abitatts
@abitatts 2 жыл бұрын
This is only my second time seeing your videos and in super refreshed that you show stuff that isnt already going around! Super refreshing
@sarace6490
@sarace6490 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for talking about how certain mental illnesses don't lead to homicidal behavior at the end!!! One of my best friends is diagnosed with schizophrenia, and it took her ages to even tell me just out of fear of how id react. She's one of the nicest most thoughtful people ive ever met, and it makes me so sad that she felt she couldn't talk about her problems.
@annerowe217
@annerowe217 2 жыл бұрын
pls tell me garfield, the orange cat who hates mondays, isn’t inspired by brenda spencer, a ginger-haired teen who also hates mondays- edit: garfield came out a year prior to the shooting
@k31_444
@k31_444 2 жыл бұрын
shit...
@afiahenewaa8601
@afiahenewaa8601 2 жыл бұрын
oh my...
@lovella3914
@lovella3914 2 жыл бұрын
oh no…
@wia8ja8j
@wia8ja8j 2 жыл бұрын
oh fuck
@livingdeadgiRL99999
@livingdeadgiRL99999 2 жыл бұрын
oop-
@ransommoney4915
@ransommoney4915 2 жыл бұрын
“It wasn’t a STONER neighborhood” 😂😂
@Eve-hb
@Eve-hb 2 жыл бұрын
Probably would have been better if it was 😂
@Simonesanderss
@Simonesanderss 2 жыл бұрын
😂🤦‍♀️
@rdred8693
@rdred8693 2 жыл бұрын
She's my age, and I remember so well when this happened. I feel terrible for her life story, but it does not excuse her murderous rampage.
@Sylver2019
@Sylver2019 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for talking about schizophrenia and all the misconceptions. I have schizophrenia and I hate how some people treat me when they learn that I have it.
@Morganne
@Morganne 2 жыл бұрын
24:08 THE SWITH FROM SPACE JAM TO IT POSTER SHOCKED ME HAHAHA
@bappo1525
@bappo1525 2 жыл бұрын
WHAHAHAHA THE GRAMMAR IS SO FUCKED UP THIS MAKES YOUR COMMENT SO MUCH FUNNIER AHAHAJJAJAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAJAJA
@heathenised
@heathenised 2 жыл бұрын
@@bappo1525 nobody asked tho 😍
@bappo1525
@bappo1525 2 жыл бұрын
@@heathenised nobody said i couldnt say shit tho 😍😍😍😍😍
@eggmansexwife
@eggmansexwife 2 жыл бұрын
stop arguing in these replys bro it's not that serious.
@michaela3979
@michaela3979 2 жыл бұрын
ty for the warning
@stacyhernandez9984
@stacyhernandez9984 2 жыл бұрын
“this isn’t a stoner neighborhood” LMAOO
@taylamarkova6100
@taylamarkova6100 2 жыл бұрын
Right 🤣
@aliciagiron7250
@aliciagiron7250 2 жыл бұрын
*Laughs in Oklahoma* 😭😭🤣🤣
@mekhiaphillips6388
@mekhiaphillips6388 2 жыл бұрын
i had to rewind to make sure i heard that right 😂😂
@fruitgum9619
@fruitgum9619 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad society is different now 😂
@quinceyclouds3208
@quinceyclouds3208 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for pointing out the connections to mental illness and the situation, but not using it as an excuse for her actions. I’ve literally had people in my life who’ve said that it’s scary to know someone with mental illnesses cause they can become serial killers. There are plenty of people with chemical imbalances and frontal lope defects that are in bad situations, but they DONT go and try to murder children. Too many times have I told someone about my bipolar and I instantly see them start to change their opinions on me and assume I’m gonna “snap”.
@sheinnacolmenero_
@sheinnacolmenero_ 2 жыл бұрын
ughh i love your videos! You always explain and walk me through the cases very well!
@hotfishfromsharktale
@hotfishfromsharktale 2 жыл бұрын
"That's my student, hah ha. She should have been at school today. She's having a bad day, ha." excuse me
@kailahprice6792
@kailahprice6792 2 жыл бұрын
Yesss, this story is INSANE. Fucking chilling and the killers life was horrific…. God bless the school employees who gave and risked their lives for their students that day 💜💜
@rydz656
@rydz656 2 жыл бұрын
Didn't even watch it yet but I'm guessing she's white.
@clorby22
@clorby22 2 жыл бұрын
@@rydz656 ok... and?
@JulesJukes
@JulesJukes 2 жыл бұрын
@@rydz656 among us sussy mogus
@mcigloo
@mcigloo 2 жыл бұрын
@@rydz656 What at all does her skin color have to do with anything?!?!?!
@kynahia8489
@kynahia8489 2 жыл бұрын
the fact that she went to the nurses office after she got hurt breaks my heart
@julielakenen7834
@julielakenen7834 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your commentary on peoples mental health issues and the stereotypes that go with them as I am currently involved in trying to navigate the new diagnosis of my own brother who has been officially labeled as having unspecified psychosis but doctors have also suspected PTSD and schizophrenia are involved it’s been such a nightmare getting an official diagnosis and getting him on the road to treatment and please forgive my lack of punctuation as I am on the road listening to your channel and I’m using the talk to text feature on my phone to leave this comment
@Sosigbb
@Sosigbb 2 жыл бұрын
Fun fact: I grew up where she grew up like legit the same street, my grandma once yelled at Brenda for like being a brat or something idk. And my aunts were her classmatesssss so this kinda hits home in a way. Anddd I drove past her house literally t o d a y. Such a weird coincidence.
@divamontoya5283
@divamontoya5283 2 жыл бұрын
fun fact: 🧢
@belalugosi_isdead
@belalugosi_isdead 2 жыл бұрын
@@divamontoya5283 what’s unbelievable ab this?
@mariballs88
@mariballs88 2 жыл бұрын
I wanna believe thisssss but idkkkk
@imanowlexterminator
@imanowlexterminator 2 жыл бұрын
@@divamontoya5283 There is 0 reason not to believe this. Like, Negative Ada isn't getting clout for this or anything lmao
@mqmasx1912
@mqmasx1912 2 жыл бұрын
@@imanowlexterminator it’s literally there choice to believe it or not
@themarksmith
@themarksmith 2 жыл бұрын
As an older person, it is a classic song... Didn't even know it was inspired by this tragic event... it stands alone as a Monday blues song... but I can see why some people were upset at the time...
@kikiza123
@kikiza123 2 жыл бұрын
I wanna shoot, shooOoOooOoOOOoooot... the whole day down~
@erm492
@erm492 2 жыл бұрын
@@kikiza123 shoot it all down!
@heathercraig363
@heathercraig363 2 жыл бұрын
Tell me why 🎶 I don't like Mondays 🎵 tell me why I don't like Mondahhays 🎶
@dansonmuriithi8383
@dansonmuriithi8383 2 жыл бұрын
22:52 "And the girl comes out because she wants Burger King...(tap tap). She's getting a little hungry"... Tapping the makeup brush on the board, possibly unintentionally, got me with both dramatic effect and comic relief...
@OliviaBrittnay
@OliviaBrittnay 2 жыл бұрын
She always taps the brushes at the PERFECT time
@haileyprieto5775
@haileyprieto5775 2 жыл бұрын
So you’re telling me the dad didn’t serve any time? I’m sure it would be hard to find evidence about being abusive and a drunk, but what about him buying her the gun? Is that not punishable by law???
@katepaul759
@katepaul759 2 жыл бұрын
Crystal looked like such a brave little girl, along with all the other students and educators who had to go through that traumatizing event. My heart goes out to them
@MuskanJ
@MuskanJ 2 жыл бұрын
the fact that hailey's schedule lines up with when i have art class >>>
@Dylan-zh5gs
@Dylan-zh5gs 2 жыл бұрын
Ah I have mine on Thursday’s but I love re watching some of her videos while in art class too
@doofpark247
@doofpark247 Жыл бұрын
this is actually my first time watching an entire video of somebody summarizing a crime story - well done!
@jaecaroline723
@jaecaroline723 2 жыл бұрын
I love your videos! you’re so well spoken and have a great way of explaining things :)
@laurajean8001
@laurajean8001 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the focus on clarifying misconceptions about major mental illnesses. My brother is schizophrenic and he’s one of the sweetest and most kind people I know. He’s attempted to take his own life numerous times but would never ever try to harm someone else
@kbarrell0324
@kbarrell0324 2 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend is as well; we actually ended up dating because he tried to kill himself by overdosing on heroine (long ass story there) but I begged him to stop and go out with me and his closest local friend and we had a blast and from that moment on we’ve been stuck together. He’s such a sweet person. It’s wild to hear about the things he’s done and see him as the person he’s shown me.
@00Rav3n00
@00Rav3n00 2 жыл бұрын
Brenda: "I killed a police officer once" Her classmates: weird flex but okay.
@cupcakeluvbug
@cupcakeluvbug 2 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@heatherk7546
@heatherk7546 2 жыл бұрын
I love your freaking intros! They always give me the chills!
@katieo7125
@katieo7125 Жыл бұрын
The principal going out and trying to save and protect his school children brought tears to my eyes. The principal and the custodian are true heroes, may they have eternal peace. ❤️
@793lefty
@793lefty 2 жыл бұрын
In her formative years Brenda didn't get the opportunity to give and receive empathy. So it makes sense to me that it took her so long sifting thru her own darkness before she could feel that remorse.
@jadebot800
@jadebot800 2 жыл бұрын
When you mentioned that it lasted 16 minutes, that was how long the video was up until that point. So that was interesting and helped me really understand how long that actually is
@yolandawilson6619
@yolandawilson6619 2 жыл бұрын
She's always understood, she just doesn't care. She's trying to sound remorseful because she knows she needs to. There are people in prison for life on robbery charges, there are people who murdered one person and were executed, etc. She needs to stay in prison.
@thinkaboutit7483
@thinkaboutit7483 2 жыл бұрын
she DID ask for help and this could have been prevented if supposed adults took her seriously It's frustrating cause there are so many murder cases when people asked for help, but were ignored
@moonbeamflowerchild
@moonbeamflowerchild 2 жыл бұрын
i think it is important to humanize murderers and their victims. studying the mind of people helps bring better prevention and treatment. i do think that they should be made to not be as "attractive" since it also romanticizes them as people already do by sending crazy fan girl letters to jail. you are always so good at giving the story while respecting the victims and staying with lighthearted commentary. love your videos
@frizzyhairedgirl
@frizzyhairedgirl 2 жыл бұрын
I agree, however Ted Bundy's always been known for being attractive (which he used to his advantage), so I'd say Zac Efron wasn't a bad choice.
@dd-kapibara1070
@dd-kapibara1070 2 жыл бұрын
@@frizzyhairedgirl charming more so than attractive, which I think was portrayed amazingly by Zac, it's why some girls still felt he was off while others just fell for his charm and were attracted. And I think he did that perfectly from looking at the response of the public. Some people saw murderer glorification because he was portrayed as an attractive guy, while others were impressed with his acting abilities because of slimy creepy charm, which no doubt saved many women from the actual ted.
@coldfire9937
@coldfire9937 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly if u have seen mindhunters u can see how humanising killers like Ed Kemper affected on investigators. So honestly I don't like empathizing with killers until it's a defence attack
@leahburcham8743
@leahburcham8743 2 жыл бұрын
i will not humanize someone who shot up an elementary school
@morgan69666
@morgan69666 2 жыл бұрын
@@leahburcham8743 it’s important to realize they’re humans to understand WHY they did it to help prevent it in the future
@raverbun
@raverbun 2 жыл бұрын
everyone gets upset about zac efron playing ted bundy, but what people need to realise is that many people described ted bundy as a super handsome, charming man before they found out what he did.
@graciep.6984
@graciep.6984 2 жыл бұрын
Afterwards as well. It was a huge part of the draw - monsters aren’t supposed to be appealing. It also made the crimes easier. A handsome, charming, persuasive man, especially when struggling with a broken arm? That’s a lot for a young woman to turn away from, especially back then. “No” was not a word women were encouraged to use much.
@zet7670
@zet7670 2 жыл бұрын
Some don't agree on the handsome part. Just average but compared to most killers he was better/normal looking. Although with those weird beady eyes you could tell something ain't right.
@rdred8693
@rdred8693 2 жыл бұрын
He was brilliant as Bundy. I never realized what a good actor he is.
@Baldjotarokujo
@Baldjotarokujo 2 жыл бұрын
@@graciep.6984 Well...hate the sin love the sinner..
@Baldjotarokujo
@Baldjotarokujo 2 жыл бұрын
@@zet7670 I agree he was good looking but it doesn't excuse what he did
@bftkwtfgo
@bftkwtfgo 2 жыл бұрын
Never stop making these videos they keep me entertained for HOURS everyday
@mel.xnx._
@mel.xnx._ 2 жыл бұрын
As a filmmaker, I love the idea of making a movie on a real killer in an artistic way. As a viewer and a member of the Audience, I think it's wrong because i can see it as the glamifying and romanticizing of a real person who is disgusting and should never be glamified and/or romanticized and for people to fan girl over them because a hot actor played as a killer :/
@tayyrific947
@tayyrific947 2 жыл бұрын
I've watched the Zac Efron Ted Bundy movie and I don't feel like it glorified him at all. It really showed what a horrible and manipulative man he was. I think casting Zac was brilliant because he's so charming and he did a great job warping that image.
@SonneLittle
@SonneLittle 2 жыл бұрын
This! Also big kudos for not showing the murders, only the one at the end but it didn't go into graphic detail
@crow5326
@crow5326 2 жыл бұрын
I agree if anything the bad side of the true crime comunity is the problem. Some people really glorify seriall killers and all that. Those are the problems .
@victoriawilliams8196
@victoriawilliams8196 2 жыл бұрын
@@crow5326 So many women back in the 80s who were obsessed with Ted Bundy. So gross.
@crow5326
@crow5326 2 жыл бұрын
@@victoriawilliams8196 my god yeah that too ... scary to think about honestly. They would have been victims if he weren't in prison .
@Jessica-kw8no
@Jessica-kw8no 2 жыл бұрын
Surprisingly I still saw a lot of posts calling their relationship goals and saying they wish they were one of his victims on Twitter lol
@michaelashutup
@michaelashutup 2 жыл бұрын
Can we just talk about how fast hailey’s channel has grown like whoa
@michaela6502
@michaela6502 2 жыл бұрын
yes! also omgg twin names ❤️❤️
@thelittlepinkdino234
@thelittlepinkdino234 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!! Also same name club 😂
@nataleigh8377
@nataleigh8377 2 жыл бұрын
i remember when she was at around 2k
@aliviapeterson9846
@aliviapeterson9846 2 жыл бұрын
Why the fuck would the teacher she confided in about her abusive household, snitch to the abusive household?!
@Maaraujo7
@Maaraujo7 2 жыл бұрын
I think this case was the best one you covered so far - Thank you. I never thought about what you mentioned as the mental disorders being over dramatized by Hollywood. I never thought movies were glorifying people, I see the movies as awareness always have specially as a mental health counselor student. I advocate for movies specially as a philosopher to explore how movie makers see things as well and what they want to focus on for the audience and ultimately themselves. There’s just so much more :) lol have a great day! U crack me up 🤣 a lot 🤣
@cassbutler81
@cassbutler81 2 жыл бұрын
“Smoke weed and do cigarettes” I’m sorry but that made me cackle
@thechronicallyillcowgirl
@thechronicallyillcowgirl 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly I feel like there could have been more done to prevent the shooting itself, like if somebody would have tried to intervene more and her life as a child and get her the help she needed. Things could have been different. But given the time that this took place, it was inevitable, as well. She was pretty much a ticking time bomb, and either her, her father or anyone in the vicinity could/would of been harmed. Hopefully this can help raise the awareness, and these things could be caught sooner to prevent future incidents. I can't imagine the emotions and trauma all the survivors have had to overcome 🥺 my heart goes out to them all, and anyone else harmed by things like this
@hzyleyrose
@hzyleyrose 2 жыл бұрын
banning guns would be a great first step!😔
@afiahenewaa8601
@afiahenewaa8601 2 жыл бұрын
@@hzyleyrose sadly, I really don't think that could be much use :( . People would still find a way to get guns illegally, however.. I do think it would risk stuff like this from happening more often! But making sure not one person in a country/state can access a gun won't do too much but it can be a step in the right direction for sure!! :))
@staceylili6703
@staceylili6703 2 жыл бұрын
I’m a child of the 80s and 90s. Police and so called child protection services were a joke you could plea for help , show proof of abuse and neglect and they take you right back home to your abuser and tell you to behave for your parents.
@upbeat_garbage0308
@upbeat_garbage0308 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. She was failed, you can see the pain and numbness in her eyes. Trauma can take a toll on a person and unfortunately it can be a ticking time bomb like you said, either harming herself or others and it came out to be that she killed people
@kaate87
@kaate87 2 жыл бұрын
@@hzyleyrose Not all guns, people hunt wild game
@GoblynKing
@GoblynKing Жыл бұрын
to speak on schizophrenia, one of my mom’s boyfriends (my younger brothers father) was physically and mentally abusive and also tried to do things and successfully did things that could’ve killed us (me, my mother, and my sister). HOWEVER my aunt on my father’s side also has schizophrenia and she has genuinely helped me through so much in life and is one of the sweetest people i know. schizophrenia is such a stigmatized disorder and it’s really saddening. most people i know with schizophrenia, or schizo-affective disorders, aren’t violent people.
@troydale5845
@troydale5845 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who was sa’d by my own father as a child I fully believe her I think it’s more common than people think, if a parent is attracted to children and can look past being related then it’s actually pretty easy
@jencash14416
@jencash14416 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for talking about schizophrenia 🙌🏼 my brother would have never hurt anyone. He did hear voices and he was under the impression that people were coming after him, but again he would have never hurt a fly and was so loving. Unfortunately we lost him to suicide in 2019. It got to be too much. But schizophrenia can look so different in different people. I totally suggest everyone to do their research and continue to advocate for mental health 😊
@jamnwatt9615
@jamnwatt9615 Жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss, I agree with your comment 10 fold.
@yiea5754
@yiea5754 Жыл бұрын
Do schizophrenic ppl talk to you a certain time of year kicked Jan to May. Then get angry by August after thr 2nd week. Then ignore you until December 31? Then suddenly be all nice & act like they changed by Jan the next year? Just asking bc someone with off behavior could be schizophrenic
@baddiebiscuit1109
@baddiebiscuit1109 2 жыл бұрын
i love how its ex-disney channel actors playing murderers
@yourt00bz
@yourt00bz 2 жыл бұрын
The baddest comment here. You get it
@AmberNMiles
@AmberNMiles 4 ай бұрын
My son has high functioning autism, bipolar, multiple personality disorder, adhd, depression and anxiety. People are scared of him all the time with no reason to be. When really he is just a loud big ol teddy bear. It breaks my heart. So thank you for putting that PSA out there
@suzimonkey345
@suzimonkey345 2 жыл бұрын
“I Don’t Like Mondays”, The Boomtown Rats, was the first “single 45” record that I ever owned! ✨✨💫✨✨✨
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