​@@nymaksco1835😂❤

​@@nymaksco1835IDK why they need background music. I don't listen for music, I listen for the story

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How does she function on a daily basis with those ridiculous false nails..😂

😂😂😂

Civil engineer, has his own clothing line and has modeling tier photography all over his page This level of delusion needs to be checked institutionally especially as she has kids

He pays a media manager full time but can’t pay a $30 phone bill😂

Funny about that.

If something is too good to be true that means that usually is I learnt that a long time ago.

😂😅

Lmaoooo it DOES 😂😂😂😂😂

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Nailed it! 🎯

😂😂😂

She’s obviously disturbed and desperate .

A lot of marbles the big marble at that 😂

The cheese slid off her cracker.

There’s not a western woman alive that hasn’t said that she’s a victim, all her past boyfriends are abusers, cheaters, narcissists. You ‘normal’ women sound the exact same delusional when you talk about your dating life.

Or a woman you're just dating. But there are men who use their kids as an accessory.

She is married 3 times and still looking 👀👀👀👀

Exactly

She is absolutely desperate for a relationship. It's scary that such people are out there. Their convo is as insipid and superficial as between total strangers.

Truth

😆😆😆 Weirdly enough, I was thinking about the "Sure Jan" thing just yesterday! LMAO

She’s not into that cause she has a lot of attractive men😅

Right 🙄😂

She had to be impressed by the good looks because on that phone call he was so short with her and he barely talked to her. He acted like he didn't even like her at all. I wouldn't talk to someone better yet give money to a man who couldn't even support himself.

She’s not well

She's lucky- rather her daughters are lucky he's a scammer just out for her money. How f'ing stupid are some single mothers? She doesn't even know how to give a sh** about her kids. The dude says "leave me alone" and she apologizes to him- bless his God-fearing, civil engineer clothing designer's heart for forgiving her. This godess thought she was scamming him.

My thoughts exactly! WTF??? My first thought would have been...STAY AWAY FROM MY DAUGHTERS/CHILDREN, PERIOD!

I thought the same thing

i came to the comments for this!!!!! she must be MAD! (an expression for crazy! ) there is no goddamn wayyyyyyyy!!!!! no way no way no FRIGGIN WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!

I really pray for the children involved in these types of stories they don't deserve to be in situations that leave them vulnerable and unsafe.

@@planetsoverpeople 🙏🏽🙏🏽

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@@Isthisjoebiden 🙏🏽🙏🏽

😂😂real

girl fell hard for that AI rizz :p i would like your post but it has 69 likes

Yeah all those victims say that they have the time of their lives talking to those scammers and then they show us the most basic boring convo in the world. Makes my social anxiety a bit less severe lol

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As in he just tells me how great and beautiful I am 😂

Yep

Who knows if it’s a man writing? A woman probably knows best about what a woman wants to hear.

Man that hit home for me today

❤😂

Period!

I had to put my glasses on to hear better! 🤣

Many guys lie about their heights, so I feel like that has ruined many peoples perceptions of heights. I'm 6ft3. But I went through life thinking I was 6ft5 - before I Finally got measured. Because I had a good 2/3 inches over dudes who claimed 6ft2 or 6ft1.

​@@fatimahrahman6158lol i do that😂😂😂

6'2 190

175 at best to me​@@kingofkings2934

Exactly. Like then saying “oh they are soooo nice and exactly what I want in a man “ YEAH , Scammers are gonna sweet talk their marks and tell them anything they wanna hear

I met a guy in a bar once, and he was trying to get me to leave with him... "But you could be an axe murderer ", I protested. "I am not an age murderer!" I replied "That's just what an axe murderer would say...."

@carolynfager5045 You could be right…. and you could be wrong, but hearing from left and right about how many of such encounters end up tragically, it’s always good to keep a safe distance and stay on the safe side. Can’t be wrong doing that.

😂😂😂😂

It's like ppl who tell you if you think your spouse is cheating to just ask them lmao. Yeah, cause they're going to be honest if they are cheating, right?? 🤣🤣

Really scary, especially when a lot of predators do exactly this through a single parent to get access to kids.

Most of these Nigerian scammers are young guys. No wonder they’re more interested in talking to the daughters! They’re probably closer in age. Though it’s true, online predators come in all shapes and sizes. She didn’t mention her daughter’s ages, so they maybe over 18, but probably not yet 18. Why would you let a stranger talk to your daughters?!

She definitely doesn’t even monitor her daughters social media presence. She seems very irresponsible to me

And he does it directly via Instagram to her! Wth is mom thinking? Hopefully she learned a valuable lesson here before anything bad happened. All it would take is “hey your mom wants you to meet us down the street in 5 minutes”. So scary

She needs to be in jail

Trying to hide his accent. But yeah, there are so many indicators he's a horrible boyfriend, she was just too caught up to stop and think.

Ikr 😭😭😭 he knows it's very little chance of monies coming from her direction. ANYMORE

Yeah they all seem good at online talk and manipulation but get them on the phone and it's something totally different.

Yep, his tone of voice in that call was very blah and bored. If he really loved her, he would sound more enthusiastic.

They always sound like that…. I never understand how these people fall in love with such bland people

Yep...some mothers are a real danger to their children.

They consider it but don't care, they put themselves and a man first. Those are the types that I consider "breeders" more than "mothers"

I had the impression that her daughter is an adult now. If she was under 18, that’s a major problem. Some women get addicted to their love bombing. Let’s try not to judge, they are the VICTIMS here. That’s a hard thing lesson they learned.

She's had 3 husbands 🚩🚩🚩

Wowww, are you trying to hold a black woman accountable for her actions? #selfreport

😂😂😂

😂😂😂😂

Self generated hallucination. I think that is all it is really.

😂😅

Hi beautiful send me 50 grand 😅lol That is the basis of these so called conversations. 😏

I wouldn't let her baby sit my puppy.... No discernment or focus whatsoever...

Gold seal of approval 👌

Plus 2 daughters, she mentioned!

Us regular men in the real world can, do and say the same thing about you supposed ‘regular’ women in real life. You got claims of every past boyfriend being a cheater, abuser, narcissist. But it’s not your fault and you women are always and only just a complete victim too right? Haha, it’s hilarious how you think these other women are crazy and gullible but you say the exact same shit just with different descriptive words. Get real girls. Who ya think ya foolin?!? 😉🫣🤣🤣

​@@SonjaElizabethTeal 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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None if these people are.

Or the brightest crayon in the box😂

Brightest star in the night sky ✨️ 🌟

Civil engineer….😂😂😂😂

In only 2 weeks. .

Yeah she's now going back on her story in the comments 🙄

I’m not a parent but it should be common knowledge that you don’t allow a stranger to have access to your children.

That would infuriate me and she saw it as something positive. WTF!!!!

This woman had 3 husbands, ofc she needs help

Right, maybe she could take a break while her daughters grow up.

Seriously!! 🤦" take a break Lady!! 😔

My jaw dropped at that part of the video. Why would I let a complete stranger that I'm funding from the internet talk to my kid!?!

@@aprilcena423 it's terrifying I swear I had a miniature panic attack at the thought of it

He istrying to manipulate her through her children which is sad.

​@@sammieconsalvey4448Totally agree with you, Sammie! That's a big red flag 🚩🤦🏻‍♀️

It's bad enough sending money to someone you don't know but it's crazy to think of letting your kids make friends with him.

Very scary that she allow a stranger to interact privately with your children!!! Unbelievable as a parent I can not comprehend allowing this to happen.

Are the kids under-age?

I hope she had her daughters blocked this scammer also.

@finni6580 why would that matter? It's your job as a parent to protect them not to encourage a strange older man to speak with them in private

I’m sorry, her being married 3X is a HUGE RED FLAG

The victims are just as bland. In another video the vic guy said his hobby was Netflix and cats..

I physically cringed when she said "its ok ill just have to spank you." Ma'am you are the reason the German language has a word for "overwhelming shame and embarrassment you feel on behalf of other people that don't realize how embarrassing they're being." The word is Fremdschämen and she epitomizes it in the "ill spank you." moment 😬😬😬😬😬

​@@ChristinaFromKZfaqthat and his silence afterwards almost killed me with cringe 😂

He was trying to hide his accent.

Maybe running lots of different scams all day and not getting the big pay outs his friends brag about, might be giving him job fatigue hopefully all the rich pickings have gone or he needs to go back to scammer school 🙂

Yeah. He sounded like he was tired. Had no enthusiasm at all. Maybe he's juggling too many "clients" and he's not sure which one that was?

And kids, if you find your mom or dad in this kind of relationship, don't let them continue talking to these strangers online either!

I believe that adults these days are more likely to do something like this 😅

Why are the kids even on Instagram?😒🤦🏽‍♂️

​​@@AmbuBadger am 45 and my mom is 70 dealing with a scammer. There isn't anything I can do except tell her and not feed into her delusions. No one can make anyone stop their behavior.

@@swiftkarma4436 Man, that's rough. All you can do is pray, protect your assets, and keep showing her these videos!

I tell men im dating in real life not t use pet names.

😂😂😂😂😂

I could definitely imagine a fireman or ballerina scammer, but an astronaut scammer might be a bit of a stretch… “I’m stuck on Mars until you send me $20,000 for rocket fuel!” Hmm - on the other hand there are definitely people who I’ve seen on this channel who would fall for that.

@@Sashazur 😆

Thank you!!!!!!!!! One lady believed a scammer saying he needed $20,000 to buy a plane engine, to fix the plane they were going on a vacation in!!!! Wtf😮

Seriously what is wrong with these women.

Clearly she's not all there mentally. I mean look at her.

One can only make a number of bad choices. She is breaking her time.

No one’s perfect, but this lady seems to lack discernment in almost every aspect in her life.

Lol...she funny. She not grown. No adult mature women would even consider emotional investment without at least in person interaction. Nothing she says makes sense. I wonder if this man was unattractive would she be telling this story?

I'm actually terrified of her; just based on how she looks on this interview and how put together she's trying to act

This !!!

exactly lol

Very true. Just shows that these victims project what they want to see and believe on to the scammer.

“How are you?” “Good.” “How’s your energy?” “Normal.” But you’re so in love with his personality and you have such meaningful conversations. Lmao.

yeh a lot of these scammers come across in these conversations sounding like they’re sitting on the toilet taking a dump😁😁especially this guy😂😂 they know the more they talk the bigger the risk that their accents will raise red flags 🚩.. the hesitation between dialogue ,low flat tone, no emotion, dude sounded like he was talking to an IRS agent 😂😂 mind boggling that she couldn’t put 2and 2 together 😮

a lot of times they sound like they’re hung over sitting on a toilet taking a dump 🙄🙄🙄

😂💯😏🙃🤷🏽‍♀️

Exactly! She is one of those that let them touch their kids just to not lose them!

Less than 5 minutes in and I’m already very concerned that she’s the type of trash ‘mother’ that would allow her children to be abused if it meant she could keep a man around for more than a month. I sincerely hope she reads these comments and realizes how badly she needs intense ongoing therapy. She needs to learn to put her kids’ well being and safety first, and to be comfortable being alone with herself instead of constantly jumping into new marriages. She reminds me of that delusional gal who thought she was talking to the hottie from Stranger Things, and told the scammer she’d kicked out her husband so she and her kid were alone in their home. Ppl like this make me wish there was a required IQ and basic competency test required to be a parent.

​@@mrs.h2725Yep, typical black mothering skills

It’s child abuse allowing this unknown man speak to her daughters. She should be ashamed of her self - either that or she’s not playing with a full deck!!'!

If some guy I never met-- even if I HAD met him & been in a real relationship with him for a year-- reached out to my child BEHIND MY BACK, I'd be calling the Sheriff's Dept ASAP! That is creepy & pedo-like on EVERY level!

right? I feel like I chose the wrong career 😂😂😂

How i sign up?

Seriously if I hadn't been brain washed with morals I'd be rich by now.

I have often thought it would be easy money.

I'll do it for $90 😂 Sorry, I gotta get the dough

This is the comment I was seeking.

Those nails need to go. She really flaunts them.

Yeah.. There's a cold underlying something there.

@@sherw7635well luckily one of them already has. Just 9 more to go now

Yeah, it takes one to know one, right?!

Exactly! She said if she found out he was real she'd be very happy. I'm like it's just as bad if he was!

It would be interesting to know about her 3 ex husbands. If they were also verbally abusive and maybe she grew up in an abusive home, then this is "normal" to her and doesn't send up any red flags because she doesn't know any different. There are plenty of women who end up in series of abusive relationships because they don't understand setting boundaries and don't understand that it's not "normal" for men to speak to their woman like that.

Yes!!!

Exactly, she thinks she's a 10. smh

@@Br33zeKooL even if she does, that’s no problem to me. I can’t dictate how another person sees themselves lol. The delusion kicks in for me where she up here acting like she isn’t a thirsty loser when she clearly is lmaooo

@@Rozegolden agree.

Well, hell, we know it's not his personality, judging by the enthusiastic phone call.

@@shannon8315 right lmaooo

She needs a therapist.

​@@lizzieh5284and they might not be able to help.

yeah, i hope she’s better than how she was portraying herself then. i dropped out and others i know have and we’re all relatively smart on paper. circumstances aren’t always the best and that’s okay!

She got exactly what she deserved. This woman’s a damn problem!

And then got with a white man, you already know the disrespect for brothers is on another level

@jklax, it's not a put down if it's an accurate description. There are many uneducated, high school drop outs in manual labor positions where they successfully thrive and support themselves and their families.

@@jsmith5509 That's not new information. You should be able to decipher her tone and condescension there easily though.

Right

He is so dull and emotionless, it's like listening to clinical recordings of people with schizoid personality disorder. The people who have no interest in other humans at all.

The man in the photos probably has social or verbal skills. I don't know of course. The African fellow on the phone couldn't really express himself.

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Of course she has problems , been divorced 3 times!!

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Starting with those disgusting nails

Yep!

@@oo-jj9xvShe has clearly not learned from it 😂

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Sad..she needs therapy

She's only 38 I think.

@@tanya4534exactly. Hardly friggin old.

bingo

Yes. The reality is that model men go after model women. And she is not model level. It’s simply the truth, just like I’m not model material either.

I second that emotion. Delusional 😮

She could improve her looks by a lot if she wore makeup. Not as hopeless as some of the over 60 grannies I’ve seen falling victims to these scammers.

Coming from someone who loves to workout and keeping my body looking a certain way. I only date men who are the same. You don’t have to be perfect but fitness needs to be important to you. My bf is ten years younger and the exact same way. It’s a way of life for fitness people so when I see people on here saying these fitness buffs are in love with them I know it’s a lie.

PERIOD...& I do and did 😂😂😂. Folks can't even be who they are face to face , let lone hidden behind a screen🤷🏾‍♀️

EXACTLY. All this mystery about pictures, phone numbers, and accents. He won't show his face? He's not the guy in the pictures. He asked you for money? He's a professional scammer. It's simple.

You think & yet we watch victims like these

he has money for the gym but not for his phone

Not true. I'm a secret agent and I need gift cards for my secret mission. Send cards and don't tell anyone. It's a secret.

You took the words out of my mouth.

THANK YOU! Its like they think everything is narcisim. He's a freaking scammer. None of this is real to him. He had 40 other you's to finess

@@TyGosketch probably 100 others . I don’t know why they need “closure”. They just trying to eat. They don’t care about people’s “feelings”.

This is definitely a career for romance scammers. They see it as a business, and they don’t care if they hurt any feelings because it’s just business.

Exactly. This isn’t a “relationship with a narcissist”. Just a professional thief

@user-fl5uc8rx2vyou in the video said that he messaged your children on his own, or is the story changing now to fit your narrative?

My first husband, 2nd husband, 3 husband imo something is wrong w her to go thru that many men!

@user-fl5uc8rx2v he followed them on their instagram account and that didn’t concern you?

@@JaimeMesChiens love your long comment, but the simple answer is she has narcissistic tendencies. She wants to be put out there likes this, even if it’s embarrassing. It’s all about her and her personal experience, she thought she was going to prove Catfished wrong.

⁠As far as I can tell, the reverse image search for social media is not a service that is offered by any websites for free. But it’s also not really necessary for figuring out you’re talking to a scammer. I suppose if you’re good looking, it could be interesting to use it to see who’s stolen your photos, not that you could do much about it.

I'm listening to this and like omg. You have only known him 2 weeks and he is already asking for money. Smh. I had a guy text me and said the same story. I can't access my account because of my ex wife but you have a job and you are an engineer. Come on.

He was on a different phone typing while he was talking to her. He was completely distracted.

She’s in love with the pics

Even though she said she “wasn’t impressed” she fell for his pics obviously cause there was nothing… dude did nothing😂. Barely even talked on that phone call, never met, never sent her anything… nothing💀

Because they are mostly older women, who may be retired, whose children have all grown up and moved away, but they still want to feel needed, like they still have a purpose.

it’s the “nurturing trait” in most women.

They are like "yup I knew it was a scam but let me give him another 500 bucks" like WTF?

She was really pretty. Maybe they like how she talks or something

@@cynthiaholland13now she’s just rude, old and bitter💀

Most are following a script. Soon they will use robots, or Artificial Intelligence, saying the same things about how beautiful they are, running spiels about their problems, and asking for money every other sentence.

Everytime she asked him something he paused, then was short with his answers.

Agree, as if the man in the pictures would talk that way. Come on.......

Just hearing them speak on the phone had me nauseous 🤦🏾‍♀️

🤢🤢🤢

That's how it goes with these scammers

Because serial con men are running so many scams on so many women, it must be tiring for them! He sounded like a wet dish rag when he talked to her on the phone. No enthusiasm. He just wants her money until she blocks him. Then he moves on to another and another target with his "model pics"

Because the scammers are BORED!!!! This is their "job". If you've ever worked in customer service or answered calls, it becomes mundane. The only things that perks up these scammers are the sweet comforting sounds from the rustling of dollar bills. I had a guy from Nigeria try and tell me they didn't have grocery stores there. I still to this day wish I had said, "over 200 million people in Nigeria and no one has yet figured out how to build grocery stores. Everybody living off of oxygen and dust as well as dragging yall behinds on the grass like dogs. That's amazing". 😂 He really assumed I was going to send him money because of that "sad story". I did tell him off after being sick of him sending me messages about marriage and deleted him from my page.

Ya I swear all these peo have mental issues

I agree. Its puzzling for me how the women on this show doesnt seem to reflect on this... I am also feeling so uncomfortable by the conversations we are hearing . 0 interest..

Yesss wtfff

EXACTLY. A terrible mother

she’s desperate. doesn’t need to have children

because she is desperate

Yes

💯🎯📠

Right she acts like this is all "above" her, but she's gross asf

Trust me this scammer would have never moved in with this blk woman she is single and desperate a reason

Great point

@@504fireman75someone’s race has nothing to do with it. 🛑 most of the people featured on this channel are white

Interesting take👍🏽

Intelligent?… looking the way she looks she thought a man like that wanted her. Mind you she was really bitter to degrade her exes aswell degrading the person on the photos by “not being impressed” while talking about his body explaining no conventional flaws, for 2 minutes straight. A narcissist can believe they “deserve” more based on nothing by their own beliefs except for their own worldly wants. She’s not a nice lady💀

She's "lived life" by lying on her back only. 🤢

SEEMS is right

Absolutely 💯

Yeah, don't want to be mean and all, but when she flashed on the screen, it was a shock - because these two people are so obviously not a match.

He found one for sure!

Guess she was thinking he was looking for the Gummy experience.

I love when you hear her voice talking about how she's been with other attractive men and then it quickly flashes to her like JUMP SCARE

​@@BrianLG100😂😂😂

“who lead the revolving door of men in their children's lives“ What?

I agree. She sounds like someone who cannot be single.

Yep it's gross

​@@Baddscorpiowomen who consistently bring different men in and out of their children's lives.

Absolutely!!

Old age gets even the most beautiful people in the end. I wouldn't doubt at least 2/3 of her ex-husbands would see this as karma of sorts.

She’s always been a pick me paying for her men breeding and being their provider

​@@ChristinaFromKZfaqshe's 38 or so? She's not old

​@@minarose3193you think she's a pickme that supported all her husbands and that's why they married her? Even though their faces were blurred they didn't look half bad at all. One of them was a construction guy. Construction guys can be hot.

They are also delusional about how beautiful they themselves are and about how intelligent they are.

I am sure it's true, She has no end of attractive men contacting her ...on Facebook. She's just never met any of them because they are all Nigerian scammers.

And its literally the opposite of the truth. Jesus told us he sends us out as sheep amongst wolves so "therefore you must wise as serpents and innocent as doves." Innocent meaning "not guilty of wrongdoing." Not meaning "a naive pushover." We are told "test every spirit." So the reason i don't trust you, buddy, is because I'm Christian. Jesus told me not to.

Yeah, when she said he’s “God fearing,” I knew where this was going. People see what they want to see!

lol some of the worst behaving people Ive ever met grew up as Christians

Exactly. I think she looks differently in her head than she looks in real life. Like girl please.

Yep. I picked up on it right away. Gross.

Yes, I noticed that too. :-( it was so not okay.

Her fingernails are wicked looking.

I noticed the “light-skinned guy comments too.

When they’re older I often feel bad for them. If they came before modern technology, they don’t understand how any of it works

And if they dont want to meet you in real life you aren't even friends

You're right. It's level one delusion.

It's an addiction.

That's exactly it 💯

This is what it is

🔥🔥🔥 HOT girl

Awww, she thought that was really cute, reaching out to her daughters.

Gives the scammer even more confidence because he knows she has no boundaries or concerns for her own kids. She is irresponsible. How does she even have her kids online with social media accounts etc and not monitor them to protect them? If they are young, they need to be protected… they are children. Makes me so sad for them.

Maybe her daughters are over 18yrs

@@ngahuiroimatanutira-langda4153 Then that would be a different issue altogether.

Yeah but it doesn't hurt to try!!