Lust is never satisfied and 🐱will not keep a man. I agree with you.

You shouldn’t have to be told to give someone you’re dating to give them a gift. Gifts should be given genuinely. This situation is a financial exchange not a real relationship. 🤦🏾‍♀️

She left her drink unattended 😮….that could have been tragic. Glad for her it wasn’t…her fiancé should be ashamed that she put this out here.

These are the types of women the men want now.

I think people need to look at the saga of Kroy Biermann. He played for the Falcons and had millions. Married that chick from RHOA. Last we heard, he was outside his house screaming on a police call because he was broke and his wife was allegedly cheating on him.

I used to question if I was a Christian. I don't anymore as I feel the offense of sin. That's the work of the Hoky Spirit in me and I am grateful. I know now that this woman doesn't know her worth. She put a price tag on something that is priceless. My heart breaks for her and her husband. It also angers me. But because I know God is omnipotent and omniscient, I cast my worries to Him. He is able and loving. Glory to Almighty God!

The ONE she said that I agree with is if a man REALLY LOVES YOU, YOUR PAST DOESN’T MATTER. What I’m running into is men who coerce women into this type of behavior then judge you.

I don't understand her point so she doesn't want to be perceived badly but then offers herself up for money. I swear seeing stuff like this makes being single//virgin not seem so bad.

Grooming women into prostitution then shaming them for it IS ALSO A SIN.

“Go ahead & break her off her alimony & shut up” 😂😂

Woe unto you who calls evil good and good evil

Real women of God. Where are ya'll!!!

*This time is, no different than the "old times."* Ecclesiastes 1:9 KJV *“The thing that hath been, it is that which shall be; and that which is done is that which shall be done: and there is no new thing under the sun.”*

This world is backwards 😂 like there’s no way she came online and basically said I sell my poopoo & dead serious about it. He deserves her.

The say fiancee. They actually mean financee.

She’s acting like she’s growing a rose even though she planted a weed. Sometimes you reap exactly what you sow. Just hope they don’t get children involved.

Men like those are looking for arm candy or maybe looking for a beard. I wish her the best.

Why did she mention the past when it's still very much her current reality? Nothing has changed. She's still tricking. She's just doing it with one guy instead of several.

He basically bought his fiancée 🤦🏾‍♀️ 😂😂😂😂

Men get mad at females tho for this type of stuff more than they get mad at the man MAYBE IF YALL START HOLDING EACH OTHER ACCOUNTABLE THIS BS WILL STOP. But yall don’t do that so yall will continue to get FINESSED. I don’t agree with it but at this point yall be asking for it.

i have a different feeling about this i'm quite sure her fiance is going to switch up and abuse/control her after the vows that man playin her hard hope i'm wrong

I totally agree with you on God’s way. But when it comes to males, one size fit all doesn’t apply. I came to the conclusion after hearing from other people experiences and my own, that some men, will genuinely love women who are exactly as her and will not honor or respect women who are genuinely looking for love. We living in a society really moved by ungodly standards. Some men have been living in Promiscuity their whole lives and know they can’t otherwise from a woman. They will still love her as she is. Reality is some men don’t know what they want, many and have commitment issues, Mommy issues until even 50 yo. And they are many, with good earnings and very very well broken. This might end with no issue at all. I have been on my abstinence Journey since 6 years and never came accross one single man who wants that. Not one single and most of them are more than 40 years old. When you ask some of them one simple question “how are you?” They will tell you about their work. You quiet listening and when he finishes and you tell him, I was asking you how you are, you as a human, not an employee. Just an example. They are not here trying to build any relationship. Every question related to know them, they run away.

This is why I have given up on men, because they are so confusing and complex. They will say they want a good woman who is not easy, but then turn around and marry the professional. There's other examples but this is just one

People don't realize that men who don't need to, still prefer to pay for it. It's about power and no strings attached. It happens all the time, but most women wouldn't be online talking about it. Still bad and destructive of your soul, but they were not online boasting about it. Gen Z is the worst.

Bless her heart.. she’s going to pay the price for her value safety and health.. Jesus paid the price for my soul.. to gain the whole world and lose your soul..

Thank you for defining what prostitution is because people wanna be delulu now smh. The world today is literally sick

I’m sorry but I laughed when you said “some ppl don’t even last 15 minutes.” 😂😂😂 I do understand and agree with the godly points you mentioned . It’s sad that ppl have no shame in putting a price tag on their bodies. Jesus did not sacrifice himself for us to be acting like this. much love ❤️.

The embarrassment alone from this video is gonna cause her not to walk down the aisle. The way his colleagues and family will look down on her as if being blk wasn’t enough for her.

Lord have mercy...help us😢 too God be the glory 🙌🏾🫶🏾🌻🤗

So is she the black Julia Roberts in "Pretty Woman"

I was shamed and ridiculed for the past several years for not only leaving an abusive relationship but for being forced to have sex out of obligation!! And to hear women like her not being shamed at all just makes my blood boil!! And I've putting in the work to change my life and I hear this!! It's just beyond me the lengths people go to for a "relationship"!! I don't know what to think at this point. The thing is I never stooped to the levels that women like her had stooped to!! Smh.

I knew you were going to talk about this!

Thank You for your videos!!!!

The same goes for a guy. If you want a woman to value you take money off the table.

And she really thinks she’s doing a good thing, blabbing away like that. She’s just a pawn in a game of predator chess. When he’s had his fill of her? He goes unto the next one. And she won’t be having any leverage to tell him not to. Such men are players, and women like this give them a reason to keep going and feeling like what they’re about is validating enough. STAY AWAY from people who look at you only as a means to an end! It has nothing to do with emotions, sincere love or good intentions for someone else. Just an avenue for lustful demons to unleash. Thank you for the content of your videos. I came across you few weeks back and the messages you share are very much needed in our world today. Even if we feel we already know something? It’s still necessary to have good counsel, words of wisdom reiterated. Bless you, Sir.

His discussion sounded way too hurt and shocked. First, there is a reason prostitution and ladies of the night is the oldest profession. This is what happens when patriarchy deceives you into a reality that is not supported by the evidence. Women of this nature have always existed at this point, no one should be surprised. IMO, it's not up for discussion when the bible, itself, tells you to avoid these types of women. Engaging with these women is a direct defiance of the bible.

I agree the problem is no shame. We all make mistakes but to not have shame or guilt or remorse 😢 I have grace for her and Pray she gives her life to God ❤

I don't believe her. She made this dude up.

What tripped me out in the beginning of this video was when she said she excused herself to the ladies room. She did this while he was ordering her drink and could’ve slipped something into all because she wanted to “show her legs” 🙄 That could’ve ended badly.

LOL! “Fiancé”, “boyfriend”, “significant other”, blah, blah, blah still isn’t a HUSBAND! There’s no title higher than WIFE! Don’t let this little girl fool you, besides, I don’t see ANY proof of her “man”, he’s using her, much more than she’s using him.

Why not shining light on women who obviously aren’t ashamed. Try focusing on uplifting the “good” women and praising them for doing it the “right” way.

As long as there are men entertaining and interested in these types of women, there will always be women like this.

Any time a woman gives up 10, 15, 20 years of her time, she will get half in a court of law. IN AMERICA, TIME EQUALS MONEY. you don't get to use someone and throw them away. How hard is this for you to understand?😂

To be honest I think sleeping with someone on the first date is terrible but I honestly think the lady who does it for free is worse than one who would do it for money. Lol This is coming from a Christian woman who dated husband and we waited for marriage. I feel you have very very low self esteem to sleep with someone on first date but even more so to get nothing in return. First case you are selling yourself for affection and second scenario selling yourself for money.

Powerful commentary. Just loved it. Keep sharing the words of Christ. People need this wisdom.

Character Development is Wanting How To Impart Wisdom in a godless woman. It almost impossible

That’s the sad part though we are in a place where those women are so called “winning”… the good women (like myself) that does what she needs to do, works, getting her education, constantly trying to improve and become a better human alllllll while loving him, catering to him, helping him only to get nothing but heartbreak, emotional exhaustion, spiritual suffering etc. Us good girls are getting the short end of the stick. So what do we do? Go into our next situations expecting men to step up and do more or continue to let men take everything from us and move on to the woman that’s thottin and boppin 😭 I’m genuinely confused. Help us 💀

Whaaaaat ??? Aside from the other obvious red flags leaving a strange man to tend to your drink without supervision for any amount of time is insane.

Hmmm...I dunno...I don't disagree with what you've said but here's a harsher truth: not everybody gets to have that great love story and not everybody will 'make it' on their own no matter how hard they try. So if a woman finds a man who is willing to enter into an arrangement (even better, a marriage) that is consensual and mutually beneficial, c'est la vie. It is easy to cast judgement when you're happily married/partnered and doing well but not all of us get to benefit from that experience. And not all women have the intellect and/or hustle required to be able to afford a comfortable lifestyle on their own. And as far as Christianity is concerned, the church has little guidance to provide singles outside of telling them to 'wait on the Lord'.

People will sell their soul for $1. Not a flex.

Dating is not courting.

My My My......Great critique/commentary #Shumake Well, the other friend that wasn't paying with his cc was the SMART one #Lol

Been waiting for your take on this 👌🏾

I was distracted by her wig the entire video😩

She had expectation… he was the fool. He knew upfront and excepted it.

I'm pretty sure this isn't real and shes fabricating the story.. A lot of women have made channels and posts like these for clicks but they don't really live the lifestyle.

“Take note, Ladies! That is how a gentleman asks you for a drink!” (Then she sells him her Kitty 🤔 )thanks for the advice, girl. I’m good 😂😂😂😭 #dirtymoney

The part she said about her bday gift expectation was valid tho lol that’s girl math tho so I get it

Then women like me can't get a man let alone a fiancé... smh wow!

Women need financial support. Men are supposed to provide. Can you balance your opinion? I need help with my bills. And if I have a whole man that I'm giving my all to I expect him to help. And I'm not a prostitute

1st of all no one….especially a woman should ever leave their drink unattended.

I’m surprised people are still getting married.

So, I am curious to know, why does he want to marry her?! His friend didn't try to talk him out of it?! I guess he is down for the get down too! I wonder if her friend sells her body too?!

I am just waiting for an update of the guy. Maybe he will go on them Fresh and Fit trash podcast 😂

thank God I'm demisexual 🙏

Your stoic face during these crazy videos is hilarious.

To be honest. I hope for the best for this women. Im happy she got married. OH. Correction: i thought she was married aleady... Um, i would slow my role on posting videos if i was her. But anyway, I personally would not go about my dating life in the manner she did at all. However, we attract people who are similar to us. I hope that they can sustain their relationship and be happy.

PREACH !!!!!! THANK YOU MY BROTHER PREACH ☺️🙏

Preach my brother !!!

Allow grown folks to do whatever they want that makes them happy as long as they are not hurting anyone and she clearly isn’t. She was upfront about her expectations from the beginning and she didn’t do the age old switch up which a lot of men do where they pretend to be one way and then they turn into a complete troll of a man. Whatever the consequences for the man, that woman showed him the real her from the beginning. If she is what he wants despite the objections of others or it not being the wisest decision in others opinion, then that’s his prerogative. Instead of being quick to vilify them or her specifically, its better to examine the root cause of why some people think or act a certain way. The bottom line is that both men and women don’t want to feel used. Men tend to use women for sex and women for money or lifestyle. So a lot of the mindset comes from a place of not wanting to be used. No one, man or woman, is necessarily a bad person because they have created a way to not feel used by the opposite sex.

Does she have vampire teeth? Is it just me or is something weird about the shape of her teeth?

Not my thing. But not mad at her.

I feel like she’s either lying, or the man she’s talking about has one foot in the grave.

lol tag my KZfaq buddy!

Some men like to be needed. My husband loves my independence in some things

So...she did all of this until she found a rich simp. So the future pregnancy, divorce, prenup, and child support checks are what's most likely coming next.

I would not trust either one of them. If they marry, I would be shocked. I wonder if he is an old sugar daddy.

An orange clearance tag. 70% off

Yeah until the light go out

Where is her page

" her birthday month" that's like saying October is completely off-limits unless you're buying me presents all month because "it's my birthday.. month" whatttt

Hi Mr Shumake, thank you for this video. I am shocked, I had no idea that some women were behaving that way. I understand now why black women have such a bad reputation. I am a French woman, I am black and I am really shocked. Sabine.

This isn't personal it business for her! These things are choices between the two. Your talking like she's asking the guy to be her husband. Dude she's a Professional lady of the night 😆

He assumed correctly. I just hate the justification that people want to use to condone this type of living. If you sell you wares lets call it for what it is and stop this nonsense about "getting my bag" and getting your worth and value and you an IT or THAT girl

Poor thing all she has is her “kitty”😂😂😂😂

TEACH!!

Can't believe she's actually comfortable & okay with this. This is sad & disgusting. She so reminds me of Kim Kardashian & Kylie Jenner..!! Like I literally see Kim & Kylie 🙂🙂 !! She's a easy catch & that man definitely doesn't care about his cash or himself. He getting manipulated from left to right..!!

? what happen to raising up children in the way they should go 🙈

Pimps don't wear fur coats & platform shoes anymore

3:59 They know this already. They just dont care 😂 and can you list the scriptures which says this? As a celibate woman, I would have frowned on this if men werent expecting the same thing from women after the first date or if women werent already giving it up so easily and freely but i honestly think men made those things bad because they want free access to it but only on their own terms and do not like it coming from a woman.

I agree with majority of what you said but please be careful with “if she likes you she’ll go with you to Burger King” (which is the only thing I don’t agree with) the food is not healthy for consumption and players or pick up artists that don’t want to put much effort into planning a date or don’t believe in courting a woman or a particular woman they don’t take seriously because they have not so good motives may run with that. Excuse my run on sentences😂

I wouldn't accept the gift if im not interested. I am ashamed of her. This woman is too entitled.

And thats how they come up missing🤷🏾‍♀️👍🏾

Facts

Wow

Unreal to me but people don’t fail to disappoint by doing just anything! I guess I am too old to realize this is just crazy😢. So sad!!!

This shit sound sooo made up 😂

This lady crazy

Sorry, but this story does not sound real . Are there really wealthy guys like that who will go to such lengths for a girl they picked up in a bar??

who is this woman?