Less is more. Lust from a man is not a compliment.

I’m not just looking for a good man, I’m looking for a Godly man. I do think there is a difference.

Ladies, I'm telling you, you better disconnect from this world and connect to the Most High.

A real man should wait for a real woman instead of running through women. Take accountability!

We are in desperate times……. Women are settling making it hard for young women like me who don’t even play that.

What folks don't often say is how difficult it can be to wait for a Godly partner. Often, being a respectable woman or man means it will take time to attract an equal. That is why so many give up. But remember, it just takes one person. It is difficult, but it is worth it. Take it from someone who was raised by an outstanding father and mother (parents still married).

That video was so disgusting. We have to do better as women. We can't expect men to respect us until we respect ourselves. We also have to keep in mind that we are setting an example to the younger generation. Shumake I love your videos and that your spreading the word of God! He is using you in so many ways. Keep doing what your doing!

These women think acting overly sexual gets a man and keeps him,this isn't the case They're degrading themselves trying to set themselves apart.

I think the misconception is these women are trying to be wives. These women are here for a good time and a few trinkets. A lot of celebrities are not known for their loyalty, not even to their friends.

Why is Quavo surprised this is the type of women he is attracting?

It's sad but they came the way he presented himself. They know who he is, what he raps about, & how they perceive him to be. Crazy but it's not just about the women & how they carry themselves. Men have to carry themselves a certain wait as well.

A rapper puts this energy out and these are the types they attract. They are never interviewing quality men nor putting their matches on these platforms

They said what they thought he wanted to hear.

That was absolutely DISGUSTING. These young women were clearly FAILED by their parents. Smh🤒🤢🤮

That clip was disgusting. Im glad I disconnected from the world. I’m waiting on my husband to find me. Keep educating these “men” and “women” Shumake 💪🏾

Right… if a woman was to say all that stuff to me I would be disgusted and run like satan was in front of me.

This felt evil! She obviously haven’t been taught, talked to, maybe abused or m*lested. This was diplorable. Her whole family will see this if she has one. This was truly a cryable moment! 🥹🥲 I felt so bad for her. How could you even stand there and expect to be halfway respected. Quavo was floored, he was turned off and could hardly respond. So Sad!

Unfortunately, I do everything to be noble, and the men who are interested in me ALWAYS treat me like I am cheap even though I demand respect. It doesn't matter how I dress. The men who approach me are psychotic and narcissistic. Even when I do everything to be decent. I don't dress scantily, I don't swear, I try to be decent 100% of the time, and the men who are interested in me are always promiscuous and debauched and drug addicts. It might be because of my zip code, but every man who is my age in the area are all drug addicts or debaucherous in other ways. I don't want to date younger because I don't want to rob the cradle, and I don't want an older man, ESPECIALLY if he is married or in a relationship.

This is nasty. I've had men approach me like this and I run. All I see is "the virus" because if you come at ME like this....who else?

Lord have mercy. These young women are so very lost. Seeing and hearing this has almost left me in shock

As a woman I can say I'm different and have been told by multiple men. I have saw women acting desperate over a man that has a woman. I'm also quick to not help a man cheat on his woman. It's like morals have gone down the drain.

While listening to what you were saying starting around 8:30, I was reflecting on my own past. I wasn't acting like these young women in the clip, but I'd have sex in the early stages of getting to know someone. And honestly, it wasn't because I wanted to (in my heart, I didn't want to), but I thought that's just how things went. Looking back, I understand why those situations didn't result in an actual commitment. Regardless of my character, I presented myself in a manner that was indistinguishable from a promiscuous woman. And even though they'd say I was a good woman because they eventually got to see who I truly was, that didn't matter. To them, I didn't value and honor myself, and if I couldn't do that, what good would I have been to them? Keep these conversations up. You don't know how much they are needed!

All ppl want is to be loved, accepted and valued at the end of the day. When women are generally objectified and over sexualized all their lives (from childhood), they then see their value in being sexual and seductive. We can’t expect behavior that deviates from a sexual nature when that is what’s glorified and broadcasted.. THAT BEING SAID, ladies, please be mindful of the things you consume. Songs, shows, podcasts… Please. You’re adjusting your worth and value on what you witness being applauded. Take accountability for the ppl and media you surround yourself with. God is the only one who will heal and fill the deepest voids you have. And then from there, you’ll receive everything you want/need and then some. ❤ Edit: just wanted to add…Quavo got a lot of nerve. I don’t listen to all of his music. But I’ve never heard a mainstream song from him that reflected he was looking for a women with morals and integrity. Just sayin.

It’s harsh but young women need to hear this because so many have been lead astray. A lot of women these days aren’t being taught to value themselves outside of worldly possessions. So many women deserve so much better than they are subjecting themselves to.

Some men can pick up when a woman has low self-esteem. If you say you are a good woman but continue to attract a low quality man, it's time to self reflect and find out who you really are and what you truly desire.

Not for nothing, this woman doesn’t represent all women, or all black women. So no, can’t relate.

So crazy because men would want to marry the woman that has good character and is wholesome, because it makes HIM look good, yet will still keep two or three of these birds in his phone😂 this is why women should date/ marry strategically. Meaning make sure he is established, has security, and likes you waaaayy more than you like him. So not if , but WHEN he messes up, you not sliding down the wall, but at the mall, at peace, looking good, with plenty of options to choose from. ✌🏾Never make these men the prize.

Yesss, I’m barely on social media because I just can’t relate to the “whoaaaa culture” the “I hate my baby daddy culture” I just can’t. Being mostly naked for no reason! I’ve been married for 9 years now. I even go to brunches and don’t even talk cuz I can’t relate to the conversations, I just go to see my girls and eat

The way I see it is that these men put it out there in their songs about what they like in women so the women fans want to try to emulate that so these rappers shouldn’t be upset when women act like that when that’s the type of energy that they put out there as far as what they like in women. If they don’t want that type of energy then maybe they need to change the message in their songs

They’re saying what Quavo raps about. Think about it…a male rapper who is debacherous and brags about it, expecting top tier respect from a woman in the same lifestyle? Like pls be serious. Quavo met his match. Regular people don’t act like this bc they’re not dating/sleeping with celebrity rappers

I think it’s just better to be friends with a man than to go on blind dates speed dates or rush into dating period I’ve noticed most men treat their friends (male and female friends) better than people they’ve met online, in person and dated right away without the friendship first

This is real SAD!!! The discussion needs to be had.

My father always said: "don't follow the stream, follow your own current." As a kid i didn't understand and laughed at his wise words. It wasn't until i grew as a person that i understood and appreciated the value and meaning in his words. I was lucky my father was there looking out for me.

You must realize that women of substance never make it past the casting call. Too boring. Only outrageous people are put in front of the camera. Ratings.

Such a good video. Growing up, my parents and older brother ALWAYS told me this… I just turned 26 and I am so glad I listened. I have a childhood friend who dresses like an IG model 24/7, wants to be famous in LA, and made a raunchy instagram account. I don’t recognize her anymore… She asks me why nice guys approach me and not her and why men don’t want a relationship with her. I nicely told her that the way you carry yourself MATTERS. She doesn’t get it… I think it may be best to be distant friends with her… 1Cor 15:33 I appreciate you Mr. Shumake. Keep up the great work. Blessings to you and your family.

The music industry has done this. First they told black men it’s okay to be 🌈and to use the n word in songs. Then they told women that it’s okay to act like a slut

These women are the true pick Mesha's.

If there is enough positive reinforcement the behavior will continue. Some of these women are receiving enough encouragement from men to continue in thier behavior and dressing. Not all but some. I see thousands of men on Facebook that thrive on looking at women like these. Love thier pictures and videos.

This is soooo sad, it makes be disgusted because I am a black woman and would never...this is tragic. The sad part is you can see that they are disposable to him, they are less than nothing to him. He will end up a man that can't connect with a woman because he will likely only see them as these type of women...out and proud whores.

Good points. But I’ve dated men and the ones that needed to wait for any sex left me after three months or so. It’s sad because I always wanted to be a virgin before marriage but in reality these men go after the easy ones. I waited until I was 36 to date with sex. It’s awful out here and I guess it’s because women lowered the standards and men don’t have those strong guidelines to follow when dating like they used to be taught?

This has got to be satire… no way ppl REALLY behave this way💀 I refuse to accept this.

Wow! The sad thing is it's not even just the young people, It's older ones also.

Omg I’m looking at this with my mouth wide open about to hit the floor because what

This man is Christ-like minded, God bless you in abundance

And these the type of women they run around saying all women are like when in REALITY THEY AREN’T

I think we men have also played a part in this. Physically these women look good but the mind is REALLY sad. Even if it's just a skit it's not a good look. Today it just seems like sex work and their clients are more or less legal.

That disclaimer about battling with lust is gold! Had me laughing right away.

This is not a typical situation nor are these typical women. There are levels.

Finally someone not afraid to say it, when will we have a Holy Ghost boldness to say preach!!!!

Only God can change a person's character. Men and women to the most part are lost. The honorable women are treated horribly along with the not so honorable ones. If you don't have a Godly man who actually fears God and takes vows seriously then you will still have trash. I expect nothing from the lost and don't expect much more from the so called saved ones. It's a sad situation.

I was embarrassed for them.

This speaks volumes, I spoke to a well known relationship coach who you have mentioned on your channel and his message to me was what you advised not to do. Long story short he basically told me to carry myself as the young ladies in the video did. That is the only way I would get a "real man's" attention. Thank you, for putting it into perspective, and keeping it real.❤

This is not normal behavior. Quavo looked disgusted and unimpressed.

I wanted to cry when I saw the video.

I’m going to say this as a thicker woman myself a man can tell how youre built without you having to twerk and shake and clap your cheeks in front of everyone in broad daylight There were times when I had on jeans and a t shirt and had men chasing me because they could see what I was working with without showing it all!!! I’m sure quavo has slept with fifty million people built the same way this is so cringe worthy to me

Meek and Quiet spirit is an ornament unto Yah

I was embarrassed and I didn’t even say this I could never my daddy raised me to respect myself and put out the energy I want back she will never get any respect until she starts with herself

I don't know what folks are thinking, but this AIN'T it.

even if men disrespected y'all with clothes on or off that doesn't mean dress immodest or not try to keep your modesty. NEVER stoop to their level. that's the game. Thats how many women end up losing themselves. Thats a CLEAR vindication HE IS NTO FOR YOU! There's NO SHAME in dressing modest at all. But never change it because of "they just gon look/treat me" the same. No they won't if you walk away. You'll end up losing that battle. Wait on God if its that ugly 💕💕💕 love all yall

Single and have been going on 4years no lowering the bar if you can’t meet the expectations then keep it moving

I don’t want a man that will look at someone and place women in two different categories (play vs build with) and stick around her regardless what category he put her in. These men need to figure out which category they are in currently and find women in that same category and leave the other category alone. As a good woman I don’t want a man that comes to me as good character and respects me as someone to build with when he would’ve just as fast played with me if he would’ve put me in the other category. Figure out what you want and stop messing with people outside of that. I don’t want someone that has the potential to still play around, that shouldn’t be an option. And these same men will court a woman and have play things while courting becasue he just can’t do without s3x, but if the woman he’s courting does the same thing, she’s “for the streets”. That’s how you get a long term boyfriend that’s confused as all anything and want his cake and eat it to. Men need to go heal and stop messing with peoples lives.

OMG they sound so desperate 😫🤣 I couldn’t help but laugh just from the first few questions he asked but its really sad that they wanted to impress him so bad that their default thought process was to appeal to his sexuality rather than just being themselves unless that’s really who they are 🥴

He's a rapper so these ladies already knew what time it was with him. If he was looking for respectable those women would've never been picked to begin with. They gave him what he wanted. Him acting flustered was all an act. The girl in black with the bbl was it for him but he knew he couldn't bring her to his Mamas table/house with that foolishness.

I have always been told that showing less means more about yourself. You respect yourself.

Damn this is so sad 😞

Where do you get these females from? Please do not make this about women. This is about the people y’all tend to choose🙏💯❤️

Great content especially bringing Holy Scriptures in on it!

I absolutely LOVE that ! Alot of ppl call me a tease , I'm not I'm just selective and I want who GOD has for me . Thank you for your perspective which is also confirmation.

Good points. Also, women of quality aren't interested in men with women like that around him.

Praise the Lord for you and your concern and honesty. God is going to bless you for helping our young people. ❤

I don't think those women were looking for a serious relationship, nor was Quavo. I think they were all looking for səx.

THANK YOU FOR SAYING WHAT YOU SAID .

They have been turned out! Now they’re out of control! 🤢🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

I cannot believe she said that....my goodness....there are some things better left unsaid

They probably thought that’s what he wanted to hear, based off the music he make. They obviously read the room wrong. Po tink tink

This generation is gone astray. While men narrow looking for a woman to body shape and size. Some women now are using those as assets to deseparately get a man. There definitely has to be a reform. Women should respect themselves a lot more. Set some noble character and standards. God help us.

You telling the truth. Must work on Self. Some don't want to hear, but these times are out of control. Purpose before Pleasure. Love over Lust. Love & Light.

The sad thing is everything you're discussing is not only young women doing it, it's old women too. Old women, women with grandchildren. It's like there's a dispensation of women that don't know their value and thinking that this is a way they would get the attention they need. Because at the end of the day, that's all it is attention because a man will never commit to them. He will use them. Have sex with them. And when he's tired, he will drop them like a dirty tissue and move on to the next. Then those same women want to come back and say how no good he is.

Love the shirt Shumake! ❤I see you in your signature black tshirt!

Sir, none of those types of women are watching your content. you’re saved you read Bible verses. trust me those women are not here, so who are you schooling?

These girls are not women….. women do not care themselves like this….. it’s pretty shameful….. I would be embarrassed if they were in my family 🙄

What can we expect of a woman “auditioning” to date Quavo?? 😂

Don't apologize Shumake these women young and old need to hear you.

Thank you. I really needed this, because I didn't grow up with a father and I've made many mistakes, but I've never disrespected myself and this is good. But I am 50 now and will divorce soon and get back out there and I need to make sure I have a quality relationship going forward.

Damn this is a good video. All women need to see this. Respect! A word!

MAN YOU PREACHING!!! ❤

That was embarrassing 🤦🏾‍♀️

My walk with Jesus my Lord and Savior has really opened my eyes 👀 oh my goodness

The first few minutes of this video were so cringe. 😵‍💫 When we as women lead with our bodies and not with our minds, we are setting ourselves up for failure

Lawd... Its really bad out here... Why don't people know that there is more to you than your body, or what you can do in the bed... What went wrong???

This is a good opening conversation to segway into the biblical role of women as a support system, help mate and feminine side of the partnership. Once we understand this part then we can unpack the topic of submission and what it really means and how to stand on business as biblical women of God not by the world's standards. My second video of yours and just subscribed! ❤

She should’ve kept that to herself 😂😂😂🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

You know it's bad when a rapper push you away, these hyenas have reached an all time low!!! Even the rappers want more

Some of these women talk like they're 10 year old and slow

I'm a surviver been out for about 4 years now. You have good points. Add this to it, the abuser will tell others that you are the crazy one, that you are the aggressive one. Most abusers have a great outside persona where they are liked and loved in the community because they always try to help out etc. but are devils behind closed doors. So by him telling that she's the crazy one people tend to believe him, also the one that's getting abused is most likely not seen in public much. Then you said that women need to tell and don't keep silent. That's true, but society loves to victim shaming so most tend to not say anything. Stop say or asking the victim: why don't you leave? Girl please I wish a **** would!?!! Or what did you do to piss him off? This is not helping and don't say what you would and wouldn't do if you have never been in the situation. Domestic violence does not discriminate!

@TheShumakeWay You are an inspiration. It gets very hard and lonely living based on principles and much harder and lonelier living based on Godly principles, and finding your channel is like finding a glowing ember in absolute darkness. Thank God for you, and thank you for your content. It makes a difference to this tired, lonely soul. God's blessings to you and your family, brother.

I love this guy, keep speaking truth ❤

Lord have mercy, for she Knows Not what she’s saying 🙏🏾 Young ladies Respect Yourselves!✌🏽

Preach my dear brother Preach "Respect" Go further in the Word where it says the wife is suppose to reverence her husband and her husband is suppose to love his wife like Christ loves the Chruch, and the wife is suppose to give herself to one husband.

It breaks my heart when I see stuff like this. this is such a good video thank you ❤