Exactly! Unless something comes up last minute, okay! Otherwise, Move on! All that yelling is not necessary! It's only the second date, Sis!

Ti be honest she caused a scene. He deserves better

She's not a wife for anyone

So are we supposed to ignore all the other times Men have told their GF that they're doing X thing and then he surprises her with something completely different and it turned out great? Or are we only supposed to focus on the negative times. Then on top of that you're applying being told you're going out yet being surprised with a Home Cooked meal (which is healthier, thoughtful and more time inducing) as bad and the "source of ungratefulness"? As the Man said they can still go to Capital Grille but you're over here saying "He's not a Man of his word"...On The Second Date! The last thing is that you're not wrong on the possibility of him having an ulterior motive however he also simultaneously could've just taken the phone out for evidence. Men can't come out of nowhere and start lying on folks and everyone believes him off RIP or at least takes it seriously, Women on the other hand can and have been doing this for a very long time. But my question is do you call them out for doing that just like you're trying to call out this Man here? Overall it heavily seems less like you actually want to hold both parties accountable and more of you didn't want the woman to be solely blamed off of her blatant behavior so you had to conduct something up to try and frame the Man as well.

If a women want the best resturants on the 1st or 2nd date. She want him to spend money

@@candylk247 facts

Exactly! Leave the premises

because he didnt keep his word so he was trying to explain why

I think it’s how she communicated her disappointment , she was combative, argumentative and condescending that’s where her valid point is being missed in translation . It also plays into the stereotype of what a woman like me (who is more docile in my approach ) has to fight against in the dating world THE ANGRY MASCULINE BLACK WOMAN who doesn’t deserve value and kindness

@@Seaney4eva It’s probably not her first rodeo with a future-faker. He *behaved* like someone who would groom a woman into accepting delayed, or unfulfilled promises.

Exactly! If it’s only the second date that’s setting the precedent that most dates will be in the house. She’s not about to get finessed early. I feel her on that! It’s the principle!

@@mscharleeann although that may be true and i agree with you , on the second date theres not enough investment for a woman to be as combative and condescending in her delivery to express delayed or unfilled promises

@@Seaney4evaBut he referred to her as “his girl” So there’s already a level of investment there. Her reaction couldn’t have been policed in that moment because she expressed RAW emotion. Men have to realize that as women if you tell us we are going to a specific place then that is what we expect and 9/10 we are already prepping for said place. Nails done, hair down, new outfit. So to be thrown a curveball on the day of is super inconsiderate.

What is a dunk?

@@cuprunnethover2509 shoes

Eggs zacklee

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No! She has a right to expect a man to fulfill his promise. That is called accountability! He just did not fulfill his promise to her. Give him room to explain the last minute change of plans! Maybe something came up at the last minute and he now didn't have money to take her out? That is understandable! Things happen! If no explanation is given, then he lied to her. That is now a new subject matter and a character flaw! Therefore, now you have to take into account that he told her a lie and was deceitful/deceptive. No ill feelings! You don't have to holler and go ballistic! All that fussing is SO not necessary! This is only the second date. He has showed her who he is! Note taken and proceed accordingly. If you give him another chance that is her decision. I would give him another chance to confirm what type of man he is. If this happens again, he is confirming that he is a man who doesn't keep promises! Now, if he forgot what he promised or an emergency came up) he should be man enough to explain why he fell short. He should be man enough to say: You know I am sorry I did not or was not able to fulfill my promise to you. Something came up unexpectedly. (He doesn't have to go into details) I will make it up to you at a later time. That's what a real man says and does. You can work with that! She now knows that he is a man of his word and she can trust him.

she shouldnt be the reason anyone makes you suffer what she does has nothing to do with you and you thinking its ok for anyone to do so is part of the problem also it wasn't that he didnt take her it was more so he didnt keep his word just like he wants her to be grateful she wants her to keep his word nothing wrong with that his emotional intelligence is off

Yes I agree

She expects more than what he can give her so she just needs to move on.

the edges was lifted thats how i knew it was fake .. No Woman going outside like that with the edges not laid down , Know that fellas

Right! Cause after 5 foot surgeries, 11 screws and plates, I gave away over $500 worth of shoes. My comfort comes first 😤

That part

Well said, ma'am. Stay beautiful

Shut up. It was cheap and she is right. Men will try to get over on you and that's what he tried to do. He didn't keep his word and allowing it once will allow it in the future. She nipped it in the butt from jump. She is holding him to a standard .

@@ericb7776 Shut up. It was cheap and she is right. Men will try to get over on you and that's what he tried to do. He didn't keep his word and allowing it once will allow it in the future. She nipped it in the butt from jump. She is holding him to a standard

@@Divine_AngelWings Modern women expect men to share household duties. Then when a man cooks, he's still wrong. Your standard is entitlement and lying about your body count

Ungrateful…

Right

Exactly! That’s like forcing her to be at your house! Doesn’t work like that!

I agree! Sometimes things happen. Maybe his tire got a hold in it and he had to spend the money on a new tire. That is fine but where is the honesty here? If he told her one thing and do the okie doke, that's not cool. I wouldn't have taken it to the extent that she did. She should have ate the meal. She should Thank him and compliment him on the meal. At the end of the SECOND date, that she wishes him the best in life. Thank him for the opportunity to get to know him. Inform him that you are no longer interested in dating him and that you should see other people. No hard feelings. He is just not the type of man that she is looking for. Have a lovely day!

he did confirm he told her that

@@downbad2874 he confirmed he told her, but didn't confirm he told her when he would take her. I've seen this video 4 times now.

@@sonnyqsoul he confirmed he told her that’s were they were going next lord stop the bs I’ve seen it as well even someone whose stopped and break it down reply by reply so again both are wrong him not keeping his word and communicating and her not taking the time to understand and respectful either cut it off due it being a boundary or expressing to him going forward keeping your word is nonnegotiable and if you can’t communicate changes then I don’t think we mesh well together

Says the woman who doesn’t get asked out AT ALL🤷🏿‍♂️

You mean the same way everyone does this when they go out for drinks and women still get hit with a drug from the bartender? With that level of thinking you basically shouldn't be going out with a Man at ALL let alone eating/drinking food prepared by one at an establishment

he couldve told her he changed his mind and this wouldnt have happened

@@downbad2874 maybe he was trying to surprise her with a good thoughtful gesture. I don’t see the problem🤷🏿‍♂️

@@downbad2874 Regardless of whether he said "we are going out" but then decides to cook the hefa should've been grateful🙄🤦🏽 how did she not know he could've been testing her to see her reaction to him cooking, like either way she was wrong acting like she wasn't getting a FREE meal

You would have left your own house? Lol

@@AriMayweather lol right … if we are going by the acting

Thank you! I would’ve appreciated the home cooked meal without the disrespect and I would’ve let him know that he needs to communicate when plans change. Takes the sting out of possible disappointment and doesn’t make him look like “say one thing, do another “.

Could be mad dog 20/20 by the looks of it🤣😂😆

Girl wym he will never see you in jeans?😂

I peeped that...I was weak😂😂😂

Furthermore… her attire is not what it should be if one is expecting a restaurant dinner date… maybe Applebee’s

and he a lier