The other side is, they try to "humble" and break down the "woman with boundaries" rather than try to reach her level!

I received most of this from a man, then found out he wasn’t single. Had a wife and children. Tried to convince me that he wanted to build a legacy and that if he could have two of the best women, things would be amazing. I had to step away from him. As much as I enjoyed him and the things he did for me, I couldn’t build the heart to bring life long pain to his wife and family. I didn’t care that he claimed she was ok with it, i walked away. 5years of her loyalty and he wanted to give me the world after 3 months of dating. Smh 😢

It's sad that many marry knowing they STILL WANT TO PLAY. That should be a CHARGEABLE OFFENCE

NO ONE does these small things anymore. Sad facts... ....and IF they do, it's not appreciated.

6.A good home cooked meal!!⚡💫

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All these experts on relationships! I hope all of y'all have never been divorced or better be married 20yr plus, trying to tell everyone how to be in relationships!

Let em have pookie or rayray or whoever they destroy they lives I live on with mine but I'm not coming back to save no baby mama either them kids not mine tf.

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He ain't lying

This goes both ways..I need that intel as well 👌🏾

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If you’re away for 1-3 months, the relationship is fine. HOWEVER… if you’re away from your spouse for 1-2 years… I’m sorry but I may have to agree with him. People have needs and there’s temptation everywhere. I met someone who willingly has been away from her husband for 2 yrs. And said if she can’t find a job where she is, she will come back… So she’s willing to leave her husband alone for more than 2 yrs?! That’s a red flag. I would never do that to my spouse. Why put myself in a position to be away from them… I know Simeon else who was in a long distance relationship and he married his wife. Now they are yet again in a long distance relationship bc she wanted to go back to school for another 1-2 yrs. The times he’s spoken to me about his wife haven’t been very nice. Almost like he’s fed up with her or just not very into her. He also somewhat lightly flirts with people. Or seems a little too comfortable with others conversation wise. A girl wrote her number in a pocket notebook that I had thinking it was his. When I saw it he asked me for it and saved it on his phone. Y’all need to realize that you cannot be away from your spouse for long. Because we meet new people every day and all it takes is for one for him/her to click with and it’s game over

Facts.

YOU ARE SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO CORRECT!!!!!!!!!!!!! 👀🤣

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Real Talk ❤ 100

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Sometimes it’s not just money or materialistic things they can’t afford..

Weak men like this are the reason our society is failing. Buddy weak asf

DATS A DAMMM LIE LOLLL

Wow, this is the first time i completely disagree with this message by him. He normally be speaking knowledge, but not today lol. I'm surprised he thinks this way. Its a little contradicting to his other messages. 😮

These conversations are so exhausting. These negros interact with all of ...3 black girls and all of a sudden the entire black woman race didn't want you. Just say that you wanted to be with a snow bunny just like your homie from the very beginning and leave black women out of it.

I dated a single father like this. His daughter was always pregnant and trying to move me out the way. I said something about it, then he dumped me.

It doesn't get any better the 2nd time around. RUNNNN 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️💨💨

Your sweatshirt 😮

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Dear God, Hi it's me again can you please send me another man like his description please. In your time God, I am waiting.

This probably is one of most epic episode of your podcast life. After being married for 18 years you guys hit some amazing points. ❤❤❤❤❤

Ninja, how tf am I supposed to give credence to what you’re saying if you can’t even articulate yourself?….

True Trill. She’s holding her relationship with her husband back as well as her son. Sad that she doesn’t get it.

This God Complex a lot of men have is the issue.Women are whole people and there is only so much influence a man can have over a grown woman. Of course environment matters, an anxious woman is going to behave differently than a calm woman at peace, but they are who they are and like and want what they want. Women are reflective but also expect men to be able to reflect them as well so when a woman is going through something, trying to by completely at peace often comes off as you being disinterested or dismissive.. so be careful with the stoicism.

Trill speaks truth.

These lazy men sit in front of cameras and spew rubbish. A cheater is a cheater weather you dating next door. Everything isn't about cheating.

ofcourse he’s gonna be loyal if you provide him everything 🤪

I think it depends on the seriousness of the relationship. Were yall just s** buddies? Were yall just boyfriend/girlfriend? Were yall engaged? Were yall married? I think that the level of the relationship plays a role in determining whether or not people need and deserve that “last conversation” closure.

SOME MEN LIKE TO RUN GAME... WOMEN TOO...BUT WE'RE DISCUSSING MEN ...THE MAJORITY OF MEN ARE NOT CLEAR IN RELATIONSHIPS. THEY WANT PLAYMATES...NOT DECENT WOMEN! I REFUSE TO LET A MF CONTINUE TO WASTE MY TIME AND ENERGY. MEN SEND OUT MIXED SIGNALS...IF YOU DON'T WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH A WOMAN..JUST OPEN YOUR DAMN MOUTH AND SAY IT! STOP BEATING AROUND THE BUSH! JUST GO AND LEAVE ME BE! WHAT I ONCE GAVE TO YOU...I CAN GIVE IT TO A MAN THAT'S GONNA BE DIRECT... CLEAR...PRECISE ..YOU CAN GO PLAY SOMEWHERE ELSE. ONCE I'M GONE... DON'T TRY TO LOOK FOR ME IN ANOTHER WOMAN... AIN'T NOBODY ELSE LIKE ME... I'M AN ORIGINAL... I'M CUT FROM A WHOLE DIFFERENT CLOTH! SO BE GONE! DON'T COME BACK OR NEED ME FOR ANYTHING! WHATEVER ENERGY AND TIME YOU GIVE ME... YOU'LL GET THAT IN RETURN! REGARDLESS OF HOW A RELATIONSHIP IS GOING ...ITS NO EXCUSE FOR A MAN...OR WOMAN TO LIE! TELL THE TRUTH IN THE BEGINNING! YOU'RE ONLY HURTING YOU...NOT ME! ONCE YOUR WELL RUNS DRY ...YOU CAN'T GET A DROP IF WATER FROM ME! MOVE YOUR THIRSTY BUTT AROUND!😢😮

No. He don't need to be rich but he doesn't need to be lazy broke either....don't be a gold digger. Grow together, build together, support each other & always keep God first!

If men only respect consequences then why is the prison population mostly male?

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No

I one thousand percent LOVE this! 💯 Articulation! Wisdom! 🎯

Yea yea yea nicca still cheat anyway so please with this bs

I agree with mostly everything that he says because he’s full of knowledge but not this one , the men leave home and leave women alone at higher rates … hell they Never even make a home in the first place 😂…don’t value women at higher rates … even though the women was dependent on the men at those times , granddad still stayed in the home with her and paid the bills and prioritized Being the father, these men don’t stay and damn sure ain’t trying to pay all the bills … no matter how independent and how much more money a woman has. She still does not want to do everything by herself…She would rather have a man there helping her with the bills being a father to the kids and being a provider… when men value Home with a woman turning a house into a home pay bills being a father then the divorce rates will go down , not that 50 50 room mate shit

Men with zero standards for themselves. Gross...

Clown

It’s crazy how u know it see it , and still deal with it until!!! U want change, sorry my self respect and peace is more important

Yeah. But do you consider what The Woman Wants? You speak as if we are Property. js Once “purchased,” then what?

No sir why would men want to be challenged by his women and making it seem like men don't know what to do if he doesn't get a older gtfoh man😂

He is so right