Very good video. In my opinion there are two aspects to a successful relationship- 1. Chemistry - This deals with emotional aspects such as do you like the person, are you attracted to them, can you trust them, do you feel comfortable around them. 2. Compatibility - This deals with logical aspects such as are your career goals compatible, are your lifestyles similar, food habits, socioeconomic standing etc. When parents choose a partner they give full importance to compatibility without considering chemistry. When someone chooses a partner himself he often bases his decision on chemistry without considering compatibility. That's why both love and arranged marriages fail. You need both the factors to be considered properly for a successful marriage.

Only a strong women will look for a strong man. So first of all make urself a strong, stable and confident person then look for a match. 😊

Whenever I watch your videos, I feel like mother is passing her wisdom to daughter. Thank you

1. Self-sufficient 2. Health Conscious - Mentally , Physically 3. Hobbies 4 . Faith, confidence, positive For both men and women Be flexible and understanding in relationship. Give commitment only when you r ready.

Want a right person? Be the right one first.

Every points are really practical and sensible, which completely relate to my thought process. Thanks madam, you are such a great advisor. 🙂✌

1. whether a person is self sufficient 2. is he health conscious 3. what is he doing for free time ( social life ) 4. faith in himself - confidence , self dependent

Dr Hansaji..... We love you and we are extremely fortunate to have you amongst us. Giving us advices which our elders did give us, however the affectionate tone of yours melts our heart. And makes us rethink of our egotistic decisions. You are a gem. Jazakallahu khairah Hansaji

A conversations from two elegant ladies is thoughtful. It opens the perspective of looking at life in profound way. Appreciate your effort in making this video.

Marriage Is a life time project of commitment and responsibility...love is actually a reaction when you grow bond to one other...

1.self sufficient (earning financial stable or caple 2 health concious 3pasinate about life 4confidenfence,faithfullness, practicle Adjustment,mutual bonding ,commitment,focusing on what is good for u not wht u like Think intellectually. at discpline .it is not whole its just a glimbse just see whole video☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️

Get to know each other before you get married is most important and being honest with yourself and each other because sometimes you don't know the person until you live with them

Life will have its ups and downs, so I make sure that I will find a life partner who makes me laugh.

For all women. Love yourself. Respect yourself. Be strong. Be a better person each day. Work hard. Make your parents proud of you. Make yourself proud of the person you are becoming. You will attract the right person for you who is strong and amazing as you are and both of you will work equally to make the relationship work. Until then, work on yourself and enjoy each moment of your life... You don't know how long you'll live so be grateful for the life that you have. Prioritise your mental and physical health..do something that you love and just be happy from within.🙏 And do not rush to find the one for you. You will get into a marriage that's wrong for you and lose your peace of mind for life.

Really loved the way she explained the things, hope everyone gets right person for a beautiful life 👍

You are amazing, Mam! Lots of respect and love! Thank you for sharing your insight in such an amazing way! 🙏🏻

I'm so happy for watch this channel because I want to increase my spoken English skills and there is a channel Will be helpful my English skills. Thanks for helping our career....

God bless you Grandma, you're great person

Lv u Mam the way u explain everythg in such a sweet way, u have a very calm personality, stay blessed. Regards. Miss.Shafaq Malik

Amazing... Really all people must listen to this before they decide to partner up

A girl can also be self sufficient rather then depending on her husband

Amazing,life is beautifull just for those who know how to live!

I m blessed because my parents have all these qualities...and i raised by them ❤

Thank you ma'am, it's very wonderful session.

Loved this, got this vid at the perfect time🙏

Dr. Hanshaji, Really 100% True

Very good opinion mam I recognise your all points I change myself to get all this points.

enjoying learning about Indian culture 🤎

Both must be all-around education for development ..Thank you

Very true. I have seen examples of people who are completely devoted or they show they are religious and have bad thinking and darkness in them which they try to hide by showing how religious they are. I think mind and heart should be pure as well as one’s actions.

That felt like listening to my mom.

Yes, adjustments are necessary . Both hv to understand each other and also try to respect each other's family too . Expecting only from girl is unfair .

Thankyou so much maam. It was so inspiring and learnt several realities in the world

You're a wise woman, filled with wisdom.

1. Self sufficient/earning - both parties 2. Health conscious- both parties 3. What do they do in their free time? Workaholic? Hobbies? Family time? Volunteers? 4. Faith in a higher power? In themselves? Not specifically religious. These are the 4 important things so far.

really beautiful piece of advice

Wonderful Advice!

Marriage needs good team work to be successful. So the team has to be picked carefully with clear awareness of roles and responsibilities along with regular maintenance of the team through healthy communication between the partners.

Madam u forgot to say first main point...he/she must respect each other...Trust nd respect plays a vital role before everything....Since I saw my family where they do all this practically but inside in heart they don't respect nd love each other😕

Luv this!! Thank you.❤🙏🙏

...it seems like more than 50% people on planet doesn't fit to eligibility criteria for marriage itself 😂

Thank u mam a priceless advice still my thoughts are cleared what i want in my life a big big thanks mam God bless you. Such a model woman u r for all women.

Mam You exactly explained what I expect...... I thout that I'm Overthinking about marriage but I was right☺☺☺

This is very helpful now as I search for a life partner. Thank you!

I am following these advices with great believe ...i hope i can find my right man

Self sufficient, Health conscious, Good hobbies in free time, Confidence: A man would be really lucky if a woman is looking at only these 4 things. But unfortunately thats not the case in reality.

Chose what n whom u love..rest all can be achieved with love

Wow.... Her mindset is wonderful

This! Thanks you Dr. Hansaji ❤️

Best advice ever

Your all words becomes the pillar of my strength... Thank you for showing a right path to all of us...

Awesome madam........100% practical words u said wic really make life happier.........i found this channel more informative towards life in positive way...thank u so much.....................

👏🏻🌹💚Very beautiful speech💙🌹👍

Thank you so much

Beautifully described.

She just gave a female oriented answer, same applicable for men to choose, and they should make sure they are not bringing some toxic women (Mudevi) in to your home....

I'm greatful to find this channel..

Well said Madam 😊

best advice ever ☺️☺️☺️

Thank you ❤🙏mem for your valuable suggestions

Thankyou so much mam, it was really needed.

Wonderful advice Hansa Madam ,🙏

Useful...msg tq

Nice stuff

Life is wonderful ❤️

All the points mentioned in this video are extremely good and this is exactly how people should choose their partners. And this is exactly how I think. Otherwise, if the person has none of these qualities - then it is better not to be in such a bad relationship...after all it's your life - move on... And First of all be a good, confident, self-sufficient, independent, intelligent person yourself - only then marry, else before that I think it's better not to marry. And I am interested in both travelling and yoga......

Wonderful Speech 🙏🏻❤️💐

Thank you very very very much ma'am 🙏

Great points to consider when dating and considering someone for your soulmate.

Superb and interesting mam

I love the video..

Very good video. If KZfaq and phones are influenced during 2010-11 . I would have choose better one. Now there is no option.. Have to move on. Any how, it's useful for young generation. ☺ 🙏

so nice mam tq so much

Mam good knowledge thanks ,

Lovely .how true

Dr handsaji can you make a video of if marriage is essential or necessary?

Relationship are business according to this video Marriage is match between imperfect peoples to make their lives perfect by helping each others Relationship should be like friendship it should not be materialistic

tkank you for sharing wonderfull video .is possible make a video about hypo thyroid problem and foods that should be avoided

Thank you 👍🏻👏👏

Super mam u r absolutely rit

Thanks Madam

Gratitude 🙏🏻🌿😇🌺

Thanks Hansaji!!!

Amazing words,🙏🙏🙏 watching from Kenya🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

Last lines were very nice . Dampati.... two heads ...

According to You.. I’ve found my Soulmate. Even though he is 19 years Older than I am, he is the one. I Do Love him and He Loves Me. Thank You. 🤗❤️🙏🏽

amazing

Thank you

Very inspiring

now i understand y it's better to be a recluse....no contact with ppl,no commitments,no adjustments and hence no scope of exploitation.

Amma tell us how to convince our parents for love marriage when they oppose it for reason of inter caste

Yes just live in reality, practically

Well said maam

Thank you doctor hansaji for telling and explain to me how to find right person after i finish hear you explain how to find right person and i really understand that you explain to me inside KZfaq video thank you hansaji

Very nice

Thanks for such a great video.

Thanks 🙏ma Good advice for all partners thanks 😍 once again 🙏🙏Maji

Over all @9.15 made some sense!

Thank you ❤️

Thank you so much 🥰 mam