Hey man one of the saddest things that just happened is i watched my gf go from a high quality woman to a low quality party lifestyle girl, all her friends party every weekend and drink, do weed and tons of stuff. i didnt want my girl going to those kinds of places because well im against that kinda stuff, the first party i let her go to to show i trusted her she promised not to drink or anything (she isnt even old enough to drink) but she broke my trust, ended up super drunk with puke all over herself 😂 all to fit in with those shitty friends and she wont even listen to me or her parents. last week we got into a fight and she broke up with me after.. every day she has been starting off sending me how much she loves me and stuff and wants to "give me a second chance" and then goes on about all the things i need to improve about myself and chance. when i tell her what she needs to change she goes all mad and blocks me just to start again the next day with "i miss you, i love you" today i found her on tinder too which she isnt old enough for either. she tells me i need to grow up and mature when im a year older and she is the one acting like a child. (im 18) i hate her friends for what they have done to her but honestly what can i say. her loss tbh. shes gonna find out sooner than later that i was a great guy compared to the guys she gonna attract now who will probably just use her for her body. the last thing she said was that we could be friends. then i knew i was done with her and blocked her tbh. she is so obsessed with me and yet cant sacrifice her shitty partying with her shitty friends for me😂 BUT she doesnt want to lose me either 😂😂 loved her so much so this is really breaking my heart honestly but i know im worth more than what she is degrading to now by ruining her own life

Thanks Coach 👍

If i had the $ i 💯 would

I enjoy your stories or rather the analogies you use to explain the logic..

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Well said 🤔💯🏆 I was the dumpee with my ex-gf of 5 years. Unfortunately, immature women get bored, play mental gymnastics and have no clue what they want. The masculine energy must be a compassionate leader to guide the feminine. And out of curiosity and familiarity, they always come back. Especially if you're doing greater in life for yourself (Fitness, Finance, Family). Consequently, the ball is in your court as a dumpee. It is a choice to go back and work things out, and see if the work you put into yourself planned out. Or if there are other parts of your inner wounds that must be fixed. The best teachers in life will be your hardest relationships. Focus on YOUrself 💪🤍☕

I really really hope your right.

@@nickelgym5239 sme thing I saying

​@@DSILVAjeiy I'm exactly in this position at the moment. She says I should move on after a year. Wishes me happy birthday "to the best human I have ever known" Then she tells misses our friendship and wants to catch up, just to tell me that she has been thinking about me all day on the day after. Told her I need to think and see how I feel about the catching up thing. Not sure what to think about it all tbh Edit 6 Months after: I was contacted again, but I rejected the offer to talk and cut off all ties, because everything has been said already. I feel much better now and I am creating something new for myself.

Yes, my ex was dumb enough to relocate me at my parents house but it backfired cause I started no contact and I was super clear that I don't give 2 f's if he wants to stay friends or wants to be in contact so he can take comfort in me AFTER dumping me 😂😂 he's REALLY starting to feel it now after 40 days no contact

* Learned * and I agree.

Yass! It’s been good to ruminate my emotions with God and leaning on Him for strength. I now feel like God’s Princess vs. someone else’s validation. Been less than 2 weeks and he reached out today. It was satisfying but I’m more hung up on God than him.

In my experience, i found quickly the replacement 😅and we’re now happily in a relationship 🎉

They wont and i can NEVER be replaced..He will look for me in other women but wont find.

Going through the same thing right now. Put your faith in God. Trying to do the same

Never give up..pray hope and don't worry...Put your hope and faith in God..Sometimes you needed this to get closer to God!They always regret it trust me ....

It will. I’ve been there. It may take years but they do realize. I had an ex, happily remarried, reach out to me fifteen years later to apologize for treating me poorly and it would always be a regret. He made it clear he loved his wife but wanted me to know he was the one who messed it up and he hoped I was living a wonderful life because I deserved it. Take time for yourself and lean on God.

Same here sister 😢

Damn! I'm in so much pain.I can't believe he treated me like this. Guys pray for me

This is the thing. After you get over the initial shock of a breakup you start seeing more clearly their flaws. By time they reach out and they always do, it's far too late.

Did you delete his number. Or kept viewing his status and stories?

That's the idea of no contact..excuse my language F them.

Delete everything always.

Hey man. My girlfriend who I was friends with before dumped me out of the blue (in my head at least) over text. She said things like 'i just need to be by myself" etc, 2 weeks later she's on tinder. Man it hurts, can't wait to be over this shit

​@@YouOnlyGetToDoItOnceyou deserve better brother Why waste your thoughts on her. Consider yourself saved from the real chaos and heartbreak. Instead you'll find someone who will deserve every bit of your love and you'll be happy once again.

​@@YouOnlyGetToDoItOncepeople are not allowed to break up over text

Just block and ignore forever, you will find better woman

Did she come back?

I am going through that right now I will focus on myself and the pain will slowly disappear

Then why are you guys here 😅😂😂😂😂

Why you getting active my boy @@leratoseretsi5603

@@leratoseretsi5603shut your damn mouth

Proud of you my man.

​@@leratoseretsi5603 why are YOU here?

Be strong fellow dumpees😂😂😂

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I needed this, thanks

Amen 🙏

Thank you, it's been 18 days since my break up. I'm hurting alot. And needed to read this

Me too and he got married so I'm hurt but life must go on

how are u feeling now

I went no contact and put a restraining order on my ex a hard lesson she gotta learn

If you contacted her, then you did not stick to the No Contact rule. Move on.

How are you now?

Never take them back

Update

Update please?

Update????

Update!?!??!?!

What’s book ?

@@Meyouletsgo Letting Go : The Pathway of Surrender by David R. Hawkins

This was so on point! I know the feeling.

@jayray5122 it sure did!!

To be honest messaging DR OLOMOOBA was the best choice I have ever made…Thanks for bringing back my ex lover

Stop spamming people’s messages!

I totally understand you, because I felt that way at the beginning of my no contact. This terrible feeling will fade with the passing of days. I'm currently on day 41 and feeling stronger each day. Let your ex miss you. DO NOT break no contact, please!! You deserve to be missed and valued. Give this person the gift of your absence. He is not above you, he's not a king. Just a regular person. I'm sure he has faults, right? Breathe, meditate and trust the process . Everything is going to be all right!

@@almaalexandragarcia2704 The hardest part is when he reaches out to ask me questions he has answers to. I will politely answer and stop contact again. It hurts every time.

Im right there with you! Just sent him a message saying he will never be able to come back and he’s terrible for thinking he has control over me. I’m done! I’m worth more! And so are u

@@gabriellehardy4808 Go girl! power to you!💕

7 months keep up the good work! its been 3 months for me. I want to get him out of my mind and heart ❤ just so hard because I had genuine feelings for him real love and care and he has treated me like absoulte trash 🗑

Trust and believe that if they hurt you they will pay one way or another!

This is why we don't get into a relationship with a woman or dude that has friends from the opposite gender

Update😅

Same my 2 days NC huhu

Brother it does get better. Believe me. I'm 6 weeks into No Contact after spending the first 2 weeks in hell. Yeah I was panicked. I sent a few texts and called a few times those 2 weeks. Not one reply. Not once did she answer the phone but I got through it and you will too. Go no contact on her. It'll help you so much. It's hard at first but you can do it. Your self worth is more important than chasing and begging someone who doesn't want to be with you. At least not right now. You'll have time to work on yourself and heal from that pain. You'll come out a better person and one day she'll regret what she did.

Hey guys! Whatever you enjoyed doing before you met them, go do that. Do it a lot. Go out and meet friends (not mutual friends). Spend time on yourself. Spend some time by yourself. Remember that if everyone left, all you have is yourself. Learn to love yourself. Also, dont talk about them. They have gone now, so you shouldn't spend time talking about them. Preserve your energy. IF you do have to talk about them for any reason, be sure it is POSITIVE. Never say negative things about them, as it will get back to them and be twisted out of all perspective. Gents, you are kings. Much love.

How are you doing now

@@michaelcruz204 how are you doing now