Your Ex Falls Back In Love When You Reveal THIS

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ALERT FROM CLAY ANDREWS! Your Ex Falls Back In Love When You Reveal THIS!
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Wanting desperately to get back together right away often causes people to be blind to the circumstances of the situation. Oftentimes, the harder you try, the more put off your ex might get.
In this video, Clay Andrews will help you realize what you need to do to get your ex-boyfriend or ex girlfriend back or answer how to make your ex fall in love with you again. He explains how you can leverage VULNERABILITY in a good, non-scammy way & how bettering your relationship with ex can help you get your ex back.
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@jennyhaytch Жыл бұрын

These videos are great for showing me that we didn't have a relationship like that; open, communicative, trusting, and that I have much more to offer than what he was willing or capable of giving back emotionally in return. xx thank you

@ClayAndrews Жыл бұрын

Hi Jen, I appreciate your kind words. :-)

@kathyperrotta8675 5 ай бұрын

There's no one like Clay Andrews on KZfaq. He's the best guide when you need relationship advice. Thank you!

@BahaaSoliman Жыл бұрын

This is who I am, this is how I feel, this is what I like

@PrincessAdobo 3 жыл бұрын

.....Wow! This spoke more beyond words. I’ve been having trouble on how to communicate my vulnerability and this really helped to bring things into perspective. Thank you Clay.

@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome. :-) Glad that this video resonates with you.

@thommymatty9684 3 жыл бұрын

Getting back with your ex for convenience? Nope. She has to earn that. I'm not a back up plan.

@SAMEntalhealth 3 жыл бұрын

Lmaoo look how girlie we sound on the other end "she gotta EARN ma trust mhhhhmm" lol

@guillaumecamara6058 2 жыл бұрын

It is exactly how I feel now

@preciousnxumalo4752 4 ай бұрын

Exactly Clay. The thing of power in relation to love and caring is a recipe for a turbulent relationship

@SeaBee1223 3 жыл бұрын

I like that you make your videos short but straight to the point but easy to understand. Keep it up!

@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you. :-)

@vickiemcmanaman8221 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Clay your Advice is so rewarding 🙏🙏🙏💞

@thesaraalavi 3 жыл бұрын

Genius! Yes 💯 a relief to see mature and excellent advice to follow - no games, pure genuine vulnerability is answer. Agreed!

@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the compliment, Sara. :-)

@hails.h9000 2 жыл бұрын

I learn so much from these videos thank you 🇦🇺💋

@krakent8791 3 жыл бұрын

Yes she got back after I revealed my latest paycheck to her!

@audrey242424 3 жыл бұрын

😄🤣😂

@LaRueDuConsommateur 3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@AStark-dn6yh 2 жыл бұрын

😂

@faultless2837 2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@bkazii7834 2 жыл бұрын

Lmaooooo

@tess7798 2 жыл бұрын

You’re the real deal. Thank you.

@ks_swissmiss 3 жыл бұрын

Its about giving Love not receiving...that is because there is not enough self love...need to work on yourself first.

@ilyasse1250 3 жыл бұрын

Perfect timing

@ben-travis1653 3 жыл бұрын

Hi @clayAndrews could you possibly speak on the “maybe in the future, see what happens” and the chances of them just softening the blow or keeping the door open or you being a back up plan would be greatly appreciated for a better understanding

@mikealouidor480 3 жыл бұрын

I love watching videos if you don't have any motivation and very understandable

@robertmorgan2642 Жыл бұрын

Clay this advice about showing vulnerability is perfect as I had no idea how to do this. I will be meeting up with my ex again soon and have written these sentences on my phone to prompt me to say them. Wish me luck.

@ClayAndrews Жыл бұрын

All the best, @robertmorgan2642 :-)

@DL-vibes 3 жыл бұрын

This is so on time. I feel like whether with an ex or new person this will help me reflect on my own actions and reasons why. Thanks ....again.

@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын

You're welcome, DL. Thanks for watching our videos always. We truly appreciate that.

@DL-vibes 3 жыл бұрын

@@ClayAndrews I don’t have many guy friends so in a strange way I feel like your videos are speaking to me as if you were a guy friend and I feel like I can take away so much to offer a new beginning to whoever is out there for me.

@buhlenkomo527 3 жыл бұрын

I love this channel it’s so solution oriented

@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much and we appreciate that you took the time to watch our videos. :-)

@acemany1126 3 жыл бұрын

Why is it so oriented? Is it because he's looks Oriental? 🤣

@farhiaaddedadeed1836 3 жыл бұрын

I wish ppl were very nice am talking about 1985 good I remember ppl use help one another be abundance’s with your like if you visit someone house you show love this why a lot of ppl have shortage of love because they never spread love they want only to be loved

@endrehorvath9602 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Clay, thanks for the video, to bad it came a week to late :(. My ex reached out last week asking me for how long will i have a space for her in my heart and saying that she is tired of all the pain, I was comforting to her and tried to help her. Now I'm afraid i was to much of a "cool friend" rather than being vulnerable to. I just hope i didn't push her away.

@shirleymorales3161 Жыл бұрын

Be her hero and tell her !

@Giants143 3 жыл бұрын

Couldn’t agree more

@frankokline 2 жыл бұрын

Thanx man good stuffs

@ClayAndrews 2 жыл бұрын

Glad to help.

@gemmahoang1162 3 жыл бұрын

I really hope u can do live chat on KZfaq too .

@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын

HI Gemma, We do live streams inside our private member's only community. :-)

@clairelittle9182 Жыл бұрын

Tried this, and I was told to move on 🥺

@rosie3749 3 жыл бұрын

I needed something like this!!!!

@ericalen920 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Clay, I have registered for personal planning & coaching, do you know how many days it takes for your team to process everything?

@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Erica, It's not my team that does the personal plan. I do it personally. Do give me enough time to process the information that you have provided so I can come up with the most appropriate plan for you. :-)

@gemmahoang1162 3 жыл бұрын

Best timing and my ex/friend are doing well , we do odd we miss this together and miss being together sometimes and I can br very open with him but we are staying close friends, cause that is where we are for now . N we both need some time to be single.

@Friponnepolissonne 3 жыл бұрын

It distances him when I do that. We are in contact daily, by text mostly. He had bursts of missing me and called me a lot and now it is less frequent. He used to tell me I love you after phone calls in the first months of the break up, now he does it on and off. I tried being positively genuine, and it seems to not make him closer but rather less warm...but he opens up more on his feelings toward things, never talks about his feelings about me, but tells me lots of hugs and ''I hug you''.

@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын

Getting back together is a process that you and your ex will go through. The dynamics can change as the more the person reached the level of acceptance and healing. You can take this opportunity as a window to start from a clean slate instead of picking things up from where it left off.

@babaraelik3934 3 жыл бұрын

He helped me get my ex back a few days ago under 24 hours without any delay❤❤❤❤❤❤💕💕💕💕❤

@babaraelik3934 3 жыл бұрын

Whtzpp him*******

@babaraelik3934 3 жыл бұрын

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@Friponnepolissonne 3 жыл бұрын

@@babaraelik3934 You are just annoying people and it is so blatant that it is fake

@verbalkint3447 2 жыл бұрын

The best ex video ove seen so far

@ClayAndrews 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the compliment. :-)

@welovee1680 3 жыл бұрын

Clay, how long was it before you and your now wife started saying you loved each other again?

@earthsecho4770 2 жыл бұрын

So is getting drunk by mistake , probably out of anxiety, negative vulnerability? Hadn't seen her in a few years and I passed out in the bar and she had to drive me home...

@AStark-dn6yh 2 жыл бұрын

I'm failing this in all sorts 😕 I can't get past the test drive stage.

@BrayeEvans 3 жыл бұрын

My ex and I are talking and sometimes hanging out. Things I do differently than how I would before she calls me weird. Is that a good thing ? Lol

@KAOSDEGHIS 3 жыл бұрын

I would just love to be hanging out with mine. I think that’s good to be called weird it means your different especially if you were never called weird

@jishnusen1470 Жыл бұрын

How did that happen? I mean how did you treat her and talk with her after the breakup?

@ShayCat 2 жыл бұрын

I wish I can have a script of your videos so I can use some of these words with my ex. I can't remember everything and suck at words :(

@ClayAndrews 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Shay, remember that scripts is something that we discourage for people to use. Remember that your personal, character and sincerity will show on the message that you send out to people. So instead of focusing on the scripts and templates, it is more essential to develop the needed skills so we can communicate things naturally with our ex. We can se scripts and template to develop an idea though. :-)

@sammonsterenergy1982 3 жыл бұрын

I'm still I early stages of getting my ex back..had a great chat last week and exchanged 3 texts since, she responds to my 1st text and then leaves me on read on the 2nd time....I know my ex said she wanted me to open up more...however when shes not communicating much its tough to be vulnerable to her...any suggestions?

@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын

The best skill that you can apply here is awareness and being in the present moment. Be okay if the conversation is quite short for now, what is important is the consistency and quality of the interaction.

@korbinshmidt5231 Жыл бұрын

My ex doesnt want to get back together. I text her everyday. We have a child together so it's hard to do no contact. Idk what to do. She left me saying we didnt go on many dates. Yet everytime I tried it was turned down. She says she wants to have fun. She claims to still love me but not in love. She says we can talk about anything but she never opened up to me about anything ever. Idk what to do. I want her back but it seams shes not willing or want to at all try nd work on things

@huaweip8603 Жыл бұрын

Hey Brad I really need your help.....after no contact me and my ex talks again for a week or two and she let me help with her child and she has some cold and hot moments....we been on coffee today and after I take her home she hug me and then I kiss her twice but fast....she tells me :Dont start it again,isnt it better for us to stay friends? What should I do now?

@ryanbeemer6263 3 жыл бұрын

Hello Clay, How's come my ex fiancee is always reaching out and contacting me? She's the one that left me, cheated, lied n etc... Told ppl she hated me, don't love or want me, never coming back, claims she don't love me, want me, don't want to fix us n etc... Then why is she always reaching out and contacting me if that's true? Why bother contacting me, when you know where I stand and feel about things between us? I told her if that stuff is true, don't bother contacting me, or don't contact me if don't love me and want us to work and be together. So if you don't then don't contact me. She'll get mad block n unblock, again and again. Or make new accounts and contact me. Why? We'll stop talking for a couple days to a week to 2 weeks, this past one was 2 n half without. Then she contacts me again. Why? Explain this one, would love to see a video explaining this.... I feel she's lyings to me about her feelings towards me n us together.

@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын

HI Ryan, I may not be able to exactly tell the reason of your ex, but the best way to know her own intention and reasons is to talk to her. Communicating will help both of you understand where you are coming from at the present moment. After all, the only person that holds the truth is only your ex. :-)

@ryanbeemer6263 3 жыл бұрын

@@ClayAndrews if you could, they best way you can, by things who've worked with to help would help. I've tried, but it's like she avoids it n answering. I have did research, about it, pretty much all says she's confused, confused about us, the break-up, her love and feelings for me, not being true to herself, contacts me because she really doesn't want to lose me, even though she left me. There was more... But would love to know more and better explained to me best that can be. But I enjoy your videos and learning, trying to apply them and work them not only on and for her, but to myself also. It's hard, cause it's like she don't want to talk about it, or even try to fix. Or she scared to. But yet she's always reaching out.

@user-ce8fh4kx5t 7 ай бұрын

Isn't putting them on the the pedestal

@stevenrigione2051 3 жыл бұрын

How does one implement theses strategies when your ex ghosted you?

@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Steven, we have to be realistic that some of the strategies may not be implemented the soonest due to the reality of the situation. If your ex had ghosted you, you have to reflect on the core reason why the breakup happened. Is your personal values still aligned with the person who ghosted you?

@jeanlee584 3 жыл бұрын

Can you also make a video about an ex who came back and i gave her another chance then she left me for someone else again. She monkey branched for the 2nd time. Something like that.

@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын

Try doing the 5x5 list to assess the person that you are trying to get back with. In that way,. you would be able to assess if your personal values still match with his character and the quality of relationship that you both have.

@clairefoxall2313 3 жыл бұрын

What about when they start texting you ever day ...morning etc .. I said are you being fair to us both texting everyday ...he said no your right ☹️. Not sure if I did right thing as now we have no communication. (Those are the wording he used when he said he couldn't give me what I wanted last year ..not being fair to each other!!.) I do say I liked hearing from him before though ☺️.

@clairefoxall2313 3 жыл бұрын

@Ice Queen don't you think it's best to both be truthful ! after breaking up then texting for months on end to what avail ??

@SAMEntalhealth 3 жыл бұрын

He's just obeying you tbh lol

@SAMEntalhealth 3 жыл бұрын

You didn't mess anything up. Feed him when he needs to be fed ;-) lol

@clairefoxall2313 3 жыл бұрын

Things are bk to the same as before...he still texting everyday asking how I am etc.

@vengmawngtlangval1493 3 жыл бұрын

👍

@hoodjaz4679 3 жыл бұрын

Hey clay, my ex replaced me with another ex girlfriend of his and am scared we might never get back together.

@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын

Just to clarify, your ex went back to his ex girlfriend, is that correct?

@MilesLambos-ef1nt 2 жыл бұрын

You were a rebound

@badumtss5037 Жыл бұрын

if u were with him for longer maybe he just found the easiest person he could get

@jeezustheone 3 жыл бұрын

What if I broke trust?

@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын

it sounds like we have to work on rebuilding that trust and confidence first.

@jeezustheone 3 жыл бұрын

@@ClayAndrews what if the person continues to beat the subject and makes is hard?

@rosie3749 3 жыл бұрын

I've tried to show my vulnerability but nothing zero response or any action. I'm at loss

@ClayAndrews 3 жыл бұрын

It's okay, Saba. Not all the time people responds to vulnerability instantly. More often, they also need some time to process the information.

@rosie3749 3 жыл бұрын

@@ClayAndrews I was thinking about writing him a letter of what I needed to do to save us.i initiated the BU. I believe we comeback each other though.

@gyastly2737 3 жыл бұрын

@@rosie3749 u initiated ? you fucked up. you ain’t getting him back Lol.