Same...given i did fuck up on my part by having too much to drink and saying things to her that i have yet to address..she refuses to forgive me and give me a chance..asked for NC of 6 months and then we will see.

@melvinlowe9943 bro this was our 2nd breakup the 1st was a year ago after dating for 9 months she thought we should be in love and didn't think we'd get there. Then over 2 months later she came around and we spent 7 amazing months together where I was at every event all summer and fall from graduations graduation parties birthday parties concerts everything I didn't miss one thing then in early November a couples trip to Nashville for 3 nights I felt crappy one night and missed one lame walking ghost tour then the last night got aggravated with her snoring after I was on 3 straight nights of 4 hours sleep and 2 days after we get back she ends it again saying we're not compatible bc she loves to travel and I get nervous to fly and s bunch of other tiny reasons

bro I was literally in the same boat, mine too left cause to them they don't feel am their soulmate, so they left to go find that magical person, if its anything know that you were good not them, mine literally said the same thing, you are an amazing person, you didn't do anything wrong, I just don't feel like you my soulmate and its not fair for them to be in the relationship and they left, no arguments or toxicity. ppl like that are chasing a spark, what they don't know its that spark is not love but trauma and their anxiety

@letstalkmovies483 yep and I seriously just want to tell her she's looking for something that isn't sustainable there is no one "special person " out there. The spark and passion can fade can be rekindled but there's ebbs and flows it's the compassion and caring that sustain a long term healthy relationship not excitement and sparks.

He never said any compliment. I didn't/don't expect anything at this moment, just peace.

I'm glad to hear that you're becoming the better version of you.