Your Silence Is Killing Him Inside... Here's Why

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So we're going to talk about why silence kills men inside. Why your silence and your air of uncertainty kills them inside and gives you control over them, not negative control in terms of manipulation but there is a certain sense of anxiety like when you're waiting for something to be revealed when you don't know the outcome that suspends you and puts you in a space of suspended anxiety where you don't know what's about to happen. In that state people become more compliant, people listen to more of what you say. In general, you have more control over them right but the point of this is not to give you control over them but to allow you to see a man's real nature.
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@tvseries69 10 ай бұрын

Silence only work with people that still care and have feelings for you.

@jackiejeanphilippe6052 9 ай бұрын

That’s is so true If that person don’t care hmmm

@basicinfo2022 9 ай бұрын

but it also increases your value in their eyes which makes you more attractive and desirable when you protect and value yourself highly.

@rahmasamir909 7 ай бұрын

If u have to play those games just leave

@choney324 6 ай бұрын

@@rahmasamir909 Hi @rahmasamir909: ...it might depend on how important that relationship is, and what you're trying to achieve. Relationships are like shaping a unique style, and take a lot of personal investment. Many times, we may not believe we have the time or tools to invest, but it might be the opposite. You could have the emotional "key" to unlock their door. Consider: 1. What is the value of that relationship to you...? 2. How long do you want it to last, or to what level do you want to take it...? 3. Who's involved besides the two of you...for example, teacher - student, platonic vs romantic friendship, mother - son...? 4...Why would you need to risk investing in it? For example, as a Facilitor/Counselor in the community, and especially working with certain types of youth, it is imperative for me to take those risks every day. It creates a bond of trust like no other. Youth share things with me that they don't tell their parents. Consequently, I'm able to develop a self-centered, codependent, hurting person into a more compassionate, considerate, more self- esteemed individual...all because I consistently invested in them. If I care about someone and recognize their state, I also see "beyond the veil," of deception, and can dive beyond the ego. Yes, there are those that I might not indulge with at great lengths at first...but even those youth and their families began to trust me, and get to bear fruit of a caring, trusting individual and family that can listen to someone other than themselves. This type of development is my ultimate goal inside and outside the classroom. As the infamous Field of Dreams movie says, "If you build it, they will come...❤"

@peaceofmindofpeace1650 6 ай бұрын

Exactly....

@FeaturedTalk Жыл бұрын

Block, delete and disapear .. the art of compete silence and detachment a wonderful peace of mind

@EarthQueen-1111 Жыл бұрын

This!!!

@kayt2693 Жыл бұрын

Period sis

@stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax Жыл бұрын

Yup! In that order.

@dialukando8605 Жыл бұрын

Exactly,a huge block

@MaimaTalks Жыл бұрын

Easier said than done sis 🥲

@s.8955 Жыл бұрын

Silence is a powerful scream.

@iwantcrystals Жыл бұрын

THIS!!!!

@creativeideas5721 Жыл бұрын

😂

@vernita0216 Жыл бұрын

Say that.

@lisa-dj3tf Жыл бұрын

Very well put!

@Randallmaultsby Жыл бұрын

Yes it is😂😂 silence kills

@taghazoutmoon5031 Жыл бұрын

This is so draining 😪. I just want stability with someone I'm attracted to. Tired of the anxiety and uncertainty.

@bea_rey__ 11 ай бұрын

If that’s how you’re feeling then they’re not the one. The person for you will make you feel safe, secure and cherished.

@joymelaniecloke6222 11 ай бұрын

@@bea_rey__EXACTLY!!!

@raqueledwards6061 11 ай бұрын

So true!!!

@tesspernin2412 10 ай бұрын

If you don’t wanna play the game, You’ve already lost

@comparecards5688 10 ай бұрын

@@tesspernin2412play hurting must be the new modern day game!

@vernita0216 10 ай бұрын

My silence simply means I'm done. BYE.

@Choukobunbun 9 ай бұрын

Pretty much me right now.. I’m a very anxiously attached person, and even though I try to play the games and shit, I cave into the urge to text. I’ve never been able to do this until now, I realized that I just can’t even care anymore.

@judymomma3946 8 ай бұрын

Silence is gorgeous 😍

@domt4588 4 ай бұрын

Yes!🎉

@goldagray2986 4 ай бұрын

My silence is because I'm tired of not getting what I deserve. I find myself shutting down.

@moniquefacey5760 3 ай бұрын

Me too

@Lucid-1111 2 ай бұрын

😭

@user-gu6vf3je1d 2 ай бұрын

Men know this. Especially if it’s the direct opposite of the way you behave. It’s the fastest way to see if the give a damn.

@roser8911 Жыл бұрын

I’m tired of these men!!!! They want mother!! Not a girlfriend!! It’s all about their ego and games!!

@ashleykathryn9038 Жыл бұрын

That's why you gotta ignore the boys, focus on career until a real man comes along

@roser8911 Жыл бұрын

@@ashleykathryn9038 yup!! I’ll be single for the rest of my life

@rhondagreene1032 Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@roser8911 Жыл бұрын

@@rhondagreene1032 it’s not funny!!

@tarawalsh-arpaia3928 Жыл бұрын

Nicely said. I always remind myself 'I do not parent adults!'

@ceecee8924 8 ай бұрын

I'm so happy to see women learning about men's psychology and that we have more power than we think. Love that for us 😊

@juanitagonzalez8333 6 ай бұрын

Yesssssssss

@peaceofmindofpeace1650 5 ай бұрын

Npt all men have lust for power. Maturity is key.

@quamillads 4 ай бұрын

These are powerful vid to learn a man generally

@TheLungWhisperer 5 ай бұрын

Silence towards a man can be a powerful and effective communication tool. It can convey a range of emotions, including disappointment, contemplation, or the need for space. Sometimes, silence prompts introspection and encourages the other person to reflect on their actions or words. It can also assert boundaries and give weight to unspoken feelings or concerns, prompting a deeper understanding and potentially fostering more thoughtful communication in the future.

@annecruz7039 4 ай бұрын

This comment is perfect-

@annecruz7039 4 ай бұрын

This comment is perfect-

@user-gu6vf3je1d 2 ай бұрын

Most people are no where near this maturity …😂

@maryv.6545 11 ай бұрын

As a teacher, I use silence to get my student’s attention. It works every time!

@flyfish2562 11 ай бұрын

Me too!!

@talentmanager4707 11 ай бұрын

Do you also date them? 😂

@annalovebrows 9 ай бұрын

Wow🙏🏽

@edytamichalska4655 9 ай бұрын

We used to talk even more back then, when the teacher went silent 😂

@annalovebrows 9 ай бұрын

@@edytamichalska4655 this things only in Poland 🇵🇱😂🤪

@Chelzebelles Жыл бұрын

Listen to what he is saying. I went from being very ethical in the dating world, only focused on one man at a time... Now, I barely pay attention, to many men. They disrespect, I ignore, they apologize. Silence and not allowing them to affect your emotions brings them to their knees in droves. Legit, I've been proposed to 3 times in the past year. P.S. only talking, I barely ever put out, my vibrators are superior to most men's skills.

@Jennifer-di4nl Жыл бұрын

Girl you are with the wrong men😂

@MissMariahNicole Жыл бұрын

Very wise.

@nothandontshalintshali4335 Жыл бұрын

Please tell me how you achieve this

@UnicornPizza Жыл бұрын

Queen comment

@ashleykathryn9038 Жыл бұрын

Playing with boys lol

@Candy_Mountain Жыл бұрын

I am only silent because you can only beg & plead for so long. I get silent when I can’t even speak and need to heal

@gloriabitutu8776 9 ай бұрын

Me too when am broken I just keep quiet😞

@Abundance23164 9 ай бұрын

Never beg or plead ❤

@Famous5821 8 ай бұрын

Me too gave up January 2023 Praise God! I am now silently going through my divorce....never asking for anyone's time and attention again....

@camille2451 7 ай бұрын

That’s exactly where I am now. I have no more words

@belleexotic 5 ай бұрын

Right ❤

@cca405 8 ай бұрын

I go silent because I’m tired of their sh!t and it’s for my own peace and to regain clarity and think rationally 😊 not to play games

@Tnc874 5 ай бұрын

Who cares why Melissa.... the why doesn't matter but the results are the same

@DarlingLove-ku3eu 5 ай бұрын

@@Tnc874which is?!!

@RockyfromMilwaukee 5 ай бұрын

@@Tnc874no one asked you.

@estelao.b.1473 Жыл бұрын

If they re seeing other people, they dont care

@annaisis7510 Жыл бұрын

I know cases that they see other ppl but still care😂😂😂😂😂

@kosmos4133 Жыл бұрын

@@annaisis7510that’s ego, not love

@ceyciemateo9411 Жыл бұрын

Not if they don’t like them as much as you

@catherineanodeau4346 Жыл бұрын

@@annaisis7510 exactly

@munix9351 Жыл бұрын

Men are always talking to other women. But they are rarely investing in other women. They acquire women, so they are distracted!

@catriot4858 7 ай бұрын

If they don't care about you your silence becomes their convenience of getting rid of you 😅😂

@janelle009 4 ай бұрын

That's exactly what i said. I said yeah right, guys would probably prefer the silence 😂😂

@FaithAnswered 2 ай бұрын

Built in trash system with this strategy, sounds like a deal to me 😂ps they always end up coming back anyway it just varies individually how it ends.

@HanhNguyen-qq1bv 2 ай бұрын

True

@coo4834 Жыл бұрын

This is very true, my silence and distance triggered this man's controlling behaviour so quickly the mask slipped off within weeks. It honestly potentially saved me from a very abusive relationship.

@Photo-ms1mo Жыл бұрын

Silent Treatments are one of the forms of emotional abuse!

@teresaellis7110 Жыл бұрын

Omg Same thing happened to me

@comparecards5688 10 ай бұрын

@@Photo-ms1moor they’re narcissists

@nevadanites 4 ай бұрын

you are the abuser. Like attracts like!

@peaceofmindofpeace1650 2 ай бұрын

@@Photo-ms1mo I'm suspecting a man having these traits. I'm so dissapointed..again 😢 His words are sweet warm then days of silence. Said he got caught up with his business. Yesterday I decided to initiate so I sent a brief voice message suggesting to call next week when he has time. He rellied by text: no worries, you are sweet ...,.........

@TheLeopardGirl Жыл бұрын

The unknown can be very stressful, therefore by being silent the other person has no idea where you are at and this will stress them and cause them to feel out of control!

@Kleila21 Жыл бұрын

At this point my only weapon is silence😂

@estelao.b.1473 Жыл бұрын

😂😂 I am laughing because this is my case too

@RJK1647 Жыл бұрын

😂

@electricred91 Жыл бұрын

Yup lol 😅😅😅😅

@sweetcapricorn Жыл бұрын

Ikr 😂

@baggergurl16 Жыл бұрын

Same here 🙋🏾‍♀️

@dr.tapasyadiwakar1246 Жыл бұрын

The best thing is match energy 🕉️

@emajeancollection7880 Жыл бұрын

I agree

@latashalewis873 Жыл бұрын

I agree

@valenciavalentine4543 Жыл бұрын

Yes!

@sweetcapricorn Жыл бұрын

Match it then leave it and elevate

@RamboQuellz Жыл бұрын

Or just don't give them any energy at all. I find that works too

@trayle1220 Жыл бұрын

Giving silence because I need time to heal myself

@rrain21 9 ай бұрын

The power of goodbye is better. No games is the game changer.

@MissDimsky Жыл бұрын

Silence is a psychological warfare approach. When you deal with these kinds of people you have to know when to be silent and when to not be silent. In some cases, your silence can even save you from danger because these kinds of people will wait to see what you have to say so they can USE IT AGAINST YOU. They use communication as ammunition to try to destroy you, not to grow with you. When you deal with these kinds of people, just STAY SILENT and WALK AWAY. Your silence is power and it can also convey to your enemy that you care so little about them that you don´t even bother with the communication because they are simply not worth your TIME and ENERGY, hopefully they will get the hint and leave you alone. Only apply communication with people who you trust and who you want to have as a part of your life.

@comparecards5688 10 ай бұрын

True

@saraalfredo227 7 ай бұрын

I fill like am on the right spot 😂

@mapeauxnoire Жыл бұрын

Silence allows me to channel that energy that I am expending unproductively into things I had left pending and achieve more

@Talkwithtina808 8 ай бұрын

Yes!!! This ❤

@lauracohen8904 11 ай бұрын

Honestly the worst torture for me is when someone gives me the silent treatment! I always have hard time doing it to anyone.

@comparecards5688 10 ай бұрын

Selfish ppl are ego hungry that’s why they play the silent treatment

@funnygirlever 7 ай бұрын

Lol, he hates it.

@Leaveitalone1382 10 ай бұрын

My silence isn’t killing anyone. He’s seeing other women and he couldn’t be happier I shut up

@selinallano9147 9 ай бұрын

By your response to this video, I can take a good guess as to why he's happier with someone else.

@forzatodos9373 5 ай бұрын

Just because he is seing others doesnt mean he is happy 6:55

@KatalinaKristina 4 ай бұрын

Yes it is. You can start detaching and find the guy that's better for you. Clealry, he moved on. So should you. If he comes back cuz it didn't work out with the new bish, why would u even accept being 2nd option?

@asecretchannel4135 4 ай бұрын

@@selinallano9147 We’re all here to learn. Stop being a hater. 😂

@KatalinaKristina 3 ай бұрын

@@selinallano9147 The fcks ur issue?????? Cat shat on ur cereal today????

@vkngwmn6636 Жыл бұрын

I love silence. I read or concentrate on other things I am doing. There's no such thing as complete silence.

@elarisa10 Жыл бұрын

Yes, silence feels so good.

@dellasie3888 11 ай бұрын

Context is key.

@comparecards5688 10 ай бұрын

@@elarisa10have you been abused or something ?

@TheAttractionTriggers 5 ай бұрын

*Learn to be quiet enough to hear the genuine in yourself, so that you can hear it in others.*

@JDflight24 Жыл бұрын

She asked for space, so I deleted snap and it gave me less anxiety and we haven’t spoken in 2 months. If she wanted to reach out, I’m here. However, she was the one that asked for space so therefore I gave it and I’m not reaching out.

@realtrenchbaby12 Жыл бұрын

I mean what kind of space? i asked the guy i was seeing for SPACE for a couple of hours. I said "I need some space, can you call me in the morning? " and he hung up on me . I got no good morning text but hes active posting on instagram so I'm just gonna leave it like that

@Christine-sz5mx 9 ай бұрын

You are the man. You reach out

@fahadhussain66 5 ай бұрын

@@Christine-sz5mxBS. That argument doesnt work any more. If the woman cared about the relationship she would reach out instead. If she doesnt. Take care, goodbye. Next.

@eveheart2876 3 ай бұрын

Let her be indeed. Maybe she had doubts

@iym7023 3 ай бұрын

You didn't care about her 😂😂😂😂😂

@shebacynn1320 Жыл бұрын

The stick in hand just cracked me up 😂

@miriamnabulime8461 2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@monicaschroyer9785 Жыл бұрын

I honestly never knew why he didn't like my silence. Thank you for your teaching.

@serisher8671 9 ай бұрын

An ex returned after 5 months of no contact. He sent a deleted text message. I ignored it. Started viewing my posts in the weeks following but remaining silent. So I posted a random picture of a male friend... ex deleted me again thereafter 😂 The end.

@VirgotheHermit00 Жыл бұрын

No contact for months. I know they going crazy. I’m the original heart breaker and severe awakener 😂

@sweetcapricorn Жыл бұрын

Ikr and they always get several ⚠️ 😂

@nicoleb6219 3 ай бұрын

Months??? Yeah they don’t give a fuck…

@VirgotheHermit00 3 ай бұрын

@@nicoleb6219 🤣😂 it’s been a little over a year now n she just called. Don’t hate Nicole. I know you’re hurt but I didn’t do it

@user-fs7fo4kr5u 3 ай бұрын

@@nicoleb6219😂😂😂

@miriamnabulime8461 2 ай бұрын

Meeeeeeen!!! 😂😂😂😂😂 same here..😂😂😂😂

@icemaiden9251 9 ай бұрын

I go silent when I’m taken back by something or I’m disappointed overthinking hurt and I don’t want to say something I might regret I take time out to think things through

@C2Different Жыл бұрын

Silence 🤫 is so freaking sweet 🍭

@comparecards5688 10 ай бұрын

Wait for karma to hit 10 times as hard

@karinam4115 10 ай бұрын

Proverbs 17:28 (check out thiis proverb from the Bible in Google about silence) there are other wisdom proverbs about silence just Google it

@csmnetwork7067 Жыл бұрын

Just bought the laws of human nature , I love it so far. Thank you for all you do ❤

@gtcam723 Жыл бұрын

Only if he really likes you.

@jeandoe4887 Жыл бұрын

🎉 Yup! End of convo you said it.

@blairackerman9369 Жыл бұрын

Yeah because if he doesnt like you and youre silent, he doesnt care at all.

@user-gu6vf3je1d 2 ай бұрын

That’s exactly the point though.

@cantfindmykeys 9 ай бұрын

Silence is golden. I want my own sensory deprivation tank. My favorite sound is... nothing at all.

@nicolemartin-pz1wl 10 ай бұрын

I just stay single so I won't have to deal with all that because I feel we should just be on one accord be happy and just chill smh

@MarlanaMartin 8 ай бұрын

That part!! 😅

@PamPooh1111 9 ай бұрын

People just need to get it together, it’s so many damn games and rules now. Wasn’t like this back in the day

@Inkbkank.2029 5 ай бұрын

Nah nah nah it was it's just yhe internet now 😂stop with the back in NY day bs ppl in every generation ain't shit its exposed which is good so u won't deal with immature ppl glad for the pros instead of the cons of the internet

@MindfulAttraction2.0 Жыл бұрын

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@kentporterfield3968 Жыл бұрын

You hit it once again Alex. This is Genius

@CassandraSanyustiz-nq3ms Жыл бұрын

It’s crazy I been super quiet and I see this video. Lol for sure this is my sign I’m not doing the wrong thing

@sweetcapricorn Жыл бұрын

Yesssss for me too thanks for posting cause I didn’t even think of it that way bless you bless us 🙏🏿 ❤

@Queen_EL11 Жыл бұрын

This!

@bellafain3946 9 ай бұрын

The only time I can get my man to start losing his mind, is win a weaponize silence. That man will call me like “ so this is what we’re doing?”😂😂😂

@user-gu6vf3je1d 2 ай бұрын

He’s a good man. He understands his power and his position…😊

@reneehyslip4549 Жыл бұрын

I just wanted to tell you that I love you ❤️ thank you for all you do!

@lauracohen8904 11 ай бұрын

You are stinking adorable!! I just came across you and love your stuff! I’m a fellow NYer and you make me proud!! ❤️

@Angell_Lee 8 ай бұрын

This video is GOLD, thank you so much! xo

@nicolopez8180 9 ай бұрын

Silence is best Thank you for sharing From Africa 🙏👏

@syouknow4175 Жыл бұрын

i hate dating

@FIREENGINE3 2 ай бұрын

Me too I just wanna get married on the first date , arranged marriage

@rockcrazygal5166 9 ай бұрын

Omg. You had me in stitches!!! Your comical and bang on!!

@aida7212 Жыл бұрын

JESUS CHRIST IS THE WAY THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE🙌🏻🤍✝️👑🕊️

@catricem458 Жыл бұрын

AMEN

@rahwatewelde3707 9 ай бұрын

Amen

@Casarare1 3 ай бұрын

Alexisssss I love your videos!!!!! Funny, but informative. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

@golnazdurst8465 4 ай бұрын

I needed to hear this today Thank u

@simphiwepenelopebuthelezi4128 Жыл бұрын

I love this video, very straight to the point.

@kari1884 Жыл бұрын

This Is puré gold!

@culturalresponse2447 Жыл бұрын

I love how you have rebranded your channel to add more scientific studies etc…..in between the advice

@someonespecial581 6 ай бұрын

He's always done that

@hayleymac1988 10 ай бұрын

Silence is bliss 🎉

@thendolivhu9553 Жыл бұрын

Reciprocation …if you got silent on me I’ll go silent on you too cause me reaching out it’s very low

@stoplayin21 7 ай бұрын

Same… I’m not chasing you, you have did enough damage already

@SilkChocolateKisses Жыл бұрын

Another great topic Alex! Thank you! ❤

@peppermintpsaki1157 9 ай бұрын

Silence should not be a cause, it should only be the effect. Using silence as a “strategy” to get their attention is manipulative, no matter how you slice it. However, if you reel all that you’re casting out back in and focus it towards yourself or other people, places and things in your life who have already proven worthy, silence is a built in side effect. And built in will be your preoccupation away from them by doing so. Using silence as a strategy when they’re already divested from you and no longer gaf about you, will not only backfire. It will leave you in a vacuum as now they’re the preoccupied ones.

@jasibae00 7 ай бұрын

Well put.

@amam-qq5jc Жыл бұрын

Here to watch it again ❤

@marciamellow1211 Жыл бұрын

I love silence.

@willowmalone9215 Жыл бұрын

Yall purchase Alex's courses. He's cute and what he says is always correct

@LouisesJourneyxo Жыл бұрын

😊 Thanks 😊 😢

@mariaflesher1961 10 ай бұрын

Your so funny even when your serious. You and that stick or is it a Wand like Harry Potter 😂.. or dies it helps you with narratives. Like a concerto music or speech conducter,,I love it. Your so adorable with your wand keeps your tempo of speech..❤

@denisephillips6972 11 ай бұрын

Don’t work so well with a man who has conquered patience and stillness.

@CSIgirl30 3 ай бұрын

Sometimes you need to recognize your mistakes, you want to blame the other person but that person cannot do that thing to you if you don't allow them to. There is a lot of reflection and psychology helps a lot. I released the things I was doing wrong

@sweethallewis Жыл бұрын

The conductor wand... reminds me of orchestra and college all at the same time...😂😂❤❤

@deborahocampo852 Жыл бұрын

I love it when u do your funny voice .its like the Simpson .you would make a great voice over..person Your very talented in..many ways .just love all your videos. Debbie london 🇬🇧

@sabzksingh 10 ай бұрын

Yeah I will disappear all right.. Silence does work!!

@darlenesimmons6065 5 ай бұрын

thank you i like your teaching love how you explain different things very interesting information love youyr insight your daily knowing your under standing of people

@deborahocampo852 Жыл бұрын

I Watch your videos over and over again. Same ones too get into my brain .they make such sence...I realy enjoy. And. I feel they have.. helped my relationship..think. I'm.. pity good on relationships but..can't say I always understand men..realy appreciate your brilliant videos .your the best..debbie uk London 🇬🇧

@69laurenk 3 ай бұрын

I have to.keep watching these vids to help to remind me remain silent and don't give in

@mtorres118 5 ай бұрын

I that maestro stick you’re waving around 😂

@Lovelylynn 10 ай бұрын

I love the Bamboo stick !

@Mahree0917 4 ай бұрын

It depends on a person cause each person is different. Even if you are silent and they are screwing another person then they don't care

@Jane-fv9hu 4 ай бұрын

i think that is true unfortunately

@kidavis7024 11 ай бұрын

Heads up, eyes open. Be very careful if it's a good friend and you overstepped the bounds of friendship. If it doesn't work out you've lost a really good friend.😢 I learned this the hard way! 😭

@brinnyfelicia 7 ай бұрын

If you have to go silent on a good friend then that person is not a good friend.

@christinaqueens8551 Жыл бұрын

I enjoy this talk

@Brownsvillesalute Ай бұрын

This is my favorite self help video ever.. I appreciate u.. its so real.. so real life. I've done these things and they work 😂

@SS-in1ts Жыл бұрын

I love your videos 😂 garlic broccoli and meatballs, I DONT KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS

@whyjustwhy2168 5 ай бұрын

Wonderful video

@deborahocampo852 Жыл бұрын

Another brilliant video..

@ivetteortiz5543 11 ай бұрын

Good advice

@shawdeejay5408 Жыл бұрын

Well we silence the wrong ones because they mess up so good let them go crazy in their thoughts 😈 not my problem

@mariahmysticx 9 ай бұрын

right. my “boo” flaked on me. usually i would text or call, sending all kinda emotional messages etc but this time, i was silent. didn’t say a word. nada. he showed up at my door, hours later. 😳 …..

@janetrabideau4562 Жыл бұрын

That is so wrong. These people that have been married for 30,40,50,60, 70 years I can assure you don't play these games. When you do you set your relationship up to fail. Trust and honesty and communication is key.

@brieze1233 9 ай бұрын

Dam..this is serious stuff..its sad I have only really heard N learnt this just now with this video. Am on it now ...appreciated ❤❤

@user-df9jr2gw7y 11 ай бұрын

Man ur so amazing 😢

@PeaceGlow. 11 ай бұрын

That look @12:03 totally me haha! Laughed so hard. 😂😂😂❤

@tinamcbey3569 11 ай бұрын

I went to the store yesterday and got.. broccoli... garlic... meatballs (flirty smile) you're so awesome 😅

@RoadNetworkTV 9 ай бұрын

Good job

@1heidij 10 ай бұрын

If I have to play all these games with someone then they're so not worth it

@monikori6473 4 ай бұрын

I agree

@Lisaann2161 6 ай бұрын

It works because there are men I was only slightly into or not into at all but when they left me alone or got with someone else I was wanting their attention back on me or at the very least if I got lonely or bottom I would reach out so it’s possible on all scenarios

@deborahgloria3867 7 ай бұрын

It has to be his EGO. Not that he really is interested.

@ronnasimmons8003 9 ай бұрын

I watched me start validating other women to get me mad. It’s a tactic they usually take to get your attention. He even slipped up and told me that men will date other women to make the woman they like step it up. Chileeeeeee 😅

@desireeangelicmelodies8709 8 ай бұрын

Childish behavior… these type of men are feminine …RUN

@saraalfredo227 7 ай бұрын

Is when I fly more hire😂

@michelleramon7594 Жыл бұрын

Thanks nice video

@emarisarah3547 9 ай бұрын

They be like you was gone for months I just be in my own world progressing imma business woman

@kara_xo Жыл бұрын

at what point does resentment take place if they perceive us giving them mixed signals? is it resentment that is developed more than it is interest or respect?

@beg2482 7 ай бұрын

Silence is effective but abusive. Mature ppl express what they want and feel they don’t just go silent it’s used as a form of control no matter how you put it …the real control is expressing how u feel and moving forward after

@cheetahcat3940 6 ай бұрын

It depends on why. If the person is only gaslighting and not being accountable with things they created, there is nothing wrong with disengaging from conversation. You can only tell someone so many times how you feel about a particular situation. When they come back and only gaslight or blow you off and want to deflect, you have the right to ignore them until they come correct. At that point they know exactly what they're doing or not doing.

@beg2482 6 ай бұрын

@@cheetahcat3940 ignoring isn’t ok for any reason… if that is the case just communicate to the person tell them how you feel and what actions your are going to take due to their behaviors. You can end contact in a healthy way.

@sicysicy1755 6 ай бұрын

after explaing a 100 time its just better to leave without a word.

@beg2482 6 ай бұрын

@@sicysicy1755ppl who do us wrong also show us what we need to change about ourselves…communicate then walk away

@cheetahcat3940 5 ай бұрын

@@beg2482 I could swear I just said "you can only tell someone so many times how you feel" 🥴😂. Reading is fundamental.

@christinaqueens8551 Жыл бұрын

I will try this

@CSIgirl30 3 ай бұрын

This is so true 😅

@thatonegamergirl1182 3 ай бұрын

Yeah I'm too old for games. If that means I have to live a fulfilling life alone I accept that.

@igraunboelselv 6 ай бұрын

I think it has to be used moderately. Otherwise it's just games. And generally in my life I love calm and silence. If it's quiet at night I love it. Isn't this strategy just kind of toxic? Of course if they take you for granted you have to. I love to be alone also. Maybe I'm just too healthy. I like certain love. Being on a cortisol-dopamin rollercoaster does not sound really healthy.