I’m really sick of immature men who don’t realize a person’s worth until they leave. Get it together guys and stop wasting everyone’s time, evolve into something responsible.

If someone ‘forgets’ to call me, it’s not my problem. Life goes so fast. My life can be turned around a day after. I don’t wait unless I know better.

If he is playing games and is pulling away when you show interest. He is not the one for you..True its good to back off after 2 months if he is not acting right but if he comes back and behaves the same, he ain't the one. Someone interested in a healthy relationship will show their true interest after they think they lost you. Too many young people are playing games, being manipulative and not being sincere. Probably why young people are having less sex.

I think if someone isn’t into you, your absence isn’t going to make a difference. I know people I had 0 interest didn’t impact me when they distanced themselves. I guess what I’m trying to say, emotions and attraction has to be natural, organic. Certain behaviors may create certain outcomes but I think it’s very temporary.

To be honest, she shouldn't have stopped doing any of those things. You were avoidant. You needed / need emotional intevention. Someone else who's right for her would love all that she is, and how fully present and engaging and proactive that she is.

Avoidant and anxious attachments

This isn’t actually a “game” this is an energy work and energy exchange between two individuals. There have to be balance.

You never liked that girl , if you really liked her , you would love her attention and you would never think it is too much ! When we are truly in love , we want to be stuck together, it is the best feeling ever ! Someday when you find the right woman, you will know it .

Doing less reveals how much they like you! Love that

I feel sorry for the Gen Z girls how will they find a husband if they need to ignore and play games to get his attention…..

As a woman with Asperger’s (aka high functioning autism), I love watching your videos and seeing how effing nuts the neurotypical dating process is… for me, out of sight, out of mind- completely forget about your existence. Your name comes up and there is a “oh shit… that’s right! That person…”😅😅😅

Self-control is a fruit of the spirit. I noticed when a guy gets emotional about light situations I am instantly turned off even just for friendship as I am self-aware they’re emotionally underdeveloped . Also what turns me off is someone that is rooted in pride I guess that would reference your point about a person that’s not able to apologize. Pride is not an attractive glow I mean in reverse neither is false humility that’s essentially pride as well but some people try to overdo things again it’s about balance in and of everything.

The more you focus on yourself the better. Be mindful of your energy and very selective about your intentions.

The beginning of the video = an example of what an abandonment wound that is unhealed can do to a person. We have to heal from the past, including after break ups too. ❤

Your true worth isn't defined by titles or possessions; it's rooted in your character and virtues like integrity, honesty, compassion, and authenticity. In a world focused on appearances/surface aspects, understanding your intrinsic value transforms how you approach everything, including job interviews, where you confidently showcase your true self without playing into submissive roles. some companies uphold integrity as non-negotiable, setting a standard worth emulating. Consider this: if you cheat on your spouse, it's not just a personal matter; it speaks volumes about your character and trustworthiness. Similarly, companies that take a stand against such behaviors recognize that if someone isn't loyal at home, it raises questions about their integrity elsewhere. Embracing your essence means understanding your worth and not settling for anything less, resonating with the idea of loving others as you love yourself. Upholding high character standards isn't just talk; it's a way of life that reflects in your actions, choices, and relationships.

Your hair like that makes you look so handsome!

An individual is responsible for their own healing. If you don’t disrespect yourself they won’t disrespect you. So really…. the individual (self) need to tighten up and stop blaming others for one inadequate decisions.

Your long hair and beard is beautiful ❤❤

Man, this is so true especially about the inconsistencies throwing us off kilter. The anxiety peaks.

Thank you this message was so needed, thank you 🙏🏻 ✨

Thank you for this ❤

Father alex has spoken

Ok but this girl hanging up on Father Alex over & over again is sending me! 😭

One of the best video ! Thank you father Alex for leading your 🐑🙏🏼

This wisdom is priceless.

This was a good video Father Alex ❤ ive been putting thus into play! Thanks for the knowledge

The fact that you are able to give us advice while keeping it light hearted and funny is so beautiful and I appreciate you for that

I love your mentality ❤ keep it up

One of your best videos 👏🏻

This video was really insightful. Thank you

I think this is really amazing information, I love your energy and your mind. I'm truly shocked to see so many people shitting on you 😭😭

Alex I have watched you for quite some time now & this presentation was really well done. You are maturing professionally & I really enjoyed listening to you because you were (with respect) nice & calm so I didn't get distracted. Loved the background too.

I love your stuff about giving a man more space than necessary!

Thank u my relationship coach❤

Alex I’ve been watching you for years and one of the things that keeps me coming back besides the gems you drop is not knowing enough of YOU! You unknowingly and interestingly spark curiosity on my end as to how you navigate your very own romantic relationships and how balanced or reactive of a young man you are 😂❤

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ this was fire 🔥 very much appreciated great message!

This is one of my favorite video ❤

Is ironic how human behave. Imaginary does the trick. But I won’t play games. I will gave my all. So true 😂 distance and space does cause a reset

This is SUCH good advice. All these other dating coaches and none of them are able to say what needs to be done appropriately. They just run in circles in their videos. This is not toxic. It is on point and completely correct.

You make so much sense

This is Gold 🍯 Thank you

I did less, and so did he. I had to block his ass. Now I’m sad.

it’s always good to miss each other 😊

will have to watch this a few times - so much good advice on this!!👏🤩

This is very true.

20:01 PROFOUND. "...what usually happens is they leave...They were just trying to see whether they could use you..." 🏃‍♀️RUN the other way.

Thank you ❤

Whoa that face roundness/sharpness is true yet such a spacey thing you only usually notice when you‘re really high, want to remember to ask people later if they notice it too but totally forget about it 😄

I love this!! I already pulled back. I was wondering what to do when he comes back!

18:39- forward is the best! Especially 20:03...Thank you.😊❤️🙏🏽

You have to make time for yourself and automatically you will give them space as well this is a must...

I understand this so much.

You look spectacular in white✨🧚🏼

Great video ❤

You Are amazing 🎉

I was once that girl! Great Content! 3 years later he still blowing up my phone smh

I love the braid.

Wonderful vdo indeed ...

Alex I follow since you have 50k Subscribers.i like very much your hair and you very good teaching lady I’m very appreciate so much! I’m sorry for my poor English from Indonesia 🇮🇩

“She went back to her creepy ways” 🤣 lmao me hahah

Grazie m.

Great video

Thanks

Youre awesome 🎉🎉🎉

Make more on this ❤

He isn't lying ladies! ✅

Alex I literally been listening to ur channels since u wore whatever u wanted on videos an didn't care if it was "profession" seeking or not,, when u were a bit feisty towards the subjects u would talk about like u were rly goin thru the words u spoke trying to help others while still frustrated with circumstances... You've really grown into a man as far as I know since I only know who u show on the screen but personal goals is you dude aka meditation, words of knowledge for fruit of evolving excelling prosperity always room for improvement & being all aspects of life in one character.. that people can make u feel like ur not enough but it's only based on as much as their brain knows which is themselves more than anyone that everyone feels insecure everyone chooses and can see how they treat others & to try and remain my self care even when involved with certain individuals cuz thyself is the main character and only I can control how I feel & react only I can put my value into someones hands knowingly that this human may or may not know what he is even doing himself which is y so very important u know your worth taking time alone so u know what u want and what u don't so when u come across someone who looks attractive in the physical form thqt u will still unconsciously know that this one def doesnt align with what I am waiting for mustn't forget who I am even being around everyone who judges labels rude as fuq to everyone an their "friends" too I know what they don't that their wrong about me & that they hardly remember themselves throughout the day 😂❤ thank u Alex for everything you've never given up I never want u to give up teaching on KZfaq freeakin love u man

it's true when i go 'off' a crush - I completely change into someone else..i cant even bare to look at them....give them one word answers...i fly past them

I really like hearing your perspective. I'm actually alot like this. I'm far more interested if somebody is sort of blowing me off. I don't think it's healthy. I think it speaks to our abandonment issues and how we never saw secure attachment so consistent attention makes us uncomfortable

"I did not know she was into women, i completely missed out"- 😂😂😂

Men should just be alone. So they can feel their feels alrite :)

I love Father Alex's body language

Uruguaya here.

Simply, you both were wrong match. When you are a good match, you will have mutual energy. Nothing is too much or too little because you would be a good match.

Father Alex your gorgeous

Love your eyes ❤ and your hair😅

The “block” had me crying😂 great video as only

Alex 🔥

Uruguay has some beautiful ppl🎉

Grows organically

Frida is dripping

😭😭 i just realized i cancel on guys with crazy excuses too often 😂 and get they number of tinder but only watch they stories

dismissive avoidant attachment style 4:35

😂 if they cheat, i’m upgrading ❤

Are you gonna sell apparel with the Frida Paintings on them.

not the, “even though she was creepy sometimes.” ☠️

I doubt abut it …..he doesn’t look like he is actually dying at all.

I don’t want to improve shit, father Alex 😳🤣❤️

Men.... don't mess with a bisexual girl if you're not cool with her potentially choosing a woman over you.... some will flip flop when the need arises and your pride as a man will be hurt

Please help! We were in contact for 9 months, and 2 weeks ago he texted me in the middle of the night saying, “you are right about a lot of things.” I haven’t responded because of the cryptic message after all this time. Should I remain silent? And wait to see if he’ll message again? Or should I respond now?

This is toxic and 💯 dismissive avoidant behavior. Yes everyone requires space but this is text book DA relationship. I’m hoping after all this “finding yourself” with meditation you have healed from it.

MUAH 💋 BLOCKED 😂😂😂😂

I have a question. As a 30-something previously divorced woman, I’ve become disillusioned with dating over the years. I’m not willing to show emotion or much attention in the beginning stages of getting to know a man. I tend to feel like this hinders the progress of a lot of the sparks I felt on first dates. The connections easily fizzle out because I put almost no effort and expect to see the man making an effort. So… do you think the love bombing this woman did, then the withdrawal of attention later, was actually the key to these things you felt? Sometimes I wonder if I shouldn’t try to love bomb a little, just to get things moving in some kind of direction. Also, modern men are lazier because they have so many options. It seems like if you’re not in their face for even a little while they forget.

Bro pulled a whole Baby Reindeer.

What's your horoscope

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QUESTION::::: In the context of ONLINE DATING when should you sleep with them?? Is the three date applicable in this day and age?

Uruguayan woman watching, omg hahaha

Is this a live stream?

25:48 😂😂😂 BUT TRUE ❤❤