let them. let go. let GOD.
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being BASIC is an act of self-love
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the good men are OFFLINE
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@pshivie
@pshivie 9 минут бұрын
I needed this thanks so much 🥹🤍
@alienareaftytwo3278
@alienareaftytwo3278 17 минут бұрын
People shouldn't have kids if all they want is babies. Having a child is creating a future adult. If all you want is something cute that loves you unconditionally, get a pet.
@ChrisOdinson132
@ChrisOdinson132 35 минут бұрын
Is anyone else scared of getting skinny because they know people will find them more approachable? I know it sounds weird lol. Anyway, thank you so much for talking about this so kindly, Elle. I know its a sensitive topic and you handled it really well 🩵
@felisha209
@felisha209 37 минут бұрын
Halle Bailey is a victim!
@benbeal6729
@benbeal6729 Сағат бұрын
Whenever I hear "The Future is Female" my first thought is.... You can have it, it's looking pretty bleak.
@Drosenv
@Drosenv Сағат бұрын
Lol I have never worn clothing of men I wasn't attracted to. Not once. A dude has also never offered me his hoodie if he wasn't hoping I'd pick him by stealing it.
@divorceguru
@divorceguru Сағат бұрын
The doctor thing is SO real - we call them starter wives. Don't be a starter wife because she gets nothing. IF you are going to marry and be with a man, only ever be with a man once he is financially successful and secure in his career. Never be the one who builds him up only to be dropped when he no longer needs you. Because the ones whose marriages last are the rare exception so just assume it won't be you and act accordingly. At least if you marry a man who is financially successful and things don't work out, you get paid.
@kidfree_
@kidfree_ 2 сағат бұрын
"He's my GOAT for avoiding child support": It is disgusting how so many b*ys and m*n think being an absentee/deadbeat dad is a flex. Serial baby daddies in pop manga and manhwa culture (e.g. Toji from Jujutsu Kaisen or Mujin Jin and Gapryong Kim from Lookism) receive astronomical amounts of praise. Even the stereotypically traditional women who truly like and want children can never win in this game since they would likely end up as "married single mothers" (a.k.a. they do the majority of the child-raising, domestic, and emotional labor) so it's better for them to join the growing number of women who opt to not play the game at all.
@motionmuse5684
@motionmuse5684 2 сағат бұрын
He literally admitted that's exactly what he did. 😢
@kimtaeyeon2848
@kimtaeyeon2848 2 сағат бұрын
@kimtaeyeon2848
@kimtaeyeon2848 2 сағат бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤
@kimtaeyeon2848
@kimtaeyeon2848 2 сағат бұрын
❤❤❤
@rrt4511
@rrt4511 2 сағат бұрын
🤡🤡🤡
@jazzyfiddler
@jazzyfiddler 3 сағат бұрын
Can we start a “man detected” movement like all over the internet please? Who’s in?
@dovelyjulie
@dovelyjulie 3 сағат бұрын
21:40 This part made me cry almost…I truly realized we are not alone in our experiences. The same men that I was crying, failing school, starving, and losing sleep for were the ones who were unbothered and focusing on their goals. They were excelling in their classes, studying abroad, getting their degree, going to the gym, working and making good money all while I was letting myself go imprisoning myself to the emotions they caused me. My biggest regret is this but I am so glad I learned these lessons so I can now work on building my own world<3
@christianruiz2205
@christianruiz2205 3 сағат бұрын
I need you to delete this channel. You're a f****** virus
@user-vo2dm9mw8l
@user-vo2dm9mw8l 4 сағат бұрын
I have been saying this for almost thirty years! 😊😊😊
@coast2coast8306
@coast2coast8306 4 сағат бұрын
Don’t fall in love, grow in love - Shera Seven. Falling hurts.
@andreasophia7764
@andreasophia7764 5 сағат бұрын
yes!!
@gabriellaramirez8478
@gabriellaramirez8478 6 сағат бұрын
The flea market?! 😭🤣
@MDWhite-qg6yb
@MDWhite-qg6yb 6 сағат бұрын
Why didn’t no one called the police at this point? That confused me.
@sarahroos8274
@sarahroos8274 7 сағат бұрын
I was so shocked when you said loverboy because loverboys is a term for traffickers in the Netherlands. They are human traffickers who usually operate by trying to make young girls or boys fall in love with them. They manipulate young people by giving them gifts and things to make them feel special. Once they have victims under their influence they exploit them, for instance in the sex industy.
@jackielaroga5408
@jackielaroga5408 7 сағат бұрын
Meanwhile, Nelly's sending hot pics to a guy for free, or in exchange for a " good morning, babe" text
@furchickenstrips149
@furchickenstrips149 8 сағат бұрын
How about celebrating women who *already* are mothers and wives? That's what really would encourage women to choose that path, not the reality where once you have a kid there's a great chance that your husband will act out and everybody and their cow won't hesitate to tell you that you should have chosen better
@APPR.
@APPR. 8 сағат бұрын
I'm so glad I stopped watching Shark Tank years ago. They always seemed so entitled and jealous of any woman on the show.
@kikitauer
@kikitauer 8 сағат бұрын
I wish I could bottle this video and give to all women I know. Or give it to all women period
@xsunlx
@xsunlx 8 сағат бұрын
"We are ALL gold-diggers under capitalism" Oooof YUP. Love this one honey...you are the light❤️
@callmebabyzee
@callmebabyzee 8 сағат бұрын
THISSSS
@wrappedaroundmyfinger
@wrappedaroundmyfinger 9 сағат бұрын
Can we also acknowledge that men who call women gold doggers don’t want men with money to be in relationships? I read some comments under an article about Jeff Bezos and the thumbnail had him and his wife. Men were calling his girlfriend a gold digger and said she was made of plastic. 😊
@skinwalker_needs_rescue
@skinwalker_needs_rescue 9 сағат бұрын
I think most of us go for whatever men do for themself instead of what they do for us and it all starts going down there 🤷🏻‍♀️ he has a car ? He has it for himself ! He has a house ? He has it for himself ! What is he doing for you ?
@TheTishy44
@TheTishy44 9 сағат бұрын
I had to explain this to my husband, when we were dating, on how I would take the lighted way back to my car instead of short cut through an alley, he’s like it’s a safe place you won’t be robbed….i said I’m not worried about that, I’m worried about being raped. Then I went on to explain this is how women think since an early stage in life, this animal instinct….the pit in the stomach…that has always been with us. Everything we do when we are alone, we become hyper vigilant. Now I have 2 daughters and I told them, ALWAYS listen to your gut…always.
@hyrunnisa997
@hyrunnisa997 10 сағат бұрын
wow…the male infanticide is wild…I don’t agree with that at all.
@mayamorena334
@mayamorena334 10 сағат бұрын
I’m loving the new intro and vibe
@deleena4841
@deleena4841 10 сағат бұрын
All those influencer girlies should just delete those negative comments. Just dont get the trolls the attention that they so badly crave.
@deleena4841
@deleena4841 10 сағат бұрын
That beard ain't saving him.
@deleena4841
@deleena4841 10 сағат бұрын
He's literally a 2.
@Alisse.notavaliable
@Alisse.notavaliable 11 сағат бұрын
What for me is wild is how men can decide to simply not care for their child! (financial and emotional) Or how they think to punish the woman through their child! (How mental is that!) And I think some mothers (boy-moms!) concious or not are the ones who perpatiuate these notions.
@turquoisesnowflake4613
@turquoisesnowflake4613 11 сағат бұрын
It's true what you say about good men gossiping. If I want tea, I never go to my friends or even my mom. I go to my dad after a church meeting. I don't know who Rob is, but I know he doesn't want his wife to earn more than him.
@zampierrafaela
@zampierrafaela 11 сағат бұрын
I love that book.
@annieyogirlisdabest4373
@annieyogirlisdabest4373 11 сағат бұрын
day 1 of asking bestie to react to hoe_math
@toishaahsan8329
@toishaahsan8329 11 сағат бұрын
I stan you now
@Biscuitboy4ever
@Biscuitboy4ever 11 сағат бұрын
Fair Play by Eve Rodsky is mandatory reading for straight women. Anyone, really, but especially straight women.
@gebruderschwarzwald7931
@gebruderschwarzwald7931 11 сағат бұрын
True. So true
@bellaballe8293
@bellaballe8293 12 сағат бұрын
Do you know someone with another channel like manifestelle ? I can't find such good content elsewhere but I want more (although Elle is already doing the work of 10 people I swear, God bless her 🙏🏽)
@MiamiChica
@MiamiChica 12 сағат бұрын
I was shocked when Barry left his gf and child for Sabrina. His ex gf was a lot hotter and wholesome seeming in my opinion.
@moufettepokla5877
@moufettepokla5877 12 сағат бұрын
I have a very small amount of real friends, half of which are guys. Let me tell you they're both GREAT and RARE. CHERISH your real male friends. they're few and far between.
@EvelynArnold
@EvelynArnold 13 сағат бұрын
Finally, finally, finally! I’ve found my tribe. I’ve always felt like this.
@Annie-dd4lr
@Annie-dd4lr 13 сағат бұрын
This is why I am lesbian.
@randomthoughtsofaunistudent
@randomthoughtsofaunistudent 13 сағат бұрын
I never knew that Barry had a kid and I used to love them but this video truly how showed up he is.
@Mmtastysound
@Mmtastysound 13 сағат бұрын
Hell yeah if I'm high maintenance that means I like what I've got and I'm keeping it nice, that's a good thing! But I did disagree about one thing you said, cause for me, asking a man out and paying for the date can be a power play. I have a lot of "masculine" personality traits, like being more of a provider than a nurturer, being assertive, more focused on problem solving than empathy etc so as soon as I can put a man in that more traditionally feminine role I do, they gotta get used to it lol