I have just lost my husband suddenly. It's just been 5days and my emotions are on a roller coaster. I feel like I'm falling down a hole.

This was very helpful, thank you for sharing :)

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Julia's description of what grief is and what it isn't rings so true.

This is very wise advise. Thank you.

In the fall of 2022, My lil lady felt ill, We did the hospital trips, Followed up, Followed doctors advice, Followed up. On the morning of December 13th, 2022, While I was getting dressed for work, I discovered My lil lady, Unalive in my bed. I’ve faced hard times before, However nothing like this.

Rubbish

Bless this man

I was living in Vermont and still am where my partner and I built our own house together. One day law officers came to my door and told me Joe was dead. I collapsed. They picked me up and brought me in to my house , our house. The shock was so severe I didn’t even feel alive more like floating. Joe had also been the main source of income so there was the extra blow of eventually how was I to survive on my own.

Thank you. I feel the same way.

Do you have a video about alienated parents and grandparents? It’s heartbreaking and we have that loss of control, connection, shame. There’s so little information. Thank you

My common law husband was murdered in front of me. His mother blames me and this funeral. Has definitely divided many.

"Trippled as a result of the VACCINE" not a fake flu...!!!

Did he just say “we-ness” ?

Best book I read in YEARS! Thank you @Raynor Winn

Life is a flawed design. I’m not a fan. It’s just to painful. Pain, pain, pain.

Pleas help I have morning sickness every morning I have to vomit. I can't accept that my husband is gone

Wow Amazing. Thank you Julia Samuel. Today is 87th day of my mom's passing unexpectedly at the hospital. I am now more understanding of grief and memory. Words can not express my pain and guilt. Only thru your video I can move one step forward toward healing.

Julia is great. The host not so much and she would have had a better video if she hadn’t included herself into the presentation but let Julia be the focus.

What a lovely lady x

20:05. Whenever you're in your body your cortisol levels go down. As😂 opposed to jumping out of your skin or being beside yourself et cetera.

Thank you for this video. Your channel could use more content regarding grief as the result of losing a pet. Pets occupy unique places in our lives and they're often more highly integrated into our day to day lives than most of the people we know. Losing my best friend of the last 17 years has been one of the most devastating experiences I've had in my life. It's time for our culture as a whole to take this loss more seriously.

It would of been really helpful to hear this 32 years ago when my Dad died suddenly through elective death.

Thank you for sharing this.

This woman has lied about everything. A fraud, working for very dark forces.

How do I get through this pain of losing my Mark? 4 months ago and I don't know what to do ❤

I lost my husband a month ago😢we came back from a wonderful holiday. He wasn’t ill- it was completely unexpected. He was only 52. We’ve been married 24yrs. 2 beautiful children. My daughter it getting married in 3months. My son found his dad. It’s really difficult parenting alone. Feels like the world is swallowing me alive😭💔

In November I lost my girlfriend of more than 14 years to sepsis… she was just 38 and it looked just like a flu. In fact, she got the flu and then got infected by a strep A bacteria that caused the sepsis. It took her away from me in just a few days, now I'm devastated… I took her to the hospital twice, she was checked by 2 different doctors and neither of them diagnosed sepsis. A few hours after the second visit we had to go back to the hospital, now with clear symptoms of pneumonia. But then it was too late…

I feel that if my pain and guilt diminishes and I become happy and content again , it would mean that my love has lessened . I never want that to happen even if I have to suffer like this for the rest of my life . My wife died of cancer nearly three years ago but I suffer the same pain constantly . There is so much I want to say to her . If I could only tell her one more time that I adore her . She gave me the last 56 years of her life . I often feel I can no longer live without her . I just carry on for my son and granddaughter . The house remains the same as that terrible day she left it for the last time to go into hospital . I still have all her personal things and her car . Rest in contentment and peace my darling Janet . I hope one day we can spend eternity together .x

I don't know if my partners death is sudden or not. He was ill with heart problems for a long time and he was in hospital awaiting an operation. On the Friday things seemed to be going well, by Sunday a blood clot travelled to his bowel, on the Wednesday they told me nothing could be done and by Friday he was dead. He was on such strong painkillers that there was no time to say goodbye. I know that was better for him but I wish we had been able to have those conversations. I hope he knew how much I loved him.

Thank you for the video. Where can I find visualisation exercise when feeling stuck or numb after loss?

Extremely powerful and helpful .thank you

Help me

This is my life . My Partner of almost 23 yrs died all of a sudden . He was a type 2 diabetic. He was also a recovering alcoholic . He had been doing so well in outpatient. He was cut by a Rusty nail. He took it out and we thought ,Ok. All good! The following day his foot was in pain . His breathing was becoming more shallow . When The paramedics got here They took his blood Sugar . It was 400 .. They tried calling me in the middle of the night . I was a sleep . I called them Back when I woke up. Instead of they telling me ok . Travis is ready to be Picked up.. the tone was More like .. Hello , My name is “ Dr. So and so “ we have been trying to get of hold of you , unfortunately Travis went into cardiac arrest .. “I’m sorry we’ve done Everything we can” my heart sunk ..

Thank you Lesel and David. David's great work amplified with a great interview. This has been really helpful to me. Thanks again, Ean

Thank you ♥️💔

So much I'm struck by. I'm an introvert that's developed useful extroverted qualities. I'm a very funny, successful high functioning anxiety riddled, contained mess, who feels misunderstood, because my authenticity is clouded by who I think others want me to be. You know, in a nutshell. Others think i've got it made. What I tell them is "the grass might look greener it still needs mowing" eeesh...ain't it a game huh?

Very helpful. Thank you.

I feel guilty that I did not protect my son in hospital and made sure that his care was better. He was treated as no one, not important. My son was moved 7 times in 10 days and was never on the appropriate ward. All the time they kept telling me “He is not our patient he is an outlier.” His care was not appropriate for his needs. I just wish that I had pushed more. I was a nurse and knew the care and compassion on the various wards was not good enough and often non existent. I feel so guilty that I didn’t protect him more in his last few days.,

Does this also apply to the death of an older child. My son has just dies aged 41. It was sudden and not expected

Thank you ♥️💔

Oh God, I never knew I could survive my kid brother's suicide. The pain is still sometimes unbearable but people like you are helping in ways you will never know

❤ thank you ❤ both

How can we watch the full videos of these talks please? Will you upload them to yt at a later date? Thank you 🙏

I learned so much from this - even though my own bereavement was due to motor neurone disease killing my husband. Not sudden, but very difficult to witness. The statement about the level of loss being equal to the level of love really hit me, and explains why I feel the way I do 4.5 years after my lovely husbands death. Thank you.

Lost my mom suddenly in her late 50s its brought on anxiety and TMS in my body so on top of greife i deal with dizziness, fatigue, brain fog for going on 21 months now its like im being punished on top of losing my mom.

Carrie is proud of you my friend. I look forward to the day when you hit 1 million subs.

Thank you for sharing this. So helpful in aligning the realities of grief and memory and leaning in.

Dear Julia thank you for trying to help . Having been working in this field for so long has it had an effect on your life . Great respect to you

I lost my father 3 months ago. I am very sad and depressed. I am unable to be my previous self now. I cannot function normally.