Learn to love yourself. If you want love look inside. Love doesn't exist out there, it exist inside.

We live in a broken society with many broken people. I read some of stories and I am baffled at the number of toxic relationships we managed to get ourselves into. Somehow i am compelled to ask myself: why did we not see certain signs before? What pushes us to go forward into certain relationships and engage in them so profoundly when it was quite obvious from the beginning where it would lead to? As boys we have been raised somehow that women are these perfect creatures who can do wrong and on the other end girls are raised on the myth of their infallibility. The result is: a mass of delusional boys doomed for disappointment and a mass of spoiled women with serious entitlement issues. I feel particularly for this new generation of boys who did not and will not savor the part of life that my generation (I am 52) took for granted (we did our pert of serious mistakes…). The worst part is that after 2 decades of this extreme mydandrist feminism and a normalized culture of male hating and bashing (starting at home and in schools which are 2 domains monopolized by women) I see no solution anywhere close.

Offtop question: do you regret tattoos?

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A month ago my wife, who was a single mother when we met, (together for 7 years, married for just 2 months shy of 3 months) is ending our marriage because the baby daddy had a sudden epiphany that he loves her and wants her back. Mind you, this man did not support her or the child for 7 years. The child even said I’m 100xs more her father than him. And yet….wife said they have a bond and wants to try again. Oh and did I mention the man still lives with his mother? He never moved out of his mother’s home and expressed he has a hard time saving money and is battling mental health issues. Can’t make this shit up. Will never do that again. Learned my lesson.

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Even tho this is 4years old, it still hits home. I’ve been on a matches re-run kick, how I miss the stories. 😔

When we say it is over, it is too late to finally be a good husband. When I divorced my husband ; I had no skills, no money, and a 2 yo child. The martial assets, of which I received all, where a leather coat, a game system and an unpaid for car. We are not all ball-busting, gold diggers. Sometimes we just want to get off the emotional and financial roller coaster.

i have dated over 100 women and believe me! i learned the hardway ....never spend more then 10.00 on a first date. if she is really into you she would make the effort to go on a second date. by not doing this you will be broke

Man that's great advice. Those stats speak for themself. I pray the young men "in love" hear this message.

This man is absolutely correct. I’ll add.. If a woman needs attention on social media and she’s with you, she’s not with you. Wake up

I was weak going in to the marriage. Now I am strong. No more marriages for me. Because now I know what it takes.

20 years of marriage are over in the moment she started to flirt with another man in front of me, I guess that was her way to say “ i don’t love you anymore “ but hell , I live in Mexico and there are plenty of beautiful women here

Well said! Looking back, all the signs were there years before she cut and ran. Men, pay better attention. Read their signs they're telling you and fix it before they do choose to drop the bomb if you want to keep your woman.

I remember when the go-to book used by the religious world was, "Christian Men Who Hate Women." That book was used against me a long time ago.

0:17 Yep. Counseling, Therapy & Pastors just EMASCULATE a Man. They got bookshelves full of books they use but they refuse to use the Bible.

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I have been separated from my wife for 2 months now. I am hoping to wrap things up and finish the divorce process in the next 2 months. Fortunately we don’t have children and we are not going to divorce court, but it’s still painful.

Man. Ive been trying to save my buddy from himself and his codependent relationship with his wife who has absolutely nothing to offer but grief and demands. She won’t work and just watches tv all day stoned. The dude can get so much better and he always has women looking him up and down. When I said she has NOTHING to offer I mean it. He spent the last 15 years like this. He’s 45 and shes almost 60 now. Wish I could talk sense into him cause shes never going to change.

I'm wondering if his advice applies to his mother.

Get paid to have someone hate them? Worked for me.

When a woman says she wants out of the marriage she's talked to her female committee for months behind your back. She's then spoke to several attorneys who have blown up her head over the cash and prizes she will get in the divorce. The majority of these women end up broke and living in an apartment. If you think your wife is going to divorce you should definitely talk to George since the stories and experiences he shares are from real men who got blindsided.

She already has someone waiting in the wings! Hypergamy at its best!

Mandelbaum, Esq. says date long and never get married.

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Church of the Total Man needs to be back!

Yes I do!!!! It's Unbelieveanly indescribably HORRIBLE!!!!!