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@MichaelJones-ek3vx
@MichaelJones-ek3vx 5 сағат бұрын
Where Is DJ Trump in this firmament?
@annamari7863
@annamari7863 3 күн бұрын
Is this real or is it a simulation?
@Vlbrt1111
@Vlbrt1111 4 күн бұрын
So nonchalant and causal “ hi I’m .. “frank yoeman” .. only the foremost, psychiatrist, psychoanalyst and yale educated expert in the world😂😂 wish I had access to such analyst or for that matter any in LA. is psyflix from that clinic ?
@merlebuck
@merlebuck 6 күн бұрын
He breaks down things so well and his examples are so on point and relatable. Dr Yeomans has helped me understand the clinical side of BPD/narcissism so much.
@dennisryan6370
@dennisryan6370 6 күн бұрын
And to think there's one of these nutjobs behind every streetlight...
@nadaarif5399
@nadaarif5399 6 күн бұрын
“I feel like you’re psychoanalyzing me”……well…says Dr. Yeomans 😂….funny, but not funny; unfortunate nature of the disorder, lots of defensiveness. To all the therapist who treat these patients, God bless you all! The amount of dedication, patience, and empathy it takes is incredible.
@tamararainbowtarabarhar304
@tamararainbowtarabarhar304 8 күн бұрын
Very helpful! My first exposure to this type of therapy. I will definitely be using these tools that you shared! The actress does an amazing job! Thank you so much for this.
@nadaarif5399
@nadaarif5399 8 күн бұрын
You’re a gift to us Dr. You’re a gift to us Dr. Yeomans. Such an incredibly difficult disorder to work with; you must have the patience of a saint, and a heart of gold…. Thank you for the work that you do 💛
@DianeMatlock
@DianeMatlock 12 күн бұрын
Eva Gabor wants her wig back😂. He must be losing his hair🤯... Oh the VANITY, IF I HIDE IT THEY WON'T SEE THE UGLY ME...( BEAUTY IS ONLY SKIN DEEP, UGLINESS, COMES STRAIGHT FROM YOUR CORE). LIFE IS AN INSIDE JOB...🤔🫣
@ravingredpanda
@ravingredpanda 13 күн бұрын
Holy shit, I just saw my ex sitting in that chair... You are so expertly diffusing every single escalation attempt he uses, I am in awe.
@Atbay8
@Atbay8 19 күн бұрын
35 is not middle age
@ddawg589
@ddawg589 21 күн бұрын
I've been dealing with avpd all my life and luckily I had the right people and situations to keep me sane. My heart really goes out to this guy, he's in hell but he's still fighting.
@richardkasper5822
@richardkasper5822 24 күн бұрын
Simple acts of charity or helping others can often be the best key to getting ones mind off of itself. It opens the heart up and can relieve pressure on the mind, and gets the focus off of oneself and by giving your also recieving. It promotes self love in a good way because by taking care of yourself you can provide for others and puts your problems in a true-er light.....🙏🏽🙏🏻🙏🏾
@BasedAnimosity
@BasedAnimosity 6 күн бұрын
Agreed. Medicine and Therapy can help bridge this gap. Therapy for the communication and meds for the mood swings and sometimes there are brain issues with executive dysfunction like ADHD. So meds might be required to even do therapy, to even get to relationships. But after years and years it's genuinely so normal to feel hopeless, but it's just that brain telling you that.
@sallyanne5492
@sallyanne5492 26 күн бұрын
I am 65 and a severe bpd and am having an anxiety attack from this video, because I have never felt so seen.
@sallyanne5492
@sallyanne5492 26 күн бұрын
‘Click on’ “more” above to read the video description. The video is a depiction and the ‘patient’ is an actor.
@rg2929
@rg2929 Ай бұрын
I cried a bit watching this because I could relate so much to the patient. I'm sick of pretending to be okay all the time. I need to address this.
@VIDS2013
@VIDS2013 Ай бұрын
Narcissists and Borderlines don't have empathy. That's why they don't think others have authentic emotions. And they project their lack of empathy onto others. (Thus, "You're mocking me.")
@marilyndawson-mccarthy4136
@marilyndawson-mccarthy4136 Ай бұрын
This therapist has set it up that the therapist is having to explain and “sell” the patient on therapy. These two should just start therapy!
@DerrickReid-eu5tb
@DerrickReid-eu5tb Ай бұрын
Perfect spot on!!
@BaldTV
@BaldTV Ай бұрын
this doctor is 100% npd , full blown npd
@L4LA0412
@L4LA0412 Ай бұрын
I encountered some people like this. 😂 some you can see through right away, some it's hidden until you close enough that you can see their true nature. I really amaze with therapists who able handle them while maintaining their own sanity 😂
@andriyandriychuk
@andriyandriychuk Ай бұрын
Yeomans is world class
@andriyandriychuk
@andriyandriychuk Ай бұрын
Being a therapist is so tough.
@TheDavveponken
@TheDavveponken Ай бұрын
Whenever someone says "evidence based" with no further elaboration is when your alarm bells should start to ring. It doesn't mean anything. It doesn't relay any idea of the actual evidence - most often because there isn't any. This is psychiatry in a nutshell. Transference may be helpful, but be watchful of such basically dogmatic statements. They are akin of snake oil salesmen. Edit: Yeah, seems like snake oil and victim blaming once again. It comes from a well meaning place but is fundamentally flawed in the end.
@emjaydark2811
@emjaydark2811 Ай бұрын
How about that wig!! and the blubber!! He needs to go to the gym, clean up, he looks smelly.
Ай бұрын
When he said that he is a failure, I felt it. Yes I would say to myself too, I am a failure
@priscillagrrr4405
@priscillagrrr4405 Ай бұрын
The wig is killing me
@bunglejoy3645
@bunglejoy3645 Ай бұрын
Yes but bpd and narcasim are torally different. Bpd sufferers want to gave fruendssustainmartiages vutthere emitions osrinua suspecious besd gets in wsy if relationship, rarely naybe only 1.11/ percent of if people with BPD wiuld hurt soneone Where psyycopaths dont care who they hurt abd why
@OIVIFG
@OIVIFG 2 ай бұрын
I have to take breaks to watch this video, thats how cringe it is. Very informative though, never saw a live session. *scratches eyeballs out*
@Gregoryismnz
@Gregoryismnz 2 ай бұрын
Trying to build barriers every sentence...
@SMMore-bf4yi
@SMMore-bf4yi 2 ай бұрын
Can hear this psychiatrist knows meanwhile the overwhelming frustration of a non receptive loved one is itself an issue of the same intensity
@ryanhink3101
@ryanhink3101 2 ай бұрын
You made this wayyyyy too complicated! They’re unfortunately still children stuck in a world of lies. Giving them an out by validating any of their bullshit is not helpful. CBT and DBT are definitely better than TFP. It really seems like a great way to make money off of adult children who are suffering. I’m sure you’re very successful in your field of psychology and that’s very sad to me.
@bryanmccaffrey4385
@bryanmccaffrey4385 2 ай бұрын
Interesting. Are you measuring effectiveness in neurodiverse people as well?
@garyjohnson1466
@garyjohnson1466 2 ай бұрын
Interesting subject, as I watch the horrors of war, the horrific senseless ordeals and deaths of civilians, I can’t help but think about how such experiences affects their mental states, like those survivor of Hitlers death camps, or people who are abused as children in one way or another, who develop various emotional disorders, etc etc…we pass on our pain to others, like a disease, like alcohol is used to forget, only to make then a alcoholic or drug addiction…it’s a mad mad mad world where people pass on their experiences to the next generation….tragically, an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure, Peace !
@LeandroVelez7
@LeandroVelez7 2 ай бұрын
I’m hearing: “I want to be aware but I don’t want to go through the discomfort of difficult emotions that being aware we require. I want to see but my defenses keep me from looking.”
@JDCullum
@JDCullum 2 ай бұрын
Oh, for more human beings like this wise man.
@Saskidan
@Saskidan 2 ай бұрын
It's incredible that people get married to those with BPD. After living with one for 4 months I can't stand it any longer.
@edgreen8140
@edgreen8140 2 ай бұрын
Trained by the master Otto Kernberg,M.D.
@GuyVinmara
@GuyVinmara 2 ай бұрын
Does anyone else agree...that was exhausting to watch.
@jimlawson1953
@jimlawson1953 2 ай бұрын
Thank you Doctor. This is the most concise and clear description I've ever heard of what I have been dealing with in my own marriage for the past thirty eight years. I cannot tell you how much it means to have a framework described that makes sense of the chaos and needless pain.
@Saskidan
@Saskidan 2 ай бұрын
Life is too short and 38 years of mental turmoil is not worth it.
@uroboroh
@uroboroh 2 ай бұрын
As a patient I would not be ready to open up to a person who is this detached. Somehow the communication is very much "in the head", I do not feel heart. Even if the therapist is not explicitly judgemental, it feels like he is implicitly judgemental. He has this "I am OK you are not OK" attitude typical of psychiatrists working in closed psychiatric wards.
@alpheuswoodley8435
@alpheuswoodley8435 2 ай бұрын
This was excellent.
@angelicacroitoru4946
@angelicacroitoru4946 2 ай бұрын
A lot of talk and nothing said.
@edgreen8140
@edgreen8140 2 ай бұрын
Minimization, defelection, starting to get angry at frank and that will happen. Denial attempting to use projective identification and devaluation of frank. Minimization of harming others. Blameshifting will take a long time to reduce maybe. Nice splitting of therapist is bad frank may be bad. He may never reach all this stuff he projects he owns.patient is bodering on you trying to control everyting and ask for a warantee
@jac585
@jac585 2 ай бұрын
Wish it could work doc. But I can not be ok with my current living situation in the western world. And there is no carot in the western world for me any longer not that there ever was not one day from child all my mind and mouth asked was why and how and the reply given never reached any point of unification in my soul. So now what did we see the gays given in our time??? Now what will my people receve so we can just do away with the whole BPD thing cuz major change in my reality would have to physicly change on paper as well so that us sensiteve people have our voices herd in the court of law just like a murderer someone that hurts another human emotionaly beyond reasonable moral huamn decency then ya voices need to be hered feelings destroy minds and lifes like bulets dud you not hear the pin is might like the sward. IDK a smart guy sead that but what do i know i cant spell im bipolar and now looks like a hard hard BPD diagnosis i need no dictor to see that its just the coz of it incan put my finger on like he not willing to do he wants to maintain this condition for who his pocket the church the government the schools ? Obviously a man would fix the hole in the dam replace the dam before building another dam down stream hopping the people in the valley bellow wont die and drown? Smart man cant spell but so smart look at me brain.
@jac585
@jac585 2 ай бұрын
Im going to fix this in my life or with my life. All my life I think is for this to show the world what has been done and what needs to be done to fix it at least for me and my people for my mind heart complex I came to earth with. So I got a job. Bummer right ? How. And the doc thinks well I can re position you with hypnosis to fix that gift to man kind right out of ya and here are some pills.
@jac585
@jac585 2 ай бұрын
Haha haha. OMG.
@annavillalpando4872
@annavillalpando4872 2 ай бұрын
This made me cry. Because this is exactly how I feel & what I struggle with. And it sucks. It’s so sad 😞 I hate it
@travelbug4536
@travelbug4536 2 ай бұрын
The fact that he likes to have sex with men is a socially acceptable mental illness.
@travelbug4536
@travelbug4536 2 ай бұрын
Flaming narcissist.
@user-jp1hs6sl3h
@user-jp1hs6sl3h 2 ай бұрын
He's judging the therapist for psychoanalyzing him. But that's the entire purpose of it. To figure out what makes the person's mind tick. If you take a person's words at face value, that's how you become manipulated. If you really want to know why a person does what they do, you have to be able to understand how their mind works. The definition of why you would psychoanalyze someone. His feeling of judgement and criticism is probably a strong indicator of having a personality disorder. Even when it's just pointing out obvious observations in how he conducts himself and interacts with the world around him
@rhomboidman
@rhomboidman 2 ай бұрын
Therapist really needs nerves of steel for this.