I would say this is controlling. But it’s looks like you hold each other to the same standards and rules. Which is totally fair for both of you. All the best!

Don't ever let kids become one or the other's priority. Make sure your kid's need are met but keep the priority on one another. Your relationship precedes the ones you develop with your kids and will continue after they leave the home to live their adult life.

This is definition of a curfew in practice. But okay, you do you 😂

This is a great list

Those sound good to me! I love how most of the rules went both ways too! I really like how both of you prioritize the other person… it’s really heartwarming:)

it’s giving insecure, jealous, and crontrolling. it’s on the lower end of all this (seemingly) but regardless, nothing wrong with your spouse having opposite sex friends or even keeping in touch with an ex. if you 100% trust your partner then there is no reason to have that rule. i’ve also never understood having the location of someone’s cellphone in the case of “emergencies/safety”. i will never not think that tracking location is not a bs way to keep tabs on someone. if there is a emergency and he is stranded on the road don’t you think he would call you? or at the very least, if he is late coming home from work, can’t you call him? there is no reason to have someone’s location other than issues in trust. even your kids. i will always stand by it. how do you think people used to get around before tracking your location was a thing? or before cellphones?

As beautiful As some of those things are, the tone of the video “things I don’t let my husband do….” Demonstrates the social acceptance of a woman in control of a relationship while if a man titled a video “things I dont let my wife do….” The video would be deleted instantly and he’d be questioned by law enforcement for spousal abuse.

I agree with you on the passwords thing with one exception while my wife was alive, she knew all of my passwords except for the privileged passwords I had for work because well she had no legitimate reason or clearance to have those... But for anything personal absolutely. She had every password, every code, everything she needed

Healthy marriage 101 is this list by default. Do #10 and you'll be happy forever. And communicate. That's it. We shouldn't need to make lists like this.

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To comment a bit on some of the points made. Personally, I get why people struggle with others keeping their exes around, but it can be beneficial. With respect and boundaries established, an ex can be an extremely good supportive friend. That person knows you. Chances are they can look through a fake ''I'm fine''. Now when it comes to female friends, oh boy I can't agree there. Personally having female friends has helped my relationships in the past. Getting a female perspective on things or issues can be huge. Whilst you should obviously be comfortable talking to your partner, some things are just easier to discuss with a third party. Also I'm curious if this applies to you having male friends. (Not trying to point fingers, genuinely curious) Now, porn addiction is very real, and it's definitely an issue for a lot of people. I feel this is a very person-to-person thing, so I'll leave it alone. The lingerie thing has me a little confused. Clothing models are.. Just that. They're meant for you to go ''Oh wow, that could look good on my partner, girlfriend etc.'' As for the social media thing. Whilst I get the reasoning, it's literally impossible to shield yourself completely from lust, as you described it. A stroll at the beach, or even just going outside in the summer, chances are you'll see the same thing you'd see on Instagram. I'll end this by saying this was an interesting video to watch. I live a VERY different lifestyle than you, and I hope you take my written thoughts as curiosity and comments, and not as something negative. Hope you two do well in life.

A little excessive with the model-less lingerie sights.

The husband buying lingerie from sites with images of models is wrong, but wearing tight clothes / wearing jewelry that draws the male gaze to your chest, which you do in multiple videos, is acceptable? It's strange to me you don't hold yourself to the same standard.

keep speaking the truth against the effinist movement

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