10 Things That Tell You Have Class

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@AnnaBeyOfficial Жыл бұрын

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@tonyausten2168 Жыл бұрын

Fun Video. But i beg to differ. Elegance is ALL about the exterior sophistication. Internal human defaults are normal, and natural - like envy, jealousy, and drama comes from inside. Corrections should be- An Elegant woman has the Finesse to control her human traits shortcomings, if not growing from it, but at least have the master of not making them overt.

@kathleenheady7190 Жыл бұрын

@KikiD1965 Жыл бұрын

My Aunt always told us when we were little girls … “ You can acquire taste , but your born with class “

@nosegemhealth-vintage Жыл бұрын

Hi! I always watch your channel, I really like it, :-) is there any tips or videos for planning mom's on how to be elegant as a new mother with 1 kid Only , thanks!

@marokouzbek6657 Жыл бұрын

BRILLIANT

@sambutler4995 2 жыл бұрын

My mother never had much money, but she was the most elegant, classy woman I have ever known.

@ladypaz Жыл бұрын

Mine too. 😥

@giordanogaetana8086 Жыл бұрын

L’elegance est une attitude, un état d’esprit, et non seulement un compte bancaire élégant!

@didineoconfusedyou9892 Жыл бұрын

Mine too, she doesn’t even try but there’s something about her that voice elegance and beauty. She’s the reason I’m looking up these videos hahaa

@debcollins8231 Жыл бұрын

Mine too. She came from a family of 11, during The Depression. My grandmother and all of her children are effortlessly elegant. My mother and father drilled manners and etiquette into my brothers and me, starting young. They wanted us to be able to comfortably navigate every social situation. I thought it was frivolous and ridiculous until I hit adulthood, and passed those lessons to our 28year-old son. A couple of years ago, he thanked me profusely after noticing the social awkwardness in many situations, and the lack of even table manners within his peer group. He actually receives compliments from older folks, or people assume he comes from much-wealthier than his middle-class upbringing, because sadly, he is often an anomaly. I think true elegance actually ensures the comfort of everyone around you...It is not a weapon to show any sort of superiority.

@basilicaangela4638 Жыл бұрын

I’ve been taking classic ballet class since three years old..There were truly elegant girls from lower middle class ;-)

@MM-ku7cd 2 жыл бұрын

I love how she always emphasizes how important it is to be a good person and to constantly be working on yourself. True elegance✨

@courtneyharrell7758 2 жыл бұрын

AND SHARES it with her fellow ladies.. unselfishly.

@tessarae9127 Жыл бұрын

🥰

@eddie9420 2 жыл бұрын

You should do a class for the women who have anger issues or grew up in a bad environment, thus leading them to have more of a fight or flight response. I would take that in a heart beat.

@sisulfahanwar120 2 жыл бұрын

You are right. Not everyone have good family background and influences. It is very difficult for them to change the bad habits due to this factor. They need more guidance and good example.

@AM_DJ 2 жыл бұрын

Some of us, life taught us to be strong in order to survive. Didn't have so much talks about life and challenges.

@Am-mm6iz 2 жыл бұрын

Yes !!! Wow I need this so much .

@LadyJani 2 жыл бұрын

They should make therapy, coaching, or educate themselves with coaches of KZfaq and Instagram. It is necessary to be able to reflect your behaviour and also be open for healing

@serenityw8689 Жыл бұрын

I come from exactly that and it’s possible to break. Change your mindset cliché as it sounds red books like vibrate higher daily and more that will reinforce a different mindset and daily habits, follow, engage, and surround yourself with people you do want to be like. The same way conditioning is taught it can be undone is what I’ve found. So basically our everyday environment created the life we want to break so constantly shove the life you want down your throat lol with books, even a lock screen that reminds you of your goals, changing your crowd and eventually all that & a little more rubs off in you the same way negativity and bad habits did. Hope this helps 🖤🖤✨✨✨

@PreppyAnglican Жыл бұрын

Time stamps for each Sign 1) 0:33 {Self-Respect} 2) 1:07 {Show Respect} 3) 2:18 {Avoid Drama} 4) 3:14 {Avoid Jealousy} 5) 6:41 {Luxury Dos & Don’ts} 6) 8:16 {Communicate Clearly} 7) 9:54 {Celebrate Personality} 8) 11:00 {Don’t Look Down on Differences} 9) 13:40 {Giving Back to Society} 10) 15:07 {Work on Yourself}

@debbiejoy7 2 ай бұрын

Thank you

@Randomstuff. 2 күн бұрын

Thank you!

@jlbaker1518 2 жыл бұрын

Elegant women are not arrogant. They are comfortable within themselves, without having to set themselves up as an authority.

@Coananlover 2 жыл бұрын

While I agree that elegant woman are not arrogant, I would like to say that arrogance and authority do not necessarily go hand in hand. In my opinion it is not inelegant for a woman to have authority if it is necessary or justified.

@CJ-jq4lv 2 жыл бұрын

There is nothing wrong with being an authority on a particular subject, it is to be admired.

@lubazak636 2 жыл бұрын

That is why Meghan Markle is not truly elegant. She has 3 PR firms working full time trying to make her and Harry seem important. They advertise, throughout the world, anything they do for charity, rubbing it in everyone’s faces. They are not really an authority on anything and are constantly telling others how to live their lives.

@horace6851 2 жыл бұрын

oh, the irony.

@camillefaith2005 2 жыл бұрын

@@lubazak636 I have never seen Megan Markle telling anyone how to live their lives.

@moonlight_staryx 2 жыл бұрын

Literally to the 1% who's reading this, God bless you, and may your dreams come true, stay safe and have a wonderful day.💖

@mskitt49 2 жыл бұрын

@Moonlight Staryx blessings to you too!❤

@mariucastefan8240 2 жыл бұрын

Same to you!!!!😇

@priscamoyesa 2 жыл бұрын

💛

@lizzyo9029 2 жыл бұрын

The same blessing to you as well💓

@emilybjorkman4231 2 жыл бұрын

💗

@Javayba7 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve been an orphan and poor all my life but even as a child I celebrated the great things others had. I have always felt truly happy and excited about the success of others. I enjoy seeing people get beautiful things and I love to rejoice over their blessings! I’m always inspired. God bless the world!

@marisamartin3664 2 жыл бұрын

You have a great (and Biblical ) attitude. I am sure it will get you far in life.

@moneylovehappiness9982 2 жыл бұрын

aww man! you are so sweet. I wish to have people/friends like you in my life :D Stay blessed!

@mrs.hardbazzi 2 жыл бұрын

That's great! I know some orphans who are very bitter, angry, and jealous.

@marriv9325 2 жыл бұрын

You are definitely a true woman of Elegance . You have a beautiful heart and personality.

@MissDaphne.87 2 жыл бұрын

Agreed.

@annagracehilton1410 3 ай бұрын

Remember, elegance does not come overnight, it takes years to know the rules, to internalize them, and to make them your own. Don't be fake or try to force yourself to be a certain way that you are not yet, take your time, meditate on the precept in front of you, and do the next right thing. Do not be impatient with yourself.

@ramyagandhi5251 2 жыл бұрын

Being 19 yrs old and learning these lesson is really helpful and really get good impact while implementing it😘

@kathyalex778 2 жыл бұрын

Same I'm also a teen!

@ramyagandhi5251 2 жыл бұрын

Great

@Helen-wm5ni 2 жыл бұрын

Same I’m 18😊

@andi1902 2 жыл бұрын

same!!!

@user-nn8no8pw1o 2 жыл бұрын

Same! but im 15!

@WASABINIQABI 2 жыл бұрын

Class = Respect Money doesn’t buy class So true

@poisedladydiaries 2 жыл бұрын

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

@dinisibiya7493 2 жыл бұрын

l agree money can never buy class

@chloesismey731 2 жыл бұрын

Luann De Lesseps said it best😂 "Money can't buy you class"🎤😂

@marylou3995 2 жыл бұрын

Just look at Harry and Meg

@justinamusyoka4986 2 жыл бұрын

But majority of ladies with class got money.

@vickiehurt2665 Жыл бұрын

I like to think of myself as a classy lady, but I was taught by my three generations of women that raised me. I especially loved the part where you said ladies don’t do drama and being jealous. That’s me! Thank you for sharing this! ❤

@laggaking Жыл бұрын

Si patron!

@Emiliah1996 8 ай бұрын

But im so jealous of beautiful smart and wealthy people, Im such a loser compared to them. How could you not be jealous ever?

@kimichan5 Жыл бұрын

I wish every woman would watch this video and take it to heart. This is such an important message ❤

@mirjacobs 2 жыл бұрын

One of the secrets of Anna's success (and one of the reasons why she deserves it so much) is her inclusiveness. On her channel, she models how to be non-judgemental and this the best version of elegance that there is.

@kingwilliams8393 2 жыл бұрын

Yes exactly 😊

@kingwilliams8393 2 жыл бұрын

Hi how are you doing today hope you’re having a wonderful day

@simplelifeofrouge 2 жыл бұрын

I always notice that...so true!

@nicolemanuel1822 2 жыл бұрын

Very true

@florr756 2 жыл бұрын

Well said

@HN-li5cf 2 жыл бұрын

I just love how Anna emphasizes that being beautiful and classy has nothing to do with how much your pockets are filled. Too many people mistaken economic status for true class...

@shannap.lawnerd125 Жыл бұрын

Exactly this. Many also fail to realize that any amount of “followers” =/= class or status. I would equate this to pie crust popularity; easily made & easily broken. Money can absolutely buy things that could make it easier to achieve a higher social standing… but if you fail to continue to educate yourself as you rise up that social ladder 🪜, the fall from grace will be a swift- & probably painful- one. Stay safe out there, be blessed!!🤓🤘🏽💋🔮⚖️

@b.d.8612 Жыл бұрын

The best example are the kardashians

@loganthompson5374 Жыл бұрын

That’s amazing ❤

@reabetsweimanmoabi7911 Жыл бұрын

Yea there are scores of people with money but NO ELEGANCE , NO CLASS.

@curiositiesdygest 6 ай бұрын

@@b.d.8612who?!

@viktoriiabittersweet1343 11 ай бұрын

"Ultimate elegance is when you can really accept everyone in their shape, sizes of forms, and never impose your own beliefs onto someone else" . This is the best thing I have ever heard ❤️ Thank you!

@redfirebelle Жыл бұрын

I don’t want to sound vain or conceited, but after hearing this I realize I’ve always been and strived to be elegant naturally, it’s part of me. All these points apply since I was young and what I’ve faced when learning about the world. I thought I was weird haha but now it makes sense. Glad this puts perspective on it.

@ALaxmanM 2 жыл бұрын

Even though I'm a man, I watch Anna because she too teaches important values that even a man can learn from. I'm glad she spoke about jealousy and how to deal with it. Congratulations on 1 million subscribers!

@marcelinedbrl5932 2 жыл бұрын

Good job 👏🏻

@geisaholopainen 2 жыл бұрын

Me too it's awesome! Class and decency are (or should be) universal values

@themovingaverage7292 2 жыл бұрын

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@gabyfuentes1013 2 жыл бұрын

🔝

@SexyWellness Жыл бұрын

Hats off to you Ajay!

@GermaineNimundel 2 жыл бұрын

I’m telling you, Anna is definitely that older sister some girls didn’t know they needed. I wish I had these guidance when I was in my early 20s. Would have saved me a lot of drama and helped me find my path and my worth.

@Thetwinsxxx 2 жыл бұрын

Me too… 🙌🏻

@ally-mp7cc 2 жыл бұрын

Me too. I didn't even have a mother to look up to.

@cristinachance1569 2 жыл бұрын

Dear Anna, thank you so much for your videos. I would habe been very happy to know all this things when i was younger, early twentys. How about teaching the young ladys about the Saturn Return? Everybody has to deal with that around age 29. Thank you

@zaroyaamjad9192 2 жыл бұрын

Istg sis same

@themovingaverage7292 2 жыл бұрын

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@ms.mariano Жыл бұрын

Thank you for these rules, Miss. I am watching this as 14 years old teenager who wanted to be a sophisticated, yet educated woman in the future. I know it will take many years to become a person who I looked up to, but I'll try to work it out. I manifest! 👠

@kerrieelliott3810 2 жыл бұрын

I am lucky enough to remember my Great Grandmother. She immigrated from Scotland & never had a lot of money but even as a child I recognized she was different. She carried herself with grace & style & was always listening to others. True Class & Elegance ❤️. Thank You for reminding me of that.

@HesterLFurey 2 жыл бұрын

Being genuinely happy for others who do well is actually a great blessing in life.

@Austin-dd5je 2 жыл бұрын

Hester L Furey, good morning how are you doing?

@jameswelsh20221 Жыл бұрын

I honestly love your posts and always enjoy reading them in my lonely spare time. I'm so sorry I invaded your privacy, but I'd love to be friends with someone who could share such sensitive post content, which means you're a woman of integrity. I wanted to add you but sending you a friend request without your consent is inappropriate because I'm a public figure and it wouldn't take much either, I'd appreciate it if you send me a friend request now so we can be friends and text better here on KZfaq🎼😍

@kathyalex778 2 жыл бұрын

Elegance and good deportment is all about STRATEGY. It is a skill and it requires fine tuning. No one is born elegant, it is learned, and anyone can learn it at any age!

@LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau 2 жыл бұрын

That's really good. I love how elegance is open to everyone.

@user-gn4le3pb2b 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, but I also believe a woman can have elegant features

@preciousglory6735 2 жыл бұрын

Like your comments

@sociablechrizel7327 2 жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@toniweston4330 2 жыл бұрын

Hear, hear, I live downtown Charleston, SC. We have these citizens who call themselves the crusties. These women are so elegant in their natural fibered, casual clothes. It's about not trying to hard. Being comfortable in your own skin. Unique is nice.

@Arnella1000 2 жыл бұрын

Happy I came across this. I can breathe a sigh of relief knowing that being elegant,classy,respectful and humble is indeed a good thing. I was always ridiculed and made feel less by many women and men for respecting myself. I was never a follower, always had my own Elegance and it is ok. I was always naturally Elegant even growing up,school didn't even teach me that and well my family taught me somethings too but I just always felt I behaved differently. I can say it was instinctive.

@jameswelsh20221 Жыл бұрын

@marleenverbauwhede906 2 жыл бұрын

You are so right Anna: judging is so immature: who are we to judge? I moved away from this attitude and feel so much better! ❤️❤️

@jameswelsh20221 Жыл бұрын

@jocelynkatz9033 Жыл бұрын

But she judges peoples appearences occasionally, right? Those who look cheap and not put together

@BlackWealthEducation 2 жыл бұрын

I took your advice by changing my appearance as an elegant lady on vacation in NYC. I must admit, I had a LOT of affluent men checking me out. Plus, my friend told me, daily, “You look so elegant!” Thank you for everything….🥰

@nicoeeek.7181 2 жыл бұрын

What things did you change/do to your appearance?

@orangejulia2705 2 жыл бұрын

I agree, elegant women always support other women, never compete or be catty. Women must always support other women!

@vblackwell3347 2 жыл бұрын

I'm very fortunate to be surrounded by beautiful, supportive, trure female friends. There is ONE though, but it seems that always the case.🤔

@hikerhobby1204 2 жыл бұрын

Hum, I don’t support critical, gossiping women.

@laundrybasket2689 2 жыл бұрын

That’s true but unfortunately the vast majority of women are catty and would rather tear down another woman these days.

@Nonamenoneya Жыл бұрын

Class does not equal wealth love that part. Love the whole video honestly, with me getting older I start to see how rude, dark, bitter, and disrespectful people are in the world so I want to be the complete opposite. I need to get on it and level up! Everytime someone sees me I want to be doing better than before inwardly.

@piaruns7928 7 ай бұрын

Same here, it's just so sad that you feel so alienated when you try to be classy and respectful. Should be the other way round actually... And I too think it has something to do with age. Greetings!

@assallahook Жыл бұрын

'Elegant women pick their battles' very well said!

@milaces1323 2 жыл бұрын

Being non judgemental is hard but it's a game changer when you implement it. Great video Anna! 😊😊😊

@IEVAKambarovaite 2 жыл бұрын

Very true. Especially when it comes to someone's behavior. Understanding that everyone is going through something and someone's poor behaviour that seems to be directed towards you, very often is just a reflection of what they're going through. Once you understand this, you don't get trigerred that much. Instead of judgemental you become compassionate.

@kingwilliams8393 2 жыл бұрын

Yes you're very right

@themovingaverage7292 2 жыл бұрын

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@kingwilliams8393 2 жыл бұрын

@@themovingaverage7292 what’s that?

@lilijay2444 Жыл бұрын

@@kingwilliams8393 2

@kenneth6102 2 жыл бұрын

I'm subscribing for my 5 year old daughter to watch as she grows up. This video is not about elegance, this talk is about decency.

@moondrop3031 2 жыл бұрын

I agree so much on that. I also told my 9 year old daughter about Anna. I wish to raise her with good manners and a good heart.

@birgittabirgersdatter8082 2 жыл бұрын

It is about elegance! Also decency.

@christineho4977 2 жыл бұрын

And decency is elegant. 😊

@fxtinexclusive 2 жыл бұрын

For me and for my daughter too. She is 6 years old. Honestly I grew up being so insecure about so many things. So here I am learning and in progress... 🌻

@fxtinexclusive 2 жыл бұрын

@@moondrop3031 hello. Good to know that I’m not the only one doing this. We actually watched Anna’s video together whenever we have time. And she’s learning.

@LibraMoonScorpioSun 2 жыл бұрын

"Elegance...is a personal style." ~Anna Bey This vlog resonates with me completely. I especially appreciate your view on discreet philanthropy. It's truly better to give than receive. Thank you for sharing your journey!

@curiositiesdygest 6 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@SweetSoberCaroline Жыл бұрын

The specific emphasis you placed on differentiating elegance and superiority is so important. It's the epitome of class to know that you don't exist to compare or compete but to simply shine in your own right. Such a stunning take.

@jadinblackmountain 2 жыл бұрын

I’m a plain Jane, and I choose to live a “normal” life. I’ve been in the high society circle and it wasn’t for me, but elegance is universal. I love this channel and Anna Bey!

@whitelilycalla 2 жыл бұрын

You are not plain, you are a beauty:):)

@tashaneuhaus 2 жыл бұрын

I am not meant for the high society life either ! I couldn’t stand it

@kingwilliams8393 2 жыл бұрын

Yes a normal life is a good life😊

@jadinblackmountain 2 жыл бұрын

@@whitelilycalla likewise my love 🥰

@kingwilliams8393 2 жыл бұрын

@@jadinblackmountain Hello how are you doing today I hope you’re having a wonderful day

@joyceawesome1705 2 жыл бұрын

Elegance = discretion! Wealth != Class Elegance = building a better version of yourself Anna, thanks for all you do.

@bellerose3528 2 жыл бұрын

@@ERLM != means not equal to

@jameswelsh20221 Жыл бұрын

@erpollock 2 жыл бұрын

She is a very effective communicator. And she emphasizes important character traits. Respect, no drama, being inspired by your friends' success. She is very creative in her presentations.

@MarieTSmith-rx3vt 2 жыл бұрын

Anna, your dress is so beautiful on you, the color and the style! I love your videos!

@kellykade 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! Elegant woman are not jealous I never really understood jealousy… there’s enough to go around there’s enough success to go around if you don’t have it go get it or sometimes it just wasn’t meant for you. Overall this was a great video! Thanks Anna💜

@sekermavi101 2 жыл бұрын

Sometimes I cant stop being jealous. I never treat them badly though. Many women treat other women badly cuz they are jealous

@MC-gq5ms 2 жыл бұрын

Kelly kade. You have an unusual attitude. Good that you think this way! I commend you. I’ve come a long way in this area, but wish I’d matured sooner. ( and still have a way to go. ). Thank you for your comment.

@dfinite4089 2 жыл бұрын

Many elegant women are extremely jealous. They may not show it in an honest way, it can be viciously destructive in a passive aggressive way, or social way.

@kellykade 2 жыл бұрын

@@MC-gq5ms no problem! I wasn’t trying to be cocky or anything but maybe it was just the way I was brought up but I definitely want to encourage others that if you truly want it to go out and get it there’s nothing wrong with being inspired by others to make you want to go out and get your own. I hope all the best for you. There’s room to grow with everything. I have things I have to work on in different areas. We can do it! Yes to learning and refining ourselves, that’s what life’s all about💜💜

@TimeLapse54321 2 жыл бұрын

I'm so grateful that even though we did not always have money, my father raised me with a lot of class. Etiquette and manners have always been extremely important to him and I'm glad I picked up those good habits as a child. They flow so naturally now as an adult.

@ah5721 2 жыл бұрын

you have been blessed!

@angelaalderson3938 2 жыл бұрын

I'm just as grateful for tho same reason....stay safe💌

@naiomiereyes4287 2 жыл бұрын

My mother should taught me this but they call it "pabebe"

@AkinyiPauline 2 жыл бұрын

When it comes to giving back, Elegance is discretion! I love that. Good work, Anna. Very insightful tips as always. ❤️

@cara0405 2 жыл бұрын

It is lovely how Anna expresses the point that elegance can be exuded in every lifestyle from minimalist, modest, and more extravagant. It feels important for ladies to choose to appreciate how all individuals have a way of life that makes them happiest, and the value of polished character can stand out in ANY environment.✨

@jameswelsh20221 Жыл бұрын

@xxxConanexxx 2 жыл бұрын

The not being involved in Drama part is sooooooooo true.

@arushityagi219 2 жыл бұрын

Byfar the best video Anna has ever created . Literally portrays a perfect elegant behaviour!

@kingwilliams8393 2 жыл бұрын

I love this video 😊

@mompreneurlife Жыл бұрын

❤ you are so right. Money doesn’t buy class ❤

@tamsenbrodin5819 2 жыл бұрын

I stumbled upon this video after ending a very drama-filled relationship last week. I can’t thank you enough. I’m focusing on myself now and this is just reinforcing everything I am feeling.

@dominiquetheeasyminimalist 2 жыл бұрын

Anna, I’m amazed at how much you have evolved. When you started this channel you were advocating for enjoying the finer things in life, almost as if you are not enough if you don’t or you can’t. Now you make it clear that it’s not what defines us, and it’s not meant to show off and look down on others. It’s an upgrade to our life, it brings us joy. Bravo Anna, I’m enjoying your content even more because I feel like you bring depth to the transformation journey. It’s not always about money, I learned respect and good manners when I was a little girl in an average middle class family. I encourage all the mommy Ladies out there to transmit those values to their children, it’s a good foundation 😊

@vblackwell3347 2 жыл бұрын

Ita with your comments. It reflects my exact thoughts. I don't think Anna would have made it to a million subs without the subtle changes she's made. I guess that proves she practices what she preaches. Anna puts a lot of thought into presenations. She deserves continued success & growth. 👏👏

@user-pz2vk9yw6h 2 жыл бұрын

Agreed with you both. I think she has taken the negative responses and misunderstandings she has experienced and learned how to better define and communicate her beliefs and intentions. Which is an excellent model on how to grow as a person.

@horace6851 2 жыл бұрын

idk, I did notice the shift in the narrative in this video, and I truly appreciate it. But considering that less than 2 months ago she uploaded what essentially was a bullying video about Zara, I still think she has a long way to go. I tend to be distrustful of people like her, so it will take much more than one sensible video for me to believe she "practices what she preaches".

@KALIVireshwara 2 жыл бұрын

Manners taught at home from a young age can go very far and is one of the best gifts you can give your children 💯

@rosegallus4048 2 жыл бұрын

@@horace6851 She just flows with the wind. It's about money.

@Merelvanpoucke 2 жыл бұрын

Yes! I love that you spoke about being open minded and non judgemental, that's so important!

@iirynaiiryna 2 жыл бұрын

And not being jealous for other success)

@kingwilliams8393 2 жыл бұрын

Yes😊 How are you doing today I hope you’re having a wonderful day

@melissasimic6061 2 жыл бұрын

I wasn't expecting the messages that you said but I adore all these useful tips, especially the part about not judging others who are different from you or feeling superior. I feel that's really important and I'm happy you mentioned it. Great channel! 😊

@Vicki1951 2 жыл бұрын

Dearest Anna, I personally want to thank you for all your encouragement, knowledge, and advice. I have not taken the elegant quiz yet but I look forward to doing so. I’m curious as to what type of elegant I am. I do practice most of what you advise all women to do but I do have a few items that need some work. Again, thank you for bringing these to the forefront instead of being delusional while pretending they do not exist. Much love and I enjoy your videos. Please keep them coming to all of us. Vicki❤️

@terrijamison9154 2 жыл бұрын

My husband told me long ago that I am classy. He said, just like his mom. I have always cherished that compliment.

@cascade3769 Жыл бұрын

Why would he say the woman he is sleeping with is just like his mom? You gotta wonder... 🤷‍♂️

@historiqueafricaine1225 Ай бұрын

That's a great compliment

@womenwhodate7643 2 жыл бұрын

The people you surround yourself with have a massive effect on what you become.. This is so true. Negative people will make you negative, succesful will push you forward, toxic will do what they are good at etc. Love the content, keep it up! ❤️

@savedsinner0345 2 жыл бұрын

I once heard someone say that you are the sum of the 5 closest people to you.

@mariemunzar6474 2 жыл бұрын

unfortunately not possible to just up and leave toxic people behind. especially when they are family and you live under the same roof.

@themovingaverage7292 2 жыл бұрын

📩👈🏼①③①⑥⑤④②①⓪⑨①

@laundrybasket2689 2 жыл бұрын

Not just so called negative people. It’s mostly dramatic people, people who speak with slang and can’t speak a sentence without using derogatory language, being on edge to fight at any moment. Those types are awful.

@fishbuffalo18 10 ай бұрын

Anna, this is a beautiful list. Elegance is heart, soul and humane. I'm so glad you did this video list. People sometimes loose themselves in appearances and miss the values of substance.

@Sweet_Ghoul 2 жыл бұрын

Anna you're absolutely amazing. You are one of the few who upgraded yourself and keeps a humble and profoundly true image. Most brazilian women who teach elegance became very very snobbish after reaching a certain "money" level and now look down on us who are still learning and criticize hardly the mistakes we still make - and that they used to do too. "Elegance is discretion." You are fantastic!

@emmax0000 2 жыл бұрын

My interpretation of plain Jane and average Joe is anyone not working on themselves. It could be anybody that just doesn’t care about being a better version of themselves physically, mentally, intelectual, etc. regardless of their social and wealth status

@a.b.2405 2 жыл бұрын

Yes! Exactly what I think about these terms!

@missanajit 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly, I’ve meet significant amount of people that are financially wealthy, but overall are just another plain Jane & Joe.

@simplelifeofrouge 2 жыл бұрын

Yes exactly...

@celesterobles2089 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!

@jemmapinnington6474 2 жыл бұрын

I love this. I assumed it was about social and wealth status. But your comment fits perfectly. ✨💯💃🙏

@aritradutta08 2 жыл бұрын

Love your videos, expecting these videos as well 1. Elegant voice 2. Elegant lifestyle 3. Elegant habits 4. Elegant hairstyles/cuts

@jitkavesela3792 2 жыл бұрын

Elegant home... 😁

@mw8142 2 жыл бұрын

@@lantanalanta1709 my theory, elegant women are not loud.

@ivyvelez2167 2 жыл бұрын

My favorite video of yours Anna Bey. Watching this video made reflect on myself. As she pointed it’s not just dressing the part. I feel like dressing elegant is easier vs having the qualities she suggests we have in this video. Having the correct attitude with ourselves and also with others really does makes people stand out in my eyes. That confidence without belittling those around you is golden.

@LelySusanti 2 жыл бұрын

Love this content! Being elegant is a matter of choice. May not be for everyone, but to whoever wants to keep becoming better version of themselves, Anna's vids definitely have lots of great reminder. The term elegance is just a small label, the further meaning implied in the reminder she gives actually has deeper and much more meaning.. simply to become a better person in each of us, every single day...♥️

@jameswelsh20221 Жыл бұрын

@Catty19748 2 жыл бұрын

I trained myself last few years not to be jealous of others (not that I was over jealous person in 1st place) but to be pleased and happy for them instead and even inspired. I found it has been very beneficial to myself most of all. Such valuable great tips here from Anna, every woman should watch this!

@cx_n1 2 жыл бұрын

Fantastic. How did you train yourself to do this? What tips or tools did you use

@Catty19748 2 жыл бұрын

@@cx_n1 I grew tired of the toxicity that jealousy produced the feeling inside was horrible that was first trigger to change. I addressed my insecurities and what I could do about them and realised everyone, and I mean everyone has them. Stop comparing yourself to others- but learn to admire and even aspire. Being able to humble myself was a big part of it too. Being aware I was lucky to have what I already did have in my life. Having this life of gratitude really helped me move on.

@GoodandDelicious 2 жыл бұрын

In Puerto Rico (and I wonder if in Spain as well?), you can tell how people perceive you by if they address you as “dama” (high class or just educated or both) or “señora” (not either or both). I always address everyone as Dama-I wouldn’t dare address anyone as señora. But once a woman snapped at me and said something like, “I’m not a dama, I’m a señora. Unlike you, I’m not educated.” 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I had to respect her honesty.

@angelabayern 2 жыл бұрын

Here in Spain you address women with "Señora", it has nothing to do with the studies or social class, it is respect to all no matter what. In old times, "doña" meant that you have some studies but that is not applicable anymore.

@dawnlight436 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for the advice! ❤️ I'm a teen and it really is a gift to learn about true elegance from you, in a world that unfortunately defines beauty as outward or external only. I feel the majority of teens tend to go in the direction of trying to be cool, wasting their youth by focussing only on their outward look but not on the heart. True beauty however encompasses elegance, respect, politeness, étiquette and so much more.

@bibeejane Жыл бұрын

1. Elegant women are not desperate for men, friends, attention etc. 2. Elegant women show others respect (etiquette, manners..) are compassionate and humble 3. Elegant women do not do drama (if so we pick our fights) 4. Elegant women are not mean- jealous (but use positive-jealousy for our own motivation) 5. Elegant women are not obsessed about luxury and materialistic things but get our value from inside 6. Elegant women communicate clearly and refined (we keep our mind open) 7. Elegant women celebrate their unique personality instead of copying others 8. Elegant women celebrate others differences and do not look down on modesty 9. Elegant women give back to society (i.e. charity/ volunteering) 10. Elegant women work on their emotional self and take ownership of their issues I wish you all great success in remembering and realizing these tips in the moment when you'll need them.

@anamikapa5534 Жыл бұрын

Thnq

@Keezyii 2 жыл бұрын

I did your quizz on Facebook, it motivated me even more. My mom used to buy me elegant clothes when I was 18/19 and it made me look too much older But now that I’m 21 and way much confident, working and all I understand why she was buying me elegant clothes, I see the difference. Your advices and videos made me realize my mom is such an elegant woman and inspiration too ! You always make better and better content, merci Anna ❤️

@MassielMancebo 2 жыл бұрын

This is top level advice given for free!

@camillegreen9326 2 жыл бұрын

Ms. Anna, I could not resist letting you know how happy it made me to hear your expressions regarding #8. Those expressions made me feel proud of you & proud to be one of your subscribers.

@pattimcd3177 2 жыл бұрын

I have changed my life dramatically from where I started. Always learning always growing. Thank you Anna for your nuggets of wisdom.

@mariavg12 2 жыл бұрын

Number 5 really touch my heart. As an s*xual assault survivor it took a long time for me to be conscious about my emotions because of trauma and that affects the way I was developing myself in every aspect of my life. Maybe that's an episode I couldn't forget but now I'm able to continue growing up with confidence an not letting those feelings break me down

@nirishmashakya8219 2 жыл бұрын

I wish you lots of luck.... It must have taken a lot to walk on that path.. More power to you💕

@patdougherty4957 2 жыл бұрын

Use this to spring board you, strengthen you, and move you forward. There is no greater motivation to value yourself and require that of others than as a response to a situation that sacrificed your value. Never again, on your terms from here on in. I wish you peace and healing as you level up!

@deannestjames5590 2 жыл бұрын

Maria, I too suffered at the hands of a sexual abuser. Congratulations on becoming an assault survivor! That assault does not define who you are. YOU define who you are. You took back your power! Impressive… Keep growing! Sincerely, Deanne

@deannestjames5590 2 жыл бұрын

I truly value your transparency, it directly reflects your healing. We are not the criminals, so why should we allow our lives to beaten down with shame. Bravo 👏

@ibtissamfawzi416 2 жыл бұрын

I am a plain Jane and i am happy & fulfilled! Yet I consider myself feminine and elegant and I love your channel !!

@samekajones462 2 жыл бұрын

I’m so happy I decided to do a game on Facebook that I rarely do and it brought me to your KZfaq channel. In 2022 I see a lot of negative mindset about what is appropriate and not. I thank you! May the host High bless you and you continue to educate other teen women an adult women as well. It’s never to ⏰ late. Love from the 🇺🇸

@dinablack6570 2 жыл бұрын

I just feel blessed being a part of your community Miss Ana. Thank you for your efforts empowering women the elegant way😊💗

@glamdawling 2 жыл бұрын

Agreed on the secrecy of philanthropy, Anna. Even though I am excited about the charity and volunteer work that I have done, I rarely talk about it. I mention what I’ve done to family or friends sometimes but it’s never a prolonged topic of discussion. I think that I would come off as a braggart if I started to do nothing but talk talk talk about the things that I have done. I prefer to keep much of my efforts down low.

@vblackwell3347 2 жыл бұрын

I mention it only when I think thete's a chance the person may be interested in getting involved in it too, or when a particularly tragic situation bothers me to the point that I need to talk through it with someone who cares about me.

@missg8861 2 жыл бұрын

This is very helpful to watch while going through a very rough mental health period. I haven’t had any self-confidence and have not been living up to my potential. Seeing videos like this motivates me to start treating myself and others with more respect.

@kingwilliams8393 2 жыл бұрын

Hi how are you doing today I hope you’re having a wonderful day

@nzuzothwala9683 2 жыл бұрын

Love and light 🌻🤗

@nancyinthegarden3160 2 жыл бұрын

Hello to everyone I listen this bc it’s very honest instruction coming from a stranger so there’s no personal association to anyone. I’m 66 and I had no upbringing except by my sisters who also didn’t have a Mother to coach, teach, guide. We’re all in a journey Andy hopefully never done learning until our time is done. We need to work on ourselves, our spirit, soul, character traits before we look outside at others. None of us are together all the time. I say, take time to go in with your problem. Write it down what your thoughts and feelings are so you may come to an understanding of the situation that you truly understand, not your friend, sister or co worker. If it happened to you, then you have the true pic. Take time to sort issues out I. A beautiful place away from distractions, interruptions, and be with yourself. It’s so necessary to grow bc we’re always becoming someone new while we’re growing wiser. God bless you

@kingwilliams8393 2 жыл бұрын

@@nancyinthegarden3160 thanks

@joanmyron 2 жыл бұрын

You're teaching true values in this video, thank you Anna! ❤️

@Sjskdlqba777 2 жыл бұрын

I love coming to the comments section and reading all of your positive experiences with your transformational journey. You all inspire me every day, and I enjoy knowing that I am not alone embarking on this journey and that there is a million of us out there. The finer things in life are a rarity, and although sometimes we may feel like we are alone on this path, it’s exhilarating to know that true feminine ladies with refined class and sophistication still exist in this world. Thank you Anna for the invaluable work that you do ❤️

@user-sg5tr6jt3y 2 жыл бұрын

💗💗💗

@angellekriedt 2 жыл бұрын

It’s rare to find women like us in this world but that’s why we treasure our hearts and selves and value ourselves 💖😌 and your right the self love journey may be more lonely but it’s necessary if we want to be happy in life !

@jameswelsh20221 Жыл бұрын

@vickit4599 2 жыл бұрын

I bought a dress very similar to the one Anna’s wearing in this video but in emerald green. I went out with my partner and had so many compliments on it. I even had a women come to my table and tell me how nice I looked and how much the dress suited me. I’d never met her before. I bought the dress with Anna in mind 🙂. Thank you for your advice 💖

@aminakahara6034 2 жыл бұрын

Where did you get the dress from?

@janiehoyt5232 2 жыл бұрын

I have a linen dress like this with a full skirt. I found it a couple years ago. It only came in black and white, but I love wearing them.

@07loshi 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for pointing out that elegance is not just how you behave or wear, its also about how you think and feel! this was really powerful thank you again for sharing such an inspirational video Anna

@mogmateria5134 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video! Such an eloquent reminder that true elegance comes from within, and it is ultimately about respecting and valuing people! This made my day!

@sarahh.8579 Жыл бұрын

Great advice for everyone regardless of financial status. Thank you Anna for this content. In a society where much of this isn't taught regularly anymore, you are helping to make the world a better place!

@Ana_Ines3420 2 жыл бұрын

Dear Anna, you promote exactly what my elegant ancestors taught me (granny, mummy as well as my teachers at French nuns' school). Thank you so much for refreshing these teachings. I believe Envy Is what shows lack of class the most.

@ira_herself997 Жыл бұрын

Envy and lust in women...which I think lust comes from envy but it's a little bit directed towards what men have and these women want to "own".

@Ana_Ines3420 Жыл бұрын

You are absolutely right, mixed with greed.

@peytonplace3335 2 жыл бұрын

That “blue” is your color! You always look gorgeous, but that color blue is amazing with your skin tone and your hair. Amazing video! You’re always right on target with what (esp. young) ladies need to know about the world. Thank you.

@shelleacekrolczyk1160 2 жыл бұрын

Wear did she get that dress

@TMHighisTrulyGreat Жыл бұрын

Wow! You are right on! Thank you for showing women what true elegance is and for showing the women who aren’t yet elegant, how to become elegant.

@minhngoc8387 2 жыл бұрын

Love you Anna ❤️ these etiquettes are of high moral and understanding values, they encourage people to be kind, be generous and to increase their true self-worth, love themselves and also other people ❤️

@MsLucky443 2 жыл бұрын

👍🏻True, class does not have to do with money.

@jag5798 2 жыл бұрын

“Does not show drama” - that leaves out all the Housewives of all those reality shows.

@Totalchaos0228 2 жыл бұрын

No elegant woman is on reality TV 😂🤣

@28761d 2 жыл бұрын

@@Totalchaos0228 Perfectly and truthfully said👏👏

@miladabravenec14 2 жыл бұрын

@@Totalchaos0228 TOTALLY AGREE

@m.c.8877 2 жыл бұрын

@@Totalchaos0228 Yes that is not they way of life. Drama equals premature aging. I don't watch shows like that either because it is not educational.

@ZoeysMusings 2 жыл бұрын

Elegant women are not drama queens. Beautifully done video 👏🏽

@jenbradleymoms211 2 жыл бұрын

You expressed each of these points so beautifully! I’m a new subscriber and am thrilled to find your uplifting content. This is my favorite video yet! Thank you!

@aprilapril5462 2 жыл бұрын

I love how Anna empowers women- and incorporates varies ethnic groups in her videos 💕

@renegaderogue6310 2 жыл бұрын

I've started my elegant journey. The past two days I've spent more time getting ready and making a conscious effort. It's hard for comfy me but I'm doing it and I've enjoyed the awesome compliments from people. Wearing good clothes and being presentable is beneficial to everyone. I experience my days differently now.

@itsmeGeorgina 2 жыл бұрын

😎

@nzuzothwala9683 2 жыл бұрын

I totally get you, being a comfy girl myself, I try elevate my outfits in my own way. I'm still learning to accept compliments

@renegaderogue6310 2 жыл бұрын

@@nzuzothwala9683 are you from Mzanzi? I am. 😊 Hi!!! Yes ... we can dress elegantly AND love the compliments. Remember we are raising our self worth. YOU are worth it.

@nzuzothwala9683 2 жыл бұрын

@@renegaderogue6310 Yes🌻🌻

@renegaderogue6310 2 жыл бұрын

@@nzuzothwala9683 Happy Heritage Day. 💛

@jillianfontanasomm 2 жыл бұрын

# 8 Not Looking Down on Others!!!! ❤️ Thank you for bringing up this point!

@leoninavictoria8024 Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much ❤ This opened my eyes tremendously. Being elegant is not only dressing nicely, walking pretty and having fancy word in your vocabulary. It has to do more how you treat your self, how much you love yourself and others; we’re all one, we are the same. Some of us awake some others not yet. I have to see again your video and pay closer attention. Thanks ❤

@itsmelbalmelike1038 2 жыл бұрын

Anna I just want to thank you for helping me develop myself. I have been watching your videos for a year and whenever I meet a man; they compliment how feminine and elegant I am. You completely impact my energy❤️ and I just want to tell you that yesterday my man gave me a ring, you helped me a lot in this journey! Lots of love from istanbul❤️

@melanieorock4810 2 жыл бұрын

Woww! Congratulations

@thandicandy5452 2 жыл бұрын

😀

@thegardenofeve 2 жыл бұрын

Amazing! Congratulations 💝💝💝

@patiencemakungu1 2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations😍😍

@Sjskdlqba777 2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations!!! P.s. I’m in love with Istanbul 😍

@oddeven327 2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations Anna for 1M🥳 I always look up to you thank you for everything!!

@marinetteesguerra7460 Жыл бұрын

I love elegance in all aspect and Miss Bey does a good job educating women on this topic.You're one in a million, Miss Bey!

@actualwakandangirl7121 2 жыл бұрын

I really appreciate this, especially when it comes to being open minded to those who are different. I truly despise people who show off and or look down on others due to financial and social status.

@quickgirl80 2 жыл бұрын

I love how Anna points out that at some point in our lives we damage ourselves & that we need to take responsibility for it & work on ourselves. A lot of people point the finger at others for their misfortune, but at the end of the day, the only way one can overcome the past is to take responsibility for where they are right now & know the way to improve is to work on yourself. When we do that everything else will fall into place.

@okorocomfort6743 2 жыл бұрын

Maybe she doesn't always

@deniseconnors8124 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for empowering women and trying to bring elegance to the world. The reality is that people have become too casual, too crass, and do not take care of themselves. We must set a good example for the future generation!

@Shadywolf09 Жыл бұрын

I feel like I strived to be classy since I became an adult, but I find myself slipping back into starting drama and not caring about how I come across or how I look. Depression. However, I am naturally drawn towards elegance and want to get rid of this bitterness within me from depression. I was raised to be classy and it seems I have lost myself within the last few years with who I used to be and how I was taught to be. It's within me, I just have to get back to it and this video has helped so much. I will get back to my true self now, a classy person with my morals again, and do better for myself and others. Thank you so much for helping me.

@Jamie-lt8rw Жыл бұрын

Your videos are rare gems, Anna. Thank you so much for all that!

@jusilva3559 2 жыл бұрын

As a young lady in my 20's i just have to say: Thank you for everything. My life changed in a such way that i'm not capable to explain thanks to your advices. A huge life changing in my life, i'm almost crying now. Thank you honey. Girl from Brazil. 🇧🇷♥

@dg-qn5mi 2 жыл бұрын

South African here and I feel the same

@divinefiles 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for transforming my life. I had been a raggy girl but now I got so inspired (though just16) but I felt the need of elegance in my life.Thank youuu

@teesworld1267 2 жыл бұрын

I like that she spoke about people who don't want to live an elegant life and just find joy in the basic things of life. That really resonates with me. I don't think I want to be "elegant" but I do pick and learn a lot of things from what she has said. Like learning how to chanel your jealousy into something positive or working on yourself and knowing what you want. I mean every lady should embrace that💯💯 But personally I want and love to enjoy life in a carefree manner without having to worry about breaking "some rules that show class"