15 UNFAIR ADVANTAGES Attractive People Have
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In this Alux.com video we will be answering the following questions:
What are the five components that make up an unfair advantage?
How do you get unfair advantage?
What is the most unfair advantage a person can have?
What is unfair advantage in lean canvas?
What is unfair advantage supplement?
Is an unfair competitive advantage?
What does obtaining unfair advantage mean?
How do you accept that life is unfair?
What are some examples of unfair advantage?
What is an attractive person?
What percentage of people are attractive?
What are unattractive facial features?
Does attractive mean pretty?
How do I know if I am attractive?
What percent of guys do girls find attractive?
Do most people think they're attractive?
Who are the most attractive?
Is being attractive better than pretty?
What a man wants in a woman?
00:00 - Intro
00:20 - Physically attractive people are more employable
01:03 - Beautiful people are happier
01:54 - They’re more confident
02:39 - Physically attractive people are perceived to be better at their jobs
03:12 - Attractive people are perceived to be more honest and trustworthy
03:49 - The Halo Effect
04:30 - Scientists believe pretty people are smarter
05:24 - Beauty and politics go hand in hand
06:04 - Attractive people are more likely to get a loan
06:49 - They earn more money
07:37 - Height and weight also influence earning potential
08:17 - Attractive women perform better academically
08:54 - Good-looking CEOs bring better stock returns for their companies
09:41 - Attractive teachers have better success with their students
10:13 - The “s*x factor” helps attractive people go further in many fields
10:49 - Question
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@geocyo8835 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this, Alux. This is going to be one of my favorite videos. This is unbiased confirmation.
@sadephillips9645 3 жыл бұрын
There are people and scientists who think black people are unattractive does this mean racism is okay? I’m a black person btw.
@swatantrasoni1142 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I do agree with this research
@Manuel-gu9ls 3 жыл бұрын
Showing pictures of attractive models in instagram and everyone will lose their mind.... Sister including
@kimoramicheal8353 3 жыл бұрын
😮
@darkpoetik5375 3 жыл бұрын
My dad always said, " If you have an unfair advantage, use it ! "
@BINARYmotivationaltamil 3 жыл бұрын
bad dad
@QueenJuliana89 3 жыл бұрын
Your Dad is right
@BINARYmotivationaltamil 3 жыл бұрын
@@QueenJuliana89 cunning
@mindfulldonjuan5495 3 жыл бұрын
@@BINARYmotivationaltamil privileges gives you leverage. If you're in a middle class right now, I think it's unfair for the kids in Africa right. *Bad you* unless you're poor too... like starving Africa poor.
@BINARYmotivationaltamil 3 жыл бұрын
@@mindfulldonjuan5495 gratitude
@andreblackaller3560 3 жыл бұрын
I always say that going to the gym and being fashionable makes a significant difference on how society treats you, don’t think of it as vanity as opposed to an investment.
@zairnermuller4960 3 жыл бұрын
Depends on the type of clothing you're buying
@blessall8856 3 жыл бұрын
Agree that it does go a looong way.
@nataliabae3149 3 жыл бұрын
A lot of people think fashion is just buying the most expensive brands. It really is just knowing flattering colors, patterns and silhouettes for your natural appearance. “True beauty begins when you choose to be yourself.” - Coco Chanel
@alexnoor7689 3 жыл бұрын
Who said that advantages must be FAIR? huh? UNFAIR ADVANTAGES are voice of the nature and absolutely saint thing. Amen!
@andreblackaller3560 3 жыл бұрын
@@nataliabae3149 90% of my clothes come from thrift shops, it forces you to come up with your own style and trust your taste.
@sourishsaha8067 3 жыл бұрын
This is true. Most people just try to avoid this or pretend it doesn't exist
@alexnoor7689 3 жыл бұрын
Who said that advantages must be FAIR? huh? UNFAIR ADVANTAGES are voice of the nature and absolutely saint thing. Amen!
@ximmanate2154 2 жыл бұрын
If you accept this we just turn back to the era of ancient times where ugly babies were thrown away to the pits because they are extras. Wanna live again by the laws of jungles in the world where your actions will not matter coz “you are not beautiful enough”?
@sourishsaha8067 2 жыл бұрын
@@ximmanate2154 I am saying we need to accept it so that people understand that looking good isn't a talent or ability. Till we keep saying stuff like Looks doesn't matter on the outside and keep simping for them we will be fixated on the superficial side of people
@Moesie 2 жыл бұрын
@@sourishsaha8067 beaty is objective, looks matter, for women and men, even more for women. but they always deny this. Usually because they're insecure about their own appearance and hate to talk about this topic. its a wasta of time to tebate them, they ignorance honestly
@user-zy4tf9id1m 2 жыл бұрын
natural selection, better looking ppl survive and reproduce. And the human race looks better
@IglooDweller 2 жыл бұрын
At a casino I used to go to, there was an average-looking receptionist who'd been working there for ages and ages. A GORGEOUS new girl joined and started as a receptionist alongside her. I swear, it was no more than 2 weeks before the new girl was promoted to a hostess who showed customers around individually. I felt so bad for the first girl.
@flawless_undergoer Жыл бұрын
Prettiness /handsomeness always wins and ugliness /plain-looks always lose in the human reality.This is a law of nature and always will be.
@goldpank5926 Жыл бұрын
I mean, on a technical level, you want your host to be charming so it attracts more people in. So you can say that being beautiful was also on the "qualifies" for the promotion. I mean, still unfair, because even if the new girl didn't appear, they wouldn't have promoted her, at least into a hostess.
@alyssajones4368 Жыл бұрын
That's fucked up.
@giantorres3352 Жыл бұрын
Humans are still animals at the end of the day. We can't change our biology.
@whatsupbabygirl433 6 ай бұрын
Life is unfair and I like it
@rickc.3552 3 жыл бұрын
Some of the most beautiful people have the most crippling insecurity issues.
@alux 3 жыл бұрын
That’s right..
@Thebluewidesky 3 жыл бұрын
It is the best when you are just attractive not mind blowing becuse it will make issue about your identity some times
@rickc.3552 3 жыл бұрын
@Nini: that’s incorrect. Have you ever been on Instagram?? Those people are the thirstiest for like and followers. Some even delete posts if they don’t get the amount of likes they want. You have to read between the lines. I was a model scout for 2 major agencies for 12 years and I saw the worst of the worst.
@amalitad6459 3 жыл бұрын
@@proudcat9335 they aren't happiest if they are looking good from outside not from inside. Presentable to the outer world isn't something helpful for the people around the attractive ones
@amalitad6459 3 жыл бұрын
Yes.. and they looks they are trustworthy, but in reality most of them aren't. They feel people always use em
@gummy5795 3 жыл бұрын
I think i’m attractive now, cuz i never make a baby cried and they always come up to me faster than other people. Thank you babies for boosting up my self confidence 😂
@user-ez8fz4ti1m 3 жыл бұрын
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@shannonjohnson4314 3 жыл бұрын
Babies tell the truth
@kyliCatherine1 3 жыл бұрын
Social anxiety cancels out a lot of these advantages
@HealthandHarmony209 3 жыл бұрын
Couldn't agree more
@nataliabae3149 3 жыл бұрын
A lot of attractive women start getting catcalled at a young age. This leads to social anxiety and inability to look people in the eye.
@grantgants6575 3 жыл бұрын
No it doesn’t. Having social anxiety doesn’t remove the halo effect people view attractive people under.
@Shroomade 3 жыл бұрын
Fact
@jost1101 3 жыл бұрын
@@grantgants6575 It depends
@PaulClipMaster 3 жыл бұрын
Deep down, everyone on earth already knows all of this from childhood if not from birth. The purpose of denying these realities is to protect the frail human ego.
@ximmanate2154 2 жыл бұрын
Wanna live by the law of jungle in society where your actions won’t matter? Good luck, tho))))
@user-iz4rx8gl3z 2 жыл бұрын
agree
@flawless_undergoer Жыл бұрын
@@ximmanate2154 You are right ,but in the true life what have more importance is the good-looks and not the rational behaviour. Sad truth ,but this is the life....so unfair situation...
@ekowapeja 3 жыл бұрын
I think I’m strikingly handsome; My mirror cracks each time I smile at it.
@Shadow-zp9om 3 жыл бұрын
😂 The shade.. Lmao 😂
@ekowapeja 3 жыл бұрын
@@Shadow-zp9om 😜😜
@itgamingke 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@user-mq8el4mf3q 3 жыл бұрын
😆😆
@markitomarkez7575 3 жыл бұрын
Stop using the funny thing 🤣🤣🤣
@CaseyBurnsInvesting 3 жыл бұрын
Keep your skin clear, workout, drink water, you know the truth, use it to your advantage.
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@LowkeiProductions 3 жыл бұрын
i see your comments on conservative twins too lol
@mattconstancio7379 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry to say that bring attractive/good looking is’nt always about having clear face and having a good physique. Having a symmetrical face is a huge factor on being attractive too like your head shape, jawline,eyes,nose and etc. You know it’s not the truth man not all of us are blessed with good genes to begin with!
@yinyangjpy6749 3 жыл бұрын
@@mattconstancio7379 yeah for some people surgery is the only option, you’re good looking btw
@CaseyBurnsInvesting 3 жыл бұрын
@@mattconstancio7379 But you can’t control that without surgery. The average person can’t afford surgery but they can run.
@mamaurax25 3 жыл бұрын
If you’re attractive, use your attractiveness to propel your life and yours’ forward. You didn’t choose to be born like this. You might as well use it.
@blktester 3 жыл бұрын
You don't use it, it just happens. You get the job, you get the raise, you get all kinds of benefits and all one does is be nice and politically correct.
@QuanBrown27 3 жыл бұрын
@@blktester - No it is use it.
@QuanBrown27 3 жыл бұрын
- You 100 percent right 👍!
@blktester 3 жыл бұрын
Attractiveness is not like a flashlight, it can't be turned off. Charm can be, but ones physical features are there. There are people who look better with a certain haircut or style, but naturally born attractiveness won't look worse depending on what you wear or the hairstyle. I learned that when I was 8yo. Everyone thought I was so adorable and cute with bedroom eyes and it hasn't changed.
@yinyangjpy6749 3 жыл бұрын
it’s not a thing that can be used, other people treat you well regardless. Being competent in many things also increases your attractiveness even more
@dystopicstate 3 жыл бұрын
In my experience, it can go both ways. Professionally, when the more attractive person got the job, but couldn't keep up with the work, they soon found themselves looking for another job. On the other side, a not-so-attractive person who had great credentials in a front-facing position was told to basically polish herself up because the potential clients she was pursuing couldn't take her seriously. In other words, "pretty privilege" can get you in the door but it won't get you a seat at the table. Conversely, credentials can get you the seat but you'll be there alone if you look like you don't care about yourself or the job.
@flawless_undergoer Жыл бұрын
Pretty women and handsome men always ,always gain more in life in every field of the life,whislt plain-looking or downright ugly women and men mostly lose because of the presence of the good-looking indiviaduals near them.
@kinga3027 2 жыл бұрын
I used to work as an office receptionist. Every time there was recruitment going on, all the candidates were first approaching me before attending the job interview. And obviously soon I got the message who won- who will be the new employee in the office building. I remember telling my sister : ‘Can you believe that they always choose the most beautiful person…? It cannot be coincidental’. After watching this video I got the point …
@ninjapirate123 Жыл бұрын
Hey I just noticed that people whose names start with the letter K is the most attractive
@briguyinsi 3 жыл бұрын
I can’t disagree with any of this...
@blessall8856 3 жыл бұрын
Based on our personal experience, this video is accurate.
@Ranter-yi9zq 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for spitting truth Alux. I knew this since I was a teen, but your video speaks louder than I do. People come to me and others with BS sugarcoats and they tell me "it's confidence that matters"... but they secretly go for looks before the confidence. A good looking man can sit and do nothing and the women approach the man and not even care about the confidence. One of my best friends is good looking to a lot of women and the women and the same women look at me like im a nobody. Remind yourselves that good looks dont last forever. There's a thing called the wall. when a person hits the wall, it means that they no longer look good and arent desirable. So they lower their standards so that they dont feel alone. and while they are with the person who they find unattractive, they go on social media looking at men/women they really want. Hell no, I'm not with that sh*t. here's what's weird, I'm hispanic (Dominican). Women of the same kind do not find me attractive. They think I'm ugly but refuse to admit. They hedge themselves by calling me “bro”, “you’re a good friend”, and other friend zone crap lol. I realize that some Irish, German, and Native American women are attracted to me though. Don't dwell on unattractiveness too much btw. Dwell on investments and other things that will help you better yourself. I'm all in on crypto and when people in my circle find out my gains, watch them act like they've been attracted to me the whole time smh. F*ck them.
@Kat-id7rz Жыл бұрын
You are good looking.
@MissCharlotteBurley 2 жыл бұрын
I just shared the fact that a bad CUTE kid gets away with everything but let a bad UNATTRACTIVE kid do something wrong and here comes the belt! Which is a different type of abuse! Not fair at all!
@flawless_undergoer Жыл бұрын
Yes ,you are thoroughly right! Good-looks are always forgiven and plain/ugly looks always not forgiven !!!
@bread079 3 жыл бұрын
I like when Alux say the stuff I think..... out loud🤣
@rachel3165 3 жыл бұрын
@@user-ez8fz4ti1m oh yeah like anyone is gullible enough to believe this shit
@ananthim7358 3 жыл бұрын
@@rachel3165 haha dont underestimate ppl ive seen some of them believing this shit before.
@yinyangjpy6749 3 жыл бұрын
@@ananthim7358 but it’s true, this is all backed by studies and evolutionary biology. Unfortunately things are harder when you are ugly or don’t have the aesthetic look that is sought after in dominant society
@Tbatbatba88 2 жыл бұрын
ikr
@Facebodyfx 3 жыл бұрын
My hot looking Economics professor kept me coming to class and made my class so much more enjoyable.
@DoctorOreos 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with this video. And it's straight out truths. Attractive people really do have an advantage on life. But, keep this in mind, it takes hard work to be beautiful, and if you slack on it, out goes the beauty. I know, I worked as a Paramedic, and my squad partner was a new EMT, gorgeous blond with blue eyes. 5'9 and a body, look identical to Seven of Nine (Jeri Ryan). I was so excited as a single man and spend 12 hrs in a squad working and learning more about each other. That's how far that went. As for work, she was a horrible partner. Poor work ethics, poor patient rapport, so frustrating, and thinking because she was attractive, she breezed through EMT school without any major challenges. I rather worked with my old partner who was a female that looked like Mike Tyson. At least she knew her job and was able to help with lifting. :)
@vishizzy 2 жыл бұрын
So you're calling mike Tyson ugly
@DoctorOreos 2 жыл бұрын
@@vishizzy only if Tyson was a female.
@DoctorOreos 2 жыл бұрын
@I Love Brie larson if she looks like Mike Tyson...yes
@peanutbutter7126 3 жыл бұрын
Being attractive is really only an advantage at work if your boss is of the opposite sex. This is especially true for women.
@zindhuzanjo8813 3 жыл бұрын
Noo
@aileen8492 3 жыл бұрын
No
@AveGoddess 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not bisexual, however Good Looking People ALWAYS Get More Loves From Me. Even if they aren't necessarily the funniest or nicest person. But I do believe Beauty does radiate from the inside out🌞👑
@nivuuxx 2 жыл бұрын
yeah, attractive women are much more rewarded than attractive men
@butter5144 Жыл бұрын
No
@taminohimself2901 3 жыл бұрын
Some jobs like being a house maid doesn’t need an attractive person😂😂😂
@flawless_undergoer Жыл бұрын
But even in the field of housekeeping the most good-looking hause maids and haousekeepers are more sought after than the plain-looking ir ugly ones...Unfair world but this is the way if the world -the Good looks always wins ,the Ugly-looks always lose ...
@jayinfluencer 3 жыл бұрын
So true! On the other hand though very attractive people especially women are not taken seriously at first. They have to prove themselves a little bit more depending in what industry to justify the "pretty privilege" hiring. Also pretty women who earn fast money in OF or exotic bars also tend to have slow problems down the road e.g. finding a partner who respects them and not treating them as an "object".
@K9Trixx 3 жыл бұрын
That's where the workplace saying "Not just another pretty face" comes from.
@t-squared6406 3 жыл бұрын
not in places I worked,everybody is the same,you work,you get paid,you don't,well
@proudcat9335 3 жыл бұрын
It depends on the hot woman. If she's proud of her beauty, she'll get respect. But if she can't handle her hotness herself, she's gonna be disrespected. The law works like this.
@alexnoor7689 3 жыл бұрын
Who said that advantages must be FAIR? huh? UNFAIR ADVANTAGES are voice of the nature and absolutely saint thing. Amen!
@md.abidmansoriram6549 3 жыл бұрын
There are few single-edged swords in life.
@austriagiancarlo9433 3 жыл бұрын
As a successful journalist, I feel a bit guilty about the fact that even when the job was over my head at times, I was STILL hired, was given more and better opportunities, got fast tracked for promotions, bonuses etcetera. Babies always smile at me when I look their way. I was taught that "pretty is as pretty does," and raised to be kind and fair to others. Thanks Alux.
@seannixon745 3 жыл бұрын
We ALL have something that gives us an unfair advantage over others. In some it could be looks, others being tall, and a great sense of humor. We just have to find it and use it.
@FlyyGirl1000 Жыл бұрын
That’s for damn sure ‼️. I know I got some type of edge over these chicks
@enlightenedsoul8897 3 жыл бұрын
"It is better to fail in originality than to succeed in imitation."
@erikvalkman9640 3 жыл бұрын
Great one! 😄 I would be very interested to know whom this quote is from? 🤔
@infinitumneo840 3 жыл бұрын
I believe this idea includes the sound of their voice as well. A nice sounding voice pays well.
@blktester 3 жыл бұрын
That's true, you wouldn't believe the number of clients that want to talk to me after discussing deal related matters as a corporate legal professional. When they come to the firm, meeting the man behind the voice is on their to do list.
@nigerianclassic8209 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate!👌
@Cute_Stuffs 3 жыл бұрын
If you are beautiful protect your confidence since you will attract jealous people
@oppophone6853 3 жыл бұрын
Interesting content Alux. Can you please also create a video regarding the disadvantages of being good looking? There are a few examples such as the dripping venom of envy and jealousy that you elicit from other people, the lies and endless gossip, the backstabbing and sabotage,the intrusion to privacy,the mistrust that you get from other people thinking that you would steal their SO, just because that partner struck up a conversation with you,the entitlement that you receive from other people who think that they own you just because they like you, the control and manipulation that other people try to exert towards you trying to use you for clout because they know that other people seeing them with you speaks as a form of validation for them....etc........Thank you.
@supriyaojha8716 3 жыл бұрын
Couldn't agree more 👍👍
@prettynena3102 Жыл бұрын
Well said💯
@MisterBungle 8 ай бұрын
Those are all non-issues. It's all in your head, you just need to have more confidence and focus on yourself and not on what other people think or say. Isn't that what you always tell the unattractive people? The same "advice" can be redirected right back at you.
@user-ob3xv1bf1x 3 жыл бұрын
its all about confidence and working on yourself Their are many people in the world who were born beautiful but their unhealthy lifestyle choice made them ugly And then their are people who were born ugly but they decided to work on themselves and they are attractive now Dont blame what you cannot change start working on yoursef!
@theprabhat7890 3 жыл бұрын
True 💕 just keep improving yourself
@ChroniclesofAJ 2 жыл бұрын
very well said i resonate with the comment
@flawless_undergoer Жыл бұрын
If you are a truly ugly woman or man working and life choices will not help you believe me. The good-looking individuals are always the winners.And even to become a billionaire if you are ugly you always will be achingly aware of this shortciming.
@ibphysicsclassroom Жыл бұрын
Its even worse when you’re ugly and live unhealthy life though
@amarnathk873 3 жыл бұрын
Thank God I'm attractive!
@akhileshroopan7793 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@eugeneochieng4165 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂☠️ the shade
@beladear5588 3 жыл бұрын
yes that's the energy😂
@blktester 3 жыл бұрын
I'm thankful I'm grounded and attractive.
@yinyangjpy6749 3 жыл бұрын
@@blktester hear hear!
@mamaurax25 3 жыл бұрын
Not to be rude but I can attest to this. But at the same time people are very jealous of you. Judge you to be dumb/shallow because of this.
@tiffprendergast 3 жыл бұрын
Yup
@danicegewiss862 3 жыл бұрын
#1 is so true. I had a friend refer me to a job. The guy who did the hiring hired a girl based on her legs. My legs aren't bad, but they're also not great. As I'm aging I'm finding myself more hireable because I have taken care of myself. I guess I look pretty good because higher paying jobs have been easier to find. Years ago, life was harder for me. I was judged much more harshly. I have found good looking teachers are a distraction. I do better with average looking teachers.
@phreshfilly 3 жыл бұрын
Shoutout to the guy with the quote at the end. But it is true that how you present yourself determines how society treats you. I’ve literally been disregarded one day to listened to intently the next day, by simply taking off my durag and adding reading glasses to a semi fresh haircut. 🤷🏾♂️
@tanzyv7280 3 жыл бұрын
Forbes is right, as a child my mom made sure she told me I was beautiful everyday of my life so no man can use it against me in a vulnerable way. I low key cringe at the word and do sarcastic stuff to not seem so “beautiful” 😩😂✨
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@tshireletsommalephane9552 3 жыл бұрын
One issue I found with this lovely video is that because there was no advice or information that states that for one to achieve physical attraction one has to put in the work needed. It is a tiny issue, but there will be people out there will see this video as ammunition to make it so that those "physically attractive" people who may or may not have worked hard to achieve such a status to feel ashamed for it
@deeptisaini4155 3 жыл бұрын
We want a video on good quality fragrances for men and women.
@georgehowelliii5666 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for bringing up the “ Pretty Privilege”; in our world! Great video!!!
@Deepak-jv2ql 3 жыл бұрын
Are the professional certicates from google, IBM are accepted for visa instead of a CS degree? For software engineer job
@techguy375 3 жыл бұрын
I guess I've always known this, but have never thought about it in this detail. The takeaway is to always take steps to maintain your looks & image.
@FlyyGirl1000 Жыл бұрын
It’s a superficial world & all we can do is judge & rank the physical appearance.
@extremegamer619 2 жыл бұрын
It also applies to relationships, there was this girl , really attractive, I helped her and was there for her countless times. I went out of my way to do things for her, I really did care for her, I liked her. I tried so hard to keep her. Then one day an attractive guy she barely even knew ended up sleeping with her. She eventually just cut me of like I’m nothing, all because her eyes were set on him.
@wd4440 2 жыл бұрын
Well you didn't love her in the first place. If you do all of this for a woman is she good looking or not that's not love.
@coldz2526 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry but this the hard pill you have to swallow looks are always important for attraction it's not personality that's BS
@wd4440 2 жыл бұрын
@@coldz2526 Brother I. Am good looking I model and am an actor know what I'm talking about. I work with 8.9/10 women. Of course looks are the first thing you see but you averrage or ugly people put us good looking on a pedestal and complain that life is unfair. Just treat us the same regardless how we look like. And your soul is what is going to make you stay with the person. There was this girl a 9/10 with her boyfriend. Of course he talked to her because she was beautiful we all do it. After a while she showed her real colors and ended up taking his life. It doesen't matter that she was beautiful or ugly. The soul Is more important than look will ever be. Sure looks help you to find a job, it's easier to talk to people but you have no idea of the downsides so don't talk about things you have no idea about and st- op using words like black pill red pill just use the word reality. Beta male.
@coldz2526 2 жыл бұрын
@@wd4440 Ok, the reality is looks are the only reason why people enter a relationship you go on and on about "soul" or "personality" is only after the initial attraction not before you seem to think personality is far greater than looks when in reality you need looks before personality. The example you gave is just proof of that the girl that took his life wouldn't been in that relationship if she wasn't attractive.
@wd4440 2 жыл бұрын
@@coldz2526 You need to learn how to read woman. I never ever ever but ever said that looks didn't matter. And what you said is ridiculous. Most people on this earth are averrage and some of them ugly. Ugly people date too I see plenty of them. Just like averrage people. You have no idea what it is to be good looking. A lot of good looking people are single. Glasses for you are not an option anymore.
@haywoodj 3 жыл бұрын
All I get is workplace rumors & gossip about me & feeling extreme guilt about wanting alone time. Being attractive is nerve wrecking.
@GonZoArt9 3 жыл бұрын
Getting hired for your look can actually backfire if your employer wants to date you or flirt with you and you reject him. So for anyone out there thinking they have all the advantages, don't worry about it.
@markcosby7129 Жыл бұрын
This is so true!!! Most good-looking people can get away with a lot more than a not so good looking person.
@ninjapirate123 Жыл бұрын
Hey I just noticed that people whose names start with the letter K is the most attractive
@alanbradwell5835 Жыл бұрын
So true! See that at my job as well
@anieltolentino7819 3 жыл бұрын
I knew it Alux! I knew it! You were gonna make a video like this. I've always expected this.
@frankchambers2114 3 жыл бұрын
I 100% agree! It's very easy to overlook something like this actually. Thanks, Mom and Dad :)
@X21XXI 3 жыл бұрын
Don't know if this is fact or superstition but, it is said that attractive people won't make a baby cry upon first meeting them, they rather make old people cry( and nothing can make an old person cry, apparently). edit: this is actually the bonus fact, kinda.
@juniusnakampe7352 3 жыл бұрын
None of this info applies when your working at STEM fields. But it does apply in simple shit like marketing and arts fields
@deboraleggerini5729 3 жыл бұрын
Simple shit like business? Wow... No need to comment any further.
@esperanzarobles674 3 жыл бұрын
Attractive personality ..kind heart and humble soul
@bigfan2452 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, personality is more important than looks. If the person is a mean jerk I will end up disrespecting them.
@sisigs4820 2 жыл бұрын
The ideal human being
@coldz2526 2 жыл бұрын
Do you guys seriously believe this looks literally determine your personality if you're quiet and ugly you get called creepy or weird when you're good looking and quiet you get shy, quirky, and mysterious the perception of your personality is based on your looks
@dangie7735 Жыл бұрын
I heard a person say recently, "God has favorites!" We've all seen people and thought 'dang, God spent a lot of time on them'. I've often said the phrase 'God-made' when I see an uncommonly attractive person, I mean a person that looks so beautiful it seems impossible that they didn't go under the knife for their looks...but turns out they are a natural beauty... especially when you see their parents and reality sets in. I am not an attractive person, I've never been called beautiful by the opposite sex or the same sex. I've always gotten the classic, your smart comment...no matter how hard I've tried to be beautiful, wear trend clothes, keep up with current cool language, etc...I'm still just smart. I agree with the unfair pay gap. I'm often overworked vs my more attractive colleagues and looked over for key promotions despite going way above to prove myself. So over time I just stopped caring...and do the bar minimum since I get paid the bare minimum. And I never know anything when the pretty person shows up needing help...I can never help... because if you help them, they'll get the credit and give none of it to you. If I sound a bit bitter...I am...cause in the words of someone else "God has favorites!"
@vineedkumar5170 3 жыл бұрын
I may be not Handsome but i can give Hand to some. - Abdul Kalam Sir
@sanjeevkushwaha4043 2 жыл бұрын
These quotes doesn't work in real life
@moonlightprincess449 3 жыл бұрын
This is not really true I’ve known some pretty girls and good looking guys who have awful personalities.
@kwamebushman606 3 жыл бұрын
"pretty" and beauty are two very different things. Most pretty people are immature, most beautiful people are eloquent which often means they're educated. It's funny how that works out. The truly beautiful aren't 'pretty' ...pretty is cheap and beauty is expensive
@moonlightprincess449 3 жыл бұрын
@@kwamebushman606 they are both the same, but ok
@lorenzolouis7148 3 жыл бұрын
Yes but at first sighte you think they are good persons
@callowayjoe 3 жыл бұрын
Of course there’s outliers and nothing is 100%. It’s statistics not absolute fact
@cherryblossom9226 3 жыл бұрын
Its rare
@MrEOM41 3 жыл бұрын
Glad someone exposed this truth... an attractive person deep downs knows they have an advantage.
@rodneykuda1305 2 жыл бұрын
I took number 1 in my grade 5 class, thanks to Miss Bengula's hugs everytime a student was the higest scoring in a subject hahahaha, number 14 is tried and tested
@tristanthomas5006 2 жыл бұрын
They also live longer. From having better genes, lower suicide rates, get better treatment and they're more motivated to keep themselves healthy. And can even get healthcare faster!
@kiragill23 2 жыл бұрын
Not necessarily, some attractive people once the Beaty fades away they start entering to a crucial moments depression hits , low self esteem get present it’s hard for somebody who used to be attractive to look in the mirror and see nothing but wrinkles .
@russkate88 3 жыл бұрын
In any aspect of life, let's say money, looks and status, the tables can turn, and sometimes in an instant. Something to remember and acknowledge.
@ElMundoDeSam95 2 жыл бұрын
I try to better all those 3 aspects day by day
@Inyosi888 3 жыл бұрын
check 90% of billionairs and tell me if you'll find any beauty or attraction in them...
@mariomorales3482 2 жыл бұрын
They don't need all that money they're pretty.
@Yalla_Habibi_Cat1 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly just look at India's two most richest people they are not so attractive. They are so rich that even bollywood and hollywood actors and popstars perform in their daughter's wedding.😂
@kloisgooden 3 жыл бұрын
Awwww that last quote was just the best 🥰 thanks Alux ✨
@technicalamanullah7019 3 жыл бұрын
Abraham Lincoln laughing in the corner 😂🤣🤣
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@ekowapeja 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@tor9885 3 жыл бұрын
He was 6'4"
@Mychannel-zb1wz 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly, from my experience, more attractive people are less smart, because they got many things in life due to their looks and makes them lazy do put any effort in getting good at something... They may have the advantages of getting hired faster but generally they can't keep the job or anything else, not even relationships.
@sisigs4820 2 жыл бұрын
Relationships especially because attractive people attract fake people, that only love them for their body not them as a person. So the relationship goes downhill quickly because there was never any genuine love in the first place.
@Prabal_shreemod 3 жыл бұрын
This video is so de motivating!💛
@vsreeniketan 3 жыл бұрын
Alux:- unfair advantages for better looking people. The rock:- Am I a joke to you..
@mindfulldonjuan5495 3 жыл бұрын
Somewhere in the video she talked about Tall and Hefty people. For male privileges. Ohw Hefty means *large, bulk, etc.* btw I hope that shed some light on why is the most followed man in the USA (on IG) right now 🙂, have a good 👍🙏🏼 day brother.🤝🏼 #GoodVibes
@CT-yc4gd Жыл бұрын
God damn. I would just fucking kill myself right now if I weren't scared of the eternal void we are all doomed to. I have (had) friends who were a triple A family. Everyone was in some sort of medical field and all of them looked fucking amazing. They busted their asses for their jobs and degrees for sure. But it was like almost every opportunity was just fucking handed to them on a platter. The eldest brother was bitching to me about how women literally begged....begged him...to sleep with them. Meanwhile, I have not had a date in 4 years because of insecurity issues caused by judgements on my physical appearance. And no, it's not cause I'm fat. I'm way too thin and any muscle gained is lost in fucking weeks.
@rentospropertymanagementso4895 3 жыл бұрын
Strange but true and must agree. Thank you.
@sisigs4820 2 жыл бұрын
I guess one advantage for people that society could perceive as ugly is that it's easier most of the time to maybe find genuine relationships with people because if they are treating you with love and respect, that love and respect is genuine, not based on human nature or human instinct. However someone could be using you if they think you will benefit them somehow but if that ain't the issue the love is likely genuine.
@missunique5227 3 жыл бұрын
If you’ve been through the ugly ducking phase, you would know that blossoming into a swan doesn’t heal you or remove insecurities. Trauma from your past still haunts you i.e body dysmorphia, bullying, mental illness, self harm, low self esteem, etc. What’s more depressing is you think glowing up physically would solve all your problems but once you become good looking you’ll realize it isn’t enough to make you confident or have genuine relationships
@damjamsan6182 3 жыл бұрын
I also agree with all the facts. But there are also exceptions. In India if you are light skinned you are viewed as attractive. If you are dark skinned it is not considered attractive.
@evelynzlon9492 Жыл бұрын
The first black millionaire in America was Jeremiah Hamilton who died in 1875. He was a wildly successful stockbroker which was a legendary feat for a black man at the time. But then he had angular features such as high cheekbones and a straight pointed nose. He had dark skin which accentuated his features all the more by contrast. There are several photos of a DIFFERENT Jeremiah Hamilton online who looks more like an average black guy. This insanely rich man in no way resembled him.
@zp7741 3 жыл бұрын
I can't belive Alux had the audacity the drop a video like this😂😂
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@Ludwigtrann 3 жыл бұрын
I LOVE THIS CONTENT. SO INFORMATIVE
@imrankhan-ob3es 2 жыл бұрын
ive noticed when you take care of your appearance people tend to help you out more or invest in you. i remember i use to work as a driver and customers mainly females use to give me free gifts, they also use to offer me job's and get touchy with me, when i went for a interview, the conversation was never about the interview, its crazy but appearance does open doors for you but this said your mindset also plays a big part.
@austinboateng6971 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with Professor Dario Maestripieri on his research. Could this be based on our instincts? It seems this is similar to the same concept of mimicking the rich rather than envying the rich. Attraction comes in many forms and is not necessarily dependent on beauty but on how one carries oneself. If people don’t find you attractive, you may have been ignoring how people perceive you, or you’ve put this human responsibility far too long. Reinventing yourself or invest in self-care. Pick yourself up, level up, and stop complaining. Thank you, ALUX!
@flawless_undergoer Жыл бұрын
Buddy , do what you wish to better your looks and behaviour but if you are naturally born plain-looking or ugly nothing will help you to a significant extent...I speak from one's own bitter experience ...
@mariawesley7583 3 жыл бұрын
This is especially true if you work for tips.
@Tbatbatba88 2 жыл бұрын
superfacts!
@aravindhkonvict359 2 жыл бұрын
True! I have experienced it myself
@marionwallsten7507 3 жыл бұрын
You can be average looking with a great personality and get any job or lover you want..speaking from personal experience. But great looking guys or girls who are less intelligent turn ugly rather quickly.
@mavriik4009 3 жыл бұрын
It takes a channel such as ALUX to be honest about & point out what people on the other side of attractiveness have known for YEARS..... Thank You for that..... because MOST attractive people LOVE trying to downplay the FACT that their looks have opened doors that the average person may never get a chance to walk through....... FACTS!
@erikalarson6803 3 жыл бұрын
It isn't every day that my alma mater for my under-grad gets mentioned in a public sphere locally much less globally. But today mine is in #13. Does this make me more attractive? Will someone in admissions track the Alux affect?
@HealthandHarmony209 3 жыл бұрын
There are so many disadvantages also they should have mentioned it
@catalissmusic4147 2 жыл бұрын
Being physically attractive is only an advantage in areas where knowledge, skill and attitude aren't important factors.
@ninjapirate123 Жыл бұрын
Hey I just noticed that people whose names start with the letter K is the most attractive
@karlalan3806 3 жыл бұрын
14 is 100% true. Both my accounting and economics teachers are gorgeous women and I always got As in their classes
@supriyaojha8716 3 жыл бұрын
I don't want to boastful or anything but I'm what perceived to be attractive now...... Which wasn't the case always.....idk just puberty hit me or something but now the behaviour of those same relatives and friends with me is far more different than what use to be before but on the side note it isn't always good cause I honestly have trust issues now with the people around me cause because of their fickle behaviour 🤷🏻♀️...... Just keep in mind people beauty might lead to all these things mention here but it has it's own disadvantages...... @alux please do make a video on the topic of *some of the disadvantages of being attractive*
@vangcruz4442 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, Jack Ma, Bill Gates, Elon Musk, Warren Buffet, and Jeff Bezo are the most beautiful then. LOL
@kwamebushman606 3 жыл бұрын
Stop acting like you don't get what she's saying. We all know looks okay a HUGE factor on planet earth...grow up
@melvin5263 3 жыл бұрын
@@kwamebushman606 dude YOU need to grow up
@mindfulldonjuan5495 3 жыл бұрын
They are not the face of their conpany, their company works because it certainly undeniably fills an unbeatable factor of how important ( *Unique* ) useful innovative as steeve jobs believed a product should be, they don't live in denial they use beauty to expand their market and the image of their company, like I said they are not stupid and they don't live in denial. Check 00:20 of the video.
@FreeSpirit47 3 жыл бұрын
Even beauty or attractiveness has its pitfalls. For example, the gorgeous Prom Queen who isn't asked to the prom as she's so beautiful even the most confident guys are intimidated. The same theme follows attractive people through life when, as adults, they have many people making false assumptions about them.
@grantgants6575 3 жыл бұрын
People making assumptions isn’t strictly an “attractive person” problem, it’s a human problem, however it affects attractive people differently as they can easily influence their way out of most situations. As for the prom beauty, how is this a pitfall? Because she doesn’t want to make the effort to ask a man out? Do you really believe any man would say no? It’s a matter of convenience which encompasses most of the “pitfalls” attractive people go through. Being attractive has no downsides whatsoever.
@bedoof1 2 жыл бұрын
Yea i know its a huge problem to be too attractive, at the moment i have more girls wanting to sleep with me than i have time. Thanks for pointing such a big societal issue out Brenda :-)
@FreeSpirit47 2 жыл бұрын
@@bedoof1 It would be even better for a man such as that to have such integrity as to not become a fukboi or a manslut. Not saying you are or are not. Only you know that bit of information.
@FreeSpirit47 2 жыл бұрын
@@grantgants6575 It's generally unattractive or less attractive people who believe that there is no downside to being attractive. Yes, I have known people with the problem, in High School who had the prom dilemma. It surprised me, as well. The 2 guys she asked to the prom either had a prom date already or just planned on not going even if she bought their tickets. I was a very shy girl from an abusive family. The part of life that made me the happiest at that time was when the local pond froze solid enough to ice skate on. No matter how cold it was, Michigan winters can be very cold) I would bundle up, then, head down to the pond to skate all day on the weekends. Ther was a girl who was 3 years older than me, she was always very very kind to me when she and I were at the pond at the same time to skate. She would ask me questions such as, "How are you?" or "where did you get such nice skates?" I was so shy I could barely utter 2 or 3 words to her. She was very pretty, very smart, her family lived in a large, beautiful house with 8 children. She taught me how to skate backwards & do jumps to land without hurting myself. I knew the Senior Prom was coming up. It was all I could think of, to talk about, with her. When I asked her if she was going to the prom with her boyfriend, she told me she had never had a boyfriend, had never been asked to the prom by anyone. She had asked the 2 guys, who couldn't or wouldn't say, "Yes". I have known other people who were also held back by being so attractive, both men & women, that they were alone 90% of the time. Instead of whining about it they spent their time building their business, traveling, exercising or volunteering their time at animal shelters as well as other charitable organizations.
@vampiszoonis9691 2 жыл бұрын
@@FreeSpirit47 not finding a partner in prom is a big issue !!? Get help kid
@meilanipang9196 2 жыл бұрын
Advantage number 2 explains a lot. It all makes sense as to why I’m so unhappy!
@johnnyboyvan 3 жыл бұрын
So shallow but true. But in one country beauty standards can be quite different.
@aaronaustrie 3 жыл бұрын
Look Alux I have to tell you that you shouldn't judge a book by its cover. Not because someone looks attractive means they're diligent at their work or more honest!
@sanjeevkushwaha4043 2 жыл бұрын
Reality is often disappointing
@gutsandgrittv5076 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. Finally someone tells the truth. Beauty privilege is a thing.
@wd4440 2 жыл бұрын
No it's just called the Halo effect. People treat you differently sometimes better sometimes not it has nothing to do with "privellege" no such thing it's just a different treatment that's all
@MakeWay4CJ 3 жыл бұрын
This may be hard for some people to hear but if you stop and think about it, the reason people feel this way (1:18) is because it’s actually pretty hard for an attractive person to work as hard as their less attractive peer.That’s because even before they have a chance to put forth the effort that unattractive or plain people do, they’re already being given an advantage! In other words, sometimes people don’t give good looking people the opportunity to genuinely work hard and even when good-looking people insist on doing so we all know that even if they didn’t work hard they’d still get the same privileges anyway. It is what it is.
@pamemarald3601 2 жыл бұрын
thank you I needed to hear this...im so beaten up in life, im at rock bottom...first time in long time applying for full-time jobs...I need to start life afresh, and need the job so badly and getting all set for interviews...only thing I thought could save me ..was my looks....and yeah..this video is spot on..to give me more conviction !!! I think I can make it !!!!
@flawless_undergoer Жыл бұрын
If you are a plain-looking or ugly individual do not hope for much happiness in life ...believe me ,I am speaking form long one's own bitter experience..
@vidhishiste8751 2 жыл бұрын
Until 1-2 years ago I was one of them who never dressed up , never cared about how my hair is looking I only cared whether my clothes are clean and I am clean but I never went the extra mile for looking attractive .... since these 2 years I have been focusing on exercising more , eating healthy food ,avoiding all the junk and I have been dressing the same way ... Its just that my body has become toned slightly so I tend to look attractive in my clothes ....I still shop from Thrifts . The point of narrating all this is that Me Inspite of looking average I have just started exercising more to keep my self fit and I have been eating healthy food I am never behind following trends I share some snippets of my life on Social media (I dont expect to get praise I just post them for my close friends and well wishers) doing certain simple things or upgrading ur life in these small ways can bring about incredible changes in your life ..U dont necessarily are required to live like a socialitte to look attractive just try to increase ur self esteem focus on being healthy !!
@flawless_undergoer Жыл бұрын
Wise words,but yet ,the truly good-looking individuals gain so much in life ...so much happiness and wealth and everyday gladness and yes this is so unfair...
@gingerdavis5420 3 жыл бұрын
This is the saddest most sickening thing I’ve ever heard. This is what’s wrong with our world today. Y’all are saying that less attractive people are not worthy of anything. If you are not gorgeous then you are not worthy. You would think that as much pull as the wealthy and beautiful would not be proud of this. One of the worst most heartbreaking thing I’ve ever heard. IM SHOCKED!!! Hell no I don’t agree with any of this 🤬🤬🤬🤬
@HealthandHarmony209 3 жыл бұрын
You don't have to believe this video make you own positive mindset 👍
@Camelotskin 3 жыл бұрын
The truth is always a hard pill to swallow. The video did not memtion anything you said in your comment, you added in your own words. The truth is beauty has its advantages and we are not all the same.
@hrisikeshkashyap4788 3 жыл бұрын
Hey ALUX .. I am proud ALUXER.. Please try to add the article links along with the videos .. Thanks .. From India.. 🙏🙏
@APACHE888able 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Alux team for sharing and posting very much appreciated indeed. The factor Beauty is à abstract concept Because Because what’s is so Truly Beautiful For someone’s vision is a so not Attract for another’s.. Society today even yesterday determine Beauty by the Order of movies and so forth...look at this I’m a Native American..not tall.. instead I quite looking Good for those about Loves me on my Personality Traits and Spirituality... Walk Always on Beauty and Gratitude....
@divinafrances 3 жыл бұрын
"Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder". Beauty is skin deep. But we are visual beings so yeah makes sense. All you have to do is look at on IG! If you are a pretty or "beautiful" person with no confidence and low self esteem you will look unattractive to others.
@aaronaustrie 3 жыл бұрын
None of that really matters to me trust me. I'd rather be friends with someone who's respectable and not so attractive than a very good looking person that lacks manners!
@Moesie 2 жыл бұрын
u immediatly talk about a narsistic person but it has nothing to do with them in the first place
@Tbatbatba88 2 жыл бұрын
this explains a lot!
@sisigs4820 2 жыл бұрын
I realized this awhile ago and I would say I'm average at best but I decided to go against my human nature and treat people no matter what they look like good but especially people that society might consider ugly because I realize they have it harder for something they for the most part have no control of.
@ninjapirate123 Жыл бұрын
Hey I just noticed that people whose names start with the letter K is the most attractive
@Chetan_Soni. 3 жыл бұрын
After watching whole video I want to ask 'Does attractive means white people to you?'
@tylermcmillan705 3 жыл бұрын
Sadly yes😢
@AshzxQuidYT 3 жыл бұрын
I believe so, but it doesn’t mean anything.
@sadephillips9645 3 жыл бұрын
This proves my point that there is a racial element to this.
@cherryblossom9226 3 жыл бұрын
To most people
@DrBeeSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thats great, everyone has something, for some people its looks, for some its talent, for some its intelligence, for some its kindness, and so on. People need to find their assets, love themselves, strive to be a better person, and call it a day! lol ❤️
@boldandcourageous4176 3 жыл бұрын
I've seen this play out. Do the best with what you have !!!!
@chiefs816kc 3 жыл бұрын
White privilege is no where near as valuable as beautiful privilege!