3 Signs God Is Preparing a Quiet Man to Pursue You

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How will a quiet man pursue a woman? How will a quieter guy who does not express himself verbally that much pursue you as a Christian woman? Here are 3 common ways quiet Christian men pursue the woman they are interested in.
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@jenniferk6697 Жыл бұрын

A quiet guy sounds like my ideal man! It’s amazing when someone remembers small things about you that you don’t remember saying

@audra100120 Жыл бұрын

I completely agree. I'm for sure not going to be compatible with the life of the party and would definitely be drawn to the quieter man.

@dawnstonerock4253 8 ай бұрын

Yes. Like when he’s the only one who remembers extra ice, lemons , and napkins! (My waiter friend) ❤

@crispyz2864 Ай бұрын

We are out there, an introvert woman would be ideal for me lol. I know as an introvert we definitely do remember pretty much everything, even the stuff I'd rather not..lol. being an introvert is great tho

@crispyz2864 Ай бұрын

@@audra100120 i agree, I couldn't be with a extremely extroveted girl

@KaylaSteele61 Жыл бұрын

1. A quiet man uses his presence as a way of pursuing a woman. 2. A quiet man uses serving as a way of pursuing a woman. 3. A quiet man uses strong language once he decides to express himself.

@sed.aba01 Жыл бұрын

Thanks!

@yanishagill7680 9 ай бұрын

Thank-you!

@GodsDaughter_89 9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this summary of the video.

@adannemary7513 8 ай бұрын

Thank you ❤

@helenoftroy5130 5 ай бұрын

This was my husband of thirty-four years and three months!!! He died suddenly in November 2022. What a tremendous void he left in his wake. I cannot describe how much I miss him. I am extremely blessed to have had him.

@CommentingSomeMore 2 ай бұрын

I’m sorry for your loss ❤ but I’m glad you got to experience such a wonderful love and marriage. May God bless you generously and exceedingly as you walk in this new season. God will never leave you ❤

@amadeagottlieb 2 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry for your loss! My husband died suddenly six years ago so I know what you're going through. God bless you and give you comfort and strength every day. It will get easier over time.

@meroco20ify Ай бұрын

🫶🏽 sorry for your loss. **hugs**

@maryjflanagan1922 Күн бұрын

I’m the same about my beloved husband. He’s such a kindhearted soul!

@wellbeingwithwendysmith6651 Жыл бұрын

This is true. My partner and I are both quiet and considerate so neither of us wanted to do anything to make either feel uncomfortable. We worked together but I left, hoping he would pursue me. He was going to ask me out and, as it turns out, we’re a couple now. A Christmas miracle happened for us. Our coming together is simply miraculous and unexpected in our mutual attraction to who each other is. He’s gentle, loving and committed. A true, traditional gentleman.

@dawnstonerock4253 Жыл бұрын

Congratulations!!!

@alexandria3177 Жыл бұрын

Congrats Wendy!!💝 So excited for you🥹

@janderson9477 8 ай бұрын

So sweet and that’s a blessing and sometimes strength isn’t always loud it’s within and inner strength that cannot be broken 🤗

@karinafoster6974 7 ай бұрын

Congrats so happy for you both

@lynnemarylou7611 6 ай бұрын

❤ how wonderful

@em77775 Жыл бұрын

If a guy is usually pretty outgoing and friendly and appears to like you but somehow appears nervous and a little quieter around you, it might be a good sign ☺

@FatBellyChemist1234 Жыл бұрын

Very true.

@FaithAnswered Жыл бұрын

Got it thank you! What if I enjoy the silence, would they find it awkward? 😂

@em77775 Жыл бұрын

@@FaithAnswered Sure, why not? If you remain calm, warm, open, friendly, hopefully you'll get a chance to talk more at some point.

@RubysDude Жыл бұрын

Someone, for the love of God, tell that to my Crush...

@takahammah Жыл бұрын

I’m a quiet guy and Mark hit the nail on the head with this one 💯

@KRushMissions 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for the feedback on quiet men❤

@ebuggs212 6 ай бұрын

Scary accurate of me

@winnumber101 5 ай бұрын

unbelievably on point about me omg

@revsarahvanwyk6746 3 күн бұрын

Thank you for shedding light on a mystery. Everything makes sense now. God bless you

@hooballoolify Жыл бұрын

THIS RIGHT HERE! I'm an introvert with the "gift" of quality time. It's SO hard to find guys who want to slow down, spend time, and enjoy a deep (or light) conversation with me. I've only had two guy friends in my lifetime who had this gift, and they were awesome! I'm an older, never married single (no kids--my preference), who is still praying for my Boaz. Also, I'd like to thank my parents (married 58 years) for explaining and demonstrating God's way of biblical marriage to their kids. Mark, keep up the good work!

@vincentortega4284 Жыл бұрын

Tina, your Boaz is out their; continue to pray for that godly husband.

@InHisSservice Жыл бұрын

Amen to what Vincent Ortega said. Just keep THANKING GOD (in advance, as Hezekiah did) for the godly man that GOD CHOSE-- not you... and WAIT WAIT WAIT. Anything less is a PAINFUL WASTE OF TIME. TRUST IN THE LORD WITH ALL YOUR HEART Prov 3

@Kari_Michele Жыл бұрын

Are your 2 guy friends still single as well? 🤔😉

@lillianthomas9861 Жыл бұрын

" and enjoy a deep (or light) conversation with me " Tina, I think he's talking about YOU picking up the slack for the relational connection, because this kind of man can't even start a conversation, much less maintain a 'deep ongoing dialogue'. He's talking about having a life with a man that looks to his wife to fill this "verbal short-coming".

@vincentortega4284 Жыл бұрын

@@Kari_Michele Hi, ka .la and I are not friends, I believe she is my sister in Christ, and I'm single. God bless you Kari

@BB-ch9km Жыл бұрын

I was chuckling the whole way through this video because I have definitely found a quiet guy and this is exactly how he is expressing himself to me... through his hands in serving me. I love it! So many good points in this video!! I have been around the block a few times and let me tell ya, being with a quiet guy having quality time is such a blessing compared to dating drama ego filled guys. Give the quiet guys a chance, be patient on them opening up. You will be blessed.

@estherkeeling777 9 ай бұрын

WHAT IS SO AMAZING IS I KNOW my husband is on his way and suddenly all of these helpful videos about marriage just started popping up and they are so HELPFUL and enlightening. Thank you LORD for being so mindful and helpful.

@estherkeeling777 7 ай бұрын

Update I have met my husband we get along very well he is a Godly praying fasting man. And treats me very.

@vivaeuropa 7 ай бұрын

@estherkeeling777 How long have you been talking with one another, and does he see you as his future wife already like you do him?

@estherkeeling777 6 ай бұрын

@@vivaeuropa Absolutely he sees me more as his wife then I initially seen him as my husband. He said he knew I was his wife the first time he saw me.

Ай бұрын

How did y’all meet ❤️❤️❤️

@isabelhanberg780 Жыл бұрын

I LOVE the way this video presents the quiet type of guy as such a normal thing. I just feel like there are a lot of quiet guys out there just being themselves and it's a valuable personality trait that gets overlooked sometimes. We love you, quiet guys!

@nankanglesley9529 Жыл бұрын

But no one really shows us love 😢

@SJD36 9 ай бұрын

I notice this with my son. He shows me he cares when he remembers things I have said and then does it. He doesn't hug me or tell me caring things, but he does listen well. It was very important to him to be on time for a dance that a girl asked him to recently. He probably would have been too shy to ask her, but she notices the value in him and wanted to go with him.

@dbaird8784 Жыл бұрын

A quiet man generally gets overlooked and his acts of kindness get taken advantage of.

@dinomra7771 Жыл бұрын

Yes often times are quietness and politeness get mistaken for harmlessness.

@rogercolon619 Жыл бұрын

@@dinomra7771 people just think I'm mean in general lol its hilarious 😅

@dinomra7771 Жыл бұрын

@@rogercolon619 lol same man. We can be blunt as an axe sometimes.

@rogercolon619 Жыл бұрын

@@dinomra7771 I usually add humor so it goes down easier lol

@jeremylutes8943 3 ай бұрын

10-4.

@AudraT 3 ай бұрын

The tricky part is figuring out if the dude is a quiet guy or a not interested guy. They both act the same!!! And a woman has to be so careful about expressing interest because she can so easily be perceived as desperate.

@ginaromano4858 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this! This is my fiance almost to a T. It really caught my attention because he didn't say all of these flowery things and was so reserved. I struggled with this at first, but have come to appreciate this about him. It distinguishes him from any other man I've been in a relationship with. My love languages are quality time and words of encouragement. He may not talk all the time, but when he does, he knows me well enough to say just what I need to hear even if it's not what I want to hear at that moment. And shocker...he has a clever sense of humor. You wouldn't expect it with him being so quiet, but he can say something and leave me speechless or have me busting out laughing. Ladies, don't discount these guys! They can and will treat you like a queen if you're patient with them and acknowledge their efforts to pursue you their way.

@Jeweliedear Жыл бұрын

this is so encouraging bc I had met quiet guy who made me feel closer to Jesus and helped me to become more still and quiet, which is not my natural tendency at all--i am outgoing and friendly but also guarded more I get to know people bc of past abuse. but I felt such a peace and presence of God with him. I felt fully present with him and vice versa.

@dawnstonerock4253 Жыл бұрын

He’s a keeper!!!❤

@RubysDude Жыл бұрын

Preach Gina. Preach.. 😂

@jimdavis9284 Жыл бұрын

Thanks, Gina. Love you too :) (Yes, I am that quiet guy!)

@sincerelysamanthas Жыл бұрын

Idk why I feel so strongly in my spirit that this is God telling me how my future husband will be.

@shellbell8062 Жыл бұрын

I am an introvert female and I just love introverts in general. When they say something they have thought it through and considered it deeply; and it has weight to it. Maybe not all introverts; but I have often found this to be the case. Still waters run deep and these are often people who have a very keen perception and insight into people and how they tick. Like an iceberg, there is so much more going on under the surface. Thanks for this video Mark. It's so easy for women to mess things up with this kind of guy as it's easy to misunderstand their intentions.

@dinomra7771 Жыл бұрын

As a fellow introvert, I can confirm this is fact check true.

@AdrieandJudah Жыл бұрын

Jesus is that you 😂

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

God bless!

@TS-fj2lo Жыл бұрын

😂 I believe it’s Jesus answering prayers.

@themasterspiece5669 Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@anacossa8437 Жыл бұрын

I think it is😂😂😂

@markanthonypar-wise1499 Жыл бұрын

😆💀

@praisegirl264 3 ай бұрын

To all the shy guys I think yall are awesome!🎉❤

@joycekyalo8117 Жыл бұрын

All the points Mark said makes sense. If a quiet guy pursues a woman, the woman might empower and strengthen his verbal shortcomings. However, I will add that if he pursues a woman quietly and slowly builds trust with the woman, eventually he can be a little bit more expressive and will be able to talk way later because again, he trusts her. That's what I believe.

@theabergeoksnes7306 Жыл бұрын

I think people also have to understand that this can go both ways. A quiet woman and a quiet man. I can 110% relate to this video and I’m a girl/woman. I just felt God wanted me to remind people of that 😊💕🌿

@koreagirl2977 Жыл бұрын

This is exactly what I need. For the first time in 16 years I finally am in a relationship with someone. But he didn't seem to be pursuing me the way I thought he should be pursuing me. Now I know he's just a quiet guy. I am so glad that I have seen this video.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

So glad this was useful!

@koreagirl2977 Жыл бұрын

In a sad Twist of reality he actually wasn't into me that much. But he opened the door to someone else to come into my life, so here's hoping this relationship works out.

@TokioTE Жыл бұрын

@@koreagirl2977 all the best 🙏

@collectivemindsunique7945 Жыл бұрын

God really is working through you. I needed this message 🙏🏽

@blanctonia Жыл бұрын

As in I have a meeting with someone and I have been praying about him

@NaileaGuerrero Жыл бұрын

This is fascinating. A quiet guy sounds very attractive and charming in their own way. I’ve only dated expressive men that were players. Now that I’m Christian, a quiet guy (that’s also a Christian) sounds nicer lol waiting on God 🙏🏼

@mmommo10 Жыл бұрын

sounds too good to be true!haha

@NaileaGuerrero Жыл бұрын

@@mmommo10 have faith in God 🙏🏼

@RubysDude Жыл бұрын

I'm available Nailea.. 😂

@etcwhatever Жыл бұрын

They can be players too. Be careful. Having suffered too much now i dont compromise on basic principles. Pray that the Holy Spirit gives you discernment

@joniangelsrreal6262 Жыл бұрын

Or The quiet guy often times are COVERT narcissists… beware ladies of RED flags …

@lke4907 Жыл бұрын

My man is EXACTLY like this!! Thank you for reassuring me what I already believed.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

Amen!

@Neptuneman07 Жыл бұрын

I'm learning this at this present moment how to be more honest about my expressions. I'm naturally quiet, but if I truly like someone, I will chat as a friend to get to know someone. Then I pray about it and if God says yes, then take action.

@royalevictoria Жыл бұрын

How do you know if God responds? I'm trying to know this. I pray daily. And I recently started asking God about a guy. I guess I will have to wait.

@MeyCord Жыл бұрын

Are you still single Can we pray together?

@vivaeuropa 7 ай бұрын

@royalevictoria You know the presence of the Holy Spirit you feel when someone gives a good one liner during a sermon or even in a worship song that just spiritually speaks to you. It's the same thing if you're praying to Christ just sit still and wait for an answer. It can even happen when you think about it like you can think for example "God can I date this guy" Then you feel the presence of the Holy Spirit that is confirming that you can. Or you can ask yes or no and see which one you feel the presence.

@Neptuneman07 7 ай бұрын

@vivaeuropa3005 Great response. I'm still in a waiting season in my life. While waiting, I'm fulfilling my calling to be in a Grad school program at Seminary. My call to do the will of the Lord is top priority. My desire for a future companion will be fulfilled in which she will have the same desire to do the will of the Lord as I do. She will be in my life in the future. Until then, my focus on studying the Word of God is my primary focus. And she will be my secondary focus.

@eion-ch3pn Жыл бұрын

😊I'm a quiet man myself I show my expression by serving. Thanks for the video

@marco13mag Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for making this video Mark. I am a quiet guy and I hope a lot of women see this video and understand what you are saying. Cuz you are hitting the bullseye on this.

@db4419 Жыл бұрын

I second this!😁

@FatBellyChemist1234 Жыл бұрын

My guy friend is this type of guy other girls needa watch this video. I have to say that I do not like my guy friend beyond friendship.

@KRushMissions 9 ай бұрын

Thank you quiet guys for letting us know that Mark is spot on.❤

@angeliquechelle 9 ай бұрын

This is so good and so eye opening for me. I feel like I tend to attract the shy, quiet guy but never really knew how to respond until now 👏

@owenpeters4266 4 ай бұрын

This is so true dawg there’s a girl at my small group and I have trouble talking to her directly because I hate talking but I love standing beside her or a few feet away just to listen. Listen is the key word because I remember all the small things about her I hope to use one day to connect

@cherithcampbell1157 21 күн бұрын

That's sooo beautiful.

@cryptojihadi265 Жыл бұрын

There's another kind of quiet guy that actually will become quite expressive, once they're ready to open up. They're quite deep, which is why they seem so reserved in large social settings where conversations tend to be surface and mundane: things they have little interest in. But if they find you interesting and once they feel comfortable and trust you, they become quite expressive snd even talkative and value deep emptional connection. Things at least women in the past tended to value. So not only will they be able to have the deep sincere passionate and emotional connections with their woman, they aren't players. They are very choosy about who they ooen up to, making the woman feel more valued and exclusive. The challenge for the woman is finding those hidden diamonds as they aren't the showboats.

@vivaeuropa 7 ай бұрын

This sums me up pretty well. I noticed I'll attract girls when they see me talking about things I'm passionate about, like traveling, learning languages, where I want to live, and what I want to do in the future. Then they'll approach me like you'd do to an expressive guy but I still need them to be inviting like you'd invite a quiet guy; so their pushy aggressive flirting makes me pull back and get cold as I feel emotionally disconnected and it results in me avoiding the girl. This was when I wasn't saved, but now that I'm saved, I haven't really gotten out of my bubble of two church friends, so I haven't interacted much with Godly women ever. Still only have worldy women at work interested in me.

@r.j.whitaker Жыл бұрын

This is a good description of my husband. He does not say much, but he serves us in so many ways 💙

@Hanna-fg9kc 5 ай бұрын

My man fills me with his prescence around me , enjoying every minute with him❤

@citizensister Жыл бұрын

I love your videos and they have been a huge help to me in adjusting my understanding of how to respond to pursuit from a Godly man. But this one was exactly what I needed. God keeps telling me he is pursuing me, but it doesn't look like I expected and that has made me second guess what is happening. What it does look like is exactly this, as you've described in this video. So it is a beautiful confirmation. And for the record, so, so many women do not understand the things you've described here.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

I'm so glad it was helpful Tracy! All glory to God!

@db4419 Жыл бұрын

Amen to that! Many women probably need to hear/read what you've said here - especially that "it doesn't look like [you] expected. Lol! I've lost out for that I think, not pursuing in the way it might be "expected" 😉

@jamesq7954 5 ай бұрын

Quiet guy here: this is on point.

@jacquis9312 Жыл бұрын

Hard to discern the quiet guy from the dreaded covert narcissist, a video about this would be awesome mark

@jaligawesa Ай бұрын

Now this is true 😮

@joshgreen4521 Жыл бұрын

This was literally a description of how I went about some feelings I had for a girl for a long time. I came to a point where I became tired of speculating if the feelings were mutual from her side and I wanted to know so I decided to tell her straight up how I felt about her and inviting her on a date. I had never done that before. But it was too much too soon and the feelings were not mutual, but then I found out.

@someonespecial581 Жыл бұрын

Awww. Bless you 🤗

@Mers0913 Жыл бұрын

I’m the same way right now with a guy I’ve known/been friends with for awhile. Just recently developed feelings for him & Im debating on telling him bc I don’t want to ruin our friendship. I’ve always been a shy girl & I stepped out of my box in college a couple times & always got shot down…

@kingbutters2721 Жыл бұрын

Same but the thing she has a bf but She gives me some signals but I know don’t pursue

@RubysDude Жыл бұрын

Yep, usually how it happens. You unload your feelings. They get like a deer in headlights. Girls call it Lovebombing nowadays. Its crazy. I give up...

@stevehicks399 Жыл бұрын

I've been there too. Don't take it personal. It's called taking a risk. God Bless 🙏 you ❤️

@reynaro2496 Жыл бұрын

Amen! Thanks for the message 😇quiet man and quiet woman, is so difficult to know each others.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

God bless Reyna!

@L62719 Жыл бұрын

Was just about to post that lol. Missed an encounter on the train, he was verbal with elderly people but once they left he just kept looking in my direction but not saying anything...I regretted not speaking up. We had core values and language in common (his conversation with the elderly people) don't know if I will see him again 🫤

@reynaro2496 Жыл бұрын

@@L62719 yea same with me, I keep seeing a man that shows that he likes me and he is not verbal with me, and I also cant say a word for some reason 😁 💙 maybe the character match so much that the nerves get in the way.

@davidbigd9047 28 күн бұрын

As a quiet man, these are all true. I do acknowledge I have some shortcomings compared to the rest of the men in society and I am working on improving those areas.

@trippy9548 Жыл бұрын

Omg I needed this lol. I have this guy at work I have a crush on and we are both kinda nervous to talk to each other but he constantly finds a way to be around me lol😅😊

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

Nice!

@caroliinec Жыл бұрын

please be careful with work relationships . . . they're not always the wisest choice.

@HannahJoy333 Жыл бұрын

@@caroliinec they also can be incredible if God decided on the two coworkers to eventually be married. It happens.

@inspiredx3866 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for representing the small percentage of us. Message is 💯

@LexTan Жыл бұрын

As I watch this video, I am finding and appreciating a certain irony for myself: I am a broadcaster, musician, actor, public speaker. But I’m actually a quiet man at heart. I have no problems, expressing myself in many different ways, but I also identify with all of the traits that a quiet man has. It’s equally awesome and frustrating at the same time.

@sandrasalinas9787 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much you literally made my day!!! I’m having this issue with a quiet man lol I almost sent him a good bye text because he is terrible at texting and calling. However When he takes me out he is so present and in tune with me. He is the most sweetest guy and the most attentive and respectful. I could tell he is shy and a bit socially awkward.. I think that’s cute. He did open the door lol and he goes above and beyond..

@sleeping.helper Жыл бұрын

this is true... we can not be great with words or when there´s too many people around, BUT when it comes to one on one, we will make you the center of the universe and the most important people on the planet.

@sandrasalinas9787 Жыл бұрын

@@sleeping.helper thank you, God knew I needed to hear this ….I’m so blessed. I was frustrated and anxious. God made me watch this video ….

@jifunzekiingerezanadorothy 11 ай бұрын

This is such a helpful video 😅

@bucketspree4952 Жыл бұрын

This is a good and needed video for helping women to understand quiet guys. Often it seems off putting to just throw stuff out there, and I agree completely with not wanting to hog/ fight for air time. It's really good to let people know there are other ways of communicating, and that just because you may have difficulty or not prefer to express yourself verbally, that it's still possible to make your intentions known, and there's nothing inherently wrong with the way your built, but it shows how we can all work to compliment one another. God bless and thank you.

@ramonaphillipsteach3284 9 ай бұрын

My guy can be shy in love but he does find a way to communicate. He is a talker when he is in the mood. He is an excellent listener, he has ways of showing me that he pays attention to me and is very inspiring. When he does it is strong. I love his genuiness and honesty. Enjoying the moment.❤

@cwill8294 Жыл бұрын

This was SO helpful! Thank you for articulating this, it definitely makes me see things in a proper light.

@dinomra7771 Жыл бұрын

2:24 lol this is exactly what I did in high school with girls I liked. I was like "please strike up a conversation I don't know what to talk about". lol

@n.ee.h Жыл бұрын

This video helped me see a guy in my church differently and it encouraged me to message him in a joking way about he wasn’t great at messaging so he would know that I would like him to try and respond from time to time, and to my surprise he messaged back quite quickly agreeing and we had a good laugh about it. God is good 😊

@alexandria3177 Жыл бұрын

Comepletely unrelated but you’re very pretty!!🤗❣️

@lynnettewells4178 Жыл бұрын

Very good information. Gives you a different perspective from what modern social media is telling us. I am at a point in life that I am in no hurry and just let them have their space and time to contact me / talk to me. It is so less stressful and makes the conversation more genuine and connection better.

@ivanav6697 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Mark. Unfortunately sometimes, many women forget or don't consider too much this type of guy. It's a great lesson for me. GOD bless you!

@JudaBuddha Жыл бұрын

The timing of this video was divine. Thank you. ❤️🙏🏻

@georgiasinspirations Жыл бұрын

My perspective has been completely changed. Thanks for this video, I really really needed it. ❤️

@Kari_Michele Жыл бұрын

This video confirms that this is exactly the type of man I need in my life 😇🙏🏾💗

@tllee_tommy Жыл бұрын

Hi Mark, Just want to drop a message here to say ' Thank you ' for putting this explanation out here, explaining how a quiet guy tends to behave towards their relationship or dating process. It may not be much, but those pointers mentioned really match the majority of how quiet guys put in efforts to create or manage their relationship. As an introvert, speaking to a fellow stranger and hanging around after church service is already a daunting task, let alone finding someone who truly understands how you felt and how much you are trying to maintain or please them. Also, this message here is to thank the majority out there who are also struggling as much as I do. Don't give up and continue to be you and improve accordingly (I'm not gaslight here but truly wishing you to have a blessed partner in the coming future). Happy 2023 and New Year to all!

@coltonbrewer6632 Жыл бұрын

Another one. Great job. God bless.

@joytotheworld9988 8 ай бұрын

I ran across this video and it brought to mind some painful memories for me that I thought I had healed from. I dated a quiet man, and you described him precisely. There were many things I didn't understand that I wish I had not taken for granted. I felt insecure because I talk a lot, but he told me, "I like to listen." Long story short, there were some major insecurities he had, combined with the fact that I still had some growing to do, that led him to end the relationship, run away from God, and make a lot of really unhealthy and destructive decisions. I've learned to let it go - someone has to choose to change on their own, God still has plans for me, but this just made me a little sad.

@someonespecial581 Жыл бұрын

This is a timely message

@uscitizen5656 10 ай бұрын

This is me, I keep praying for God to put the words in my mouth, to tell My Love how much I want to be with her forever!

@prettiegyrl99 Жыл бұрын

So glad I saw this. ❤

@melinaathena Жыл бұрын

You should do one on a quiet woman and what a quiet woman can do to open up a quiet guy.

@judygraessle7358 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Mark. I needed this instruction, guidance and words of wisdom.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@anacossa8437 Жыл бұрын

Hum, most of the times that I ask God for a question, you bring a new video concerning situations that I passed by and confused me about His will. You are blessing to my life. Thank you, God bless you❤👋🙏

@sunnyclouds1372 Жыл бұрын

Same here been praying for 2 days for God to give me a sign... then this popped up

@Andallthatja_5 8 ай бұрын

Wowwww. SO MUCH revelation in this video. Holy Spirit 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@ashleighb997 Жыл бұрын

I love your website. I have read so many of your articles and watched a few videos, too. I’m praying and believing God to fulfill the desire for a relationship that leads to marriage. Thank you for the articles and videos. You have a great ministry for people wanting relationships and marriage. I’m so glad I found your videos. Have a Happy New Year and if you take prayer requests please pray for me!

@GraciousGiftsofGod 11 ай бұрын

OH MY GOSH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This is SO TRUE AND RELEVANT. Thank you, and God bless you!!

@murakas2 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this message - I'm really glad I had discovered your videos, praise be to God!

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

So glad too! All glory to God!

@Nina-zo1cb Жыл бұрын

This 5 points are valid.. I certainly appreciate you for pointing them out. In today's generation many marriages break due to lack of understanding with these valid points. Thank you for your teachings.

@anniciaaaaa Жыл бұрын

This is so beautifully said🤍🤍thank you Mark for helping us to understand better! God bless

@_heyimbritt Жыл бұрын

Glad to hear this, this was helpful

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@antoinettkandiesmith3487 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Mark this was meant for me to see

@carmenfreeman693 Жыл бұрын

He shows up and is present, I can work with that....thank you. 🙏

@bimbap007 Жыл бұрын

So timely, and on point in my situation... Thank you so much.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome!

@jesusfan8504 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this! Let Love and Light continue to flow from Jesus freely through us all today and in 2023...Filling us with Joy, and overflowing into others lives!

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

All glory to God!

@ItinerarySweat Жыл бұрын

Mr Ballenger Jesus Christ is using you for his Glory. Keep encouraging me and inspiring me through your amazing channel. God Bless

@KRushMissions 9 ай бұрын

Ty so much! This has helped me understand quiet guys exponentially better.

@MistyEry Жыл бұрын

This explains and makes sense of things. Thankyou.

@verohb79 Жыл бұрын

Great timing for the video, thank you Mark

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@Tiggity80 Жыл бұрын

I’m currently dating a quiet guy. He is unlike any other man I’ve dated, as I’m used to more charismatic, outgoing men. I’ve been struggling to not lose interest, because o do like him and I think there’s potential there. My issue is I feel like unless he’s talking about something he’s passionate about, mostly work, I have to drive the conversation. Doing this makes me feel like I’m stepping out of my feminine. I’d prefer his masculine to lead the conversation at times. This video has helped me make sense of him and has given me a different perspective. Thank you.

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

Amen, masculine strength is also expressed through quiet strength, being present, and listening well :)

@ItinerarySweat Жыл бұрын

Mr Ballenger, Excellent platform Jesus shines on through you. God Bless you

@lonsp.t3568 Жыл бұрын

Very interesting. I love how you constantly help me to open my mind to see men (and people) differently and not just what my mind perceives or wants from/ with someone. You will definitely be someone who can help single women like myself meet GODLY CHRISTIAN men. Thank you , GOD BLESS ALWAYS 🥰🙌🏽🙏🏼

@user-cp1hp5zi6k 11 ай бұрын

Am quite christian woman looking for a quite man of god am single 50 years old

@jenniferv9450 Жыл бұрын

Lol Wow thank you Mark! This is a very interesting and helpful video. If a quiet guy is in my immediate future you just gave me help to acknowledge him and be receptive. I don’t want to miss out on the man who is right for me and who I could be a blessing to. May God bless you Mark🙏 Thanks again 🙂

@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@dinomra7771 Жыл бұрын

You just have to be a bit patient with us, because we tend to be quite methodical about how we approach Women.

@cmc479 Ай бұрын

As a quiet guy myself, everything you said was spot on. What women need to understand is that number 3 is the biggest point. Me personally, every time I would say something to a woman, I would always come across as too strong or they wouldn't feel the same and would end up walking away. Every experience like that makes me wait longer and unsure if I should say something for fear I would get the same result. If you have a quiet man around you that is doing these things and you have feelings for him, give him a nudge. Offer to study together. Suggest getting lunch together. If you don't mind being blunt about it, tell him you enjoy spending time with him. We do NOT pick up on signs or signals very well, so the more obvious you make it, the better.

@danceangel24 9 ай бұрын

TOTALLY LOVE THIS!!!

@stevehicks399 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this

@sasharemez7459 9 ай бұрын

This is so good! I was praying asking God where is my Boaz, because I love his character traits. This makes sense to me, now I know what to take note of. Thank you for making this video Mark!

@antonettereyes5468 Жыл бұрын

understood! very well! Thank you❤️

@shuesther 8 ай бұрын

Very Good!👍 Thanks for educating and advising

@DAUGHTERofSARAH23 Жыл бұрын

Wow! If only I knew this years ago! I’m glad that I know now!

@toyaqueen-kp2wz 10 ай бұрын

God taken me to this video 😮wow amazing 😊

@pamelamckenzie5167 9 ай бұрын

Totally phenomenal

@aflojo Жыл бұрын

You basically described Mr. Darcy, especially 1 and 3. He does display 2, but in a way that Elizabeth only discovers later!

@AngieP84 Жыл бұрын

Wow! This video is giving me some answers and clarity that I didn't expect and at the right time. I appreciate your videos and your clear communication brother. I appreciate the biblical application you add to your videos as well! God bless you🙌🏽🙏🏽💖

@kelligray1848 7 ай бұрын

Seriously, I really really needed this!!!😊

@naca1553 5 ай бұрын

This sounds kind of heavenly. I am so done with men who will NOT stop talking that I don't even want to date. They think we had a wonderful time.

@brendabrandy7496 8 ай бұрын

This is incredible. Thank you 🥰

@TEWMUCH 11 ай бұрын

You sir, have a gift. 😊

@proper.role.model.819 7 ай бұрын

I used to be good at finding these kinds of guys until I got caught up with the quiet ones who were emotionally unavailable. That's the hard part. I love quieter guys though!