"A lot of carnal men don't holla at you because they know you walking in the Spirit." 💯❤

I am from Spain and I never had a father figure, God is blessing me through your videos. Gracias!

Lol at rubbing on his face trying to be seen. The accuracy is hilarious. I used to be attracted to that ridiculousness. Thank God I grew up. There's nothing more attractive than a hardworking, goal oriented, respectful, man of God.

You should do a father son talk book too.

Straight up speaking truth... pastor facts on top of facts...women we need to wake up...and start respecting ourselves and our bodies and stop letting ourselves get used, abused, and manipulated by men.

YOU. ARE. THE. REAL. DEAL. I always say, "The Holy Spirit is the BEST relationship expert." That's EXACTLY why I'm STILL single. Men find out I'm led by the Spirit and RUN. They're shocked when I call them them out on their game. Them: "How did you know that?" This is the BEST video and I will be sharing it with others. You are a TRUE man of God. Backed off everything with the Word of God and skillfully dissected it. The Holy Spirit NEVER leads you wrong, but you have to die to yourself. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

I'm still drained after 9years..I fell so good to say NOPE when he wanted to crawl back after being in every rabbit whole in Philadelphia

I didn't ask the Father to reveal my ex husbands heart before we were married, I did not know. I looked at his quiet disposition, "good Christian man" everyone spoke highly about. I married satan, and lived in hell for two long. When I listened to the Holy Spirit to pray to the Father to reveal his heart...well, I'm happily divorced. I now advise all young women to ask the Father to reveal the heart. I am now doing the same thing....I'm happily single!

You must have a relationship with yourself and be honest with yourself! Ask God to show you if it's really real. If you Seek Him first to help you!

I have met good church men and thought. This must be him, lol. These church men are 10 times worse the the ones on the streets , because these wolves in sheep's clothing know that women in the church are wanting a good church going men.... These men got more game than then the straight out thugs. Some go to church just to get good women to play games with and also to take care of them. These are the worst kind. These ones will tell you stuff like. " The Lord Told Me You My Wife" and silly women will believe this nonsense. Then they will be a week in, telling you they love you, lets get married, Pretty soon they will be looking to move in with you. Get you to marry them. Because they NEED A PLACE TO STAY! AND STOP WORKING AFTER THERE IN YOUR HOUSE....talking bout the Lord said he don't won't me to work! BEWARE THESE ONES ARE SUITED DOWN, MIGHT EVEN BE DRIVING A NICE CAR! MY POINT IS BEWARE OF THOSE ONES IN THE CHURCH!!!!

Amen! Preach teach Bishop Blake's God bless you & I Pray that you also teach us about the truth the players with the Ice Burgh Slim mentality..❤️♥️❤️♥️💯🙏🏾🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽Thank God for these teachings. We must teach our children how to be more honorable & from more upright standards & values.

I grow up with a great father but he never really talk to me like this. He used to always say to me don’t let a man use you. I listened to him but little did he know that he had such a lonely gullible child. I hated being alone.I listened more to my friends than my own father. I really hate I missed out on a good guy. I’m 42 and will be 43 soon and a single mom to one child. I sure hope God gives me another chance. Thank you for your wisdom.

No stinginess here, great work, your words are as accurate and truthful as they can get. I "happened" to come by your channel 2 days ago. ....the binge has yet to cease. Thanks

What I've learned and it's taken me years is that you have to discern what their heart is because a lot of men don't have one .men who cannot love because of their childhoods take years of your life if you let them and are almost impossible to shake free from .my time and heart is mine now ❤

My prayers will always be to ask the Lord to reveal the Man’s heart and motives. I also ask that if this man is not for me that he removes him from my life “quickly”!!! I do not want to develop any soul ties unnecessarily!!!

"The player is like a hunter, he camouflages himself" 💥💥💥

“The double standard is the problem” 🙏🏾 ♥️Thank You Cyber Father 🙏🏾♥️

Sex will cloud your vision every time! I just got out of a situation with a guy. And I tell you what I have so much PEACE! I should have dropped his butt a long time ago. He drained me. I was being tossed to and fro with this guy. He occupied so much of my time and that's why it was draining.

Women have been conditioned to believe, and accept, every single thing outside of Scripture...it is the wise woman that understands this wicked work of darkness, and listens instead to what Scripture sees her as...it teaches a woman to value their body, minds, and Spirit...how to spot false from real...if it doesn't line up to Scripture, it's not good for you...let it go...or it will get you...

Wisdom is to high for a fool 👏🏾

I like the fact that you know that even these church guys play games. You know that being in the church does not make you a good person. Or someone trustworthy. Thank you for the honest truth.

I'm a new listener, this makes so much sense. I grew up with no men in my life until I came to Christ. just listening to this brings tears to my eyes.

Yes! God will show you if you ask him. God will reveal the true agenda and character. Just happen to me a month ago. My God is faithful and I Thank him for keeping me from getting hurt.

Pastor, you get a million hearts!!! Thank You for letting Abba use you to teach women like me, you are such a Blessing to me. & now my daughters & nieces.

Your teachings are so real I am 57 years old and just learning this stuff! I’m so proud you are helping others!!!I wish I could had known this information so many years ago ! Your awesome for bring this to the public in a book and these videos!!! I’m gonna tell everyone I can that would benefit!!! ❤️👍👏

Another wow...a carnal man cannot compete in the Spirit...you put things in words I can understand. Thank you...

I am glad I found you. If you'd allow me to adopt you as my Father. I wish mine taught me these... God bless you Sir

I'm dumb when it comes to men. If it had not been for God I'd be dead .....fa real ! These men are sick n I let a smile n pretty teeth nice words get me !

This is AWESOME Teaching!! True!! I've Been There many years ago. Now I Know my Value/Worth and NEVER Repeat the Past Issues/Mistakes. Nor BACKTRACK with the JERKS from my Past. When a Man Shows Me his Character I Make my Decision on his Actions NOT Words.🙏🙏🙏🙏

I'm from Uganda, Africa. This message is eye opening and liberating. Thank you so much pastor, may God bless you.

I appreciate the analogy of the hunter/hunted relationship, and the purpose of the camafloge is to make the woman feel she is safe, not in any danger until he fires the gun, so to speak. Holy Spirit, please help us women to seek YOUR TRUTH and to want it above all else!! Please, young women, take heed to the wisdom from God, through pastor Blakes!!

God bless you!! It's my prayer for God to continue to use you to enlighten our people.

My father was a preacher. He abused my Mom and ended up leaving her for a stripper. Pastor Blake's ...thank you for this truth.

Once again pastor Blake's you have out done yourself I absorbed that and healed some more thank you

Wish I had someone to teach me all this years ago. But better late than never! God bless you and thank you!!

Don't worry about the hearts Bishop Blakes. We love you. You are doing a awesome job! Thank you.

Thank you for this Pastor Blake's. I wish I had this information many years ago but very thankful to have it now. Thank you again sir. Bless you.

Sir you saying the truth right here if you gain confidence then they say they are intimidated by you what's up with that ? And When you're insecure they take advantage of it and use you anyway. The worst mistake I ever made was telling a man I was insecure.

Through the amazing Grace of God I thank you for sharing such powerful conversations! I take notes and share your videos with everyone I can, even ALL my social media contacts. Help spread His holy words children of God, praise Him, and understand that no matter what is going on in your life, you gotta GO through it, to GROW through it. Let your heart break so your soul can heal! God bless you all.

YOUR SO TELLING THE TRUTH AND I PRAY WEMEN OR YOUNG LADYS ARE BEING HELPED.

omg!!!! you are literally telling my life story!!!! Everything is so on point! Unbelievable.....I am hooked to listening to you. I'm learning so much..

In other words they look for women who lack an identity because they're fatherless.

Beautiful and most necessary teaching. Thank you so much.

Thank you so much for schooling me! I'm a fatherless woman.... Everything you say is nothing but TRUTH!

Pastor Blake's, Thank you for this message. You have blessed me. God bless you and keep you doing his works.

I'm so happy that my sister Lady Handy shared this book with me. I can't thank you enough Pastor Blakes for writing this book and for being so transparent with us and for being accessible... Can't wait to meet you one day.

THIS IS THE REALEST CONVERSATION I'VE HEARD. I LOVE YOU PASTOR BLAKE'S. PLEASE KEEP DOING WHAT U R DOING YOU ARE OPENING MINDS.

R C Blake’s voice is actually healing to ones soul.

Thank you man of God for your service to the people who have ears to hear. It's refreshing to hear the truth from a man about men. When you posted these, I was in the thick of what you're describing, but now that I'm free, the Holy Spirit has led me to your teachings for the next phase of my relational life. God bless you. Please bring these teachings back to periscope!

Thank you for your book and videos. My father has never been a part of my life. My parents divorced when I was a baby he’s been absent on my life I never learned any of these things. No brothers, uncles or grandfather either. Only child. Caused lots of pain with some terrible men.

U r absolutely right! Society makes it difficult to recognize a real man because they don’t want them to spoil the game being run on her🖐🏻

Thank god. Finally some sensefull advice. Thank you.

Praise the Lord that I found your channel🙌🏼 I grew up without a dad, this is food for my soul...THANK YOU ❤️

Thank you Pastor, you are definitely a reference to me on how to navigate in this society.

I am in South Africa I am so grateful with your videos,i never had a father figure and wish I heard you earlier in my life.

Most times when we are stingy with the hearts Pastor Blake is because we are listening intently and grasping every word that you're saying to apply it to our lives.

I just discovered you 2 weeks ago and can't stop listening to all your messages. I needed your teaching and am grateful that God brought you into my life. Thank you God bless you.

Where was this 25 yrs ago before I got my first boyfriend? Thisnis good. I discuss your talks with my 16 year daughter. You speak with Godly wisdom and simplify it with effective examples. I enjoy your videos. I will be getting your book for myself and my children.

Amen Dr. Blake. I really enjoy your teachings. They have helped me a lot. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

I need to get on Periscope so I can give you some hearts! You speaking good...thank you for teaching us wisdom!

Thanks for the videos very helpful 100% appreciated. Am incredibly grateful of finding your video's before I even got into the dating world, Thank the lord. Saved me a whole heap of pain, so again thanks again very helpful.

Thank you Pastor for the Godly man that you are. I wish my father had this talk with me when I was younger, I feel like it would have saved me from some of the choices I've made. However God is good because now that I have found your channel I have found a spiritual leader who has helped me get even closer to God, and helped me realize that good people still exist.

MY SECOND SPIRITUAL FATHER OTHER THAN MY HEAVENLY FATHER NO DAD. BUT GOD BLESS THIS MAN IM 30 AND NEVER HEARD THIS B4.

I am so glad he touched on all this because it's true and I pray that every person know that this is serious and it's war.People need deliverance!

I wish I heard this many years ago. Thank you Pastor x

never waste time on evil

God bless you, man of God!!

I agreed, soul ties are real and when sleeping with him he sleeping with others you get all those soul ties. Fast and pray stay away. I can testify. I learn to get in the spirit and there’s a scripture about asking God to reveal the heart of that or woman.

Pastor Blakes you're preaching now,thank God for His wisdom, because God will not leave you in the dark about these wolves in sheep clothing men

"A woman that is ignorant of his devices. He's looking for a woman that is insecure. A wise woman never believes everything a man says but she asks God to show her the way..."

Each of your videos is a spiritual healing and eye opener session which no therapist can give. They should come learn from you. We Christians (believers) are to produce, bring solutions to issues in this world. God bless you richly sir.

My father was absent all my life even my step father was a idiot growing up in a Christian home I've never heard anything like this thank GOD I found this video in the nick of time I am so tired of the hurt and disappointment of a player

Thank you for having the heart of a loving father.

Yes talk about it!! Perfect timing, the lord is always on time..Thank you Jesus ...

I remember one church going guy, started to talk early about getting married and living together. Turns out he's just looking for financial help.

I really like your videos Bishop. They are right on time and so very true! God bless you!

Thank God for this Chanel am learning so much,never too old to learn,God bless you pastor.

I have been watching your videos for about a month now and they have been helpful in training me to guard my heart. I'm glad I hit the subscribe button. I'm giving a testimony today, I met this man that I have been dating for some days and he's finding a hard time impressing me with words because I ain't moved by all these tricks that men use to get a woman under their skin. I'm a Queen and Queens don't panic but move gracefully. Thank you pastor this daughter appreciates the teachings

This man is the best thing that happened to last and this year. The better thing will be meeting the guy that is just like RC Blakes

Your daughters are blessed to have a father like you

Mr. Blakes, you have opened my eyes and helped me realize my value. God Bless! Here are your hearts❤❤❤❤❤!

awesome word thank you pastor blakes a must share you brung it home so true God bless you

My God! What a dynamite lesson. Thank you and may God continue to bless you and your family.

This is so brilliant, yes I agree with everything you are saying oh so much because it is just how it is and we can clearly discern it!

A Carnal man Cannot compete with a Spiritual Woman AMEN AMEN AMEN

I Thank God for you and your teachings. It's 2019 and my life has been turned upside down through this break up and Your blog came just in time. I always say God let's things happen for a reason, in His own due season. Thank God for bringing me to you

This is so true. I've listened for 8 hours today to your wise counsel through these videos. Thank you so much.

We all live in Satans system and are affected by this system

I really appreciate the “tough love”.

I appreciate this segment. We need to see the spirit of the man and discern his heart.

Thank you RC , I feel you are the older brother , father ,uncle I never had, and needed desperately . I wish I would have had this advice in the 60's , it would have saved me alot of suffering.. Back than there was hardly phones , or TV. I've always thought the game was rigged against women, but I never had the tools, mentors, books , education to figure it out. And now you have come a long and expressed it, philosophically ,so well. Thank you , I guess it's never to late to learn at 70.

This info is mind blowing.. May God expose the wisdom He had placed in you .. may it be your time...that men come to hear from the north south east & west to stop the corruption of relationships... Because now we know the tricks of the enemy ... Let the Holy Ghost lead us in all truth...to understand the will of God..

I'm going through this right now😭😭😭🙏🏽pray for my strength please!!!!

Thank you for giving this information... My dad never had these conversations with me and this is opening my eyes to truth... Much respect to you.

You are making lots of sense to me. Thanks for these teachings because I needed to hear this......I appreciate you taking the time to post this Pastor

Thank you pastor for being the man that you are. God bless! I appreciate all you share in spite of how difficult it is to hear. I’m so glad to learn that their are men who want to help women take their position as God had intended. The game is real and it is detrimental to the family and it needs to stop. 1000 million hearts for you and your family. Please, Don’t stop there are to many fatherless women out here who are left in the dark. Thank you also for helping single mothers understand their sons better. I want my boys to be men of integrity and my daughter the queen she is here to be. I don’t usually comment but your wisdom and openness about Gods promise to us all, it is heart warming for me and your passion to make a women’s life better is noble. Thank you Pastor Blakes. I’m listening...

Knowledge is power...thank you for empowering women. I had a father and a brother, was not taught any of these lessons, if anything i was taught early on how to be abused. So many mistakes and pain in my life, i just want to be better and do better. God bless you and your family

nice message but i do not agree with the thug theory. women are not that narrow minded and thugs are not the only men that run game. this is setting women up to get used by non thug men because they are avoiding thugs and not seeing the signs of the noon thug players. there are more non thug players than there are thugs.

No other pastor speaks of this anywhere, and it is so needed to not be victim of being used, and find goodness.Thank you

A Very Good Point Ask God to reveal the Surface of a Man and get a Spiritual Answer about a man. AWESOME ADVICE!!!!!!