Karyn N. Amen!!!!! Men know who they can take advantage of. They don’t just approach everyone. They seek out the silly woman

Karyn N. Amen so true.

Sooo soo true. Living testimony here.

Amen!!!!! True!

Karyn N. Yaaz, lmbo they us at all costs

Wanda Santillo I was thinking the same thing! Churches need to speak on this! Thank God for Pastor Blakes😊

The church don't teach us that

Your so right , they don't speak on relationship, other than no sex before marriage.

Me, too. I wish I had heard this after my husband died and especially after my mom died. I mean hearing from my church family in this tough way. My mom surely was one who didn't mind telling anyone this!

I learned more in the last 10 lectures I have listened to than I did when I attended church the last forty years!!! Thank you so much for these valuable lessons!!!

Amen Sister! 🙌🏽🙏🏾

🥰🥰🥰👑 God bless you Queen

Yes u deserve it

Amen and I’m doing the same thing

I’m here getting back to my senses myself. I too wasted time trying to see the good in people and thinking my love would change them. Boy was I wrong. Lesson learned. ❤️‍🩹🙌🏽

Very interesting point!

Tokilupe NADZ Amen Sista!!! I embrace my singleness too. The reality is this. These so call men today are playing too many games and I am not the one. If I wanted to play games I can do that with my neices and nephews in the sandbox at park somewhere. Nobody ain't got time for da B. S

Good

👏👏👏👍👍

Shy Goy I have been silly too. I accept responsibility for my past.

Shy Goy we all have..selah n ahman

Shy Goy Amen! All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. I have been silly in the past as well. But, I am fearfully and wonderfully made. God told me that wonderful are his works! I am thankful for Pastor Blake‘s message. It has been reinforced for me as I move on from my divorce. I actually married the man who dishonored me and had a child with him. For 17 years, I dealt with mental, psychological, and emotional abuse. But, God has delivered me from years of pain and confusion. But, I learned to forgive and to remain faithful as a woman of God. He has removed all bitterness, resentment, and strife from me. I now operate in peace beyond understanding, and I have been able to help so many others along the way. Praise God from whom all blessings flow. So grateful!

Been there done that too.....

me too. bless you

Amen!

krs1 True!

True let them go

Incorrect, remember part of a man sleeping around it’s bc there’s silly woman that allow him too.

Sure can

Amen Sister🙌🏽🙏🏾

So true Sister ✅

They are lost. It's a CURSE! If God did not choose you the cycle WILL repeat!

Ladawn D Amen.

Ladawn D you're not alone. many ladies suffer from childhood abuse that damage their emotions.

I lived in shame for years. I believe God delivered me from toxic marriage. 20 years of my life.

This hit me also.

Yes🙏🏾

You must live in Atlanta.

@@carolynwilliams4926 no.. Live in London 🌹

Yes God 🙏

Amen Sister!!! That’s right ✅🙏🏾

🙌🏾🙌🏾

Lori Johnson God bless you for your story. I hope you came out much stronger in Jesus name.

R. Efila

Lori God is good so glad your out :)

Thank you.

bless your heart💙

Yes indeed Sis!!!!! I appreciate Pastor Blakes! He tells us what many of us was never told.

♥️🙏🏾

Ava Harvey me too

Mee three!

I also was a silly Women but now God saved me 🙏💃🏽

So was I 🙋🏽‍♀️…..but no more!!! I’m taking time for me now. Listening to more videos by Pastor Blake’s. And taking the time to heal ❤️‍🩹.

Amen and Amen to this

This message was so good!!!!! You brought up a good point sister about being sheltered. I think some parents (although well meaning) shelter their children so much that we are sometimes unaware because of not being taught. Some well-meaning parents thought that if they protect us, we will not experience those things. This is true in some instances, but in some, being sheltered made us vulnerable, unknowing, and easy to sniff out by not so good people. It's okay to have some street smarts - we need to know what's going on, and what to look out for.

Jahsmeen NunyaBiz It’s OK and could’ve been worse. At 59 I am just waking up and I say, better late than never.

Me too but my brother being a dealer and player and my sister being ran through and ending up an addict is the only thing that saved me....

It's never too late

Girl I’m 40 just now figuring this all out

Say it again!

A lie can kill if you do not use the wisdom of God to stand up and get everything God has for you. That would include leave that clown behind.Lol

Amen!!!

Remember you're not alone hold on to god

We in the same boat sis i hope all is well now

I remember this Sis & yes it was sad

Zarasha1 Interesting and Sad

Im so glad Im reading these comments. I can relate to it all and glad I escaped a narc with PTSD. No telling what couldve happened if I wouldve stayed and constantly starting fights with him because of his lies. reading stories like this keeps me from going back.

Sadly this happened in my former town of Michigan....Praying for women that are willing to settle for a piece of relationship rather than what they truly deserve...respect and love... I truly thank God for delivering me from the wrong men out of my life.. I thank him for positioning me to being by myself and finally being content until he decides Im ready for another relationship. . #imdonewithbeingthesillywoman!

This is just the saddest case ever! God have mercy!

PHD WOMAN IS BEING LED BY A GED MAN WHO WANTS TO LEAD HER TO THE B.E.D. SORRY JUST LIKE USING CAPS

Facts

No u wasnt stupid just misguided from the teachings and guidance from parents and the society that like pastor said in a other video this world builds a guy to be a narrastics and a woman a empath to basically cater to the man and put them before ourselves no girl your not stupid we just brain washed and or operating from a wounded subconcious

No, you were not stupid, maybe naive, but you live and learn.

Stupid is what Stupid does 😂 Then God! 💖 Bondage No More!!!

@@a64381 Thank you for saying this!

Chanelle Novoséy Thank you.😊

Chanelle Novoséy Lol, you're speaking for me as well. Fell in with someone that wasn't even my type of guy because I didn't want to be single. I did get something good out of it though 2 of the best friends I've ever had, he has 2 wonderful cousins that are unbiased and true friends. That is what I believe God led me to people I can trust.

Thank you so many women have been used up by these kind of men thank you for your knowledge this has helped me with dealing with relationships that mean no good please keep helping woman understand thier value and worth this is food for the soul thank you very much

Best advice coming from a Man. Im 48 I wished I got this Advice n Teaching early on in life. I grew up watching my Father cheat. I once fell Victim because my Mom told me that all Men cheat. As I began to Love self and know my Worth I refuse to Settle. Im Single n Celibate and Im Content. Thank You Mr. Baker

I love it teaching.. God bless u

Nicole Kay 🙏🏽😊

Upgrade Journey agreed.

Upgrade Journey ....preach!

Right! He’s on a great path. Both sexes need to be addressed. One side alone is never to blame.

Exactly, that statement takes all responsibility off the man for his own behavior and places it on the woman. This makes her responsible for a grown man's behavior. No, that's not going to work.

Decency says don't take advantage of the gullible vulnerable! The gullibility & vulnerability is not the woman's fault but a conditioning of the background that has robbed her of virtue! Abusive relationships at home or at work steals virtue from children and they grow up to be silly women because their mothers remained stuck in abusive narcisstic marriage unable to make decisions to cut off ties with these sadistic individuals for husbands! Please!!!!!! Pastor with all due respect, we have a lot of work to do to change this thing!!! Thank you!

Vickie wilson So was I. So many of us can attest to this. But thanks unto God who gives us the victory!

Vickie wilson we, all were at one time Sis..the key word is "one" time..so, blessed that I've woken up..remain strong! Let God continue to lead you..

I was a “silly woman” so many times I can’t count! That was then; this is now!

Me too😞

Vickie wilson me too

Amen Sister!!! ♥️🙏🏾

Contrina Durant a year I should be glad at the ones who ghosted me after one date then. Protection

Pam..that message seared between the division of the soul and spirit,bone marrow 😂😂.I was hurt at first too..cos I have allowed too much BS for too long....it ain't too late.Sometimes to speak into your life to heal&grow in God

me too

Amen

Amen

I'm a silly woman

Good mommy

Tina Fox have to listen to his def. of dating. dating for data/ dating for discernment... it is a non sexual non romance discovery of anothers soul I forgot wat episode its on went on binge

Tina Fox Sis!!! I’m telling you! It is possible! I am a witness firsthand. Last year I had finished dating someone who was not any good for me. I already knew what he was trying to make happen but I shut him out. Long story short. In the beginning of 2017 I purchased a promise ring for myself, dedicated it to my relationship with God, prayer over it and told God that I did not want to date. My heart would only be open to forming Godly friendships or courting. Well October rolled in and I was commenting on a post and a few other people replied to my comment. My present day fiancé was one of the people who replied to my comment on the public post. For the month of October I ignored him, overlooked him and was chatting with another Christian gentleman that I soon had to cut off for being too forceful and controlling. All the while my present day fiancé simply would wait on me to respond to him. I literally would go days without response to him. One day in November he said something to me and God whispered ‘Look.’ I looked at him again and realized that he was standing there waiting to change my life. We pray together every night before we fall asleep in our separate destinations. And now we’ve begun to pray together in the morning when we wake up. God has blessed me with a future husband. I asked him why he waited on me and I ignored him for a month and he said “I knew I was going to love you forever on the very day I saw your comment on that post. Although you overlooked me for that time I knew that God was helping me because love is patient, love is kind, love keeps no records of wrong.” Boy. Oh boy. God set me up.🤦🏽‍♀️ I’m all embarrassed. Thought I wanted to stay single. I was so happy there on my own. Now I’m even happier with him hanging around.

Tina Fox Be encouraged!

i agree 100 percent.no dating!

Beautiful story, thanks for sharing! May God bring together more relationships like this.

I pray that you are in a better position now

Azizi Foster Lol so did I 😄...

Yes Azizi. He is a light in the darkness.

Azizi Foster i totally agree!! His teachings are soooooooo sound!!!

Yes. The truth hurts.

Summers Rule a father in the home is no different than a father who left the home, sometimes the father is just there or the father is not really good with their own children.

I agree, you can still have a father in the home and if the relationship between father and daughter is not right...or even the father is one of these men, we are telling women to avoid, women can still make the mistake of attaching themselves to these men.

wow.. yes

It comes from being fatherless. No father = No identity. No identity = low self esteem. People with low self esteem are easy to manipulate. Because they're depending on someone else to make them feel good about themselves. Thats the person they give control to. Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. You have to forgive your daddy for not being there and allow God to heal that breach in your soul. Otherwise you'll continue to find men just like him because you reap your judgement

Kareen Mondesir we are following self, others and satan, but not God.

Much respect. Peace and love sis.

Pastor Blake, thank youuuu for these words of truth. A much needed area that many of us, particularly me, needed. Sometimes truth is hard to accept. But rejection if truth makes one the more silly and unwise. Again, many thanks for imparting and sharing. I love following you. Keep sharing

Cubbie Smith That’s one of the bondages he is talking about!💯

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2024🎉

Some men see women as people they can control. It's the nature of the beast. You have to establish your boundaries.

Miss LT well... If they were never taught....or no role models...then uh.......

Miss LT Right, some men lie and play so many games as if they don't even like women. They do messed up stuff to us and it seems as though they don't care and have no plans to change.

Lady Magnolia they don't. Many of them are Narcissists looking to catch bait for their even bigger Narc Mother to approve of and fawn over. I see this in emotional Incest of single mother's and their son's. I avoid a lot of men like this. These are Princess men who are more Female then male so they lack the Principles and Grounding a Man of God would bring. Accountability, Leadership, Honor, RESPONSIBILITY he was not taught that by the Mother so he will not exercise it themselves. A lot of these males are honestly gay and when you realize that you don't get so impressed by lies. They talk a lot because they are HIGHLY female aka Gift if Gab so you Listen instead of WATCH their actions which is what they want you to do

A Stand brilliant

Definitely 🙌🏾♥️

d g, I don't know if it took a lot for you to share your story but I've found encouragement in it! Thanks for sharing. I'm trying to get stronger in overcoming my sinful nature.

d g..... A married man who wants to cheat with you ,tells a lot about his Character straight up! Glad you cane to your senses quickly, more women should run them then they wouldn't have that luxury of saying that they have a wife and a side piece! Run them!

d g No one can judge u but God

Lyle wells yes she can be judged sweetheart adultery is one of the tenth commandments the Father speaks strongly against these actions. Find your own husbands

d g God is with you and will give you wisdom, guidance and strength. Keep focused on what God has told you to do. You can do this. God please help US we need you as women to not be a silly woman ,,to allow the fool to lead us in bondage.