I think Joe's greatest quality is his thirst for knowledge and for understanding other people's point of view. Even when he might disagree with them.

"Jamie, pull up that clip of Charisma on Command talking about me"

1. - Do not rush. - Emphasis important words. - Use pauses between words to hold attention - Remove the fear of losing sb’s interests or getting cut off -> say effortlessly -> finish your thought 2. - Not allow others to derail u from saying something important (1st interruption) - If sb repeatedly interrupts you, call it out while remaining calm (no yelling) - If sb just messes around, allow them to interrupt - (Not direct way) Pause! Agree. Continue your own thought 3. Share your honest thoughts even if pp might not like them (save your self-esteem) - your own motivations for doing things (even if u don’t like it) - call people out on their bad behavior (then empathize it by your story. I’m not perfect) - Share your opinion on topics you feel passionate about (politics, religion) + Proactively address your potential misunderstandings. Answer their objections 4. Be more interested in finding the truth than being right - be willing to consider alternative opinions

My greatest takeaway from this video is the fact that when you honestly voice out what you think, you become a magnet: people that resonate with what you’re saying and believe in your values will come closer to you while those that don’t believe in what you have to say will go away from you. This is such an important thing to realise because if you don’t do this, you become a people pleaser and basically have no personality of your own. As a result, when you don’t have an authentic and interesting personality, people don’t find you interesting and hence you don’t build long-lasting healthy relationships with people of same interests and values as you and your life is boring as hell.

Joe's conversational skills have improved tremendously. He became less attached and doesn't get angry as much as he used to. His second podcast with Crowder proves how good he is at rekindling relationships.

Mastering others is strength. Mastering yourself is true power. - Lao Tzu

I LOVED the way he said “if we’re going to continue having a discussion, we can’t keep talking over each other”. The PERFECT way to word it that it gets the point across without full finger pointing and causing offense 🙌🏻. I’m so glad that example was used here!!! First time really listening to him, and I caught that exchange. Immediately made me realize that holy crap… he’s not just some hunter/fighter tool bag.. he’s incredibly emotionally mature. He gained a new fan in me, that’s for sure. Glad I’m not the only one who also caught that little gem in him! Loooove Joe Rogan

Damn. This video is reminding me how important it is to stay cool, calm, and collected when confronting someone. Raising my voice and speaking too quickly is usually followed by an argument. I usually mean what I say but don't say what I mean. Remembering to slow down will help me choose my words more wisely.

One of Joe Rogan's best qualities is that he is very open minded and willing to listen to others. He really knows how to make people feel like the most important person in the room.

4 ways to command more respect in conversation 1. Do not rush. Place emphasis on important words. Use pauses between words to hold attention *avoid fear that you won't get to finish your thought if you make pauses 2. Do not allow other people to derail you from saying something important *If someone repeatedly interrupts you call it out while remaining calm *Pause, agree, continue your original thought *acknowledge what is being said then return to completing your point 3. Share your honest thoughts even if you know some people might not like them *Three areas of proactive honesty that instantly gets more people to like you: A - Your own motivations for doing things (people pretend to be more charitable, hide money as motivations etc.) ; B - Call people out on their behavior (explaining why you're not perfect either after is a great way to earn respect for your honesty and help maintain your relationship with the person you called out ); C - Share your opinions on topics you feel passionate about (Joe shares his on the two no-go topics on polite society: politics and religion) (even if he knows he will get backlash about it. Example: transgender MMA fighter opinion) . 4. Be more interested in finding the truth than being right (be willing to consider alternative opinions)

Something that has helped me a lot with my confidence is just being 100% honest about everything you say. That just sort of clicked with me and I feel loads better

I like him so much I named my second son Rogan. He’s changed the way I talk to people, the way I measure success, and how I treat others. All in a positive way ❤ Thank you Joe Rogan

*Remaining calm is a power move. I've even read studies that have found most women (generally speaking, of course) find calm men more attractive than reactive men.*

Joe is the person on the Internet today or in the public eye, most taken out of context. At the same time too many people hang on to his every word instead of learning for the example of wanting to seek truth, think critically, and be willing to change your mind.

Yes, Joe is not a non interuptable machine. His standout characteristic is he allows his guests to talk, and his own, rare, interuptions are excellent observations and questions that throw the ball back to his guest and enrich the interview. That's what makes him such a great broadcaster imo

Rogan has shown me the exact method to surrendering my pride and opening my eyes and heart to acknowledge and understand people with beliefs that I feel were much easier for me to just disagree with. The world is lucky to have him.

Absolutely love Joe Rogan's podcast. His ability to adapt to his guest's way of thinking and understand them is highly admirable, usually making for great discussion.

I have always tried my best to make it clear that "I want to be wrong, please tell me when I'm wrong. I will listen, I will do my best to understand." because i take more pride in my ability to listen than in my ability to be right. My own satisfaction for winning an argument will always pale in comparison to my need for truth. This is how i feel people should be, even if we disagree with each other.

Joes maturity and lack of ignorance while talking to people is top tier because he shows respect first. He has his ego in check. This video has great point and great advise. Having your ego in check and being open minded makes him a power house of a person.

It’s crazy I’m doing sales & I stumbled across this info. Thank You God 🙏🏾🌞❤️

The fact that Joe reguarly gives his own take on wide variety of stuff and is still really liked by the left and right is a huge credit to him as a person.

I found this extremely helpful. Might I add, I used to only like when Charlie did videos, because he came across a lot more 'charismatic', but you Ben did such a great job I took a while knowing it was even you! Your own voice has gotten a lot more confident, calm, composed, and commanding. Way to go practicing what you preach!

this was a really good video. great examples, no click bait title, just bravo sir. this is the kind of content and channel we should support. 🙌💯

That compliment from Jordan Peterson was bloody excellent :-)

I had watched nearly every Rogan podcast there was. Hours and hours of just listening and learning. I was able to take myself out of a dark place but I had a dream one night that I was in a helicopter and Joe was the pilot. The helicopter was mine but as we were in the air I realized he wasn't a pilot. After thinking about that a while I realized that role models and influences are good but you have to fly your chopper. Good luck friends!

I cant be the only one who canned myself when that guy tried to interrupt WHILE he was telling that story about the stand up comedian being interrupted... "Not to be interrupted by a MORON..."

He's just a straight forward guy that is willing to learn more through other peoples knowledge. The way he interrupts a guess talking on his podcast is not the kind that'll make u say " stop interrupting and let them talk". It only shows how interested he is to what they are saying rather than cutting them bcs he's got something to say.

One of, if not the best, interviewers of our time.

I love it "Hold on a second man, for real"

It is Joe’s ability to speak on a level playing playing field and show equal respect that I find most admirable.

Joe is brilliant socially, so much to learn from him...for a start, hes instantly likeable. Which not all of us are. Very good social skills.

Joe asks questions that no one will touch and ask the questions that his audience needs answers too. Great respect for joe in these times. And never backs down from an important topic and even goes further💪🏼

Like you guys have said previously about Rogan, “He believes the social value of honest conflict is greater than the social value of dishonest harmony.”

I usually just kick down the door and throw the first person I see onto the table. But it looks like there is another way to command respect. hmmm who knew.

Incredible analysis--spot on. I always feel like Joe needs to interview himself--one of the most amazing people by far, not to mention his knowledge about anything and everything is uncanny--dude has an incredible work ethic. . .still works for the UFC, still managers to read a ton, still manages to stay up to date on current events, all while knowing so much about his guests. Dude is a work horse.

Years ago, Joe was a _comedian,_ of all things, and then a bit actor in the TV show "News Radio," playing a somewhat questionable station engineer. Great show. So the fact that he now has the most popular (and highest paid) podcast in the world (or at least in the US), absolutely blows my mind. I still have a hard time taking Joe seriously, even though he's obviously someone TO take seriously. But like this video says, he's extremely intelligent, well-read, understands his audience, isn't afraid to ask hard-hitting questions, or call out someone when needed. And for that he should be highly commended.

I discovered Joe several years ago, and found his conversations deeply engaging. I'd be painting or working on a course outline, and his breezy talks with interesting points of view, were the perfect accompaniment to my state of mind. I may not have agreed with everything he said, but he made sense.

The way to hold attention of listeners during a conversation is not only through mannerisms, but also through depth and importance of the information.

Thank you charisma on command. This video and your tips helped me to peacefully end a conflict with others.

Part of his "deep rooted confidence" is that he has always been the toughest or one of the toughest guys in the room. He was a national champion level wrestler at a young age. You have to be a bad dude to perform at that level. As an adult he's trained in MMA... He can say things that would get others knocked out or attempted to be knocked out. Now he has fame and fortune which adds to his dominance of his guests. He is great at what he does though.

*Hands down, Joe is just crushing it* 😉

Great video! His willingness to hear people out despite their differences has been a major influence in my life. It breeds trust and even friendship, bridging divides. This is needed now more than ever before!

Joe is so real. I learn a lot from his broad on KZfaq and Spotify. He is a prime example of a real man.

This is probably the most useful, thick Charisma on Command episode there is. Joe is the perfect subject; I only realize now that the hours of episodes I've enjoyed had less to do with the guest or content of the day, but with a desire to expose myself to someone who is so masterful in this way - being firm yet respectful, even in disagreement. We absorb that to which we surround ourselves; media is food for the mind. Be healthy

Another great breakdown. Love how joe takes both sides into consideration, how knowledgeable he is on various topics, and how he and his guests can keep us captivated for 3 hrs yet feel as if it would be a conversation we would just have with any one of our friends!!

Joe's human just like anyone of us. He mostly has good days, but once in a while he would get defensive or would even try to put the other person down; and when you've literally interacted with thousands of people, that's bound to happen.

Respect yourself, find confidence in yourself and others will find both within you

He's I think the best in history as an interviewer .. if that's how you say it. I can't think of anyone else who speaks like him to others and acts as genuine as Joe. It's weird how good of a guy he is. He's super friggin smart, one of the attitudes overall, the way he can basically relate to everyone and if he can't directly he genuinely tries. Overall he's what I call a real man and one you can look up to and model your own self like him. If everyone could be like him this planet would be a hole lot better and for God sake smarter by far. I've listened to Joe since he started his podcasts back in the day and have watched him almost daily if possible because he's such a good guy. He's a legit legendary human being.

Joe deserves what he has. He is a bloody good man.

You guys provide an incredible service to mankind and just keeps getting sharper and more refined. Salt of the earth. May my blessings, love, and being as wind in your sails and brighten the stars upon your course. Thank you brothers and sisters, sincerely ThElement.

Don't rush. Emphasis words. Use pauses. Calmly tell people not to interrupt you. Don't yell. Share honest thoughts even if people don't like it. I'm not perfect either is a great way to earn respect Focus on finding truth instead of being right

This is the best ADVERTISEMENT for an online course I've ever seen. Smooth, bro. Very smooth. Seriously, not being sarcastic. You provide a lot of great points, great quality content, a well edited video, lots of insight into a likeable person in a likeable way, and then...your perfect transition into selling your online course. WOW! No wonder you have 5.3 million subs. I literally didn't realize i was watching an ad until that moment, and that transition was so smooth, I'm like...yeah. That was the BEST advertisement for an online course I've ever watched. That was cool, bro. Keep up the great work.

Man, I bet that you had to endure negative reaction from people who where used to Charlie's voice. I was one of these people. But when I let that go and just watched the videos, I found out that you're just as good or even better than Charlie. Keep up the good work

Joe has great communication skills. They were learned for sure. Any interviewer has to learn how to direct the interview or conversation in a podcast.

Always loved Joe's sense of comedic timing, I'm referring to his character on News Radio. When I first heard that he was an avid MMA fighter, I wasn't too surprised, cause even doing comedy, he came off as a BadAss. Then watching how he handled himself as the host of Fear Factor, dealing with the variety of contestants, while mostly keeping his cool, you could see he knows something about disapline. I've watched/listened to quit a few of his podcasts and found each one thought prevoking. Like how he speaks his mind.🤔😆🧠💖✨

This is a really good episode. Highly useful. Was explaining on how you don't have to be a big scary intimidating person to be dominant. You just have to be smarter and more prepared. Martial arts do help a lot. The more I've trained, the less likely fights have become. Most shitbags want to bully people who cannot stand up for themselves at all, if you can demonstrate you are gonna be hard to hurt, and the other person is putting themself at an extreme risk, generally the other person will back down. I'm a small person, and had to develop my body mind and soul, but I've been successful at every near fight I've been in over the past several years. All the events were people taking advantage of a community or individual. It's also good to network with your people so you have people to back you up if necessary. Be kind, but don't be a wuss bag.

i originally found this channel when i felt a lot of lack in my life. since then its been insane the up and downs events and stagnations of my life, but i really think trying to control your life more ends up being a hindrance. i still really respect this channel for helping people to learn what they think might better themselves but for me, i had to accept i just wasn't the person i wanted before i could move on to better things. i think life improvement is much more of a spiritual journey rather than a learning of techniques journey like these videos. i love you all guys keep on searching for whats right and meaningful. peace

He has evolved a lot but he's still not one-sided or stuck in his bubble. He still learns from everyone and that's why everyone loves to join him on his podcast. And that's why we love to listen to it.

Where has this channel been!? What a brilliant channel!!!!!!

I've enjoyed your videos for a good while now, but haven't really commented so I thought I'd mention it, and am happy for your success. Have you considered doing anything about online communications? Work voice conferences, texting, email. There are a lot of first-impressions done online without ever meeting or seeing the person.

Love Joe Rogan - even if I don’t agree with him 100% of the time, he always has my respect. 👊

Love how straight forward Joe can be he looks great and has a beautifully intelligent mind

As an adult, this is the way I talk with people. However, it is very difficult to get a point across in my situation. I work in a rehab dealing with addiction issues. I would say 80% of these adults have serious ADD and are completely self-absorbed, almost like babies. When I calmly throw down facts and knowledge there's almost like a silence, like nobody can relate. I've been studying this whole thing but, it's not that much different in 'normal' society. Stay calm, state facts, be honest and speak from the heart even if you'll regret it, relate if you can, argue if necessary, take that hit graciously, but always respect their point of view. It doesn't work all the time but it's the way I transmit... And if it's utterly hopeless and you're just being freight trained then just walk away, and let the babies get their way.

This is the great content that I always waiting for 👏🏻. This is really help me thankyou. ✨

The auto-generated captions on this video are hilarious 😂

Thank you for another great video Charisma on command!

Don’t fear others cutting you off, or how the other person will receive your words but have empathy for them put yourself in their shoes but stay in your own ones at the same time.

I literally am constantly amazed by his confidence and honesty. Truly an icon.

Awesome. I needed this today after struggling with an argument with a longtime female friend who can be a conversation bully. I confronted her and she went off on me, and I'm realizing I must represent my truth at all times.

4:47 😀 that's so good, so relatable, it feels like a day to day talk.

This was a Great Video, I honestly don't watch Joe that much, I have known about him as a fighter for a long time, I always thought he just got Lucky with his Online gig, and never gave him much credit, but after watching THIS Video it really explains what the Attraction is to Joe. This kind of opened my Eyes to him, now I kinda wish I would have tuned in a little more.

Joe Rogan's the man! Definitely going to use these tips!

Video Summary: 1. Do not rush emphasis words use pauses between to hold attention. 2. Do not allow people to cut you off from something important 3. Share your personal thoughts even if some people might not like them. 4. Be more interested in finding the truth than being right

Joe does it exceptionally well because it is genuine. It comes from deep confidence. You can not mimic confidence.

Peterson sounds like someone immitating Peterson.

i can always feel a muscle grow in my brain every time i watch any one of your videos. Not to worry, its not a tumour, but you get the point.

He is very confident and calm, but no shy, when He speaks He does in an eloquent manner, is what makes him interesting, is a talent many TV personalities have with big success

I got a huge amount from this video, and have watched it many times. I also watch JR in a totally different way and still learn from him. One thing that is not here, and is the opposite of the video title, is making people respect me. TBH, I don't care too much about that, and it's not on me to make them respect me. I live respectfully of others, this video helps that, and if that gets respect in return great. If not, so he it, I get on with my life.

Charlie make a video on Phil Coulson from Agents of SHIELD. He is charismatic af.

the use of "like" as a comma is really annoying.

I only recently mastered the staying calm and collected during heated discussions. I discovered I am able to "win" almost every discussion point because the other party is getting angry and emotional. And they are no longer able to use strong arguments.

Wow...as an autistic woman, I do a lot of these things naturally through a pure lack of understanding of social hierarchy and small talk. I have always been told I command respect, and was never sure why - now I know!

Thanks for the advice. I really needed to hear this as a person with severe social anxiety. I lack confidence in my speaking power. This will help out alot I hope.

Joe rogan is probably the most skilled communicator we have right now in pop culture. With thousands of hours of interviews taking place over a decade, he's very rarely stumped or the one being educated unless he has an intelectual or a PhD on.

Ok, I completely appreciate the content you put out - for free no less - as well as quality of content on this channel, and I also fully believe that the Charisma On Demand program is absolutely valuable and worth any penny one might spend on it. There is *zero doubt* in my mind that it can and often does have a life changing impact on many people who put their heart and head in it. But I can't help but take pause at the cringe and thick layer of sus on that third piece of testimony @11:34... I mean, really? Just seems a little too "fantasy in my head" to just accept the authenticity of that one with a straight face. It reads more like the hopeful inner dream outcome of a naive teenager new to internet pick up artist courses dreams up in his imagination. 😂 I really don't mean to be negative, I'm stoked at the positive results of the people who go through this program and achieve their ambitions and I legitimately have no doubt it happens for many. That last bit just rubbed me the wrong way I guess. I'm not even saying you faked it or anything, just saying it seems to good to be true and that the person have submitted it probably putting a little more icing on the cake than the recipe called for - if you pick up what I'm puttin down... Anyways, thanks for the great content regardless.

Respect.. getting it, having it, earning it, owing it.. is imagined. 💞

_”Hey Jamie, pull up that Charisma on Command photo of me where I look completely jacked”_

Lol it was hard for him to control the conversation with Neil Degrasse Tyson

I've always been a fan of Joe Rogan ever since I saw one of his standup routines. After that, I was immediately drawn to his comedic views and his intelligence when conveying his points. And not to mention, he's got a sidekick that would break the ribs of about 99.98% of the world's population. 😅🤣

Awesome tips. Thank you for breaking down the examples on talking and getting respect, whilst also making others feel listened to

Rogan likes everyone, it means he doesn't have his own point or scary to share. I remember he was more honest about his thoughts, but was criticized.

Fallan Fox nearly killed the very first woman he fought. A multi-title holder, his victim wrote from her hospital bed "I have never felt so overpowered".

Words can't explain how well put together and useful this video is. Thank you 🙏🏼

I love how Joe calmly tells him to "hang on a second" almost like he's asking permission.

This works. My boss was yelling at me one morning. He was completely in the wrong. However, I calmly said to him " You don't have to yell. You can talk to me like i'm a human being and still got your point across. " He instantly calmed down and actually , without actually saying it, admitted he was wrong. As I respected that he was my boss, I stood my ground and demanded respect . It worked for both of us. It kept a heated conversation from getting out of control. Sometimes confrontation isn't the answer.

I think this is as valuable for aggressive personalities checking their aggression as it is for passive folk asserting themselves.

This is why even though I’m not a subscriber I like listening to Joe Rogan’s videos. He stays level-headed and calm during arguments and is respectful and open-minded about other people’s views as well as being introspective with himself.

Great video as always! Commanding respect translates to all aspects in your life and can really improve how people treat you and thus how you feel about yourself :)

Nobody: Alex Jones: I'll bet you 10 million dollars that humanoids are real.

There is being blunt, and coming across as arrogant. It’s a good balance, confidence while understanding that there’s always more knowledge to learn