How To Effortlessly Defend Yourself In Any Argument

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We’ve all had conversations that started out friendly, then suddenly turned into an argument that made us feel attacked. The other person twists your words and uses little tricks to try to make you look dumb.
So today we’re going to break down a conversation just like that between Andrew Tate and Piers Morgan, to show you how to defend yourself in any argument, even if the other person is determined to make you look bad.
This video is NOT endorsing either of these people, it’s simply an analysis to teach you the tactics some people use to assert dominance in an argument.
⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
0:00 - Intro
0:30 - #1: Spot when they enter "fight mode"
1:14 - #2: Watch for misquoting
2:49 - #3: Beware of derailing interruptions
4:41 - #4: Don't steamroll concessions
5:57 - #5: Catch any logic gaps
7:34 - #6: Draw a conversational boundary
8:39 - #7: Acknowledge any common ground
9:40 - #8: Give yourself permission to change your mind
10:30 - Improve your confidence
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@Christian-jr1gn Жыл бұрын

Piers Morgan just made Tate look so much better than what he was trying to do lmao

@TurdFergusen Жыл бұрын

not to mention the name of the show is “uncensored” but piers is arguing for self censorship

@0ned Жыл бұрын

@@TurdFergusen it's Piers Morgan Uncensored not everyone else uncensored.

@eddiebear34 Жыл бұрын

@@TurdFergusen how is he doing that? He interrupts and he goes OTT with analysis of people's words. But that's not asking for someone to sensor themselves. I never knew who he was until this interview. I think it's a bit strange that someone at 36 years old finds 18 year old girls more appealing than women in their mid 20s. Not sure when he said it. But that's girls just outta school. Even if he said it within the past 10 years, it's a bit young for him

@TurdFergusen Жыл бұрын

@@eddiebear34 thats your hangup, not biology’s.

@eddiebear34 Жыл бұрын

@@TurdFergusen beast alert

@sarahs6165 Жыл бұрын

Staying calm and not letting your emotions overtake you in an argument is a huge advantage to keeping a clear head and responding efficiently. Easier said than done but extremely important.

@sunnyfinn3125 Жыл бұрын

Understanding the motive is very crucial Sarah

@richardvanheesen1606 Жыл бұрын

agreed. and it is hard to do

@Damidas Жыл бұрын

It's also a good way to piss the other person off because they think you don't care enough about the argument to get upset over it

@JewTube001 Жыл бұрын

@@richardvanheesen1606 i think its hard to do because people are constantly pushing and prodding at you for an emotional response.

@mathewstudios2410 Жыл бұрын

Yeah that's why I cannot argue with my older sister at all because she always gets super emotional.

@antoniorose1206 Жыл бұрын

“Understood Piers” exactly! I was having an argument with a coworker in which he repeatedly made contradictory statements in order to win. The best way to conclude is to just be content in your own view and accept that this person is not going to change for you. Showing respect, regardless of whether you respect the person!

@wisdomkekang896 Жыл бұрын

I use this Andrew Tate's tactics when discussing with someone whose sole purpose is to portray me as a villain rather than come to a conclusion about the truth

@omarshehab585 Жыл бұрын

It's interesting how Piers does that for a living but Andrew handled him profoundly.

@tysoflowin Жыл бұрын

Right? He’s impressively articulate and well-thought out for being a kickboxer lol

@noicecars3052 Жыл бұрын

@@tysoflowin cuz he’s not just a kick boxer He is a business man who has studied the realities and nature of the world. He is truly a .001% man

@noahmulawin4350 Жыл бұрын

That's why he the Top G

@whatdisd Жыл бұрын

I disagree. Tate went around in god damn circles and wouldn't acknowledge the dangers of his beliefs and his popularity

@skinnybonesjonestheallseei74 Жыл бұрын

@@whatdisd because that's what he was asked??

@A_Wild_Dyzzy Жыл бұрын

When I was a child my father would yell at me when I did something wrong. He was a good dad, but this caused me to develop a problem where I shut down when someone starts yelling at me. This channel has helped me get over that struggle and remain calm and not back down. I sincerely appreciate your videos.

@EeLyos Жыл бұрын

Respect

@LauraR0ckzLolz Жыл бұрын

I can't stand when people yell and get angry. I don't know why, I just shrink into myself and feel scared.

@elichapin3366 Жыл бұрын

@@LauraR0ckzLolz some people are mean, some grew up with parents who did that, and it rubbed off, and some just have a hard time not yelling, thats just one of there struggles

@A_Wild_Dyzzy Жыл бұрын

@@LauraR0ckzLolz That’s exactly what I would do. I remember getting falsely accused of something by my 4th grade teacher and I chose to admit to it instead of sticking up for myself just so it would be over with sooner. Maybe that’s not the same way you feel, but you aren’t alone. I support you. And I wish the best for you on your journey.

@russianbot4418 Жыл бұрын

I grew up in a similar family as well but with a highly narcissistic dad that would just make up whatever Bizzaro world story to fit his narrative headed to just dropping the hammer on me for nothing real. As an adult, I have put a massive amount of time and effort into learning to both communicate and debate. Now my family avoids having any form of heated discussions with me because I can shut down their nonsense in and then railroad them into looking like fools in seconds and never look like the bad guy for any of it.

@scoot5342 Жыл бұрын

Tate is one of the best communicators I have ever seen. Def a good study. Thanks

@timm8998 11 ай бұрын

lol

@DanielKolbin 10 ай бұрын

Hitler also had charisma.

@WSGVal 10 ай бұрын

Funny joke

@the-ironclad 10 ай бұрын

⁠@@WSGVallove him or hate him, you can’t deny is is world class communicator. How else did you think he got so famous so quickly and reached the level of status and fame? I don’t agree with everything about Tate but I can give him his props. If your hatred blinds you so much to not acknowledge the skill, then it’s you that’s blind

@WSGVal 10 ай бұрын

@@the-ironclad funny sarcasm

@untraumatizer3647 10 ай бұрын

Andrew's eloquence skill is that when you ask him a question he gives you an immediate answer that an average person would take around 10mins to come up with an answer that smooth and perfect, and he does it every single time. Andrew Tate is world class when it comes to holding a conversation.

@maxwellpruner2168 7 ай бұрын

Lol, world class. Read a book. He trafficks women

@JayresinOfficial 7 ай бұрын

zip up ur pants when ur done

@bvamstel9282 7 ай бұрын

@@JayresinOfficial He walks around with knee-pads I'm sure.

@thedude7319 Жыл бұрын

this is why your channel is great, instead of like a lot of other people dogpile on this debacle. you made a teachable moment out of it

@justinthawsetmyo4173 Жыл бұрын

when you say it like that they sound like the annoying parent that tries to make a learning opportunity out of everything

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@justinthawsetmyo4173 Жыл бұрын

@@tonyeltigre4745 no I just never thought of it that way

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@@justinthawsetmyo4173 what way?

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@Yaboiduo Жыл бұрын

Imagine a 10 year old watching this to win an argument with their siblings Disclaimer: I was ten when I posted this and I’m not deleting it because it was relatable at the time pls don’t judge lol

@Friendly_G Жыл бұрын

Lol wouldn't work since the winning argument would just get ignored 🤣

@dakuten7883 Жыл бұрын

I'm 14, doing just that.

@Missyisbored Жыл бұрын

I’m 16 yes I’m doing that😂

@irucat5149 Жыл бұрын

what color is your BUGATTI? Works everytime

@abstracttoast12 Жыл бұрын

…oddly specific

@rhyguy6260 Жыл бұрын

I used your advice here to absolutely steam roll someone who was rude to me. It was the First time I have ever stood up for myself and it was amazing!!!

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@sultanmohammed4944 Жыл бұрын

Summary: 1-spot when they enter “fight mode” 2-watch a misquoting 3-beware of derailing interruptions 4-don’t steamroll concessions 5-catch any logic gaps 6-draw a conversational boundary 7-acknowledge and common ground 8-give yourself permission to change your mind

@f1atl1n3 Жыл бұрын

9 - Jet in jail for human trafficking

@pamukpicker Жыл бұрын

@@f1atl1n3 yet you are spreading hate from your mothers basement

@Green_Drag Жыл бұрын

@@f1atl1n3 which you haven't done.

@lawlessfarming9878 Жыл бұрын

Wish this worked with woman....nr5-catch any logical gaps, wont help you because they then derail the conversation and act like their a victim and say you are attacking them....the worst part for men is that we want to get to a logical answer/conclusion/end as quick as possible. We speak factual,not emotionally. So this is good advice when speaking to most men, but not with women.

@Testosteroneisnaturaltrump2024 Жыл бұрын

@@f1atl1n3 10 - get a life

@bangwithcamino693 Жыл бұрын

Solid breakdown. The reason Andrew didn't change his mind was because he still believes in the sentiment of the things he said. He just knows going forward, to have an impact with his words, he has to phrase them in a less emotionally triggering way because of his popularity. Piers couldn't get that and wanted him to recant. Not changing your mind, for Andrew benefits his brand.

@crackwitz Жыл бұрын

there's a difference between changing one's own mind, and getting the Spanish Inquisition treatment. that there was Spanish Inquisition (struggle session). everyone is obligated to stand their ground in the face of such an offense.

@tekbal Жыл бұрын

This is the most thoughtful comment I've seen so far in this comment section that resumes exactly what Andrew was trying to transmit with his interventions. You have my like sir.

@Icemario87 Жыл бұрын

@@crackwitz Rightly said. Give no ground in these environments. Jordan Peterson didn't, either. If you apologize even once, you're done. They always have killed the people that apologized.

@PhantomFilmAustralia Жыл бұрын

It's very difficult to entertain the notion of another angle or difference of opinion when you're being interviewed by someone who's hostile and adversarial. Piers makes people want to be guarded as to them avoiding being baited into a "Gotcha" moment.

@goldenremnant2610 Жыл бұрын

Agreed 100%. It would be different if Piers actually provided countering truthful reasons why Tate should recant his position but even IF he did, this would NOT be the time or place to recant because a big part of Tate’s brand is mental and testicular fortitude to withstand the onslaught of unpopularity. Like it or not, recanting, even if merited by Tate’s own principles, would be perceived as a loss of character on Tate’s part by his fans.

@raquelsalvador8462 Жыл бұрын

I am downloading this to be better at argument. Since I am really bad at expressing myself, because i was always interrupted since i was young when i wanna make my point.

@Unelith 8 ай бұрын

I had the same hunch to just let them speak and return to my argument later, but unfortunately it doesn't always work - when you have limited time, and especially so if you also, at the same time, are arguing against status quo on that limited time. All that the other side has to do is to keep interrupting you

@user-uk9er5vw4c Жыл бұрын

Piers looked just unprofessional, Andrew did an amazing job remaining calm and assertive

@snakedogman Жыл бұрын

The only thing that makes Piers look professional or respectable is his suit.

@marieantoinettev712 Жыл бұрын

@@snakedogman yes, right 😅!

@gertje8875 Жыл бұрын

I would not have been able to keep my cool with such a boobjob. elvis christ that Piers is a donkeybone.

@ARCPolus Жыл бұрын

@@snakedogman nah he's anti LGBT representation so he's the goat for me

@AedanBlackheart Жыл бұрын

While looking agitated/pissed and acting genuinely annoyed.

@randyb90210 Жыл бұрын

Piers is just like that annoying lady who interviewed Jordan Peterson. "So what you're saying is " lol 😆

@dariusbrock2713 Жыл бұрын

Peirs more likely doesn't put it in a question form. He does more of "This is what you ARE saying"

@zee7056 Жыл бұрын

Cathy Newman. JP dismantled her piece by piece.

@HypnosisBear Жыл бұрын

LMAO 🤣🤣

@MrRinre Жыл бұрын

JP is a master at seeing through BS lmao

@matthowells6382 Жыл бұрын

It does seem to be a characteristic of British media that the interviewer heavily leads the conversation and doesn't allow for much deviation from whatever question is being asked. This has both pros and cons of course. Jeremy Paxman is one of the best examples of this, he'll let someone talk at length if they're sticking to his question but he will interrupt the second they stop doing so or they say something he can pick up on. It's really refreshing as an American when it comes to interviewing politicans especially, as they will often try and answer a different question that suits them. British journalists are much less likely to let that fly than here in the US where the interviewer just let's them do what they want. However, when it comes to a person defending themselves from accusations or criticism, the British style certainly leads to more frustration and confrontation as the interviewer is much more able to push an agenda that may have been decided beforehand. Then you add Piers Morgan into that dynamic and you've got a 'spicy' interview haha

@gridmatrix6364 9 ай бұрын

Well done looking objective on both parts, so we can learn both sides and the tools of charisma/ retosim. Enjoy how you calmly show each example right on the go.

@sapphire2640 8 ай бұрын

the art of conversation truly is beautiful. unfortunately, most people when they hear the world "argument" think of one side being the winner and the other side being wholly steamrollered and feeling humiliated. that is not how it has to be. one tip is to go into an argument with the mindset to understand another opinion, with the mindset that its okay to not come out completely winning. its okay to compromise on a view. its okay to be wrong too. people respect people who are willing to admit they are wrong. this way, you are less likely to get mad or stressed.

@TopazBeast Жыл бұрын

I don’t agree with Tate on a lot of his takes, but you can’t deny he composes himself very well. He is very intelligent when it comes to social interactions. Look at his conversations with Xqc for example.

@sgtcrusher66 Жыл бұрын

Tate is right about everything

@HansHan028 Жыл бұрын

@@sgtcrusher66 Hmmm, his courses are a complete scam. He knows how to be right about everything to earn money. That's why he became muslim, for muslims to buy his courses and for him to earn even more AND for him to keep his social position, basically to keep being famous. That's why he became muslim to become more famous and not lose his fame. Open your eyes.

@JCX-9 Жыл бұрын

Let’s see where his smarts will take him.

@RoxyCherryRozy Жыл бұрын

Tate is right about 70-80% of things

@sgtcrusher66 Жыл бұрын

@EvaMira in your opinion which is fine I respect that but what is he wrong on out of curiosity ?

@BOSS_1417 Жыл бұрын

"My Unmatched Perspicacity coupled with sheer indefatigability makes me a feared opponent in any realm of human endeavour " ~ Emory Andrew Tate II

@remarcablemc4992 Жыл бұрын

I had to google those words. Once understood it’s very powerful

@_aweshit Жыл бұрын

Me: /whoosh

@_jdgeorge_ Жыл бұрын

Tate is amazing.

@anblox0770 Жыл бұрын

@mao5170 Жыл бұрын

A month late, but to clarify; that was his father's words.

@misterdrifter4883 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video, you do this world a service 💯

@jdreid323 Жыл бұрын

IMO, the best way to win any argument is not even to win, but to get the person you are talking to understand what you are saying. The moment you become aggressive, or passive is when you have either escalated or removed yourself from the conversation, just stay neutral. It's ok to have an opinion on something and express emotion just don't force it upon the receiver. As someone who has been in many arguments, it never goes well when you both leave thinking nothing got settled or your point never got across.

@strannick2212 Жыл бұрын

dont force it on the receiver, just present it to him. and make sure its a good one. if not, fix the facts or logic to make it a better one

@NtrosXo Жыл бұрын

@@strannick2212 some people are just too ego driven and blind

@JewTube001 Жыл бұрын

i guess that's true but it's annoying if you're actually right. i don't mean right in a arrogant way, but when you're actually right or at least 99% right yet the person yelling at you is either incapable of understanding or deliberately chooses to not understand. i think those are just free loss situations.

@JewTube001 Жыл бұрын

@@strannick2212 often the facts and logic simply aren't relevant. someone may be married to a poor position, or refuse to change their position because it would make them look bad, or because they don't like you, or think you should be subservient to them regardless of their error.

@sgtcrusher66 Жыл бұрын

well said

@matthewarendse1913 Жыл бұрын

The 1957 film, 12 Angry Men, is also a great example of how and how not to conduct yourself in an argument/debate. While certain characters had their views clouded by bias, the single biggest takeaway I believe that came from this film is that you have to be willing to admit or at least realise that your views could be wrong on a given issue. I believe that when you enter an argument firstly you should go in with the mindset to listen and to understand and know that you could be wrong and secondly to figure out whether the person you are conversing with is of a similar mindset and is also willing to concede a view when proven wrong.

@cheesemccheese5780 Жыл бұрын

My favourite film

@geekup3546 Жыл бұрын

Actually very intellectual stuff

@suhanrahaman4695 4 ай бұрын

Love this video makes me want to get into more arguments

@T-StoryChannel 4 ай бұрын

This video is exactly what I needed to start my day on a positive note. It's a reminder that success comes to those who work hard and never give up. Thank you for this motivation!

@CoolPapaJMagik Жыл бұрын

This interview was a big W for Andrew

@JuanHernandez-ze3si Жыл бұрын

And a huge L for Piers

@hatersgottahatewejustgotta198 Жыл бұрын

Prolly one of the few W's that he's taken so far 💀

@AM-cl8ti Жыл бұрын

@@hatersgottahatewejustgotta198 ً

@RoxyCherryRozy Жыл бұрын

@@hatersgottahatewejustgotta198 he is like this in podcasts and other interviews too. You just choose to judge based on a few seconds clips or media articles.

@goncalobaia1574 Жыл бұрын

I'm not the kind of guy who loves Tate, but man Piers was completely awful in that interview

@leonrussell9607 Жыл бұрын

Thats pretty normal for piers

@mwright80 Жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@franciscopereira5760 Жыл бұрын

You don't need to like Tate that's OK

@ZhangtheGreat Жыл бұрын

That's how Piers operates. He's a bully. He's not there to talk; he's there to fight.

@cangjie12 Жыл бұрын

Piers is always awful 🤮

@Shadykilla Жыл бұрын

Step 1. Drink 8 coffees a day like Andrew Tate

@user-my3vt1mm1l 24 күн бұрын

Nice

@visualizecreate2530 10 ай бұрын

I see what you did here by linking changing one’s mind to confidence!!! 💯

@skettlez9732 Жыл бұрын

How to end any argument. Say, "are you trying to argue with me or talk to me, because I don't know about you but I just wanna talk to you" This works for me

@anantharamashok9501 Жыл бұрын

Wow. The way Tate evaded many close ended tricky questions and proved his point is simply amazing. He is not one of those guys who simoly make a point without anything to back it up.

@xMckingwill Жыл бұрын

Then you havent watched enough Tate lol

@anantharamashok9501 Жыл бұрын

@@xMckingwill Maybe all you have watched is a handful of reels about him which are taken out of context. lol

@xMckingwill Жыл бұрын

@@anantharamashok9501 Nah I have watched chunks of what he says with full context. Not simple reels. Take of your rose tinted glasses lol

@anantharamashok9501 Жыл бұрын

@@xMckingwill An Anime and game addicted boy. Iam not surprised. Lets have the conversation once you grow up buddy.

@xMckingwill Жыл бұрын

@@anantharamashok9501 huh? We are having a conversation I didnt personally insult you idk what happened. 🤷‍♂️

@neanda 9 ай бұрын

you make a lot of sense, thank you for making these vids for people

@joshdelicana9839 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this I'm able to hold argument well properly without getting miss quoted

@cmdaltctr Жыл бұрын

I came to notice a pattern here, that you'd most probably need these 90% of the time if you're ever getting interviewed by a western media, or anyone "trained" by their style/system of thoughts. For the most part I've seen interviews in other countries in other languages, people are actually discussing and understanding things rather than trying to demolish or cancel that person. It's slowly becoming apparent to me that these "interviewers" has someone pulling the strings, putting a leashed dog on these prime channels trying to cancel that person they interviewing. It's not about seeking the truth, modern media pushed by the western nations no longer about seeking the truth. A media that can convince people that a nation has WMD, who can convince people to justify their government to interfere with someone's country and caused millions of death, and so many other disgusting things for the past decades - how can I expect anything different as an output in return? That's the very definition of insanity.

@RexGalilae Жыл бұрын

Can confirm. News debates in Asian countries are often way more heated and unprofessional but they're not playing a game to goad you into a corner where you have to apologize or get cancelled It's just two people arguing very loudly lol but I'd take that over these duplicitous mind games

@marieantoinettev712 Жыл бұрын

Very well said and profoundly thought. Thank you 🙏!

@55xxSwEeTxmExx55 Жыл бұрын

absolutely - wish more ppl realized this

@petergaty3681 Жыл бұрын

thats what happened to kanye after interview with peirs

@nasara690 Жыл бұрын

He who controls the media controls the narrative

@jamesburgess2k Жыл бұрын

Also, watch out for "half-concessions". They'll start the sentence by agreeing with you and want you to agree with their point, and after you agree to it, they'll tie you into something else (usually putting you in a bad light) in the second sentence, strawmanning you. DON'T go back on what you agreed with, just expound on your opinion to more accurately describes your stance, while maintaining you still agree with the first point. Same with yes or no questions, feel free to answer than, just be ready to explain your opinion if they try to loop you into something. Always confirm that you agree with their first point, but *your* version of their second point, not theirs.

@jackhhun2698 Жыл бұрын

never give them their frame

@gipsybauski8971 Жыл бұрын

This video is so great. An objective, sober analysis of a conversation between two highly controversial persons where siding even a little bit with any one of them could get you ostracized. You managed to find something good in their behavior and their speech without codoning what each one of them stand for. Big respect for that! It takes skill to create informative content based on two people that many people don't want to touch with a then foot pole. And the the level of detail is amazing. It's better than some expensive psychology courses.

@Slechy_Lesh Жыл бұрын

Controversial is an understatement. I assume you well know why.

@DarkSentinel52 5 күн бұрын

you just showed some of the reasons why i despise arguing with people

@Mizzy873 Жыл бұрын

Great video. I found this conversation between Andrew and Piers fascinating, not just because of the subjects they talked about, but the psychological battle between the two of them.

@DaZeDmerlin Жыл бұрын

Tate is good at it, but he’s also a manipulative sociopath. He actually is misogynistic as hell. The way he avoids agreeing with this is masterfully done. But he’s a manipulator and he’s good at it.

@krishrughoor8119 Жыл бұрын

@@DaZeDmerlin not he is not he does not hate women

@thechunkmaster8794 Жыл бұрын

It's a literal "Battle of the Bastards"

@ismefate5857 Жыл бұрын

@@DaZeDmerlin ok sheep

@432HzPlug Жыл бұрын

@@DaZeDmerlin define misogynistic?

@laurawebber1743 Жыл бұрын

You C on C guys are amazing! This was an extremely informative upload using two controversial characters to illustrate the topic perfectly. Very well balanced. I've watched loads of your vids... first time I've commented.

@tsoupakis Жыл бұрын

they had an amazing podcast that were going much more in deep on popular events

@littlevoice_11 Жыл бұрын

I'd be very interested to hear your advise on how to let go in an argument that's unproductive when you deeply about the other person's views about you (particularly when the topic of the argument is about yourself!)

@alisonthorne323 Жыл бұрын

Piers is always do that “interrupting” people during interviews. Well handled Andrew. I like the finger method for stopping being interrupted. I am definitely going to try this.

@4E-P Жыл бұрын

I end up being always right, because when I am wrong I change my mind

@anonymoussource8705 Жыл бұрын

Here's a better tip: Stop trying to win arguments, try getting something out of them, or just leave them if they are wasted time.

@caydizzlepierce4163 Жыл бұрын

Thankyou, I needed that reminder

@finnhenderson3909 Жыл бұрын

Nice

@T.Alexis926 Жыл бұрын

Agreed.

@shivamsingh-cs2ub Жыл бұрын

thats not how world work atleast on television level

@googane7755 11 ай бұрын

@@shivamsingh-cs2ub That's why most people don't do them. The main goal of television is to get attention, ratings, etc not a productive conversation.

@user-xc3cl2xr9k 3 ай бұрын

repeating the question is a very good technique just to get it clear as to what's being asked.

@apt.dzykhq1848 Жыл бұрын

It’s amazing that you also given us the example of misquoting around this part 10:00 😂

@THE_POTATO_DUCK 8 ай бұрын

Step 1 be smart enough to not start an argument

@monkeygameplay5455 15 күн бұрын

Step 2 if 2 people arguing get you inside their argument just ignore both and go grab a can of soda

@NocturnalRS Жыл бұрын

Miss quoting is bad enough but when people collectively can't comprehend the subject matter and they gang up that can be very gaslighting.

@fixed-point Жыл бұрын

I'm not sure I agree with the last point. I don't disagree with the words "Give yourself permission to change your mind", but I think it's almost always both ethically and intellectually wrong to change your mind *during* an argument unless it is *very* clear that you were wrong. Changing your mind is like grooming yourself -- it should usually be done in private. Why? Because you don't actually have *time* during an argument to think it all the way through, especially in a medium (TV) where pausing to think about something for more than a brief moment (i.e. dead air) is bad for viewership. It's like trying to translate poetry into another language in real-time as it's read to you, all while preserving the rhyme scheme and without pausing between stanzas. Your brain just isn't that quick. If you think it is, then you're doing it poorly.

@_valor Жыл бұрын

This^^^ in an emotionally charged situation, there's a fine line between admitting you're wrong and being forced into doing so. Arguments can only be productive to an extent, they're no place for serious self-reflection

@ryanvacation7319 Жыл бұрын

Good points

@sub7se7en Жыл бұрын

There can be instances where during an argument you can change your mind and it's appropriate to change your mind. I've had instances in my personal life where in the argument the other person made me realize my error. This doesn't happen very often. The vast majority of cases this isn't true for me, but it does happen. For some it may happen more often for others even less than the infrequency it happens for myself. Regardless, in such situations you should concede in humility. And, respectfully, I disagree with the sentiment of your last two sentences. Outside of a medium like TV, you can sit there for a moment and think about it. You don't have to constantly be responding. You can take time to think. And sometimes it doesn't even require that. Your brain can be that quick. A realization sometimes dawns on you suddenly. Something the other person says can trigger an "aha" moment and then the matter is settled. I'd be surprised if this has never happened to you. I've been on the receiving and the giving end of that "aha" moment.

@FM-dm8xj Жыл бұрын

System 1 and system 2

@toobusytocare7555 Жыл бұрын

Especially if you were constantly interrupted

@livelittle411 10 ай бұрын

I am on the don't try to win an argument. Always first seek common ground , let others present their views , let them talk and seek to understand what made them defensive, correct any misperception you found , until you can find that common ground , don't talk listen more Once fully understood others views and their emotions , then engage . That way the person could go from your enemy to a potential ally . Any time you feel no common ground can be reached , pause and leave .continue the conversation another time .

@minisnakali Жыл бұрын

I've heard nothing but bad things about Andrew Tate, but his attitude and social behavior here is genuinely praise worthy and something to learn. I've always been aggressive and hyper, so speaking slowly and taking breaks is a must for me during debates.

@kadenwhiteaker Жыл бұрын

This is such a well put together video. You derserve a sub and a like. Very valid points with no bias.

@suadmohammed8287 Жыл бұрын

Sign the petition

@ShekharKumar-jh3uc Жыл бұрын

A very well made video, everyone can benefit from such content because I love it when people have healthy debates and discussions

@MochaZilla Жыл бұрын

Not sure id call Piers rudely attacking tate a healthy discussion lol. He was a total dbag

@thecommonsensecapricorn Жыл бұрын

I hate arguments. One of my close friends at the time came to my house and lashed out at me for saying I was disappointed she flaked on me. She came at me HARD saying I was selfish and a bad friend because her mom is an addict and I should know how much she’s struggling with that. The whole argument she kept throwing that at me and when I’d try to defend myself she’d come down harder because in her eyes I was a sociopath for even trying to defend myself. Her moms been an addict for 10 years and her brothers have cut her off. She chooses to remain in contact and be affected by her mom. Ultimately the way she came at me that day isn’t something I think I should ever experience with a friend, that level of emotional attack… hell no. She kept saying “I don’t think I can be friends with someone like you” and I was like that’s fine by me I definitely don’t want to be friends with you

@mellin7049 Жыл бұрын

The bit about "not owning anyone" didn't age particularly well

@aadityakalwani Жыл бұрын

I've been waiting for a charisma on command analysis of Tate, and you certainly delivered well so thank you

@josephle2155 Жыл бұрын

You don’t have to change your mind, you can apologize for what you said and how it made someone feel uneasy, but there’s also accept people for who they are.

@old_dan Жыл бұрын

I don't think that's completely accurate. You only apologize for something you said if you made a mistake or talked in the heat of the moment out of anger or something. You don't apologize because others didn't like your words. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. When I find myself in those kinds of conversations I just say "I'm sorry you feel that way" and move on. Not every argument needs to end in an friendly agreement.

@speedheat9773 Жыл бұрын

@@old_dan fr sometimes people are looking for that 'I'm sorry" as a way to validate themselves even if they're completely wrong about the subject at hand. One thing i always tell people is that apologizing is an easy way out and people will walk over you and have zero respect for the things you care about. Sometimes you have to put your foot down (respectfully) without blowing up. Some people just don't know the meaning of the word disagreement and assume that if you don't agree with me then you're against me and there's no middle ground. Its honestly wild how egotistical some people are nowadays.

@unknownweirdo077 Жыл бұрын

I can disagree about apologizing, because sounds to me you just want aproval to you are always right and somebody was wrong by disagreeing with you.

@sgtcrusher66 Жыл бұрын

tate isnt responsible for YOUR feelings YOU are responsible for YOUR feelings feelings are subjective to each individual individually. why should someone apologize for your feelings ? maybe you should apologize for YOUR feelings and reaction . if your uneasy maybe you should investigate that further and YOU work on YOUR feelings Tate has NO idea HOW YOU will feel towards his comments if your OFFENDED thats on YOU someone else might not be offended its he obviously has a internet following so alot of people arent offended by him maybe you should try to understand what he says more again we all dont have to agree about everything but get a hold of those feelings

@yoshigod2008 3 ай бұрын

I,m 15 and i used these to win a conversation against my school teacher and I,m very proud of my self.(I got suspended for three weeks)

@M3_Ytb Жыл бұрын

you make the best vids bro tysm

@TheEncouragementKid Жыл бұрын

Your channel is GOLD! I couldn't sit through the entire debate with AT and PM, but I did leave a comment mentioning how great your channel is and how it will help us with people like PM. And here we are a direct video about it! Thank you my dude! You're a legend and I've told at least 12 people in the real world about your channel 🙂♥️

@NonnyStrikes Жыл бұрын

Last part of this was awesome. The point/lesson of allowing yourself to change your opinions from past without worrying so much ... allowing you to grow... yeah. Good stuff.

@ise408_ Жыл бұрын

“If you argue and rankle and contradict, you may achieve a victory sometimes, but it will be an empty victory because you will never get your opponent’s good will.” -Ben Franklin

@BWater-yq3jx Ай бұрын

Yes, winning an argument is not necessarily winning.

@trendytrenessh462 9 ай бұрын

That final point is golden

@jsbsjbsndbbxnx6617 Жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot for this video. It’s exactly what I’ve been looking for in the past week.

@elfnino4878 Жыл бұрын

Piers Morgan is like debate practice for rich people. He smirks and grins as he uses these tricks, knowing full and well what he's doing. Notice he loses the smirk when Andrew parries it with his own debate training.

@Brisingr73 Жыл бұрын

Mind games like this are just gross, man. I wish people were more consistently sincere and direct.

@sharkfishsharkfishshark Жыл бұрын

@@Brisingr73 it's a debate,man there's no right or wrong --- you were supposed to use your point and plotted your opponent point against themselves

@panama2468 9 ай бұрын

It's an exercise in eristic discussion. 😂

@monkeygameplay5455 15 күн бұрын

@@sharkfishsharkfishshark are you kidding me ? He is trying to force stuff he misunderstood and saying that he said it when he didnt if you dont pay attention to those garbage people , theyre gonna eat you alive

@VictoriaGisele 15 күн бұрын

This channel does great social work)Thank you!

@Mutonya Жыл бұрын

I listen to this and use it against people who try to use it on me. It's always fun to see them crumble in their own plan.

@rayunutoa6125 Жыл бұрын

You GUYS!! this was the video I’ve been waiting for you to do! Thanks for covering argument tips! I’m not good at this, so fr sure I can’t wait to put these tips to practice thank you thank you!

@diarmuidbrady5525 Жыл бұрын

Have a look at jbp and cathy newman

@halfbadboy3250 Жыл бұрын

Nah they just afraid of getting cancel

@BrandonWatkins614 Жыл бұрын

Regardless of what you think about Andrew, it is interesting how well he comports himself in interviews, and there are many tactics he used that others can learn from when engaging in debates of their own.

@xalexbanx Жыл бұрын

they're both toxic and pathetic

@nntflow7058 6 ай бұрын

He is not good when he got caught lying. He suddenly have big outburst and started to randomly insult everybody for no reason.

@Catchy_Sight 6 ай бұрын

@@nntflow7058 Show me an example

@danielaorellana8216 5 ай бұрын

We could say the same about hitler. There are enough people in this world to put as an example someone with questionable behaviors/ideologies.

@EvolverChampion 5 ай бұрын

@@danielaorellana8216no matter what you think about Tate it’s unfair to link him to hitler because hitler is a lot worse

@Dakota_B_ 9 ай бұрын

It's funny how you can hear the low T from piers as he's on the verge of anger tears 100% of the time.

@Him_For_Sure 2 ай бұрын

If someone don't let me talk I will run out of oxygen 😂😂😂

@isac6978 Жыл бұрын

It can be so incredibly though to come back to your point after being interrupted repeatedly well done to tate on this one

@tk000 Жыл бұрын

Big shout out to #8. Much like not learning from past mistakes, so many people refuse to allow themselves to change their minds when presented with new/better information, learning that they're wrong, or as society as a whole continues to evolve.

@julius43461 Жыл бұрын

It's tough, because if you are totally open and honest, you will never be able to settle on anything. New information is presented all the time. I realized it greatly depends on how much you share with others, or through social media. Personally I was typing a lot of my opinions and ideas in my private file, but never shared any of my opinions publicly. Because of that, I am changing my mind on things very frequently. This made me realize that if politicians were honest and open to new ideas, they would be changing their minds all the time, which would make them even less popular, because they would be seen as grifters and whatnot.

@VoVina111 Жыл бұрын

@@julius43461 well said

@ryanvacation7319 Жыл бұрын

@@julius43461 good points. Probably in trust worthy relationships being open and willing to change your mind have benefits but if your a public figure it could be misconstrued by your detractors.

@julius43461 Жыл бұрын

@@ryanvacation7319 Yeah, if they were honestly interested in changing their minds, they would be switching partied all the time, kind of how many ordinary people do.

@TheWorldsprayer Жыл бұрын

Disagree. You have to choose the things you will/will not compromise on in life. Granted there are often a lot of things in life you CAN compromise on, but to take this video as an example, the majority of waht Tate is talking about is stuff he passionately believes in with legitimate, objective cause. He does not need to allow himself to change his mind on something important to him. When discussing your favorite flavor of ice cream...that's a different matter.

@samueldoak786 Жыл бұрын

The stay calm is tough. Gotta play the game

@priyadarshidixit4062 Жыл бұрын

I LIKE UR CHANNEL U ADVERTISE UR COURSE AT THE LAST OF THE VIDEO CAUSE U KNOW EVERYONE IS GOING TO WATCH TILL THE END

@aranh4 Жыл бұрын

It has been a minute since I watched some Charisma University videos. I used to binge them a lot as I enjoy very much the subjects and tips. Congratulations on 5M followers!

@thetorontogirl Жыл бұрын

"Give yourself permission to change your mind." is another way of saying "show humility and learn". Definitely didn't expect this to be a point but it's one, if not the most, important point. It's not about being right or wrong but being able to understand someone's POV. I feel like people are so afraid to change their position and mind about a topic because they believe it defines them as a person. It's not the principle of giving up your own beliefs but simply seeing a different perspective and realizing that perhaps you may have not seen the full picture. I respect the person who grows within an argument. It's definitely hard for me to apply this point and actually took me aback when he mentioned it because I find it hard giving myself permission and realizing I may have overlooked some things within an argument.

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@MrZerosixZeroone Жыл бұрын

Two absolute masters with words it was spectacular to listen and watch this interview.

@nfsfan0946 Жыл бұрын

Love or hate Tate, you got to admit that he was more down to earth then Piers in this argument

@themadcat5288 Жыл бұрын

Not hard, it's Piers Morgan. Andrew Tate is a manipulative jackass that built his empire on virgins idolozing him because a woman dumped them, Piers is just a straight up clown.

@hatersgottahatewejustgotta198 Жыл бұрын

Even tho I hate Andrew and I know what he says is a complete nonsense 99% of the time I really respect how he handled the situation here and how calm he was.

@derrickrose6161 Жыл бұрын

@@hatersgottahatewejustgotta198 you’re a sheep and can’t comprehend the truth that’s why you think 99% of what he says is wrong

@balistahr.o.g1103 Жыл бұрын

@@hatersgottahatewejustgotta198 tell me. What do you hate abt Andrew tate ?

@mattdogmcauley Жыл бұрын

Great job well done. That made an impact.

@shanedaniel8954 Жыл бұрын

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@seriouslyscared2912 Жыл бұрын

Negativity is the greatest way to force the other person into fight mode to the point where they blunder more than they normally do

@thesw9k Жыл бұрын

This was a very well done analysis. Solid

@Mexi_Is_asian 4 ай бұрын

Imagine being caught watching this in school

@monkeygameplay5455 15 күн бұрын

In our country you can watch whatever you want at school , the only limit is if you can get embarassed or if the volume is too loud to disturb others , you live in a creeoy place pal

@Mexi_Is_asian 12 күн бұрын

@@monkeygameplay5455 bro what are u talking abt its just cringy to watch in school

@seanyshepfit 5 ай бұрын

This is a masterpiece video. Love coming back to analyze this. Every time I hear the point about Piers saying Andrew is dangerous to children and then proceeds to mention an adult as his example really goes to show how Piers was only out for a gotcha moment 🤦

@sarahprosecco 23 күн бұрын

His point was that if he's so dangerous he can have such an impact on a grown man, imagine what the lasting, negative impact he can have on impressionable young boys during what is a crucial stage in their development which in turn the young girls who will then suffer as a result of said damage along with the same young men who will end up having to deal with the consequences of their actions.

@ChosenxMusic Жыл бұрын

These videos are getting better and better each time

@AndersonShamon1997 Ай бұрын

Yeah he’s gotten better over the years

@bentheboss3734 Жыл бұрын

Andrew didn't say it was bad to change your mind he said he is responsible for the things he has said. I think we all know that Andrew is fully capable of changing his mind seeing as he literally changed his whole religion. If somebody really thought changing their mind was bad they sure as Hell would not change their whole religion.

@SubconsciousLight Жыл бұрын

You need to adapt, for that you need change your perspectives. You don´t get where Tate is if you can`t change yourself and he aknowledges his saying with responsibility. You don`t talk lightly when you are aware of responsibility and weight of words.

@hkhan3535 Жыл бұрын

He did not "change" his religion. He said Islam is the only true religion left on this earth because all other religions already started to water down their rules to fit with the modern woke ideals. So it's the religion that "changes their minds", not him. So he needs to convert to Islam which fits more with what he believes.

@ScientObject40 Жыл бұрын

@@hkhan3535 He actually converted to Islam. There's videos of him praying in a mosque too.

@migvel1711 Жыл бұрын

@@hkhan3535 u don’t just go from being an atheist to a Muslim without completely disconnecting from your past ideologies on that stance.

@hkhan3535 Жыл бұрын

@@migvel1711 since when Andrew converted from atheist? He was a Christian. Christianity and Islam are both Abrahamic religion. So it's normal for a Christian to convert to Islam.

@lordeddy05 Жыл бұрын

Well done vid, mate

@jky1771 7 ай бұрын

To the last point: He did state multiple times that you change over time and that he doesn't agree with everything his younger self has said, but some of those specific statements he still agrees with and that they were taken out of context and therefore don't convey his actual beliefs.

@tooyou4925 Жыл бұрын

I love the way the guy says he's not endorsing anyone but basically praise Tate

@buggy1638 Жыл бұрын

no hes not lol

@dannysummers4591 Жыл бұрын

Where did he endorse him? He just said he handled the debate well.

@JewTube001 Жыл бұрын

tate just held his ground well and piers uses a lot of annoying tactics. not sure what else you want to do about it, maybe he's a bad man or maybe not but that's just how this interview went.

@vernvern1507 Жыл бұрын

Tate deserves praise, anyone that wins over Morgan by the end of one of his interviews deserves some level of respect l, and if you watch the second interview Morgan does with rate, Morgan comes in with a completely different attitude and a higher level of respect for tate

@deaconblues77 Жыл бұрын

He just showed what happened in the interview.

@ciretose2 Жыл бұрын

Great analysis. I have to watch this interview now.

@stevethompson8504 Ай бұрын

Yes i agree about having the ability to change your mind .the thing about people placed in positions where they are on display is that pride gets a hold on them because of their fear of how they might be perceived rather than the base truth of what theyre saying for instance people who say sorry ,publicly are often percieved as weak when in actual fact its a strength because it signifies being unafraid to make yourself appear vulnerable which goes right over the heads of shallow minded people who simply love a display regardless of whether it has any depth .

@SAGEEDITZ24 Жыл бұрын

When someone tries to interrupt you during a conversation, continue talking and finish up with what your saying continue to speak until you are done and they will realize that you haven’t yielded to them to speak which shuts them up.

@12thMandalorian Жыл бұрын

Another classic Charisma on Command video, i appreciate each upload as they have helped me become a better person

@vinspiration2609 Жыл бұрын

"Gotcha" questions are also common among socially combative people. I dealt with this recently with a high ticket salesman. Everything was fine and friendly until I declined his offer. He then got defensive and made attempts to guilt trip me. Don't play into their game.