4 Steps to a Great Apology | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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Mat Boggs

Mat Boggs

8 жыл бұрын

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@Mimikh909
@Mimikh909 5 жыл бұрын
1. This is what happened and I take responsibility. 2. This is what I'm doing/I've done to fix it. 3. This is the system I put into the place to make sure it doesn't happen again. 4. What else can I do to make it right? To make it up to you?
@claudiamacs4702
@claudiamacs4702 4 жыл бұрын
Please l want you to help me am losing my boyfriend l cheated and apologize he says he has forgiven me but he is still not giving me much time and attention I really love him to what do l do ? Please help me
@joesugden4086
@joesugden4086 4 жыл бұрын
I never new how an probably still dont but I do know I keep making the same mistakes
@Gorman-px1fg
@Gorman-px1fg 4 жыл бұрын
Claudia Maconi sorry to hear. I hope you get back with him. This is my first time here
@gtamonkey3061
@gtamonkey3061 4 жыл бұрын
Claudia Maconi if you loved him you wouldn’t have cheated wakanda lookin ass
@ingridis4803
@ingridis4803 4 жыл бұрын
[GTA]monkey Yeo chill🤣
@juanalujan4284
@juanalujan4284 8 жыл бұрын
I love that you always quote and give credit to the people who teach you things
@KulwinderSingh-eq8ii
@KulwinderSingh-eq8ii 5 жыл бұрын
If
@niyonikachhabra8167
@niyonikachhabra8167 3 жыл бұрын
wow, yeah!!!!
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@fantadmalay3052
@fantadmalay3052 2 жыл бұрын
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@manalmohamed2620
@manalmohamed2620 7 жыл бұрын
the most wonderful thing about your four tips is that they can be applied to all kind of relationships not only wife/ husband one thank you Mathew
@1DivineE
@1DivineE 8 жыл бұрын
Great video Matt. I love that you give examples and tell personal stories from your own life. Makes it so much more interesting. And this topic was right on time. Thank you for sharing.
@wisepersonsay3142
@wisepersonsay3142 7 жыл бұрын
Guys and gals. Don't promise anything that you cannot deliver. Another word, once you say it, it's harrrrrrd to retract. Think carefully before making promises. Politicians are bad examples everyone knows about this matter. That's why they are not trusted. They are considered ''crooks''.
@oteja5976
@oteja5976 4 жыл бұрын
True.. 🙁
@maddie8341
@maddie8341 3 жыл бұрын
That’s why u say u will try and. Fix it not promo
@iairarea
@iairarea 3 жыл бұрын
this is the best information i have ever heard of this topic. it bullds emotional safety, trust and intimacy for both persons creating a solid, loving and healthy relationship! thank you!!!!
@tracyvalentine-williams9010
@tracyvalentine-williams9010 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your videos and how you present them. I actually used these 4 steps just a few hours ago. I also said what I learned. We were both wrong. We're moving forward.
@happysinger23
@happysinger23 4 жыл бұрын
Always love your videos!!! i watch them again and again!
@aaronsanford1742
@aaronsanford1742 5 жыл бұрын
Even this is a 2 year video and you may not see this, but i want you to know that you’ve really helped me set up a plan to save my relationship and im so glad i found your video.
@rowanlafontaine675
@rowanlafontaine675 5 жыл бұрын
How did it go?
@marienapadajlo5359
@marienapadajlo5359 5 жыл бұрын
thank you for a really useful resource, it's funny how often communication gets mangled between what we say and what we want the other person to take from what we said. Thank you
@kiethramos2230
@kiethramos2230 7 жыл бұрын
i really love your step #4.. i try it and it really works.. i was really amaze.. thank you so much..
@Santu7220
@Santu7220 4 жыл бұрын
Love that shirt On You! Just came back to this. I learnt this from you in terms of that this is even a formula.
@juanalujan4284
@juanalujan4284 8 жыл бұрын
OK i definitely want someone like you in my life!! thanks for the advice!
@ShantayGood2Go
@ShantayGood2Go 8 жыл бұрын
aaawwwwww. That was amazing. Thank you so much for that. I'll most def implement step #4. I've never asked what they think that i can do to make the situation have less of a chance to happen again. Thank you. God Bless you and your family Matt.
@ShantayGood2Go
@ShantayGood2Go 8 жыл бұрын
+Mathew Boggs SOOOO i had an opportunity to use step 4 this past Saturday. I did my part, when it came to him doing his he used the word BUT. I am a person that shuts down in the midst of the argument; not out of lack of words to defend myself, but because of that very reason. My boyfriend goes on and on and on and on i want to get to a resolution and be done with it. How do i communicate with him without reverting to my old self and hurt his feels? Side Note... He says he feels ignored when i don't respond immediately.
@maggyhughes6033
@maggyhughes6033 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! Your specific example helped me not freak out after my boyfriend does something similar. I started thinking it meant he didn’t love me or he didn’t care about my feelings when really it was just a mistake.
@deedee5797
@deedee5797 7 жыл бұрын
I am about to put this in motion....I already did step one before seeing this video but now I have more to add to the apology. hope this works because right now I'm giving him space hoping to hear from him tmrw acknowledging my first apologizes.
@MatthewCoast
@MatthewCoast 7 жыл бұрын
This topic is very important for women, Thank you for making this video!
@shimmerychick
@shimmerychick 5 жыл бұрын
amazing advice, thank you very much!
@lehakwelesetla1631
@lehakwelesetla1631 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, this was truly helpful
@petrathiderman360
@petrathiderman360 8 жыл бұрын
i think you are awsome!! Thank you for sharing your wisdom and experiences! Greetings from Sweden ☺☺
@radhanadevi
@radhanadevi 2 жыл бұрын
Really good way to apologize ! Love the 4 steps ….. Mahalo
@andreabrown4417
@andreabrown4417 2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your videos it helps to know what to do now in a relationship and thanks a lot?
@biancakealoha2226
@biancakealoha2226 4 жыл бұрын
This is such a sweet video ty
@mikeycruz_
@mikeycruz_ 3 жыл бұрын
I never knew how to apologize i was joking with a friends nd i said something without thinking I apologized and i feel so much better,thank you so much.
@lashellanderson7773
@lashellanderson7773 4 жыл бұрын
I've been trying to apologize to my bestfriend for 2days and still didn't get a response so I figured to give him some space and hope for the best that he accept my apologie I didn't mean to make him mad
@UFOsin-db9cy
@UFOsin-db9cy 4 жыл бұрын
Great story...thank you! Now I'm gonna make phone call😊
@jayc3141
@jayc3141 3 жыл бұрын
What about when someone refuses to talk to you?
@jeannieboivin2849
@jeannieboivin2849 6 жыл бұрын
I accept any apology I get! Unlike someone I've known for one day. It's because of people like grudge holders, there are suicides in the world. I am ashamed to have met someone so set in their ways, that they would reject a crying, sensitive, broken person. It's sad. He could of said "it's alright", instead of "You've said sorry for quite a while now" "Save your breath, because I don't care" *blasts music up*
@tharanda
@tharanda 2 жыл бұрын
Loved this!
@imaginedlife-style7026
@imaginedlife-style7026 6 жыл бұрын
I love all of your videos. You are wise 😀
@eveheart2876
@eveheart2876 8 жыл бұрын
Usually when I messed up I gave reasons to why I behave that way and then try to connect it with him and tell him he is right. Lol I am still learning about myself .~
@prernagolani9014
@prernagolani9014 4 жыл бұрын
great video and tips for couples
@redpill3511
@redpill3511 4 жыл бұрын
Some people still don’t understand how to forgiveness also, They still ask Why you do that Why you do this in the past.
@perpetualwairimu6602
@perpetualwairimu6602 3 жыл бұрын
I only knew the 1st one.....thanks a lot
@alisatihi-sharp7353
@alisatihi-sharp7353 3 жыл бұрын
Omg thank god yes i done the right thing omg thank god its personal but i just had a disagreement with my partner and now hes not talking to me it was me i was too effected by the topic and he apoligized then left he hasnt replied back to me but i done this and i know he is gaming with his friends so i know theres time and space all i need to do is hope he can talk to me so i can listen to him and see jf theres anything else i can do i was so scared that my apolgie and actions werent unff till i saw this this is why i turn to yt coaches cause yous are always there when i am in need thank you
@johnesteban5763
@johnesteban5763 5 жыл бұрын
Great Video!
@isaacmathews4693
@isaacmathews4693 5 жыл бұрын
Love this.
@justindemas2805
@justindemas2805 3 жыл бұрын
Very helpful friend keep it up
@ntadomgrace5622
@ntadomgrace5622 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the tips try it guys it works 😊
@pinkie12736
@pinkie12736 5 жыл бұрын
This actually helped me out some. Me and my parter we've been dating for about 2 yrs now. I seeked help for some answers on here 1 and a half years ago. I finally got an apology from him but it wasn't the best. He always has to add the "but even though". How do you change to get the apology you need to hear without the "but even though"
@INTERNA9
@INTERNA9 2 жыл бұрын
LOVE it!
@stephanielumu3330
@stephanielumu3330 5 жыл бұрын
Wow😻😻🔥 thank you
@zeelakhan5982
@zeelakhan5982 4 жыл бұрын
Mat.... U are amazing man... I love the relationship with ur wife... She is lucky to have loyal spouse like u.... Stay blessed and happy aameen
@thefbi1666
@thefbi1666 5 жыл бұрын
There was this thing that happened at school and this guy who was always mean to me got in trouble and I said he deserved it. Now everyone hates me and I don’t know what to do.
@Morixbando
@Morixbando 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks men I learn alots 😝
@AsifImran
@AsifImran 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@zahraamanah8366
@zahraamanah8366 5 жыл бұрын
For me, the apology formula offered looks more like “restauring integrity” as per the landmark teachings...than just an apology
@weralia7917
@weralia7917 8 жыл бұрын
Great video! I would love to see that someone say something to improve next time when that situation occurs, then what should do. I'm also interested in how to say to somebody that I'm not happy with what he did. But there wasn't agreement, especially on the beginning on the relationship when people start knowing each other and discover that one of his behavior didn't do a good impression on me. And give chance to change that, and do agreement.
@weralia7917
@weralia7917 8 жыл бұрын
+Mathew Boggs Thank you :-)
@hashelliott3804
@hashelliott3804 6 жыл бұрын
Mat! I made as mistake on Thursday. I recently signed up on Facebook, requested my boyfriend as a friend. At this time his Grandma is in the hospital and had been for a couple of days. We were conversing about his day and he was explaining his frustration with planning to go see his Grandma (out of state). The conversation was fine, and I asked him hey I sent you a friend request on Facebook can you accept my request. He hesitated to answer me, and said that he had a lot going that day which was why he ignored it. He said it was not on the top of his list. I got upset, not because he did not accept it the request at the time, but because he said it was not at the top of the list. Basically, I flipped out. We argued a bit, and the at the end we both apologized. He is still upset because he said that I should not have brought it up during this time (Grandma being sick and all). I do not know how to apologize using these steps with this situation. I apologized, but not good enough. He is now in traveling to Houston, still upset with me. How can I address this apology correctly using these steps? Help
@stacymeye5944
@stacymeye5944 8 жыл бұрын
Real good subject. We are going to use this! And btw did you lose weight?💪🏼😊
@godislove9330
@godislove9330 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir
@alejandrapalomino7027
@alejandrapalomino7027 5 жыл бұрын
Matt, I recently found your videos and books, it’s really helping me understand all kinds of things I had no idea I was doing wrong. I am divorced now with two kids, and having a hard time to move on with my life, please help.
@peterbarkley8638
@peterbarkley8638 2 жыл бұрын
How are you coping with being divorced
@RajKumari-dk5vk
@RajKumari-dk5vk 4 жыл бұрын
Hey ! I had a fight with my bf today ... Actually he asked me to order something from Domino's ... So I ordered it from my phone and after few mins ... He said he will order by himself But unfortunately I was not able to cancel my order ... After he reached order he asked me about order summary ... I don't know why ... I just said few things and one from them was not actually in my order ... So while I was discussing with him...he just called them for missing thing ..and then he said . "Baby are you sure this was in your order ?" And then I found that that wasn't in my order ( after checking my app) Now he thinks I lied to him .... As I wanted to insult him ...and want to make fun of him N that's not true .... I tried to talk to him But now his not listening to me He have made that statement for me that I'm a fake person and a big lier.
@JustLyz
@JustLyz 4 жыл бұрын
Missing my fiance's calls lead to separation,,,guys can you help me to fix this,I love him so much...It's a long distance relationship and am trying to make things to look easier...
@silvief1
@silvief1 8 жыл бұрын
absolutely agree
@Lumettola
@Lumettola 6 жыл бұрын
What if my boyfriend does not want to hear my apology after we fight? Sometimes I would like to apologize, cause know I tend to overeact and start stupid fights, but I dont find a way to dialogue with him
@annag8299
@annag8299 5 жыл бұрын
I’m in the same situation, PLZ HELP!!!!!
@ngocngocthuong
@ngocngocthuong 5 жыл бұрын
I think it depends on how frequent you "snap" at him, because that actually hurts. Even if he loves you, there's a limit to getting dragged in meaningless fights, and with time, he may lose affection for you. This is just based on my experience, but I hope it could help.
@peterbarkley8638
@peterbarkley8638 2 жыл бұрын
He doesn't want to hear you apologize because you don't tend to put step 4 in practice like finding out what to do to make it up to. Him and also sticking to doing that thing which you just found out. So to. Him he sees your apology as a waste of time
@miriamquiroga3373
@miriamquiroga3373 7 жыл бұрын
Amazing! 😉
@carolinekarlo4477
@carolinekarlo4477 3 жыл бұрын
You really helped me and am so grateful to u U inspired me a lot
@user-yr6gr4fg2h
@user-yr6gr4fg2h 3 жыл бұрын
I have someone powerful who can help you manifest whatever you wish or desire without delau
@user-yr6gr4fg2h
@user-yr6gr4fg2h 3 жыл бұрын
Text him on what sap
@user-yr6gr4fg2h
@user-yr6gr4fg2h 3 жыл бұрын
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@Danny-jz9mj
@Danny-jz9mj 4 жыл бұрын
How would you know if they want to hear what happened or not and how do you tell when the right time is to approach that
@enacollings3534
@enacollings3534 2 жыл бұрын
Yes I will apologise and have done , but some people I know who harmed me will never do that , that’s when friendships are broken.
@beequeen9228
@beequeen9228 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@kathleenfilippone1261
@kathleenfilippone1261 7 жыл бұрын
What about when a guy stands you up. He doesn't even care to let you know why. Not even tries to make another date. Even an apology for that matter.
@sharonboyce9976
@sharonboyce9976 8 жыл бұрын
GM.Mathew that was good you Apologies but far as I see you are a good husband.we all make mistakes.that is not every day there are men do wrong every day.we all need time for ourselves thank hv a bless day
@noladarling1597
@noladarling1597 4 жыл бұрын
But what if he doesn’t want to tell you what you need to do to make it right?
@charlottemacdonald4167
@charlottemacdonald4167 3 жыл бұрын
My Mom taught us to apologize when we were kids, usually when other kids were over and one would do something thoughtless to another. She would put each kid in a separate room to cool off and then call us out, stand in front of each other and look into each other's eyes. The perpetrator had to say they were sorry. This process got my attention at that early age and I have apologized ever since. It lets your friend know that you can put yourself in their shoes and you had no intention of causing them harm.. What a relief for the recipient. My three favorite phrases are, Please, Thank You, and I'm sorry. They are just loving and considerate. I am glad that your wife could tell you that she needed time away from the baby, as you did, and that you stepped up to apologize, not because your mistake was intentional, but that you realized it was making it difficult for her. Also, stepping into relieve her burden and enabling her to keep her standards for her well being also made you a real hero. She wanted the kiss to say I love you for loving me. I am sure that feeling this love in your heart, knowing she was enjoying her afternoon, made your afternoon happy (you and your beautiful baby). There is nothing better that this type of happiness. 🥰🥰🥰
@maddie8341
@maddie8341 3 жыл бұрын
Hey. Will u pls help me I’m desperate
@maddie8341
@maddie8341 3 жыл бұрын
Pls
@maddie8341
@maddie8341 3 жыл бұрын
I need someone to help and u are the latest comments and seem very smart
@maddie8341
@maddie8341 3 жыл бұрын
Look at My comments
@maddie8341
@maddie8341 3 жыл бұрын
Upon urs
@duangjais
@duangjais 8 жыл бұрын
Hey Matt, what about how a woman can graciously accept an apology that will make him feel like the man for stepping up and giving an apology?
@Santu7220
@Santu7220 4 жыл бұрын
Until we get Mat´s answer, I use the clarity of a gracious "Apology accepted." with a smile. and nothing else. The father of Melanie Amaro said it to Simon Cowell, when S. came to their home to bring her back into the competition. You can find it on youtube still, I just checked. They all are quiet and let S. speak, and this is how they get to hear more from him in the direction of what Mat shares here.
@Hana.ahmadx
@Hana.ahmadx 8 жыл бұрын
I'm using those steps now and will let u knw whether it worked
@epicsanchez7419
@epicsanchez7419 5 жыл бұрын
Sooo how did it go?
@mandrinavaratne179
@mandrinavaratne179 5 жыл бұрын
He loves me alot.He shows his love.But i get a thought tht one witch will txt with him and will get him from me away.how do i apologize him for this
@thebottomlineshowlive3426
@thebottomlineshowlive3426 8 жыл бұрын
I like what you said about choosing to recommit top your agreements, and it only works if both agree. If only one is on board it won't work and forget thinking that the other party will learn over time. I'm getting divorced because my wasband failed to commit to making Mr and his kids a priority, he behaved and continues to behave as if he's a single man. Never committing to work on the relationship. So I finally said enough infidelity. These are unions that need to be dealt with while dating and if you get married it should already be in place. Mutual respect must be party of the foundation, arrogance must be absent as well as intellectual superiority. Ladies pay close attention and see how your father in law treats your mother in law That's huge clue! Some of us missed that one....when you know better you do better.
@thebottomlineshowlive3426
@thebottomlineshowlive3426 8 жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree with you and sometimes we have collateral damage as a direct result of generational dysfunctional patterns of behaviour. Once you recognize them you can decide to stop them and empower yourself.
@infiniteaaron
@infiniteaaron 7 жыл бұрын
Who would say they DIDN'T like this? There's always one, loti.
@KatbeautyG
@KatbeautyG 5 жыл бұрын
How long do u wait for an apology
@Andrew-vt9nu
@Andrew-vt9nu 4 жыл бұрын
It works
@maddie8341
@maddie8341 3 жыл бұрын
Yes this will help a lot. Right now my Mom doesn’t trust me this has never happened before. When I say sorry I’m like the boy who called wolf she doesn’t blew me I’m a sitting duck saying sorry. Like I’m talking to a wall. It’s frustrating I just realized why my mom does not forgive me. I haven’t changed a bit and have played the innocent card and blamed everyone else for my proplems I haven’t been taking care of the animals. I haven’t been cleaning my room I haven’t been picking up my messes And I haven’t been taking responsibility for my actions I’m deeply sorry. And really want my mom to. Trust me but I think I lost her trust forever and it breaks my heart because everytime anything gets messed up she blames me yells at me. I love my mom and. Very. Thankful she has been patient with me and my mistakes and. Glad she loves me. And still gives me anything I want cleans the house 24 /7 and has no time to relax I hate that she’s calling me a teenager and. A lazy little girl I just turned 13 and she doesn’t trust me. Iv never been. In trouble I get straight As. And. She’s never mad. At me. But now she is. And threatened to pull me over her knee like iv seen My older siblings she has never spanked me. And. I don’t want her to and I want her to trust me. But I have no idea. How to say sorry in a way that she will trust me and know I mean it I really want help and I’m hoping someone can
@ayikorudoreen631
@ayikorudoreen631 Жыл бұрын
This is what happened and i take the responsibility, this is what am doing or already doing to fix that problem, this is the system am putting in a place to ensure that itdoesn't happen again,is there anything i can do to make it right
@leedelta15
@leedelta15 8 жыл бұрын
I love your videos Mathew! They've been helping me date smarter and increase my self esteem :) But how do I apologize, or do I even need to, to a man i've been dating for ~1.5 mos and feel like I "gave him the cookie" way too early for my comfort level? My gut tells me this isn't meant to be because I now sense he's not looking for a relationship, at least not with me. Tough thing to realize considering I'm almost 31 and have been single my entire life. Where do I go from here? :*( I'd appreciate any advice, thank you! (Unrelated topic: What's your take on dating in the workplace??)
@theforg8014
@theforg8014 8 жыл бұрын
famous last words , 1 hour ,.... I triple time a man gives me I call it guy time
@mmich75
@mmich75 5 жыл бұрын
Thx
@ibopishakhuidrom3937
@ibopishakhuidrom3937 4 жыл бұрын
Would u pliz ,give ur thought about how to stay a relationship with a short temper man
@annabelleheffron341
@annabelleheffron341 8 жыл бұрын
Matt, As women we already expect the men make mistakes... So.. What I proposed to you, is that you as men go out of your way on taking care of your wife needs better thing you put on this video. Because she takes care of everyone except for her own self so she needs additional special care that you can give her without her asking you... Because she does that all the time.
@annabelleheffron341
@annabelleheffron341 8 жыл бұрын
Matt.. Let me make this a little more clear for you... She stopped her life for you to have your career and for your daughter so that your daughter could be stable in her life.
@craftswithjeni
@craftswithjeni 6 ай бұрын
Hi Matt how to deal with a situation when you accidentally made your man jealous by praising another man in front of him that really hurt his ego.
@isaacwilliams6491
@isaacwilliams6491 3 жыл бұрын
Looking in the eyes
@FreddiePlaysJrpgs
@FreddiePlaysJrpgs 5 жыл бұрын
I've always put my friend first whenever he needed me I'll always be there but when it's me. I'm just a thought. We always talked when he needed to but wouldn't if I wanted to. We were good friends who related to each other and had the same interests. Should I try to reconnect or leave it alone?
@turtlerabbitkim2247
@turtlerabbitkim2247 3 жыл бұрын
If I were u I would tell him how I feel and just say sometimes I be a bit hurt and maybe in future when you do need some support say to him that I’m always here for u for when I need u but your not there when I need u
@thatoneguy4420
@thatoneguy4420 3 жыл бұрын
@@turtlerabbitkim2247 yo dude I have a question but I just got into an argument and after I’m starting to worry if the guy I argued with will reply to me trying to start something again but I’m not sure and I’m thinking of apologizing but I’m also worried he won’t reply back and I might keep thinking why he won’t reply but do you have any advice?
@bryanespinoza7883
@bryanespinoza7883 3 жыл бұрын
For the first 10 seconds I though he was signing what he was saying
@princessleabacal6056
@princessleabacal6056 3 жыл бұрын
this works huhuhu in fact he accepted my apology. My advice is that you should own up to your mistakes and show that you are truly sorry for your previous actions. Any advice to share if he/she does not know what to do after the apology? Should I give him space?
@stephaniecatherine4407
@stephaniecatherine4407 3 жыл бұрын
Hello dear 🥰 I can help you if you need any help contact me on via WhatsApp let's chat better 🥰🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷
@stephaniecatherine4407
@stephaniecatherine4407 3 жыл бұрын
+1(305)203-1702
@ekdaufin1485
@ekdaufin1485 4 жыл бұрын
So he was gone 2.5 hours vs. 1. Not only is the emotional acknowledgment missing from this system but he minimizes the length of time he was gone if I understand what he has said. 🤪
@amrikarambaran8905
@amrikarambaran8905 8 жыл бұрын
Hi Matthew, great video. I was wondering if you could do a video on what to do when your partner is taking you for granted and has made you less of a priority in his life
@amrikarambaran8905
@amrikarambaran8905 8 жыл бұрын
+Mathew Boggs Yes well I don't see my bf all the time because he works two jobs but when he is off, I always hang out with him because I see him so rarely. I was ill and the first two days he was working, he wanted to spend night with me the night before he was off but even though I wanted him there I said stay home and spend time with your brother since he came from tampa for 2 days and id see you tomorrow. Now the day of him being off I spoke to him in the morning he said he'd spend time with his borther and be there for me later, longer story short I didn't hear from him at all the entire day, no call, no text and he didn't come and see me. Only after his brother left did he try to come and see me. I was and still am extremely upset. He says he just got caught up with his brother, to me no excuse for not even sending a text to see how I was doing knowing I was ill. I should also mention he did the exact same thing to me another time when his brother was in town for 2 days. I was upset and told him to never do that to me again a month later he did the exact same thing.
@thenanna46
@thenanna46 6 жыл бұрын
That’s nice. Makes sense. But what if your wife had been totally pissed and rightfully angry, and she didn’t express her upset feelings in such a nice way as how you described in this video? Does that then absolve the husband from needing to apologize because she might have been a bit “bitchy”?
@amoralasfragancias9048
@amoralasfragancias9048 6 жыл бұрын
thenanna46 hjh
@thenanna46
@thenanna46 6 жыл бұрын
daisy daisy I don’t know what hjh means ....
@ivywang416
@ivywang416 4 жыл бұрын
keep saying sorry
@steviepichols9144
@steviepichols9144 6 күн бұрын
1 2 and 3
@kyancharles3968
@kyancharles3968 5 жыл бұрын
Hey Mathew Boggs I love your video but I did all of these steps and he still don't believe me I don't know what to do😭😭💔💔
@lisaabena4927
@lisaabena4927 5 жыл бұрын
Kyan Charles sorry dear
@lydialopez9209
@lydialopez9209 5 жыл бұрын
I need help to apologize to my ex boyfriends mom because he still wants to be together and so do I but his mom hates me and I apologized over text but I’m scared to apologize in person 🥴 especially since it’s a lie that I’m apologizing for
@emilymarie1773
@emilymarie1773 4 жыл бұрын
Lydia Lopez did you ever apologize to his mom. im in the same situation right now, he snuck over to my house and his mom called me asking where he was knowing that he was at my house and i told her that he told me that he was going to go out for a run and say hi to me on the way. i told her that ill check outside for him and by the time i tried to get him out the house his mom was already waiting for him.
@eveheart2876
@eveheart2876 8 жыл бұрын
Lol I am just missing step number 4:3
@sharonboyce9976
@sharonboyce9976 8 жыл бұрын
Hi Mathew thanks for answering me you welcome.keep up with your good work so I hope that you are a reall good husband. Mathew I want to ask you a question if I should send money to a man I dont know I meet him on line but I block him beacuse he is giving me to much stress he said he is working with the U.N but for him to visite me I hv to process his papers for reales I dont belive that could you please answer me I will be grateful if you do hv a bless day
@juanalujan4284
@juanalujan4284 8 жыл бұрын
omg that's the oldest scam don't give him money
@michellechapman1423
@michellechapman1423 5 жыл бұрын
Don’t give anyone money that you don’t know and even then, if you can’t afford to “give” your friend the money - and not expect it back- that would be the only way that’s safe.
@SipwithJasmine
@SipwithJasmine 3 жыл бұрын
🙏🏽🥺🥺♥️
@nwaoyoelizabeth6356
@nwaoyoelizabeth6356 5 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend read my chat with my ex....how can I apologise to him
@FoxHollowPeonies
@FoxHollowPeonies 5 жыл бұрын
Is it work?
@FoxHollowPeonies
@FoxHollowPeonies 5 жыл бұрын
Is it work?
@singsolo7274
@singsolo7274 4 жыл бұрын
I called my boyfriend a pimp
@thealamsen33
@thealamsen33 3 жыл бұрын
I apologize and ask forgiveness for my partner/bestfriend for almost 4days... Still its not enough, he says he will not trade me for anyone but when i ask him "do you still love me" he just simply says no comment. So i think to give him space... But what does "no comment means? Why does he can not answer a yes or no on my question... 😢
@thealamsen33
@thealamsen33 3 жыл бұрын
Pls tell me what to do
@stephaniecatherine4407
@stephaniecatherine4407 3 жыл бұрын
Hello dear 🥰 I can help you if you need any help contact me on via WhatsApp let's chat better 🥰🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷
@stephaniecatherine4407
@stephaniecatherine4407 3 жыл бұрын
+1(305)203-1702
@MitchC-vr8nw
@MitchC-vr8nw 6 жыл бұрын
If she was upset about 30 minutes late with the bros, then you need to compare her time versus yours. I'm pretty sure she has more her time than you have his time. Good apologetic explanation though.
@aditiprasad8789
@aditiprasad8789 5 жыл бұрын
It was an hour and a half more
@matildat5264
@matildat5264 6 ай бұрын
Chloe needs to apologise to me because not being kind to me and me being with her boyfriend
@ElvisTranscriber2
@ElvisTranscriber2 2 жыл бұрын
OK go ahead and apologise .... and if you still don't feel good about your well thought-out apology... you can always replace it with this apology Try reciting at speed this apology (taken from Andrew Lloyd Webber's Musical "By Jeeves" ) kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ndKZidF7m9bWe4k.html JEEVES I fear I must confess it, sir Despite my best endeavours to Ensure a fluid narrative Things haven't gone to plan Evens were overtaken, sir By unseen technicalities I really can assure you, though I've done the best I can There comes the odd occasion, sir When facing up to destiny We'd do as well as well remembering A man is but a man You have my firm assurances That come the grand denouement, sir Events will all resolve themselves In spite of come what may I only can apologize For any inconvenience Injurious to your dignity That happens on the way I simply wish to emphasize I have your interests uppermost And that, sir, in conclusion, sir Is all I have to say!
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