Plot twist. If a man is in his 40's and single, it's a very good chance he can already cook. We good.

Everyone is a gangsta until Kevin asks: dress size ? 🤣😂

Ladies, I’m a nurse and married to a plumber, he makes 180k a year. Don’t turn your nose at the hard working providers. I madly respect and appreciate my husband.

Her assumption that a man making $50k wouldn't also be an intellectual is exactly why she's 40 and alone.

What a complete waste of a potential wife and mother. I'm 53 and when I was 36, a woman I was chasing ( she was 34 ) at this gov't job I had ( she had a PhD in Romance languages... LOL ), finally agreed to join me for a coffee date. She was aggressive with questions like: where I went school, what degree I had, what did I value etc. I said, I didn't go to college or Uni because my dad died when I was 16 and my mom was messed up and abusive, so I left home and learned to fend for myself. Then she said, ' what a waste of potential.' 10 years later, I was in a different career, making 78K ( compared to 49k in the gov't job ), and I happened to bump into her at a Starbucks. I discovered that she had no luck finding a husband... " men just pump and dump me " she said in a euphemistic way. She had bought a condo a few years back, now owned a cat and was waiting for her man to come to her. I said, " I had no control over the death of my father or the abuse from my mom, and had to deal with the cards dealt to me, but, you could have married at a younger age and instead chose to get a PhD, buy a condo and a dog, and allowed many men to use your P-sleeve without getting some kinda commitment..." " What are you trying to say ?" she asked interrupting me. " What a waste of potential." I said. Then I took my coffee and left.

We are witnessing the END of a terrible Era in the dating community. Say goodbye to the "* take me as I am*" mentality. You have to be worth a Damn.. men and women.

My mouth dropped when she made the assumption that men making 50k a year are not intellectuals. That’s just crazy 🤦🏽‍♀️ I’m not even a man and that hurt me lol

This woman is the shining example of the phrase, "Having a degree doesn't mean you're intelligent."

This dude got me working out again and I'm a married father of 3

Everyone is a gangster until he says: how tall are you?"

"I'm supportive. I'm kind. I can cook." Yo, she got all the same skills as Batman's butler.

My mother was 40 when I was born. I spent my entire childhood terrified that she was going to die. As a kid, I had nightmares about trying to protect her. She lived to 93 yrs of age.🤣

“I can’t relate to a man earning only $50k. I need an intellectual man”. 🙄🤦🏾‍♂️ Just go get a dog sis. 🐶

She was with the bad boys, left that part out Wasted 20 years

A 40 year-old deluded, self-possessed woman. I have a medical degree from my native country and an MBA here in the US. I picked my wife when I saw the girl working doubles at a nursing home to help her mother deal with cancer. At 23 she told me "...for my mother I will do whatever I have to do. How I feel has nothing to do with anything..." We were married in a year. Some 25 years later and six children, all married, she works with me now that all the kids are gone. But as a Hispanic woman, she was raised to be a wife and a mother. What I value about her is her dedication, strength, courage, her love and attention for me. My intellectual reach is flexed outside in the world. When I get home she has a palace ready for me. No clever conversation, just peace. RIP Godfather and thank you for surfacing the truth to a generation that is lost and without a rudder.

Love isn’t a feeling, it’s an action. People have it twisted

My dad told me. "Women find a man to make their lives easier. Men find a woman to not make their lives harder"

In this world, being average and stable is actually brilliant.

when a female says “i hear you though”…… she’s just waiting until you’re done speaking she’s not listening it’s a huge difference💯

"They can’t get the high value man, so it is easier for them to say: I don’t want them" - "Men want fit, femenine, cooperative, submissive"… so true!

“No man wants to talk politics with you!” Thank you 😂 we just wanna chill and be ourselves around our woman. If the subject comes up then that’s fine, but no one wants to have to give a thesis every time we talk

Im a truck driver making $70-$80k my wife have a master in teaching and I never been to college but we still have great conversations and that’s how I got her you don’t need college to hold a decent conversation js🤷🏽‍♂️

I'm an "average earning" man and these women don't even qualify for us.... Speaking up for the working man

I go to Connecticut twice a year. Every Delta I know up there is single with a Ph.D. I laugh at the “but I was engaged” like that’s a trophy. You ran 200 meters in a 400 meter race.

To this day “Imma PhD” brings me tears of laughter 😂😂😂

if shes under 30 she belongs to the streets but when she gets over 30-40 she still tries to belong to the streets but the streets dont want her any more.

this man cared rewatching his content now, I'm a better man for listening to him but there's still much work to be done

Her forced laughter tells all. She's miserable and regretting choices she's made

She said.......It’s not about the money Kevin but I don’t know how much I’ll have in common with a man who makes 50k. delusional. We got some work to do. 👩🏾‍🦯

As an average woman, married to an average guy, I always remember that show where Kevin was talking about (correct me if I'm wrong) single "I'm a PhD" type women laughing at the chick working at Dollar General that's going home to her factory worker husband and living a happy life, while the woman making fun of her goes home alone and bitter. I am the chick working a little ole office job, then going home to my factory worker husband. At times I can be ungrateful, but listening to these shows makes me appreciate my husband and my life sooooo much more. I live in a double wide trailer, but I'm not alone. My husband is a great guy, who I know loves me too. I have everything I need, and sometimes just things I want. I couldn't ask for more honestly.

She is the type that would really break down your self worth and not even be doing it intentionally

I love this man and I am so sad he died just as I found his videos. Women all of all races need to listen to his advice. Too many of us grow up watching rom-coms, reading romance novels and that is not how reality works. So of course real life just ends up being a disappointment because they expect men to put them on a pedestal when they don’t deserve it.

When she said she couldn’t click with some one who makes 50k that was it for me.....What does money have to do with the person? A man can make a 100k still be dumb and have a huge personality flaws.

“Nobody wants a 40 yr old brat” “That’s sobering” Kevin is a shining example of consistency in these exchanges with his callers.

it's always "I was engaged" lol

I can't stop watching Kevin the God Father. I was a hater for about 1 month but Kevin is genuinely advocating for women, black families, and being realistic can't be mad about any of that.

I’m so grateful for Kevin. He changed my mentality.

she said she cooks and cleans !! wtf! everyone has to do that for themselves that is not what someone brings to the table. jeezus

Love comes afterwards. You'll learn to love. he sounds like our elder Uncles, Aunts and Grandpa's here in India. 😄

"I am an intellectual" Survey says that is a lie

-I’m a strong, independent WOMAN! -Ma’am, this is a Wendy’s....

Her giggles as she answers every question let's me know she isn't serious about life at 40 so she came on the show to talk to Kevin because her dog doesn't speak English.

Ok hear me out: in my country (India) we have matrimonial websites, newspaper ads, official matchmakers and etc. Whole families get involved, it's something as organized as tinder but for people who want to get married and have a family. That sorta system is missing in the Western world. No matter how below average (even if the person is horrible) that person also finds a match. This idea will work wonders in the West

Tell the HVAC technician he's dumb and see if he fixes your AC.

And I say again. The culture needs this man. 👊🏿

40 years old and acting this silly? Giggling after every statement? And still talking about sorors and being caught up in fraternity bs? Next.

I'm a patent infringement paralegal and make about $65k a year and consider myself an intellectual. This woman is trippin. She basically called me an ignorant scrub.. smh

Her:"I'm a lover..." KS:"How's that working out for you?" 🤣🤣🤣

'Fit, feminine, friendly, cooperative, submissive' 👍🏻

If a woman uses the phrase "situationship" over the age of 15, she's a child. Situationship is the proto version of "entanglement."

Watching these discussions has me working out , drinking less , more feminine and submissive and I have 3 kids and in a committed relationship. Getting myself together to be a model for my daughter. I may not have had this info 10 years ago which could have helped me make better choices but now I’m more equipped for my own children and to be a better spouse.

I've heard this "I don't think I'd have anything in common with a 50K man" schtick so many times now. At one time we would have called these people snobs.

Kevin can destroy you by making you answer your own questions. That's power right there.

These women sleep on us truck drivers...we make good money aint afraid to get our hands dirty and we clean up nicely 😉

Kevin is doing some good work in the black community by bringing this much truth and honesty.

The tuba gets me every time. Lol

She can cook SPAGHETTI?! We could cook spaghetti as teenage boys on hangover after parties...

And what many men have realized is they don’t want to be the “settled for” guy.

I love the way she keeps laughing, because we know inside, she's crying.......

The TRUMPETS after they answer the Dress Size question!!!!

Kevin is right! My husband is a high value man . He cares NOTHING about how much 💰 I make or my degrees. He's never even asked how much I make. 👉He cares about me making cornbread from scratch, collard greens, red beans and rice, PEACE and RESPECT! lbvs🤷🏽‍♀️ My husband loves me to pieces and I actually enjoy uplifting and serving my family.

"I'm willing to lower my standards. I'll take a man making $80k/year." HAHAHAHA!

He said generation X borrowed the struggles of the previous generations but didn't actually have the struggles! Wow. Think about that. That was so perfectly said and really triggered me to contemplate that statement! Truth. Many people don't consider how important the words we use are, nor do they understand the meaning of half the words they use. Thank you Kevin for that food for thought.

R.I.P to the father we all needed

Lets sum this up. She's 40 years old, ofc Phd., dress size 12-14, wants high value man, WANTS KIDS, don't forget about intellectual conversations.., and have a father from dracula generation. What could possibly go wrong? Weeeeell at least she can cook, like spagetti and stuff :))

They are trying to rewrite history, and what it means to be a man. Kevin is helping change that. Women have been able to get away with this crap through articles, music, and movies. That shit ends now!

My dad is from the silent generation and he was head of the house period. He held us down through all the hard times and through all of my moms drug addicted nonsense and leaving. She put so much BS in my head about men but i followed my heart when choosing a man. I didnt realize until recently my heart was molded by my dad. Thats why im successfully married for 14 years with 2 healthy intelligent children and my amazing husband that is a strong head of the house. I learned not to trust women because of my mother.

So funny when Kevin hits her with the reality and she turns sad and pouty and says "thats sobering". Welcome to the DAILY life that men deal with from yall ladies.

"You need someone who's gonna respect you and give you you're insulin shot", I dam near died😂😂😂

“You learn to love somebody” Truer words have never been spoken.

I make 80k and my girl makes the same….to hear that I’m in the top 15%……coming from a nobody on candler road in Decatur. Thanks you Mr Samuels 🙏

We...have lost a great man. RIP.

She finessed her self and is continually doing so.

This is why I never cared for sororities.. Group mentality. Many lack individuality. I know her type. Educated, older, single lonely with a haggle of friends in the same situation.

Tell them what love REALLY is, Sir! This is so good. Thank you so much!

Thank you Mr. Samuels. I really appreciate your content, and it has made me realize my true value. This information is really appreciated and greatly needed.

The gym is a lifestyle that I wish more black women would embrace. We losing. Gotta step up.

Mam , you are not the prize. You’re 40 & living in Connecticut! 😂

Hi Kevin! You will remain top G! And you will live on with your videos. God bless you my brother!

When Kevin starts going savage, playing them sound effects, and dropping bombs on em, who else is over here cheering him on like your on the sidelines of a sports game?

phd from yale yet can't figure out that she does not qualify for anyone close to what she expects

Even when he’s pissed off he still finds it in him to hit the sound effect buttons🤣 this guys a legend

It kills me when these 40 year old hens come on here talking about having a baby..😂😂

Kevin, I really think this world needs more people like you, there’s a lot of confused people out there. Unfortunately most professionals that give advice are nothing like you.

Lol the wall is a terrible thing to waste. First she used to like bad boys and now she wants "mr husband material". Leftovers are for the dogs.

Kevin called it right! She was fake feminine, and it came out at the end that she looks down on a man who makes 50k, but just before that she said it’s not about the money. These women need the psyche ward

So glad I have a man already, I also live in Connecticut 😅

I'm 24 and after watching Kevin's videos I have decided that I want to go to college to get my degree so I can better myself.

Some blue collar workers make over $100k+

This is sad and scary . I hate this mentality because this why I was born into chaos. Women and men just procreating just cause of lust . Don’t teach their children anything and don’t have a foundation .

Bro. Thanks for this one. Alot of people need to hear this !!!

Damn KS always speaking logically and keeping everything realistically. Uncle K. be on it!!! Frfr

“I’m a LOVEEEER!” “How is that working our for you?” *Crickets*

I always burst out laughing at the dress size answers.

Really enjoyed this one, I hope everything works out for her!

This woman is 40 and respectful kudos to that she listens and has a good conversation.

No hope for her. Everything is a game to her.

She got on my nerves. She sounded like a teenager.

I'm a 36 year old man with a child from a previous relationship. I am not attractive, I suffer depression, and I work 60-70 hours a week. I've been trying to find a real relationship for 8 years. Listening to these women on your show, I'm fairly certain that I'm gonna die alone. Simply because I won't ever meet anyone's qualifications.

Whats up Kevin, unfortunately too many of us put menial degrees and careers above pursuing meaningful relationships. Im 40+ and I benefit from your material, thanks my brother.