This is sad. I used to date a woman like this for a bit. She made over 100k and felt my profession wasn’t good enough. She broke it off with me because her friends told her too. A few weeks later she came back and realized she made a mistake I said I wasnt interested. Two years later I’m engaged to a queen who values me, we about to buy a house and she got knocked up by some bum and is still single. You can’t make this stuff up!!!

Women want the authority of a man🤦🏽‍♂️the advantages of a women🤷🏽‍♀️ and the accountability of a child 👶🏽

“When you want to help people, you tell them the truth. When you want to help yourself, you tell them what they want to hear.” -Thomas Sowell

Can't believe we're not gonna hear anymore wisdom from him! RIP 😔🙏🏽

“If Black women were actually the Christians they say they were, most of these issues would self correct”! 💯

1st mistake: Listening to *_ANYTHING_* that Steve Harvey has to say!

This guy gets a bad rep, he’s not bashing these women. He’s legit trying to help

This guy is awesome. Sad he's gone.

They get engaged and break it off then say men have commitement issues.

“Ask a women what kind of man she wants she’ll write a book. Ask her what she brings to the table in a relationship, it won’t even fit on the back of a stamp.” -K.S.

NOTHING about her says agreeable. She’s “fun” not marriage material. A great side chick

This man was amazing. He was an asset to all people. He was not rude or unkind. He was strongly realistic. He brought his subject down from the clouds.

When a woman says "I hear you," she means she can see the logic of what you're saying, but will still disagree with it because it doesn't make her feel good.

Man if Kevin would call their ex's live and ask them questions, that would be next level of epicness lol

RIP Mr. Samuels. Always got to the point, never accepted BS.

Girl, if you are NOT a virgin I am NOT waiting, because I am NOT going to pay the price of admission (in time, dinners, dates, etc...) for something that someone already got.

"Why are women not willing to settle for an average guy.... but willing to settle for dying alone"? That hit hard 🔥

Men that pedestalize women get treated like s*** I know I was one of them.

I’m still not over Kevin’s passing….. I’ll probably never will.

😢😢 I cry every time I remember this man is dead. He was soooooo needed in the black community. Now we have to watch these girls take glory in being 304s and also watch them endure the bitterness that their later years will bring.

She makes a man wait "depending on the man." She makes rules for betas and breaks them for alphas.

When my ex-wife told me that her mom didn’t sent her to college just to clean and cook! I filed the divorce and got my peace of mind. Enjoying my retirement 🎣🎣🎣

I dated a woman like this a long time ago. She's married to a woman now.

Lol, I had a college GF ditch me for a more prettier guy when I was pouring myself into running a startup company. Years later she was calling and trying to get back together. Graduating college without having found a husband and had evolved her into valuing "earner" guys over guys with Ryan Gosling dimples, apparently. Wow, what an attitude adjustment! Too bad it came so late, and she had never shown an ounce of empathy or even interest in what it cost me to become an earner back when I could've used it. I had to tell her I'm not your fallback "safe" guy. PS, Ladies, if your man has to come up with 40k every 2 weeks to make payroll and his receivables to cover that are coming in late, that is MORE IMPORTANT than the argument you had with your roommate. It literally and objectively IS. High value women get that shit.

She's wondering why she's not a wife and confused. But she has turned down three engagements. You're not a wife because you don't want to be married. Simple

She has the goofiest vibe. I can't take her seriously, especially at 38.

The more of his videos that I watch, the more I TOTALLY understand why he (sadly) passed away from a heart attack (or stress). These women are SO damn frustrating, they just about give me a heart attack and I’m not even in the conversation! He was. And he CARED!! Can you imagine how much this hit him? How patient he had to be? The man was a f*^king Super Hero!!! These women dug under his armor/power and caused his death (metaphorically). 😢☮️

In my early 20s, I would just get bypassed and rejected (by women like her). I thought there was something wrong with me because I came from a very low tier. It took me in my mid-30s to realize I was on an Alpha status. It angers me that so many in my community pounded in me that I was a beta. I am married now, have a house on the way, and have been investing. One heck of an unwanted circus ride. SMH.

She said “what makes me not a wife?” Lady you!!!! You broke off multiple engagements you made you not a wife 😂😂😂

She turned down two engagements, willing to adopt, add to the negative statistics of single motherhood, & die alone rather than settle. Crazy.

What a HEADACHE 🤕

I really miss these conversations every week listening to Kevin Samuel 😢.

She claims to be “cool” and “fun” but her Exes “go back” to their ex girlfriends and marry them. When the problem seems to be everyone else, it’s most likely YOU.

Young women need to watch this! We may have a lot of options while we are young and in our prime but it can all be wasted if we don’t make the right choices .Then turn 38 and single af.

The Level Kevin is Operating At is Impeccable 🔥

It really bothers me that ppl act like suggesting therapy is offensive. We ALL could benefit from therapy. We’ve all experienced some sort of trauma and trauma literally reshapes the brain. Therapy is like going to the gym for your mind. It’s not a bad thing.

"No matter what reason a woman gives for leaving you, the real bottom line is because she thinks she can do better than you." I don't remember definitely where I heard that, but I've never forgotten it.

She has a masters degree, she went to school with the top 15% of guys, had classes, study groups, group projects, internships and still couldn't land one.

R.I.P KS

I used to want to die alone because of my bad experiences with men, but now I'm currently dating someone who makes me happy, and we plan on getting married in the near future! I'm glad I took a chance with this one.

She's basically the analogy of the guy being stranded out at sea. He prays for god to help him. A ship comes by to save him and he tells them, "No thank you. God will save me." Another ship comes by and he tells them, "I'm okay! God will save me!" He dies and goes to heaven. He asks god, "Hey, why didn't you save me?" And god replies, "I sent two ships.'

I like how Kevin has his mouse cursor on Mute button lol

"I'm very agreeable!" As she is contrary to everything he is saying... arguing and qualifying every answer.

Rest in Power, The Godfather 🙏🏾🕊 you’ve changed so many’s lives. We will continue your message and keep it going, thank you for the hours of insight and guidance. I can’t thank you enough. You can rest now. 🙏🏾

I can see why KS is so frustrated. A woman like this should be a married mom raising the next generation, not fumbling around in relationships.

I grew in Westchester N.Y one of the wealthiest counties in America. My mother & father often tell me how meeting my mother he didn't have 2 quarters to rub together. Dirt poor in South Carolina. He met my mother married her in a month & took her with him when he attended Howard University. They built a life that I get to enjoy! Today's women want what takes 40 years to build from a 20-year-old.

She is actually a very beautiful woman. That's what is so tragic about this.

R.I.P. Kevin

Marriage is punishment for most guys.

Turning down 2 engagements, and a 3rd one = means someone thought you were good enough to marry, with your flaws but you didnt think they were good enough, with their flaws..

"He did not challenge me intellectually." Ma'am! That's what your friends are for! 😂🤣😂

Genesis 2:18 - “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper as his partner.” - PARTNER not a prize, and not a cherry and certainly not entitled.

The problem she is having is that men are waking up and don’t see women as the prize they once were. More men are realizing you could spend the time on yourself and your hobbies which doesn’t bring you drama, headaches, or financial liability.

I am soooooo glad I realized in my 20s I was the problem and got therapy!!!! 15 great years that I almost gave away.

Kevin was a saint. Dealing with these airheads deserves a chair by the lawd 😇

This might be my favorite video of his. Respectful and tangible.

Yoo this guy is doing all single guys and honestly all of society a fucking massive favor. Thank you Kevin, subbed and liked!!

Married to the system! On point. The Government has replaced the father, husband, & God. You don't need a man, you just need Uncle Sam.

Kevin we will miss u. U made me a better man in the short time I found u.

Literally my situation right now. This thought process is ruining the black community. She’s smart enough to realize the negative, but uses them as weapons to walk away. She is the cool female who meets the cool guy and doesn’t get taken serious. Praying she gets it right.

“Have you had therapy yet?” “Why? To find a man?” Oof. She still doesn’t get it.

back in my younger days I loved older women because I thought they were more mature. until one of my older homeboys told me that, that's not really true. and boy was he right.

At 23 minutes into this conversation, he told her the most important things she needed to hear!!

Wow, two years later and I still know a dozen women just like this. They’re now in their 40’s. Still single but now mothers linked to each other.

“My dog is snoring.” That’s all I needed to hear 💀

I was once…engaged to a woman like this. Utterly unaware, and completely identifying with her education and profession. She was uncooperative and condescending. Once I saw how she treated servers in a restaurant…I caught a glimpse of my future and was OUT!

I appreciate this women coming and having genuine conversation, I think she was honestly trying to identify the gaps in thinking and Kevin did an awesome job with it

This was one of the best calls I have heard in hundred 👍

She’s almost 40 with the maturity of a 20 year old.

That slap sound and military funeral sound be having me weak 😂

Miss you KS. Everything you said came to life but we keep it going.

Speaking Truth to Power!

"Why is getting with a Man so complex?" Because no matter what a Man can bring to the table a Woman's nature is to ask "What else you got?"

I just met a wanna be divorcee lawyer at a function tonight, no joke. She's literally becoming a lawyer because she don't wanna be "burned in divorce court" her words 😅 God help this nation.

Women make men wait because deep down they know they are supposed to be virgins. Making men wait is an unconscious attempt to recapture that lost virginity.

Pumped and dumped alot

This woman acts, as we say in my neck of the woods, “squirrelly”. I watched this live last night, and I can’t explain why, but I feel like she wasn’t being truthful. I think she is mixing in some truth to make it seem more palatable.

Mr. Samuels is doing more good for women that Steve Harvey could ever imagine doing... bravo sir!

Perfect!! You won’t have anyone fighting to change your mind!! 😂😂😂

Miss your lessons K.S. you were an amazing man.

This man is such a good judge of character. He knows what questions to ask

I see why she is single... she’s lost and extremely misguided to be damn near 40. She’s like a 12 yr old in an adult body.

I feel like I'm running a marathon listening to this gal.

This man was a genius 😢

She doesn’t take life seriously. That’s why she’s single and still riding the cc.

Her engagements came when she was 20 & 24. Now at 38, she is out of the marriage options, especially from the top 15% guy she wants.

Madness in the US and the world 🌎

This is Golden. 👑 Samuels Salute !

“Why are you willing to settle for death by yourself but not willing to settle for a man?” Hell of a question @KevinSamuels

"Why'd you break it off the first time?" "He was my best friend!" Her in two years: "I just want to find my best friend to marry!"

Rest In Power

I found you Kevin after you passed. I am so sad for our DEEP DERP loss

These women come on here and try to say the right thing to not get hung up on instead of keeping it real.

Wow. After 25 minutes, Kevin got her to reveal her true intentions of being alone. That's why all her relationships failed, she wants to waste men's time until she dates God himself. Therapy was rightly recommended Kevin. These women REALLY can't or won't see the man's perspective when dating.

My grandparents weren't the most educated but they were wise and experienced. Owned a few juke joints plus a family farm. My grandma has 4th grade education but can sew/make clothes, operate heavy equipment, raise animals, discipline in finance but above all a great housewife-mother-grandma-great gma and an awesome down south soul food cook. She put her husband first and together they did right by their children and future generations. 3kids- 30 plus grand kids, plus several great grands all doing good. That's what they take pride in their big smart strong men and sweet soft spoken-firm beautiful ladies they reared up.... We lost a true treasure in Kevin it's a shame the ones who want to help get ridiculed the most. If we can't have rational conversations as adults and speak about what's plaguing our community as a whole then how can we heal the wound completely. The sad part is they never talked about how he held men to a higher standard and all he did was give women the real game. I bet Steve Harvey had a nice time cashing them checks from them book sales that all them women bought but not once he mentioned the truth in thinking like a man. He gave y'all what y'all wanted to read. But nevertheless I care for my family and only do right by mine as we all should be as a collective we gotta be better

Appreciate though. That was a good call. Love his exits.

Those eyes are moving all over the place to process these questions

I love this channel I’m a 24 year old AA female and, I learn so much from this channel. I’m learning how to be more feminine, less picky, how to submit to a man and let him lead by being the man. Thank you so much, I hope more young black women watch this channel and take your tips/advice along with finding a man that can lead. ❤️

This video was powerful!!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥KS gave her ass a major wake up call

"that was a go call" = able to converse, not over talking, argumentive and pleasant!