Give up control Lower the bar(about how perfect and smooth you think dating should be) Stop being so careful (afraid of her reactions) Amuse yourself first! Adopt empowerming beliefs about yourself You're welcome

2:11 1) 'Give Up Control' 4:27 2) 'Lower The Bar' 6:56 3) 'Stop Being SO Careful' 8:44 4) 'Amuse Your Self First' (Self-amusement) 10:37 5) 'Adapt Empowering Beliefs'

My ex did a number on my confidence but it’s coming back as time goes on!💯

Real men are sick of so-called "women" thinking they are the prize. Men, YOU are the prize. Women work to have YOU in their lives. Fact.

My new girlfriend really appreciates that I take the initiative to plan all our dates. Being an ER doctor, she finds it relaxing to just enjoy the experiences I arrange. I don't usually ask for her preferences; instead, I set everything up and she's always content with whatever activities I choose for us. She loves that I take charge in those things. Now I’m planning our vacations and she’s loving that.

All summed up in one word, guys - relax.

Marni, when you got to the part about the rejected 5th grader, it was as if I had told you one of my stories and you used it as an example. Secondly, if I could find a woman who talks like you, I wouldn’t even need her to do anything else. I usually become annoyed with people whose channels I subscribe to, but you are truly amazing. Thanks!

Your content is spot on Marnie! Always put pressure on myself to how I believe the interaction should go. Letting go now and it’s so liberating. Thank you lots x

Confidence is game, set, match. A more powerful force is not known. Because if you get rejected you still are confident. And if you get accepted you still are confident. There is no greater force than believing in yourself. Good video. Good insights. Great clip Marni!

I have been working on my purpose and constantly on my grind! I also eat very clean and I have noticed the results! Better girls have been checking me out!

Thank you Marni. I do all 5 of these, and I have amazing interactions with girls. In my opinion,when you do something not very cool, you can apologise for it or brush it off playfully according to what you did.

Good advice Marni. I learned from this video why I feel nervous on dates. The woman I’m dating can sense that I’m nervous too! You have a new subscriber

I would say this is the most important video I've seen from you Marni. Really foundational stuff here. Thanks!

I’ve always been a goofy playful guy and when I meet a girl who vibes with me and makes me laugh as well , it’s a sight to behold

Jesus Marnie! This was exactly what I needed right now, thanks!!!

Right on point Marni. Thanks for the assurance!🙂

Marni gives very good advice, I'm a man who is working to improve his own mentality and wants to stop being so worried about constant rejection I suffer, thank you so much for these tips besides in this video she looks ellegant and very beautiful

actually the best video of you, Marni!

Wow Marni that was an awesome video, one of the best you've ever done.

That's brilliant. So much fresher and better served knowledge than a majority of male coaches. For real!

Just very good advice in general in this vid, Marni. Good stuff.

Great message & looking beautiful !

Thanks a lot Marni. GOD bless.❤️

This video was awesome leant so much about interaction and was really deep. Thanks for sharing ❤️❤️

One of the best videos of yours! Great topic. Thank you

Great video Marni!! One of the best ones I’ve listen to so far.

I completely agree with that last chaps comment. Your best yet. You da bomb baby

Outstanding video Marni.

All of your videos are amazing, but if I had to choose one video that I had to watch for the rest of my life, it would be this one. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏

This was perfect marni

Concerning no.1, I am doing a deep-dive into stoicism. The central idea is the serenity prayer. This change in mindset will hopefully build my confidence.

Thank you for this! I stumbled on your page. Now I'm a subscriber. Looking forward to more of your expertise. This is very helpful.

your clients are so lucky to meet or talk to such a well educated and smart woman !

Needed this so badly

2004 to 2010, I was rejected instantly. No matter what I did, no matter the advice I took. "rejection doesnt happen instantly". Yes, yes it can - and yes it does. I make the call in a matter of seconds if I like someone or not. There's no reason to assume a women cant, and does not, do the same.

I did make mistakes in the past I learned from it marni I treat her with respect not needy me and my bae are good we get along with each other you are right about that listen to marni she is right

Marni, thank you so much. I believe that you are awesome and great

My brother used to tell that i was ugly a d i grew up believing him .but now i just stop worring about this and women do smile at me and smile more

Best advice ever🙌🏽

I feel better, thank you

This video is awesome and great massage, excellent tips

1 million percent...this is totally me....I'll def be watching this again

This Is one of your best videos.💖♥️

You realistically pointed to be oneself and enjoy as many moments as possible, sidetracking the negative ones.

Thanks so much for this.

Wow! This really helped me. You are a blessing.

this vid is solid gold

Thanks marni these 5 tricks will help me a lot

I have not yet seen a single youtube video with many likes and comments..that is whitout thumbs down, strange world we are living in...where not everybody can get along once!?! Thank you for this video 🙏

I guess she upgraded her camera The video looks much focused and clear Nice job😀😀👍

love the video game analogy

your speech is fabulous madam.all the videos are pretty good.thank you god for creating this woman!!

Super coach ever. Love

Thank you!

🎉🎉🎉🌹 have a wonderful day Marni

Wow Marnie! You sure look nice in green and combined with that red lipstick... Definitely makes for a very nice Christmas feeling.

I'm in a wheelchair due to a hereditary thing, but when a woman asks why or how I ended up in a wheelchair, I would make up a story of how this happened. Like I'd go into details about me working on a high budget movie with (enter famous movie star here) and while I was doing a stunt scene it all went wrong... and BOOM.. here I am in a wheelchair.. gets laughs every time haha.

Your awesome marni thankyou

This actually helps....thank you Marni....love from India...

Marni looking good in that Greenish teal shirt! 😍😏❤️👌👌🙌🔥🔥🔥🔥

Hi love you Marni you are a good teacher love your videos watching from Jamaica 🇯🇲

Marni's all right for sure...

love that Christmas tree!

SO HELPFUL!?!?!?

Super exciting wing girl !!

Thanks for giving us knowledge that is worth two hundred dollars at a seminar..bless you and your loved ones with peace love

Interesting video to bad I didn't know this 5 year's ago! Thank you for being late!

Self affirmations for confidence.

Thank you

This advice definitely works for more than dating. Thank you for uploading this, Marni! ☺

Thanks...

Thank you smiley

Best covid pick up line i accidently stumbled upon by just saying what i thought. I seen a woman who i could tell was beautuful even with her mask on. I stopper her and said can you..... Just pull your mask down for one second. ( she did and allready had a huge stupid smile on her face lol) . . wow you are more beautiful than i even imagined. I cant walk away without your nunber now ... And i just stopped talking while she processed what just happened. Point of the comment is that wouldn't have worked if i wasnt confident it would work. Confident and sincere......

You're very beautiful and I love your voice. Most important of all you have awesome advice, I'm subscribed !!! Thank you :~)

Marni, you are awesome

They are the kind who work their way into people’s homes and win the confidence of vulnerable women who are burdened with the guilt of sin and controlled by various desires. (Such women are forever following new teachings, but they are never able to understand the truth.) 2 Timothy 3:6‭-‬7 NLT

Amazing video

So good on the biology, coach ! (Skin is great as well ?)

Love so much

I have such a crush on you! I was listening to your recent podcast on open relationships and I fantasized: if she were ever to decide to have an open relationship...I'd really love to go on a date with her and see if I'm idealizing or if we had chemistry. "Why,?" I ask myself. I mean, I don't know you in the least and here I am fantasizing as if I did! I genuinely love listening to you talk. Not just your advise but your sincerity. I won't lie: when I first discovered your work, I thought: here's someone else trying to sell me something. But out of curiosity, I read a few of your books, articles, and binged a good amount of your videos, and started listening to your podcast, and I truly do believe that you mean and quite care about what you say! I mean, you strike me as honestly passionate and passionately honest which I find on the one hand too rare and on the other perhaps not being someone's flaw so much as someone's lack of proper/sufficient healthcare -- mental and physical--- and education. Meanwhile, (hoping you don't mind one more compliment...you warn of being too complimentary but,, if you really feel morally obligated to bring it up, based on the principle of "giving credit where credit is due"...well then, would you not agree that "it had to be said," at least from my point if view, lol~!) For the same reason, I had to be verbose, and as not to make my verbosity excessive, I tried to make it as much "a matter of fact" "as possible"

You are wise

I think you should always be respectful! But also have respect for yourself. I once had a female tell me that , she gets what she wants , when she wants it and how she wants it. and that I was the first guy that have ever told her no. If you asked me to rate her looks from 1 to 10 , I would rate her 30. Just because I find a female extremely attractive , I am not going to let her run all over me.

Thx

Swear I love this woman 😍😍😍 we should be best friends forever. I absolutely adore your work 💯💯. Amazing 🙌🙌🙌🤷‍♂️💯

Marni, I can't thank you enough. Today I had a birthday dinner with three beautiful friends/co-workers and it was awesome! A few months ago I would have been intimidated (aka borderline terrified) by being the center of attention, but I was very confident today. Dinner was great and fun. I made them laugh and we enjoyed it so much that I am going to invite them over to my place for dinner in a few days. This is all practice for me, but I have a future date in mind. I've always been a shy guy, but man, I'm really coming out of my shell swinging and -- Thanks you for your tips and advise. I'll always remember you. You've helped me more than anyone else in the world when it comes to dating/women. I purchased a couple of your products a few weeks ago, so I can already tell it's paying off for me.

The older men get . The less they want to waste time . Trying to attract women . They focus on their future and retirement . That's money in the bank !

Your techniques are A1

Just listen to Marni.💣💥

1) I never try to control anything, I go with the flow 2) you cannot imagine how low my expectations are, I expect the woman to spit in my face from the first hello 3) I am never afraid of making mistakes or failing, to tell the truth, this is my forte, making mistakes and failing 4) I never take things seriously, never ever 5) unfortunately, empowering beliefs after 40 years of failure are almost impossible to come by I don't know how many times I must say it, it is always a question of money and looks. When u can barely afford your own drink and u cannot offer the girl a glass of water even, please, tell me how will she not send me packing

#6 Realize that most women don't know what they want, and when they think they do, that'll change on a whim.

You've earned a subscription from me.... Eye opening clip

Tell M solid life coaching skills. Yup perception and exhortations. Yup the minds goofy triggers. He'll yes

I wanna have a convo with this girl SOOOOOO badly!

Tis the season...So nice looking! Pretty as can be! & Marni, your tree looks just beautiful too! ♥️😉💚

First stay grounded in my own apartment and surroundings

Lmao i have found that being my weird aelf has been a lot more successtul than pretending im not a weirdo. Best video i have watched of yours yet

Marni im watching this you tube video twice

She will talk your ears off but she's God damn right!

You want a woman? You have to touch her mind before she let's you touch anything else.

you make it sound so easy laugh out loud and remember guys she has to show that she has something to offer beyond the physical