5 Keys to Start Conversations with Girls That Lead to Dates

5 Keys to Start Conversations with Girls That Lead to Dates - The Fearless Man

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Start conversations with girls that lead to dates and build your overall confidence with women with these critical elements of your confidence and attractiveness. What you say to women doesn't matter and won't get you dates until you get these first. SUBSCRIBE ON KZfaq: bit.ly/SubscribetoFEARLESS
FEARLESS founder Brian Begin breaks down 5 keys to conversations that actually build sexual chemistry and attraction with women so that they're actually interested in you and EXCITED TO go out on a date with you instead of getting bored of you, being "cold" to you, or putting you in their Friend Zone.
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The 5 Keys in this Video:
1- Have FUN!
2- Be GROUNDED
3- Tension: Add & play with sexual tension and tension in general
4- Be vulnerable, emotionally accessible, and strong in your emotions
5 -LEAD!
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@TheFearlessMan 4 жыл бұрын

What’s the quickest way to improve your dating? Simple you need to discover a few things (1) what is it that you are doing that’s pushing women away (2) how do you self reject (3) how do women experience you? You’ll be surprised how such simple things make such a difference once you see that it’s not about attraction women, but rather what’s preventing your natural ability to attract the feminine? That’s exactly what we teach at Fearless live events - click below to learn more New York City - www.thefearlessman.com/live-nyc-yt Bucharest Romania - www.thefearlessman.com/live-buch-yt

@someperson7032 3 жыл бұрын

I love how he teaches us to be ourselves and get rid of the part of us that is repelling or pushing women away rather than just some cookie cutter material to read out to girls. Excellent work Brian ✨ your KZfaq videos have been immensely helpful. I wish I could attend one of your your live workshops but I'm a student and I'm from India. Hopefully you'll come to India some day

@SeizedaJay 8 жыл бұрын

Brian, I took a free workshop with you (along with Cary) a few years back not really understanding what you were teaching. Now the older I get the more I realize that tension is literally everywhere in daily life. Learning to handle and play with it is absolutely vital for survival. Thank you for still being around and teaching this. I learn something new everytime I see your vids.

@TheFearlessMan 8 жыл бұрын

Great feedback-thanks! Glad you're still finding the content valuable. You're always welcome back at another Gathering (free workshop)

@initiatorhater0688 8 жыл бұрын

specifically, what is the difference between carrying the conversation vs. leading the conversation? give specific examples of leading the conversation, does that mean the guy is asking all or most of the questions, making most of the statements, doing most of the talking?

@dragonchr15 6 жыл бұрын

I've been watching him since his YOuTube channel started and I STILL don't understand what he means....but I keep watching hoping that it clicks....

@xcx23cwea65 7 жыл бұрын

Damn so much work we guys have to do to win their hearts, no wonder men die faster from emotional, physical and mental stress. feels like one of those insects were the male fight against the odds to mate with the female and is eaten and dies in the end.

@TheFearlessMan 7 жыл бұрын

It doesn't have to be work. It can be fun-it gets easier as you practice, and especially as you change your relationship to tension. Watch this TED Talk: How to make stress your friend | Kelly McGonigal kzfaq.info/get/bejne/iMl3rLmFptW8dYk.html

@colkilgore100 7 жыл бұрын

I had a close buddy who never needed to work at picking up girls, he was that good looking. Several times when we were leaving bars at night, chicks followed him out to the parking lot and just jumped on him in the car. We once went to pick up some corn and potatoes at a Hudderite stand on the highway side, and the 3 or 4 girls working behind the counter, teenaged and early 20's, just freaked out, they went absolutely mental over him. The elders of the community had to be called to calm things down, then they asked him did he want to stay and impregnate the girls. They were going to pay him stud fees.

@stevensantana8049 7 жыл бұрын

xcx23 Cwea this is why i like to be single man i would live much longer

@timjones2610 5 жыл бұрын

xcx23 Cwea I completely agree. You just can't be yourself and just have a fuckin conversation. You gotta go through a checklist of 500 things before you proceed, but don't think about it. It's just too much.

@Onelove313 5 жыл бұрын

@@stevensantana8049 I feel like harnessing our sexual energy with a partner no fap orgasm style might add longevity to a fellas life 👍🏼

@KenRuan 6 жыл бұрын

"You look like trouble." Said really fast it is HILARIOUS. LMFAOOOO

@TheFearlessMan 6 жыл бұрын

haha

@AZTigerMMA 4 жыл бұрын

It used to be so money - now I refuse to say it - y’all burnt that out -

@silentexploration 7 жыл бұрын

It's amazing how you can vocalize what really works but what I wasn't be able to name. Esp. tension is really important, yet I wasn't aware of it for so many years...so I end up being a friend with many woman. Just not a long time ago I started being more open and honest, which also led to me accepting this concept of tension a lot more. And I'm so less scared to play with tension and women react so much better to me.

@brianhoffmann2403 6 жыл бұрын

Ive tried this twice! The last women, I started laughing while looking her in the eyes; it simply continued my laughing or expression of emotions; I was smiling the whole time; how could I not! Its a start!

@themind1401 6 жыл бұрын

I appreciate your works, you made a great impact on my life. thanks man.

@00ps 6 жыл бұрын

The title made me think it would be another focusing on things to say video but turned out to be GREAT ADVICE.

@TheFearlessMan 6 жыл бұрын

Love to hear that

@harizzayn2449 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Brian! This is real indeed.

@DM-ic9zw 7 жыл бұрын

I really liked this vid, very concise and informative, Thank you.

@unstoppablefrank 5 жыл бұрын

Good stuff! Keep up the great work!

@Timo_Schoepp 8 жыл бұрын

What you are saying feels so right for myself. Thank you, for your content!

@TheFearlessMan 8 жыл бұрын

Glad it resonates! Thanks for the comment.

@b-aboutit 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you. I loved the video

@davidcombest1134 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Brian

@janakagrawal4261 5 жыл бұрын

This is just great !!!!!! Never applied anything yet ..but still it amazing the way you talk !!!

@radugheorghe1803 4 жыл бұрын

That actually the key. Speak like him with your accent,personality. Let me give you a example. When you were a new nice clothes you are more confident. He tell you to be more confident with your body. I ask a psihologist once.I have big nervous when I have drive exam becouse of examinator and she tell me "imagine he is naked for a second and after that erase that tought from your mind and concentrate on what you have to do. I dont do that when I have a woman in front of me instead I use someone else or something else to distract me in funny way for a moment,delete that thougt from my mind and confident appear without be smug.

@caldwellkelley3084 6 жыл бұрын

Merci Brian helps sort out what I've learned over the years.

@TheFearlessMan 6 жыл бұрын

Glad it helped!

@Reverzi 7 жыл бұрын

I get it now, picking up girls always felt like a chore to me so I could never get to the date part which sounds fun

@ferbogadoaSalirAJugar 4 жыл бұрын

I learned a lot, and enjoy it. Thank you, from Paraguay, thank you.

@jimcuddy7407 6 жыл бұрын

I wish I knew this earlier, very insightful!

@xplosive73 7 жыл бұрын

You are one of the best advisers in self development/no more nice guy field. As an "on recovery NMNG" I'm particularly interested in dealing with tension since I have lived all my life (34 years) escaping from it. Thank you for your advices and the positive energy spread. Btw, which kind of binaural beat is at the end of your videos and what purpose does it have? Greetings from Switzerland!

@rainbowdashIBP 6 жыл бұрын

I had some, lets just say interesting things happen during hs, so I didn't go out and try to date/court girls. I've always been attractive, hell girls mostly came up to me. Just goes to show how clueless I was back then. Any who, I'm in college now and actively seeking girls. I have never thought of the some of the things you cover/looked at in that way! A lot of great advice that I'm eager to try out is on here. Keep up the great work.

@TheFearlessMan 6 жыл бұрын

Let me know how everything goes!

@Hwoodification 7 жыл бұрын

I'm not sure that you know how true what you say is basic fact! Good job.

@braxton1977 3 жыл бұрын

Some really good advice

@hrvad 7 жыл бұрын

Tension is, as you explain it, a great concept. Universally applicable. Today I had a meeting at work and this angry, critical guy.... and I just realized he was a sweet challenge to be savored. And I just was absolutely fascinated with how his boss sponged up his bad demeanor. I'm gonna connect with that amazing boss. This is not off topic ;)

@TheFearlessMan 7 жыл бұрын

Awesome stuff. And good luck on that connection ;)

@thebenzivar8001 6 жыл бұрын

hrvad i like the way you think.

@nickgray8769 7 жыл бұрын

Helpful stuff. You are doing GoDs WORK SIR.. In my my experience I feel like I lead too much are there social cues if I'm leading too much

@TheFearlessMan 7 жыл бұрын

How do you "lead too much"? Explain further.

@shekhuishq206 7 жыл бұрын

awsome work

@mamtaraghuwanshi5540 6 жыл бұрын

masterpiece $

@trentamusbriggs2539 4 жыл бұрын

So. Damn. Good.

@kingkhansadiq7509 5 жыл бұрын

You are really the man I have watched a lot of videos but I have learnt from you a lot thanks, for the videos. I am really shy guy towards women cause I am from different culture and in ou culture we dont talk with women's. Most of the time I get women, that they are touching me and flirting with me but i dont know how to react and what to say. And then they back off. Once two girls were hitting on me and i was not reacting then they laugh and said may be he is a gay. So I really got frustrated and I dont know how to continue conversation. Please helped with that.

@Julian-ls6uc 8 жыл бұрын

great video

@TheFearlessMan 8 жыл бұрын

Thanks!

@CHIMESTERDOTCOM 7 жыл бұрын

Dude, I cant stop laughing... "be able to handle when the shit hits the fan" wow. I teared up in laughter.. Its funny how this could \ mean literally anything..

@016632 6 жыл бұрын

Hi There! I dont want to sound rude but for short could you please make a video about how to deal with a situation where ur arguing with some one and trying to defuse the situation yet the person is attacking you seemingly only trying to hurt you and have tried to walk away but you end up arguing nonesense.

@toddyonder9011 6 жыл бұрын

The more you try to suppress emotion the bigger it gets. You should just accept what you are feeling at the moment.

@katzhunter4473 6 жыл бұрын

Does fake it till you make it apply here?

@sasavucinic2526 7 жыл бұрын

this is the one I was looking for. found it.it so usefull.. all of your stuff is great. thanks man, I'll try my best. I see now, I have a lot of work to do...

@TheFearlessMan 7 жыл бұрын

You have a lot of experiencing and adventuring to do ;)

@yasminecherfi-fe9ke Жыл бұрын

What would I do to come to your work shop?

@cameronmiller6240 3 жыл бұрын

Is only the courageous truly live not a better tagline?

@budoshi1981 7 жыл бұрын

i understand what your saying and i agree and believe in it. but there is no way i can do all that lol im someone shy by nature so i guess im stuck been single for a long time hahah my last relationship was in 2011 how sad that is ?

@oponomo 7 жыл бұрын

If you think it's sad, than it is. You care about it? Then go for it even MORE! Use your feelings at your disposal. Frustrated? Go to night clubs treat woman "like Trash". Feel sad? Call a girl friend to cry on her shoulder. Feel indiferent? Call some girl to watch a movie or something completly neutral... The more you handle woman in different situation the more natural you will be around the pretty ones that you would like to have.

@emprendedoressueltos 7 жыл бұрын

On number 2 I like to imagine that I'm an energetic statue. Is that ok?

@mnmn333 7 жыл бұрын

you are really make dating is tough job.

@kaloyan_Creates 2 жыл бұрын

Show my feelings? Since the day I was born women made me feel nothing but pain and anger, what do you suggest showing then?

@TheFearlessMan 2 жыл бұрын

Start with people you feel safe to do this with. Remember proactive pain and anger can be an effective way to protect you, even keep you alive. Reactive anger, for instance, rage, would be a much less effective way to dealing with stressors. Take it as slow as necessary. Many people suffer from having these emotions. You are not alone. Landon from Fearless

@kaloyan_Creates 2 жыл бұрын

I can't believe you actually responded, great first impression of that Chanel

@gabrielroz6124 8 жыл бұрын

where can i take this workshop

@TheFearlessMan 7 жыл бұрын

In Los Angeles: www.thefearlessman.com/the-experience-apply-now/

@Melkitzedeq 6 жыл бұрын

Conquered my wife with the first four. Lost her with the lack of fifth one…

@jeffriggins9106 4 жыл бұрын

Keep your head up king

@Take076 6 жыл бұрын

internal integrity and emotional vulnerability

@rosshillstrom8056 7 жыл бұрын

So here is one for you fearless man. I asked an attractive woman for her number, she said yes. After leaving, I felt this great sense of emotional pain that came over me and, it lasted a couple of hours. what is this?

@christo2333 2 жыл бұрын

Its you unconsciously recognizing that you have held yourself back for years from doing something that is rewarding

@Ted1775 8 жыл бұрын

Easy video to understand. But it feels like an instruction manual to deal with the fact that women are emotionally complicated.

@kanjikingdom 8 жыл бұрын

touché

@TheFearlessMan 8 жыл бұрын

The answer and your power is always within Ted. Whether you're a Christian or not, this is a good quote for you and your frustrations: God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.

@Ted1775 8 жыл бұрын

Brian, thanks man. I receive this advice and I hear you. I am working on my energy and presence and showing up. I have many good, well meaning friends of mine advising me to not chase women.

@kanjikingdom 8 жыл бұрын

+Ted1775 just don't chase them, if they come welcome them, if not leave them

@Ted1775 8 жыл бұрын

+didolhyani when do I get to honor my needs and wants? Just sayin'.

@timdixon3571 7 жыл бұрын

I can't handle the luggage women carry with them, if i date i can't handle the fact that some are boring because, they seem like all the other women that drove me crazy before, and i see to many Feelings, and problems in their everyday life. I love women but i got problems with them, and when i miss women and fine one ,a lot of times they drag me down and soon i rather be all by myself. I'm a loner i guess. Most women you meet today, has too many problems. " luggage". And i think it's depending where you live, because, the state i live in women are pretty bad, every man more likely had them. It's like an open hore house, plenty of women , but they come with a price. And when i think i can go to another area in the state to date one than it becomes a job, instead of dating pleasure, so i stay to myself and never go out. I can't remember my last time i dated. Sad but true. And handling their emotion and feelings all the time this becomes a bigger job, not only are they to emotional, they are very confusing, and women today are really strange. And with this picture i get from them, i rather work 72 hours a week, then to figure a relationship out, and their puzzling , and never happy, and every woman you date will never be happy, they just want too much , and you get so little in return.

@iamfrankcaceres 5 жыл бұрын

I agree with you slightly, although, I'm not sure if their isn't women out their without any deep rooted problems. At least from my experience these women are like the ones you described. Specifically my ex who ended up cheating on me a few times; who had no emotional control what so ever. Maybe it was age, maybe it was her nature and she needs professional help. It seems the bitch in a women now days isn't afraid to come out with equipped justifications.

@user-ul9ne8wj8r 5 жыл бұрын

hey Brian! where is Sense of humor come in the picture if u r a very funny guy?

@TheFearlessMan 5 жыл бұрын

Sense of humor is great, but become aware of when the humor is releasing tension vs amping it up or maintaining tension.

@chrisbova9686 7 жыл бұрын

"Hey baby what do you say we get a pizza... tension here... and screw?" I hate going to the movies, too much tension built up for a predictable end. I can get on stage and play songs that I've written, but women are just cruel wicked creatures that would love nothing more than to make themselves feel important buy rejecting men. I'm really good at scaring women off, as my ideas are not popular and my intellect dwarves theirs. All they know is it's fun to bring a good man down.

@TheFearlessMan 7 жыл бұрын

"How to Meet & Attract Great Women - Stop Pushing them Away" kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Y8t_nLGpuM2qqZs.html "Why Women Suck” kzfaq.info/get/bejne/hKedgc5qsZuUYWQ.html